How does a breakup affect him?

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Tony Gaskins

Tony Gaskins

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@jenhuff1387
@jenhuff1387 4 жыл бұрын
My boyfriend became unemployed for several years. I stupidly let him move in, paid his bills and fed him steak. But then when he got a good job, he continued to free load. He is a user, abuser, cheater, liar, manipulator. After wasting 10 years, I am kicking him out. He is finally saying we can get married, buy a larger house, etc. All the things my soul wanted to hear, but these videos have helped me realize not with him.
@TheGoodLifeStarterPack
@TheGoodLifeStarterPack 4 жыл бұрын
YES! He was using you and YOU are the Queen!
@Jmay411
@Jmay411 3 жыл бұрын
They don't appreciate being financed by a woman. It wounds the ego.
@katepierre952
@katepierre952 3 жыл бұрын
@@Jmay411 amennnn say it again.
@abubakarmusa6026
@abubakarmusa6026 3 жыл бұрын
*#*I PRAY THE UNIVERSE GRANT YOUR HEARD DESIRES WITH MORE LOVE AND COMMITMENT FROM YOUR EX THROUGH THE GREAT MAN OF THE UNIVERSE DR WILSON, WHO HELPED ME RESTORED MY BROKEN HOME. HE CAN MAKE YOUR EX BEG FOR A SECOND CHANCE*#*
@abubakarmusa6026
@abubakarmusa6026 3 жыл бұрын
*#*Wh'|sapp him for help*#*?¿??!!!
@missball404
@missball404 4 жыл бұрын
With the way most men treat women, why do they even waste their time chasing women??? Seems like pure evil
@Kellergirl
@Kellergirl 4 жыл бұрын
Just to waste our time and use us, sadly.
@KayciazWorld
@KayciazWorld 4 жыл бұрын
It's how that get their thrills. My ex was a disrespectful little prick who claimed to be "so hurt" after I left him. No you're just hurt that you couldn't use me to make your crippled self esteem feel a little higher. It's pathetic but sadly, it's out here.
@gloriahenry9149
@gloriahenry9149 4 жыл бұрын
@@KayciazWorld i agree, can't wait until my divorce is finalized! He acts one way in public and much differently behind closed doors, treats me like I don't even exist, so fricken rude and obnoxious 😤
@x__lexx
@x__lexx 4 жыл бұрын
Right chasing just to be end up being a demon in someone’s life
@nefertitipeace5360
@nefertitipeace5360 4 жыл бұрын
RIGHT JUST TO MISTREAT US TIRED OF BLACKMEN 4REAL
@DynamicallyDC
@DynamicallyDC 4 жыл бұрын
"If you give a woman a good father, good brother, or good husband..her life will be changed!" ✅ Also, having a great mentor or life coach like you Tony leveling the playing field makes a huge impact also!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽
@kikib.4519
@kikib.4519 4 жыл бұрын
I agree
@whitleycargill2790
@whitleycargill2790 4 жыл бұрын
Yup and I believe I lacked all of those things early in life and have found these life figures in different parts of my life and honestly have a happier outlook and feel respected. I also know my value and respect myself. Awesome journey
@grace2excell
@grace2excell 3 жыл бұрын
100 percent
@atkpw1108
@atkpw1108 3 жыл бұрын
This goes for men, too.
@abubakarmusa6026
@abubakarmusa6026 3 жыл бұрын
*#*I PRAY THE UNIVERSE GRANT YOUR HEARD DESIRES WITH MORE LOVE AND COMMITMENT FROM YOUR EX THROUGH THE GREAT MAN OF THE UNIVERSE DR WILSON, WHO HELPED ME RESTORED MY BROKEN HOME. HE CAN MAKE YOUR EX BEG FOR A SECOND CHANCE*#*
@Lovetheonewithin
@Lovetheonewithin 4 жыл бұрын
When I heal from the last one, I will only talk to a man who knows the love of Jesus. I'm tired of getting hit by the F150.
@juliaarambula3153
@juliaarambula3153 4 жыл бұрын
Amen Sister!
@grace2excell
@grace2excell 3 жыл бұрын
🔥y
@quin8463
@quin8463 2 жыл бұрын
How I'm feeling
@openheartsavagemind6443
@openheartsavagemind6443 4 жыл бұрын
These men are attacking you on your page or channel because they are subconsciously upset that you are exploiting them for all the horrible things they are doing to women. So they attack the person that's trying to stop their "game." What makes men think that a woman wants to be destroyed emotionally, physically, and psychologically just for some tail? 🤔
@queenofthesouth4205
@queenofthesouth4205 4 жыл бұрын
Let the church say Amen....TG is telling the game😄😄
@tlashai
@tlashai 4 жыл бұрын
Sister you are so right.
@tanitrarobinson7477
@tanitrarobinson7477 4 жыл бұрын
Ew Chile you got me shouting loud from Houston Tx....sick of the broken boys who cant stand but cant handle what they dish out!
@ketsha79
@ketsha79 4 жыл бұрын
Queen of the South p
@lial6061
@lial6061 4 жыл бұрын
Preach ❤️❤️❤️
@daughteroftheking3174
@daughteroftheking3174 3 жыл бұрын
Tony Gaskins is truly sent from God to help heal and guide broken women!
