Can a man change after years of cheating? | Talks with Tony

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Tony Gaskins

Tony Gaskins

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@KrystleLaughter
@KrystleLaughter 3 жыл бұрын
My question is why do you even still want him? He’s for the streets.
@daniellefennell3877
@daniellefennell3877 3 жыл бұрын
the typical woman response is "because i love him"
@TakishaDanet
@TakishaDanet 3 жыл бұрын
Come on Krystle 👏🏾🙏🏾❤️
@s.r.125
@s.r.125 3 жыл бұрын
Right!
@lisaariottiart
@lisaariottiart 3 жыл бұрын
street meat -- throw him back
@fredajohnson506
@fredajohnson506 3 жыл бұрын
Smen its because she lonely
@deliteful1991
@deliteful1991 3 жыл бұрын
Cheating men have to want to stop cheating. It will take Divine 🙏🏽intervention and a professional. I’m neither of these. God bless sir.
@vy737
@vy737 3 жыл бұрын
😂❤
@brigriff23
@brigriff23 3 жыл бұрын
I think he can stop for the one he want but to work on a relationship w/ a cheating man is none Existent 🤷🏾‍♀️
@mymakersdaughter6041
@mymakersdaughter6041 3 жыл бұрын
Now, that’s nothing but the truth!
@relisbetrel
@relisbetrel 3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🗣🗣
@twiggyli1844
@twiggyli1844 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂 best comment so far!
@mal1075
@mal1075 3 жыл бұрын
From my experience: no. 😂😂 Left my cheating husband. Never been happier.
@denisedean8503
@denisedean8503 3 жыл бұрын
Amen Hallelujah happier and at peace. 🙏
@fredajohnson506
@fredajohnson506 3 жыл бұрын
Amen you know your worth
@Dr.Elaine1
@Dr.Elaine1 3 жыл бұрын
“Anytime, as a woman, when you’re not looking for anything with a man more than a friend and fun, you need a dog.” TG
@kellyellis6080
@kellyellis6080 3 жыл бұрын
🎯 100%! ( at least a dog can be loyal! )
@micheleprice9771
@micheleprice9771 3 жыл бұрын
@@kellyellis6080 Amen! SO RIGHT! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT!
@lisaariottiart
@lisaariottiart 3 жыл бұрын
🤣I can't ... this man is so full of truth ... only Tony can make the sad truth funny. Thank you Tony my 👀are wide!
@merinajalaya740
@merinajalaya740 3 жыл бұрын
And a dog she got. Him! If she just wants a friend and fun, she wasn't going attract a man that is serious.
@mymakersdaughter6041
@mymakersdaughter6041 3 жыл бұрын
@@drighalo87lovespellcaster92 Get off of this page! You are not wanted!!!
@kilimanjaro5537
@kilimanjaro5537 3 жыл бұрын
Cheating is the ultimate dealbreaker. That let’s me know that’s not my husband.
@cherylwheelock6950
@cherylwheelock6950 3 жыл бұрын
Amen girl!!
@deestevens2883
@deestevens2883 3 жыл бұрын
Fr!!
@NutsNBerries
@NutsNBerries 3 жыл бұрын
Indeed
@disnalee
@disnalee 3 жыл бұрын
If he is your husband, he never cheat on you regardless. If he love you he never cheat to hurt his love for you
@revathysembuganathan
@revathysembuganathan 3 жыл бұрын
A leopard never looses its spot. Most cheaters are serial cheaters, ya’all it’s actually a personality disorder, a character flaw. When they do it once and don’t come clean they’ll keep doing it again and again until you lost count on how many people or times they’ve done it. Cheating is just like addictions, they need to commit to a behaviour change program so they can develop their character. Ladies always remember your man is not a project and you ain’t his therapist/babysitter. Go for men who are raised well and can take ownership accountability for the choices they make. Above all we need to elevate ourselves so high that we stop attracting the backwater swines and peasants who bring nothing but soul crushing agony and pain. Tony thank you so much for the work you do, we need more men like you to continue speaking up.
@caramelfox4807
@caramelfox4807 3 жыл бұрын
This is spot on.
@montricec8795
@montricec8795 3 жыл бұрын
Perfectly said!
@patricemurray6412
@patricemurray6412 3 жыл бұрын
Hello! But the back water swines.🤣
@signedsealeddelivered2064
@signedsealeddelivered2064 3 жыл бұрын
This!
@revathysembuganathan
@revathysembuganathan 3 жыл бұрын
@@UniquelyVickie lol 😆
@Pinkdiamond12
@Pinkdiamond12 3 жыл бұрын
Once the guy has a baby with someone else. No way to come back from that.
@sadiefrazier9314
@sadiefrazier9314 3 жыл бұрын
Amen
@nataliet.3023
@nataliet.3023 3 жыл бұрын
Right! We not even about to talk about the weather.
@fredajohnson506
@fredajohnson506 3 жыл бұрын
Amen its don't have get that far cheating is bad enough
@redzmac3847
@redzmac3847 3 жыл бұрын
Tthiisss....like NO!! Hell NO! Lol
@LadyAngela678
@LadyAngela678 3 жыл бұрын
He might be faithful one day. But not to her. She needs to go on about her business.
