Use Your Intuition To Make Decisions That Are True To You | Dr. Henry Cloud

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Are you letting your experiences speak to you? All of us have gone through periods of needlessly beating our heads against the wall. So why do we keep doing it? Dr. Cloud focuses on one big reason we keep doing it: we’re trying to be someone we’re not. Are you finding it hard to make decisions that are true to yourself? When you have to morph into someone you’re not, that's unsustainable. Listen to your experience, and ask yourself, is this difficult because it’s hard work, or is this difficult because I can’t be me? If something requires you to be something you’re not, it’s not going to work. We can learn how to use our own experience and intuition to help guide our decision-making. Learn the key strategies on how you can start being more authentic today!

[@TetyanaS-vi7gx]

Dr. Cloud, I am glad you didn’t become a banker or accountant. I am glad that you have decided to be yourself and chose the path that in result keep blessing and changing lives of so many people. Thank you!

[@sharieallen2719]

I cannot help fix people for me!

[@crshia]

Your commentary on repentance brings to mind Bob Newhart's routine on going to the psychologist and telling him that something hurts, and the psychologist says, "Well - stop it." I find it very funny. Know that's not where you were going with that, but it came to mind.

[@sh6460]

Lol!😂

[@godzillamanstreb524]

That is funny….loved that show

[@lindamolyneux3536]

lol! I remember that show.

[@linneasimchah1621]

I heard this from psychologist Sadia Khan on youtube: There are 2 needs in life: attachment and authenticity. If you sacrifice authenticity (being true to yourself) for attachment (relationship with someone you think you want), it won't last long-term. If you sacrifice an attachment for authenticity, you will set yourself up to attract someone who will truly match who you are, and it will be able to stand the test of time.

[@jennasandland7749]

FYI: Sadia Khan did not get a PhD in psychology.

[@nathanielturner8733]

Pure gold, thank you for sharing

[@JessCyph]

Gabor Mate talks a lot about those, too.

[@bethtaylor9773]

'Shoulda gotten to know his parole officer'...LOL! Love your straight face delivering these lines 😊 My dad was like this, 'OK, what can you do differently next time?' when teaching me a skill. God is my Father.

[@angelastarling9001]

Current time of video is 18:13/20:17. Dr. Cloud, for me your topic, your delivery and your content is taking my breath away given the accuracy of your content. You are AMAZING in helping to transform those of us who are aware of having been shaped by patterns for not being true to themselves. I applaud you and your work! Angela

[@CocoShade]

You r so lucky you realised your mission so yearly!!!

[@BlessedForever888]

This is so comforting! Thank you! It's helpful to think about how something will be sustainable over the long run.

[@manuelag2128]

Wisdom only comes from GOD, Dr. Cloud! Knowledge and Insight IS lerned, even by experience.

[@caroldmaner1316]

Thank you, I can relate so much to what your saying ❤ I appreciate your help and support in getting ourselves into the order of things ❣️

[@maryhenderson4929]

Yet again Dr. Cloud, you nailed it! Just what the missing piece to to puzzle of what do I do now. Instead of How can I make this work it's how can this work for me? Brilliant. I wish I'd learned this years ago. My life is better from what you've shared about your life! Wow. Truly

[@amycaldwell216]

I am so grateful for this video, Dr. Cloud. It is quite powerful, and I've gleaned a lot from it. Very helpful advice!!

[@prettylilyflower326]

You are a blessing! Thank you for sharing your gift ❤

[@marnim8574]

Last relationship was not “sustainable to my soul”, but gave in, thinking it was love. God broke it up, by causing him to bolt, for no valid reason, after two years. Thank you for being my confirmation for this. 25 year follower, you are so amazing. 💖

[@godzillamanstreb524]

Wow this is extremely helpful….thank you so much!!💙👏🏻👏🏻🎯

[@triciahallknaut6932]

Thank you Dr. Cloud, praise God for you! I will try and share what I have learned from the Holy Spirit through His Chosen Church Family! I hope to write about this too how much the Lord loves us as He says giving us His Word! yes! repent! Fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom! I have received the gift of repentence from thinking the Lord didn't love me and turned towards Him so that His Perfect Love and Grace (His Choice) flows over me and the World! This is True Worship with joy with soul harmony with the Lord! woo hoo! Bless you ! 😇

[@josephineclark3239]

Thank you Dr. Cloud ❤

[@rdbeckett590]

Never go back is a better title because it reaches more people.

