'I Tell Men To NOT Get Married!' -

In the $O$CAST Adam Sosnick discusses current events, trending topics, and anything related to money. In this short clip, Adam Sosnick, Hafeez Baoku, Coach Greg Adams, Allie Rae, and Natalya Delvalle talk about marriage.
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[@bjung8858]

When my nephew announced that he was getting married. I noticed that not one guy congratulated him

[@blacklyfe5543]

Lol

[@TrueVintageRnBFan]

😂😂😂

[@HighVibrations22]

Nah man🤣🤣

[@zeeski7454]

Because men know the voluntary prison sentence they get themselves into with marriage

[@anthonybaker5199]

​@@zeeski7454😂😂😂

[@letsgetsocialinfo]

Very few men are happy in marriage, we just put up with it...I'll check back with this guy in 5 years

[@sigmablack9483]

Hafeez blue pill asf, but he'll learn.

[@radhiadeedou8286]

How do you know that?

[@letsgetsocialinfo]

@Radhia Deedou because I'm a married man with married and divorced men friends...

[@celsocosta880]

I'm on side of coach Greg because it appears to me that marriage is like playing lottery and we all know the chances of winning a lottery 👀👀👀

[@westernstar9121]

@@celsocosta880 chances of winning the lottery a much higher and Progressive chances of having a least a half decent marriage

[@likearollingstone007]

Coach is the adult in that room.

[@jddiggy2343]

FACTS

[@celsocosta880]

I'm on side of coach Greg because it appears to me that marriage is like playing lottery and we all know the chances of winning a lottery 👀👀👀

[@user-op7uc6jb9k]

Yup, sadly.

[@mistergoodcitizen9914]

Married men have always told me to never get married. In my 38 years not a single one has ever told me how awesome it is.

[@sandman1347]

I remember meeting this one dude named Lance about 10 years back who really seemed to be happily married. At the time, I remember asking him several questions about it. I took more of an interest than I normally would in that kind of thing for some reason. It's only recently that I realized why. He was literally the first American man I had ever met who was married for more than a decade and happy about it...

[@pleasedonttemptme5963]

Same. I am 34. Not one man, maybe 1 and he cheats on his wife hah, has told me to get married. I’m not getting married ever, and my mother is totally fine with it, that’s all that matters to me

[@kykenzo9115]

38 here too. The mens never told me how bad their marriage is. But often ask the question why you’re not married? And now begs the question, why ask that? Thats simply because why even get married, in the first place? Marriage does not benefit the men. And not at all. Therefore, if guys want to dive into their own grave. Well good luck!

[@ariasabe]

The same happened to me. I’m 30, I was married before and now I understand why they all told me not to do it.

[@bolotabr12]

Because marriage takes patience and work. These days, people (male and female) give up so easily.

[@h2oGiovanni]

I love how people keep bringing up married couples from 40+ years ago as if times haven't changed drastically in reference to dating. zzz.

[@NPFfumbi]

Yea and even they got divorced

[@DocNinini]

@@NPFfumbi Or theyre completely miserable in their marriage 😂

[@zeeski7454]

Nobody married 20+ years is happy, and if they are they're the exception

[@brutustantheiii8477]

THIS! R Pill is FACT because it is the HERE AND NOW. My boomer Chinese immigrant dad couldn’t fathom why I avoid marriage like the plague jt is, despite him not dating anyone since my mom more than FORTY YEARS Ago. Half of which is in the culture of Hong Kong/Chinese. Yet those like him speak as if he knows

[@heisenberg2966]

Times haven’t Changed; Women have Changed.

[@micperez819]

Most of the men I have known to be married got divorced. The guys I know who are still married seem miserable

[@GeeB-bi8id]

Facts

[@RandomUser-he3fr]

Greg saved my life.

[@soulsurfer639]

Mine too

[@piotrmotyka1004]

@@soulsurfer639 Mine too! I was listening to him for over a year, every day! I know every spot on his 'beautiful chocolate skin' as he says 😁 Thank you Coach for everything!

[@uriandropov8039]

Coach Adams is the truth.

