“ If he loves you you’ll know , if he doesn’t you’ll be confused”
@stru39904 жыл бұрын
Good way to say it.
@nashonharris78054 жыл бұрын
V yes ma’am
@divaglamqueen83884 жыл бұрын
Facts
@lhazel24 жыл бұрын
Yup! and it's really just that simple
@denisegladden-peters44354 жыл бұрын
Yup!!
@dominiqueblagojevic94474 жыл бұрын
I had an older divorce attorney. He was like a little Italian dad. He told me not to put up with men's bullsh*t. That really stuck with me.
@MegaLadylove20124 жыл бұрын
Dominique Blagojevic Right. I watched another video of Jordan Peterson. He basically said to nip any suspicious activity in the butt from the get go. You don’t have to be aggressive with it, but for example, you noticed your partner being too flirty with someone at a party. Talk about it because you ain’t trippin. Basically, like the older divorce lawyer, he said take no ish
@j-tenn2262 жыл бұрын
@@MegaLadylove2012 what JP video is this? Thank you
@MegaLadylove20122 жыл бұрын
@@j-tenn226 I wish. It must have been one of those weels, pop up videos, which is hard to find unless you happened to come across it
@daniellemoffitt48784 жыл бұрын
This is the first time I really understood what older women was talking about when they said, "A man will only do what you allow him to do."
@ZoePat1234 жыл бұрын
"If he is not ready to be a man he will run." So true. Listen Ladies! Be blessed. 🙏🏽
@marylarry73222 жыл бұрын
Be Blessed. Thank you for all your video's. They are very helpful 🙏🏽❤
@kimc.56254 жыл бұрын
I remember a grown boy tried to talk to me. He was very honest and said he also still mess around with his child's mom. I said thank you for your honesty and thanks but no thanks. That was our first and last conversation lol
@chickwitthagoodies4 жыл бұрын
Go girl
@notnsecure1374 жыл бұрын
After my ex told me he didn’t want marriage but wanted a baby, I told myself to get the hell out and followed my instructions🤣🤣🤣. Be blessed
@Shaunteetalkstv4 жыл бұрын
Same
@julianacheriza15753 жыл бұрын
Why do they want a baby and not marriage??
@jamesgest27774 жыл бұрын
It’s like the old cliche, if you don’t value yourself he won’t value you
@tayxtalks3 жыл бұрын
Not true at all
@misspeacelove73953 жыл бұрын
Very true
@444bakari94 жыл бұрын
Yeah tony im one of the rare 1s im a 21 year old man and i don't have a father so the tips you give help alot appreciate it be blessed
@kizzyrock4 жыл бұрын
❤
@kizzyrock4 жыл бұрын
Awesome!! The fact that you WANT to learn and grow speaks volumes! I ❤
@kj18164 жыл бұрын
Okay now. King energy! 🙏💜
@anointedstilettos4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Young King because you can flip his advice for men or women. Keep growing sir🤴🏾.
@miunicorn13244 жыл бұрын
❤️🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@RainbowKusheLIVE4 жыл бұрын
Whenever a Man says he not looking for a relationship.. I ghost them so fast its as if they don't exist inches in front of me.. I believe being distant and cold is necessary gifts and weapons from God.. Protect your body if All he offer is" Sex and a uncertainty for tomorrow!
@jaybae73154 жыл бұрын
Facts
@shegotstandards4 жыл бұрын
Exactly!
@confessionsofagirlpilotgro25943 жыл бұрын
Great advice
@itsHappening-ry2ef3 жыл бұрын
Preach you will see me disappear quick ‼️‼️
@keepcreationprocess3 жыл бұрын
Sex and uncertainty for tomorrow.
@charlesable60694 жыл бұрын
I am 70 almost 71 an l heard you l have been married for 31 plus years an l still heard you at my age l still heard you plain an clear even l have learned something an l thank you
@keepcreationprocess3 жыл бұрын
70 is young
@laquetianewstartmercer4 жыл бұрын
We hurt ourselves way worst than men do. Because we have silent expectations and silent fantasies of how it's going to be and when it doesn't turn out that way. We are hurt and mad and want to blame the man. Well I'm looking at reality now. I'm working on seeing people for exactly who they are right now. Not who I want them to be. Stay in reality ladies. Because you can see his potential but he still has a choice.
@nikkyshamz26964 жыл бұрын
💯💯💯
@ChinadollcocoCaramel4 жыл бұрын
You are Spot on!! I am so sick of women blaming men instead of looking at themselves, this is why women keep getting played over and over again....some women can have unrealistic expectations going in to a relationship, she already at the alter, only been dating for a week, love is a superficial fairytale for most grown behind women! Then she wanna get mad at the man because he does not fit in to her delusional love fairytale or she always claiming the weaker sex narrative with her hand out and being a panhandler instead of a boss!!
@ChinadollcocoCaramel4 жыл бұрын
Men treat women how women allow. If a man tell you he is not ready for a relationship (but you are), and instead of a woman trying to change their minds, walk away immediately! Or expect and take whatever half as treatment you get, because he was honest with you and has already done told you!