@Kellergirl
@Kellergirl 4 жыл бұрын
I look at a man's character. A man can be financially rich, and be morally bankrupt.
@mouna7432
@mouna7432 3 жыл бұрын
Indeed 👍🏻
@gloriousjohnson1807
@gloriousjohnson1807 3 жыл бұрын
Say it again.
@michealjoy1881
@michealjoy1881 3 жыл бұрын
*#*I PRAY THE UNIVERSE GRANT YOUR HEARD DESIRES WITH MORE LOVE AND COMMITMENT FROM YOUR EX THROUGH THE GREAT MAN OF THE UNIVERSE DR WILSON, WHO HELPED ME RESTORED MY BROKEN HOME. HE CAN MAKE YOUR EX BEG FOR A SECOND CHANCE*#*
@michealjoy1881
@michealjoy1881 3 жыл бұрын
*#*Wh'|sapp him for help*#*?¿??!!!
@michealjoy1881
@michealjoy1881 3 жыл бұрын
*#*Wh'|sapp him for help*#*?¿??!!!
@ivywilliams9510
@ivywilliams9510 4 жыл бұрын
Totally agree date a man who has Jesus in his life! 100%
@nikkyshamz2696
@nikkyshamz2696 4 жыл бұрын
💯💯
@nickbry7357
@nickbry7357 4 жыл бұрын
Second that
@ivywilliams9510
@ivywilliams9510 4 жыл бұрын
@@nickbry7357 Amen
@ivywilliams9510
@ivywilliams9510 4 жыл бұрын
If a man has no accountability, you might as well walk into a den of lions on a real note!
@saywhatondat
@saywhatondat 4 жыл бұрын
Point blank peri-yahd!
@lorigray1150
@lorigray1150 4 жыл бұрын
Dated a VERY attractive man with money once but his personality sucked! He knew he was fine and acted like he knew he was fine which I did not like and he was truly shocked that I wouldn't go out with him again..money couldn't buy him a personality and it couldn't buy me.
@prettydiamonds2343
@prettydiamonds2343 4 жыл бұрын
At my age I want a man who has his own and is bringing AT LEAST as much as I'm bringing to the table so we can build. I'm not being arrogant and really don't care if people think I am. I work as an RN with 30 yrs experience specializing in Pediatrics. I'm not dating a man working in a fast food restaurant unless he owns it. He's got to have his foundation in God, his own place, no roommates, own car, credit score in the 700s, a hopeless romantic, loyal, committed, honest and a protector. These are my standards because this is what I'm bringing to the table. Everyone can't sit at your table ladies.
@gloriahenry9149
@gloriahenry9149 4 жыл бұрын
I agree, at least have some standards! Don't make it so easy for them.
@immaculatebeauty_aoki
@immaculatebeauty_aoki 4 жыл бұрын
@@gloriahenry9149 exactly
@immaculatebeauty_aoki
@immaculatebeauty_aoki 4 жыл бұрын
I agree
@Silvia-jy8zc
@Silvia-jy8zc 4 жыл бұрын
Wow...😄... that’s a tall order. 👍🏼
@dxblover444
@dxblover444 4 жыл бұрын
RESPECT!!
@azizifoster6242
@azizifoster6242 4 жыл бұрын
Let his character be his currency.....
@grace2excell
@grace2excell 3 жыл бұрын
Tenor
@theebastet7216
@theebastet7216 3 жыл бұрын
That should be on a T SHIRT right!! Pure fyre!!
@kjhyler
@kjhyler 4 жыл бұрын
Your transparency and taking responsibility for who you were and most of all becoming a good man, father, and husband is admirable. I just wish your kind wasn't so rare. It's so sad that women really don't have good options. Although I feel that way, I stay hopeful.
@Sammypu
@Sammypu 7 ай бұрын
Agreed
@sinyab5844
@sinyab5844 4 жыл бұрын
Plenty of women accept disrespect from men and sometimes abuse just because he can provide for them financially. God Bless the child that has his/her own. Make your own money Sis and let your choice of man be based on his character and not his financial status. Also, if you are not attracted to him physically, remember something, he will be tapping you on the shoulder in the middle of the night for some physical attention. LoL!!
@elizabethhousen9778
@elizabethhousen9778 4 жыл бұрын
Facts!💪
@michelepace777
@michelepace777 4 жыл бұрын
I heard that!!!!
@overcomerbtboj
@overcomerbtboj 4 жыл бұрын
@Ashley Victoria ikr 🤣😂🤣🤣😂
@nikkirowland
@nikkirowland 4 жыл бұрын
“I won’t block em today, I’ll maybe block em tomorrow” 😂😂
@queenofthesouth4205
@queenofthesouth4205 4 жыл бұрын
Gurrrrrl TG is too funny
@zmcfadgen
@zmcfadgen 4 жыл бұрын
😂
@LalaaNichole
@LalaaNichole 4 жыл бұрын
Nikki Rowland 😂😂😂😂🔥
@lowill4186
@lowill4186 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@grace2excell
@grace2excell 3 жыл бұрын
😁
@Extremelyblessed07
@Extremelyblessed07 4 жыл бұрын
Tony is the GOAT he stay giving us FREE GAME BE BLESSED TONY 💯🙏 THANKS for the Info
@CaramelKissez
@CaramelKissez 4 жыл бұрын
🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@lush1276
@lush1276 4 жыл бұрын
Getting addicted to your channel lately.. The truth hurts and that's the only reason why certain people are hating on your channel.. But keep on telling the truth.. Men need to hear it.. And we deserve good men..
