REACTING TO YOUR JUICY RELATIONSHIP EXPECTATIONS

[@ToriAndChad]

FOR EACH LIKE ON THIS VIDEO A PUPPY WILL BE TOLD "WHO'S A GOOD BOY/GIRL!??!"

[@Greg_Orr]

Can I like it multiple times?

[@ToriAndChad]

so many puppies will be blessed by your likes!

[@SamuelJayakumar]

Ayye when you getting one for Tori ?

[@ToriAndChad]

HEY! lol

[@angelavanoosten1]

This is gonna stir up some "get Tori a puppy" comments

[@ToriAndChad]

If you want a part 2 let us know NOW or forever regret your decision. lol

[@Greg_Orr]

Now? Well I haven’t watched yet but I bet I’ll want a part 2. Hahaha

[@shaughnsmit2076]

Haha made sure you comment first this time 😉🤣

[@angelavanoosten1]

Do it lol

[@iuliaturcas4348]

I started watching it right now, but I am so sure I want a part 2!!! 💛

[@shaughnsmit2076]

Yess for part 2!

[@ryushizu17]

2:16 You have sex 24/7 in a marriage 3:12 Dating pulls you away from your community/friends 4:15 Marriage is like a sleepover every night, it's always fun 5:37 The guy has to make the first move 7:04 'I expect to be with someone who is emotionally, financially and mentally stable' 8:25 'I expect that my husband will take equal share of household chores if we are both working' 10:03 You won't have any bad arguments 11:49 'That she constantly stirs my spirit to do great for His Name' 13:26 Sleeping cuddled up in marriage 14:21 While you're dating you will know if he/she is the one 15:00 You always want to be near your significant other 16:15 You shouldn't make out while dating 16:43 Finances are stressful in marriage 17:17 Spending money after first combining finances when married is weird 18:51 'As a newly-wed I expected marriage to be more romantic, but work and life gets in the way' 19:30 Long distance relationships are hard 19:51 Having had sex in the past will bring hardship/insecurity into marriage 22:39 Do married people really believe singleness is enough? 24:27 Your wedding night is awkward 25:00 Hugs from behind all the time 25:44 Do people who get married really feel like they're marrying the 'perfect person'? 25:59 There is someone out there who understands you like no one else 26:23 Happy wife, happy life 27:18 'That I always get the first bite of his food after I said no to my own' 27:25 'If he goes out for coffee he has to bring me one too'

[@nwanyibuifeobiako162]

🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@rakhuramai]

Man I think I'm seeing you in many of these videos but thanks!

[@ryushizu17]

@@rakhuramai I was on a binge 🤣 you're welcome!!

[@Writingsonthegirl]

Okay but Tori is radiating joyyyy

[@paiges9362]

“Lower your expectations, and have fun!” I feel like that quote can apply to any aspect of life, including marriage 😂 it’s a beautiful challenge!

[@haileymarie7719]

TORI YOU ARE GLOWING LIKE WHATTT. That smile. The tan, the fit, the makeup. The double piercing ;) iykyk

[@ToriAndChad]

I'm not sure if my other comment made it or not hahah but I was just saying I can't wait till she has that preggo glow!

[@sarahhicks3227]

My husband is huge on expectation management which has been so healthy for our relationship! It's much easier to have a peaceful marriage when you are very clear about expectations. Even little things like him telling me when he has to work late etc so that I'm not expecting what he can't offer and then upset by it.

[@floatingsara]

10:03 my husband actually expected to have zero arguments with me, whereas I come from a family where arguments were daily and considered to be healthy. So we had completely different expectations. I've slowly realised through therapy that I have some narcissistic traits and that I made my family feel bad because I am too confrontational, so I'm trying to keep my mouth more shut.

[@averynmitchell]

I like how Chad went over financial literacy and that you use money to make more money instead of acquiring things. I feel like that’s slipped by me and I hope y’all have/do a money series to learn more about having that mindset :)

[@cathleenmccarty1001]

Yes!

[@brimstoneclub]

"If your first expectation is that your wife will never bring you down...you're wrong." Wow, it's not even 10 seconds in the video and Chad dropped the gauntlet!

