TOP 5 THINGS CHINESE GIRLS HATE: 1. man with low salary 2. man with no house 3. man with no car 4. man who has mistress (although will accept this if numbers 1-3 are met) not hating, just an observation...
@张婧琳-u5m7 жыл бұрын
Jonny Just to remind, every girl including your mom would “hate” these losers.... Well no car is fine for me because I have carsick since born, but at least an annual subway card...
@spacefreedom7 жыл бұрын
婧琳张 only poor mom thinks that way. he mean many chinese girls act like gold diggers. put money first before personality.
@dionysus87927 жыл бұрын
婧琳张. in western society, it was seen as disreputable to marry or date someone for financial reasons, they are often refuted to as gold diggers. It is viewed negatively because in western traditions that are rooted in Christian ideals of etiquette. They state that when a man starts a relationship with a woman who is financially dependent on the man, it is the same as grating her as a prostitute. So to a westerner, the idea of a girl wanting any and all relationships she has to be rooted in financial gain is equivalent to calling herself a whore. In our society the idea of arranged marrages, and clan like alliances between powerful/wealthy families family have died off. But in China, where gender roles and familial expectation are clearly defined, it makes sense that this is the norm.
@halfvolley116 жыл бұрын
In western society, LOOKS of men are given more importance. It is important for the man look good. White women are shallow as fuck. They need men to be tall, mascular and basically be blessed with good genes. I like the Chinese idea because money reflects real Alpha trait and not good genes. White women are too obsessed with looks and sex appeal. Fuck that.
@Radeo6 жыл бұрын
I fail to see the benefit coming back the man's way.
@TheMotorick9 жыл бұрын
I think after this video, you should do a video entitled: "Why in the world would I want a Chinese girlfriend??"
@issacmiria16329 жыл бұрын
I think because he live in China that's why
@issacmiria16329 жыл бұрын
Lives
@jinhuliu98419 жыл бұрын
+Renzhi Wang 笑尿
@thepolishwatermelon12398 жыл бұрын
+TheMotorick If you have to ask, you don't deserve one.
@chaddts7 жыл бұрын
Well most native asian women are much more of a women than western women are. You can't trust a western woman. The love the d.n.a too much.
@thatdutchguy28829 жыл бұрын
If you check out another girl in Europe:" a Dutch girl won't react, German girl won't react, Belgian girl won't react, English girl will get grumpy and get very insecure, French girl will get verbal telling you she can do better, Swedish girl won't react, Danish girl won't react, Spanish girl will react and become verbally very loud with hand gestures mixed in, Portuguese girl will walk away from you giving you the finger in the process while mumbling stuff, Austrian girl will get grumpy in some cases kick you, Italian girl will kill you after she's done yelling at you, Irish girl will get loud and bad mouth your sexual performance and how you hold you alcohol in public very loudly, Greek girl will beat you to death while yelling at you, Russian girl will attack the woman your looking at and then you" (FYI;) . Ahh,...Europ, fun times 😆, so many cultures and languages to get your ass kicked by a girl/woman 😇 .
@issacmiria16329 жыл бұрын
U know a lot
@laowhy869 жыл бұрын
+ThatDutchguy you should write an E book
@thatdutchguy28829 жыл бұрын
laowhy86 But then they will find me,...barely got away from the Italian one with my life 😲.
@syncmaster915n9 жыл бұрын
+ThatDutchguy Dude! You should try standup comedy!
@valenesco458 жыл бұрын
What a ''man of the world''...
@roflmows8 жыл бұрын
exercise isn't just about weight--that's a bad thought process many people (especially women) have. it's about a healthy heart, healthy respiration and circulation, healthy skin, and mental health too. exercise is proven to elevate your mood, help you sleep better, and generally have a more positive outlook on life. i used to eat badly and never exercise, i got 30 lbs. overweight, and i was just a depressed, lazy mess. once i started doing cardio boxing and changing my diet i lost those 30 lbs. and started feeling 20 years younger. i'm a lot more active, my digestion is amazing (no more heartburn or need for pills), my skin is clear, i sleep like a log, and i have plenty of energy. now i love getting outside and being active, and life seems to be full of possibilities instead of full of dead ends. humans are meant to be active. this sedentary sitting around in front of the computer or TV shit is totally unnatural. it's the reason for all the depression, chronic pain, obesity, anger, anxiety, and fuck knows how many more chronic conditions people struggle with today. balance is great--i love youtube and video games too, but i balance it out with daily exercise, lots of water, and doing something outside every day of the week. speech over. take from it what you will.