@ZoePat1234 жыл бұрын
Amen Sister!
@Moonpiebye4 жыл бұрын
When a guy says he is not ready or keep ex's around ladies respond I AM NOT FOR YOU😂💥🤪 KEEP IT SIMPLE 😉 LADIES
@naturallymenow4 жыл бұрын
It_isWhat_it_is True I shut the door real quick. I will wait on God best. All the best. I will not waist my breath. Been down that road.
@Dlovely5164 жыл бұрын
I was JUST able to say. "You DON'T deserve me", and I have accepted that I kept letting him in with all his manipulation and tactics. I pray for strength and conviction. To Love me and make sure a Man is continually trying to Earn me. And KEEP ME.
@marshellepayne40204 жыл бұрын
Yes my ex is still kool with all his ex’s. It drove me Nutts he says I’m a good man why do we have to be enemies cause we broke up.. I left
@vblacksugar72494 жыл бұрын
MARSHELLE PAYNE He had no boundaries.
@jillgreene92254 жыл бұрын
When a man tells I his truth (I'm not into labels, marriage is a governmental scam, I'm not interested in a relationship) Great!! HE'S telling the truth...move on IT'S not for U
@itsHappening-ry2ef4 жыл бұрын
You giving women the Play book and they still won’t listen ‼️‼️‼️‼️
@monahyppolite25134 жыл бұрын
This woman "RIGHT HERE IS LISTENING" !!
@logikgirl124 жыл бұрын
You have to be ready and willing and looking to be able to listen and apply. It takes a lot of work on oneself first.
@mrs.haynes-r5z4 жыл бұрын
Im listening
@toneyfox63284 жыл бұрын
Right
@madeinchina18354 жыл бұрын
No men can have it “ALL” in a woman and still mess up
@alesiav.41144 жыл бұрын
Come to the table like a BOSS he’s going to treat you like a BOSS that’s a FACT! Be blessed 👑
@biancamasuku1814 жыл бұрын
Be blessed
@mayamckeever52153 жыл бұрын
A
@mayamckeever52153 жыл бұрын
11
@yasyas14 жыл бұрын
Lack of self-worth is at the root of ignoring red flags, having unprotected sex, and fantasizing about having a better relationship. Once a woman values herself more, loves herself more and sets boundaries to ensure the man has values that align with hers then the men she attracts will change and her experience in relationships will become more healthy.
@Moonpiebye4 жыл бұрын
Exactly right when you check grown boys with boundaries they drop off real quick 👍😅
@infj6624 жыл бұрын
FACTS!🤣🤣🤣😒
@goddessbehavior64184 жыл бұрын
Hello!
@anointedstilettos4 жыл бұрын
They sure do! 👋🏼👋🏼
@mmills8604 жыл бұрын
Tony is a comedian on the low😂😂😂
@mariac52944 жыл бұрын
Mickema Miller true true !!! 😂😅😆
@starlouis88294 жыл бұрын
I was laughing too
@kimsmith8194 жыл бұрын
He tells us the truth whether we want to hear it or not in his comedic way
@joshuaking90504 жыл бұрын
Yes he is😂😂😂
@enatihaok35944 жыл бұрын
True tea
@tashamorris64754 жыл бұрын
When a man says he doesn't want a relationship I've learn to walk away and leave him alone . That simple I've learn the hard way to listen to what a man says . You cut it off right then
@marcewalker54864 жыл бұрын
Tasha Morris facts i learned this last year and oh my what a lesson learned 🙌🏾
@mariac52944 жыл бұрын
Tasha Morris : yes me too I ignored the red flags 🚩 I learned the hard way really bad I got hurt physically and emotionally. No contact all the way forever . Never again .
@kimsmith8194 жыл бұрын
Preach Sis! If my man doesn't want me, we both know where the front door is. He was abusive to me. I live in Florida, but have an apartment in Michigan, just in case he starts his abusive ways again. He sought a lot of help to convince me to come back, but I'll leave in a second if he starts his crap again. Im to old to deal with the crap
@kimsmith8194 жыл бұрын
@@mariac5294 good job taking care of yourself 💜
@kimsmith8194 жыл бұрын
@Str8 Shooter makes me want to join a convent. You are so right
@KalimahSBICeo4 жыл бұрын
Have the confidence to leave.. Even in marriage! ✌
@4LADYSWEET4 жыл бұрын
😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢 Tony, you completely transformed my life and I thank you so much! God definitely has a calling on your ministry 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
@janellebentley20024 жыл бұрын
I hate when individuals deflect. Just live in your truth and stop looking to blame others for your actions
@janellebentley20024 жыл бұрын
Copious Lady I’m not sure why this is a response to my statement because I’m speaking in general. Maybe you didn’t understand what I meant. But okay I respect whatever it is you’re trying to convey. Be Blessed
@janeljones98174 жыл бұрын
Be blessed!
@laquetianewstartmercer4 жыл бұрын
Yes sir! I'm holding myself accountable right now. Blaming other's is over. Starting with the man in the mirror, which is me!