[@ToriAndChad]

hahaha DROPPING THE GAUNTLET!!!! the gloves are off

[@BrianRhodes9763]

Where does one begin, so many thoughts (this may get long). Your video "Asking my wife juicy questions that guys are too afraid to ask" popped up on my feed, so I watched it. During the video I heard Chad say amen and praise God and it kind of surprised me (not that people can praise God on KZbin), I don't usually see that very often on this platform. So I then found the previous video on that Tori ask Chad juicy questions and watched it. That led to watching another (not sure which one) and another and so on. That was just last week and I've watched 30 of your videos (including the series "Our Love Story, and finishing up the Boundaries series) and I still have several videos on my watch later list. There is so much good content, wisdom and practical application, I really really like this channel. God has used this channel to awaken some things like introspection and seeing where I'm at with certain aspects of my life. Or implementing certain aspects/activities into my daily walk. Thank you for what you have started, it is making a difference. I love how you both are so open about your faith and your encouragement to others.

[@karinaopryatova3615]

Dave Ramsey should sponsor this video 😂 he's been quoted so much today

[@jessiezsings]

Man, I never comment but I just love your videos. I’m praying for my future spouse and love hearing ya’lls insight 🥰

[@ToriAndChad]

awww that's so smart to do so! We love you!

[@francessoyelade4822]

So much love for the Masters fam. Much love from Nigeria 🇳🇬

[@ToriAndChad]

Aww love you!

[@oluwakanyinsolaakinola145]

Same here

[@HephzibahFrances]

Yes from Nigeria too and you are my namesake

[@AmishaChhabraMusic]

i love this so much. it’s so beneficial to have these expectations debunked or confirmed before i even enter a relationship! you’ve done it again youtube mom and dad 😭😭 love you guys!!!

[@kayleighzubrod4468]

SUP MEESH

[@AmishaChhabraMusic]

@@kayleighzubrod4468 HI BAE

[@whitneywilliams6168]

Ya'll are really pulling me through my exam season, bless ya'll but also, the description was so good - I know that I tend to imagine certain things through the lens of perfection but I have to constantly remind myself that nothing will be perfect but that doesn't mean I should fell bad about myself because it's not perfect!! - thank you for the encouragement Chad!! I feel like I say this every week but I am truly so inspired by your hearts and the wisdom you carry!! I walk away from each video feeling inspired, joyful and so full of perspective! So grateful that you said yes to the call and did KZbin because I am changed by your perspective and through your love for Jesus!!💛 Also, ya'll are getting close to 90k subbys!🎉🎉

[@ToriAndChad]

hahahaha Yes love everything you said here! Thanks for lifting me up! We love you! Can't believe we are knocking on the door of 100k subs!

[@angelavanoosten1]

Couldn't agree more!!

[@whitneywilliams6168]

We're going to knock 100k's door down before 2022🎉

[@SamuelJayakumar]

Another perspective to that question where you’ve had sex in the past and would it bring hardship in a current relationship or whatever that question was - If Jesus could forgive her/him you can too!

[@ToriAndChad]

YES!

[@scottishmamalivingingodslight]

Around 15:25 talking about wanting to be near/ with your spouse all the time - this here is why the love languages book is so important! I recently gifted a gift edition for newlyweds to a dear friend’s daughter and son- in-law! We would have had far fewer fights in our first years of marriage if we had only understood each other’s love languages!

[@serenityh.]

3:34 I know Chad did not just pull a Troy Bolton from HSM3. 😂 😂 😂 That was a good song too. 👌🏽

[@sivunkopane755]

i absolutely love the masters fam !! so much from south africa 🥰 tori,you are such an inspiration and you carry yourself with so much grace and as an 18 year old ,you have always reminded me of my worth !! love ya’ll

[@ToriAndChad]

Awww we love you!!!