@IMN699 жыл бұрын
Hey man, after watching some of your vids with Winston, I thought I'd check out your channel. Liking what I'm seeing so far, subscribed and I'm gonna crack on and watch some more! There is a strong possibility I might be making the move to China soon from Thailand, both your channels are invaluable resources of what to expect, and also pretty interesting to see the similarities and subtle differences between them being that they are relatively so close. Peace!
@laowhy869 жыл бұрын
+IMN69 thank you so much dude!
@TynanCreations9 жыл бұрын
+IMN69 I don't think you are going to prefer living in China compared to Thailand. Unless you like noise, crowds, shopping etc. .
@funcuzchris44668 жыл бұрын
Chinese culture is more materialistic than Western. It's also more conservative and traditional.
@axezgg21536 жыл бұрын
Funcuz Chris actually this is a period that the developing country has to experience
@dallaspowwi66829 жыл бұрын
Another great video! Fun, entertaining and so true.
@laowhy869 жыл бұрын
+Dallas Powwi thanks!
@welshpete128 жыл бұрын
As always fascinating , Keep them coming !
@Dixter51508 жыл бұрын
It's true about Chinese girls being materialistic but I think if you are a principled man and stick to your guns you can just tell them where the front door is when they start that shit and that they're easily replaceable (they are). Relationships or marriage are are a kind of arrangement based on what two people bring to the table. NEVER build a relationship on spoiling a girl- you'll regret it later on. I had a Japanese gf like this..she'd say "buy me X"...I'd say "yeah next time". Eventually she walked but wouldn't want that kind of long term person anyway. Plus I'd hit it enough times anyway. Remember guys- getting older, your value increases and theirs depreciates. Always negotiate from a position of sticking to your principles.
@g-dragonslave58618 жыл бұрын
Finally some man who has grown a pair instead of being a p*ssy-boyfriend. I salute you Mister Dixon.
@Dixter51508 жыл бұрын
+G-Dragon Slave much appreciated, sir. Don't despair, there are others like us out there
@kattykleo85798 жыл бұрын
Are men still telling themselves that their value increases with age? You guys are funny! ;)
@Dixter51508 жыл бұрын
+katty kleo I could get into a sarcastic exchange with you, but let's just save that and discuss facts. Biologically, women are attracted to signs of strength, confidence, and the ability to gather resources. This indicates that he can provide for a family and take care his wife and kids. Men are attracted to signs of beauty, Health and youth , which indicates she can have healthy offspring. This is why you see beautiful women with ugly yet successful men and never the other way around. Something tells me you already know this and are just salty about it.
@Dixter51508 жыл бұрын
+katty kleo further on that point, me tend to have more resources (money) and higher positions In their careers as they get older. So yes , they often are more desirable with age. This obviously doesn't mean you want to make out with a geezer, but the point still stands
@robinsooha71249 жыл бұрын
So in short they want money
@TheSushiandme6 жыл бұрын
Robin Soo Ha Yes, have to make over $70k average just to talk to them. :(
@ajinkyaubale97136 жыл бұрын
TheSushiandme are you fucking kidding me . That’s to much
@TheSushiandme6 жыл бұрын
Ajinkya Ubale that's the truth. I work with and are friends with Chinese women. No money no honey.
@TheSushiandme6 жыл бұрын
I finally bought an expensive car and the Chinese girl that friendzoned me for 3 years now is trying to hook up with me. Lol. I'm like... i helped you with your life every weekend for 3 years and been with you through your thick and thin. Now.... you like me because i have money and a nice car now? F you...
@TheSushiandme6 жыл бұрын
haha, amazing. Top Comment of the year. Sounds like speaking from experience. ;)
@AurioDK8 жыл бұрын
Had a chinese girlfriend, she was definitely not interested in gifts, she did want to marry me though but things turned out problematic due to work, eventually we both agreed to each seek our own paths. When it comes to chinese women go for intelligence, they have a lot to offer and are usually more tolerable of the small quirks we all have. Its true though, mainstream Chinese chicks want pretty much the same as any other girl.
