TOM & LISA BILYEU | The Secrets to Becoming a BILLION DOLLAR COUPLE | Dear Future Wifey E818

[@gammaburks]

This is heavy. I am the widow of a man who had Tom ‘a mindset. We built his empire without losing me and our kids. He was the leader God gave us. It’s been 7 years since his transition to eternity but we are still thriving from him being in our lives. My challenge is to pass the legacy to the grandchildren.

[@ellechance2344]

That’s an AMAZING testimony!!

[@J_Elle30]

It’s the “ without losing me and our kids” for me👏🏾✨ love this testimony

[@kariawilliams1195]

😅😅😊

[@estherstrategicadvisor749]

Get wise counsel

[@bellaendale7174]

The part when you said it's been 7yrs since his transition but we are still thriving..still thriving ..still thriving...most people after saying it's been yrs after death..NEVER use a word like thriving..wow..so happy that you've had that experience and shared with us all so that we too can see something different. May God richly bless and fulfill your desire to pass down the legacy. May you continue to thrive ❤

[@tifwins8866]

This episode is solidifying the absolute cheat code for marriage that you must be and operate as a team

[@MJ-lt5cj]

I love how he gives her credit for shaping him!!

[@SyvilleJosephine]

"Don't trust your emotions to lead you to your goals." Sheessshh 🔥 Laterras was the perfect person to be sitting across from him, because he didn't miss a beat.

[@DearFutureWifey]

Thank you so much!

[@IAMQUEENMagazine]

that was sooooo good!

[@maxinec1616]

Uh-oh.....Tom & Lisa are on DFW???!!! This is another level!!!

[@Nangondo]

This is a whole different level

[@bridgetsebolai6207]

“Make your man feel powerful”Wow lesson learned ❤

[@mianicole723]

This was a beautiful conversation. I absolutely love that they’re not afraid to ask themselves and each other the hard uncomfortable questions. When Tom spoke about being wildly curious and being willing to look stupid and ask clarifying question in order to better understand your partners thought process. Then he followed that up with speaking from Insecurity. This is next level 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@myeshadams259]

These 2 gel so well together. Money & achievements aside - if they were together under a bridge it would still be a beautiful relationship. Couples like these have figured out the art of communication & working together. Simply amazing & beautiful to watch😊.

[@DS-wv7lf]

I love how they are each other's biggest cheerleaders. Ride or die couple for sure.

[@halie8386]

24:35 mins in and I swear my brain got larger. The amount of gems being dropped. I need to remove my old way of thinking quick to receive ALL these gems. DAMN! Tom Bilyeu YOU ARE A GENIUS! Just claim because it is quite evident. And Sister Lisa, girl, you are a firecracker. Not even done with the interview and I'm tripping trying to catch ALL these gems. Dynamic, brilliant couple. ♥🙌🏽🎉 @DearFutureWifey thank you!

[@leaninfitness439]

Tom’s intellect is what’s separating him from the REAL TRUTH. A lot of what he’s saying ARE FACTS AND some of it isn’t the truth. I pray for his salvation, his convergence and transformation will be a mighty testimony. 🙌🏾

[@demetria7076]

Absolutely!

[@dnwanja]

Besides your judgement, I’m hoping u received the amazing knowledge and gems that were shared❤️

[@aysmith761]

Clearly heavily into science.

[@leaninfitness439]

@@dnwanja Nothing I said was an opinion AND I am filled and guided by the Holy Spirit.

[@leaninfitness439]

@@aysmith761 I am also into science, I have a PhD in a social science, however, being heavily into science without the Holy Spirit leads room for deception. I’m glad they’re still curious but the mysteries of God are not for us to UNDERSTAND.

[@Fearlesslyme463]

I hear her speaking, but when she started speaking of children I saw the sadness in her eyes… she wanted children. but she loves her husband and money more and the time has passed for her…this is why God has to be at the center!!

[@AkorfaMawutor]

yup, I had a sense of that too. Yes they are wealthy and very intelligent, but at the same time, all this seems so hollow.