[@johnamaya2641]

Coach is the morpheus of our time

[@imagegotbeats]

🌚🌚

[@InitialDL84]

CGA is the only content creator that talks about this stuff that I listen to regularly. I don't even call it red pill content, but more like 'the morning after pill'

[@keithlangfordjr.689]

Exactly. The "redpill" is goofy af. CGA just spits logical information supported by facts and life experience

[@boratlion8613]

@@keithlangfordjr.689agreed. Coach is just stating the reality ppl don’t want to acknowledge.

[@JoeB0604]

the panel got CGA wrong. he doesn't focus on the negative outcomes of marriage to stop men, he focuses on it to warn men.

[@kashemvai5025]

its bbq in there

[@andrepastor4844]

My wife and I were happy for 25 years but then we met. 😂

[@DocNinini]

Good one 😆

[@SchrodingersMath]

Oh Gawd...

[@nananyantakyi1549]

💯

[@MonochromaticBlues]

well you got ur care taker :) n cow

[@soulsurfer639]

😂😂😂

[@actionjackson2954]

Coach is right, I went through it and NO ONE WAS THERE FOR ME, IT'S NOT WORTH IT FINANCIALLY or SPIRITUALLY. I always ask people, ( have you ever seen Thank you.............

[@keranseunarine4274]

And Charles Boyle from Brooklyn 99. Alan and boyle are the definition of "WHAT TO NOT BE"

[@JADiaz10]

Dude fr your finance AND spirit is gutted. This why I haven’t been in a relationship for a while.

[@chadtyrone5]

​​@@far7romlan harper lives on his brothers coach(his brother is a bachelor)

[@DDillys]

Exactly no one is coming for us bro.

[@andrepastor4844]

For my wife’s 40th birthday I got her a trip to Europe. For her 50th I’ll get her the return ticket.

[@SchrodingersMath]

🤭🤭...😎😎

[@illustrious1]

🤯😄😄😄😄😄😄😄😄😄 You made my day hahaha Thank you.

[@UncleSwell707]

Good sh8t 😂😂😂

[@andrepastor4844]

@@UncleSwell707 that’s Rodney Dangerfield my friend. That’s nothing my wife says I’m going to the beauty salon. She comes back two hours later I say “ what happened were they closed ?? !!“😂❤️

[@ConfusedFieldHockey-em6bt]

Never get married full stop

[@SimpleTruth1309]

Men would be more inclined to marry women if they came with a cord that you could unplug to stop the insane chatter and endless demands.

[@Matt-yz3iq]

Hahahahaha this one was a gem comment

[@MisterGoodDad]

*holy shit this was gold*

[@user-ox4ci2wr3z]

There is...just walk out of the room and don't come back until she climbs down. Do what women do...ignore them until they relent

[@andrepastor4844]

Actually I’ve been happily married for 2 years…. It’s called separation.

[@anthonybaker5199]

😂😂😂

[@thelockofgapa]

😂😂😂😂

[@igetmoneypodcast3792]

Hit them with the marriage wheel coach, the marriage wheel is undefeated! Lol

[@anonymousgh608]

What’s marriage wheel? First time hearing it

[@theerealatm]

@@anonymousgh608 it's a graph CGA made and exhibits.

[@nananyantakyi1549]

​@@anonymousgh608It's on his channel, look it up

[@JoelGoose]

Hafeez, you are using the exception to the rule argument. Sure, some marriages will end up happily ever after, but with a 50% divorce rate for 1st marriages, and of the other 50% 47% end up miserable then it is basically a 3% success rate. CGA gets the W here

[@JADiaz10]

Very very low success rate. It’s ridiculously low. As a Christian I can’t defend monogamy. I just can’t. Even people who do things “the right way” have failure.

[@JoelGoose]

@@JADiaz10 there is no reason for monogamy. Imagine how you'd feel if YOU were monogamous the whole time, turning down other women, only to find out your chick was effing other dudes behind your back, no condom. That would break most men

[@JADiaz10]

@@JoelGoose same Vice versa. Plenty of women prolly turned down just to find out their husband cheating like Beyoncé n Jay Z in the elevator. It’s just not realistic.

