Asking My Wife *JUICY* Questions Guys Are Too Afraid To Ask Girls

You asked and we answered... I was laughing so much at how different some of these questions from the guys were. I also understand why they were afraid to ask them hahah
Just want to give a quick shoutout to yall... we have so much going on. recording daily podcasts, posting stuff for Patreon, dealing with the home build, trying to come up with 2 fun/encouraging video ideas for YT a week and also being a married couple with friends and family etc... and we drop the ball A LOT! But you all don't mind and it shows us grace. Thanks for that..
Speaking of showing Grace... How often do you show yourself Grace? How often do you look in the mirror and say... I'm not going to hate on myself today. When is the last time you were having an "off" day, not feeling good about yourself or close to God etc and you said.. "this happens. I'm not going to stay in this spiral of negativity and depression. I'm going to accept that I'm not feeling like "me" today and I will take it easy on myself every time I start to spiral." or what about those of you who don't feel like you are walking in God's calling or even meeting the expectations that are placed on you from society, your family and yourself? Have you said that "God has already completed the work, and I just need to rest in Him?" You don't have to earn anything folks. We have the privilege to operate OUT OF HOLE-NESS! We don't have to operate to feel content, or successful. Christ has offered us full contentment in Him through His Success on the Cross. We don't need to put our pressure of finding a spouse before time runs out because only God completes us and we can trust His plan and have Grace on ourselves if things are not going out way. Take it easy on yourself today, have grace for yourself.
Love,
Chad & Tori
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[@ToriAndChad]

Ladies! If any of your answers are different write your answers below to help the boys out! haha

[@samueljayakumar6132]

😂😂

[@ToriAndChad]

Some of yall need more help than others hahaha

[@aaishakara7116]

@@samueljayakumar6132 sam how was your birthday?!! :))

[@jynellecontreras]

My answer is different for the “I’m fine” question. If someone looks at me and asks me is everything okay. I will straight up say no. If we’re in public I will also let them know that I want to talk about it when we get home

[@samueljayakumar6132]

@@aaishakara7116 the best ! Y’all made it extra special.

[@ejlopina7165]

The way the ending "you can be the total package and still be at the wrong address" hit harder than I thought it would

[@andreealupoaie]

Right?🙌🏻

[@mjsgurl5282]

i swearrrrr

[@giftedintrovert]

Tell, people this all the time lol. Just bcos ppl say they love each other doesn't mean you are meant to be with each other

[@gentryshannon212]

"You too can treat your woman better by simply ... *asking*" Thank you!! Communication on both sides is key 😁

[@estherreyes4461]