@yaelnadel
@yaelnadel 4 жыл бұрын
If you give a woman a good father, or a good brother or a good husband her life will be changed. Preach 🙏🏼
@DavidSmith-ki2we
@DavidSmith-ki2we 2 жыл бұрын
Truth!! I had an amazing husband for 22 yrs til his sudden passing n he changed my life completely for the best!!
@yankeeyobaby
@yankeeyobaby 4 жыл бұрын
Most of them are dumbfounded they didn't see it coming and thats the reason why we LEAVE.we be tallying shid up.and they dont even recognize it
@coachingwithp
@coachingwithp 4 жыл бұрын
🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾....Thankful for Tony and his obedience to God !!!!!!
@coachnatishamommatish144
@coachnatishamommatish144 4 жыл бұрын
Amen sis🙏💕
@CaramelKissez
@CaramelKissez 4 жыл бұрын
Amen!!!🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@Sara-sg4of
@Sara-sg4of 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Tony for your insight on men/boys and what it all means. I'm 22 now but already feel I've wasted so much time. I've been with this guy for a few months now but have already noticed a few red flags. Thanks to coming across your page and watching a lot of videos, I've been questioning a lot about myself and the guy I guess I'm currently with. I've been thinking hard and it's probably best for me to ends things with him because he's given me the silent treatment on his off day of work, pokes at my insecurities such as him sleeping with other women, doesn't like to call me much, and tells me things I like to hear not things I want to know. And since I'm still insecure about a few things, it's likely best to work on myself and focus on my classes since I'm in college. This is all definitely frustrating and hurts the heart, but I'm willing to better myself and my standards and boundaries so I don't waste anymore time with people who don't actually want me for me 💔
@michellelucius7973
@michellelucius7973 4 жыл бұрын
🙄 he is not lying 🤥 I have dated guys not cute because they treat you so much better. Just my opinion
@jazzy9282
@jazzy9282 4 жыл бұрын
I dated my baby daddy.. who is not so cute but for some reason got in over his head when we got together...
@nefertitipeace5360
@nefertitipeace5360 4 жыл бұрын
I STARTED DOING THAT BUT THIS NOT CUTE ONE WASNT RIGHT SO HIS NOT SO CUTE REALLY STOOD OUT I LEFT THAT SITUATION
@natalienunn7897
@natalienunn7897 3 жыл бұрын
Nah i gave him way to much confidence n now has such a big ego n now doesnt care LMAO
@christianabarnes3177
@christianabarnes3177 3 жыл бұрын
My grandmother told me that when I was a little and to this day it's true I had a guy for the last 4yrs very very handsome and it was nothing but heartbreaking
@skiller7790
@skiller7790 3 жыл бұрын
Nope. I’ve dated guys who are not hot or cute, and they’ve also been assholes, sometimes worse.
@SheAQueen-2
@SheAQueen-2 4 жыл бұрын
He be funny with a straight face😂
@cheekscheeks5840
@cheekscheeks5840 4 жыл бұрын
That’s the IMMATURITY of the men today can’t handle the TRUTH
@grace2excell
@grace2excell 3 жыл бұрын
🔥❤
@gwendolynoliver4983
@gwendolynoliver4983 4 жыл бұрын
Some women can't handle the truth, they'd rather be lied to...
@yeahthatsme921
@yeahthatsme921 4 жыл бұрын
True
@sherryj738
@sherryj738 4 жыл бұрын
Beauty is skin deep.....a good man is hard to find. There are many different reasons for liking a man. If he is kind and has a good heart and treats you good, he's a good man to have
@denellrae-5958
@denellrae-5958 4 жыл бұрын
I hollered when you said we all look like dogs!! 😂😂😂 I needed this laugh today 😊 Be blessed
@zelloresharrison7035
@zelloresharrison7035 4 жыл бұрын
Gurrrl I fell out laughing and his country accent make it more funny🤣🤣🤣
@nikkyshamz2696
@nikkyshamz2696 4 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣 Tony is really something else
@CoachHC
@CoachHC 4 жыл бұрын
This was good....Thanks Bro. Tony for this message. I had to share to a man who was cheated on after being married for over 17years. He’s having a hard time to heal. Be Blessed
@ericafields4560
@ericafields4560 2 жыл бұрын
I’m 51 and just recently single from a long relationship that was toxic. I’m very grateful for your channel. It has helped me tremendously. I’m in the healing process and I feel so free now.