@littlecop19878 жыл бұрын
After watching this video I like Japanese girls better.
@TS-tt1pn7 жыл бұрын
Can I just clarify that this video mostly apply to Chinese girls from China, HK, Taiwan. My ethnicity is Chinese but I'm not from China. I know lots of mainland Chinese girls who are like that and a lot of Chinese girl who are not like that too. Every culture, country, race have whiny people and nice people just that China is currently under a magnifying glass due to the sheer amount of Chinese, therefore it seems more that way.
@davidlp65108 жыл бұрын
Dude, China doesn't sound very nice to be in.
@marcob46306 жыл бұрын
Never go living in China !
@leolliang8 жыл бұрын
That, ladies and gentlemen, is the face of a dude that's TRAPPED. YOU DONE MESSED UP NOW A-ARON!
@WoodenYouKnowIt7 жыл бұрын
Here's my question... At what point do we stop worrying about how to impress Chinese girls and allow them to worry about what Western men like? I mean... who's trying to impress whom? If I found myself in China and single (which I am) I would be very tempted to not chase any Chinese girls or even try to ask them out. I think I would rather see which Chinese girls came dropping hints or asking me out - showing attention to me instead of the other way around. Does that make sense? I would feel the same way about those girls as I do girls here in the U.S. and that is that, when we guys try to get our acts together in such a way that we play to what the girls like, we give up a lot of power in our relationships and get the dynamic off on the wrong foot. This "knight in shining armor" syndrome has caused men to become way too servile to their women. By showing this same deference to Chinese girls, I think that we expose them to a new arrangement whereas Chinese men may have not been doing it this way. I just see a number of potential pitfalls. The last thing that I would ever want is to find myself in a relationship with any woman that constantly breaks my balls the way my American bitch ex-wife did for too long. Ok, that's what I think anyway.
@tomhutchins10466 жыл бұрын
They want to be white because the worker class is dark from working outdoors (fields ect) so pale is considered a sign of wealth and success.
@noahjvano1949 жыл бұрын
amazing video as always
@laowhy869 жыл бұрын
+Noah Jvano thanks Noah!
@Smiles5s5s8 жыл бұрын
dude from everything you've said in other videos and in this one, dating Chinese girls sounds like a MGTOW nightmare that's come to life
@nntflow70587 жыл бұрын
Well, that's what happen when you don't have feminism. I don't understand why mgtow think traditional women are better when they follow their ancient beliefs on how men should be rich and provide everything for them.
@owlblocksdavid49557 жыл бұрын
On the other hand, feminists say the darndest things, like marriage being sexist, focusing on women as someone to birth a child is sexist (let's face it, that's the number one use of men and women to each other; having kids), etc. I mean, if you stick with the "legal equality" definition they're not necessarily bad, but the self-identified feminists...
@tomaf6 жыл бұрын
And what's the deal with bra burners saying they are rebelling against male dominated society where males want them to wear bras. I prefer seeing their pointy little nipples poking out at me when I talk to them, which bras don't allow. Burn them bras, bitches! ;-P
@preplok36489 жыл бұрын
These videos are one of the best things about my week
@cdnsoul58089 жыл бұрын
I love your husband and wife videos. They relate to real life as you live it in China and we can compare with the western world. Keep it up - great work
@laowhy869 жыл бұрын
+cdn soul cool. thanks bro!
@jumpoffa50118 жыл бұрын
It is so nice to put a face to the voice. Keep up the good work. Do a video on Chinese holiday's. Besides New Years, what floats their boats?
@jaimeb.3848 жыл бұрын
So basically they want you to buy them.
@ErikPT3 жыл бұрын
Not if the woman is more wealthier than you, or if she wants to mother you
@allangamez946 жыл бұрын
Dude, I swear to god I have the bell clicked on, suscribed and everything and still its been months since I received a video notification from you :\
@XXxvampiregirlx9 жыл бұрын
When i was in china when i was 16 with a large group of student, me and three other girls were trying on dresses one girl was very tall and broad , and picked up a dress that was a size small, the shopwoman grabbed the dress of her and said "no no no ! You too big for this ! These wont fit you ! " i was like :O
@laowhy869 жыл бұрын
+Katerina P lmao that sucks!
