Just few things that are less talked about when it comes to getting top surgery Come follow me! Instagram: / jammi.dodger Twitter: / jammi_dodger94 Email: jamieraines@hotmail.com Music: Bensound.com
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@eustacia035 жыл бұрын
Post-op sadness is a common side effect of anesthesia. Some people have really intense symptoms right when they wake up where they cry uncontrollably. Anesthesia is WEIRD.
@Abigail132555 жыл бұрын
eustacia03 anesthesia is INSANE. It's so hard on the body sometimes, both times I've gone under I woke up feeling like I got hit by a train just from the anesthetic not even the procedure 😂 I get monthly lidocaine shots in my neck and shoulders to help muscle knots and those make me sob every single time just...just because I guess? lol
@mme.veronica7355 жыл бұрын
@@Abigail13255 Anesthesia, the most important thing in surgery, but we know the least about it
@Abigail132555 жыл бұрын
Zonofv 1 which is also terrifying! It's easy to screw up something like that
@marvelholt215 жыл бұрын
Holy shit the uncontrolable crying was something that happened the first time I went under, and I couldnt feel any of my body, so I was extremely afraid. My parents yelled at me because of it, rip.
@Abigail132555 жыл бұрын
Marveles holt aw they shouldn't have yelled at you for it :(
@WillardStillesHere5 жыл бұрын
Happy 6 years , I just got my surgery done yesterday. I can't move XD
@lightning23675 жыл бұрын
WillardStilles Congrats man
@WillardStillesHere5 жыл бұрын
@@lightning2367 Thank you :D!!
@Ren955 жыл бұрын
All the congrats! ^-^
@WillardStillesHere5 жыл бұрын
@zeddayzedd Thank you!! :)
@WillardStillesHere5 жыл бұрын
@@Ren95 Thank you ^.^
@MattsCoolDog5 жыл бұрын
Unpopular opinion: I'm actually super exited for my post op scars. I'm planning on getting a double incision hopefully in a couple years and I'm not bothered at all about the prospect of having big scars. I think they'd be more of a testament to how far I've gone to feel at home in my body, like a rad bookmark everyone can see and know that I've endured.
@behindzerosp4 жыл бұрын
Same
@tinyybiceps4 жыл бұрын
I think it's really cool when trans men have scars that meet in the middle too! super rad
@finleybrunson55153 жыл бұрын
Yeah I feel smth similar I think it's because I'm non binary so the scars would make my chest more androgynous and and not strictly masc in my head if that makes any sense
@narraticn3 жыл бұрын
memento mori
@entamology5813 жыл бұрын
you would dig schuyler bailar's talks about his scars if you haven't already seen em - he has a gorgeous big old thick scar and feels similarly about it. @pinkmantaray on ig
@Bigotedechivo5 жыл бұрын
I was expecting a "flatter than the flat earthers think the earth is" .... was not dissapointed
@analorena68325 жыл бұрын
About point number 5: I am a cis female, and like, half of my (cis)male friends have more or the same amount of chest-bumpyness (idk what to call it) as I do. So really, don't worry my dudes. Your chest doesn't have to be F-L-A-TTTT to look the same as a biologically male chest would. (this is not to invalidate your desire to make it flat, my only purpose is to reassure you that your chest does look very manly even with a little bumpyness.) (also, please if this does not sound as supportive as it does on my head, let me know so I can fix it. I do not mean to hurt anybody)
@lochnessmonster68625 жыл бұрын
Hey just wanted to say thanks for this, also yes the term "chest bumpyness" has now entered my vocabulary since it made me smile oddly enough? I hope you have a wonderful day and week
@analorena68325 жыл бұрын
@@lochnessmonster6862 Well, I aim to please! Have a wonderful day and week as well! 😊
@gabrielsonoflight58035 жыл бұрын
Nice! Thanks!
@CaffeiNeko5 жыл бұрын
Thank you. I need a reminder sometimes. Just like Jaime I obsess over being as flat as possible when binding... But I know that's not realistic (especially that I'm overweight and most cismen my weight have bigger chests than I do).
@MysteriousBeingOfLight5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for that !
@QueenOfEyeliner5 жыл бұрын
I love how straight-forward and honest you are about your transition. You're a bloody inspiration and I hope other people going through the same process continue to find comfort and courage from sharing your experience
@shyryTsr2k5 жыл бұрын
Bloody? Where's the blood at?😅
@QueenOfEyeliner5 жыл бұрын
@@shyryTsr2k It's a British thing 😂
@shyryTsr2k5 жыл бұрын
@@QueenOfEyeliner that sounds brutal heh...bloody...i hear sometimes "that's a bloody good deal!" And I'm like "....murder?!" Heh...it just sounds weird tbh...havent you wondered why you peeps say that?
@Ren955 жыл бұрын
@@shyryTsr2k Not a bloody clue 😁
@shyryTsr2k5 жыл бұрын
@@Ren95 *facepalms* oh jeez😂
@renferal37745 жыл бұрын
I'm not a trans person but a little old lady who can relate somewhat to this. I'm 7 weeks post opp from a mini tummy tuck and liposuction. The first couple weeks I was so so swollen I felt like a bloody sausage!! Like you said, your body has just gone through a traumatic experience and needs time to heal. It's going to take six months for me to see the final results. Thanks for making this video. I think it will really help lots of people.
@oliverpike57515 жыл бұрын
Omg I saw you in another comment section I think. Hi little old lady :)
@sy-qk7xt5 жыл бұрын
Ren Feral You're a very sweet person for leaving a comforting comment like this, have an amazing day! :)
@jessie959345 жыл бұрын
Ren Feral i hope that your surgery went well and thank you for leaving a positive comment. I am a 13 year old ftm trans person and for a person of an older age to have an open mind and be accepting makes me feel a bit better about the world. So thank you for being a great person.