@winonamurray9518
@winonamurray9518 4 жыл бұрын
I truly appreciate your transparency. Its not easy to be transparent but you do it well. Thank you for what you do to educate us women. Without this knowledge I will be lose with men. Listening to you has helped me understand relationships and be ahead of the game. Continue telling your story. God want you to help so many people. 🙌🙏
4 жыл бұрын
The man looked like 'A French bulldog' 🤣🤣🤣💖 Papa Gaskin at it again. I love how he talks to us. He's a TRUE Man of God. 💖God Bless u and your family Mr. Gaskin. 🙏🏾💖😘
@bklyn2014
@bklyn2014 3 жыл бұрын
Great video! You have helped me so much with my healing as a woman. The community of women that follow your work have also helped me feel not alone. I have really leveled up with your wisdom and hope to continue doing so. Your wisdom and work is very much appreciated!
@thefoodtubeprincess
@thefoodtubeprincess 4 жыл бұрын
Am I slow.....or did How a man deals with a breakup go over my head 😫😫😫😫😫😫😫😢😒🤦🏽‍♀️
@THATGIRLCHELSEAS
@THATGIRLCHELSEAS 4 жыл бұрын
Just.Celica wym ?
@Lifes_Frosting
@Lifes_Frosting 4 жыл бұрын
@Tracy G 17 min in and not yet...I'm out - sorry - ain't got time for it - wait, I'm in self quarantine - I do got time but no patience lol
@thefoodtubeprincess
@thefoodtubeprincess 4 жыл бұрын
@Tracy G I kept skipping............. Maybe I'm just slow
@mel_magnolias
@mel_magnolias 4 жыл бұрын
I think he is saying that there is a type of man who tries to get women out of their league and then when the relationship doesn’t work out they operate out of hurt instead of trying to heal. They go after men like Tony, and create movements to try and run game on women instead of dating in their league.
@pamelaaustin3892
@pamelaaustin3892 4 жыл бұрын
@@adriannam321 me too...🤣still a good topic.. lil ugly got me cracking up laughing 😂
@freethought1953
@freethought1953 4 жыл бұрын
When people say that you and your wife look like siblings, they are ONLY expressing how similar in appearance you guys are...THAT'S IT Bro.
@Ms.Cris421
@Ms.Cris421 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah, there is a saying that says something like "after a while, people that's been together for a long time begin to start looking alike" but strangely, the couples that favor one another, "seem" to have the best relationships and seem to last forever. 🤷🏾‍♀️
@freethought1953
@freethought1953 4 жыл бұрын
@@Ms.Cris421 So sweet.
@maatbrown466
@maatbrown466 4 жыл бұрын
Trying not to become a savage...
@PeaceBeStill-
@PeaceBeStill- 4 жыл бұрын
Just realize it'll only hurt *you* in the end 👍🏾
@jaybae7315
@jaybae7315 4 жыл бұрын
Mmmmh. Good luck with that one. Its terrible out here with these dudes.
@victoriak.2707
@victoriak.2707 3 жыл бұрын
Lol that comment made me laugh!
@OrganikJewelz
@OrganikJewelz 3 жыл бұрын
ONE WITH THE MOST HIGH ~:-)...
@theebastet7216
@theebastet7216 3 жыл бұрын
Just want you to get a kick outta this! I came across Derrick Jaxn in my time-line and I simply commented YOU AINT NO TONY GASKINS ..salute to you sir for having integrity and walking the walk that you talk. I've been watching your vids for almost a year and you are the truth indeed. Your wisdom is uncanny and has actually changed my life all for the good of course. Keep doing what you're doing!! Oh and your impersonations of various females have me weeeeeeeeeeeeeeeak as beeeeotch
@zeusa4048
@zeusa4048 4 жыл бұрын
Tony Gaskins is so honest... that’s why I Subscribed and became a member. I will also be getting his book.
@llehsir
@llehsir 4 жыл бұрын
"Porta-Riccuh" Lmaoo
@ladyb129
@ladyb129 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@wisdom6041
@wisdom6041 4 жыл бұрын
And JU- macian 🤣🙏🏽😂. Gotta love it!!!
@LanetteMo917
@LanetteMo917 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@shariyoung4544
@shariyoung4544 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@TRIPLEMLUXE
@TRIPLEMLUXE 4 жыл бұрын
I’m over here in tears😂😂
@iriswilson7387
@iriswilson7387 4 жыл бұрын
I love ❤️ the way you talk about and so proud of your wife❗️💯Keep it up young Tony😇
@mntw6062
@mntw6062 4 жыл бұрын
“I don’t know if that’s a word, but it sound good right THERE!” Vocabulary word: exacerbate, good word choice Tony.
@nikkirowland
@nikkirowland 4 жыл бұрын
mtim Wesson 😂😂
@AllThingsTiffanyTV
@AllThingsTiffanyTV 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@nikkyshamz2696
@nikkyshamz2696 4 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣 right
@heyitssheaxo
@heyitssheaxo 4 жыл бұрын
Wow the dating someone out their league, is my ex I treated him so good. He cheated on me and is chasing this rebound who wants her ex. Instead of chasing the person who’s been there for years in a relationship. Smh!