[@somav8]

the time has not passed for her, she can still have children right now if she wants to

[@Passion84GodAlways]

"Battled COVID AND the flu simultaneously"!!! 😳😱 THANK GOD FOR HEALING & RESTORATION!!! 🙌🏾🙏🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾

[@DearFutureWifey]

Facts! I was down bad!

[@Passion84GodAlways]

@@DearFutureWifey 🫂🙏🏾

[@MzMel-2023]

​​​​@@DearFutureWifey...down physically, but COVERED spiritually by GOD always. Thank YOU, FATHER in JESUS CHRIST name. GLORY GLORY GLORY HALLELUJAH...filled with GOD's purpose!🙌🏽🌎🙏🏽🌬️🙋🏽‍♀️❤️‍🔥🙏🏽🌍🙌🏽

[@KyMiche978]

I love how their thought process career vs family. It wasn’t about the right now but how their future could look. They weighed the pros and cons of their life together and individually.

[@tonyagordon6998]

I love the way she looks at him while he speaks...

[@nursed.porchae990]

Wow. He doesnt believe yet some of what he said echoes the word of God. I see something powerful here. God have your way in their life ✨️Thanks for having them on the show.

[@karissa2795]

Yesss, they closer to the kingdom then most believers….

[@kmcrae1351]

Yes, I was thinking the very same thing 🙏🏽😊

[@kendramiller4901]

Yes, I thought the same thing. I stand in agreement in prayer also. I really like this couple and this episode was amazing 🙏🏾❤️

[@kendramiller4901]

This was a brilliant episode. Wow!👏🏿👏🏿

[@lisasykes624]

They don't understand "Every good gift and perfect present is from God" 😅

[@lynnsalee8645]

I swear i love this couple, Tom and Lisa Bilyeu❤❤. I wish they did more episodes on Relationship Theory. 😢

[@sethiamoore4439]

MY PRAY FOR THIS COUPLE THAT THEY HAVE A REAL ENCOUNTER WITH JESUS CHRIST I BELIEVE WE WILL LOOK AND THEY BOTH WILL BE BORN AGAIN BELIEVERS OF JESUS CHRIST

[@jazzmingayle1286]

This episode was powerful! I love how two people with different beliefs can sit across from each other and give respect

[@mrspaamerica02]

Your unique biology + your belief system+your values = frame of reference

[@simpleisagift]

One of my favorite episodes from your podcast so far. So many nuggets. Loved the "In order to become interesting, one must become interested" quote. They are truly on a different level of "smart".

[@DearFutureWifey]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@karissa2795]

If only some of us Christian’s can do what they are inspiring others to do in marriage. Love how they are so purposeful and intentional and on the same playing field.

[@DearFutureWifey]

My point exactly!

[@Money_Magnet_Googie22]

LaTerras!!! I greatly appreciate you interviewing Lisa and Tom Bilyeau. This is phenomenal interview!

[@celestawilliams5234]

This has been so enlightening, educational and it made me look at love from a different perspective. I grew up in church and I’m a PK this couple is the an example of equally yoke without the speaking in tongues. Thank you for doing this interview. ♥️

[@t7cooley420]

Based on some of Tom’s perspective regarding communication (in my own words) is… it’s already hard enough to assure that what’s being verbally communicated is perceived the intended way. These days you got people expecting you to understand communication by way of gestures and such creating more confusion. 😣 🗝️ take away: if you’re testing him/her (and not communicating) you’re setting them up for failure.💥 True on so many levels. Yes! 👏🏽

[@crystalclearvision_]

This is proof you can learn from anyone. Religious or faith based differences shouldn't be a block to wisdom. God can use anyone or thing to teach us IF we're not closed to that idea. Honestly, it may do some people some good to see how unbelievers are living and thriving.... bc why are we struggling AND judgmental. We have the same opportunity and greater authority on our side to do great works for the Kingdom. I really enjoyed this couple very insightful

[@SheSharpNotFlat]

1Million likes here!! Yes! & we can learn from anyone especially when they are respectful of your beliefs as this couple was!