@AmanCreatesArt5 жыл бұрын
Awww... I saw you in another comment section too. You're so sweet! :-)
@brittaolson65504 жыл бұрын
Ren Feral Way to go, keeping your mojo. You must be truly living to be concerned with improving your looks yet! I’m in my 40s and was starting to think maybe I’m too old to risk elective procedures lol (I do have some health issues.)
@jacquelinekonig92334 жыл бұрын
As a non-binary person aspiring top-surgery this is exactly the kind of content I need to help me on my journey. Thank you for talking about your experiences so openly it really helps me and a lot of others. Much Love from Germany.
@dianaburn24743 жыл бұрын
I am the same. I wish you the best!
@honeybunny-14564 ай бұрын
Did you get top surgery yet? I am non binary and am looking for top surgery
@lukas1104 жыл бұрын
trans guys really be like “if I don’t have a concave chest I can’t pass”
@harveyrichard36634 жыл бұрын
oh wait a minute tho I be havin a concave chest 👀 in reality it just means I’ve kinda always looked like I had tits even when I was little + sometimes it’s hard to breathe, but my chest isn’t horribly concave so it’s not that bad still always been fascinating to me ever since I realized not everybody has a chest like this though
@lucehleblanc4 жыл бұрын
As a trans woman with concave ribs, the ends go out, and it just looks like saggy tits if you skinny enough
@_meldrop_3 жыл бұрын
on god broke my rib binding one time and at the hospital my mom was like 'wtf' and later I called my friend and we laughed abt how 'at least I passed' LMAO
@thegreenbabypodcast53063 жыл бұрын
@@lucehleblanc yeah my ribs go out at the bottom and i hate it. A lot.
@harryferguson18123 жыл бұрын
me
@jmeee5 жыл бұрын
Nice haircut Jam
@mme.veronica7355 жыл бұрын
What's a haircut Jam?
@ekscholl5 жыл бұрын
Wait until pattern baldness sets in lol
@ossi36985 жыл бұрын
jme Ik I want it
@ragamuffin15885 жыл бұрын
@@ekscholl wth
@AnimeGirlYaoiChan5 жыл бұрын
@@ekscholl That's for everyone though?..like have you seen an elderly person with a FULL set of hair?
@iron14713 жыл бұрын
00:00 - Introduction 01:09 - It won't look pretty straight away 2:49 - scars stretch. 4:00 - binders are still a part of your life 4:48 - your chest may take a while to settle down 5:40 - it's not normal to be completely flat 6:51 - post-op depression is a thing
@jessie959345 жыл бұрын
I am an ftm trans 13 year old and your videos really help me. You are such a great person and i just love all of your videos.
@narutouzamaki87395 жыл бұрын
Same but I am not 13 I am 11 almost 12
@100deadinside95 жыл бұрын
i’m thirteen too 👋
@ering10135 жыл бұрын
I'm 14
@Vocaloidfun5 жыл бұрын
young trans kids are so brave and i will tell all of you that it DOES get better i started T in 2015 and ill be getting my top surgery in 2019 i never thought id be able to be confident in myself but even before my surgery, i feel amazing life for trans youth is tough but i know yall can get through it 💚
@jessie959345 жыл бұрын
@@Vocaloidfun congratulations a i am really happy that you are getting your top surgery next year. Hope it it goes well.💙☺
@CJGatsby2 жыл бұрын
I just had surgery last week, and my current feelings towards my chest are “gross, I love it” with a heaping side of medical anxiety. This is very reassuring
@VeryGoodDad Жыл бұрын
How's it going?
@BoyMac135 жыл бұрын
**Jamie going on about being flat** My brain: “Steamroll my chest”
@aprilshowershard5 жыл бұрын
Something I wasn't prepared for: Scabby nipples. I had peri and for some reason I just didn't expect it, but especially my right nipple literally looked like a small black hole on my chest for a few weeks because the scab was so dark and thick. Also when the scab came off I seriously thought my whole nipple was coming off.
@kimburtrach20113 жыл бұрын
Oh, dear, I don’t do well with NORMAL scabs, I’m probably gonna need some seriously good distractions for my hands to keep from picking. :/
@lxcky213 жыл бұрын
That sounds terrifying... 🥺
@boywithhairlikethis2 жыл бұрын
I’m fucking terrified looking at these comments
@fireruby18822 жыл бұрын
This is where I wonder if I’ll just use a binder instead of getting surgery🥲
@mattbroom9895 Жыл бұрын
@@kimburtrach2011 I'm the same, but quite honestly, I just had surgery in October (which is why I was watching this, have some niggles I wondered if he'd cover) and really, I am terrified of touching the scabs because they are just not the same as a cut or small scab, these are Very Important Scabs and they really make you convinced that if you picked it, your whole nipple will fall off 😬
@Sambles_5 жыл бұрын
I’m a 16 year old baby trans ftm and I have a rather large chest, when binding I’m still not completely flat, and it upset me for a long time. But after friends told me that it just looks like I have pecs, it boosted my self esteem and I feel great! Hearing this from another trans guy is so reassuring! Everything you said is so good to hear and very educational! I’m hoping to get top surgery once I graduate in a couple years (too far away but oh well I’ll have to be patient) But yes in short I’m so glad you made this video it has helped answer a lot of questions!