@hopeawakened73904 жыл бұрын
There you go!!! Toby is “god sent “
@derikamiller49114 жыл бұрын
Laquetia Mercer I’m right with you! Let me look at myself!
@NaudiaLittle4 жыл бұрын
Lmaooo he snitched on his homeboy with no hesitation 😭
@Anna-st5dm4 жыл бұрын
Anaudria UrFavorite Rapper girl…unsolicited snitching. They didn’t have to ask or nothing. Just volunteered all the dates, times, stores, addresses, sku numbers, and suggested retail values. 😆😭
@AllThingsTiffanyTV4 жыл бұрын
Facts 😂😂💯💯
@shellyroch36224 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@jdilla71424 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@jillgreene92254 жыл бұрын
No hesitation....ditto!
@100thsheep34 жыл бұрын
The last thing I wanna do is listen to a woman on how a man is...over a man. Does that make sense
@Bella-yt8wk4 жыл бұрын
Be blessed, I’m 23 years old watching this for the 3rd time . Cause I realize I didn’t listen when he said I’m too good for him and he needed to be a better man.
@natashavaugn10183 жыл бұрын
I felt this!!!
@Shineldove4 жыл бұрын
Practice taking accountability. Self awareness is your strength.
@kizzyrock4 жыл бұрын
Truth!!!
@talkswitTK4 жыл бұрын
Shinel A word
@ericablige94494 жыл бұрын
Yes...its liberating
@Iamcherese4 жыл бұрын
I read somewhere to “check myself first before checking someone else” and boy 😭😭 does that hurt 😔 😂
@_keytruth82874 жыл бұрын
Tony please don’t switch up keep doing what you’re doing!! I’m 28 and you’re re teaching me the game from a MANS perspective!!
@yvette93054 жыл бұрын
Tony, sad to say, we told ourselves lies and that’s the most dangerous lie of all. The lies we tell ourselves.
@Ashley_Banks4 жыл бұрын
Lenea 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@anointedstilettos4 жыл бұрын
Please tell the T-R-U-T-H 💯
@godsanointeddaughter87824 жыл бұрын
Say that. When we know better we do better. (Some of us)
@marshaheard14824 жыл бұрын
Can you say that to the people in the back, please? Yes, yes, yes!!! Be Bless.
@tybullocks89034 жыл бұрын
Be blessed. I’m 27 and still got so much to learn. Transitioning mentalities.
@natashavaugn10183 жыл бұрын
Sheraeseven1 also lady!
@true45854 жыл бұрын
Thank you. I’m too nice and naive. Men be taking advantage. I went and deleted all my contacts. I’m so vexed with myself and men. New fresh start for me. Thank you.
@Mrs-O4 жыл бұрын
Ladies, please remember there are men all over the world! Level up, travel and explore your options outside of the US 💅🏾
@jbs82love74 жыл бұрын
Word up..
@mrs.haynes-r5z4 жыл бұрын
Facts
@Jubilee_BX4 жыл бұрын
Yes!!!!!
@katrinamccreary64114 жыл бұрын
❤🙏🏽
@hopeawakened73904 жыл бұрын
Be careful!
@lizzylewis57934 жыл бұрын
Ladies take responsibility for yourselves! Tony teaching right. So many women believe the baby will change the man and make him love her more. Then when the man leave her and the baby she is left devastated.
@vblacksugar72494 жыл бұрын
LizzyLewis Because he never really loved the woman to begin with. If you know that you’re man is NOT treating you well, do you honestly think he’s going to treat you any better because you’re pregnant 🤰. That’s why some men ghost 👻. Stay focus.
@sha24084 жыл бұрын
“He doesn’t see you as the one for him so he treats you as a wham bam thank you mam...”
@coachsamempowers58374 жыл бұрын
Ikr smh but it's cold hard facts
@joshuaking90504 жыл бұрын
Facts
@sabrinalibakari14 жыл бұрын
I’ve been watching your videos for almost a year now and I’m only 18 years old, thank you for your content for helping shape who I am✨ be blessed!
@lalaverdefrijole4 жыл бұрын
"What MEN Already Know!" Best video ever! Have already watched it twice! Go figure here I am previously married 25 years, now in my 50's dating AND "closer to the grave than the cradle" (ha!)... and I'm still listening, learning and growing! LADIES (and Gents)... Ya'll better get some of this while you're young... stop wasting time you can never get it back. When Tony "The. Man." is coppin' a lean AND preaching the TRUTH... you better LISTEN! Point. Blank. Peri-ooddd! Thank you Mr. Tony G. and BE BLESSED! 💚
@infj6624 жыл бұрын
Yep. Once women who are ready to learn come into contact with you...GAME OVER!
