To those who feel guilty when not working

[@Cy4nSw4n]

I grew up with 4 big dogs and love them too! I love that you and your wife are working to regain her health Your message today has me pondering (as always)... it's easy to look at work vs. leisure time as a black and white thing. This hustle culture viewpoint. I fall into this thinking sometimes. I think we all do until we know better But I have found that spending time with myself and pursuing different things has given me Soo much insight on my own nature, my own soul, and what is worth pursuing! And YAY another book 👀

[@thetravelingtarot]

If she could talk she would say ‘Papa, you’re a good philosophizer’ 😊

[@books-and-cats]

☺️

[@chasvonplatten1298]

After first saying, "Hey, I can talk!"

[@AudioNumeric]

Love the word Papa. He is that to her now. No going back… Amen 🙏🏻

[@higherlaw]

The guilt we feel is implanted by society. There is a reason why the education system is designed to breed workers, not creative thinkers or problem solvers. It seems that a person is only 'valuable' if they are productive in a way that benefits capitalism.

[@dcpmootown]

this

[@sahilgera7781]

exactlyyy

[@mythsqueuemusic]

Preach it

[@booknerd4317]

I am on leave from my corporate job to take care of my mother who has terminal cancer. I am 43 years old and I feel no guilt at all to my employer. I have a brother but he does not help one bit. I know I have a strong character and this is something that has nothing to do with how you were raised, it is something you are born with. I have 14-16 hour days caring for her. Changing soiled bed linens, tending to wounds, giving her white blood cell shots, red blood cell shots, IV’s of fluids, medications. Feeding her and soothing her when she has hallucinations or break downs because of what is. I would do this all again, the work of life because she gave me life, all her love and a wonderful childhood.

[@Mockingbirdsings11]

I cried at “because she gave me life, all her love, and a wonderful childhood” it really says so much about who she was as a mother and you as a grateful and decent human being.

[@shereen528]

Ur an inspiration... mother is God in disguise

[@joml2466]

I've been in the same situation several months back with my dad, although I'd say you had it rougher than I did. The company I'm working for has been gracious and supported me in any way they can. Thanks for reminding me of what truly matters in life - that is nurturing our relationship with our loved ones through thick and thin.

[@johnnosmith4417]

You guys are angels.

[@kingnole4237]

Same bro ..my mother passed away in 2020 in cancer...But prior three years I was just at service of my mother ...Right now I am behind my contemporaries but it's ok

[@nokateno]

I’m glad you kept the dog. She obviously loves you.

[@LeBlancElsewhere]

Totally agree with the "work of life" concept here. I just graduated from college and am undertaking the beginning of my career in one of the major financial industries. I am not perceiving this job as my identity or what I will concretely be doing for the next 40 years, wishing my time away until retirement. I just am using it as a conduit to live in a big city (moving to Chicago after living in a small town in Florida my whole life) and get out of my comfort zone and experience and explore the world. I am not picturing my joy coming from clocking out of the office just to go home and sit on my couch. The real work begins AFTER I clock out. That is my time to explore, talk to strangers, read, write, paint, create, run, play, feel, and have fun, in an active and intentional manner. This is my real identity and will define my life as I go through this continual process of becoming. I just have to do it with empathy, honesty, and courage as the source, not fear and loathing.

[@angeliachenoweth2522]

I wish you well!

[@LeBlancElsewhere]

@@angeliachenoweth2522 thank you :) have a joyful evening

[@PowerPawaa]

I would say even those things outside of your job also aren’t your identity. We all have to be drunk on something to keep pushing on. All slaves to something. I will probably self delete soon since I’ve realised this but I hope you find your identity.

[@kevingonzalez1834]

I’m in the exact same boat my friend. In the engineering world.

[@angeliachenoweth2522]

@@LeBlancElsewhere😊

[@SHIFTasap]

She's adorable, I don't mind her being in every video

[@DiogoRodrigues-uc3rn]

"Compassion for animals is intimately associated with goodness of character, and it may be confidently asserted that he who is cruel to animals cannot be a good man." - Arthur Schopenhauer

[@dingalarm]

Really? Well, Hitler was a dog lover.