@kishiamay3478
@kishiamay3478 3 жыл бұрын
Tony you ain’t lying when the side chick calls the main chick it’s because she’s caught him with others. Yes I was the wife that got that call!!!!
@trinap.8904
@trinap.8904 3 жыл бұрын
How did you handle that situation?
@patricemurray6412
@patricemurray6412 3 жыл бұрын
He should be ashamed of himself! Smh😑
@clarkclarke5321
@clarkclarke5321 3 жыл бұрын
Happened with one of my friends...she was living with the guy ..they had 3 kids ...he was still living with my friend when the other woman call to tell my friend ...that they (him and her) were getting married ...she wished them well ...the woman was shocked....
@eerynessential
@eerynessential 3 жыл бұрын
@@clarkclarke5321 yess!!! Love this comment..cuz little GIRLS do this then be shocked at an answer like that...
@eerynessential
@eerynessential 3 жыл бұрын
@@patricemurray6412 they have demons living inside them...THEY ARE NOT ASHAMED...
@candace9560
@candace9560 3 жыл бұрын
The side chick will call you and talk bad about him only to be with him when you finally decide to leave lol. Let her have him and enjoy your stress free life.
@stephanietinoco1565
@stephanietinoco1565 3 жыл бұрын
“Babe go on bout yo business “🤣🤣🤣
@Lifeofalishaa
@Lifeofalishaa 3 жыл бұрын
😂
@jamma3789
@jamma3789 3 жыл бұрын
Men that do not love you do not find you more attractive when you’re pregnant ! 🤰🏾👽 Such a great point and a common misconception among young women.
@angelhampton4365
@angelhampton4365 Жыл бұрын
Big facts
@cherh
@cherh 3 жыл бұрын
He must need a place to stay...leave him where he's at sis
@cherh
@cherh 3 жыл бұрын
@@egyptnz27 😄
@Loyaltyisalifestyle
@Loyaltyisalifestyle 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@cherh
@cherh 3 жыл бұрын
@A Raymond sis he ain't changed lol
@cherh
@cherh 3 жыл бұрын
@@Loyaltyisalifestyle 😁🙃
@cherh
@cherh 3 жыл бұрын
@A Raymond and that should be a huge red flag to women. If he's not stable he's not ready to be in a relationship
@CrazyCandy5
@CrazyCandy5 3 жыл бұрын
In my experience they don't change. Its a vicious cycle. Walk away and never look back.
@jussjess2829
@jussjess2829 3 жыл бұрын
Tony ain’t lying.. i’m 36 and I was talking to a 26yr old who was trying to holler at me. In one conversation he called me an old head” I snapped out of it so fast and came all the way to my senses smdh. Tony already tried to tell me.
@eerynessential
@eerynessential 3 жыл бұрын
That was Highly Disrespectful of him, but Narcs operate that way!! He was devaluing you...& 36 isn't old..nor is someone in their 50s...Like Wow!!!
@kaseywiggins102
@kaseywiggins102 3 жыл бұрын
the “i snapped out of it so fast” was hilarious 😂😂😂😆
@TheTouchofklass
@TheTouchofklass 3 жыл бұрын
I don’t believe that cheating men can change. Zebras don’t change their stripes and “old habits die hard”. A person has to be willing to admit that their cheating habits have caused destruction to others and want to do better. Unfortunately, some people don’t care and don’t see anything wrong with their destructive habits.
@breewelch5982
@breewelch5982 3 жыл бұрын
This type of man changing is possible however not likely based on where he is. Jesus has to wash him! Point blank perioodd.
@diamondgold5277
@diamondgold5277 3 жыл бұрын
Or his Wang Wang dies out 🤣😂
@neglibre6916
@neglibre6916 3 жыл бұрын
Period, lol. Hi!
@amandarecoveryjones8216
@amandarecoveryjones8216 3 жыл бұрын
Yes girl
@patricemurray6412
@patricemurray6412 3 жыл бұрын
For Real!
@EdemAf
@EdemAf 3 жыл бұрын
Yes! Amen
@maryt7959
@maryt7959 3 жыл бұрын
No . Period. If this is a habit for manny years with a huge ego , the answer is NO .
@a.m.7135
@a.m.7135 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, like Mr. Wonderful, Donald Trump. Lol
@AngeLola1003
@AngeLola1003 3 жыл бұрын
How about dealing with a 52 yr. old liar and cheater. It’s ridiculous! I’m over it.
@andreawilliams3536
@andreawilliams3536 3 жыл бұрын
Sounds so familiar. I feel your pain
@lovedavis9572
@lovedavis9572 3 жыл бұрын
Toney s FACE when his wife was @ the door.. and came back the second time😂😂😂😂
@justliss1827
@justliss1827 3 жыл бұрын
Tony really Loves Sheri. He can't even focus and smiles when she comes in his office. 😂. Great couple! I love it!
@mayasheartdesiire
@mayasheartdesiire 3 жыл бұрын
A lot of ppl at 19 ain’t experienced much in life and still have years ahead of them to live and learn compared to a 26 year old.