@miraclenaddior4 жыл бұрын
INFJ truuuuu
@anointedstilettos4 жыл бұрын
This is the unadulterated T-R-U-T-H
@cartercarter28374 жыл бұрын
So true. He helped me to let go of a toxic relationship
@fjdslkfjdsklfjdsklfj4 жыл бұрын
Don’t want marriage bc it’s a “trick of the government.” Lawd these men are a trip! Lol
@carmenS1074 жыл бұрын
inspire me a guy actually told me thought 😂😂😂he said he didn’t want the cops to get involved 😂😂😂
@HEReIAM8294 жыл бұрын
I was thinking the same thing 😭and u have the same channel name as me🙌💖
@kimmieg14074 жыл бұрын
OMG
@kenishalperkins4 жыл бұрын
inspire me They worried about losing half of nothing 😂😂😂😂😂
@fjdslkfjdsklfjdsklfj4 жыл бұрын
Kenisha Perkins lol, yes 😩😩
@Mrs-O4 жыл бұрын
I once had a guy tell me very explicitly to "Look deep before you leap!" I did not listen and it was 4 years of my life wasted and I couldn't blame anyone but myself! Wise up ladies! Listen to men about men, not women! Especially a certain type of scorned and bitter woman. NO!
@true45854 жыл бұрын
Sammie O. This here ☝🏾 ☕️
@Mrs-O4 жыл бұрын
@@true4585 Truth, truth, truth! Although we hate to accept it! Not accepting only allows us to fall in further delusion. I had to stop doing that to myself; it's not healthy or attractive 💅🏾
@akua1714 жыл бұрын
Thank God I didn't get pregnant by him! Im praising the Lord. Going on almost a year of abstinence and my life has never been better. Will be gladly waiting for the Lord's divine timing and doing the work
@asguy20064 жыл бұрын
Amen!
@jaybae73154 жыл бұрын
Months ago, I had to put my nephew in his place for the games he plays. And low and behold, he stopped calling and I'm not trippin'. Therefore it's not just in dating they play games.
@c.jjohnson51794 жыл бұрын
Be blessed bro your right no lies. When first came cross your video like 5years. I was a Grown boy , I was like by Tony period in your voice. You trippen. But now sents have change my mind& ways you speak 💯💯 truth. And lol Tony I got 65 year old uncle hey think he cat daddy and he married 40years. God gift to women. I went see him about some business sent he retired. And he told best part he miss about work is goen get his early morning blessing from another women so he go would go work 2hr early . And got heart monitor he have to wear. Thought to myself that moment I dont want to be a old fool I got mature& work on myself asap.
@TonyGaskins4 жыл бұрын
That’s powerful there!! Thank you for sharing that brother!!
@goddessbehavior64184 жыл бұрын
YessSss that is Power. Thank u for sharing brother🙏
@bhilaire1bj4 жыл бұрын
@C.J, Glad you're taking in this message. I used to think I didn't need coaching but boy was I wrong. I've learned do much from him and I can honestly say I've become a better women.
@c.jjohnson51794 жыл бұрын
@ shaashaa we as men&women some time think we know it all. But we all have areas and ways we need to grow in. Some people just like lie to themselves. And have learn alot from bro Tony as while
@anointedstilettos4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing. That's King mentality🤴🏾. Keep growing my brotha.
@Ericadoeslife4 жыл бұрын
This video got deep. Made me rethink everything I thought I knew about courting. Thanks for the new perspective 👏👏 You are telling the truth because my ex did all those things and was the most controlling and cheating man I've ever met.
@SouthernSweetTee4 жыл бұрын
Yesss girl! The perspective was real and eye opening. Only an idoit or wilfully ignorant person missed this wisdom that he just dropped.
@Ericadoeslife4 жыл бұрын
@@SouthernSweetTee Realizing a lot of women don't want to be honest with themselves. That's why they be trying to come for Tony in the comments
@mariac52944 жыл бұрын
Erica Pettway : yes true !!! 🙏
@sharonjennings57324 жыл бұрын
Mr Gaskins you ask ‘What did I tell myself?”...I told myself that he is the prize... I told myself that he is the priority and I was an option...I told myself I was his yet he wasn’t mine and the more I served him he would choose me, whole heartedly, is becoming exclusive... It didn’t happen. When my well dried up - no more money etc. - he was gone. You operating in your calling Mr Gaskins is a blessing for me and many others. It’s effecting me in a pronounce way. Thank you. God bless.
@theresahayward54714 жыл бұрын
I here you! If you come to the “table” like a pan handler you get treated like a pan handler. But, if you come to the “boss” you get treated like a boss! Periard! Be blessed!!!
@toniemillsap89103 жыл бұрын
Lol!! Love it..."PERIARD"
@brendag3114 жыл бұрын
THIS MAN HERE IS AWESOME..TONY IS MY DAUGHTER LIFE COACH AND SHE HAS COME A LONG WAY AND I CAN TRULY SAY..TONY YOU ARE GOD SENT..THANK YOU!!!!
@Ericadoeslife4 жыл бұрын
Tony keep talking to the women. We as women need to change our mindset in regarding our worth and approach to dating. People just don't want to be real with themselves so they can grow. We have to stop doing the same things over and over expecting different results.