In the middl of summer break, kinda bored. Will give another perspective to them. 1. What is the guy equivalent to a sundress? Button downs, especifically short sleve ones. They capture exactly the same vibe. 2. Why do girls go to the bathroom together? I believe it is a subconscious thing. Most of the time if a girlfriend tells you she is going to the bathroom you get like a reminder of 'hey maybe I should check my makeup', then that comes with the talk Tori mentioned. There is also the factor of not being by yourself in case a creep comes around. 3. Do girls like when their SO touches thir butt? Personal preference, but no. 4. Silent/Shy or Charismatic? Women like confidence, charismatic guys showcase it better. That why we tend to gear more towards charisma. 5. When its a good time to ask her to be your gf? When you know, you know. Some like it slower, some prefer it faster. 6. Does six pack matter? No 7. Six pack or dad bod? Personally, not necesarily a six pack, but athletic. Just dont have a beer belly. 8. What is attractive in a guy? Agree 100% with Tori, but I would love to add discipline. Its really attractive to see a man that know what he wants and has the discipline to do it. Also, seeing the conbination of a man who is disciplined in his faith... Just WOW. 9. Ask for the remote to watch F1? I would be open to seeing it, just know that you will have to explain it. 10. That was specifically for Tori. 11. What is a girls reaction to opening up about pornography? Agree with Tori. This is one of the things my generation (older end of Gen Z) is improving within the christian community. Since we've probably had the most outreach of pornography, we are very aware of how common the struggle is. So I think a lot of the time they will be open about the conversation and will encourage you in the process. In my opinion, its a healthy conversation to have when you are in a realtionship, but know that you should be getting accountability for it and working through it. TBH dont be scared, you most likely will be recieved with grace. 12. Tips on talking to a girl? Go up to her, no pressure. Joke around a bit, make it lighthearted. Compliment something about her outfit, that always works, specially if its something samll like a necklace or how a color suits her. If its a curly haired gal, compliment her hair and open a convo about it, if its done in a respectful, genuine way, they will love it. 13. Does a girl notice when a guy likes her? Yes, we get some of the hints. I just try not to get in my head about it because like tori said there are times they are just friendly. 14. How do girls feel about splitting the bill? I dont have much experience on that, but it does feel weird, specially of they are the ones who invite you. 15. Why do girls ask questions when they dont want answers? It could be what Tori said. It can also be that you do want answers but they dont give you the one you want and you get frustrated. 16. What to expect with women on their periods? Some will get super emotional, some will be sassy and feisty, some will simply shut down. I prefer shutting down and not having to deal with the repercussions of being overly emotional. Practice breathing exercises and patience. You will need it. There will be times that one moment she will be set on something and five minutes later be fixated on something totally different. She is not second guessing, she just genuinly moved on that quickly. (additionally, you can pray to get a girl thats at her peak when she is on her period. They exist. Very rare but real) 17. Are you scared of pregnacy? Yes. Asolutely. Dont get me started on labor. This is not as common but I am terrified of raising children, too. Tori mentioned the never looking the same aspect, that doesnt scare me as much. 18. Tell your partner he is your first kiss? I would tell them. Kind of a fun test to see how he reacts. 19. What makes you loose interest? What Tori said, 1000%. Dry people who dont communicate well. When they invalidate your feelings. Playing games. Bad manners. No real ambition or goal in life. 20. What makes you interested? Intentionality. 21. What is your biggest turn off? Bad manners. Dry people. Disrespectful guys. 22. What is a period actually like? First few days, a hot mess. Quite painful. Literally having no energy. inability to control you emotions. You are bloated most of the time. They also are kinda gross, not gonna lie. The rest its just meh. 23. Is it that hard to decide where to eat? Kind of. Sometimes you dont know what the budget is and that makes it infinitely harder. 24. Whats the proper answer to 'does this make me look fat'? If it looks good, tell her. If it looks bad, say anything that attacks the piece of clothing and not the girl. Say something about the color, the fabric, the cut, literally anything that isn't directed at her. Another option is going for the 'I dont think it fits the ocassion', or give her another option like 'I would choose that other dress'/ 'That other cut makes yu look better'. 25. WHat does 'I'm fine' mean? For me, its literally just that. I try to be assertative about how I feel when people ask. What I see for other girls it that most of the time its not and you will need to do follow up questions like 'are you sure ther is nothing you want to talk about?' or a question that adresses a specific situation you know she struggles with. 26. Whats with the pillow? You feel cuddled, girls love feeling cuddled. 27. That one was for Tori, but with many guys, yes, i am wary of them putting a nice guys persona. It gets over board at times and you go like 'no one is THAT nice'. 28. Does money matter? Not really, but I do think it does subconsciously. There must be a study about it somewhere. 29. DO girls struggle with lust? Yes. You have no idea. Church should speak more on it. 30. What does a guy do that tells a girl he likes her? When they notice. It can be changing your hair, new nail polish, a mood change, what you prefer. Men are not naturally inclined to notice small things, when they do, its because they are paying special attention. When they change something because you told them. One time I told I guy I liked how he looked with rings. He started wearing them more often. I later found out he liked me. Taking care of you is a big one. Paying attention too. 31. How do girls show they like you? Body language is a dead giveaway. When they are laughing and they look at you, maybe. Or when you find them looking at you constantly. A good one with extroverted girls can be asking them their love language and seeing if they are showing it to you. Tori was physical touch, she tried to touch Chad a lot. A girl that likes quality time will look to spend time with you. A words of affirmation gal will compliment you a lot. The more introverted kind will be more reserved and it will be infinitely harder, yet similar principles apply. 32. Abs or Arms? Arms. 33. Do girls like when guys treat them badly? Media normalized that when men treat you badly, its because they like you. Thats why. And no, I dont like it. Its distasteful. This legit took me like an hour to write. It was so fun to answer all those questions. Hope someone finds it helpful.

[@vandaaltje]

Wow! You actually took a of your time to write this🤯 Thank you! I really appreciate it! It's very helpful 🙌🏼

[@sara.bibiana]

Omg. Invalidating your feelings it's something that totally makes a woman loose interest! So good! 👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻

[@shaughnsmit2076]

Thank you so much for answering all the questions Esther, and with detail! It for sure is helpful!

[@emmasudharman7921]

hey just wanna say wow kudos to you for taking so much time to write this!! love how many of your answers are original and you’re sure of them, e.g. how when you say ‘i’m fine’ it actually means you’re fine (which is the same for me!) or when you say girls struggle wth lust too and Church should talk about it more. thanks for adding your perspective and have a good summer break sis :’)

[@angelavanoosten1]

Wow you go girl! I agree with so much 👏🏼

[@sgwiedenheft]

I would say another big turnoff is uncleanliness or apathy to physical appearance. Like a guy who doesn't pay attention to how he dresses, smells, etc. or doesn't take care of his body. A guy who takes care of himself emotionally, spiritually, and physically is very attractive!!