@gmakepiece8 жыл бұрын
Hey Cait, you're clearly a very brave man.
@puubd33708 жыл бұрын
This hatred of getting black, being black, getting with blacks or having black babies has got to stop. We know what the white man did in China. ( what is the real name of the country, i know its not fucking china ) Being light is not a good thing. We DO have a sun. Disliking others for their color...wrong. Bad white man, bad dog!
@markh10856 жыл бұрын
Ha ha ha this video is so good. You both are so great together . Love the interaction and comedy .
@ilovethismightyfineplace9 жыл бұрын
My wife is definitely one of those Chinese girls that hate the sun. She had those driving sleeves and a mask while driving her car.
@mikeanorld65459 жыл бұрын
😂difficult to understand
@ssig7388 жыл бұрын
Awesome job on doing a joint video guys. You two look very good together - more positive stories and less haters is what we want to see :)
@nicevideomancanada8 жыл бұрын
I don't like Drama and that's probably why i'm currently single. I don't think I want Chinese Girlfriend or Canadian Girlfriend for that matter. I'm striving for my own pursuits to add value to my life.
@candyholland90088 жыл бұрын
love your you tube educational information!
@Anon-tt9rz8 жыл бұрын
Seems like I would never date a chinese girl. Treat her like a princess? spoil? they hate exercise? get me out of hereeeee
@markacamacho8 жыл бұрын
Love it, great video.
@deeno49198 жыл бұрын
It's not just Chinese women that are like this. It just depends on the individual. I was with a Chinese women for awhile and she was nothing like that.
@michaelthomashayden71257 жыл бұрын
Great series. Good job.
@chairde8 жыл бұрын
High maintenance women.
@brockhenderson83216 жыл бұрын
You guys are hilarious! I'm beginning to love Chinese women after watching these vids. Also love that you accept btc, Hope all is well.
@TynanCreations9 жыл бұрын
One of my wife's primary complaints about Canada: "Your Canada sun is too big". Of course in much China you rarely get direct exposure to the sun because of constant smog. So one good thing about smog is it lowers the rate of melanoma. (but probably increases every other kind of cancer).
@joey86bu17 жыл бұрын
great vids just subscribed!!
@Gloomshadow1009 жыл бұрын
Chinese girls would last two seconds with me... hahahah
@4848patty6 жыл бұрын
Hi guys. I’m An America-Chinese lady and I find your videos extremely informative and interesting. Keep them coming. I also married a causian man. Been married for 20+ yrs and have 2 children.
@21boxhead8 жыл бұрын
YAWN! this is pretty typical in most all females around the world
@carlosog50419 жыл бұрын
Happy New year to you both!!! :-)
@laowhy869 жыл бұрын
+carlos ogura you too!
@petriheil85438 жыл бұрын
The eternal child, basically!!!
@George-Edwards7 жыл бұрын
Hello, Vivi and sorry I don't know your name! 68 yr old guy here in Michigan USA. Obviously I'm too old to ever think about exploring the world the way you and your friend have done. I really enjoy your videos though because it allows me to see, hear things that I would otherwise not be able to. Have fun and know that I wish you and Vivi all the best in life! George
@Elivasfq8 жыл бұрын
5, 4, - All girls. 3 - I just had a business idea. 2 - most girls. 1 - All girls.
@MartinAccordion9 жыл бұрын
Oh man I've been in China for a week and its a trial by fire with these birds I tell you what mate. Fun to find out all the little niches though.
@michaelallison22788 жыл бұрын
So, the men are vain and women are materialistic... yeah, huge differences. :eyeroll:
@michaelallison22788 жыл бұрын
Ianoodin Did I hurt your feelings, Mary?
@michaelallison22788 жыл бұрын
Ianoodin Straight over your head, I see... shocking.
@nickobergshow9 жыл бұрын
these are great videos!
@motognome9 жыл бұрын
Hey Vivi..feel free to smack 'you know who' around as often as you can. Us subscribers don't mind one little bit!
@laowhy869 жыл бұрын
+Moto Gnome i thought we were friends... :(
@motognome9 жыл бұрын
If I have to sell you out to witness another Viv slap, I'll do it!
@laowhy869 жыл бұрын
XD hahaha
@susany2k59 жыл бұрын
I love your videos!! You two are so cute!!