@Ashley_Banks4 жыл бұрын
Erica Pettway point blank PERIYAWWD *in my Tony gaskins voice* lmao
@Ericadoeslife4 жыл бұрын
@@Ashley_Banks 😂😂🙌🙌🙌
@dasani60554 жыл бұрын
Women says they want men to be faithful yet want men who has options of multiple women,and complain about men cheating women re just delusional this days.
@Ashley_Banks4 жыл бұрын
Dasani605 that may be a true contradiction held by some, but thats not a general statement that can be made for all.
@dasani60554 жыл бұрын
@@Ashley_Banks I've met females that at the end of the day don't even RESPECT men that don't have other women.
@Here4theComments_4 жыл бұрын
So ladies, we must get our pretty on, lose the weight, set our standards, close our legs, and be ready to move on when a grown boy's mask drops... when/if he is ready for a real relationship and wants YOU, he will govern himself accordingly. Until then... keep it moving. Stop getting your feelings hurt if you are not the one and BE GLAD you are dodging dusty bullets left and right. I guess it all goes back to the point that men will do all the things that a woman wants WITH SINCERITY when the woman that he considers THE ONE because just as soon as a man says chivalry is too much effort to give for one woman, it will flow like water in his actions when he is courting the woman he wants to be his wife.
@jjf51164 жыл бұрын
Tony what women say to themselves is " I can change him. Nobody will love him like me. He will change for our love."
@FreshAF_114 жыл бұрын
That's what I said and got my heart shattered into a million pieces. NEVER AGAIN! I learned the lesson. 😬
@rachelleenterprise80724 жыл бұрын
BINGO
@ettamae054 жыл бұрын
YES I did in the past!
@ChinadollcocoCaramel4 жыл бұрын
Yep! Biggest mistake a woman can make.
@Menique30004 жыл бұрын
Yeah I wasted 10yrs, but I was still doing me. Instead of just cutting his ass off like I did everyone else in my life, my dumb ass kept him around like he was a goddamn King or something. Now I just treat him like shit and laugh when he tell me “you’re just an asshole”. My response is “it takes one to know one🤣
@UhRealLife3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your struggles. Reality is monogamy is not without temptations. I tell men Im not faithful because of how I feel about him, Im faithful because of how I feel about myself, but your reason is better and inspiring...'I'm faithful to God.'
@jenniferibe2132 жыл бұрын
⁷
@arila-buena63343 жыл бұрын
So true! We are the strongest but we don’t know it until a grown boy forces us to be strong or die by their side. Thank you for your words. You are the brother manny of us don’t have. 👍🏼😊
@keychabudgets4 жыл бұрын
I wish I learned all this stuff before I started dating. Now one thing my daddy said was don’t do more than he doing and if I had listened my relationships would have turned out much better. Thanks big brother Tony!!!!
@keychabudgets4 жыл бұрын
Recognize early how your man sees you. That is some wisdom Tony. That Michelle Obama panhandler analogy was the TRUTH!!!!! Thank you brother!!! BE BLESSED!!!!!
@Mariah-er5yc4 жыл бұрын
Exactly a man knows I literally had a 32 year old man tell me “yea I know I have a lot of growing up to do “ like dude what I felt like so you know that but you still continue to act childish. And that right there told me that I had to let him go.
@anointedstilettos4 жыл бұрын
He is not going to change because some woman will accept him like that. Be glad you walked away because he would have drug you through the mud.
@ashleywilliams86124 жыл бұрын
That part! I realized when I met a man that told me he knew he had issues, yet he was doing nothing to do better! I then reflected and noticed there were a few men who’d said and shown the same but I didn’t listen. After that I took notice of everything people said and did.
@destinyuplift4 жыл бұрын
Men know what they be doing! Tony I'm with you about snitching I'm telling on every body😂😂😂
@Ericadoeslife4 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@naturallyvette19224 жыл бұрын
DestinyB 😂😂🤣😂😂
@Kenneth1814 жыл бұрын
😂😂 That ain’t right.
@Dtella554 жыл бұрын
Lol😂😂😂🤣🤣
@adrianalily54164 жыл бұрын
I have stopped telling because women are starting to hate me. Women do not want to hear it 🙈
@allaboutdasha12613 жыл бұрын
You don’t even know how much you’ve helped me heal, Tony. Thank you brother
@millennialgeisha21924 жыл бұрын
Be Blessed! I’m paying attention to red flags. I’m realizing though, the red flags are in myself. Thank you Tony
@lifegoeson15454 жыл бұрын
We as women have to respect theses men when they say they not ready we can’t change men
@neaelladraytonlogan18984 жыл бұрын
Tony a lot of us didn't get that information from our fathers and or mother's because she didn't know either. Well done keep on teaching it is necessary and heart felt.
@hopeawakened73904 жыл бұрын
True
@eyesaidit51954 жыл бұрын
Mr Tony your voice impersonations are always so funny!!😂🤣🤣
@qse7en6863 жыл бұрын
Tony, I messed up by introducing him to your video and we broke up tonight. I am feeling better than I thought I would...He basically showed me the "EGo" come back instead of the "HEART" come back and I am so grateful for your videos...I will be a better human being! He had to get out the way for my husband!! Bye Fernando!
