How do men do this? | Talks with Tony

Thank you for watching! My videos focus on life, love, and business. I believe in living a balanced and full life. I answer questions from my viewers in the “Talks with Tony” series. Then on Fridays, I speak to the men in the “Man 2 Man” series. On Saturdays, I focus on business and entrepreneurial lessons in the “Small Business Saturdays” series. Then on Sundays, you can catch a motivational message in the “Sunday Sermon” series.
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[@DD-mg2se]

Whoever feels like going back to his or her ex, continue watching these videos till the rest of the year. Your heart will thank you later.

[@innocentlife2346]

Yes girl, I'm hanging on in there. My heart is still trying 2 hold onto a person that's not going nowhere in life. Sitting in the same spot not elevating themselves. I jus took a step bck slowing dwn communicating. All I can do is tell God keep working on my behalf.😔

[@marchgirl0719]

I hear u

[@DD-mg2se]

@@innocentlife2346 keep asking the God for strength and keep watching the videos for clarity. Trust me, you'll be so much better listening and applying the knowledge to your life. May God be with you.

[@DD-mg2se]

@@innocentlife2346 please hear, listen and understand as well. Stay blessed.

[@trueabby1162]

Girl say that again,exactly what I did, was hard but I got threw it.

[@reinaquisha9418]

"A relationship that lacks love is full of pain." TG

[@beefaye6861]

"When you lay dwn wit a person...you give them a piece of you...and you get up with a piece of them" *FACTS*

[@innocentlife2346]

U so right, And when a woman or man get marry 4 the first time in life. Each party done had a part of there exes in relations. So I guess it takes one man on erasing all those exes away that cross your path in life u had several relations with.🤷

[@officialwatchamber]

BIG FACTS!!!

[@ysmithriley]

Yep, men and women, (ESPECIALLY WOMEN) need to get WOKE ⏰ to this FACT! Men can sooo easily COMPARTMENTALIZE SEX.

[@jackiesinaa]

Don’t be like Lot’s wife in scripture when God told her not to look back, she looked back & turned into a pillar of salt. There is a reason why God tells us to keep moving forward, to never look back at what we had .. bc he knows the future holds better. The devil will trap you with your past memories, mistakes, regrets, etc. and the most used tactic Satan uses to trap us with these things is the fear of loneliness. As long as you have God & Christ, you are never alone. Guard your heart & your life the same way you do with your most prized possessions or your closest family members / friends. Thankfully I learned this lesson at a young age but it breaks my heart to see women & even men be in their late 30s or 40s + and still struggling to let go.. May God bring peace to those who are heartbroken right now.

[@adaofcharles1217]

Amen Sis.

[@annesmith1491]

thats powerful preachin sista! amen !

[@mmills1782]

Amen Sis!!

[@brooklyn3299]

Truth!

[@krystalgardiner5591]

I really needed this, thank you so much

[@aneshrathomas]

“You can’t envy grown boys & girls by worrying what they have going on” most definitely because them folks in the past for a reason ain’t no looking back , Gone bout yo business 🏃🏾‍♀️💨

[@Dr.Elaine1]

"Make sure your loss becomes a lesson". TG

[@danahopson1776]

Amen!! A man does not love you if he hurts you! Love does not hurt!

[@alexisagginie4574]

Do not play with people's emotions. It is dangerous!

[@diviakokoshka3723]

Baby dont lose ur self u and GOD is all u got

[@tya4662]

Absolutely!!!

[@nikkyshamz2696]

for real, she needs to stay prayed up, God gon restore her

[@joannaharrison8402]

Guard your heart with all diligence for out of it flows the issues of life...Affairs of the heart.