[@kristinesmith1665]

I totally agree. We need to be curious enough and respectful of your partners spiritual journey and find where your values and beliefs align.

[@aysmith761]

Living yes. Thriving... without God? eh.

[@carlenemccutchen4570]

Psalms 1:1-6 Blessed is the man that walketh NOT in the counsel of the UnGodly, nor standeth in the way of sinners, Nor sitteth in the seat of the scornful. But his delight is in the law of the LORD; And in his law doth he meditate day and night. For what shall it profit a man, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own SOUL Or what shall a man give in exchange for his SOUL Seek ye the Kingdom of God and His Righteousness and all these things will be added. Not the Things of this World, because it is fleeing. As a Believer, we shall seek the Kingdom of God, his ways, precepts and concepts. Do not be deceive by the enemy, by this world, the accolades, if you don't know God as your personal Savior, you have nothing, and if you Know God as your Savior you have EVERYTHING. I stopped watching when I saw he was not a Believer and prayed for him and everyone else that does not know God in the pardon of their sin. Be Blessed !!

[@crystalclearvision_]

@carlenemccutchen4570 Good for you.. not sure what you were expecting by throwing scriptures at me via KZbin. Anybody can copy paste scripture on a comment thread. I can't help but wonder how on earth will you reach an unbeliever if you're not willing to have a simple conversation with them. Please don't answer this question just something to ponder 🙏🏾❤️

[@genieNotinabottle]

My husband passed away at 51 I am so grateful every day when I look at my sons and my daughters eyes! I can see him in them❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@kelseyfisher6759]

I feel like my two worlds have collided and I freaking love thissssssss! Long time fan of Tom and Lisa but have always felt bad about the love life they have and my lack in that department… think “ I can’t be that successful until I find a purpose partner like they have in each other” but LaTerras has always made me feel seen for the struggle in singlehood and made it comfortable in my waiting period ♥️♥️♥️ This was divine collaboration for me 🤗

[@DearFutureWifey]

@kelseyfisher6759 - Thank you so much

[@LolaAjisafe]

She talks about Tom a lot, it’s such a pleasure to meet him. He is such a guy, and I love his dedication to her and their relationship.

[@tabithaauma1532]

..... love his mind, it's brilliant,and Lisa, she brings this feminine energy that's so beautiful.... this conversation was on a different level 🔥🔥

[@eboneebritton8473]

This episode had so many gems!! I like the way they steward each other’s visions

[@melodybenites1861]

This podcast speaks to my soul on soooo MANY levels 😊👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙌🏾👏🏾🙌🏾🌈🙌🏾🙌🏾👏🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🌈🙌🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙌🏾👏🏾

[@ruthreddick8369]

I’ve never heard someone explain things like Tom! Love his way of understanding, or try to understand

[@alicetheegreet]

I just came back to rewatch this episode. It was soooooo *GOOD!* I'm a huge fan of Tom Bilyeu. He's a genius, like you Laterras. It's like you like to say, 'iron sharpens iron'; and I saw a lot of that going on in this episode. I can see why those two are so in love with each other. You see them practicing what they're preaching in real time. I'm glad I decided to watch today's episode tonight.

[@katherinekamaria]

Getting to and through those insecurities sounds like that’s when the friendship and peace began. 🔑♥️

[@timbawangu3038]

Thank you for bringing us this powerful couple. You nailed this and they were LIT!!

[@ina0603]

Love the diversity and yes, he’s very smart.

[@InHisCare4Ever]

Thank you Laterras for bringing God into the conversation. You presented the Lord is such a gentle, loving way. Well done! My favorite dear future wifey letter yet!

[@DearFutureWifey]

Thank you so much!

[@Ladi1198]

Communication and honesty!! It works!!!

[@andreawinzer7892]

I love how honest they are with themselves individually and each other. Their conversation regarding the reality of having kids in their relationship is A1 communication.

[@nonelikeme3534]

This is 1 of the Best and Eye Opening Discussions you've had on this show.. The Wisdom is Impeccable... Keep Elevation!!!

[@daniellewright7881]

I would love to see Tony and Sheri Gaskins on the show

[@Classycaramel4]

Omg yes that would be sooo good!!