[@Julesyoutoo]

,,, or woman.

[@dingalarm]

But Hitler was a dog lover 🙄

[@Julesyoutoo]

@@dingalarm Yes, that comment was incorrect wasn't it, lol. Many people who love animals are human haters.

[@DiogoRodrigues-uc3rn]

@@dingalarm And how does that invalidade whatever I said? I said someone who treats bad animals cannot be a good person, I never said every person that loves animals is an amazing human

[@clairjunior5291]

Being a dog lover, it warms my heart this beautiful dog now has a home and a loving family.

[@chilloften]

That dog is gorgeous, her ears are fabulous. Thank you for helping her, it does mean a lot.

[@cw-ji8vs]

Have the ears been cut?

[@JB09_]

Nothing is more productive, more humbling, more relevant than saving and loving an animal That is an human life. Anything else is dysfunctional

[@vectorair1]

100% ❤

[@bawsypvp5481]

for real

[@HonestlyHolistic]

Me, feeling guilty when I spend even 1 minute without doing something "productive"

[@WheresMyMotivation]

I bet your hoped up on caffeine or some other stimulant.

[@tupd]

This society is balls.

[@susansmith1636]

She is so beautiful! And obviously completely comfortable, and grateful to you. I bet she loves your calm voice.

[@AlejandroLopez-ff7sl]

I live with 5 rescued dogs and they mean the world to me. They bring so much structure to my everyday life. Taking care of them never feels like work, it is life. Thank you.

[@saturar]

This channel should be called "The work of life". Mesmerising like always.

[@alienspotter422]

How anyone can walk past a stray suffering dog is beyond me. Thank you for fostering her. Such a sweet girl. I just wanted to reach out and hug and kiss her. 🙏❤

[@AboodiSmoody]

As a young guy, I’ve been watching your videos these past few days and can’t help but admire your mind and how grounded you seem with life and the world as a whole. You’ve truly inspired me to want to become more in tune with myself and become more philosophical too. I’ve watched your video on the books you have recommended for philosophy and I’ll definitely be reading them over the summer.

[@holsen8269]

Some folk have millions of subscribers and say little to contribute to the proper human nature. I hope your numbers go big, you are a calming wise presence who is upholding the work of life. Thank you.

[@Ubertechgirl66]

Bless you for saving that beautiful soul. ❤

[@jamestravis1037]

So happy that I have found your channel. Thank you!!

[@zurrizurzur]

so fucking real man, i keep pushing this sort of philosophy upon my father, who always works toward "this or that". keep up the great work man

[@ginatees3262]

Thank you for caring and rescuing the girl. She is a beauty and deserves to be loved. I enjoy these discussions and your insight. Thank you for sharing.

[@CatsInHats-S.CrouchingTiger]

My heart ❤just leaped 50,000 feet into the air when I saw your doggie! She appears into your life when the Universe says, you are ready to grow and to learn new things! Guilt is only a signal in this case of your desires to do well in all the things you desire to keep at, but love is something we learn from the small things hidden! “When the student is ready, the teacher appears.” 😁🐶When a mother has children (puppies, in this case), she loves them fully. Especially animals! Your love, your kindness, your patience and protection of her affirms her. You are and will be rewarded for these sacrifices in the work of life. These engagements will bring many blessings to you and your wife. You’re such a light, with a sound mind. Many of us experience the guilt you mentioned, and these words are like a salve to the soul. It is very exciting to see you grow and your wife along side , and to share this with us, so we can grow, too! 💕Thank you! We’re glad you both opened that door! 🚪

[@lucielao960]

I actually feel guilty when I am at work. So many things I should be doing instead, mostly working on my mental health, bringing balance into all areas of my life. But when I do get home, I feel so drained, needing even more time to unwind everyday. God bless my amazing pet bunnies, I feel better when I take care of them and when I am around them. I'm ok eating canned food when I see how much they enjoy "sharing" a cherry :)

[@diana7676]

I have the same problem , try doing what you want, a hobby

[@FlowerLover108]

Perhaps nothing is more important than compassion and kindness. Simply watching the interaction between the two of you is nourishing. I'm glad you found each other.