@T2Kaze5 жыл бұрын
JAMIE I JUST had top surgery last Tuesday! This video is so reassuring. Thank you
@miro69605 жыл бұрын
T2Kaze congrats!
@oliverspencer38355 жыл бұрын
Congrats!! Hope you're healing/will heal well!
@T2Kaze5 жыл бұрын
@@oliverspencer3835 Thanks! I am! I just had my drains taken out yesterday!
@lightning23675 жыл бұрын
Congrats
@WolfenMoony5 жыл бұрын
Congrats! I hope you are healing well!
@camil3368 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for making these videos 💚 My top surgery in 2 weeks 🥳 wish me luck fellas 🏳️⚧️
@darlingggs Жыл бұрын
DID YOU GET IT
@isaacm.b.5370 Жыл бұрын
I hope it ended up alright and that you're feeling okay!!
@drumsaresexy Жыл бұрын
I hope everything went well!!!!
@GaySatanicClowns Жыл бұрын
How you doing?
@AmvReverdedStudios5 жыл бұрын
I can definitely say just as a woman who had a breast reduction 6 years ago now. I am very glad that I did it. Because it was causing me breathing issues and back pain and chest pain and being very self-conscious and uncomfortable. but recovering from that was one of the most painful things that I ever had to go through. The drainage tubes and the stitches pulling. The recovery pain alone had me crying for about 2 weeks. Had to actually get put on oxycodone after the initial pain meds they gave me did not do its thing. Also had to deal with a infection after a few weeks. I still have the scars and I can say my areolas are not completely even, but they did do their best. The bruising was absolutely horrendous. It looked like my chest alone got hit by a car. I was told that there was a good chance that I would never get feeling back in my chest. But luckily after about I'd say a couple years I have full feeling in my chest. I would not change it for the world. I am so much more comfortable and my breathing problems have been resolved and my back pain and chest pain have almost completely gone away. The scars compared to the way they used to be are almost unnoticeable. I am so much more comfortable in my own skin now and can actually wear clothes that I like that are my size.
@spiralpython19895 жыл бұрын
AmvReverdedStudios My expérience of breast reduction surgery is very similar to yours. It was living hell. Massive complications... but worth it from the perspective of my bodily integrity years later. Not just did I experience pain from very large breasts, but I also had body dysmorphia about my breasts, and whilst being mostly comfortable with the gender assigned at birth, I was a Binder . I have happily had an almost flat chest for 6 years now. Yup, cisfemales can have issues about having breasts...
@AmvReverdedStudios5 жыл бұрын
@@spiralpython1989 oh for sure. I know how you feel in that regard. I had very large breasts in middle school and throughout high School. A lot of the girls, I think out of jealousy.. bullied me and would always make rumors that I stuffed my bra. Even though most of the time I was wearing sports bras so there was nothing to hide pause adult bras hurt me too much. Over the years it was hard to do any kind of activity or exercise or sport that I wanted to do because of my chest size. It was very hard to breathe and sleep and I always had a sore back and neck. Even from a disturbingly young age I had adult adults looking at me in ways that they shouldn't have been looking at me. Looking back at all the complications, the infection I had, the pain etc. if I knew then how much less pain and how much more comfortable and confident I feel in myself now. I would do it all over again.
@jessikapiche60975 жыл бұрын
@@AmvReverdedStudios Wow, what you are saying here should be heard out on the open because this is important. Your life experience could help a lot of women out there. I think you should do a video about that if you have the time and ressources. The best to you Amv.
@bluetotoros85134 жыл бұрын
AmvReverdedStudios tysm i really needed to hear that right now. I just got top surgery a few weeks ago and I’ve been having a really rough time but I know I just need to wait and get through it
@Lauren_P_4 жыл бұрын
AmvReverdedStudios this is so encouraging. I want a reduction
@parkerkim5095 жыл бұрын
This is amazing bc I just had a consultation with my top surgeon and am going to schedule the surgery date soon!!
@CornBeanSoup5 жыл бұрын
Parker Kim Awww so lucky!! I’ve still got many years to go of saving up money and getting therapy for preparation, etc. I wish you luck! ❤️😁
@parkerkim5095 жыл бұрын
@@CornBeanSoup thank you!! And best of luck to you on your journey! 😁
@jmeee5 жыл бұрын
Good luck!!
@LadyAneh5 жыл бұрын
All the best, and don’t worry too much if it looks quite weird for a while. You can probably ask your surgeon if you have any major concerns. Oh, and post op, if you can, get Mepitac silicone tape for your bandage changings, as it will irritate your skin less.
@parkerkim5095 жыл бұрын
@@LadyAneh yeah lol my surgeon warned me that it probably won't look completely right until about 4-6 months or so. And thank you I'll try my best to get my hands on them!!
@solhrafn5 жыл бұрын
As a trans guy waiting for top surgery, yes I knew most of this but I'm still super glad you posted this! Definitely a lot of things you mentioned are good to hear, like with the potential of post-op sadness. Thank youuu!!