@letrice2892
@letrice2892 3 жыл бұрын
True to some degree some ppl have age and experienced yet continue to make the same dumb decisions sadly
@fredajohnson506
@fredajohnson506 3 жыл бұрын
Amen
@tarrybowen4723
@tarrybowen4723 3 жыл бұрын
“He like the salt bae , just sprinkling bacteria all over you “🤣🤣 with the hand movements hahahah !!! I’m finished 🤧🤣
@stargoldqueen5894
@stargoldqueen5894 3 жыл бұрын
I know right? 😄 he was trying to get his point across though.
@amandarecoveryjones8216
@amandarecoveryjones8216 3 жыл бұрын
🤣😅😅😅😅
@deestevens2883
@deestevens2883 3 жыл бұрын
Nasty, nasty.... 😂😂🤣🤣😅
@Khadijah_respectfully
@Khadijah_respectfully 3 жыл бұрын
Dfl
@stargoldqueen5894
@stargoldqueen5894 3 жыл бұрын
@@Khadijah_respectfully😄 that's a new one for me.
@pooh4025
@pooh4025 3 жыл бұрын
He saw the word "Nursing Career " and jumped on her before anyone else could get with her .
@helena3631
@helena3631 3 жыл бұрын
listen I am a RN for almost a decade ..i see this from a mile coming...these men never going to totally discard their meal ticket ..they will try to find ways to play you if you let them..the information is out there so any nurse thats falling for this is deluisional..most nurses i have worked with they man a waste man and not a provider and thats from white,black,philopino,spanish etc....dont get fooled by all these nurses getting married and engaged yall do not know the real story 9/10 its bad...I have seen nurses bring themselves to work meanwhile they husband home and unemployed and he cant even drive them or pick them up..Nurses really be going down bad from the outside it looks good but its a lot of smoke and mirrors
@stilljocelyn4166
@stilljocelyn4166 3 жыл бұрын
Gambling and cheating... sis he ain’t the one.
@CarmenLifeCoach
@CarmenLifeCoach 3 жыл бұрын
Always sad and tough situations when grown boys convince women to fall (in love) but they are not there to catch them and then the woman has to go through years of suffering for either not paying enough attention to the red flags, or simply for wanting to believe in love more than in anything else. Ladies, as Tony once said, in the court of love nothing is true until proven beyond any reasonable doubt.
@stephthecreative6312
@stephthecreative6312 3 жыл бұрын
😔🥺🥺
@angelhampton4365
@angelhampton4365 Жыл бұрын
You can't convince someone to continue something... Women need to love themselves and use better discernment. There's no excuse to be uninformed in 2023
@Jusleen0403
@Jusleen0403 3 жыл бұрын
I LOVE WHEN MRS. GASKIN BOTHERS YOU WHEN YOUR MAKING YOUR VIDEOS. IT IS THE CUTEST THING EVER! 😂😂😂😂
@misstd158
@misstd158 3 жыл бұрын
Mines was 15 years younger he was a great provider he was cheating well I have never caught him cheating though I know he has throughout our whole relationship he's was just good at hiding it I've grown and evolved as years have gone on I'm a registered nurse he was a pain in the ass he was competing with my children for my attention and affection I wouldn't recommend any woman date a younger man it's like having another child
@javonne2561
@javonne2561 3 жыл бұрын
This story went from bad to worse..
@godhasthefinalsay3383
@godhasthefinalsay3383 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@Kassielynette
@Kassielynette 3 жыл бұрын
Tony, thank you for speaking on this topic. I have a son with someone who did not love me, and everything you said about that was the absolute truth. I have learned so much from this channel the past year which has been a blessing to my life. I left my son’s father, started to most importantly love myself and my son, bought a home, and is focusing on us. I cannot thank you and your wife enough for your influence in my life.
@womanofgod2948
@womanofgod2948 3 жыл бұрын
Well done Sis! I don't know you, but I'm so proud of you. 😊
@Kassielynette
@Kassielynette 3 жыл бұрын
@@womanofgod2948 Thank you so much! It means so much to me. I hope you have a blessed day 😊
@mymakersdaughter6041
@mymakersdaughter6041 3 жыл бұрын
Get it girl👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾!!
@Kassielynette
@Kassielynette 3 жыл бұрын
@@mymakersdaughter6041 Thank you so much for the kind words ☺️
@mymakersdaughter6041
@mymakersdaughter6041 3 жыл бұрын
@@Kassielynette You are very welcome and you are beautiful!!!
@kishiamay3478
@kishiamay3478 3 жыл бұрын
Some of y’all husband got a pacifier In his mouth and his mama similac around his mouth lmbo.. Btw Hope you enjoyed your Birthday 🎂
@pauletteadams4344
@pauletteadams4344 3 жыл бұрын
My male cousin, who has had two wives, and a baby's mother told me that he was disgusted by the process of pregnancy, I was HORRIFIED because he was serious! He cheated on both his wives, and the baby mama. They (the wives) would call, visit and cry to us (the family) about him. He wouldn't listen to us. He is now single and still has the same views. He is a superficial Narcissist. SMH :( IMO, Cheating is the ULTIMATE sign of disrespect. He'll say one thing, gaslight you (tell you what you want to hear-it wasn't like that, she didn't mean nothing, it was just sex or whatever). It will happen again. IMO Tony tells it like it truly is.