@TopHat_VR828
@TopHat_VR828 4 жыл бұрын
Water seeks it on level. Call it a dodged bullet
@keturah1980
@keturah1980 4 жыл бұрын
elizabeth garland amen!!!
@nikkyshamz2696
@nikkyshamz2696 4 жыл бұрын
You deserved better
@BeSmartSis
@BeSmartSis 4 жыл бұрын
He has another video titled.... why he doesn’t want a good woman. I think it could help give u some insight
@lumintalocke7724
@lumintalocke7724 4 жыл бұрын
ABSOLUTELY INCREDIBLE! This was so true and beautiful! I laughed at times because it was funny but I never thought you was being ugly with it. If a man like these men he described is watching this you have been blessed. He just saved your life. You won't ve able to move around this world angry and be healthy. A man who argues is a turn off. This blessed tribe is 1.99 a month..woman you may have a boy of a man in your life that you are going to have to teach him how to survive and be healthy . You need to be part of the blessed tribe too. It's the least any of us can give this man. This video is a Gold mind. Woman he is telling you just what men are thinking.
@JanineDada
@JanineDada 2 жыл бұрын
The end of this video made me kinda sad but thank you for your honesty. Thanks also for the understanding of what women are going through.
@femakampfcounselor8466
@femakampfcounselor8466 4 жыл бұрын
Tony, maybe people see a loving light within you and your wife and that’s what they’re referring to instead of physical appearance. My ex and his rebound are 2 serial cheaters. When they ride down the road together, it looks like a scene from “Dumb and Dumber.” 2 cheaters together forever. She has 3 children from 3 different men and is a “deacon” in her church. He buried two women from cancer and chronic illness. I think he caused their illness from all of his cheating stress. When we first met, he told me he loved me on the second date. Then later disclosed how he had cheated on his wife-frequently. The best I can do for him is let him stay with someone on his own level.
@Brouwagnes
@Brouwagnes 4 жыл бұрын
I can’t stop watching your videos all the way from France 🇫🇷 . 👌🏾🙏🏾
@11940ful
@11940ful 4 жыл бұрын
Il est très drôle. Je l'aime aussi.
@jasminecarter8998
@jasminecarter8998 4 жыл бұрын
Most men are struggling with having great character in the first place. So add the fact that he don’t have any money and he really gone get overlooked! I hear what you’re saying but character is not something these men come equipped with so they have to make up for it somehow which is where the “D” or money comes in for most women..Ijs
@montricec8795
@montricec8795 4 жыл бұрын
Character and morals are taught. I have come to this realization......becoming unevenly yoked has dire consequences. When my mom and step dad split up, when i was a child, i never saw my mom or dad with anyone else. Say, I dated someone and they were brought up seeing their father cheat on their mom. This mess became a normal part of life to them. So, how do you rebuild someone's character? You cant. You have to let them go find that woman or be with that woman whose character and morals align with theirs.
@jennifersalinas716
@jennifersalinas716 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@KEL-uj1nh
@KEL-uj1nh 3 жыл бұрын
I was with someone who had nothing! No car, money, job, license! We been together for four years… I drove every where I paid for our meals till he got his job which I helped him. He started to change. He used me and took advantage of me. I bought him a computer and the Xbox and here he is texting other women and buying them gifts and making me feel like I’m the crazy bitch. It hurts. I took him to work and while I was driving he told me “he feels forced to be with me.” How can someone feel forced to be with me? After everything I have done for him. I loved him for who he was and believe in his dream… obviously he didn’t believe in me. I can’t stop crying… I want him back but at the same time he has pattern.
@allaboutherterritory
@allaboutherterritory 2 жыл бұрын
I hope you have healed since this post. How are you doing?
@KEL-uj1nh
@KEL-uj1nh 2 жыл бұрын
@@allaboutherterritory I have! He’s with someone else. I don’t ever want him back. ❤️
@allaboutherterritory
@allaboutherterritory 2 жыл бұрын
@@KEL-uj1nh you dogged the bullet - you are strong beautiful and deserve better ❤️
@cassanix9093
@cassanix9093 2 жыл бұрын
A similar story here. After getting them a job making over 2x what I make, he moved and suddenly became "too busy" for me. I ended the relationship. I'm only two days out
@cardiac711
@cardiac711 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂 you wrong for that. Y'all wrong Affectionately call him little ugly 😂😂😂😂
@jewelsafire6844
@jewelsafire6844 4 жыл бұрын
Just by living, we'll continue to come across people (family included) that'll do some unsavory things to us. But I won't jump on anyone's bandwagon that promotes hatred towards another group, no matter the group. Hurt people, hurt people...okay🤔🤷🏽‍♀️. How about, hurt people need to take some accountability and go do the work of self-healing? So, they don't continue to hurt others and find peace for themselves.❣🙏🏽❣
@PeaceBeStill-
@PeaceBeStill- 4 жыл бұрын
Yes!
@gloriahenry9149
@gloriahenry9149 4 жыл бұрын
That's what I don't understand, why do men have to string uou along, make you believe that they're interested...just to waste your time and 👻 you in the long run!?