[@shwetav]

This was nicee! Thank you for normalising 'normal' I got to learn so much about relationships in general. Expectations does cause disappointment.. so best to keep that bar low. Such a wonderful encouragement as always...reminded me of this quote, 'It is impossible to love without failing at something unless you live so cautiously that you might as well not have lived at all,in which case you fail by default.' There is no win/lose in relations.. just a balance between synergy matching upto words 🙂 Love you two always!! ❤

[@ToriAndChad]

awww sweet, Shweta as always! That quote is fire by the way! We love you!

[@shwetav]

@@ToriAndChad Thank you for always lifting me up! The podcast today was excellent!! :) Cannot wait to see and absorb all that you've planned for us ahead!

[@veritygrace1257]

Woo excited for a juicy video!

[@ToriAndChad]

We hope you like it!!

[@veritygrace1257]

Smashed the description as always Chad 👏🏼

[@shaughnsmit2076]

Yes he did!! Thanks Chad!

[@ToriAndChad]

awww thank you sweet V!

[@cherryteaaa]

Part 2 please!!! Love this (: Just started binge listening to The Messy Masterpiece and it’s amazing how a few minutes can change my perspective or convict me of things that God has been highlighting in my life.

[@neoandlykkecat]

You are amazing. You talk about things that most people woulden't dare to talk about. Thank you for being so brave! I love your channel. When we had dogs my hubby would take them on a walk and feed them before work every day. I loved that. Now we have cats and we do everything together with them. Hugs from Norway.

[@ToriAndChad]

Aww thanks for being here with us!!! We love you!

[@linayiiaholleman3955]

The thumbnail says it all. 👌🤣 I love how you guys continue to dive deep and don't just give us, the viewers, surface level content!!! You guys bring the quality answers!!! 🔥❤

[@SamuelJayakumar]

You knocked that description out of the park! So good!!! and convicting 😬

[@ToriAndChad]

thanks a ton!!!

[@iuliaturcas4348]

I have never been so excited and invested in a KZbin channel as I am with you, Tori and Chad! 🤍 There is truly something very special about you two and the community you constantly build online! I am so privileged to be part of The Masters Fam! Sending my love to you and to every single person that is part of this lovely community! 🤗

[@whitneywilliams6168]

You're so great kind!! Just wanted to tell you ❤️

[@ToriAndChad]

Awww you're so sweet Lulia!!! You trying to get another subscriber of the week!?!? hahah

[@iuliaturcas4348]

@@whitneywilliams6168 you are so sweet 🤗😘

[@iuliaturcas4348]

@@ToriAndChad Thank you! 🤗 Also, haha 😆

[@whitneywilliams6168]

@@iuliaturcas4348 ❤️❤️

[@rashellewilcox2633]

Each person does their own special,unique things. Hugs from behind would be precious! But there's other precious things too,and what is precious to them is what becomes precious to you.

[@gabbielawandi5952]

More Important to be loving than to be right! Totally agree 👍💯

[@OpenUpYourHeartPod]

I love you guys. I like your videos before I even watch. Small Christian KZbin here and I share y’all’s videos with my friends too😂 you guys inspire me so much!!! You have no idea.

[@katherinehawkins2032]

“You’re watching it live.” Lmbo too real 😂

[@fabulouslyfrugalfancy]

I love how open you two are about Christ ❣️

[@dsophie7816]

You cannot expect what you do not express.🤩

[@mark_ostermeyer]

The Lord speaks through the two of you, and it is a powerful thing to witness! Cheers

[@rosesmith000]

20:40 needed this so much, especially the shame part

[@ToriAndChad]

Happy you are here!

[@hariXmizu]

Concerning that very first expectation, something I’ve realized is that the world has defined that exact standard. On social media, in books, movies, tv shows, magazines, etc. it demands that to be the norm and if it changes then something is wrong and you aren’t “compatible”. I’m just so glad that is not the case in reality, and I appreciate the time you both take to even mention it and try and change the narrative. Just don’t hear it being talked about enough in the christian world. Also, after watching this video, and even in my own thoughts about relationships is that there’s no secret formula. It can be any formula really but God needs to be the foundation of that formula.