@Destinee36
@Destinee36 3 жыл бұрын
I thought he was about to take the whole month off 😂😂I started rewatching videos!
@theinfamousninapink
@theinfamousninapink 3 жыл бұрын
😂 I was like I know it’s his bday but I need a video lol
@brittanyrenee3291
@brittanyrenee3291 3 жыл бұрын
Me too sis 😂
@s.r.125
@s.r.125 3 жыл бұрын
Same here 🤣🤣
@GoodGrief101
@GoodGrief101 3 жыл бұрын
That’s a lot! I would just take the lesson and move on. To much D serving the community.
@DarraCherieTV
@DarraCherieTV 3 жыл бұрын
I haven’t even watched yet and the answer is no! Lol they might change later on in life ...maybe when they truly give they life to Christ or something. Idk
@mymakersdaughter6041
@mymakersdaughter6041 3 жыл бұрын
My grown ex boy has Christ in his life and he still cheated. Maybe when he truly surrenders his life to Christ. I didn’t stick around to wonder if that would happen. I’m good!
@tiffineyena7001
@tiffineyena7001 3 жыл бұрын
Tony did u say GONT-torrhea? Lol!😆🤣 Boy u crazy! Happy belated birthday.
@laj4186
@laj4186 3 жыл бұрын
Lesson for all the ladies. You can't do what men do. You can't just have fun. You will get caught up and like this woman, 11 years later still be caught up. DO NOT have children until you're married!
@zeldapolk1980
@zeldapolk1980 3 жыл бұрын
And even marriage doesn’t guarantee. Just makes sure you choose wisely and don’t rely on potential.
@ieshjust16
@ieshjust16 2 жыл бұрын
@@zeldapolk1980 she never said marriage was guaranteed yall love clapping back with that tired line
@kristinaherrejon7181
@kristinaherrejon7181 3 жыл бұрын
I love how Tony adds an extra ‘t’ to certain words. You rock Tony.
@cherh
@cherh 3 жыл бұрын
"You need a dog" HOLLERING!!! 😂😂😂
@cherh
@cherh 3 жыл бұрын
@@charmariah4766 😁
@mymakersdaughter6041
@mymakersdaughter6041 3 жыл бұрын
Me too🤣🤣🤣
@cherh
@cherh 3 жыл бұрын
@@mymakersdaughter6041 too funny! Lol
@Amorantasia1
@Amorantasia1 3 жыл бұрын
Tony can you talk about 30+ yr olds dating, waiting for marriage for sex and the realistic nature of most men who won’t marry without “sampling” I’ve watched your previous two videos years ago but dating in the roaring 20s is horrible for Christian women 😖
@briistheone
@briistheone 3 жыл бұрын
Hello 👋
@pooh4025
@pooh4025 3 жыл бұрын
It's no better in the 40's either .
@trinap.8904
@trinap.8904 3 жыл бұрын
Do not lower your standards. Don't create unholy soul ties; cause you will waste years of "soul capital." Only God can uproot soul ties, but sis you gonna go thru it before u can heal. Your body is God's temple, but it's your choice to defile it. Maintain your standards.
@deliteful1991
@deliteful1991 3 жыл бұрын
@@trinap.8904 exactly. Those soul ties of users and abusers aren’t worth it.
@lisaariottiart
@lisaariottiart 3 жыл бұрын
not any better in 50's ... please head these women's comments on soul ties
@janetday5431
@janetday5431 3 жыл бұрын
This man is so raw and real,I m laughing my ass off. He is truly in a league of his on.please Tony don't ever change. You make my nights less lonely. Trying to live Holy. Thank you Sincerely.
@mjatalent3426
@mjatalent3426 3 жыл бұрын
No one has ever ASKED how to 💯 % bulletproof your Relationship as MUCH as possible BEFORE you even get into one. I'm 23. Waiting on marriage. I don't want to have to wait until something happens to call in. I want to make SURE I'm getting a real quality man worth my time BEFORE he actually comes along
@HeEmpressMe
@HeEmpressMe 3 жыл бұрын
The smile Mrs. Gaskins gives you! 🤩🤩
@vchild
@vchild 3 жыл бұрын
I pooped during my delivery that must be why my ex hubby cheated on me! I get it. Oh well, good riddance.
@missmarymack3457
@missmarymack3457 3 жыл бұрын
Happy Belated birthday brother in Christ!!! You have no idea how God is using you in helping me with developing and growing!! What you’re doing is God sent and GOD FELT!! God bless you and the family❤️
@emilymyles9424
@emilymyles9424 3 жыл бұрын
And she said in the email his gambling has decreased instead of HE HAS TOTALLY QUIT GAMBLING
@helena3631
@helena3631 3 жыл бұрын
She is living at work working those 12 hour shifts 5+ days a week to recoup the money..she is his bankroll for gambling..many nurses I have worked with have spouses that gamble ..how you gambling and you are unemployed and not independantly wealthly its because they stay working OT to pay for the debt because the guy asks to be on their account because they live together and he swipes that debit card like a NYC meterocard ..Nurses make good money but they live check to check it is really bad.