[@Eye_of_Horus]

It isn’t just the 50% divorce. The real percent of longterm happy relationships is roughly 15-20%. Many people stay married but separated or live as unhappy roommates.

[@celsocosta880]

I'm on side of coach Greg because it appears to me that marriage is like playing lottery and we all know the chances of winning a lottery 👀👀👀

[@Vic_RE_Investor]

CGA speaks facts.

[@GMacII]

The statement my mentor made when I was going down the road of proposing is "I see you love to travel...knowing that, would you board a plane that works 50% of the time?".

[@2Tall03XX]

Coach is out here saving lives!

[@briankhall9963]

I won custody of my 4 kids believe it or not. I raised them by myself.

[@thegulagarchipelago5921]

Brilliant 👏 👏 👏 Same here. 2 Daughters. Both 18 now. Had to Fight like All Hell but I'm a Ecstatic Single Father!!!!

[@briankhall9963]

Yeah it was a tough one. Luckily She was her own worst enemy

[@thanos1952]

I won custody of my daughter 7yrs ago....

[@juliusperseus8612]

that's Not the Norm. and that's what they hide from Men.

[@celsocosta880]

Most men lose custody and that's why kids are lost without they father's 👀

[@LavishPatchKid]

It's funny the people in the comments who announce they've been together forever - who are from completely different generations. lmao If you and your partners were the kids today - you'd be just as screwed up.

[@ladabe4979]

FAX

[@Ja50nkAt]

Social media has changed everything.

[@joshuamoore3515]

Nice excuse. Go ahead and give up. Or notice what is against you and fight to procure yourself. Or just give up....

[@LavishPatchKid]

@@joshuamoore3515 I'm not giving up. I'm running rotations. Filled with wives; of dudes like you. Have fun kissing her goodnight.

[@joshuamoore3515]

@@LavishPatchKid haha your ridiculous. My wife would take one look at you and die lauhing. No you don't and no you are not. You could never in a million years out pull me. I'm dying of laughter... thank you. Stay short, shriveled and salty my friend. 🤣😅👍

[@Originalking]

Can’t lie after 2 minutes I can’t listen to hafeez….he needs a buzzer

[@audiofeinz5754]

He's drunk he needs to go home

[@janushomer9111]

a nice fist can be a buzzer for his mouth

[@Jim_Curtis]

They intentionally lefy out the part where Coach handed Hafeez his ass to him.

[@AaronMusicEvans]

Greg - preach brother, WE need you

[@pp3k3jamail]

💥💥 I just watched the documentary about this woman who hired a hitman to kill her husband so she can collect the life insurance, lucky for him his friend over her the conversation and informed him and the husband informed the police and the police and husband staged his death and they had his wife on camera laughing after they showed her the pictures of him being fake dead. She ended up getting like 20 years of prison. I don't see why anybody would want to get married when you have risks like that I would just not deal with that type of BS. There is exactly no benefit to a man getting married in today's age, women hold all the cards in everything. That's her house she's deciding what the kitchen look like she's going to decide what the bedroom look like she's going to decide what type of wall paper and cabinet you put in the bathroom etc She's going to decide what to buy during holidays heck she's going to decide if you celebrate Christmas you may be a guy who like myself is not even into celebrating holidays but I'm forced to celebrate it because she wants to celebrate it. Y'all go to the movies you mostly going to go and see what she wants to see. The man spends far more money in the relationship than the women does like I just don't see the benefit of marriage for men. And also when you get married you have less sex than a guy that's single because your wife dictates when she wants to have sex. Then there's the financial stability like me I'm a single man, I work two jobs all of my money from both of my jobs go to me and to me only. I don't have a wife I got to spend all my money on and I don't have kids that I got to spend all my money on. I'm sorry but I just don't see the benefit of a man in today's age getting married it makes no sense to me.

[@JuancoPRoFlow]

Preach

[@Fotosynthesis858]

Divorce is sexist towards men. Men should avoid marriage at all cost. If anything, sign a prenup. But I reiterate: men should avoid marriage at all cost. ✌🏾

[@Jenda-ld8dj]

Prenups are not a guarantee. Most prenups today are overlooked by the Court. If you live in a no-fault divorce state and are married, there is your prenup.