@jax.11255 жыл бұрын
i want to reply to everyone that's commenting that they got or are getting their top surgery but I can't so im just gonna say congratulations! everything will go well and im so happy and proud of you ♥️ and even the ones who can't get their surgery i still support you and you're strong as hell, keep doing you, you all are amazing 🌸
@SuperMrjamie5 жыл бұрын
What a lovely comment thank you from myself and all who have or going to have surgery :)
@ghostie96425 жыл бұрын
It helps me a lot, thanks:)
@grays90115 жыл бұрын
ur so wholesome
@qaadirakhan76865 жыл бұрын
I read the thumbnail as 'Nipperoni' 😑
@EthanBuzzy5 жыл бұрын
😂
@n.c.pictures4 жыл бұрын
Lmao 😂
@rin38263 жыл бұрын
lmfao
@AwakeLazarus5 жыл бұрын
I had to have two too operations. In 2005 I had double mastectomy, but the doctor just took the stuffing out, ting incisions under the nipples, left sagging skin and didn’t resize the nips. This year, about two weeks ago I had a second surgery to remove breast tissue that went cystic and would leak out one of the nipples, as well as hurt when my dog stepped on my chest. Lumps were diagnosed as not cancer, and a different doctor fixed the problem. Removed the tissue and extra skin, and at my request removed the nipples completely (because I didn’t want the hassle of relocating and sizing them). I now have two prominent scars across my chest and when I heal up you won’t be able to tell if it’s cold out. 😁 the scars kinda freak me out, especially since I was mostly given the wrong after care instructions. Thankfully I have a first aide course and remembered they after care from my 2005 operation.
@thequeerrunner57455 жыл бұрын
Jamie, ok so Aaron Ansuini did this, but I’d love it from your POV - can you do a video advising carers (partners, parents, friends etc) about how to do aftercare for and with you? I ask only cos I’m waiting for my surgery date and would love to signpost the people in my life to someone/somewhere relatable. Thank youuuuuuj xxx
@parkerkim5095 жыл бұрын
an aftercare video would be great, my bf is going to be taking care of me after my surgery, and we'd love more pointers!
@KhaoticKore5 жыл бұрын
Yes please. This would be really helpful!
@sorcerer4555 жыл бұрын
This would be a great idea! My boyfriend is going to be having top surgery in February and I would love it if I could learn the best way to help take care of him. Jamie your videos are so eye opening for me and I feel like I am learning so much that is helping me really understand. Thank you for your insights and best wishes to you!
@calburns3025 жыл бұрын
My wife will have to take care of me post-op and I'd love an aftercare video to talk about this
@fitzdettmer76995 жыл бұрын
On post-op depression: your mammaries typically produce hormones! Your body has to adjust to different hormone levels after surgery, and you will feel bad/weird until they regulate themselves.
@ering10135 жыл бұрын
About how long does it take to regulate?
@dakotazworld5 жыл бұрын
Wow I did not know that now I’m even more dysphoric about my chest lol
@tylerburney85765 жыл бұрын
Just so y’all know, not everyone experiences this, it varies a lot from person to person. Everyone I’ve talked to has had different experiences with post op depression, plenty of people don’t have it at all but those that do can have it to very different degrees.
@Torchwood895 жыл бұрын
mammaries do not produce hormones.
@Dad_a_Monk5 жыл бұрын
No, your mammaries do NOT produce hormones. Not sure where you got that from. Hormones that affect the breasts come from the endocrine system. Yes, stimulation of the mammary can trigger glands and glandular organs within the endocrine system to release hormones. This is a reaction through the nervous system, triggering reactions in the brain, not the mammary glands themselves. The mammary glands themselves, do not release hormones. They are only designed to produce and release milk. The mammary gland is an exocrine gland; just as salivary, sweat, and mucus membranes glands are. They secrete substances other than hormones. Also, they secrete what they produce through ducts and not into the bloodstream. It is also true that many women, who have a mastectomy do require hormones. However that is to fight certain types of cancer. Mainly ER and PR positive cancer cells. Not from a loss in hormone production. Transgender men do not require any hormones after Top surgery. Other than testosterone which they were most likely already on. Since Top surgery is not used to fight cancer, there is no need for any hormone treatment specifically related to the removal of the mammary glands.
@caiteide5215 жыл бұрын
The grown out frosted tip blond hair looks fantastic on you! I seriously love it. Thanks for another great and informational video.
@Jammidodger5 жыл бұрын
Thank you! :)
@Nahbrochill5 жыл бұрын
I have never heard anyone say "you don't have to subscribe if you don't want to"!! I respect that, you are so sweet and polite, and for this reason I am subscribing. Right on.
@lawlietthetoast5 жыл бұрын
I am neither trans nor am I having top surgery, but hey here I am. Who knows when this information will come in handy :D Great video 😊
@martam.3671 Жыл бұрын
Same here 👍🏼
@kokichikomaeda16785 жыл бұрын
I'm fifteen years old and my brother is nineteen. Both of us are trans FtM and not only does it help me with my future, but it helps me to help my brother if he needs it when he gets surgery. Honestly, I need an adult male figure in my life to help me out with things like that and my dads not supportive of my brother so I know he won't be supportive of me, therefore I refuse to come out to him yet. Watching your videos makes me feel like I kinda have that male figure in my life that I need. Thank you for that. Love ya
@cableboxcal33375 жыл бұрын
“For those who are preparing for surgery” *sweats profusely with excitement*
@pippilangsok65235 жыл бұрын
Even though i'm MtF I've begun watching all your videos! They're so funny and relatable even though we don't go through exactly the same thing. I really love your videos and you. :)
@dswxyz25 жыл бұрын
You briefly mentioned another guy having top surgery on the same day by the same doctor, and it made me wonder what sort of interactions happen between patients. Do you consider yourselves "surgery buddies" and maybe keep in touch afterwards, at least for a little while? Do they have someone at the hospital to talk to when you need an ear to listen to you?
@mmtruooao83775 жыл бұрын
I think it depends a lot on your surgeon, where you go, but I've heard a lot of stories of meeting people who are also getting surgery. It helps when someone can share your experience.