[@draganapasti_]

So lovely, so true! Virtues make our lives meaningful. ♥️🌍

[@ffkoffie]

The camera position is much better now! And great content, as always.

[@yasesaka]

Gosh! It makes me seriously feel happy to be on the same page with a person who I share the same world with

[@yosmuc]

“The work of life is to become the person that we know we need to be” ❤❤❤ Thank you ! 🙏

[@manzar42]

the dog is only the only one who loves you, all the people here do too, you are a gem!

[@JPatelLive]

now say that to your self and feel the Truth of that reality! can u ? can i? yes i can - wbu??

[@KhushiKumari-wg7xw]

I don't know why but this channel helps me in my English literature major 😊, i believe this man is definitely an INFJ or INTJ may be .

[@deniseborges6293]

Yes! I agree. Thank you for rescuing her! She is beautiful!

[@KwstasMakariou]

You aint getting the d dont sweat it....

[@LeeLee-ct2vv]

Thank you for saving this wonderful dog, she's an angel.

[@RingingCedarSeedlings]

I came back to this video the next day just to look at her precious face and eyes! I love the content of this video and I believe our culture benefits greatly from messages like this to remind ourselves what really matters and more meaningful uses of our time here on Earth.

[@ritasimoesstudio]

"The greatness of a nation and its moral progress can be judged by the way its animals are treated." Mahatma Gandhi "What you do makes a difference, and you have to decide what kind of difference you want to make." Jane Goodall "You give but little when you give of your possessions. It is when you give of yourself that you truly give." Kahlil Gibran "When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves." Viktor Frankl I'm grateful to have come across "Accepting the Universe" channel. A transparent person who films tertulias with his listeners, spellbinding and idiosyncratic thoughts, a fluid and honest conversation with personality. With beautiful backgrounds, book patterns or raw nature.

[@-sueda-]

I was so shocked to see the title because just this morning I said something along the lines of "I feel useless since I'm not working". It's really refreshing to see your videos everytime, and that sweet angel needs her own spot on each video from now!!😭♥️♥️

[@lissettevasconez9939]

Beautiful dog!!!! oh my goodness so cute!! Thank God this beautiful dog found you!🥰

[@rosemaryissa-interiorwellb5466]

She is calm due to your calm nature❤

[@Cat-and-Tilly]

What a sweetheart! And the dog’s a sweetie, too😛

[@KwstasMakariou]

He would not fck you dont worry....

[@lizaa_sarkar]

The real work is indeed working on ourselves,our ability to show compassion to others and that's one aspect out of many other aspects.Thank you for choosing such a thought provoking topic and the book recommendation too and I wish happiness and good health to the dog💖

[@summittspawn]

I love your channel so much because you help me feel seen!!!! I often feel so alone and misunderstood in this society and then, people like YOU help me see I am not alone at all… folks like us are all around busy being our authentic and individuated selves ❤

[@heathpiper]

Agreed. There's Something magical in this thought. The solidarity with other similar souls out there on earth just trying to live a life that is truthful to them"selves". It's inspiring and less lonesome reading your comment and the comments of others here. Godspeed.

[@simonapalosan3208]

A valuable channel; love what you say, the way you say and the soul that transpire through it. And the saving of this adorable creature adds grace to the spiral of your life. Be blessed!

[@loulou3786]

she is so beautiful and obviously feels safe in your presence ,thank you for saving her 🙏❤

[@meloearth]

I have solved this dilema years ago. I have no problem living my life completely open to what calls me out. I rarely make plans. I like you even more for what you did for this mom and her babies. That makes you beautiful inside. She's very thankful to you. And so am I.

[@Flyingsnow444]

I was wondering if you were gonna upload your video today 😮 nice to know you both are so kind ❤ God bless your souls and may you continue to do kind acts for humans and animals alike!