[@MT-hk9cp]

It will never happen after Tony unfairly critiqued him because of his jealous spirit recently

[@pracs3377]

I love how they communicate with each other and work to understand each other. I’m more like the husband and I have annoyed most people in my life by asking many questions but I genuinely want to understand the other person and their perspectives. Thank you for this episode! Great encourager.

[@toyawalker86]

I really didnt enjoy this interview. I desperately tried. I’ve watched a couple of Lisa’s interviews in the past because they showed up on my timeline. I didn’t enjoy them and could never finish so I made sure they never showed up on my timeline again. So when I saw her on my favorite Podcast, I thought I would give this interview a try. I’m at 47mins in and I can’t do another minute. And to be honest, I only watched that long in my attempt to support Laterras. They may have money, and have acquired fame, but something about this doesn’t sit with my spirit. I don’t know what it is… but one thing I know about discernment is that you better listen.

[@Jovialjay86]

This was so good. I love both of their podcasts. Amazing beings.

[@janetday5431]

Don't stop talking, I'm so interested in his thought patterns, love this conversation 😊

[@kmcrae1351]

Excellent conversation, I learned so much. Very insightful, their communication and willingness to understand and respect one another is Beautiful. Thank you DFW 🙏🏽🥰

[@pamelagrady5288]

I love this podcast with Tom and Lisa. It was so deep and thought-provoking that I'll have to watch it again lol

[@gretablackwood]

Great episode. I enjoy watching Lisa's podcast. Thanks for allowing Tom and Lisa to share their love story with your audience.

[@frostedpurple26]

This is definitely a must watch again and again episode. Thank you for sharing your lessons learned.

[@DearFutureWifey]

Glad it was helpful!

[@christajanelle]

I’ve been knowing about them for years! I’m so happy y’all are finally connecting!

[@kendrawinchester3704]

I truly believe Tom is some sort of genius. He just don’t talk like regular folks

[@vineconnected5761]

This was a great interview, Laterras. I enjoyed Tom and Lisa because they demonstrated how to communicate effectively to learn your partner as well as holding each other accountable and being true to yourself as an individual. As far as them not believing in God, it is our responsibility as believers to pray for them, to intercede on their behalf as God leads you. So, plant seeds of prayer, send them words of encouragement and trust God for their increase to come into knowledge of Him and relationship with Him.

[@Ntuthu28_M]

Say nomore🙏🙏we are on our knees.

[@kmcrae1351]

Amen 🙏🏽

[@anniehall1919]

I’m so glad to have watched this segment! This was a lot of real life nuggets they shared, truly learned a lot. Thank you

[@DearFutureWifey]

Our pleasure!

[@nicoles_luv]

Powerful! Thank you for being open to different perspectives and people. Brilliant Gems, Powerful Intellect, and Purposed Lived outloud!

[@DearFutureWifey]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@tishataray]

Great interview. .....a big fan of Lisa and was glad to see Tom's contribution...Great questions Laterras ...very potent questions

[@andrealord1325]

Love me some Lisa. Happy to listen to you and hubby on here. So beautifully inspiring❤

[@kia1042]

I don't know how I missed this episode, but I'm so glad I watched it!!!

[@IntrovertedEntrepreneurs]

I love them!! I’ve been a fan of their brand for years. It was beautiful to hear their love story. Thanks for sharing this ❤

[@nikkyshamz2696]

They are very in tune with one another, the communication is lit, they got it down pat. I'm glad they said it takes maturity and growth.

[@taranazare2633]

Thank you for delivering another great episode despite being sick! Some good takeaways from this conversation

[@tinareemomma]

Wow!!!! Laterras you and Tom are my 2 favorite interviewers!! This is so awesome!!!

[@DearFutureWifey]

Wow, thanks!

[@MarioBros711_]

Dope Pod! Love the perspective! 🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@E.V.A.P.]

This interview is so power packed and thought provoking. Lots of gems.