@addisoff58085 жыл бұрын
Finally! Been waiting for this video cause honestly I’m scared to get the surgery
@bryntendo5 жыл бұрын
You'll be fine man. I know it's scary to go into, not knowing what to expect, even if you've read or watched a lot of other people's experiences, it's always different anyway, so it's scary, for sure. But you'll be fine, it's honestly not nearly as bad as it seems or how much you work it up to be in your head. I was 'fortunate' (if you can call it that, haha) to have had gone into renal failure about a year before my top surgery, resulting in me needing emergency surgery all of a sudden and I nearly died, so the recovery was absolutely horrendous. That was my only other experience with actual surgery (not like dental surgery or anything, which I've also had, but it's nowhere near the same) before top surgery, so when I was prepping myself for top surgery I _waaaay_ overestimated how bad the initial healing and subsequent recovery would be... And it was totally fine. I stayed with my parents for a while immediately post-op and even that night/the day after my mum was like 'wow, you don't seem like you just had a huge surgery, this is crazy how quickly you're able to move and talk and be happy' haha. It' a big surgery, and it's serious, and you should absolutely be careful and treat yourself well during recovery, but it's seriously not nearly as bad as people work themselves up to believe beforehand. It's natural, fear is normal, but you'll be fine and you'll get past it just fine too, then you'll have the rest of your life to enjoy your new chest!
@addisoff58085 жыл бұрын
@@bryntendo wow, thanks man
@lokileigh44105 жыл бұрын
Re: Post-Op Binder: This depends on your surgeon, I think. My surgeon only had me in the post-op binder for 5 days.
@jamisons33145 жыл бұрын
I had my top surgery just over 2 months ago so thank you Jamie for making this video! My scars are surprisingly thin and look great, and my nips are a bit discoloured but I feel that will clear up eventually. I just wanted to say that this video gives me some hope for that, and the general look of my chest for the future. It's crazy also how every day (and several months) leading up to my surgery I was watching sooo many top surgery vids, but now that I've actually had it done, this is the first one I've watched since - crazy how priorities shift lol. Thanks Jamie :D
@sataprescott75885 жыл бұрын
I go in tomorrow for top surgery consult. Nervous as hell. But I'm thankful for your videos.
@jessie959345 жыл бұрын
Good luck i hope things go well☺
@sataprescott75885 жыл бұрын
@ElliottNattrass ATLAS!! : Thank ye!
@jessie959345 жыл бұрын
@@sataprescott7588 no problem i can't wait until I'm older and can get the surgeries.im only 13 but only a few more years until i can start to medically transition.
@phroobin5 жыл бұрын
This is so relatable. My top surgery was about 2 years ago and I was also a Good Boy post surgery but my scars still stretched to hell... I wish they were a bit more faded, but what can you do!
@ThatSpoonieTransGuy5 жыл бұрын
I love your cheery yet realistic approach! I'm currently 5 weeks post op and I'm so antsy to get busy hahaha. I'm healing much faster than I expected but as I'm also recovering from fatigue (probably birth control side effects, yay) I'm feeling more energetic than 5 weeks pre-op. I actually already got myself a gym membership so I can at least walk and stuff because the weather is way to bleh to do that outside atm.
@surprisinglysurviving7515 жыл бұрын
How are you always so wholesome? like how lmao
@cableboxcal33375 жыл бұрын
The post op binder is the part I’m least looking forward to. But if wearing one for a couple weeks more means I can breathe normally and I won’t cough all the time, it’s worth it. Because sometimes I neeeed to take it off, but then I feel like crap. So yeah it’s worth it in the end
@lolzerous Жыл бұрын
Currently recovering from top surgery (3 days post op) and wow this is the most excruciating pain I've ever been through. Don't get me wrong, I'm still glad I got it, but wow holy shit I'm in so much pain. I was unfortunate enough to find out the medicine they first prescribed me I'm mildly allergic to so I had to stop taking it. I saw so many videos where the people said, "It doesn't hurt that bad heehee" but yes it does for me. Oh my god. Just a reminder to everyone that this is an intense surgery and it will probably hurt very bad when you recover. Some people are luckier than others but I unfortunately am not one of those people.
@maxhu6121 Жыл бұрын
I'm recovering right now, day 4 post op and tbh... my mobility is really good, there isn't much pain, I washed myself yesterday. But it's been really rough all the same for other reasons and I'm really very appreciative of your videos, they make me feel a lot better.
@helliotboy4 жыл бұрын
thank you, thank you, THANK YOU for this!!! I just had my top surgery barely 5 days ago and I have definitely been feeling worried about what it's going to look like when my bandages come off and a little sad/scared and then immediately following that, immense guilt for feeling anything other than grateful that I had the opportunity to finally achieve this huge step in my transition, and I really needed to hear all of this, so thank you a million times over for your advice, general openness, and kind words
@sebastianmctavish97275 жыл бұрын
I have my consultation in march and your videos have been so incredibly helpful in alleviating my anxiety and keeping my spirits up in the meantime so I just wanted to say thank you for everything
@patrooney22835 жыл бұрын
Sebastian McTavish : Good luck with your surgery!!🙏😚💕💕
@sebastianmctavish97275 жыл бұрын
@@patrooney2283 Thank you! ❤
@mermer3572 Жыл бұрын
As an 18-year-old who just had my consult with my (potential) surgeon, it is extremely reassuring to know that a man who has said on multiple occasions that he loves his results almost ten years later got his surgery at 18. My (potential) surgeon made absolutely sure that I understood that getting the surgery younger can increase the risk of complications and that I needed to be 110% sure there wasn't any possibility I could regret it, so it makes me feel a lot better to know that Jamie got his surgery at my age and he's still happy with it now.
