Understand How People Think by Tony Robbins *rare video

[@brendayaqub8042]

Wow!!! That explains why communication with spouse is difficult. First time hearing something like this.

[@CastleHassall]

maybe you heard it before but you didn't listen? ;)

[@seedsoftruth57]

@@CastleHassallwhat do you mean?

[@0222tomi]

​@@CastleHassall That makes zero sense and even less value to the discussion.

[@ladydeerheart1]

It's a proven fact that human beings have to be told something repeatedly before we hear it enough to remember it. Anyone that has ever been around a child at all would know that. We don't learn something the first time we're shown. Even as adults we have to be told over and over and over again to remember appointments and important dates. Our phones wouldn't need memory if we actually remembered everything we heard the first time.

[@carktok]

### Study Notes #### Key Concepts: 1. **State Creation and Behavior Control**: - Understanding brain function allows for the creation of desired states in individuals. - Once a state is created, behavior can be controlled. - Mastery of this skill is crucial for personal and professional success. 2. **Frames of Reference**: - **Self and Others**: Understanding perspectives from both self and others. - **Matching vs. Mismatching**: Different ways people sort information. #### Matching vs. Mismatching: 1. **Matchers**: - **Sameness**: People who find how things are alike. - **Sameness with Exception**: People who find similarities first and then note exceptions. 2. **Mismatchers**: - **Difference**: People who focus on how things are different. - **Difference with Exception**: People who note differences first but also recognize similarities. #### Practical Examples: 1. **Rectangles Exercise**: - Participants identified relationships between three rectangles differently, showcasing matching and mismatching tendencies. - Responses varied from recognizing all as rectangles (sameness) to noting positional differences (difference). 2. **Communication and Learning**: - **Matchers**: Relate new information to existing knowledge by finding similarities. - **Mismatchers**: Challenge new information by finding exceptions or differences. #### Application in Real-Life Scenarios: 1. **Military Training**: - Example of a speech to the U.S. Army where the speaker's friend, a mismatcher, challenged the speaker's statements by finding exceptions. 2. **Therapy Sessions**: - A mismatcher client constantly found exceptions, making therapy challenging. - The therapist used reverse psychology by encouraging the mismatcher to continue their behavior, leading to eventual change. 3. **Motivating Different Types**: - **Matchers**: Show how new behaviors or ideas are similar to what they already know. - **Mismatchers**: Challenge them by suggesting they might not be capable of change, prompting them to prove otherwise. #### Examples of Historical Figures: 1. **Isaac Newton**: - A matcher who found commonalities to develop laws of gravity. 2. **Albert Einstein**: - A mismatcher who identified exceptions to Newton's laws, leading to new theories. #### Communication Strategies: 1. **With Matchers**: - Emphasize similarities and how new information aligns with their existing knowledge. 2. **With Mismatchers**: - Use phrases that challenge their natural tendency to disagree, prompting them to prove the opposite. #### Conclusion: - Understanding whether someone is a matcher or mismatcher can significantly enhance communication and influence. - Tailoring your approach based on these tendencies can lead to more effective interactions and behavioral changes.

[@VideosViraisVirais-dc7nx]

Nice. I printed your comment and now I going to edit to look more concise

[@manolo_ai]

Is this the singularity?

[@whalien1239]

❤thanks

[@VideosViraisVirais-dc7nx]

@@manolo_ai guei

[@shaimaaaldeeb2300]

Thats very helpful thank you

[@TRIPCMusicTV]

Man this is a Gem!! Thank you sir!

[@DavidsonHangOfficial]

So gooood

[@AlroyMartins]

Tried this with wife. Sleeping in the car. Thanks Tony from the Past

[@lngwnd1]

Damn bro really?

[@Zzzzx7]

@@lngwnd1gotta do what you gotta do to get ur desired results 😎🤷‍♂️

[@seedsoftruth57]

Well you know that not all past information spin the now type of situation… if you want to really truly understand your wife and most women who have feelings that are very real, then do the small things that you know you never do for her do not ever ever ever disrespect her or say… and this is a very big important one, never say mean things to her ever and if she does to you let that happen with you not saying anything back unless you mst then stick to something that keeps you in a good place .;for example; she says your an asshole … now hopefully you really are not an asshole otherwise the whole thing won’t work because no one likes an asshole personality ok… anyway if you must say something then don’t go any further then saying wow that is rude and walk away and don’t come back for a hour and if she apologizes or attempts to do nice things for you then you have her love and respect for ever Because you put up with her behavior and still didn’t give into being rude back and that keeps you in the place of her protector and we need that.. if she does it more than 4 times in the same year then she’s go issues and doesn’t respect you or herself ❤

[@callixvision6481]

@@lngwnd1😂

[@robertconnell7082]

I believe he is referring to “agreeable” people and “disagreeable” people. Just using his own terms as is matchers and mismatchers

[@abhijithvm3166]

I believe that the most difficult thing in our world has to understand others. Everybody are unique and everyone are heroine on their own story. So like influence others or managing people is one the difficult procedure. But this video has taught me some tips like how we can solve the problem or how to handle the situation according to the problem. Finally thank you for the informative video.