[@angelavanoosten1]

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@sarahhicks3227]

On the first kiss question. I was my husbands first kiss (he was 27) and I loved that he had never kissed anyone before!!!! It gave me so much peace that he wasnt comparing me to anyone and the kiss was great because it was with him!

[@cassidyjordan4690]

The guy equivalent of a sundress is either gray sweatpants and a man in uniform (ANY kind of uniform)!!

[@savannahtracy6578]

yup and pajamas 😂

[@RagnarLothbrok2222]

Why do y’all like sweatpants?

[@kaylanfomby7506]

@@RagnarLothbrok2222 cozy cuddling vibes; a lot of women are big on feeling safe&held and sweatpants often have that 'I can be myself with you, let's just chill together' slow-burn intimacy feel that's very much in the safe/cuddly/cozy/kinda-sexy category. My personal opinion!

[@alexandramckiee]

apart from a prison uniform lol

[@juanitapatino5831]

S C R U B S lollll

[@ryushizu17]

1:57 What’s the guy equivalent to a sundress? 2:26 Why do girls go to the bathroom together? 2:57 Do girls like it when guys touch their...? 3:24 What’s more attractive, if a guy is silent/shy or charismatic? 3:55 When is it time for a guy to ask you to be his girlfriend? 4:35 Does a six pack matter? 4:40 Six pack or dad bod? 4:58 What is attractive in a guy (besides looks)? 5:21 How to convert my girl into a Max Verstappen fan? 5:30 What is something that Chad does that is hot? 5:57 What goes through a girl’s mind whenever a guy opens up to them? 7:11 Tips for talking to a girl? 8:25 Do girls easily notice when guys like them? 8:54 How do girls feel when guys ask to split the bill? 9:41 Why do girls ask questions when they don’t really want answers? 10:28 What should guys expect/do when girls are on their period? 11:02 Does pregnancy scare you even when you’re excited for children? 12:10 If I’ve never had a first kiss, should I tell my significant other? 13:53 What things make you lose interest in a guy? 14:33 What things in a guy attract you and make you want to stay? 15:06 What is the biggest turn off? 15:39 What is a period actually like? 16:56 Is it really that hard to decide where to eat? 17:18 What’s the proper answer to ‘does this dress make me look fat’? 18:09 What does ‘I’m fine’ really mean? 18:56 What’s up with all the pillows? 19:25 Are you ever worried Chad’s ‘good guy vibe’ is to just ‘manipulate’ you? 20:01 What is something that you want but don’t want to have to ask for? 20:19 Does how much money a guy makes matter? 21:15 Do girls struggle with lust (just as much as guys do)? 21:46 What can a guy do to let a girl know they like them (non verbal)? 22:20 What things do girls do to flirt with guys? 22:51 Abs or arms? 23:07 (Why) Do girls like when guys treat them badly?

[@riona2019]

"we made eye contact, that's my wife"....im still not done laughing over this!!..i love y'all so so so much and y'all are always in my prayers..have a great life ahead y'all..y'all deserve it for being the people you guys are::))))))))))

[@Emma0403]

I LOVE how quickly y’all get questions in, film the video, then post. It makes me feel so much closer to you!

[@ToriAndChad]

Aww well that is partly because we are so behind on content hahaha

[@aaishakara7116]

Totally agree! And they sit and reply to each and every one of us too which must take so long! God bless them both so much

[@angelavanoosten1]

Yessssss !!

[@ToriAndChad]

hahaha I just do my best to actually acknowledge people and not just look at them like they are a number

[@angelavanoosten1]

@@ToriAndChad & that is the best thing ever !

[@marcuschristian618]

Finally a KZbin couple that talks about their relationship with God in a real way you just became the favorite

[@averynmitchell]

"Ask! You too can treat your woman better by simply... ASKING". Chad, we could totally see you in an infomercial 😂

[@ADHDDoc]

Gosh, I told my wife that I was going to marry her on our second date, because I knew she's the one after our first date. She thought I was nuts, but we've been married for 17 years.

[@sarahviolinyang]

something we want but don't want to ask for: flowers. (is it just me? 😂)

[@joyrachelfinn]

“Time, attention, and intentionality” ⬆️ Truth

[@andreealupoaie]

🔥🔥🔥

[@elineg6259]

🗣🗣🗣

[@aaliyahnewsome5289]

the way yall look at eachother. its like i feel the love radiating off the screen and it makes me smile. praying i get something like this💕

[@thecoldhardtruth1390]

she's way too beautiful and precious, he's so blessed to have her

[@belen5977]

"all logic disappears and hormons take over" This is sooo true about periods and so good to know hehe!! Writing it down

[@starbursttwister4994]

I believe this is a stereotype. Not true of a lot of gals.