[@sharonsteigers4162]

Thank you Dr Cloud.

[@slm2021]

Thank you for your wise And wonderful words. ❤ 🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@lindamolyneux3536]

Thank you ! Wow!

[@mattsturm9194]

So hard. I pretend to be fine when with my Daughter in Law, because I love my Son and Grandchildren. I do what I am suppose to do to appease her meanness. ( She is a Narcissist) I believe in my heart, that I do this because I know my son is going to need support in the future. I put on my happy Face, grit my teeth and play the game. I know God has a plan, and I must be patient.

[@HeavenlyLights]

I hear you. My brother is with a similar woman who has contempt for our whole family for no good reason and has cut him off from us.

[@NB-2020]

Than you; very helpful

[@andreawright3505]

Thank you for this Godly wisdom. 🙏

[@HeavenlyLights]

This is GREAT. ThankYou.

[@titarivera4655]

Excellent!!

[@clancykeegan748]

Thank you🙏

[@ThisisPam]

I signed up to do something where I have to not “be myself” all day and all week. After resigning teaching, I took another teaching job when I moved back to my hometown. I thought it would be ok. I needed to make money to help my kids, and to pay our mortgage. It was not - is not - ok. Every day is a struggle with so much anxiety and stress. I can’t enjoy anything in life, can’t sleep, feel ill and exhausted all the time. I knew better, but I have a habit of always saying yes.

[@tinamceldowney2670]

Fast and pray about it! Ask the Lord to help you find something that you really like to do! He will answer you, and help you find out what it is that you are supposed to be doing.

[@brendinacollelo2556]

Ty

[@sharieallen2719]

I take on people who I feel I can help... codependent controller. Why do people do this? I wanted to fix my disfunctional family. I need to stop only God can fix people if they surrender.

[@singloudlove]

🙏🏽❤️

[@clancykeegan748]

"Talked to his patrol officer" 👌😁

[@alaraleget1983]

I don't like the word repent. I agree with your publishers. It is too evangelical. It is something I hear zealots saying and preaching in the streets. Although that is not your meaning, it had the feeling of condemnation. It comes of as repent now or your going to hell. Take care and thanks.

[@manuelag2128]

You could die today and you would go to hell. WE can choose, thats the Love of GOD ,free will . My decision can Take me to hell or to heaven. Choose today. Dont Miss out on LIFE ✝️✨🙌🏻🕎.

[@Bluelightcheaphotel]

Repent is a hard word. Jesus said it. It stinks following scripture. All you really need to know are the words "narcissist," and/or "gas-lighter." Follow your heart, abandon those harsh words in scripture and read more Dr. Cloud and Lysa

[@himankaghosh7307]

Romans 12, 1-2 tells to find God's will for You. 1. Pray 2. Don't let the world squeeze you into a mould you are not. Don't do something to change yourself into something unsustainable.

[@mikaisdiamond]

😂

[@user-kl1kf4wy9k]

Yep, sadly liabilities Dr. C. 😖!!

[@user-kl1kf4wy9k]

Andrew, I did not have a business choice to make a decision.

[@user-kl1kf4wy9k]

Repent means to change LOL.

[@Bluelightcheaphotel]

This pop psychology sweep in the church has demonstrated what's wrong with eisegesis. Take your bent and shoehorn scripture into it. Presto, you can sell books and people will lap it up

[@brendinacollelo2556]

Plse contact me if like to set a appt if I could