@reapnotsow5 жыл бұрын
what a timely video - i’m 5 days post-op and i’m feeling a lot of the things you mentioned. i’m mostly feeling annoyed that i can’t go out and do normal things, that things are itchy and uncomfortable, and that i can’t get out of the dreaded post-op binder that’s squeezing the life out of me. i’m a little bit nervous for my reveal in 2 days bc i’ve always had an image in my mind of what my chest would look like after surgery, so i’ve just been reminding myself that whatever the result will be i should be grateful and kind to myself. thanks for another great video jamie!
@WhiteN0iz5 жыл бұрын
Guys! I've got a consultation with my surgeon THIS FRIDAY! I'm so excited! What are the essential questions to ask?! Here's hoping my chest turns out as nice as yours! Thank you for touching on post-op depression. :)
@Jammidodger5 жыл бұрын
That's awesome! Just make sure you know exactly what he's going to be doing and that he knows what you want out of surgery Ask about post-op care, when you can return to work/school, if you need to bind post-op and for how long, what to do if something doesn't seem right (e.g., you think you might have an infection). Just anything that you want to know about the surgery, and the post-op healing, write them down between now and Friday. I'm sure there's a bunch of other questions, but I can't think of anything else right now! I hope the consult goes well and I'm sure your chest will turn out great! :)
@unknown-gk1cp5 жыл бұрын
first yes, u dont know how long i have been waiting for this day, my dream has come true...lysm Jamie
@PhantomFandoms5 жыл бұрын
I'm getting top surgery on December 18th so this video came just in time for me!
@batzy2065 жыл бұрын
Random Guy That’s awesome! I’m having mine on December 21st with Dr. Garramone! I can’t waittttt😱😱
@jessie959345 жыл бұрын
To both of you. You guys are getting early Christmas presents.i hope both of toyr surgeries go well. Have a merry flat chested Christmas☺
@karellenoverlord73625 жыл бұрын
@@jessie95934 Agreed! Same from me. And same to me--mine was 9 months ago with very good results. Hope yours goes as well as mine did!
@lindyhop245 жыл бұрын
As someone who relatively recently had a breast reduction, a lot of this is surprisingly relatable, especially the bits about seeing yourself post-surgery for the first time (I fainted during my first shower cuz all the incisions looked so bruised and weird and angry) and also the description of how the nipples were awkwardly raised for a while afterwards. I'm now just really curious about the differences between top surgery and a breast reduction, because they definitely seem to have some overlap. So glad that your surgery went well and that everything healed up nicely
@NicoKettler Жыл бұрын
I had top surgery on the 15th of this month and i wanted to say thank you for this video. I feel relieved and hopeful and like normal and this is just what i needed in this stage of my recovery💜
@quinjammin5 жыл бұрын
really needed this- i'm still saving up for my top surgery! thank youu :)
@TheRogueDM5 жыл бұрын
LOL pepperoni nipples. xD I'm having my top surgery in March and I'm so excited! I'm expecting it to look all gnarly too with bruising but I think I'll still cry anyway because flatness. :P
@lexmacaluso25835 жыл бұрын
This was very helpful. All of your videos have been. My therapist says that I'm very chill and I told her that's because I prepare myself to not just the goods but also the bads... When you accept both you will accept everything that may go not as perfect as you imagined. Thanks for everything!
@GlennInman3 жыл бұрын
Sir, I am a bad navigator or youtube. I watched your interview with your brother. I dont know if (older gay guy) I would have been as interactive. I never (till watching some of your vids) understood trans. You help me understand, and your witty and kind. Thank you
@Doriansartbakery4 жыл бұрын
Wonderful video jammi! I’m a 15 nearly 16 ftm and I watch your videos to help me know about the top surgery as I am planning on getting it in the future. Thanks for the amazing video
@wolfman755 жыл бұрын
Jamie you're the best!!! Thank You for the Info!! Much Love!!!
@cosmicpuddle5 жыл бұрын
All very good points! I'm 7 weeks post-top as of today, and I feel all of this so much, especially the bit about the post-op binder. I'm soooo glad to be free of that thing! Anyway, thanks for another great video!
@jp97075 жыл бұрын
I really, really needed this video!! I'm a bit less than two weeks post-op, and I hadn't heard any bad stuff about it. I didn't know I was going to be in pain for weeks afterwards (you can take painkillers to help with that), or be unable to reach above my shoulder or twist my torso or walk for more than three minutes without collapsing for fifteen, or that I'd be spending most of my day sitting or lying down. Even my mind doesn't seem to be up to much at all, I've been mentally and physically useless for weeks, which is stressful because I've got a dissertation to be writing! (note to students: if your top surgery is affecting your studies, apply for extensions and mitigating circumstances! It most definitely qualifies. Ask your surgeon or his/her/their secretary for medical evidence, to show to your educational institution) I've been feeling anxious about the fact that I'm not overjoyed with how my chest looks, and that I've been feeling low after the surgery, because I was sure that you're meant to have this moment of joy and relief at having a burden lifted, and getting a body you can love. I didn't know that feeling low was fairly normal, so I was really scared that I had made the wrong decision in getting this irreversible surgery!! I'm so glad I found this video, although I wish I'd seen it a few weeks earlier :P
@Ben-fr8gi5 жыл бұрын
A lot of this is completely relevant to anyone having any surgery for the first time. Things take time to settle down and heal.
@whalethen50555 жыл бұрын
My top surgery is on December 7th. I've been waiting 5 years, man. I'm so ready.