[@giftedintrovert]

@@starbursttwister4994 🙄 exactly lol, cos I just get some chocolate and food and be laying down chilling. Some girls just like to be dramatic I guess

[@makaelaskinner1932]

I love how when y’all do these trend it turns into a deep message and it feels so wholesome and left with lil nuggets I can apply to life and my walk with the lord ❤️❤️

[@Laeln123]

@ 9:40 Chad: "I feel so seen, right now. I feel so heard." I'm DYINGGG lolol

[@redletterday3846]

Yesss, I voted for the asking my husband questions video in your IG story and now I am glad you are doing it the other way around because the first one was so funny (and sometimes a deep conversation)!! My second choice was going to be husband does my voiceover. Are you guys still planning to do that one? I want to see Chad narrate Tori’s makeup video and dubbing over her talking so it looks like she is speaking with his voice coming out of her lips in sync, like the longest funniest tiktok video ever 🤣 God bless you two and have a great weekend!

[@ToriAndChad]

We will still do the voice over one!!! A lot of people wanted that one! We just gotta plan it!!! God bless you too!

[@maccosmeticsfan5973]

Oh my goodness please do this one!! 😭😭

[@ToriAndChad]

We definitely will!

[@samueljayakumar6132]

Ayye my “I’m fine” question made it 😂😂

[@ToriAndChad]

hahahah

[@sara.bibiana]

And Tori gave the perfect answer 😂

[@margitgibbens198]

The level of quirkiness in this video and the previous one makes me so happy! Laughed a ton, learned a lot. Loved it once again! 👏🏼

[@ToriAndChad]

awww thanks for sharing that!

[@emmasudharman7921]

laughed so hard at this HAHHAHA tori’s answers are soooo wise yet so sassy at times and chad’s side comments leave me dying 😂😂

[@shaughnsmit2076]

Wow, thank you so much for subscriber of the week! That’s so cool!! I’m honoured! Bless y’all

[@samueljayakumar6132]

Wooohooooo

[@ToriAndChad]

We can't help but acknowledge how amazing you are for the Masters Fam Community!

[@keana._]

WOOOHOOOOOO

[@angelavanoosten1]

YESSS deserved

[@sgwiedenheft]

Gooo Iron Man!!! 🙌🙌

[@juniaestola3684]

Tori’s whole answer about how attractive faith is -🔥!

[@juniaestola3684]

I don’t want to pick the place to eat because what if you don’t want to eat there 😂😂 the best way to approach that is to give two or three places you would want to eat and then let the girl pick out of that haha

[@tinanekwaya09]

Tori was nervous asking Chad questions and she is even more nervous being asked😂😂 Love you guys💕

[@ToriAndChad]

hahah right?! We love you too!

[@manjotgill3059]

Tori shoo-ing away the guys is the best thing I’ve seen 🤌🏻😂

[@miriampopa8285]

Guy equivalent of a sundress for me has to be a plain white t-shirt ! When its a good quality tee and the white is so bright has such a nice contrast

[@natashapinerostachita9755]

Chad is having wayyy to much fun with these questions haha.

[@Oneblessedhome]

I had stomach problems too growing up!!! Trust it is nothing like labor , not to scare just being honest. People say you forget the pain but I didn't but won't change my mind on having another baby. It's literally a day of pain compared to a lifetime of joy and blessings with them 🙌

[@zamarmichael4326]

Can't wait for the next "BIGGEST" house update... enjoying the progress until now

[@the.victorgeorge]

It's so interesting to hear the answers from a girl's perspective. I am taking notes😀

[@ToriAndChad]

right?!?! I took a lot of notes haha

[@AnMG01]

This videos definitely help guys understand us and girls understand them! Truly helpful and entertaining! God bless you 🤍

[@ToriAndChad]

It honestly does! hahah

[@sgwiedenheft]

We had this convo on Discord and I was saying the equivalent for a sundress for guys is a button-down and jeans!! 😍😍

[@courtaniewilbur]

Agreeeeeed!!!!!

[@dapperdan1017]

I'm happy I found your channel! I love your passion for God and your example you set/advice you give. I'm proposing this fall and I'm so excited for a Christ centered marriage like yall display. Keep it up! Could you do a video on devotionals/studying the bible?

[@ToriAndChad]

that would be a fun one to do! We do more of that on our Patreon and have done a few YT videos on Devotionals! Have you seen those?!?!

[@Greg_Orr]

Hahaha I love how much of this is for Chad as it is for the boys! So good! Inspiration and confidence is 📈

[@ToriAndChad]

hahahah FOR THE BOYSSSSSSS

[@susanajurado3317]

every girl's period is different. for me, I spend the previous 3 days crying for anything, and I just need extra love and attention. It is beautiful to see that you guy is there for you, you feel supported and loved

[@giftedintrovert]

I just be eating, and staying in bed minding my business lol

[@byvictoriavalentina]

Sometimes I want to pause before they answer to see what I think about the topic, but your answers are just way better every time haha

[@Boihkp12]

OH MY 77K??? was there when it was just about 15k something.. God bless guys happy for the both of you.