@geria80444 жыл бұрын
You are called to talk to us ! Keep talkin. I've learned so much in a short period of time I just turned 60. Still growing Bless you Tony 💜
@Moonpiebye4 жыл бұрын
😅 exactly remember if he can't keep his word move on...stop sleeping on the facts when it's in your face ladies 😎.. keep it simple..look past the body..go straight to the brain game🕵️
@adoringgalore56364 жыл бұрын
It_isWhat_it_is True period
@solekhashuwa4 жыл бұрын
I've seen men in their 30s and 40s who can't get it up but still want to act loke they're great lovers.
@Glamrocs4 жыл бұрын
I know one 51
@jbs82love74 жыл бұрын
Word up..
@imthatchick304 жыл бұрын
Old and young have erectile dysfunction for many reasons,drug use, alcohol abuse and medication such as blood pressure medication
@kimmieg14074 жыл бұрын
Fruit Cocktail I guess they remember when they were
@tammaramencias4954 жыл бұрын
Be blessed! Men know exactly what women want. I had a guy say to me I know what you want me to do but sometimes I dont feel like you deserve it or I just dont feel like doing it. I was blown away
@patricebarrett58454 жыл бұрын
Tammara Mencias woww! The fact that he could articulate that ! Smh I know some women (sometimes me) just think men can be plain dumb or blind and this is proof their NOT🤦🏿♀️
@selandamathis36683 жыл бұрын
Be Blessed!!! I'm a older woman and I needed to hear this message so much with starting over in dating Thank you 🙂 I'm sharing this with my daughter
@monared40704 жыл бұрын
OMG!!!! Tony! I just started watching yesterday stayed up till 5am seen like 6 of your videos cooking, using bathroom I can't miss you talking under no circumstances all love Mr. Tony be blessed you and your family♥️
@liabw054 жыл бұрын
Sideria Holmes same!!
@dakotabrace44923 жыл бұрын
he really is the dad i never had, so honest and aside from my mom, his guidance is sunshine. he’s changing so many lives. 💯
@TuBella144 жыл бұрын
FACTS. Accountability is a hard pill to swallow. It comes with maturity & self awareness. A while back when I was young & DUMB, I dated a guy who told me three months into dating that he’s not over his ex. Me not wanting to hear that & because I had caught feelings said to myself “oh he’s just confused, I’ll be the distraction he needs to get over her.” W R O N G ‼️ I allowed that relationship to continue only for him to seriously break things off with me to go be with her. Boy was I devastated. Could’ve likely ended up in somebody’s hospital from being so hurt 😭. Looking back, I brought that pain upon myself. Granted he wasn’t honest from the very beginning, but he was honest. When a man says something he means it. I am a walking testimony to that fact. Y’all better listen to uncle Tony, he’s not just doing this for his health.... this is the real deal. I would NEVER play myself like that again. Through these videos I’ve seen the light, & the light I will continue to see. ❤️🙏🏾
@Ericadoeslife4 жыл бұрын
Amen sis! I went through the same thing. Tony got is preparing us for the real. We got this!!
@tameekaharris64254 жыл бұрын
Amen!
@Glamrocs4 жыл бұрын
Tu Bella I’ve been there also. I learn from his messages
@TuBella144 жыл бұрын
Glamrocs Makeup Facts‼️
@miunicorn13244 жыл бұрын
”That’s Why You Was On Yah Byke”😆😆😆 You can’t tell me he don't sound like Plies😂 Be Blessed🙏🏽
@hellohaynes4 жыл бұрын
Lol I thought he said bike 🚲 . I was confused for a minute 😆
@klbrowder364 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣
@kristamonae4 жыл бұрын
Facts hahahaha
@bmpowerednow074 жыл бұрын
They both from Florida just like I. We say "byke". We hood country in the FLA. lol.😄
@RealLadi2284 жыл бұрын
Yes indeed he does...I say it all the time...lol
@cheekscheeks58404 жыл бұрын
One think I’ve learn they going to do what they want until they decide to change.... BE BLESSED
@keonarandall66104 жыл бұрын
Tony Gaskins, I really enjoy your messages. They are helpful. I’ve been married almost 12 years, and it’s has really been a learning lesson for me. So now, I listen to you to help me better understand a mans perspective of life, to ultimately better help me understand my husband. It’s a day to day experience. Please continue to do what you’re doing. Please don’t allow ignorance to frustrate you in the assignment God has given you. You know what He’s called you for, and stay the course. It’s a blessing to me for sure.
@carisma86624 жыл бұрын
I remember one of my girlfriends said she was willing to sacrifice her self worth for a few moments of satisfaction from a man of her choice 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️!
@lebonkholisa35714 жыл бұрын
The knowledge that we getting here is a total game Changer!!. Now we coming in armed and ready. There is no reason to date blind anymore, to feel used or to feel like a victim of love anymore. And it's all thanks to you Tony, thank you so much. Be blessed.
@Moonpiebye4 жыл бұрын
😂👍the best information is from the guy that did it ..