@nataliet.3023
@nataliet.3023 3 жыл бұрын
One of the most important issues here, is the fact he has had a child with somebody else. That a lone should be her ticket to want to be out. That's A LOT to have to take on. And if she doesn't check her heart she's going to have such ill feelings toward that child with or without that man. No matter if he says, he wanted that child or not. That child did not ask to be here or choose to be here.
@amiejobe7010
@amiejobe7010 3 жыл бұрын
I was married to a cheater and one of the ladies he was cheating with called me to explain! It’s in I’ll have to make a topic on it. Thank you for your beautiful work 🙏🏿🙏🏿
@lynncarnegievogl8220
@lynncarnegievogl8220 3 жыл бұрын
You are so right in that after what I thought was my ex's first affair, there was actually around 30 women over 15 years. Even after we broke up, he kept cheating on whatever woman he was with. He has a lot of childhood trauma to deal with, is weak-minded, passive-aggressive, and has no boundaries. I wish him well but I don't think he will ever change.
@celinewilliam8267
@celinewilliam8267 3 жыл бұрын
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@celinewilliam8267
@celinewilliam8267 3 жыл бұрын
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@celinewilliam8267 3 жыл бұрын
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@ms.whitt888
@ms.whitt888 3 жыл бұрын
I understand what Mr. Tony Gaskins is saying but most people when it comes to mental health, People make money excuses and believe mental health is not a real thing but it is just because they can't physically see it on you.
@helenlovell8587
@helenlovell8587 3 жыл бұрын
When Tony makes those spitting sounds I LITERALLY feel it! Such a storyteller our Tony😂😂
@fayesmith4751
@fayesmith4751 3 жыл бұрын
Happy Belated birthday Tony Gaskins! I hope you had a great time, mine is coming up next week will be 52 years young, thanks for all you do, you are truly blessed!
@micheleprice9771
@micheleprice9771 3 жыл бұрын
HAPPY BLESSED B DAY AND MANY MORE BLESSINGS TO COME YR WAY IN YR LIFE! STAY STRONG! STAY POSITIVE! ALWAYS KEEP GOD FIRST IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW! PRAY OFTEN AND DAILY FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW! PEACE AND HARMONY TO EVERYONE IN THE WORLD RIGHT NOW! AND PRAY FOR EVERYONE IN THE WORLD RIGHT NOW! GOD IS ALWAYS WITH U! GOD WILL SEE U THRU ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW! SMILE ALWAYS! LET YR LIGHT 4EVER SHINE BRIGHT! GOD BLESS US ALL! GOD LOVES US ALL!
@fayesmith4751
@fayesmith4751 3 жыл бұрын
@@micheleprice9771 Amen!
@prkzoomin6994
@prkzoomin6994 3 жыл бұрын
A Good Quote, Don't stress over anything that you can't change
@CaliOG2022
@CaliOG2022 3 жыл бұрын
She wants your attention. Y’all so cute🥰
@stephanietinoco1565
@stephanietinoco1565 3 жыл бұрын
First comment. Glad you’re back!
@InTheRecoveryRoom
@InTheRecoveryRoom 3 жыл бұрын
HAPPY BELATED BIRTHDAY - MR.G!!!!!!!!!!!!- those of us whose life you’ve changed ... Appreciate U.... also sending good vibes to ur beautiful wife ..
@tanyahaiman7017
@tanyahaiman7017 3 жыл бұрын
Solid solid solid advise! I hope she hears him. I went through a similar situation and it almost destroyed me. I sure wish I had some one talk to me like this back then. Be blessed and guard your heart.
@amandarecoveryjones8216
@amandarecoveryjones8216 3 жыл бұрын
"if you stand for nothing, you will fall for it all" - that's in regard to her not looking for nothin in the beginning but just taking him for the fun. Yes, we need to get a dog or a Barbie jeep perhaps.
@sheilazimmerman3905
@sheilazimmerman3905 3 жыл бұрын
Sis, please don’t have another child with this man until you know beyond a shadow of a doubt, and he had done the work. Honestly no sex at all, he mans up and does the work...with a ring to follow. He needs to be all in! Know your worth, and love yourself....God will help you. Blessings Tony, another needed video🌸
@cemplygloria6261
@cemplygloria6261 3 жыл бұрын
I am a coach on that website Tony mentioned.
@VintageAfro91
@VintageAfro91 3 жыл бұрын
Years of cheating??? No way!!! My motto has always been, “you can cheat if you want, but do not expect me to stay.” 🖐🏾🙄
@kilimanjaro5537
@kilimanjaro5537 3 жыл бұрын
“Here go a cookie,” 😂😂😂.
@jadew9177
@jadew9177 3 жыл бұрын
People can change. Tony has stated that he changed as well, it’s possible!
