Tony Argues With Carmela - The Sopranos HD

Tony Asks Carmela What She Expected From Their Marriage, The Sopranos HD

[@RomanIvanov-id4wk]

The way Tony said 'poor you,' just like his mother used to, is a perfect little detail that indicates how much of his mother's behavior he actually inherited as he aged

[@Persopersonalita]

yes, very allegorical.

[@redrum47]

@@Persopersonalita sacred and propane

[@KRS2000]

He also said it to AJ when him and Carmela had that meeting with AJ and his doctor after AJs failed suicide attempt. "Aww, poor you. You're a mama's boy."

[@bardy8639]

@@KRS2000If I remember correctly he also said the same thing to Carmela when they got into an argument after AJ’s attempt

[@KRS2000]

@@bardy8639 I just commented a moment ago about this very scene. Oops, lol. If my other comment shows up, disregard it.

[@hlf_coder6272]

Pretty intense acting on Edie’s part when Tony goes to punch. That’s the exact reaction and facial expression someone would instinctually make.

[@ashluna4974]

Him punching the wall wasn’t in the script so it was a genuine reaction

[@jlongobardy1612]

Yes. That intereaction and her corresponding facial expression has always struck me too as the salient moment within a scene brimming with first-class acting (by the phantoms of Jimmy Tuffi and Dicky Multisante) and very strong supportive work by Tony and Carm).

[@Ar1AnX1x]

damn I just commented the same thing and then found your comment after it. I always thought she was the best actor on the show after James Gandolfini.

[@ronoccc]

AMAZING acting that’s exactly who someone would respond

[@coldarcticoasis]

No. Not everyone would react like that.

[@calumreid496]

She only had the balls to say this since Tone had shorts on, she wouldn't speak like that to a don.

[@trismagistis3392]

😀

[@tinafunk8148]

A real don doesn’t wear shorts😂

[@louisrobertbrown]

Plus he's hardly gonna come at her like a varsity athlete

[@JimmyCee123]

Carmine likes this

[@williefowler6241]

Such an underrated comment 😂😆

[@bellasmini]

One of the BEST scenes ever in this series. The acting on both parts are phenomenal.

[@CarburetedKilos]

I completely concur.

[@jayshmusic8659]

Yea , really good scene

[@donniro5962]

translation: one of the best scenes in TV history

[@bellasmini]

@@donniro5962 I'll agree with that!

[@BlahKDubstep]

💯

[@reginaldpooftah4525]

Amazing how Tony so casually and nonchalantly says "You knew there were women on the side. Where do you get off acting all surprised" and yet when Carmella talks about just fantasizing about another man, his ego is hurt and he punches the drywall

[@xabun]

men and women are not the same. wake up.

[@leftopenicetea4584]

@@xabun lmaoooo, sexist pig.

[@balabanasireti]

​@@xabunCry less

[@harrisonwestphall2381]

Kiss ma balls@@xabun

[@rp4712]

@@xabunah so man cheats he gets off the hook, but if a woman does it then what? Quit being a little bitch and stop with the double standard

[@mysticmonk1000]

Remember when Furio was in Italy after the funeral with his Uncle? He told the Uncle how he felt about Carmella. The Uncle replied "These Bosses...They always find out"

[@KRS2000]

How right he was.

[@danielhannay5841]

I feel bad for Furio absolutely thrown under the bus!!!

[@Gemmarose9012]

Yup, she ultimately used him. Selfish.

[@kaj7135]

Carmela is no better than Tony. Never was.

[@salvadorramirez2507]

@@kaj7135 facts she knew everything that tony did and still wanted the fruits of his actions.

[@vinto34]

That's why he left...knew it wouldn't end well if tony found out.

[@masterzombie161]

Well Furio never touched Carmella so he’s safe. No matter Tony’s threats there’s no way Furio would be whacked without consequences.

[@jsciarri]

2:55 "20 fuckin years!" If only Phil was there during this fight and he heard Tony mention that number...

[@naeemahmed2748]

@Johnny Utah Let me tell you a couple of 3 things... A. She was a Hoooowa

[@michaelsinclair8733]

@@naeemahmed2748 B. She burnt me with a candle.