[@Thx392]

The slow motion shoo shoo got me haha you all are awesome ❤🧡💛

[@allisonlucas018]

Congrats Shaughn for being the patreon of the week!!! Whooooo!!!!

[@ToriAndChad]

He is the man!!!

[@shaughnsmit2076]

Thank you Alison!!!

[@marijabarbaric5727]

Okay, so Tori and I had SO many of the same answers

[@macydarcie3652]

I love this! The way you guys bounce off eachother is so amazing 😂😍

[@ToriAndChad]

hahah awww we do be bouncing a lot in this video!

[@catelyngonzales6421]

My older brother’s first kiss was the woman he ended up marrying. He wanted to wait until it was his future wife. He first kissed her when he was 35 years old.

[@crystalcantu255]

Aww that's cute !

[@andreealupoaie]

I can't wait to hear the boys' questions!😆😂

[@ToriAndChad]

hahah they were funny!

[@mj_9450]

LOVE that you watch Milena too... I think she's great and really seems to be one of the most sincere KZbinrs 😁

[@karenivettgzz6741]

How do I look her up?

[@keana._]

I'm so so so pumped for this video. Especially after yesterday's discord convo!!

[@shaughnsmit2076]

Was a lot of fun, indeed!!

[@ToriAndChad]

hahahah that convo was wild!

[@angelavanoosten1]

Yesssss loooved the convo yesterday!

[@vandaaltje]

Yeah! It was so awesome and interesting 🙌🏼😇

[@ToriAndChad]

hahah it was enlightening

[@aaishakara7116]

Not me listening to yalls podcast on the train and now I have this video to watch too! Looks like you guys are coming with me then :))

[@ToriAndChad]

hahahah we are NOT mad at that!!! Thanks for being here!!

[@rachelankitha8858]

THIS IS WHAT WE'VE BEEN WAITING FOR!!!🙌🏽🙌🏽💗💗

[@ToriAndChad]

hahahah love it!

[@isabellalacy9901]

Can’t wait to watch this video! Tori and Chad, y’all have taught me so many new things about life and how to be a good Christian person! So I thank you for that! I look up to you two so much and I love all your videos! Happy Thursday and I hope that you two are having an amazing day so far! What plans do you have for the day?

[@ToriAndChad]

Awww well that's super kind of you to say! Happy Thursday to you and we hope you have an amazing day! We are working super hard today... but it will be a good day! I just have a ton to get done before I go out of town tonight!

[@aaishakara7116]

@@ToriAndChad Safe travels bud! Are you going anywhere nice? :)

[@ToriAndChad]

Going down to Miami for a quick day of work then back up to the wife!

[@ToriAndChad]

and that means a lot! We try to share the Truth of God in a loving way where people can receive it without feeling attacked...

[@isabellalacy9901]

@@ToriAndChad yes I definitely agree with that and I love how y’all preach and get so passionate about it

[@aurorap.7578]

There was a period in my life where I wanted to be abused and hurt because that's what I thought I deserved and that's how I felt about myself I viewed myself as a bad person and so that's why I wanted that. Ultimately of course I wanted to be loved and cherished and pursued but accepting that was harder for me. I'm glad I'm not there anymore

[@samueljayakumar6132]

Shaughn the man. Congratulations! Welcome to the subscriber of the week club

[@ToriAndChad]

SHAUGN THE MAN!!!! He is a beast!

[@shaughnsmit2076]

Thanks STM!! It’s feeling goood!

[@samueljayakumar6132]

@@shaughnsmit2076 book a flight. We gonna crash the masters house 🏡

[@ToriAndChad]

we had to include that photo hahah

[@ToriAndChad]

it's not crashing if you're invited! hahah

[@hannahjames2906]

Cannot wait to watch this!❤️ I need to grab my popcorn this one is going to be fun🍿

[@ToriAndChad]

hahah we had a good time recording it!

[@ben-jasondixon5881]

I feel built up and excited after watching this. Thank you guys

[@jinarose5374]