@sheilaverdell1370
@sheilaverdell1370 4 жыл бұрын
Tony, you are speaking validity in this video. I pray that both men and women will learn from this video so we can start coming together as God design us to be. Blessing
@heychunkybutt2010
@heychunkybutt2010 4 жыл бұрын
Sheila Verdell amen
@reginajeter6204
@reginajeter6204 4 жыл бұрын
Be Blessed! 🙌🏽. I appreciate you bringing the genuine, true experience that you give us as your testimony. If every man out here world actually put their pride aside and listen to this video, it will make them think twice about why they can’t find a good woman. As you have said, they must be men of God so that they can find and love a good woman the way God loves HIS church. Tony continue to let the Lord use you and just remember that your word is not going void too people who truly believe. God bless! 🙏🏽❤️
@rebeccabolds7518
@rebeccabolds7518 4 жыл бұрын
I have been educating myself about my relationship with my husband and I have sent a few videos to enlighten him. My husband watched the videos and always says that this guy doesn’t know what he’s talking about. Oddly enough I watched a video about when a man and goes back and forth with another woman and guess what. MY HUSBAND HAD CHEATED ON ME AND I DIDNT BELIEVE IT UNTIL WATCHING HIS VIDEOS. So of course a man is going to upset if us as women are being told by a man that has a great marriage and how they need to prove themselves. He’s ruining the game us as women allow, ignore, or rationalize a man loves us when they don’t.
@virtuous_committed
@virtuous_committed 4 жыл бұрын
I thank God for you and your channel, for helping me to understand this whole perspective on how men think and operate. Don't stop sharing your wisdom and insight. God bless.
@dianariley1067
@dianariley1067 4 жыл бұрын
Real definitely recognize real. When you come from a place of purity. And a person fights you. There heart is wrong. And they can't stand the truth. Thank you Tony. God bless you.🙏🏾
@blackamazonian424
@blackamazonian424 4 жыл бұрын
“I don’t know if that’s a word but it sounds good right there “🤣 period
@TaylorKnits
@TaylorKnits 4 жыл бұрын
A lot of sad black men regardless of what they have.
@pwrhitterp
@pwrhitterp 4 жыл бұрын
Taylor a lot of sad blk women too
@christineporter9914
@christineporter9914 4 жыл бұрын
Tony Gaskins you got me laughing my head off in this video ,you said you got soup coolers lips .Lord lol 😂😂
@zmcfadgen
@zmcfadgen 4 жыл бұрын
I know right!😂
@mechotemcdowell3285
@mechotemcdowell3285 4 жыл бұрын
It's the chemistry between you two that is so great that makes you look the same
@Latinaperspective
@Latinaperspective 4 жыл бұрын
I feel that women have the need for “security” built on their DNA. Successful men to women is equal to a beautiful women to a men. It’s all about attraction. A successful men is very attractive to a women just like a beautiful women is very attractive to a men.
@love_stephyyc7388
@love_stephyyc7388 4 жыл бұрын
😂 this man went 0-100 talking about people say he and his wife look like siblings 😭😂 I can’t believe it. lol
@holinessIzRyt
@holinessIzRyt 4 жыл бұрын
Love_Stephyy C lol, that is not a compliment 😂🤣😂
@Samerootsdifferentbranches
@Samerootsdifferentbranches 4 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@nikkyshamz2696
@nikkyshamz2696 4 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣 for real I was like 😮😯😱😂🤣
@ZZ-qw6el
@ZZ-qw6el 2 жыл бұрын
“Booty bothered” took me tf OUT 😂 You’re so hilarious
@ashleyhenderson3856
@ashleyhenderson3856 4 жыл бұрын
Respect Tony G you be dropping some serious knowledge I enjoy your messages all day!!!!👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽😊😊😊😊
@yoshis-m9s
@yoshis-m9s 4 жыл бұрын
When u say people don’t want to hear the truth , that is true ...they can know their toxic ways and won’t want to change cause they are comfortable with that
@Uapqv336xzuqk
@Uapqv336xzuqk 4 жыл бұрын
I am soooo glad Tony is talking about that "Alpha Male Strategies" page. That is such a disrespectful channel towards women. Tha k you for breaking it down!
@FreedominLove711
@FreedominLove711 4 жыл бұрын
They are just hurt grown boys
@vchild
@vchild 4 жыл бұрын
Left you in there at 450...🤣😂 took her out early.. 🤣😂🤣 what you talkin bout Tony... You cuttin up now... 😂 great message as usual.
@cassandrabillings1540
@cassandrabillings1540 4 жыл бұрын
We need men like you keep up the good work I really do appreciate it! God Bless we love you.
@DeeDee-no7bb
@DeeDee-no7bb 4 жыл бұрын
It’s sad that there are movements like that out there !! Powerful and informative message !
@fabfab5450
@fabfab5450 4 жыл бұрын
Love this! And yes, "exacerbate" is a word which means to "increase or heighten the effects of" something.
@finally0famous
@finally0famous 3 жыл бұрын
It’s great people out here. Just work on yourself. God will send who you need when it’s time. I have my exact plans and everything I’m doing and going to do written down. I already enrolled at a gym, purchased new clothes, and plethora or other things. Change begins within you.