[@jesusorosco2696]

@@naeemahmed2748 C. There’s no scraps in my scrapbook

[@naeemahmed2748]

@@jesusorosco2696 I dont know... I gotta counsel

[@johnnyheaters4205]

I’m fucking dying 😭

[@chrisbeddows7099]

Both actors were Oscar worthy in this scene...absolutely fantastic. Just fucking wow....really feel every emotion, movement and expression they portrayed. So amazingly done. Fabulous

[@user-nh6oq8ut2t]

Emmy worthy, but I see what you mean!

[@Fusion991]

Lol

[@henryalister9115]

I wish they did more with Jerry Tufi and his father's snow plow business. He was my favorite character

[@staffsgt.sullivan3833]

He’s my second favorite. First is that Bobby Demarco

[@brandonbrooks898]

But we all know that wouldn't have suited you at all!

[@paddyl0]

No way. Dominic Dedesesco was way better

[@mrsnoopyaaaaa]

That is funny as fuck

[@symbiosisai]

Nah, nothing beats the 2 black guys

[@thomascrown6422]

I love the small bits in the writing that are so well-observed like when Tony says "Don't pretend like I got a choice." That is so REAL. I also love when Carmela says "I am HERE!" So many years of not being seen in that line.

[@nikobellic3526]

thats why i loved her

[@kuba7543]

Goosebumps. Tremendous writing, tremendous acting.

[@Ar1AnX1x]

Eddie is so good at acting, the way she's scared for a second when Tony charges at her. I always thought her and Imperioli were the best actors on the show after James Gandolfini.

[@zackgraymes3665]

Honestly, imagine a man the size of James Gandolfini charging at you with these murderous eyes and fist raised and ready to strike. Acting had nothing to do with it.

[@archkull]

@@zackgraymes3665 He was a fantastic actor for being able to charge with such aggressive intent too.

[@Oddbisket]

They probably did the take 10times. It's definitely her great acting that caused the fear look to send shivers down the audience's spine. What a Marvelous job by both.

[@rileysummers9757]

I absolutely agree. Falco and Imperioli stole the show for me.

[@steveganfish7146]

Nancy Marchand was up there. She was so good as someone with BPD/NPD it was scary.

[@jackfiguly6112]

James was spot on with that “poor you!!!”

[@brian78721]

Thats his mother talking.

[@nathaninostroza7655]

Thats golden delivery of that iconic line

[@nathaninostroza7655]

@@brian78721 Charles schwabb ovahere

[@deathrager2404]

@@brian78721 it's the guy's mudda brian... guy's mudda... *italian hand gestures*

[@djnross]

She wants him to hurt the way she's hurting which is the only reason for bringing up the FURIO DREAMS matter.She's not a genuine sadist.And she doesn't have a deathwish.

[@Guccimustard]

2:15 *“He talked to you oh pooooor you!”* That right there is literally his mom creeping in, that line has _livia soprano_ written all over it.

[@stefanhammel192]

I DONT LIKE THAT TAWK!

[@just.a.guy324]

I also like how his justification for actually cheating was that she talked to him lmao

[@chrisjoe187]

I miss this show. RIP James Gandolfini

[@mikev880]

"One pin gone" LMAO...priceless

[@orourkeda]

It was so well acted that she looked genuinely scared when he hit the wall.

[@keithm1493]

It’s a good thing Christopher didn’t come in and ask Tony if he was going to eat that Toblerone that was on the table.

[@-James-A]

He... didint

[@retroguy9494]

'Fiddle with the air conditioning.' LOL That ones always gets me!

[@BL-mf3jp]

I’ve used that line in real life

[@retroguy9494]

@@BL-mf3jp Not ME! I set mine at 71 and it stays like that all summer! LOL Do you also crave a little Hyundai and a simple gold heat on a chain? 😂

[@BlahKDubstep]

I was aware of all the faults that Carmella had. The one thing I really couldn’t forgive her for was throwing Furio under the bus.

[@lucasdamotta2931]

yes, theoretically...in fact the italian camorra wouldn't let anybody touch Furio,even less a pigmy family from america. Tony was just acting tough to Carmela, he couldn't do shit about Furio at all.

[@BlahKDubstep]

@@lucasdamotta2931 Good that’s a relief to know 😮‍💨

[@briancowell3891]

I think this is the best scene in the whole show. it's so real and true to these characters and their emotions. brilliant acting by both

[@dannyhernandez2203]

Probably the best acting in all of television.