@DanHarkless_Halloween_YTPs_etc6 жыл бұрын
LOL, loved the "rapist masks".
@alexanderchenf16 жыл бұрын
Bad generalization. Vivi came from the kind of culture in Canton that was materialistic (no criticism). There was this certain group of people there that focus a lot on meals and wealth. They may treat you generously but they expect the other way round, too. Girls else where or from different cultures in China may buy you a meal and do not care too much for that. I had a 1-year relationship with a Han Chinese from Xinjiang. And if I remember correctly the first meal between us was paid by her, happily. She was a big spender on herself and on me. I also spent for her, sometimes lavishly. She focused on the feeling that I took care of her instead of taking financial advantage out of me. We were just two spoiled college students who just did not care for wealth management (we should). But the result was the opposite as you would expect on my end. Because I was happy with her, I did not really find the need to spend that much on fancy stuffs (most costs on my end were simple hotels and restaurants). She did overspent on her clothes though and her mum was furious. I also had a relationship with a girl from somewhat the Northeast, she did not mind spend on me and I likewise. Girls from the northwest and northeast seem to care less on financial advantages over their partners, and are more financially independent. It is more of a feeling being taken care of thing. So for westerners, the northern girls are pretty perfect: they have the kind of extrovert open-mindedness that the west is used too. On the other hand, they don’t seek to rip you off as often as western metropolitan girls. Northern girls I guess have more of a small-town vibe (despite there are big cities in the north, too) because of the open landscape and scarce population. You may say the real China is small town China, too.
@VincentFulco9 жыл бұрын
Great series and the two of you make a cute couple. Best,
@laowhy869 жыл бұрын
+Vincent Fulco thanks Vincent!
@chrise.26664 жыл бұрын
High Maintenance nightmare
@tansuo93969 жыл бұрын
Aye, C-Milk...You left your indicator on.
@laowhy869 жыл бұрын
+Tansuo93 whoops. sorry mate
@billporter65928 жыл бұрын
I love your videos!
@bendover98628 жыл бұрын
No Chinese girlfriend for me. Too expensive.
@johnwow26467 жыл бұрын
I met a Chinese woman on a dating site. We emailed each other for a couple of weeks and then she disappeared. Five years later , she emails me out of the blue. I did not even remember her. Then she reminded me. We video Skyped for a year. I went to China to live with her for 2 months. Actually , she still lived with her ex-husband - separate bedrooms. So she rented us an apt. Her city was dirty, polluted and too many cars. I was at home all day when she went to work. No books in English, no stereo and crappy internet connection. She would not let me cook. If I met an English speaking friend , I could not invite back to our apt. She was stingy with money. Her bike was crappy old and a death trap. She borrowed another crappy bike from her brother for me to ride. She would not introduce me to her family. I could not go to a work related social function with her. I could not meet any of her work mates. She was controlling. If I went outside for ten minutes, she would follow me. She insisted on holding my hand before crossing the street so I would not get hit by a car. She took me along with her 2 other friends to the south of China. Train ride was 45 hours one way. First hotel would not let me stay because of no Chinese I.D. Second hotel would not let me stay either. Thought I was going to have to sleep in the streets. Her girlfriend told her to send me home back on train alone because travel in small towns was going to be difficult for me. I am home alone and bored. Got drunk, fell in the street and woke up in ambulance. Doctor who stitched my head was her friend, called her and she came back. She was pissed that she lost her bed on the train for changing schedule at last minute. I was so bored in her town that the only thing to do was buy liquor and get drunk. I've been talking to Chinese women on another dating site and it seems that most are looking for a rich American to take care of them. Most on the site are dressed like princesses. Seems Chinese women are trying to look and dress more like western women. Seems like Chinese women are more materialistic than American women. Most Chinese I have met could care less about the pollution or what we humans are doing to the environment. NOT SURE I EVER WANT TO HOOK UP WITH A CHINESE WOMAN AGAIN.
@samu9996 жыл бұрын
lol wtf did you get yourself into, and why you even stayed in that apartment more than a day boggles my mind ( sorry for being direct)
@rocknrolla72888 жыл бұрын
damn, chinese girls are diggin the gold pretty hard eh
@krisg48151623426 жыл бұрын
Rockn Rolla *jade diggers
@deanfox98237 жыл бұрын
This is my favourite video,please keep them coming. Don't cheepitout!