Simple answer to all questions is just to ask her directly and communicate. Don't generalise. All girls are different. 1. Equivalent of sundress? Personal preference - For fancy it'd be white shirt with bowtie. For casual it'd be a simple good fitting t-shirt with shorts or jeans and runners. Colour tones: White top, grey or navy bottoms. In all honesty for me it's more about the material/texture. 2. Bathroom pack - Why? Because of potential emergencies. Be it for personal safety or for other necessities that one of us may have forgotten (eg. makeup, cream, period stuff, etc.) And yea, to talk. Also not as awkward to be the only one left sitting at the table. But tbh sometimes I don't mind being the one sitting at the table whilst the others go to the bathroom. Depends who I am with of course and if I actually need to go or not. 3. Not any guy of course, but yes SO. 🤭 4. Silent / Shy or Charasmatic? For me - Both. When he is in a group I like guys who are the silent type providing it's because they're intelligent and observant. This way I know he isn't attention seeking. Silent confidence and humbleness speaks volumes. Plus patience. Grounded in himself. He doesn't just let in everyone. Aware of surroundings. Talks when he wants to or feels the need to. Let's others shine whilst also shining his light when it's time. Yet when we are alone be as charasmatic, silly as you wish. TLDR - Observant with silent confidence yet charasmatic. Be whichever you need to be in whatever situation it calls for you to be. Conscious masculine. 🥰 5. You will know if you have empathetic qualities. When the time feels right just be direct with me. Say it as it is. Honest. Simple. Straight-forward. I hate wishy washy grey zones. I love traditional approaches even if it's cheesy. To me it's no bs no games no guessing. Immediate points. Shows you're not afraid of rejection, secure in yourself and open to communication. 6. Six pack important? No. Just be healthy in whatever capacity that is for your body. At one point I didn't even like that at all. I prefer like 4-pack or 2. Lol. But really just a bonus. It's just the shell. The soul quality is what is most important. The shell changes in correlation to time and a person's mental state/relationship with themselves. And that is a completely personal journey that is not for anyone to judge or require. 8. Attractive qualities? Faith, patience, openness, discernment, groundedness, ability to see beyond the superficial yet also understand the intricate. Basically God qualities. 9. In this day and age mostly everything can be rewatched. Just schedule to watch each other's things. If they don't want to, respect that. 11. What is a girls reaction to a guy opening up about pornography? I'd be happy that he took the initiative to open up and bring it up on his own accord. That already shows that he trusts me, is sharing this part of his jounrey, and knows that he wants to do something about it. So for me it's just what do you need to feel supported? In this day and age girls struggle with this too. 12. Be confident and know yourself first. Love yourself first. Be grounded in yourself first. Don't go into it thinking what you can get from the encounter. For me I prefer if there were no intentions behind it. It turns me off when I know a guy is purposely hitting on me, feels so unnatural and intention based. Feels not pure or sincere. The best encounters came from it being natural and wanting to be friends. Perhaps I'm different but I don't like the compliments. It feels so fake and intentional. Plus I don't need vanity boosts. Especially if it's from a stranger. Creeps me out. And just shows me you're superficial. I'm sure some girls love that. Boosts their confidence. Yet some girls like me would hate it. I'd love it when my SO says these things naturally, but from someone I barely know? Sorry, I don't care what you think of how I look. What matters to me is what my SO thinks or what I feel. 13. Yes, I notice. But until he is direct about it I don't think much of it. 14. Split the bill? Depends on what was established in the relationship. But really this doesn't happen unless we're platonic. If dating it usually is paying taking turns. I don't like set rules when it comes to paying. Everyone should be fully themselves in each moment. If they feel like it do it. If not don't. Sometimes I really feeling like treating my SO to nice things so I just do it. That's part of me experiencing who I am. And if he wants to he does it. Never let their be expectation or resentment. If one doesn't have enough to pay, communicate. Also always say thanks. No matter how long you have been together. Nothing should be taken for granted. 15. Why do girls ask questions when they don't want the answers? I know girls like this, but honestly half the time I really do want your opinions. Then other half the time I need your help on sorting out my own thoughts. So half the time it's rhetorical. Which is why my own friends will say "What do you really think first?" 16. Period? Every girl is different. No stereotyping here. Just observe and get to know what she likes or needs during this time. Depending on health and diet the body may differ from month to month. I've been pretty blessed with this. I'm always on time. It rarely hurts. All I need is hot chocolate, nothing cold, hugs, pillows, don't walk so fast and during this time don't touch them buttocks. Lol. Nothing much else to answer. Pretty much the same just communicate directly. For 24. Does it make me look fat question - Just ask her in return what do you think? What do you feel? And educate her. She shouldn't care what others think of her body so much. As long as she feels great in it then it's fine. Unless there's technical seam issues or what not but most the time she doesn't need to feel so insecure or reliant on external validation so much. She needs to start accepting her body for whatever it needs to be. If she doesn't like it yet again that is her own journey and relationship with her body and self love. Cheers! 💕🙏🏻💜✨👍🏻🌹

[@lyndisigns]

Y'all are SO STINKIN adorable!!!

[@brianastombaugh5538]

Omgg when Tori talked about her stomach problems, I died😂😂 I’ve had a lot of those issues as well & cannot tell you how many times I’ve thought “okay I think I’m prepared for labor now” 😂😂😂😅😳😭

[@katherineaguirre3336]

AHHH I LOVE THESE TYPE OF VIDEOS!!!! it’s getting juicy in hereeee!😂 Also i love how you guys are lowkey matching with your neutral colors, and y’all look amazing!!!! love you guysss!♥️ God bless!