@DynamicallyDC4 жыл бұрын
No lie!! 🙌🏽
@miraclenaddior4 жыл бұрын
True that
@missmarymack34574 жыл бұрын
EXACTLY
@lilym7504 жыл бұрын
1 Peter 3:7 - "Weaker Vessel" Some believe that a reference to women as “weaker” implies that they are lesser persons. But consider this example. A person has two useful containers. One is sturdy, the other less so. Is the second vessel somehow less valued because it is not as sturdy? Actually, the less sturdy one is usually treated with more care and honor than the sturdier one. Therefore, is a woman of lesser value because she has less physical strength than a man? Certainly not! The Apostle Peter uses the term “weaker vessel,” not to denigrate women, but to foster respect. Ex. Thermal container compared to a fine "China Tea Cup" hence the weaker vessel it means women are to be handled with tender care. Thats why this scripture also says assign women with honor!
@vblacksugar72494 жыл бұрын
Lily M Yes, Yes, Yes...so true. A family member told this to me when I was younger. “ A Weak Vessel”. Men are our protector, security for family, a provider, and our lover.
@PhileceaCerise4 жыл бұрын
SPEAK!!!!!!
@kimsmith8194 жыл бұрын
I love your response.. This is perfect
@kimmieg14074 жыл бұрын
Lily M great illustration
@hopeawakened73904 жыл бұрын
It’s the English language. You got it right dear. Just means delicate. Handle with care!
@ijeomaoliviaokeke99436 ай бұрын
Minute 38 is the ball-dropping moment of this video but truly it will not settle into u as a woman unless u watch from the beginning and twice. I've been watching videos as assignments at this point with pen and paper in hand cuz girls, theres no other way. p.s. ive been watching Tony consistently since i was 21, listened to a woman's influence about 3x and I've still got too much to learn. i still think about my 2021 situationship and wish to be back in it. then i watch tony for a few minutes and regain my senses. its a serious internal struggle that feels endless, being honest. my willingness as a person and as a woman to settle for less (raised without my father) and crave a male's minimal validation
@Shaunteetalkstv4 жыл бұрын
"that's why you was on your bike 🚲" 😂 😂
@ericabostwick40334 жыл бұрын
I appreciate you so much Tony! Those of us who are really ready for change are listening! These videos are changing my life!
@weareuniqueforareason75034 жыл бұрын
YES HUNNY 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌
@anointedstilettos4 жыл бұрын
Life changing for real. I am thankful for him and his videos.
@kaydubb11674 жыл бұрын
Between you, the “good for nothin’ grown a** boy” who mistreated me, and my acceptance of his poor behaviors due to so many reasons and poor examples of love and relationships, I’ll never allow myself to be mistreated by ANYONE again. I can say I’ve truly been delivered from these cycles of abuse. This is my season of self correction and self protection. Thank you, Tony.
@sherryharvey98734 жыл бұрын
Kay Dubb 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💕💕💕💕
@godsanointeddaughter87824 жыл бұрын
I'm in agreement with you.
@nikkyshamz26964 жыл бұрын
Amen
@ChinadollcocoCaramel4 жыл бұрын
Awesome, so happy for you Sis!
@mihaelag.20112 жыл бұрын
Amen! Praise the Lord! Thank God for Tony Gaskins, a faithful man of God! God bless you all!
@lynnerene4 жыл бұрын
Be blessed! I am listening to you, Bro. Tony! I met a grown boy recently. I mentioned your name once in a conversation and he peeled OUT! I still smell the rubber from his tires 🚥⚠🏁🤣. Your words & work are far reaching! Keep doing you!
@Nessajess74 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 not peeled out lmao
@ravenpn42754 жыл бұрын
Lynnette René Doby 😂😂😂
@Glamrocs4 жыл бұрын
Lol he ran
@lynnerene4 жыл бұрын
@@Nessajess7 Sis, he said, "Oh Lord!" We stopped chatting shortly thereafter 🤣🤣
@lynnerene4 жыл бұрын
@@Glamrocs Sis, he was OUT! He said not today 🤣
@nickbry73574 жыл бұрын
Point blank Period!!!!!
@RealLadi2284 жыл бұрын
They tell themselves that the man will change his mind once he gets to know her and learn what she has to offer or bring to the table...this is how women think??? This was me...was! TG😇
@lerhondajones-bates33244 жыл бұрын
A man knows this already!!! Ding ding ding...I been thinking since he had no Male role model he didn't know...WowWW played big time, he knew and just didn't WANT TO GIVE IT TO "ME"....😥😥😥😔😔😔💔💔💔
@tianaturner77804 жыл бұрын
"You haven't even sniffed the ring" it's funny how Tony says it but its the absolute truth. BE BLESSED 👍
@gina729164 жыл бұрын
Just treat them with indifference and watch them not know what to do.