[@iamtonyacarter]

Such a great episode. Tom & Lisa are amazing. Been watching their content for years. Timestamp 1:22:37 when Lisa discusses the impact of Toxic Relationships was DEAD ON! Especially when she mentioned that she became toxic herself as a protective mechanism. Doing the heart work after the dissolution of a marriage/relationship are necessary because it can really leave last affects on a person. Lisa's indication about being in a toxic relationship at 16 is a reminder that these issues often begin early, sometimes even younger.. I'm glad she wants to work with 14 year old girls because it's so needed!

[@DearFutureWifey]

Thanks for the reminder of the reel I need to make

[@danescabaez2896]

This message has truly challenged me to not be biased in my own ideology. Every time I hear about Darwin’s theory of evolution I get offended and I don’t even try to open myself up to hear other people. Mostly because it came from a man who was racist (but I digress). Seeing Laterras navigate this conversation so well has helped me eat the meat 🍖 and spit out the bones 🦴. This has been such an honest and transparent interview about insecurities and how to work through it all in bad times and even good times. Removing expectations and materialistic ideologies and embracing what you need as a person to be truly yourself. Wooo 😅so many gems 💎 !!!

[@joysgreenthumb]

Though intriguing and thought provoking the most important factor is God yet to be revealed in his life. Praying to that end. In Jesus name Amen.

[@tialynn1111]

One day I want to be on this platform with my hubby - Amen 🙏🏽

[@HOPEREDEFINED001]

@LT where can we get the theme song I love it so much.

[@DearFutureWifey]

music.apple.com/us/album/you-dear-future-wifey-single/1729993404

[@dtpbach]

45:06 yooo this man here is the smartest of all time! Marriage is a STRATEGY!!!!!!! His wife was the winner all along and he knew it!

[@hebronahshabangu7666]

POWERFUL! I took notes, and still feel like I need to re-watch a couple more times. Thank you🙏

[@DearFutureWifey]

Me too

[@LessdUpMUA]

I got there!!! My whole mindset has changed. I used to want it all the corporate job and babies and hubby. I was on the way to climbing up the corporate ladder but something has clearly changed. It’s not what i want anymore.

[@AH-gn8dy]

This episode was inspiring, insightful, and powerful. As always, another great couple sharing their story on what it looks like to be a “purpose partnership”. Thank you!!!

[@dona_grace]

I’m just getting into the interview and I have to say I love how Lisa’s hair is always so dang fresh🥰, I just love love love her style❤ Update: I so love how you warmed Tom up to tap into his emotional side. Beautiful interview 🎉

[@vibrantwwaters]

This is soooo good! 💯

[@rainarelaford1504]

I love all tree of yall! Great episode, so many gems!!!❤❤❤

[@Lemondedesam]

Yes, I've learnt a lot from you ! I loved that you said that successful families are the most stable ones because you are permitted to take risks and still have a home whether you win or fail. Thank you for your gems!!!

[@robinhoward1129]

This conversation highly stimulated every aspect of my intellect!!! So dope!!!

[@wuraolaoyegoke4785]

I haven't yet watched this episode but had to leave my squeal of joy here, "Ayeee!" 💃The guests we've been getting week after week on DFW. 🔥 Whaaat! I am excited because God is definitely up to something on these streets...and I. am. here. for. it. I'll be back to watch when I am able to have my notebook in hand. 😅 Thank you Sir Laterras for all the premium content you're sending our way. Blessings on you and yours! 🙏🏽

[@DearFutureWifey]

Hope you enjoy it!

[@trifree]

Awww I'm sad that they don't know God😢. However, I thoroughly enjoyed this interview. I find it absolutely puzzingly that this couple who does not believe in God can live according to His ways and some of us who are His own don't or cant. Great interview!

[@eclaudynevilfrant3159]

Highly intellectual couple!!! Impressive teamwork !!

[@wilondacannon4262]

I LOVE this Episode!!!! This segment, and the one with Shavon Smith and her husband, AND the Double Dutch couple are my absolute favorite!!! Thanks for great interviews and featuring these beautiful people and sharing their stories.

[@DearFutureWifey]

Our pleasure!