[@TejasNarvekar-k6o]

I think it is interesting to listen to non psychologists/ sociologists about how people think

[@keto_3men225]

No one's better knowing how people think than salesmen.

[@PeterJAncona]

Upload the longer versions please

[@diegomoreno9557]

Great performance of Aston Kutcher playing Tony Robbins at biographic film.

[@candicers7697]

😮When, where was that!!! He played Steve Jobs. Maybe you meant that one.

[@_Island_Boy]

Everyone used "new thought" to get rich... Bob proctor, Earl nightingale, Napoleon, wattle. Literally you b only need to follow the principle in the Bible

[@justletmepostthis276]

I do see a hint of Aston Kutcher.

[@jeanalexandre1105]

Move in silence and the result speak for it self.

[@ERTEditz]

Thank you man, keep uploading these! 🔥

[@Lemariecooper]

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[@Erikkurilla01]

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[@jessicasquire]

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[@tahirisaid2693]

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[@jessicasquire]

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[@stacyadair371]

Wow! That is life changing!

[@summerlove6787]

Wow so gooood 🙏🙏🙏🙏💚💚💚💚

[@onetribevision]

Thank you for sharing these trainings from Tony from the archives I absolutely love them

[@Medietos]

Normal, healthy voice, nice.

[@jeremysnowdenz]

This was incredible! It answers a lot with the experience I've had. Thank you for sharing.

[@ivanesteves2828]

thx 4 sharin TJ

[@SpeakerGregoryDwyer]

Thank you.

[@rambishwasray2.0]

🎉🎉 awesome

[@OliviaEmma-e6b]

Nice video

[@NetanelColish]

tysm!

[@alextempestautomationsmave3542]

Turns out I've been misusing the word "bitch". I meant: "mismatcher". ;)))))))

[@EvangelineCereno]

Thank you Sir 😊

[@TheEarthsAngels]

Thank you for sharing the knowledge your time is greatly appreciated

[@NurBoss-bw5tw]

Nice one mate

[@angelot2116]

Why music on the background? Why?

[@jewelsbarbie]

He took the music out. :)

[@Ghost0623DIBA]

When you can find out the patterns along with this it you tend to understand people.

[@mdratulislam-up6xn]

Nice ❤❤

[@nghiabasil]

good

[@Amazingworld-official0]

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[@skyesnayd]

Where are you finding these / where can I get access even paid?

[@michupichuKZ]

Dobry film pokazujący, że ludzie przede wszystkim nie rozumieją stawianych im pytań. Nie rozumieją istoty stawianych zagadnień, problemów. Bez takiej podstawy nie da się poprawnie funkcjonowac. Dramat...

[@chessthoughts]

Whats the relationship between these three figures. Thats a clever way to get data on a room... Its a rorshach test...

[@SparkingLife111]

Oh wow he speaks like jim rohn his mentor

[@teenageapocalypseusa5368]

Of coouuuuurrse!

[@kushaalrana]

From which video is this taken? Can you provide the link?

[@Mogwai88]

SOURCE!

[@kushaalrana]

sorry I didn't get that can you share the link@@Mogwai88

[@8teendiscover]

WoW he looked way more grounded there different personality

[@oceansunset6147]

Is this Tony Robins in a younger life?

[@autumn5852]

No, it’s when he got older, near the end of his life

[@A91367]

Because he asked for the relationship. That means how they relate or match up.

[@Alyner-Universal]

I admire this recording and many other people who were the earliest “change your mind/success pursuit/etc..” teachers - they learned all that, applied SUCCESSFULLY in their daily lives DECADES before “click Share” and www. We now are blesses to have the whole world at our feet 1 screentouch distance.

[@autumn5852]

He wasn’t anywhere near the first or one of the earliest. All this bs came from Oliver hill

[@mdlmranhemon]

❤❤❤❤

[@gocpng4699]

At It For A While

[@ZmondeChefKing]

Is this Tommy Lee? Sounds like him 😮

[@justletmepostthis276]

Well, yes and no really, lol. Probably related in some way, but he does sound like Tommy Lee Jones.

[@KS-ne5mq]

I don’t understand. I don’t know what to think.

[@Scottadamsfan3481]

How does this information help anyone

[@autumn5852]

It doesn’t. Unless you want to be a fraudster

[@traiteursmarseillais9426]

2024 what happened to his voice?