[@trose4669]

To answer the question regarding lust, I and other girls I know struggle with it. And regarding porn, girls I’ve known have struggled with it too, but we have a forgiving God who meets us with grace!

[@kelle30]

The male sundress equivalent is gray sweatpants. Specifically gray.

[@keepinitkawaii]

Can confirm

[@kyriegogolin1310]

These types of videos can be so helpful and this one was really funny too, which I loved! I also feel like it needs to be said that every person is different, every situation and relationship is different. I think this is why there isn’t one holy grail book or go-to guide for dating. I think what you do is obviously 1st pray about it and then 2nd, talk to older and wiser godly people for advice. Thank you guys for the encouragement and all that y’all do! ❤️❤️❤️

[@kar3n35]

1:43 yes!!! Her answer is epic. Thats a real woman right there. Botton down shirt is the best. Second best grey sweatpants.

[@keana._]

woah woah woah hold up! That description is straight flames SHEESH. "big points in the baaaaaagggg" for that one!

[@ToriAndChad]

hahaha thanks for taking the time to read it!!

[@mansha7903]

YESSS Thankyou for the descriptions !!

[@sharlottlather9857]

I just found your channel and I LOVE it. It is so hard to find godly godly on KZbin. Thank you. ❤️

[@sarahmountstudios3188]

The period question-- let her sleep, give her chocolate🍫, and give her space and grace!! Who’s with me on these 😂

[@eveninthesoup6519]

"So if you like that... I'll be praying for you" 😂👌

[@samueljayakumar6132]

That description is absolute fire 🔥 Absolutely loved it Chadizzle ! 😍

[@ToriAndChad]

Thanks a ton my man!!!

[@bridgettemiller4628]

Confidence and kindness are the most attractive to me

[@angelavanoosten1]

I'm in the sun eating fish w my family but SO excited to watch this tonight 🙌🏼 hope y'all are goood!!

[@ToriAndChad]

hahah we love you, Angela!Eat some for us and enjoy that sun!!!

[@angelavanoosten1]

@@ToriAndChad love ya too! I willll:) have a good day!

[@MRSIR-sn1gb]

wow chad thanks for that description. rly needed that :)

[@andreealupoaie]

Ayee, another juicy vlog🔥

[@ToriAndChad]

W)OOOOOOO!!! Parttttayyyyy!

[@yt7377]

Tori, so sorry to hear about your bad cramps. I used to have really bad ones before. But now I barely feel any discomfort physically and emotionally. There are many natural remedies that could be helpful for PMS: progesterone cream 10 days before 1st day, Evening Primrose oil, cramp bark extract, ginger tea before and during your period(I buy dried ginger juice tea at Trader Joe's). Also Vitex that helps with getting pregnant. It is always a good idea to check your hormones level too.

[@ladybethia5457]

Ladies go to the restroom together not just to talk, but also because of safety. It is safer to go together.🙋🏻‍♀️Fun video!☺️

[@samueljayakumar6132]

Tori here slaying the questions.

[@shaughnsmit2076]

Yes she is!! Thank you Tori!!

[@ToriAndChad]

right?!?! she knocks them out quickly!

[@samueljayakumar6132]

@@ToriAndChad like babe Ruth hitting the ball she out here knocking it out of the park

[@ToriAndChad]

just like you're doing these comments haha

[@samueljayakumar6132]

@@ToriAndChad hahaha thanks !

[@katethegreat4918]

Time, attention, and intentionality do not rhyme. LOL.

[@gideonsnowdon6913]

Some great tips there. I took notes on the talking to girls question. Turning off the pressure. Tori know exactly what is going through our heads before we go say hi.

[@annab2088]

ahh saw this on your ig story and could nottt waittt haha!!

[@ToriAndChad]

Thanks for showing up!!! We appreciate you!!!

[@jenaya_laila2442]

You guys are so cute and HIILLAARRIIOOUUS! I loved the question," When to know what we should do? Knock or slide food under the door?". Cracked up loudly...😃

[@johnjv24]

Lol “I feel so heard” I love it Chad!!! Bro connection!

[@speedyishere9364]

You guys are absolutely amazing !!❤ Thanks for the work and love you put in the videos and podcasts you do, it means a lot to so many people around the world!! We love you guys!!!❤

[@FairlightChristianna1Cor318]

Painful periods are common, but totally not normal. Your period is a woman's fifth vital sign. If your period is painful, or sporadic it means your body is trying to tell you something is wrong and it's asking for help!

[@natashapinerostachita9755]

Finally getting time to watch this!! ❤️ love you guys. Y’all so cute.