@fourtycents8 жыл бұрын
No wonder they look thin but flabby as hell nothing tone about them lol.
@davidwood25399 жыл бұрын
Congratulations on the developing Hai Zi! Vivi is so cute and has such a remarkable sense of humour. I think she is wrong though about Chinese girls not liking exercise, possibly a feeling due to her current condition and weight gain. Parks at night in every major city I've visited in China, North and South, are full of happy women and men doing synchronized exercises, dancing, marching in groups, playing badminton, table tennis, and basketball.
@laowhy869 жыл бұрын
+David Wood for sure, but those are old people for the most part. I think she is referring to more strenuous exercise like running, going to the gym etc...
@ElanaVital838 жыл бұрын
I don't think this should be said that ALL Chinese girls are like this. Everyone is different. I'm sure that there are Chinese girls who don't care about money this much, maybe have a different value system. Not everyone is materialistic.
@jitengyang54188 жыл бұрын
Most of the time, it is true, if you meet a Chinese girl that is not like this, congratulations, you meet a rare species
@ElanaVital838 жыл бұрын
LMAO
@ambere31928 жыл бұрын
Elana Vital yep I agree that.the that girls type didn't only Chinese girls. I knew what I hate or love.any one it's different.and I am a Chinese girl too
@ambere31928 жыл бұрын
raygun gothic not all
@ambere31928 жыл бұрын
Thelondonbadger what no
@zendao8 жыл бұрын
I have to add my 2 cents. according to authentic Chinese aesthetics to female's skin, smooth shiny white 凝脂 > smooth shiny light tan > dull white 死白~= smooth shiny deep tan > dull tan 暗黄 > whatever color skin with lots of pigmentation 肤色不均,多色斑 ~= deep dark. too many freckles maybe worse than pure black. unsmooth, hairy, odor and pigmentation(such as freckle, chloasma, mole) are really disliked by Chinese men. any one of these features could lead you to the bottom. To skin, the color does matter, but the fine and smooth(水色)in many cases matters even more. The standard to male is not as tight as female. money speaks louder.
@eug3nius8 жыл бұрын
Woman. Woman never changes.
@soozyrandall75518 жыл бұрын
Snake? Snake??!!! Snakee!!!
@Tony855C7 жыл бұрын
eug3nius best comment
@jinzo11715 жыл бұрын
My Chinese girlfriend is more of an empress than a whiny little princess. Her ambition is sky high and I feel like she could seamlessly support me and my businesses if I needed to take a step back for any reason. Probably because the women in her family are all powerful and strong natured. If anything, her strength sets of a fire in my Nordic soul - maybe she’s too hot to handle for Chinese lads
@teakertown8 жыл бұрын
please help. my brother married an Asian girl and she is extremely snobby and snotty to me. I'm Caucasian and I'm wondering if it's because she's jealous I'm Caucasian or because I'm her husband's sister. She hates the sun and tries to lighten her skin and even got a nose job to make her nose look more Caucasian and is obsessed with her nose. any ideas? thanks.
@pamposaksy47648 жыл бұрын
teakertown ......it could be she is jealous of your eyes
@momscookingtofu75838 жыл бұрын
teakertown - Sorry to hear you sister-in-law is treating you poorly. I believe that she is jealous of you and your white skin. I teach Chinese children and that jealousy of white skin is real. Just keep being nice to her but don't let her issues make you feel down or upset. Maybe she will come around, maybe she won't. Either way, it's her issue. Best wishes!
@teakertown8 жыл бұрын
Tara Crain .... thank you very much. it really upsets me because I think she is turning my brother away from me too. it really messes up the dynamics. do Asians get less jealous as they get older? she is 27.
@Utuberd08 жыл бұрын
I have been in a similar situation where my best friend's girlfriend doesn't like me and she won't let him hang out with me anymore. And my best friend obviously doesn't want to lose her so he stopped seeing me completely. Your brother has to step in and tell her that it's not cool with the way his sister is being treated.
@Utuberd08 жыл бұрын
Asian girls are not special unicorns, she is just a girl. She has insecurities like her nose and skin like most girls out there, there's nothing wrong with it. Just treat her like a girl instead of an Asian girl if you get what I mean.