@fredajohnson506
@fredajohnson506 3 жыл бұрын
Amen but Tony surrender his life to God That's what its going take for any man that has a addiction to anything
@jadew9177
@jadew9177 3 жыл бұрын
@@fredajohnson506 I’m aware, that’s why I made my initial comment. Thanks
@90charim
@90charim Жыл бұрын
he didn’t express that for ppl to be accepting of it though! Lol
@jadew9177
@jadew9177 Жыл бұрын
@@90charim Your own discernment
@love7loyalty-MHA
@love7loyalty-MHA 3 жыл бұрын
Uncle Tony is baaazzzzzzaaackkkk!!
@tarynboullear
@tarynboullear 3 жыл бұрын
Wow, could this message have come any sooner ... My husband wants another chance to make things right, after years of cheating on me 😔 throughout our entire relationship (4 years) claiming he has changed.
@mileyroe4877
@mileyroe4877 3 жыл бұрын
Stay strong sis, let the Lord guide you in making the right decision. Hugs
@tarynboullear
@tarynboullear 3 жыл бұрын
@@mileyroe4877 thank you.
@NurseBaeWhit
@NurseBaeWhit 3 жыл бұрын
I know this all too well, God bless you ❤️❤️. Pray about it!!!
@nattysessentialsllc2044
@nattysessentialsllc2044 3 жыл бұрын
Happy birthday!! 🎁 Tony: “Get on outta here.” Wife keeps talking.... Tony: Get on outta here lost my point.. Wife: and spit in ya face...😂🤣😂🤣😂 Mrs. Gaskins was right on point!😂 You two are so funny..
@pat4eva09
@pat4eva09 3 жыл бұрын
TONY!!!! 😂 "Pregnancy is not cute, it look like an alien in your stomach.." Awwww heck noooo. Now I'm neverrrrr getting pregnant!!!! I'm sooo shooketh!!! I'm dying over here. 😩😂
@marciahill6659
@marciahill6659 3 жыл бұрын
Listen sis Tony is giving you the wisdom and knowledge. Walk away run and never go back.
@celinewilliam8267
@celinewilliam8267 3 жыл бұрын
Hi friend, do you really need help to recover your relationship by and make your ex stop cheating on you?????????????
@celinewilliam8267
@celinewilliam8267 3 жыл бұрын
Let me recommend you to someone called baba Eseohe that helped me recover my relationship and make my ex stop cheating on me. He can definitely help you also ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@celinewilliam8267
@celinewilliam8267 3 жыл бұрын
Whatzap him now for help..............
@celinewilliam8267
@celinewilliam8267 3 жыл бұрын
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@celinewilliam8267
@celinewilliam8267 3 жыл бұрын
+2348084023955.
@teresahargrow6750
@teresahargrow6750 3 жыл бұрын
She sounds like a fool... This what happens when you turn a situationship into a relationship.
@Juju-gf3iq
@Juju-gf3iq 3 жыл бұрын
Tony so right.. that childbirth and postpartum period is very vulnerable time.. I felt this whole message. Tony so funny. Always speaking the truth..
@ieshjust16
@ieshjust16 2 жыл бұрын
This is prophetic! wish I knew about Tony sooner but better late than never. You spoke so much to my life and my current situation. Truly doing the Lord's work. God bless ❤
@afrozeahmed6515
@afrozeahmed6515 3 жыл бұрын
What a great video!I feel sad for the lady in question-she wants to feel that all those years and her suffering is worth it.Thats why shes still asking these questions.I love hearing how you changed things up for yourself!!!Inspires me so much!The kind of man I want is interested in making changes and watching courses/reading or listening to books to revolutionize himself!We not going backwards in life.We moving forward with only the best in myself and whoever else
@TlangiBaloyi
@TlangiBaloyi 3 жыл бұрын
Mr Gaskins is back!! 💃🏾. We appreciate the advice and your time as always 🙏🏾✨.
@micheleprice9771
@micheleprice9771 3 жыл бұрын
AMEN! HALLAJUAUH! SO RIGHT! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT!
@lynnestuart9796
@lynnestuart9796 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Tony for this balanced and wise advice! I appreciate it not always being 'gone bout yo business' across the board, but giving men a fair chance to change -but only if they are willing to do the work.
@micheleprice9771
@micheleprice9771 3 жыл бұрын
AMEN! HALLELUJAH! SO RIGHT! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT!
@rosav882
@rosav882 3 жыл бұрын
TG your videos are very educational and motivating! But you are FUNNY on a whole different level!!! Never a dull moment...🤣🤣🤣🤣
@Destinee36
@Destinee36 3 жыл бұрын
That line about “old heads” stung me and I’m 33😂😂 !
@christinewarren8134
@christinewarren8134 3 жыл бұрын
Hey Tony yes 1984 best year ever. I'll be 37 this year as well.
@Arizona_lilly
@Arizona_lilly 3 жыл бұрын
He's changed and has a new slate w the next woman.... Not u
@lneal2800
@lneal2800 3 жыл бұрын
Hey!Toni this is a good one! Be blessed!🙏🏽 "it's a Bad Habit" so if they have been cheating for so long: (No) only if they want to be changed and God is the only one that can change that!