[@chrisxavier3147]

This scene won the show an Emmy

[@evam7431]

her reaction when he goes to punch her+punches the wall is just genius

[@dannyhernandez2203]

That always gets me. When it originally aired I was in awe of how Ms Falco captured the realness of that scene. Like I fish that has been caught and didn't know what to do

[@morbidesque]

If you know anyone that knew jim he was gigantic. The look on her face was genuine. And they shot this scene in the middle of the night many many times before the result you see here.

[@larascott4877]

Carmella won that argument. Right at the end.

[@Shatamx]

Nope.

[@brandonhuynh4528]

Sure? But no one really won

[@misterguy2329]

"Carmella won that argument. Right at the end." Getting the last word or making a criticism the other side can't refute isn't "winning". Because they're married, there is no winning at all. Like the hole Tony punched in the wall, that's not a "win" for anybody, you just have to live in a slightly worse house (or marriage) until you fix that.

[@disturbedone8731]

How you figure?

[@degenerategambler4830]

Uh no, she called him a hypocrite even tho she just admitted to being open to sleeping with Furio a minute before. Neither of them won because they both have their fair share of shortcomings

[@Lulzykek]

3:04 the absolute best "Fuck it!" I have ever heard

[@MrGakn]

it’s the little details that make The Sopranos..like when Carm looks like she’s leaving when Ton punches the wall, then she comes back..exactly like a heated argument in real life

[@dtothemain1434]

Possibly the greatest acting ever, thank you David Chase for this show.

[@mojomystique6797]

Poor you is straight from his mom

[@blastbeatindustries3191]

...and his dad.

[@Michael_Miller508]

This is the greatest scene ever on the sopranos. Rip jimmy

[@areasontosmile1704]

"What you really crave is a little hyundai and a simple gold heart on the chain." LOL🤣🤣

[@TheBlueyedblond]

I know this story. Man wants woman to raise the kids, keep house, look nice, go to social events...but when it comes to getting a job or being independent, she is supposed to look the other way and say nothing. Then one day, he has an affair and blames HER because she led a sheltered, comfy life.

[@EarthAirFireWaterSpirit]

Awesome performance by Edie and Jim !

[@Ar1AnX1x]

people give so much shit to Carmela but she was in love with Furio and was always really hesitant to make a move with him even though she knew Tony is constantly banging different people all the time she wasn't exactly a good person obviously and she was really greedy and a hypocrite like all the other characters but it's surprising that she gets so much shit when almost all the other characters were way worse there's a reason Tony never wanted to divorce her, like Melfi said "she might leave you but you'll never leave her."

[@immanuelcunt7296]

She didn't make a move because she wanted him to, because she's a woman. Her getting dressed up, flirting, and engaging furio all the time WAS her way of making a move. Plus, the only reason she was hesitant is because she was scared of Tony. That's not morality, it's cowardice.

[@DonDivaBitch]

@@immanuelcunt7296That’s Not Cowardice. Tony Was A Murderer And It Isn’t Like Tony Didn’t Manhandle His Side Pieces Or Other Women.Furio Actually Tried And She Stopped It.

[@immanuelcunt7296]

@@DonDivaBitch All you did was describe what she was afraid of. That's cowardice. Not cheating on your husband because you're scared of it doesn't make you better than someone who does cheat, because it's not morality, it's fear.

[@truegrit7697]

They both have valid points.

[@dranelemakol]

1:32 Tony's reaction is so good. Like it's the funniest shit he's ever heard

[@carolmurray187]

This is one of the best series ever made, and this is one of the best scenes. They were so believable. Great actors.

[@blueberrybubblegumm]

This is acting on a level that 99% of all other actors in the world will never get to in their whole lives......

[@JarrodButali]

The 1 pin gone lol

[@UnderThaSun]

Tony face at the end of the scene is completely terrifying. Even Carmela could tell she had used up Tony’s ‘moral compass meter’ and she walked away.

[@AbelDelRealNava34]

These two could have done a masterclass in acting 🎭 Phenomenal!

[@Dupont24ism]

Carmela was beautiful and she was good to Tony, i never understood the cheating.

[@mrigoe3079]

Don't be silly

[@Dupont24ism]

@@mrigoe3079 they do what they do, be me personally is what I meant.

[@gyagudayev]

She was a hypocrite

[@sitcomchristian6886]

Cheating is about novelty more than anything else. It has very little to do with the person you're actually with.

[@heyaytlgno3951]

@@sitcomchristian6886 stupid take lmao

[@h445]

i liked carm with the short hair

[@hatsuseno]

Carm was 100% wrong for taking $40k from Tony’s cash stash.