[@justinmooney4424]

Chad, can you share with guys how if a girl doesn’t give an ecstatic “yes” to going out or if she tries to do it in secret, then the guy should just back off? And Tori, can you provide insight into guys as to why they should back off and what’s going through the mind of the woman? Cause girls can not be entirely sure and lead guys on for MONTHS and keep the guy holding on to hope rather than caring for him and saying no even if he’s not sure. On the flip side, it’s important for guys to recognize that and back off if it’s not an ecstatic “yes”

[@edwardkhoury2424]

I love you guys. Thank you for the content. I have no words to express how blessed I am with how much I learned from your videos. Keep posting.. God Blesss

[@ToriAndChad]

Thanks for being here with us, Edward!!! We are blessed by you!

[@geno5169]

I just love watching the both of you! My wife and I have been married 31 years this May.you guy’s are so funny and loving.

[@agentdiaz2103]

The descriptions are always the best🔥

[@taniaannanil576]

Excited !!!!was waiting for the notification:)

[@ToriAndChad]

awww WE ARE HERE!!!!

[@joslynblessy6608]

Family meeting LOL...Noted !!! This was fun and a blessing you guys! Love you both so much...!

[@ToriAndChad]

hahah we love you!

[@hannahjames2906]

The description is doing it for me! Loving the video😮‍💨❤️

[@ToriAndChad]

Aww thanks a lot sweet Hannah!

[@rebeccajasmine462]

Part 2 yasssss...so good and timely as always!

[@ToriAndChad]

WOOO! That makes a few people!

[@anthonybartlem7063]

I love you guys, I feel so much better about myself and wanting to propose and get married to my partner and look forward to sharing our finances and everything about eachother, I’m a baptised Christian but didn’t grow up believing in god or Jesus but now meeting my partner that is catholic and a big believer, her way of life and beliefs has made me see things in a different light and I want to explore and get to know god and Jesus. You both are amazing and I’m glad i found your channel 🙂

[@tanyadsouza1100]

This video helped me so much.. Debunking some of the relationship expectations. So much to learn from you guys. Love you both

[@janinecomia16]

when Chad said we wanna thrive and Tori is wearing a thrive shirt ✨

[@ToriAndChad]

hahaha PERFECT

[@kelcicarroll636]

Thank you for this chad and Tori. It lifted my spirits in a time when life is throwing a lot at me right now.

[@serenityh.]

9:40 Tori: “That takes a lot of mental energy.” Me: *WHY DID I FEEL THAT IN MY CORE?* 😂

[@juliamahoney1509]

You guys remind me I’m human and so is my husband! 💞💞

[@maraisreynolds9688]

Chad having that line where his space exists- I feel that. Not a cuddly sleeper 🥴😂

[@bekahmoten2308]

Awww, I enjoyed this so much!!! A part 2 sounds wooonndderrrfuuuullll!!

[@nellygathoni9584]

Love you guys.Can't wait for Part 2!

[@ToriAndChad]

Wooo! We hope to make it! We love you too!

[@ms.flawed]

Thats really good. You both are doing such a great job for married.. Singles...I wish there were a lot of channels like this.....

[@jess1ic5a]

On "do married people really believe singleness is enough?" As a person who has never been in a romantic relationship, but find myself completed surrounded by married people and their kids (the last of my closest friends will both be married in the next 6 months), I think it is hard to believe that married people truly believe it's enough. Honestly, it hard to even hear married people say that because I feel like it's a hindsight moment. Of course God is enough to leave you content if you spend your life single, but that's not something you guys have to worry about so it's easy to say singleness is enough and even look back on it believing that to be the case even if you might not have at the time. There is also a stigma attached to being single. The world doesn't look on it too kindly and so it's hard to fight against that and find victory and contentment! Sorry, it's been a HARD year and just feeling like I'm so far behind in life, because of my relationship, status even though I've been through more than most at my age! I'm surviving while others are thriving and I so wish to be in that place too, but that's not always how the healing process works. It's really hard to continue to pursue healing when it was other people's sin that put you there in the first place! Grateful for a God that redeems though!! Otherwise all the pain would be worthless. Loved this video! PART 2 PLS

[@heaven9378]

I have often wondered that myself and I do agree that it's hindsight...I am in your shoes in terms of surviving and not thriving and just feeling left behind but thats the process as you said and the only church that really talks about singleness in a holy way as much as marriage is the Catholic church within the protestant churches singleness is not looked at in the same light, I hope it changes

[@jess1ic5a]

@@heaven9378 I'm sorry your feeling the same way because this is so hard, but I hope you find some comfort in knowing you're not alone! I do!! Thanks for responding :)

[@JosephButso]

OMG Chad just sang HSM3! That's my all time fav movieeee!!!!