@melaniegonzalezart85064 жыл бұрын
12:52 answer your question as a woman: After he told me he's not ready for a relationship: I told my no good best friend who listened and advised me to be there and maybe things will warm up and he'll see that I'm the one. I told myself that maybe he hadn't seen it in me yet, yet I was on my back the first night (first time and last time, following behavior again from a no good friend), and I knew he was out of a serious relationship, that this friend filled me in on before we connected, kind of grooming me to be with him, and I went with it, thinking that I would be special enough besides the circumstances (sleeping early, him fresh out of a break up)... I was wrong wrong wrong! I left that situationship broke, busted and disgusted. Truly. The quickest soul tie I ever created, and it's taking time to loosen. That was the biggest learning lesson that led me on this path to this channel and dumping all the friends that entertain the enemy. Thank you TG. Be blessed.
@keepcreationprocess3 жыл бұрын
That is the truth sister. You loose your money --because you can not work when you are busy with a person.
@tned344 жыл бұрын
You're so right and this coming from a woman who has fell for it all. I'm listening!
@bayadger69704 жыл бұрын
Tony-"When a man talking to another man he's telling his truth"...I found out how my now ex-boyfriend viewed me from his boy. The friend stated "he said you're just some mixed chic he's messing with"..that truth hurt me deep but gave me the information I needed to finally leave his grown boy a$$.
@traquilasmith22754 жыл бұрын
You made the right decision leave him alone set your standards don't settle for less. God bless you.
@bossbabe87974 жыл бұрын
You drop gems in every video 👌🏾
@juju75304 жыл бұрын
I told someone not too long ago that I've noticed that the guys who go out their way to open doors and pull out seats are not good guys.
@venda10084 жыл бұрын
True they are just surface guys nothing on the inside to offer
@sandrav824 жыл бұрын
That was my ex husband, turned out to be possessive and abusive.
@karenwalters20074 жыл бұрын
It’s all an act to look good When a man does that my antennas goes up And I already know he plays mind games
@dainty_des4 жыл бұрын
Good Life same for me!!
@jaybae73154 жыл бұрын
I notice they usually want to open the door for you to look at your a$$. So some use it as a smoke screen to look like a gentleman.
@bridgetlane86694 жыл бұрын
Be blessed, you are truly helping me as a single Christian women of 7 years, who really don’t know what’s going on out here.
@h.a.nicola-heather-anne14263 жыл бұрын
It’s so interesting what you said about men not wanting to learn from you or hear you unless they perceive some kind of street credibility. I do sometimes see some resistance when I play your videos to my 22 year old son. So from now on I’m gonna say “Son I’m gonna play this video for (my daughter who’s 13) and I want you to be there to help and support me in preparing and educating ‘HER’ “ 🤣😂🙏🏾
@Glamrocs4 жыл бұрын
The gentleman I’m talking to saw me reading your book and said I’ve heard of him. I was like yes he gives godly guidance.
@outsidelookingin71314 жыл бұрын
When a man put a lie before the truth. Then he becomes questionable. The truth helps one to discover your inner piece. A lie is a dark soul that wants to remain hidden.
@marcewalker54864 жыл бұрын
GinjaSnapz 🙌🏾
@letmnr4 жыл бұрын
I’ve had a guy tell me this...so I told him things wouldn’t work between us...then he switched it up and said that I wasn’t hearing what he was saying...he only meant right now and that he just wanted to take things slowly...huge mistake...biggest L I had to take in 2019...I’m the type that tries to take people at face value and give them the benefit of the doubt...
@letmnr4 жыл бұрын
I forgot to mention what the guy said...at first it was he wasn’t ready for a relationship
@annamparks43113 жыл бұрын
Be blessed 🙌 I am 62 year old and what you are saying is true 👍I try to tell my lady friend for years they don't want to here me
@carisma86624 жыл бұрын
You are very intellectually sarcastic!! I love it!
@deniserandle73294 жыл бұрын
this is a hard pill to swallow but I needed this medicine. thank you Tony
@Restyoursoul2874 жыл бұрын
You have taught me so much from a distance, and I’ve been applying my new knowledge. Thank you!
@jdilla71424 жыл бұрын
“ I Want Something That Really Means Something “
@Coolct4 жыл бұрын
J Dilla you and me both 🙏🏾🙏🏾
@jillgreene92254 жыл бұрын
Be a person that really stands 4 something...God will send MS MEANINGFUL asap
@lavonaturner76914 жыл бұрын
Nice shout out to you! 😂 Keep gleaning wisdom J Dilla 👍🏾 You are rare!
@jdilla71424 жыл бұрын
LAVONA TURNER Thank You Queen. That was a nice shout out... Lol 😂 i was geeked up when I heard my name ✊🏿 Respect
@KCoopp94 жыл бұрын
Keep growing bro. I stay positive and hopefully because of men like you!
@shasety4 жыл бұрын
Definitely true l learned to walk away from anyone who is not interested in being in a relationship l have no time to just entertain you✌🏾 be blessed
@bunkeepitmovingjoseph Жыл бұрын
TONY...BROTHA TONY. I KNOW THIS VIDEO IS 3 YEARS OLD, BUT... BE BLESSED🙏🏾The advice you gave is so factual and applies all now today 2023.