[@CaptainSalazar69]

Call it a cheating tax

[@dontellbenjamin417]

Alpha oh and I guess tony wasn’t 100% wrong for all the lying and cheating huh? Remember what motivated Carmela to steal money form tony was because she found Valentina's fake fingernail in Tony's clothes.

[@kaj7135]

FORTY GWAND! FROM DA BURD FEEDAH!

[@dogsalwaysbarkatbetamaleswoof]

@@kaj7135 🤣🤣😂

[@faisalkamal4319]

Listen to yourself you sound dementef

[@111moonlightX]

This show was is and still is great

[@waveali5620]

At the end, he has that same look on his face that he had right before killing Christopher.

[@stooby267]

This is Oscar worthy. This entire show is. What's the series equivalent of an Oscar? They all deserve it

[@MarkT1700]

Emmy. They won many.

[@nickrobles6716]

@@MarkT1700😂😂😂

[@sindeekaye2223]

Edie Falco’s performance is amazing! Wow!!!😢

[@kennethstudley2784]

This fight scene and the 1 at the restaurant when they fight I love when carmela says she wants what she's entitled to and Tony gets up and says you act like fucking butter wouldn't melt in your mouth your not entitled to shit that one is the best also

[@channingmorrell3514]

R.I.P James Gandolfini!

[@Fidozo15]

I loved em both. Edie killed it so well

[@Runaddict1167]

Jist tremendous actors. I can feel the emotion and pain. Bet lots of married couples have been at this exact place one time or another

[@mrbond9882]

Even with the 1 pin gone 😂😂😂

[@Dilomight]

My heart was racing and I was actually holding my breath, amazing!

[@JahmilBlair]

She was definitely after tony money🤷🏽‍♂️

[@frankbarron1907]

Good acting (storytelling) = Those playing parts make you forget that they are only actors playing parts. This is masterful story telling.

[@ghost3337]

This scene is always seems so realistic. Like you know both characters are speaking some truth yet still seem so far apart.

[@stevec7770]

Wow only a wife could get away with that speech

[@theseattlegreen1871]

Wouldn't a wife be the only one to have that speech?🤔

[@misterguy2329]

"Wow only a wife could get away with that speech" Yeah it would be real weird if Paulie came up like "T, you been cheatin' on me a lot and I'm in love with Fiorio". He wouldn't be allowed at the social club no more, that much I know.

[@d-logan5280]

@@misterguy2329 Fuck me that made me laugh out loud 😂

[@AtreVire]

Sharp as a cue ball this one

[@mattmaccaronio5990]

@@misterguy2329social club? He’s gotta GOOOO!

[@jjjjjjjjjjjjjjjj178]

Carmela definitely won that argument

[@GinaSigillito]

Poor you, God the writing on this show was flawless.

[@michaelg4664]

So many amazing scenes in this exceptional series. Still ranks above The Wire, Game of Thrones, and other great series IMO.

[@jfontanez1838]

He tells her you knew the deal but when she talks about furio he punches the wall

[@davidgangemi3314]

I would hate Carmela's character if she ever brought up feelings for another guy only to fuck with Tony,but Geez.....It's Tony. He really did need that kick in the nuts here. Now the other things Carmela says and does piss me off at times,but she ain't always wrong.

[@GinaSigillito]

This is the best meltdown of a marriage ever on television.

[@Georgina-lv9bt]

Tom and Shiv in Succession this season just tied them.

[@JWhy851]

Damn his face at 3:31. Impeccable acting

[@GuamoKun]

The wall punching was intense but this face is really scary and I was actually afraid for Carmela there

[@allaboutjapan237]

Dates a mobster than acts shocked. FMD 😊😅

[@NestorCaster]

I mean actually… Tony was legit friends or friendly or had extended regular conversations with the strippers, cocktail waitresses and other women-- that’s actually a part of the problem-- 🤣

[@henrickspuitz8081]

I like how the toblrone chocolate product placement looks like it says “TONE”

[@nicoh.1082]

Give me 1000 coffees

[@joseurena7116]

Jesus Christ this is acting

[@kieleleron85768]

who knew all this time you wanted tracy and hepburn! LOl 😂😂 classic line

[@averevolution301]

Tonys lucky there wasnt a stud where he hit the drywall. He hit directly under where that clock was mounted.