[@angelavanoosten1]

Great job planning 👏🏼👏🏼

[@ToriAndChad]

we are trying our best!!!

[@angelavanoosten1]

@@ToriAndChad yessss and we see and appreciate that

[@ianazaitsev7873]

Im not sure if I've seen Tori smile so much!! Beautiful!! Keep it up 💖

[@jaanviveluguleti467]

I loove you guysss 🤗❤ I am excited to watch this video!!

[@ToriAndChad]

awww we love you!

[@angelavanoosten1]

More 👏🏼 important 👏🏼 to 👏🏼 be 👏🏼loving 👏🏼 than 👏🏼 to 👏🏼 be 👏🏼 right

[@SamuelJayakumar]

FACTSMACHINE!!!!

[@angelavanoosten1]

@@SamuelJayakumar ikr!!

[@ToriAndChad]

I wish I could hear you say that! hahah

[@ToriAndChad]

hahah yall are hilarious!

[@angelavanoosten1]

@@ToriAndChad hahahaha just said it out loud could you hear it 🤪

[@shaughnsmit2076]

Thank you for your candour!!

[@ToriAndChad]

hahah thank you for being incredible.

[@jessimitchell2051]

I liked this! I would watch another expectations video. This was very helpful for me!

[@peteysrib]

I love Tuesdays and Thursdays because I get to watch you guys! Hope you are a great day so far.

[@ToriAndChad]

Awww we love them because we get to see your name pop up!

[@peteysrib]

💜

[@JaneLanett]

THANK YOU Chad and Tori for another fun and educative video. Loved the part about being happy in your singleness. Been asked a lot by family and friends if everything is ok with me cause I have never dated. I'm honestly so happy with where I am and most importantly my relationship with God. That's all that really matters to me. ❤️

[@daniellekaufman8929]

This is probably my favorite video you guys have made so far! So insightful and informative!! Thank you guys 🥺🥰

[@Myself-anonymously]

I myself have a relationship research playlist. But at the same time I look at this channel as my goal . . . in the sense that I want to provide all my friends with really good quality relationship advice. If that is not my own playlists, I am honestly perfectly okay with that.

[@keana._]

Yo this is so good!

[@ToriAndChad]

We love you sweet keeks!

[@sasscass22]

Yes! Definitely want a part 2. 😁

[@ToriAndChad]

WOOOO!

[@Songwritersbehindthecurtain]

Congratulations 🎊🎈🎉🍾 on 86.8k subscribers.

[@taylorriser9914]

YES to the part 2! This was so fun to watch and I laughed more than I expected to!

[@miriamslack4086]

Y'all are great, solid and cute...thanks. Oh, and yes please to a 2nd expectations...💖

[@JMKrech]

Love this!

[@natanya5394]

Is it just me or is Tori the HAPPIEST in this video and I love it!!!!!

[@merrysweatman7647]

It’s so easy to like you guys before I even listen to the whole video♥️

[@toniidowu6301]

Aw loved this so much!! I've learned a lot from you guys, Much love from England💛

[@david_gurman]

Love this! It’s was funny 😄 and I enjoyed watching this, please make a Part 2

[@dapperdan1017]

This is gonna be a good video! 😂 hoping chef Chad makes an appearance. Would you do a video on how to deal with a manipulator while also loving the person?

[@pilarglg5484]

Tori you were literally saying “yes” after every 3 to 4 words that Chad would say 😂 you never do that. I just thought it was interesting. Love you guys ❤️

[@savannahhorsch1740]

Love love love this video!! Seriously so helpful!!