[@andreajoy224]

Animals and nature can be great teachers too if we stop and pay attention. This girl is such a sweetie and she will find a safe and loving home now because of what you are doing. 😊🙏

[@Blueskies1180]

I was diagnosed with late stage a year ago and had to stop everything. Work, social commitments, driving, eating normally, it was a struggle for sure, but I am SO grateful I had to go through that. I’ve always been a patient person, I don’t like to rush life, I spend a lot of time doing “nothing” but that was on a whole other level. At the beginning I felt guilty because I had to leave my clients for a while. I work for myself and I knew I was going to have zero income for the time I would have to take off. Over time, I learned to surrender and be grateful for whatever I needed to go through. The pain, the drugs, the constant hospital visits, the unknown, the tests, the lack of being able to eat or drink normally, not being able to sleep or sit, or walk or drive, etc. I felt like I had to keep focusing on gratitude or I would have a mental breakdown. I kept reading in bed, I would have crying moments but they were cathartic and I needed them. I allowed people to do everything for me, which was difficult. But thank God I got over the guilt feeling. Thank God I’m doing better and on my way to a full recovery. ❤😊 May everyone go through life learning the lessons we need to learn.

[@TheRealJackArthur]

Wisconsin - Represent 👍🏻 Also, great message for the day. Thank you.

[@margaretmcgregor5686]

That's just beautiful ❤ it brought a tear to my eyes picturing the state she must have been in but also that you went the extra mile to save her. I had a Yorkshire terrier Lucca who had to go over the rainbow Dec. 2022 - I was with him until the end - the final act of love - and brought him home to be buried in the garden - I couldn't bear to leave him to be processed at the vets. In 2023 January I got a puppy a mini Yorkshire Terrier and since Lucca was 13 when he had to go i was also "challenged" for want of a better word with caring for this little scrap of life who was terrified of even going out in my arms to the garden. But it has been worth it - he's not afraid of anything and loves people - all people and he makes them smile. Dogs he's indifferent to - don't know about that one. He comes on the bus with me - I don't drive and is such a "happy chappy" - it's pure joy. I learned something else with this video - I didn't watch it when it popped up previously because of the title 🤦 now I know anything you have or will post will be worth watching! AND a book recommendation! Who could ask for more! Thank you 😊 from Scotland.

[@NunesLucia]

This is so true, specially for all the moms that have to put their careers on the side to raise a new/young being. It's hard but it's totally worth it!

[@JoJo-vz5uy]

Thank you for saving her! Love good people who open their hearts and homes to an animal who needs it. I’ve saved so many and every time I donate or rescue, the life offers me so much more in return! The reason why this world is so messed up is because of people who pass by and are indifferent to any life other than themselves. The lack of empathy in humans is astonishing.

[@miguerys9503]

Fuck yeah, that's what I'm talking about! Words to live by, literally!

[@macrocosmicorbit3982]

Congratulations on 100k !! Your channel is much appreciated

[@21crus1]

I just discovered your channel today and I am glad to have found it. You have a very calming aura and you have a deep sense of wisdom. Looking forward to be a regular viewer of your channel.

[@grayoOooOo]

Great topic to cover today! I definitely have been struggling with the concept of feeling undervalued based on my financial or career circumstances, and have been in the process of shifting my worth based on my values and character instead. Still figuring it all out, and having insights such as yours goes a long way in helping me get closer to who I want to be so thank you.

[@Poetry-Reads-and-Writes]

The work of life. You taught me something. Recently semi-retired, I have no interest in teaching anymore. Just pottering around in leisure. I will keep in mind to be open to the work of life. Thanks for the insight.

[@Jamie-843]

She’s so cute, it feels she’s protected by your presence & really trust you, it’s beautiful to see. Thanks to you and your wife for saving her, you two seem to be such good souls in this world. I hope her puppies are safe, mmmh quite sure they bumped her and sold the babies right away :(. Sure she ll be happy with Sister Layla. The work of life should be the essence of our existence, and this can be achieved when we lose track of time, where time is actually suspended. how comes at each funeral we speak about the person qualities only and her “nobility of soul” not her career or what she owned, or what she did. Very significant.