@MassiveMate9 жыл бұрын
The point that Chinese girls want to be spoiled and treated like princesses is so true. I was in a relationship with one and that really used to make my blood boil. She would even ask me with a straight face if I'm going to spoil her and get so hurt when I don't give a completely positive answer. She'd feel so privileged just because she's a girl. She even told me how she broke up with a decent boyfriend of one year just because he refused to tell her a bed time story. To her that was the reason to break up because it meant he doesn't want to spoil her. Even when she flips out on me for something that wasn't my fault at all and I start arguing with her, she would say: "Even if it's not your fault, you should just accept it as your fault because you're a man". Never stay with these kind of women if you have any self-esteem.
8 жыл бұрын
Princess is a control game; basically a person who wants to rule, but isn't qualified. They do that because the man has not exhibited Alpha Male qualities.
@symurai19888 жыл бұрын
mark eaves it's common to see ugly high maintenance Chinese women with a wimpy westerner like the guy in the video. It's common where I work at.
@michaelthomashayden71257 жыл бұрын
Okay... Vivi created another wicked phrase, "Don't cheap it out!" How awesome is that phrase. I love it.
@chewysplace35428 жыл бұрын
Philipinas are hotter
@denvercyclist8 жыл бұрын
The pic in the background of her about to bet you up . You are my hero .
@captnebulace8 жыл бұрын
Your wife is adorable lol
@pussdesutroyer94818 жыл бұрын
Capt.Nebulace yup
@stevenp19618 жыл бұрын
Love you guys! :)
@soujanyav92849 жыл бұрын
Not sounding rude but not getting this extreme obsession with white skin
@PrkleSeOnNooni9 жыл бұрын
+Soujanya V In china black skin is seen to indicates you being poor, farmer and lower class person.
@soujanyav92849 жыл бұрын
Nooni Doodi Yeah I recently came to know that thanks, so trying to understand -If a tanned skin person goes to their country they will think that person is low-class?
@kyle4568 жыл бұрын
+Soujanya V I think the most important reason for Chinese girls to keep white is that they believe white skin is more attractive for them, just like a lot of western girls think tan skin is really hot for them. I am Asian, and I personally think white skin asian girl is more attractive. So it is all about the aesthetic view.
@2klatte5 жыл бұрын
Unlike white skin which has either a neutral or pink undertone, the problem with tanning yellow skin is that being darker will make us look very sallow and old-looking. That is the real reason why Chinese girls avoid getting tanned at any cost ; the whole classist thing about being a dark farmer girl is just a relatively less important consideration.
@ElanaVital838 жыл бұрын
This makes me very uncomfortable to paint with a broad brush like this. You can't generalize people like that.
@philphil48167 жыл бұрын
The mainland chinese girl who hate the poor man.it was the chinese ' s custom of the nasty conception of the ideology.
@philphil48167 жыл бұрын
The mainland chinese girls were the money slavery of love with a sweety speech and tenderly gentle manner in order to hide the hypocrisy.
@joedirte83557 жыл бұрын
Elana.. are you Chinese? I'm sure Chinese women do not need you feeling some way on their behalf. This information is coming from a Chinese woman... I'm sure she would know better than you, and obviously these are generalities.
@mandalorian_guy7 жыл бұрын
I spent 3 and a half years in China and dated 6 women in that time, these are true for 90% of the mainland girls you meet. HK and Macau (mostly HK) are more westernized in their values and are less "materialistic" from the mainlanders.
@tomaf6 жыл бұрын
She's just an ultra-PC liberal who thinks everything is offensive to everyone.
@timothyperry38506 жыл бұрын
I’m 6ft tall 145 lbs would I be considers too thin or fat ?
@robertschumann90598 жыл бұрын
take a girl from russia
@mrfreddie04p6 жыл бұрын
I am not sure it is a good idea. Russian girls are also known to be spoiled, very materialistic (and snobby).
@valeriebenson33805 жыл бұрын
I love your videos .I am happy to see how much progress China is making !
@alohawave26918 жыл бұрын
I recommend a new series..." Don't Cheap it out". Tips and suggestions for dating Chinese girls. Great video. I have watched several times.