@Jammidodger5 жыл бұрын
YAY, so happy for you :D
@jessie959345 жыл бұрын
They are giving you an early Christmas present. Hope everything goes well.I am so happy for you.
@whalethen50555 жыл бұрын
@@Jammidodger you've been an inspiration to me over the years. I just want to say thank you.
@whalethen50555 жыл бұрын
@@jessie95934 Thank you :D
@jessie959345 жыл бұрын
@@whalethen5055 no problem. As a trans 13 year old i can't wait until im old enough to get top surgery and bottom so i can feel comfortable but hope it goes well. And have a merry flat chested christmas 😊
@castlevancleve8385 жыл бұрын
Hi Jamie! I'm having top surgery in 6 days and this video is Exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you thank you
@cripplynipplily Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much. Since I've been on T, I've been thinking about it more and more.. out of nowhere
@marcy19225 жыл бұрын
Your so awesome for sharing your journey! Hair looks great!
@samthescotsman5 жыл бұрын
im so jelous of anybody who gets top surgery even if it looks awefull. i have extreme chest dysphoria (i even have to close by eyes when i take my top off so even though i always look away i dont even want to see myself out of the corner of my eye) but due to a medical condition i can not have any trauma to my body so that means no top surgery, no testosterone and even no binding. also because this condition causes the worst pain known to man and i have it all through my body. it is incurable as well. it is so rare i have had to tell all but one of the heaps of doctors i have seen about it. and most dont even beleave me
@emilytannysmith88074 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry... what is the condition?:(
@Pinkbanana-yx3dp4 жыл бұрын
What is this rare condition??!!
@dorothymorris6536 Жыл бұрын
if you guys check out his channel he did end up getting top surgery let's goooo!!!
@tibo67495 жыл бұрын
It's so sweet of you to have made this video ❤ it's very helpful for trans males, I love it. Such a kind soul
@Sheidy5 жыл бұрын
This video really helps. I'm on day 3 of my own post top surgery journey and hearing a few of these things is really encouraging. The main few would be that it's normal to have some of the tissue there still rather than being completely flat and that the post-op sadness is normal. (Seriously I almost cried like 3 times today just... because.) Thank you for this.
@PansyStudioNZ5 жыл бұрын
perfect timing for this video as I'm having surgery in a week, thank you so much!!
@Jammidodger5 жыл бұрын
Ah that's so awesome! Hope it goes well
@jessie959345 жыл бұрын
That is great hope everything goes well.☺
@PansyStudioNZ5 жыл бұрын
@@Jammidodger Thanks so much Jamie!!
@PansyStudioNZ5 жыл бұрын
@@jessie95934 thank you heaps!!
@LeonSandgren2 жыл бұрын
3 years later now, how is it?
@iamphoenixfire5 жыл бұрын
I'm getting new insurance in january and it looks like that insurance will cover top surgery in which case !!!!!!! This was super helpful.
@llRocketll4 ай бұрын
My top surgery is in 2 days and I’m so nervous but so excited. Thank you Jamie 💚
@godsdammitjason2 жыл бұрын
I've been following for a long time, I've watched these videos many, many years ago when I first came out. Back then top surgery seemed the unobtainable goal. I'm happy to say I'm back on this video today 7/20/22 because I am 8 days away from my top surgery. I'm terrified - I've never had any kind of surgery before or been under anesthetic - but I am also so so happy. Thanks for making these videos Jamie; helps me a little more to prepare.
@GirrlyCreeper2 жыл бұрын
I'm 5 days post-op and I've been feeling the post-op sadness, it's rough because I don't want to talk about it with anyone who might not understand... I'm also not very good at letting other people take care of me, which really doesn't help. I can't wait until I get more independence back in a couple weeks
@Ssally_Sskellington4 жыл бұрын
Reali-T-ies get it T T shot Testosterone Ok I'll leave
@dax98695 жыл бұрын
Jammie is truly spilling the realiTEA
@blaineash3 жыл бұрын
Just started my journey towards top surgery last week. I still need a referral from my doctor, the report my therapist is writing (in order to get the doctor’s referral), and presenting all this to my insurance to see if they will even cover it, all before I can even have a consultation. I’ve got a long way to go, but something about knowing that it’s a real possibility is making me so excited and happy! ☺️
@EVERYWHEREinc3 жыл бұрын
I hope it's a smooth journey for you!!! I'm sitting in bed one week post-op wishing I'd done all of this a bit sooner 😅 you'll get there!!
@shiroganetsuki96343 жыл бұрын
Wish you all the best! I'm currently applying for top surgery myself Hope it'll be a smooth ride for the both of us, and everyone else in the same boat!
@EVERYWHEREinc3 жыл бұрын
@@shiroganetsuki9634 good luck ☺️ it can be a bit of a tricky road getting there but well worth it!!
@JumpiiB3 жыл бұрын
Yoo gl!!
@enbyishimaru5 жыл бұрын
You're a life saver Jamie: just by saying 'realities' in a funny way reminded me to take my T shot
@raynepatterson55315 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this.
@joshuasolis44883 жыл бұрын
I’m going to be 2 weeks post op and needed to see this video , thank you Jamie :)
@PhillyFrank1 Жыл бұрын
I really like the sense of humor you bring to these videos.
@jaye70645 жыл бұрын
I actually just had my top surgery last week and I knew all the risks and what could happen but 7:47 was literally me one day before surgery xD
@thatdutchguy28825 жыл бұрын
Hope doctors tell their respective patients this before hand, to set the expectations to a realistic level for the client. Especially the binding part is very relevant information for a client,....yeah, nope, you still have to bind for 4 to 6 weeks after, is good to know before hand innit.