[@ryanmcnally8669]

Tony was basically saying that she should’ve know that he was gonna cheat. It’s basically apart of being married to a wise guy

[@shihoblade]

And he was right. It always funny listening to the wives of certain kinds of men act so surprised when the inevitable happens. Why would a mobster who runs whorehouses value marriage vows to that extent?

[@theloanranger2632]

Wow Ryan. You must be descended from Albert Einstein or Sherlock Holmes to have figured that out. Some brilliant deductions you're making. Wow

[@erikphelan7508]

@@shihoblade then he can’t really be mad that she fantasied about another guy.

[@immanuelcunt7296]

@@erikphelan7508 Yes he can, it's not the same thing. A marriage is an agreement. She was fine with accepting the gooommaaaaahs, and he wasn't. They tacitly agreed to that set-up. Reneging on that is hypocritical.

[@Jeff-zx3eg]

Edie Falco magnificent! At 2:09, you can't tell me she wasn't really afraid

[@LW7333LW]

Students...now THAT'S ACTING!! Bravo!!

[@MoDeegroes]

I like how Tony equates Carmella have fantasies about Furio & talking to him with his behavior - sleeping with dozens of goomars, strippers, etc. Such sociopath

[@AnCapone1899]

Tony has a point. Carmela knew what kind of business was Tony into but she still denied all of that as long the money flowed. They' re both hypocrites but Carmela it's a little more

[@Ar1AnX1x]

these two always seemed like they're legit married somehow they probably were friends outside of the show and that helped them seeming connected to each other when they were acting

[@gtxx6699]

Edie's acting is insanely good.

[@anonymoussource1]

Love this scene, reminds me of my house growing up.

[@sean3578]

R u ok

[@InDatOneBag]

@@sean3578 😂😂😂😂😂

[@chevfan88]

2:11.... TONY DOESN'T LIKE WALLS 😅

[@mylesfleetwood9158]

Carmela one of the biggest hypocrites in this scene/series complains about Tony's affairs yet thinks about starting an affair with 3 guys in the series, She also says she fell in love with Furio but goes off with Tony's affair. Carmella and Tony are not what I would call a healthy marriage or match made in heaven.

[@oblivion85]

Carmela: Furio actually had the making’s of a varsity athlete!!! Tony: 😮

[@johnlewisbrooks]

I wish they'd done more with that hole in the wall. It was my favorite character. lol

[@mattmaccaronio5990]

When Jerry toofi pulled up to Holstens in his snow plough and whacked both of them at the end that was the ultimate revenge for Carm not marrying him

[@paulcarroll8164]

And now the coffee maker sucks!! Howdu like them apples?!

[@raspymorten]

The season 4 finale argument's one of my favorite scenes in the show, and while this one isn't *as* good as that one (Still fucking great.) Both James and Edie get their share of the spotlight here, while Edie absolutely stole the show in the finale. Both James and Edie are on another fucking level here.

[@jerry_etc]

2:55 "20 fucking years." Where have I heard that number before...

[@gabos7892]

If you notice, Carmela always wins the fights.

[@bornjusticerule5764]

this is GGGGGRRRRREEEEEEAAAAAAATTTTTTTT acting!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@Rick_Cleland]

All she wanted was a shinebox.

[@missbhavin4philly]

On a simple gold chain

[@praetor9822]

The thing that pissed Tony off really, was the idea that she loved Furio. Sex? That's just attraction. But love? That's a lot more.

[@Uccapone]

Damn when she started being up furio even I got upset I don’t like to hit women but damn if she spoke like that to me I would have lost it

[@Tommynyp33]

Love Edie Falco in interviews saying she barely remembers filming most of these pivotal scenes lol

[@craigheaney7003]

Dickie Moltasante was the king!!!!

[@blastbeatindustries3191]

He was the only person Livia was nice to.

[@Dgoc813]

“Who the fuck wanted it this way” goddamn if that doesn’t sum up life 😢

[@RandomBurner]

Another one of Tony’s redeeming qualities is that he never punched Carmella

[@rohunsaigal2576]

What a hero, never hit his wife

[@cjsnsjsnsjsjs7162]

@@rohunsaigal2576for a sociopathic murderer that’s a good quality

[@AP2brolic]

You could be so sweet, nobody could shine my box like you

[@orourkeda]

He was shining other box too

[@USNavyVet_STG]

"Even with the one pin gone!" Fucking brilliant.

[@kenny75photography2]

Some of the best acting you'll ever see. Incredible scene.