[@bethany764]

Hiii so excited to watch this🙌🏼😊

[@ToriAndChad]

Awww yay!!!

[@Chryslerdealership]

Such a helpful video!! God bless you guys ❤️

[@Greg_Orr]

Sooo good! Can confirm we definitely need a part 2! Also how incredible was the Dutch GP Chad! So excited Max has regained the championship lead again!

[@ToriAndChad]

hahaha MAX MAX MAX SUPER MAX MAX MAX SUPER SUPER MAX!!! Has been going on in my head non stop!

[@Greg_Orr]

Hahaha. Oh now you’ve got it stuck in my head again!

[@ToriAndChad]

At least it's a good song haha

[@juliarivait3685]

Y’all are my favorites 😍 So excited every time i see a new video!

[@wellworthitco.8495]

Let's get MANY more parts!!!

[@deliarebecca]

Woohooo I'm back early on your video!!! Missed you and loveee you ❤

[@ToriAndChad]

WOOOO!!! Thanks for being here! Love you!

[@lina_este]

Send you love from Russia. Yeah you have fans in Russia 😁 You are guys the example of relationship that I want to have one day. And I’ll definitely wait for “the one” now 🙏🏼 thanks for sharing your experience. Love ya ❤️

[@chrissuvi]

absolutely love this video!!! ❤️❤️

[@francialopez7339]

Omg the excitement Tori has! I love youuuu Tori ❤️ Chad you are THE FUNNIEST 😂😂😂

[@luanagonzalez5441]

OMG YAAY so excited to watch this!! Ps: THE PODCAST TODAY!! OMG that was a blessing! Love you guys so much!

[@ToriAndChad]

Awww you liked it?!?! We love you!

[@luanagonzalez5441]

@@ToriAndChad I love it!

[@marcovforte]

Oh my gosh the chemistry between you guys have right now is 🔥! Your sex life and faith must be GOOD right now! Hahaha sorry if that’s tmi lol. And the way Tori is all gitty and looking at Chad now. Oh my gash!

[@elamhershberger3034]

Wow!, yes not being parents or single life I usually say we are in the same shoes but still not God has a plan for us all, where ever we are, we are 19 years married I'm going to be honest the first 6-8 years were the hardest we are ex amish in Pennsylvania we love exploring and traveling

[@alenaannmathews5323]

So excited for this ❤️

[@ToriAndChad]

we are too!

[@moniqueaglibut4840]

I just have to watch it. I know, I just have to watch this lol. Haha I'm so excited on this

[@ToriAndChad]

you're gonna love Thursday's video and next Tuesday's video!

[@moniqueaglibut4840]

@@ToriAndChad oh my the suspense is killing me lol hahaha can't wait for it!!! And I'm definitely looking forward on it! Lol wait is the Thursday and next Tuesday videos a sit in talk or something lol. Gimme clue hooman!!!

[@ToriAndChad]

they may involve food!

[@moniqueaglibut4840]

@@ToriAndChad it's either cooking with Chad or bakings with Tori or just simply eating food lol I'm excited. I'm over the roof when it involves food lol. (reminds me of the food story of Tori with a CHICKEN tag of NO ANTIBIOTICS EVER yesterday lol) THERES FOOD INVOLVED! I CAN FEEL IT LOL

[@lilyjubilee6596]

Dang this is literally such a good video ❤️🌟

[@allisonlucas018]

These were really good expectation questions! I feel like I either have super low expectations or not very many so it's going to be interesting in marriage to see if I really do have some! 😅 Thanks Chad for your description box encouragement. It's always really appreciated having that extra content. 😊

[@Miracleshappentv]

Best time of the day, new video. Praying for you all

[@ToriAndChad]

Thank you very kindly!!!

[@dhariamohan]

Love! 🙌🏽 This is perfect for a girl who loves chick flicks and believes in the story book kind of love lol. I have most of the expectations that you spoke about. Thanks for this! ❤️

[@lisapetty6029]

Yes part 2!!!

[@bekspentland943]

Not being rude at all, genuinely curious... when Chad says 'Oh my Lord' is that not blasphemy?? Love you guys!!! x