[@samdog_1]

Your compassion for a dog in need says volumes about you as a loving, empathetic person. Once you get her housebroken and healthy, you may find yourself so attached to her that she'll become your forever dog.

[@sagegarden5310]

I just found Your channel.This is like the 3rd vid I watched already and each vid I see I like You more n more. Especially for You n Your wife taking in a street dog that desperately needed a loving home. I will be watching,You guys progress. Thanks for so many wise n thoughtful videos.

[@user-yn6zo4wp5b]

Thank you for knowing,, being and saving her beautiful life. Thank you for making this video brother! The work of life ❤🙏

[@caty9995]

Aaaaw! Anyone who bothers to save a poor animal is a wonderful human being and a friend to me. She's so sweet and loves you very much. I'm sure that dog will give you the best that she's got. But wait! Where's your beautiful black dog? I gave up that guilt a long time ago. I have no use for it and it makes for some very unhappy people. I couldn't be happy with myself if I didn't stop to help a poor animal and I've done it often or to help a family member or friend in need. ❤✌️

[@WillCasallas]

Here again to listen to your wise words in the mornings, as I've write in previous videos. Here present to receive the great knowledge you come to give us every week. Thank you so much, man.

[@terri2583]

Look forward to your 'life lessons' each week and this week with an adorable added bonus🐾. She looks very settled already🐕

[@aboveman5321]

This is immaculate. Thank you for sharing your life!

[@ayoubmedouani3931]

Thank you sir for sharing your wisdom with us 🙏

[@annasun_art]

makes me so happy to hear you speaking about the most important work of life ❤

[@WolfWhite-kj1nr]

That is an awesome way to see it, unexpected moments are an opportunity to excercise the good virtues that we know are within us... kindness, compassion, patience, care etc...thank you for reminding us to take a moment and reflect before we judge, that's why I love your videos!

[@olusha]

I’m so grateful for this video and for your existence. Thank you so much for this. You are a real human. ❤

[@candacehammond5919]

I love this video! It hurt my heart but in a good way. It takes a long time not to feel guilty about not “working.” Thank you for rescuing that sweet girl! She will reward you a thousand times over❤️

[@Dostoevskyneedswater]

I'll watch this in the morning, I'll need to focus. Great videos! Keep going 💗💗💗

[@Faiza0001]

Most of us are led to believe that the more work you can show, the better your life becomes. That is why most of us feel guilty for not doing something that adds up to that equation every single day. Even so, the fact that we get burnt out/depressed following this protocol, indicates that there's something wrong with it. So, everyone, let's find our actual work of life instead. I will be walking along with you too.

[@ladybrooks3885]

Your persistence is admirable. She is beautiful.

[@Bursleygirl]

It makes me happy knowing you and your wife are giving the dog a safe place to heal and thrive until she finds her forever home.The work of life will give you so much more fulfilment than money,possessions and ladder climbing ever will and you will grow so much more as a person.

[@venus5697]

thank you for helping us shift our awareness into a higher level. I listen to ur videos almost everyday sometimes watch the same Video several times just bc I genuinely know that your words are affecting my consciousness in a very good way. I hope u feel the love and the appreciation being reciprocated.

[@rev.9683]

Very important video. we torment and blame ourselves so much. Even when we take the time to literally just breathe, we need to take time for ourselves and heal our soul ❤

[@MelissaMcGovern-r9c]

This is one thing I been REALLY struggling with lately… before Covid shutdown I was just amazingly productive work & other… but that shutdown put me in a depression in still… lonely, goal-less, isolated, inactive, just a lump of a person. Embarrassing even. So far from who I was I don’t even have the drive to start. I work, but the joy is even gone doing the best job in the world.. if it wasn’t for ny dog… I dont know where I would be… that is GOD spelled backwards…thank you for this video.. all I do is work…. So bored, no social life… just uuggghhh

[@jilliancrocker2664]

I have often reflected that the animals in my life, and I have adopted quite a few over the years, have been my greatest teachers. Your story about finding this beautiful dog perfectly illustrates how the work of life can work through us when we take the time and care to properly respond to things and to those around us (including our animal kin). Thank you again for the "work" you are doing here : ) Greetings from Fara in Sabina, Italy.