[@amarisrodriguez6385]

I don't think hw was diagnosed with throat cancer as of yet.

[@Mastrninamarie]

It's called aging 😊

[@SIB_COMEDY]

can you imagine how many times he's projected his voice to millions of people over the years?

[@mr.rodriguez3908]

​@@amarisrodriguez6385Salaam sister!☝️

[@autumn5852]

The hormones they take when they do the switch

[@MakAnthony1105]

POV: ads should be banned. You're watching something great and interesting, suddenly BOOM! You see a nonsense ad that has nothing of the sort to do with you! I find it infuriating...

[@ladydeerheart1]

I find ALL commercials and ads, aka:brainwashing, infuriating. I think they should all be illegal. I'm not less of a person because I don't use whatever product is being shoved down everyone's throats at any given moment.

[@MakAnthony1105]

@@ladydeerheart1 thank you. Exactly my point

[@tommasocapelli1]

Just use brave browser man 😉

[@LivinginthespiritofGod]

You sound clueless.... How do you think KZbin is able to offer KZbin videos free to you ,just for your viewing? Tech companies, website owners and app developers pay hundreds or even thousands of dollars annually to keep you happy accessing their platforms daily for free..... Without ads, should pay for every single video you view on KZbin.

[@utube11235]

Well, we are watching it on a private company’s platform that’s showing it to us for free, and whose revenue source is ads. When we watch it for free, we have to deal with ads.

[@Guzmandini]

Please take the music out, distracting. I want to hear the man speak.

[@jewelsbarbie]

He took the music out. :)

[@AndyNastas40403]

😢

[@MrAkki93]

All are create by 1

[@nccamsc]

He is just making things up. But he can talk and talk…

[@ladydeerheart1]

Everything you've ever heard, including the language you heard it in, is made up. EVERYTHING.

[@juliarotunno]

The days before his voice got all raspy.

[@veronicab15]

maybe from all the talking too

[@autumn5852]

Before the hormones or whatever it is they take, kicked in.

[@LoveAllMyFamily]

Making up bullshit on the spot The four categories of people 😂😂😂

[@zoden6305]

This doesn’t really make sense to me

[@XeLYoutube]

thought experiments. can be good to find new way or more efficient way to "insert something here"

[@Scottadamsfan3481]

It’s worthless

[@autumn5852]

Well done. Your bs radar is on point 👌🏽 the guy is a well taught fraudster like his mentor Jim Rohan

[@afghanoutsider]

?

[@anonmarketer1]

he recycled nlp meta programs

[@connercleveland1994]

Kinda feel like a mixture of multiple maybe even all … lol

[@schlussmitschiss]

Why this horrible background music? Unnecessary and unnerving.

[@veronicab15]

probably copyright

[@jewelsbarbie]

He took the music off. :)

[@DavidD-cd9em]

He just postulates and postulates. Waste of time

[@SimeonsSweetheart12721]

They all have 4 sides ...they are rectangles and oblongs

[@Alfredito999]

Instruction unclear , wife left me for neighbor

[@manolo_ai]

😂… win her back bro!

[@Mtmonaghan]

Look where all this greed got us😂. Stop measuring the good by wealth, you yanks will be the doing of all of us.

[@13yllaer]

Republicans and democrats

[@manolo_ai]

🤔 … how so?

[@bijoubijoux5185]

Einstein was a plagiar

[@DavidD-cd9em]

Rubbish. Only 4 kinds of people. Haha

[@ayyaanalim8323]

Gonna be honest, very much a waste of time, even if that makes me a misnatcher

[@ladydeerheart1]

Save it anyway. Watch it again in a year. It didn't speak to you this time but sooner or later ... it will. You'll grow into it. Watch it 20 years from now and you'll be wow'd.

[@Scottadamsfan3481]

It’s worthless

[@jkovert]

Dark web

[@Paul-uz8xi]

Thank you for uploading. B ut every 2 minutes a commercial is too much. Please remove that, or I will not watch your videos anymore.

[@GreatnessWithin]

I appreciate you bringing that to my attention! I didn't realize my team had scheduled it as such. Will update now!😊

[@filmawayvlad]

What a nonsense

[@cherryliang5117]

Such a lame hair style

[@cajunkarl4828]

I fucked up my life

[@JPatelLive]

So unfk it down! ☺

[@Malitubee]

So take some time to put it back together

[@SimeonsSweetheart12721]

😂😂😂😂

[@Kayakingoff]

You delete someone? It's the worst thing you can do, even from that people come back.

[@khadijasaleh9507]

5 powerful words.

[@mdlmranhemon]

❤❤❤❤