[@nikkyshamz2696]

facts cos our lives are a result of the decisions we make and it starts from the heart

[@patriciawilliams5519]

Amen. We fail to keep Christ Jesus our first love as priority in our lives!! Seek Him First!! Fall in love with the man who died for you. Who never leaves you. Who is always concerned about you; available to you!! I've been guilty of idolizing men. I finally figured that no no no way is the Lord going for that! He's jealous over his children. If we profess to be a child of God we are expected to obey him and wait for him to tell us when🙃⚓😎. Repent and run! Move closer to Christ and purpose!! There's nothing but deception and traps awaiting our agreement or allowance of the ignorant, childish foolery!! I keep warning my son about women much older; and now one 13 years younger!! I told him that's not good. Stop being friendly it's a trap!! He's running with the Lord; none of these women even visit a church! Not even with him. Wrong pot or ballpark or something!!!! Young or old it's like raping a unsuspecting victim or prey. I own, people are conditioned to believe well, I'm grown now so, I can date any age!! It robs you of many things!! Too old for this young lady. If he was 80 years 60 years and she's 35! No, valuable time wasting😉😇😊

[@asiamonna5289]

Bible verse 🙌🏾💕

[@maryn7721]

When Tony said relationships are for perks and photo shoots... the spirit of the Lord is always w him!

[@CaramelCuban]

“You can have smarts but not have wisdom”

[@nikkyshamz2696]

facts

[@kekesomeofeverything1733]

Tony is truly a messenger from GOD 🙌🏽...God bless 🙏🏽🙏🏽 everyone that is allowed to watch this premier!! May blessings flow abundantly to all 🤍

[@joannamartinez6882]

I felt attacked for a minute when she said “bitter divorced 40 year old single mother” cause I’m a 40 year old single mother 😂 but I’m not bitter cause I’m doing my healing work, it’s all good 😌 Hope that woman learned to value herself and is doing her own healing work.

[@user-xw9cz8fv3e]

If that's you on pic ,you look great. 40 is indeed the new 30

[@iamTiffany]

Did Tony just tap the screen with the lighter I almost fell out y’all🤣🤣🤣 I was not ready

[@voteaudrey3062]

Same! 🤣🤣🤣 Hit me right in the face with it lol

[@khocolateable]

I think I felt it too 😂

[@officialwatchamber]

Lmaoooooo

[@mimib6305]

I was done! 😆😆😆

[@Kristina_lyric16]

@@voteaudrey3062 lè

[@Patricia-qy5kb]

What I've learned over time is us women put our whole hearts into relationships with these men only to have them to later on down the road just drop us like a bad habit and move on to the next available victim.

[@innocentlife2346]

U spoke a mouth👄full girl. I learnt in life u can't teach a fool. A fool will run🏃after everything they see that looks good on the outside,until the grass start growing a different way..👈👏

[@jessepera2457]

There is a difference between being alone and being lonely

[@CarmenLifeCoach]

Great advice ! "Love is pure, love is perfect. Love did not hurt you, somebody who did not know how to love hurt you." - this is what all people should learn before giving up on love and start treating everyone the same thinking real love cannot be found or created.

[@dariabuzun6805]

That is so true, some who loves is not going to hurt you!!!

[@beefaye6861]

Say it.....

[@user-kx6tw3fo1e]

I follow you because of what you preach! No other reason. Love your teachings.

[@Dearest_Kenyetta]

Don't worry about the next chick. Ask God to show you why you went there and stayed. If you learn from it, it won't be an "L". On another note...it is spiritual when you have sex. Therefore, when we have sex outside of marriage, we have to deal with consequences of sin through spiritual means. Deliverance and the word of God is what she needs for her healing. Sin and doing things outside of God's will, will always costs us something. But God is good, and grace and mercy are available.

[@coachoverflow6304]

For the 22 yr old, the key is he was her first. Therapy is needed to help her straighten her crown, learn who she us and how to get men. Sending white light to this young Queen Daughter.

[@lizzylewis5793]

I don't want to be with somebody who anybody can have🤢

[@Honeysucklebrown1]

Blessing Tribe!! We all know that TG is the TRUTH! “ LOVE IS or IT ISN’T” We need to wake up from our “Trapped” behavior and stop letting the soul tie “ Lull” you to sleep Grown BoYs and GiRLs! 👏🏾👏🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 Love Yourself 1st!!!

[@ysmithriley]

Guys get married quickly BECAUSE they don't think they need to heal. All the TOXICITY and RED FLAGS from the previous relationship is CARRIED IN SEVERAL LARGE SUITCASES to the next relationship. 😐 So, if the new girlfriend is desperate to get married, she IGNORES the RED FLAGS, gets married to the GROWN BOY and then HISTORY REPEATS ITSELF!