[@frankright4454]

The divorce industry industry needs to be held accountable. In the Nordic countries the marriage and divorce rates are the same as the rest of the world but men have guaranteed access to their children and alimony is fairly distributed. People don't go broke going through a divorce. Fix that and men will come back to the table, IF they're still interested.

[@frankright4454]

@JabariParker-zw1oo Damn that's deep.

[@BrianMolstad]

I assume eventually almost all men will know the facts and the divorce types will have to go out and get real jobs.

[@nananyantakyi1549]

CGA🐐🔥..Its funny how dudes who defend marriage have eithet never been married before or have been married for just 2 years..lol

[@bcbbarnes]

Wow that was a very passionate and convincing argument against his own point.

[@Dev-qs2yb]

Mgtow is the way!

[@Hawaiianon]

I clicked for Greg Adams & got some other dude whining instead.

[@andre1987eph]

Yeah, CGA dissapears when he's on these live panels. He goes soft.

[@RAZASHARP]

except for my parents who got married 40 years ago......... i don't know any men who are HAPPY AF...MARRIED!!! FOH

[@roolyfe]

If you want to be married forever ♾ go overseas in the East! Never marry an American woman. My parents are from Kenya 🇰🇪 married till my dad passed away 35 years. This is my opinion! Love CGA!

[@carrocesta]

Coach, you are the man!!!

[@joshuakelly997]

thank you coach Greg

[@matthewjohnson1643]

I love how you put this!!!!!!

[@MeZzZzZzZzZzZzZzZzZ]

Coachhhhhh in the house

[@GBU61]

If women were expected to assume the same risk as men, I wonder how many would consider marriage? My guess would be less than 10%. When asked why I don’t want to get married my response is a simple one. If I agree to get married, will you assume the financial risk if it fails? How many takers do you think I get?

[@jdchatelain222]

Love this perspective!! A real and honest pov. Not jaded. And not madly in love blinders on.

[@ryangardner7709]

CGA IS THE 🐐

[@thatroonstboi6231]

coach Greg is one of the greatest!

[@ronkomro7759]

Save your money, don't get married, don't live together, don't put titles on your relationship ( boyfriend/girlfriend). Friends with benefits ( have a few,friends with benefits are entitled to NOTHING).

[@andrepastor4844]

When I told my grandpa I’m getting married he asks me who I’m getting married against.

[@hillsideonly]

Married against 😂😂😂

[@MCADHD-rf5kl]

Your grandpa is a wise old man.

[@instinctcxristopher]

This title is misleading. Coach Greg did not say "I Tell Men to NOT Get Married" in fact, he said IF that's the path you choose, "Do not get married without leverage". Stop misleading your audience with disinformation.

[@QuintonMillow]

Facts

[@williambreeze2659]

Coach is spot on here!

[@zerrrep]

I loved Hafeez on Howard Stern. Howard - "Spell RED" Hafeez - "Red? L-S-T-E-R"

[@soulsurfer639]

I don't get it ???

[@petelemon5090]

GOD bless CGA!

[@aboutblank7662]

This man always speaks the truth! Rolo just talks no real game behind it . His wife prob runs it at home .

[@theerealatm]

3 men talking. 2 men mainly talking.... Who are you talking about? 😂

[@bjung8858]

I married at around 55 years old figuring that if I made a bad decision, I wouldn't have to suffer so long before I died. My cousin emailed me last night. He's getting married and he's 55 years old.

[@travelingdude1621]

No reason to get married in the first place. A risky thing to do and a waste of time and money.

[@bjung8858]

@@travelingdude1621 Hopefully she is old enough to realize that she'll never find another guy that will marry her because she's about the same sage. Yet, she'll spend time to help him out by keeping him company. She's financially secure too.

[@harleminthebuildn9234]

TELL EM COACH.👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾🎯🎯🎯🔥🔥🔥

[@InvestBetter.]