@doriscrumpton2980
@doriscrumpton2980 4 жыл бұрын
Be Blessed 🙏✝️♥️🙂 Mr. Gaskins they say when you live together for along period of time u begin to look alike. It might be something to that now. They didn't mean no disrespect I believe. I know you felt they didn't because u checked them and gave them another chance. But u let'em know u didn't like that. You both are beautiful people inside out not that u look like a woman or she looks like a man. You two are just two beautiful people that have grown together closely in your relationship.
@esthernichols4451
@esthernichols4451 4 жыл бұрын
Tony you so funny. "She went to the bank and stole all my money and left me with one cent"! 😂😂😂
@terry21651
@terry21651 4 жыл бұрын
This one man that I dated off and on in high school and now we are both decades older and I met him and he talked to me about his ex wife that he married instead of me...(Thank God). He tells me he gave her a house, car and what ever else the divorce papers said. He owned several homes that he sold to divide between them.Told me he owned vacation rental property that she borrowed against and he did not know it was already sold until the divorce. He said she forged him name. Then tells me yep she could just forge my name just like that. It was like he thought it was cute or something. Me thinking to myself,,,,that is a felony. I may have said that. He even told me that he would carry his paychecks around in his wallet for several pay periods because he was afraid to deposit them in the bank with the joint account anymore because she would deplete the account each pay period. So even one time he said he pulled up to gas pump on his way to work one morning to pump gas with his debit card and there was not enough money in the account to get it. He worked at Ford Motors at the time. When I ran into him he was just this old angry black man and not the same person I thought I knew when we were younger. He was the one who fathered children by other women as she could not have any. So he did bad things to her as well. I do not know why he told his story. I knew a lot of the real story about HIM. Everyday I thank God I was not his first choice.
@MsNaturralBeauty
@MsNaturralBeauty 3 жыл бұрын
He’s got me cracking up talking about he look like a “Doberman pincher we all look like dogs “ STOP IT Tony Gaskins Lmbooooo 😂😂🤣
@eyesofthesea8332
@eyesofthesea8332 4 жыл бұрын
You guys don’t look like siblings at all. You look great together
@CaramelKissez
@CaramelKissez 4 жыл бұрын
Whoever said it was definitely reaching!!
@wendy2630
@wendy2630 4 жыл бұрын
Amen they are a beautiful couple, and I don't think they look like siblings at all. Women would often say this to my ex husband and I and we definitely looked nothing alike 😒🤷‍♀️
@risingamerica
@risingamerica 4 жыл бұрын
This video couldn't explain how men & women need to heal any better. I MYSELF am still in the process of healing. I've been through a lot throughout most of my life. And thanks to your videos & insight through God's grace, I'm being informed and coached. While healing and gaining knowledge and wisdom. Thank you for the information. A God sent message!
@CaramelKissez
@CaramelKissez 4 жыл бұрын
God bless you
@dananewman6148
@dananewman6148 4 жыл бұрын
Haters gonna hate -> Thanks for every single thing you tell us L😍VE the Truth - Be BLESSED🤗
@leneakaandrews734
@leneakaandrews734 4 жыл бұрын
I LOVE that I have found you!! I like that I can hear a MAN'S side. II am a only child WOMAN and my past is REAL!! So to hear you say speak your side is food for thought! I SAY THANK YOU!!
@nicolettebutler5603
@nicolettebutler5603 4 жыл бұрын
I agree! Let a man's Character be his Currency !
@kamarokitchen9487
@kamarokitchen9487 4 жыл бұрын
I think when people say a couple looks like siblings they’re just saying you both have similar features. Those couples look good together they fit each other.. I don’t think they trying to insult you!! You both are attractive people so it definitely isn’t a insult!!
@talltangorgeous4287
@talltangorgeous4287 4 жыл бұрын
Punched in the eye 👁 just for having a eye took me out 😂😂🤣😂🤣🤣🤣
@AllThingsTiffanyTV
@AllThingsTiffanyTV 4 жыл бұрын
Exasberate idk what that mean but we gone use that today, okayyy. Vocab 😂😂😂😂😂
@lavanda445
@lavanda445 4 жыл бұрын
Tony I love u so much! 🤣 Not only have u helped me change my ways, but u give me a good laugh! 🤣🤣🤣
@enatihaok3594
@enatihaok3594 4 жыл бұрын
I came across the video & i've replayed it several times. What stood out was the "numbers"! The amounr of men "infected" by "unforgiveness"! That's what "we" as women are surrounded by, "Unforgiving, Unhealed, Devious Boys", When i say "Boy", im describing the thought process. As women you cannot afford to overlook the "SMALL THINGS"!!!! KEEP YOUR EYES OPEN!
@JIJII420
@JIJII420 4 жыл бұрын
Tony, some of us outside America can't become part of the blessed tribe because KZbin brings a blank page to it. It's been like this for a minute and I'm sure there so many ladies across the globe who'd love to be part of the tribe, be part of QnA and contribute to your ministry.... Love from Kenya.