[@sheliagibson6792]

Yesssssssss indeed. She ignored all the red flags and know he is cheating on her but she is thinking he is going to change. If he cheat on you before marriage he will cheat during the marriage.

[@takeauthority30]

The age difference breakdown is GENIUS .... I say that because too often we don't see it as crucial as it really is. Tony is right. I know from experience, my ex husband was 8 yrs younger & believe me....it cost me. Lesson learned.

[@triplea2443]

Me too 😥

[@jerushadowdy7094]

My ex was 5 yrs younger than me. He said it didn't matter but in the end it clearly did 😕

[@trulycay5714]

It's too much dealing with these grown boys I don't have time or the energy..I'm just grateful unto god for putting a new spirit in me

[@peaceful_and_blessed2879]

Hey Tony and Blessed Tribe! This second email is hurting my heart. I can feel her pain. I am so glad that so many women are looking to Tony for guidance. “Tony Gaskin’s Influence” 🙌🙏🏻 “Just because he’s old as dirt, don’t mean he’s gonna be so mature” 😂

[@coachoverflow6304]

TG blessing the women with his committment to teach and heal us. Dont keep fumbling.when you have a coach. Beloved have faith in God and do your work. Start with forgiving yourself for your mistakes.

[@tya4662]

Who can possibly be disliking this video? SMH some people can’t deal with the truth

[@AR-ip5gg]

Blessings to everyone ❤😘

[@rjlondon5801]

Now that I have kids, I love to be alone, with 3 sons I need peace not stress lol 😂

[@reinaquisha9418]

Tonyyyyyy! You said every "Tony phrase" in this video🤣🙌🏾👌🏾🤎

[@lisaburris3539]

Tony, the homework in the Moving on course has bless me. Step 1 was to write a letter to your ex for closure.(only an exercise didn’t mail it) My level of anger; I don’t even cuss but I did in the letter! I’ve taken responsibility for my part; learn the lesson to get to the blessing. If you’re not enrolled in the course you should be!

[@mariw2185]

Thank you for this. I need to sign up!

[@lisaburris3539]

@@mariw2185 I feel like a new woman today! He has 2 bonus calls and video teaching that he’s guiding us thru! You will not regard it; did I say it’s only $47. Girl I getting healed because I got more life to live! Be heal Sis!

[@mariw2185]

@@lisaburris3539 awesome!!! Sounds amazing! I can definitely use it

[@marchgirl0719]

I did this too via my therapist she gave me a packet to do that was 1st steps, helpful

[@emaf.]

Very interesting... an ex has a very very similar situation. Married twice, divorced twice. And says he’s in love w me! 😂😂 I don’t take that man serious AT ALL! Thank The Most High I have Tony to open my eyes!!! ❤️🙏🏽

[@pat4eva09]

Tony, bless you...you have absolutely SAVED me from alot of these same paths and mistakes you mentor on daily. Whew!! The letters you read....😳😧Words can't express how grateful I am for all the wisdom and guidance on what I won't EVER DO!!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@ashleygoodrich3294]

My Relationship Credit is Fair I was actually shocked!

[@carrieannelewis5458]

Watching live no mercials! But I had to rewatch just to take it all in!!! I love talks with Tony! Thank you so much this has really improved my life

[@antonianwoye5940]

She has nothing but a soul tie.

[@nikkyshamz2696]

a heavy one

[@ailenefisher8068]

Even though this talk has NOTHING to do with anything narcissistic, this has shown me SO much about the thoughts I’ve had over the years!!! I will listen to this video several more times! Thank you, Mr. Gaskins!!! 😎 ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

[@pat4eva09]

"You all on the Google" 😂🤣😭

[@officialwatchamber]

🤪🤪🤪🥸

[@uncle978]

Tony, sometimes I think you're the last sane person on earth. Thank you for being a foundation of strong logic, morals, and wisdom for us.