@Hoo888468 жыл бұрын
OMG, those thick metal doors in apartments in Canton! ~~~ So familiar! "You want to die?", LOL! ~~ I can imagine Vivian having the Cantonese phrase in her head "你想死啊?", LOL! So Cantonese! From the healthcare standpoint, starving will actually make you binge eat later and gain all that weight back. It's best to cut the carbohydrate (rice, noodles, bread, potatoes, etc.) as excessive intake will result in carbs turning into fat in the body. To lose weight effectively without exercising although it's better to have a combination of both, eat protein (white lean meat like chicken) and fiber (vegetables and fruits) because they actually make a person feel fuller and more satisfied than eating carbs (no Danish cookies as in this video). Chicken or tuna salad is my favorite whenever I want to lose weight. Besides, extensive and prolonged starvation will end up forcing your body to convert proteins (such as muscles) to energy (ATP) resulting in people losing muscle mass, which is not good. So to lose weight effectively, exercise to burn the fat and eat a healthy protein and fiber rich diet. I personally have been gaining great results from such combination as well as drinking oolong tea (pour out the first cup which is 95% caffeine to prevent caffeine overdose) after the births of my babies. This is the scientific way to effectively lose weight. =)
@mhumgood6 жыл бұрын
My experience in Asia taught me that women do not want to get dark because they will look like they are a low class worker who has to work every day in the sun (such as a farmer). In the West women want a tan so that they look like they are in shape. healthy. and they don't look like a low class factory worker who has no time to tan.
@hamif74598 жыл бұрын
Good. Thanks for sharing :-)
@uberaudioexperience8 жыл бұрын
My wife is Japanese and she also hates the sun. She wears those full arm gloves when ever she drives her car and always wears long sleeves and hats if she is going to be outside (even if the temp is in the 90's). I guess most Eastern Asian girls are alot alike. LOL.
@brandywell449 жыл бұрын
excellent...and funny to watch
@laowhy869 жыл бұрын
+brandywell44 thank you!
@powermonger90907 жыл бұрын
Was that a cameo of Sasha near the end? Just catching up on your older videos now. You two are a great couple, your humour complement each other well. Baby-Milk is going to crush men's hearts when she gets older with those genes.
@Thomas-bs4tv8 жыл бұрын
haha. my girlfriend likes to beat me on my arm. she says she do this because she is happy. i try always not to make her very happy. it hurts....
@ph14388 жыл бұрын
Dude, she is freaking hilarious!!! Great catch!! When she said "wanna die", I was dying !!!!
@wininspn8 жыл бұрын
Americans know that it is rude to call someone "fat." In fact, it could be taken as an insult. The difference is that Chinese people--and not just old ladies--are often not afraid to comment on a person's looks, telling someone they are fat as if they didn't know it themselves, even if it's just the clothes that make them look fat.
@tattooeddragon7 жыл бұрын
So, what exactly is the upside of dating a Chinese girl?
@karamlevi8 жыл бұрын
Really good video.
@SuperPaul30308 жыл бұрын
Considering US and China relations at this time its so relieving to see a white guy and a Chinese girl with such a loving relationship and this is never portrayed at all that there is a lot of western and eastern loving relationships out there it just makes it easier to see that when we can love eachother the world can be so beautiful.
@ochenhetree6 жыл бұрын
Great video
@rvdreamin8366 жыл бұрын
I find your channel helpful and informative but a bit scary!! I am having a long distance relationship with a Chinese woman I met last year here in America. Most everything you said in this video applies to my girlfriend!! I guess having this information in my pocket will help me avoid some pitfalls and set my expectations too. Thanks!!
@JohnFrumFromAmerica6 жыл бұрын
My wife is Chinese and doesn't expect gifts and has always insisted on splitting bills. Not sure how unusual she is.
@mediocre-motorcycle-modifi68189 жыл бұрын
Do men get hassled to marry as well? As a foreigner will you get hassled to marry?
@laowhy869 жыл бұрын
+Mediocre-Motorcycle-Modifications yep
@tjallingjonker97666 жыл бұрын
being married to "my china girl" for four years now, i sort of start to understand her "temper". thank you, this video has brought me some understanding of "why"...
@GeorgeMonet6 жыл бұрын
Does the gift thing even apply to just regular friends? That would explain a lot actually...
@paulcleary74379 жыл бұрын
Congratulations !!!! Can't wait to see your Baby !!