@denisemyers733
@denisemyers733 3 жыл бұрын
Highly unlikely a cheating man to stop. Especially if ego is involved! Girl go on about your business.
@ZfenProductions
@ZfenProductions 3 жыл бұрын
Tonyyyyyyyyyyy boooooy we missed u brother. Happy belated bday.
@spiritcloud5883
@spiritcloud5883 3 жыл бұрын
My husband told me in the hospital after I gave birth, “you still look pregnant”. My life from there was hell, which includes prostitutes, family members, STDs, sister wives, transgenders, drugs and more, am thinking about writing a book, unbelievable!!!’
@ieshjust16
@ieshjust16 2 жыл бұрын
My lord 😟
@brittanyb5942
@brittanyb5942 3 жыл бұрын
That's so sad that men, well boys, I guess see pregnancy as gross when it took two to tango. But it is true bc my son's father said he couldn't have sex with me after he saw all the blood from my c section. Needless to say he was a "boy" and had been cheating on me anyway 🤷🏾‍♀️
@CoachLove
@CoachLove 3 жыл бұрын
Sis, please go get your peace away from this troubled guy before you get more than a phone call. Most women see pregnancy as beautiful. I never knew some men, who see that sacrifice, see it as unappealing. Thanks for that insight.
@LP-ey7zj
@LP-ey7zj 3 жыл бұрын
I just came across this man today. He's Honest. That's refreshing.
@RestorativeClarity
@RestorativeClarity 3 жыл бұрын
I feel like we need another video with Sheri’s insight :)
@Yeshuaseekinggirl
@Yeshuaseekinggirl 3 жыл бұрын
To anyone reading this and willing - please pray for me and my young son.. I’m walking through the darkest season of my life. A “man of God” convinced me he was going to marry me, to leave a job I can’t go back to, and to move out of state to his state... and then dumped me. I don’t know where I’m going to live, I don’t have much family.. and I’m struggling with a broken heart and crushed spirit ... please pray for me
@micheleprice9771
@micheleprice9771 3 жыл бұрын
KEEP GOD FIRST IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW! HOLD ON TIGHT WITH ALL YR MIGHT! U GOT IT RIGHT! GOD IS ALWAYS WITH U AND YR SON! GOD WILL SEE U THRU ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW! GOD WILL NEVER LEAVE U NOR FORSAKE U!( AND YR SON)GOD IS WORKIN IT OUT! PRAY OFTEN AND DAILY TO GOD! AND TELL HIM ALL ABOUT IT ! GOD HEARS YR PRAYERS! KEEP YR FAITH IN GOD ALMIGHTY! KEEP YR JOY AND TRUST IN GOD! STAY STRONG! STAY CALM! STAY POSITIVE! SMILE ALWAYS! ( EVEN WHEN U ARE GOING THRU THIS STORM, THIS TO SHALL PASS) LET YR LIGHT 4EVER SHINE BRIGHT! GOD BLESS US ALL! GOD LOVES US ALL! PRAY OFTEN AND DAILY FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW! PEACE AND HARMONY TO EVERYONE IN THE WORLD RIGHT NOW! AND PRAY FOR EVERYONE IN THE WORLD RIGHT NOW! WHEN GOD IS IN YR LIFE EVERYTHING WILL BE ALRIGHT!
@mesozoicperiodvlogs8323
@mesozoicperiodvlogs8323 3 жыл бұрын
I am praying for you sis.. god is going to take care of you.
@lindaanthony6008
@lindaanthony6008 3 жыл бұрын
Praying for you🙏🙏
@micheleprice9771
@micheleprice9771 3 жыл бұрын
@@mesozoicperiodvlogs8323 AMEN! SO RIGHT! YES INDEED! GOD IS WORKIN IT OUT! GOD ANSWERS PRAYERS! HOLD ON TO GOD ALWAYS! GOD WILL NEVER LEAVE U NOR FORSAKE U! GOD IS ALWAYS WITH U THRU ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW! PRAY OFTEN AND DAILY TO GOD ALMIGHTY! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT!
@micheleprice9771
@micheleprice9771 3 жыл бұрын
@@lindaanthony6008 Amen! So RIGHT! Yes INDEED! KEEP GOD FIRST IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW! ALWAYS! PRAY TO GOD OFTEN AND DAILY! GOD WILL SEE U THRU ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW! GOD BLESS US ALL! GOD LOVES US ALL! PEACE AND HARMONY TO EVERYONE IN THE WORLD RIGHT NOW!
@janetday5431
@janetday5431 3 жыл бұрын
She's lost ,she's needs counseling of every kind, for her child. He needs a whole human being raising him. Please put your child's needs before your own. Give him a chance to grow up normal,and well adjusted. Please don't take that worthless individual back. Wise up!