[@leighdemissie4115]

Some of you all harsh and unsympathetic in the comments some people are suicidal because of traumatic relationships I know and you should be more mindful of what you comment people look for their response from Tony and see your comments I wrote tony in his support email in a dark moment it never got answered I can only imagine the things you all would be saying about my pain that's sad we should lift each other up and give loving advice in the comments

[@mileyroe4877]

Dating older men is a no no. Most times they are not mature and they don't respect you or your boundaries. They only want sex and if you don't give it to them, they start to try to manipulate you with gifts. Tip: anything you can't buy for yourself, don't accept it as a gift from a man that you are dating.

[@coachnatishamommatish185]

Shalom Blessed Tribe Family

[@beefaye6861]

"He don't want to marry me..and I dont blame him..Im a mess" ...wth Im thru 😂😂😂I can't

[@lyfesaquarium]

Lol

[@voteaudrey3062]

That man has her head all kind of messed up.

[@nikkyshamz2696]

that relationship did a number on her self esteem , poor lady, i emphatise with her

[@innocentlife2346]

Tony Gaskins wish all men's walk in Godly way like u. I would die 4 a hubby like u. Your wife is merciful bless Tony. And u made a change on your life b4 u got marry on making your wife happy. Right there is so priceless!🙏🙌

[@LadyTrucker43]

Well it’s the lighter demonstration for me .😂

[@officialwatchamber]

Sis!!! I HOLLERED 😩🤣

[@WanyReyes]

2nd letter, yes! She needs counseling asap. She is the only one in control to keep the distance from that man. 🙏🏽 Let's pray for her!

[@jacquelynlinn1505]

Wow! Mr Tony.I Thank You My Jesus for You Sir!!! God bless you and your family. I can’t express my appreciation for your blessings each time you come on this channel. You are so true and I need All you say! Bless you!!!

[@maxinesmith6965]

Tony using the lighter for the wangalang and then putting it in the camera saying what he doing with that thang. 😆 🤣 😂

[@Bckn4th]

I love Tony! He is so on point, honest & hilarious!!

[@sherryj738]

Forgive yourself wholeheartedly girl

[@tonid773]

Thanks Tony for always giving good sound advice. I stubbled on a KZbin channel that ask out of 3 relationship coaches who they liked best. Tony you were one them. I promise pretty much every one picked you. Thank you for being respectful and honest. God bless you 🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@kx4670]

Tony I appreciate you so much. I feel like I understand the relationship between a man and women much better now. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 thanks to you. Please keep spreading the Gospel According to Tony. Shout out to the queen and the boys.

[@marciahill6659]

Heal and be willing to do the work! live a healthy whole life. Women are caught up in soul ties! You need fast a pray

[@antoinettesherrod1895]

Blessings to you Tony and the Blessed Tribe members!

[@brandilovememore9376]

22 and he is 40... she was looking for a father replacement to take care of her and got burnt with a baby...smh

[@christineporter9914]

Blessings and peace and God's strength be with you Bro Tony 🙏🕊️

[@kikikiki3216]

The lord is really warning me...🤦🏃🏃. What do I look like being with a guy with two baby mothers with four children in total (two of them had two children each for him).. The youngest child from the first baby mother is younger than the children of the second baby mother 😳). Alot of Tony's messages played in my head towards the strength for me to distance myself.

[@missellz7630]

Stay far from all that gurl I did it turned out to be a complete joke stay away from that hun it won’t benefit you long term trust me the dramas are not worth your peace of mind❤️

[@kikikiki3216]

@@missellz7630 thank you so much sis. Trust me this video was one of my confirmation this week. The funniest part is, he's been playing hot and cold the past few days and he thinks am bothered.... it's crazy how some of these guys run all types of games... I really appreciate your thought. Remain blessed.

[@cherh]

Glad you're listening. You're doing amazing keep going ❤

[@kikikiki3216]

@@cherh Thank you dear x

[@cherh]

@@kikikiki3216 welcome

[@sherryj738]

He has all the advantages...great way to look at it

[@TrustJesusfolks]

Tony had my laughing so hard lifting up that chair talking about his booty hurt lol 😂

[@biancam2327]

Good explanation on why men move on so fast and marry another women very quickly..makes sense.

[@jeaninedudley6538]

When Tony says " Sistah, Sistah, God Bless Ya", it's going to be Really ll Good and True!!!