@Silvia-jy8zc
@Silvia-jy8zc 4 жыл бұрын
My life experience is that the best looking men are the least intelligent, least skilled and treat you the worst. Their blown up ego from being popular in school due to their looks perpetuates throughout their lives and into adulthood. I’ve dated models and fitness athletes...and unfortunately they’re dumb and boring in the long run. 🤷🏻‍♀️
@zelloresharrison7035
@zelloresharrison7035 4 жыл бұрын
Omg Tony when you said basian...I I thought your were going to say he was black and Asian mannnnn I needed this laugh this morning 🤣🤣🤣
@zmcfadgen
@zmcfadgen 4 жыл бұрын
Me too!😂
@snax1234
@snax1234 3 жыл бұрын
Omg this is probably one of your best videos! Everything is spot on. Keep doing what you’re doing!!
@nikkyshamz2696
@nikkyshamz2696 4 жыл бұрын
You are very right Tony women have gone through far greater...
@Erica-et4ye
@Erica-et4ye 4 жыл бұрын
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾. Thank you Tony for doing God’s work! Be blessed.
@zedahicks
@zedahicks 4 жыл бұрын
I was raised to love a man for who he is not what he has cause he could lose that yet he is still the same man
@mssangel-lee1341
@mssangel-lee1341 3 жыл бұрын
OMGOODNESS 😱Thank You God Bless You Tony Gaskins you are a truly a blessing 🙏🏽
@Judith_daughteroftheKing
@Judith_daughteroftheKing 4 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU JESUS!!!! God bless you and your family... I appreciate you and your wife for standing up for what God created us for!!!
@denisejaydub
@denisejaydub 4 жыл бұрын
As a white/Puerto Rican girl from California I love your accent and how you say Puerto Rican!! I rewound a couple times to hear it!! 😄👏🏻👏🏻
@ThisIzKena
@ThisIzKena 4 жыл бұрын
I die er'time..😂😂😂🤦🏾‍♀️
@queenofhearts1138
@queenofhearts1138 4 жыл бұрын
Denise Williams how are you both white and Puerto Rican? Make it make sense Denise🙄
@missangel221
@missangel221 4 жыл бұрын
Queen ofHearts oh goodness. Well she ain’t black....... Perhaps her mother is white and that’s why she said that.
@Spiritandtruth4477
@Spiritandtruth4477 4 жыл бұрын
Queen ofHearts Puerto Rican is not a race. There are white PR and there are black PR. 🤦‍♀️
@frenchvanilla7109
@frenchvanilla7109 4 жыл бұрын
@@queenofhearts1138 I am also white Latina. Does this upset you? Latina is not a race it's an ethnicity.
@lauriemorgan4373
@lauriemorgan4373 4 жыл бұрын
The similar features you mentioned reflect the similarities. Saying you look like siblings is a compliment because you are a good-looking opposite of your wife. You simply match as a couple. Don't take it literally. I can see she's blessed to be with you. As well as, you are blessed to be with her.
@queenqueen4394
@queenqueen4394 4 жыл бұрын
I SEEN COUPLES THAT LOOK A LIKE...EVEN MY MOM AND DAD FEATURED EACH OTHER. WHEN I SEE COUPLES RESEMBLING...I TAKE IT THATS THEIR SOUL MATE! I THINK ICE CUBE & AND HIS WIFE FEATURES. I WILL MAKE SURE I NEVER SAY THIS TO YOU...NOW THAT I KNOW IT OFFENDS YOU. PEOPLE BE TOGETHER SO LONG THEY LOOK A LIKE.
@janedoe2299
@janedoe2299 4 жыл бұрын
I look like my ex he is my ex for a reason. Keep your eyes open
@dianagentile7636
@dianagentile7636 4 жыл бұрын
STAY BLESSED TONY‼️‼️‼️ Thank You 4 Addressing This Issue‼️ 🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️‼️
@creativelylsj856
@creativelylsj856 4 жыл бұрын
Truths! Let the chuuurch say Amen! Be blessed tribe!
@CaramelKissez
@CaramelKissez 4 жыл бұрын
👋🏼👋🏼👋🏼 Whatz good blessed tribe🍀
@coachingwithp
@coachingwithp 4 жыл бұрын
Heeeyyy
@Itchpls
@Itchpls 4 жыл бұрын
caramel kissez 👋
@nakooshaalbert8884
@nakooshaalbert8884 4 жыл бұрын
caramel kissez Hey hun!
@coachnatishamommatish144
@coachnatishamommatish144 4 жыл бұрын
HeyA😌💕
@brittneysworld6886
@brittneysworld6886 4 жыл бұрын
Hello ladies!!!
@kyeshiarobinson4470
@kyeshiarobinson4470 3 жыл бұрын
This video made me respect the hell out of tony! Frfr
@gino6658
@gino6658 4 жыл бұрын
So good you blocked that lady talking that mess 💪🏾 we don’t need that energy on here
@therealher_
@therealher_ 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for that insight TONY. I see it differently and I really Appreciate the feedback. GOD BLESS you and your family.
@miane5633
@miane5633 2 жыл бұрын
So how does a breakup affect a man????
Will his new relationship fail?
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