[@travelchannel304]

Wow what a great duo to interview! Gkad this audience can see this couple! Like to see Dear Wifey on their show(s). .

[@alicetheegreet]

Feel better Laterras! I love Tom Bilyeu's show but this is the first time I've heard of 'Women of Impact'. I'm definitely going to check it out. I love the original name you have for the episode, "Empower of Love" and I wish you'd stuck with. Although I think you may have said empire and not empower. I heard *empower*. I think it would've been more impactful for both retaining both Dear Future Wifey and Tom's & Lisa's already established audiences; AND I think ALL 3 of your respective platforms would've gained even more new audiences each.

[@valkiria1986]

What a beautiful and inspiring couple! That's what a truly happy and healthy relationship looks like 👌🏼❤️

[@blacklivity]

the quality on the video is great!

[@winniejean-pierre9605]

I love this! Tom is so intelligent and his approach is quite fascinating. I learned a lot from this episode.

[@PriscillaLenoraMiles]

I too Laterras, found it worth taking notes for what impacted my life. Two things! I was just talking to someone about the difference of loss of a relationship you chose and the loss of a relationship believed to be prompted by God! In that, Tom addressed response of trauma predicted, when I shared it as preparation. Lisa touched on another discussion in my book that my confidence was beaten down by past abuse, yet with God, I reconnected to my confidence even stronger! Beautiful! I was thrown with the unbelief in God, but we (Believers) know that all things work together through Him - and He, our Lord, was definitely working! 😂❤

[@CrystalTDrakes-1]

If I'm testing him, I'm setting him up to fail🤯🤯🤯. Why not set him up for success??❤❤❤. Wow! Thank you Queen for that revelation. Congratulation King and your beautiful Queen, for building not just a billion dollar company but as Dr./ Minister Laterras beautifully put it, an empire of Love. Thank you guys for sharing. Great interview King💐💐💐

[@deniseploucha1972]

Definitely worth watching over and over!!!

[@joyariffic4217]

I had Tom's mindset when I was in the dating stage. When you are confidentially yourself, its a lot easier to find people that you resonate with and men cant take advantage of you

[@ayishaablake4397]

Laterras, this was such a great episode that had me almost cried to see how in love those two are with one another, and they just compliment each other so well. I hope to find love like that it was very moving. All the gems gave me a full, new filled jewelry box. How he acknowledged the fact that Tom couldn't be the man he is today without Lisa motivating him and believing in his dreams and ambition was golden. Very few men would give credit to the women in their lives who gave them success and support. This has really helped me in many ways. may God continue to bless, and please continue to bring on great guests. Thanks ❤❤ and 🎉 on your future endeavors!

[@jewel_iyke]

I be listening to this episode with a dictionary because Tom is just dropping heavy yet important stuff 👌🏾👏🏾

[@89Platinum]

Wooo I too have the thinking brain and so understand that if you are never allowed to make a choice the acceptance of whatever you are given without the room of knowing the consequences and sacrifices that you can't live with is huge. Having the ability to see your options and having the time to stand 10 toes down on a decision that fits both of you now into the future with room to flex is even bigger. Thank you. Once again I'm not crazy.

[@janel1977blessed]

I’m so excited.. I haven’t watched yet but excited to see them as guests

[@peakpotentialwithjulia]

I am so excited Laterras, I love Tom & LIsa and how God has blessed them and their podcasts/business. Thank you for this episode. We see you and how God is continuously blessing DFWifey as well.

[@d.jackson1770]

Ohh, I love this colab right here!! Yes Lateras!❤❤❤

[@lwrestored5]

Omg I loved this episode Lisa her mindset is so stimulating. Always wanted to know who her husband is. Both of their minds are like rocket ships. Going up and reaching new destinations, I need that kinda mental stimulation and I got it right here. Thank you Latteras. Another 1

[@TamikyoInez]

My eyes are opened ❤

[@eutropiarhodes20]

Beautiful couple, filled with a great deal of wisdom...and I see their love...and they are billionaires. I pray that one day their eyes will be open to receiving God into their lives.