[@ritaclement8529]

When I say this, I might offend some then, oh well this IS NOT FOR YOU. A man can do this one thing I WISH I could do without fail. A man can sex a woman, WIFE or not, for mega years but if she does something or if he sees someone he CAN NOT do without, he WILL CUT her OFF as if he never knew her! I NEED, WANT & CRAVE that POWER!

[@missellz7630]

Never mind any man who don’t make sure you’ve eaten doesn’t make sure your financially secure (I don’t mean be a gold digger lol)he doesn’t make sure your mental health is in check these are things a man who really checks for you would do they’re very important things, also if he does have a child he doesn’t stay at his baby mothers he collects he’s child/children and does he’s duties for his childrens needs (not his baby mother)look for these things when u first meet a man and don’t settle if he doesn’t fit this bill thank me later ❤️💕💕

[@lindajoseph5083]

Yes! First talk to a professional. What works for you works for you. Don't forget to let your consists be your guide

[@hannho91]

That fishing rod soul-tie analogy got me laughing so hard. Thank you very much for this TG. Bless you and your lovely family.

[@jackieharvey1450]

This should not be funny but I’m crying 😭😭😭

[@jaenorth2654]

Amen, APPLIED knowledge is POWER!

[@Bckn4th]

Who shot John n forgot to kill him?😂😫😂😂

[@glendanesmith]

I’m loving these live talks with Tony ♥️

[@Princessofimaginiation]

First time seeing live !!! With tony!

[@donnasmith2779]

Me too

[@vickyalvarez6886]

I need that shirt! Yesss

[@terryf.9322]

Thanks Tony for everything you do! It is appreciated! May God bless you and your family!

[@berrybtalksministries]

Peace and blessings brother Tony🙏🏾💯

[@kiewannagonsalves1659]

Thank you , for always putting out Great content as well ; as using your life as an example .

[@Michellemybell739]

Tony! 🤦🏽‍♀️When you was touching that screen with that pointer I fell out laughing! You a mess! Let me tell Sherri you got us crying! Lol

[@shaniceshanice8735]

Make sure you slice that like button ❤️

[@laurac9895]

Thanks for your wise advice. I wish they taught this in high school.

[@iga2226]

*screaming inside from appreciation of the knowledge of this vid* 💟

[@shanyaervin5277]

First time watching him live!

[@jerelene21]

Same! It's exciting to be able to chat😀

[@mariabasa3822]

God Bless you over and over again You are truly a saviour to us women who got caught up in a fishing net

[@debrajohnson4774]

Yesssssssss, Tony this is a wonderful message ❤ thx!!! My 👀 r wide open!!!!

[@naturegaze5667]

Thank you Tony! New to the Blessed Tribe!

[@ShelleyG1014]

Ladies, listen to any speech by Zig Ziglar. You will have the encouragement to do anything you could ever dream of. Thanks, Tony.

[@ursulagates3106]

Preach Tony!!! I love you. Amen 🙌🏽

[@bregettewashington4669]

Hi Tony you are so on point its true, their are different moods and disease going on and value your life

[@shonicedanridge629]

Blessed tribe yes!!!!!

[@herhairfetish1]

Whewwww chile....I needed this message!! 🙏🙏

[@officialwatchamber]

Blessed Tribe in the building!!! ♥️♥️♥️

[@tinamarie9820]

Hi Tony, new subscriber here. Wow this is good information. Thank the Lord for this channel. God bless you.

[@JoannA-sweetly]

Tony Gaskins sir! You call it the way it is!!!

[@s.r.125]

Whewww chile, these ties ain't no joke 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@leighdemissie4115]

I love tony said you already know the answer and you can do it sometimes we juz don't want to face the truth sad but true it's like keep running into a shut door over and over again when you keep lying to yourself about a toxic relationship smh

[@DebtDemolisherTV]

Ayyy that reel imitation and sound was hilarious!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@billiewilliam6884]

I'M READY

[@X.O.143]

Me too..

[@jerushadowdy7094]

You've opened my eye to a new begining thank u

[@tracyroberts1562]

I wish I could save this video. 💛 So much great information.

[@whatyoucookingvicky9119]

Needed this! ❤