[@alisonmolina6794]

When you want to know where she wants to eat say babe “guess where I’m taking you to lunch” and she will guess what sounds good. This works 8 out of 10 times 😂

[@olukoyaolusanya]

Okay, I just ran into your channel and seeing you Love God and F1! OMG I'm so in!!

[@mcrobie27]

As a guy, I appreciate this. Thanks for the good content and the great questions. Keep it up. ;)

[@sacredrose5477]

For the period question. I would say give her a heating pad, a pain reliever and water.

[@shaughnsmit2076]

Heyy everyone! Enjoy the video, I can just tell it’s gonna be funny!

[@ToriAndChad]

hahah Love you man!

[@angelavanoosten1]

I meannn you are in here so it's good

[@ToriAndChad]

hahah guaranteed goodness

[@angelavanoosten1]

@@ToriAndChad you get it

[@sgwiedenheft]

Congrats bro!!

[@mm3andersen1]

The guy always pays regardless if you are friends or not.

[@swabia1554]

First of as someone who has experience never belief that normal stomach pain is anywhere near labor pains this is so totally another level. Over here in Germany pregnant people usually are guided through by midwifes right from the start so they are prepared pretty well as to what to expect during the different phases. You get to know what is happening when and why. So we were informed about nausea and that food cravings my change it was just necessary to find out what then worked and what not but it never was a surprise... Hubbies were told how they can assist during labor etc. Overall I felt pretty safe and secure and still it was totally different from anything else in so many ways.... :-)

[@iuliaturcas4348]

I appreciate so much your honesty and openness! I love that you 2 are so natural and you treat us like your friends! 🤍 Thank you for building this lovely community and creating wonderful online content!!!

[@ToriAndChad]

Being honest and open is pretty easy for us! So thank you for saying that! It is so much easier than trying to put on a front hahah. LOVE YOU!

[@iuliaturcas4348]

@@ToriAndChad So true! 🤗🤗

[@rodneyjaynes2485]

LOL!! The first kiss question! I was maybe 6 and walking home with my neighbor. We decided to kiss when we got to her house, and it was the best kiss ever! I am 70 and I still remember it to this day. She was so pretty! Sadly she moved away a few years later.

[@parkerd4421]

Y’all should do a series on this, these questions are great!

[@andreealupoaie]

Me, trying to figure out what questions were asked by the boys from Discord🤔😂

[@ToriAndChad]

hahahah I will never tell!

[@samueljayakumar6132]

@@ToriAndChad thanks bro 😂 love you mucho

[@ToriAndChad]

Yo Tambien!

[@vandaaltje]

Hahahaha 😂😂

[@ToriAndChad]

WIL J!

[@kaylinworthington]

Guys: we want massages on our periods. Helps with cramps! And as for what to eat, I always say sushi. But I agree with Tori--a guy demonstrates his ability as a leader when he picks two places and has you pick from there. This is a good example of submission, on a small scale. Like we actually WANT a man to lead, and when he leads well, he includes the woman in it. When guys just complain that we don't know what to eat, it's not only invalidating but I see it as a lack of leadership on his end!

[@kaylinworthington]

I also think some women like the "bad boy" or men that don't treat them well is a reflection of their own brokenness and trying to fix what their own fathers didn't give them. The Father Series by Justin and Abi Stumvoll was really helpful in understanding that!

[@katelynisaak5544]

I know I am a few days late, but I laughed out loud multiple multiple times during this video. Thank you for the laughs today!!! Love you both!!!!

[@gracevalle5437]

Great answer to "I'm fine!" I wish more men understand it now.

[@geno5169]

I always open my wife’s door for her when we dated and for years I always helped her with drying dying dishes and for years I always put out a towel and washcloth for her for her shower . For years. Loving you’re vedio’s

[@vandaaltje]

So I (finally) watched it! At first I wanted to watch it while I was biking😅 Ben then Angela and Natasha convinced me to not do that and wait till I'm home. So I did hahahaha But loved it guys! And fun to see three of my questions being answered hehe! (I think even all of the ones I asked on IG haha)

[@ToriAndChad]

hahahah that was a safe move to watch it at home! haha hope you had a great time cycling!

[@vandaaltje]

@@ToriAndChad Hahaha I know right 🤣 I did, thanks! The weather is great today🙌🏼

[@angelavanoosten1]

Smart guy listening to me and Natasha hehe. I'm sooo curious what questions are from who 😂

[@vandaaltje]

@@angelavanoosten1 Hahaha, well go ahead and guess which one were mine 😂

[@angelavanoosten1]

@@vandaaltje hahahahaha i don't wanna guess wrong

[@javytrev94]

This was a lovely video.... great questions and great answers. Love your Messy Masterpiece podcast. I listen to it every day on my lunch break at work. Greetings from Mexico 😊