[@suffocator8787]

I'm glad that you share with us your knowledge and that you save that dog 🤍🤍🤍

[@denaytgoytom6294]

I really love it what you are saying 🙏 animals… they deserve our care and love definitely ❤❤❤❤ thanks for your inspection 🧘🏽‍♀️🧘🏽‍♀️

[@rukhsananisar1142]

Never in my 19 years of life I have ever listen to such a long vedio, but somehow I can't stop myself listening to your vedios because I think my soul is missing something that I should look for. I hope one day I would able to achieve my work of life and know the true meaning of life as you said earlier, "To learn how to live, is to learn how to die".

[@acceptingtheuniverse]

Welcome, I hope you stick around.

[@johnhansen6018]

Thank you. This was a wonderful message to cap off a wonderful day. Appreciate all your videos and look forward to many more 🐕

[@kristinrutherford8779]

that day was definitely not sacrificed, you two rescued a living being, it was a beautiful day❤

[@2bsirius]

She is beautiful. I worry about the fate of her puppies. I wonder what kind of "life" they will have. The hard fact is that in the best of all possible worlds strays would be neutered, spayed and offered kind attention within NO KILL shelters until they find their forever new homes and caring new owners. Unfortunately, we do not yet live in such a world. But we can each strive toward such a world. Thanks for the thoughtful vide.

[@vectorair1]

Thank you for saving her. Most people would ignore her suffering. And saving/giving being generous is our honor!

[@lindansi]

Exactly what I needed to hear right now. Thank you 🙏🏻

[@tayalashae8772]

wow, I literally felt my anxiety shift when you started talking. I felt serene; your voice and the calmness of your energy is GOLD

[@seandunlap1743]

the work of life improves all aspects of life... removes stress/anxiety, strengthens connections, raises our world

[@chiptenor]

Thank you for your excellent presentation and insights. Truly it is the 'higher perspective' so often overlooked in our society and world. I am reminded of a verse from scripture, attributed to Jesus, 'I am about my Father's business.' And as you've said...'the work of Life'.

[@patrickodonovan5066]

I really dig this channel. You are brutally honest and uplifting. I also dig how you love and care for animals.

[@ParteraQuisqueyana]

Every mom needs to hear this!

[@nikolavincek8523]

You should put this on spotify as short thought provoking audio “lessons”

[@Englishroserebecca]

Such an interesting subject. Beautiful dog, wonder what happened to her pups. She must be missing them. She just sits there taking whatever life throws at her. Looking to be loved. I hope you keep her. Maybe you were meant to find her.

[@rosiemelon9400]

Yes, did you look for her pups? She must have hidden them

[@SirJosephZhou]

Your channel has been so good for me. Thanks for all your insights. As someone who overworks, I found this video to be very eye-opening and a great reminder. Also, thanks for recusing that doggo. I have three dogs myself.

[@conniefearnside2279]

Such a sweet dog! Wonder how she ended up on the street and what happened to her puppies. Thank you (and your wife) for being compassionate and taking the time out to change her reality. Poor thing, you can still see all of her ribs. May you be blessed for your kindness.

[@metallicmuse]

I know you did it because it is your duty as a decent human being, but THANK YOU for saving this sweet soul from the brink. I know she is grateful for you.

[@karencalderonacupuncture375]

Thanl you. So helpful to me right now. How wisely expressed and beautifully framed… the work of life. So true. Thank you

[@oykuozger9493]

I love your work sir ❤

[@alllifematters]

Very pretty dog, worthy of sacrifice 💜 thank you for being loving humans

[@elbatoullahmidi]

I appreciate ur wife for inspiring u to all of this .. im sure shes a great woman with a great heart Wish u both happiness 🤍

[@steadywavescenter]

This is speaking to me as a 'super productive' person who is freshly postpartum. Thank you x