@laxforlife885 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this video. I am getting top surgery in 2 weeks and I needed to hear some of these things as a reminder
@jessi_starr5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for posting this! I'm having top surgery in a week and I'm so nervous. I'm not sure what to expect.
@AmandaJBishop15 жыл бұрын
This is my favourite hair that you've had 🧡
@unknown-gk1cp5 жыл бұрын
love ur hair like that btw
@winnie_the_bleh5 жыл бұрын
idrk if i’m trans or not. sometimes i feel like i would be happier as a boy, and then some days i’m happy to be a girl. idk. but you really help with my self doubt. thanks Jamie, your personality just brightens up my day. 💜
@grays90115 жыл бұрын
TwentyØneDunTylers -_- here’s my advice in case u wanted some from someone with experience. its hard to explain so bear with me. ur only trans if u have a problem with ur physical body in the context of your female parts. however, disliking your body your breasts or your vagina doesnt necessarily mean you’re trans because there are plenty of cis women who dislike those things abt themselves. like i said, its kind of hard to explain. the criteria for gender dysphoria is basically that you would need to have a problem with being female BECAUSE you feel as if you are a boy/ should have been born a boy/ a boy trapped in a girls body. as a trans guy you see yourself as a boy first and foremost. you should look in the mirror and long to be taller, broader, have a deeper voice, a male chest, etc. it should be an intense, crippling feeling that affects you on all levels. that’s gender dysphoria basically. if you feel that you’re dissatisfied with your PHYSICAL body specifically because its not male, you may be trans and i would encourage you to reach out to a mental health professional. also, good luck i hope you figure it out
@TressaZimmerman5 жыл бұрын
I am so glad you posted thos video. I just found out that my insurance is now going to cover gender assignment surgery. But there will be some things I will need to go through first; counseling and what not. Thanks.
@emmaolsen37365 жыл бұрын
I am 13.. And a girl, but I don't feel right in my body.. This really helps watching. I will get surgeries later in my life, I'm so sure. Heh..
@jessie959345 жыл бұрын
I came out as trans in September 2017 and im the same age as you. I hope that your friends and family all support you because this is a time where support really helps.I just set up a KZbin channel but i haven't posted yet. I want to post support videos and videos about my transition.I hope that you feel like you can be comfortable and feel like the true you one day because it will happen. Good luck😊
@samuelshelton52285 жыл бұрын
You don't have to be a girl if you don't want to be. You should try talking to someone about your feelings. 😀 Good luck!
@emmaolsen37365 жыл бұрын
Samuel Shelton thank you alot!☺️
@l.wolfbrother17345 жыл бұрын
Good luck figuring yourself out if you didn't already. I had the exact same feeling when I was 13 (I'm 16 now), but I didn't really know what trans was at the time. I was constantly asking myself "What if I was born like a boy?". And now I'm 99,9% sure (which will be 100% when I would talk with a professional about it). I wish you a lot of luck on journey :D
@jessie959345 жыл бұрын
@@l.wolfbrother1734 I didn't know what Trans was either until September 2017 when i came out and i hope that everything goes well for you.☺
@elianwolfert38795 жыл бұрын
I'm now nearly 7 weeks post-op and healing really well, happy with the results, can move better than I expected, etc etc. Everything is great, except it seems I kinda hit post-op depression. :( It's so frustrating because I'm super happy but still depressed. X_X
@BlueEyedSlytherin5 жыл бұрын
It's been 3 weeks since I got my top surgery (liposuction) and while it's been freeing to get rid of the fat lumps, it's also kind of hard to deal with the fact it doesn't look the way I want. So it's nice watching videos like these to remind myself that it'll look better with time
@Temp935 жыл бұрын
I just had top surgery 2 weeks ago, and I relate so much with everything you talked about in this video. This really helped to reassure me that my experience is normal. I also thought "omg yuck" when I looked at my chest for the first time.
@Kleineganz5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing! My top surgery is definitely a future thing, but I can't wait ... not just because I want a flatter chest, but also because I have a lot of painful, dense tissue in there and it's just always uncomfortable/painful. I at the age where I need to get mammograms and those suck so bad.
@egoist51345 жыл бұрын
Same I have too much chest dysphoria
@failed17thchromosome5 жыл бұрын
Feeling sad after top surgery is also normal because of the fact that your 'lumps' produce hormones - and when most of the 'lumpy tissue' gets cut out, a lot of hormones get drastically taken out of your body too! It's just your body trying to balence stuff out again !
@danielcortina35955 жыл бұрын
I am recovering and this actually very helpful, I was feeling really crappy but this helped a lot 💛
@Chardaddi4 жыл бұрын
I just love your attitude. You had me weak😂😂😂 Thank you for being so candid.
@markusdez17485 жыл бұрын
February 20th 2019 😩🙌🏽 my top surgery date
@kentomon26575 жыл бұрын
Hope yours went well, had mine on that day too :) Sending you positive vibes
@karlwolf87035 жыл бұрын
Markus Dez Hope all went well for you!
@alienillusi0n5 жыл бұрын
I do want to transition but I'm really scared I'll regret it later in life. That's why I'm doubting if I'm trans, because other trans men often seem so sure that living as male is what they want.
@TheLongjohntim5 жыл бұрын
I'm gay, not trans but i enjoy your videos they are so informative. Sometimes I take for granted my being male then I watch videos like yours and see someone who had to fight to be what I take for granted. Jammie, I really think you are one handsome man and you really seem happy And I'm happy for you!
@jelliemish5 жыл бұрын
This is really useful, thanks for making this video, Jamie!