@katiie7
@katiie7 3 жыл бұрын
OMG. I started dating a guy who was 19 when I was 22.. i left him the day I found out he was sexting other girls. He’s wanted me back every year. He’s now 27 & I’m 30.. talking to me daily for 6 months. He was talking about a future etc. Soon as I was like I need to be making some big life decisions soon what do you want? “I found out I’m going to be a dad idk what I’m going to do” I had a DREAM like the first time that another girl was involved. But after he said that my dream showed that he actually had a girlfriend. Haven’t went on Facebook for years. Went on that morning I woke up.. bam had a girlfriend! Who was a lot older than me!! With 3 kids previously looks like from different men. Nightmare became reality too but luckily I’ve got God watching out for me. Those dreams that feel more real than reality.. LISTEN to them. I feel for this girl. Crazy the parallel of the ages, I’m in health care etc. To be fair he has his career and house together at a young age. But Man! this makes me look at things in a new way. Needed this🤍 this all JUST happened past 2 weeks. Come from a pure place & God will have your back. He kept telling me I’ve really grown up😅. Boy you’re about to now. Lady gonna be in menopause in 13 years, 4 kids now. Karma
@susanntillzxo3626
@susanntillzxo3626 3 жыл бұрын
Yes, dreams are a real sign. I’ve been having dreams in the past years about my ex still being connected to his ex wife. I ignored all those signs and my intuition. It wasn’t until the start of this year I really listened to them, I had a dream they were still together and sure enough.... they were.
@katiie7
@katiie7 3 жыл бұрын
@@susanntillzxo3626 they’re so unbelievably helpful. You must be a decent person if you’re being shown those things to help yourself get into a better situation 🤍
@Ashley-rb7ov
@Ashley-rb7ov 3 жыл бұрын
We have missed you!!
@Dearest_Kenyetta
@Dearest_Kenyetta 3 жыл бұрын
I know Tony says that he is not a comedian...but he is hilarious! "Dat dere placenta"....had me rollin! On a serious note, we need to practice the art of walking away when we are not valued. I don't know if it's so important that others see our worth, as much as it is important that we should see our own worth. The inability for one to see worth in a priceless diamond is not a slight to the diamond...it's the fault of the one who failed to see it. But the diamond doesn't lose it's worth just because one doesn't see it...only if the diamond forgets who she is does she lose it, because somewhere along the way, she believed a lie. We have to remember why we were created. For GOD"s glory!!! If Jesus thought you were worth dying for...you're worth something...don't forget that. True love from The Father is really the only thing that can remove fear of being alone and tendency to be a willing participant in cycles that cause us pain. We really need to receive our Father's love so we can be made whole. Sit at his feet like Mary did.
@ShaniquaGarvin
@ShaniquaGarvin 3 жыл бұрын
Not salt bae 😂😩 I spit out my drink.
@christinedesigns1796
@christinedesigns1796 3 жыл бұрын
Tony thank you for sharing. You are truly a gifted man doing God’s work. I like your analogies to make even the simplest thinker understand. God Bless you and your family. Tony you helped me got over my pass relationship and now I am engaged to be married to a mature God fearing man. Keep doing God’s work Tony. Be Bless
@deliteful1991
@deliteful1991 3 жыл бұрын
Congratulations to you both 🎉🍾🎊
@joycelynruffin2373
@joycelynruffin2373 3 жыл бұрын
Happy belated birthday Once a man is a cheater He will always be a cheater move on with your life he will never change run
@sltpgh1
@sltpgh1 3 жыл бұрын
Be blessed in this new year of life God has given you! Thank you for letting your light shine keeping us educated and growing.
@micheleprice9771
@micheleprice9771 3 жыл бұрын
AMEN! SO RIGHT! YES INDEED ! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT!
@Loveyr4ever
@Loveyr4ever 3 жыл бұрын
I think age may slow him down. Once he gets to a certain age, his options become limited. Needless to say, it also depends on his overall mental, physical, emotional and even financial well being.
@meghanmarshall6687
@meghanmarshall6687 3 жыл бұрын
I’ll I want to do is watch Tony Gaskin!!!
@missmarymack3457
@missmarymack3457 3 жыл бұрын
Me too!! I binge watch like I’m watching Netflix🤦‍♀️
@meghanmarshall6687
@meghanmarshall6687 3 жыл бұрын
@@missmarymack3457 same!!!!
@traceereimer7177
@traceereimer7177 Жыл бұрын
I was cheating on after being married to a man in which I knew when we started our serious relationship of 28 years, I had one daughter with him, while upgrading my nursing career, he got addicted to every addictions. Cheating, cocaine, gambling, drinking, and friends. I got sick with cancer, we became grandparents, I had to quit school due to my life spiraling out of control. He basically wanted me to stay married but he could do whatever. Wouldn't divorce me, so I had to divide and divorce him. I tried very hard to please him, because of the equity that we accumulated together. He didn't change. I was left to my own devices. He overspent, in every way. Now he wants me back and wants to now change his ways.
@WildflowerDee
@WildflowerDee 3 жыл бұрын
THIS IS WHAT I NEEDED!!! You had me laughing the ENTIRE time but keeping it real at the same time. Thank You Tony ✨
@thefavorfactor
@thefavorfactor 3 жыл бұрын
when your wife walked in talking bout dude spitting in the face @ 🤣🤣🤣🤣!!!!
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