Marriage The beginning of the end of any great modern relationship

[@BigDirtySS]

Where’s Hafeez these days??? Haven’t seen him around for a while.

[@Vietmac1993]

He quit KZbin

[@scottmatthews8500]

Got divorced

[@MX-CO]

Coach Gang!

[@natural_law]

and that's you

[@yellowjoe.2000]

Hafeez is lost. he marries a woman and turns into delusional fairytale man.

[@rcd954]

A respectful exchange between men.

[@3naturalBionutrition]

There is no benefit at all to getting married. You can do the same things married, unmarried.

[@BlazingNChilling7s]

True. Take a good look at Oprah.

[@user-nu5ri3mt8n]

Naw not really.

[@3naturalBionutrition]

@@user-nu5ri3mt8n then tell 1 tangible benfit that excludes emotions and feelings??

[@gzfashions]

People have such weak backbones these days that they avoid challenging things. Many people these days want the easy route.

[@MCADHD-rf5kl]

Just that, in marriage, both sides have to have an unshakeable, strong backbone. One is not enough.

[@namanverma1282]

And what’s wrong with wanting an easy route? Are you some masochist who takes pride in putting himself through pain

[@presde34]

​@@namanverma1282here is the thing every I thing I value in my life has come from doing difficult things. You can take the easy route but it will just leave you empty

[@floridaman7]

Please never invite hafeez back.

[@rollingtinfist]

Coach knows what he’s talking about. I like Hafeez,and I hope his marriage is the exception statistically. Although I have a couple of decades on him regarding marriage experience, and odds aren’t in his favor, and while mine is better than most I know, it’s a marathon at best and a war at worst.

[@edgonzalez186]

STILL... The greatest episode!

[@mchadz7953]

Marriage rates going down and that trend won't change any time soon, and the idea of guys being alone it's true, break ups, divorce anything and apart from being left alone there's also the element that people do tend to screw you over already adding to the whole disaster like a grenade with mini grenades inside of it. So it's definitely something to contemplate with utmost caution but hey some people say unicorns exist maybe... Just maybe... We could all find a unicorn. Bless

[@MonochromaticBlues]

lol true which is why i wont marry or sleep with men.... :) or any other soul a bunch of selfish fks @JabariParker-zw1oo

[@heatison11]

Marriage is a worthwhile pursuit....in Asia

[@soulsurfer639]

😂 exactly

[@johngonzalez5488]

Hafeez is such a panderer

[@jbevolve2023]

and a beta male.

[@ShaunHensley]

Hafeelz

[@ghettoloco3313]

@@ShaunHensley lol that's funny

[@callumraza5046]

It's not just the financial element. Married men have given up, imagine not wanting to spend your life alone. That you need someone there constantly

[@jeevajoethy5945]

Wouldn't you like to be with someone?

[@blacklyfe5543]

Your kids

[@billcipher3946]

@@jeevajoethy5945unless you get tired of them, and you don’t like them anymore 😂.

[@rahuldahoob]

I'm not gayyyyyyyy

[@zubrickbullies3595]

Hafeez is annoying Af

[@mtp.2023]

CGA is the truth!

[@toddgoogle4387]

No marriage

[@warriorj8658]

I’m not against marriage. But I fear the consequences of divorce. I don’t find high divorce rates and what happens to men in family court to be highly encouraging.

[@scorpion2958]

He sounds like that's the first cat he hit

[@jesseelledge2284]

Hafeez is nothing but Tony Robbins style emotionally appealing BS. His arrogant filibustering is annoying.

[@TrippyLiberty]

Glorification of marriage is the norm. "Nihilism" is the exception, outside of the blackpilled internet Hafeez is just making ish up, on the fly

[@vw1098]

My guy said “some of us won’t make it to the mountain top of marriage” lol yeah fuck that then, I’ll spend my time climbing the other mountain, success mountain

[@trainingrifle]

This dude is so emotional his wife gonna leave his ass for SUREEE HAHAHA

[@anonymousgh608]

The guy earring the blue suit talking too much is just some amateur simp male who’s in love 😂.. he’ll find out the hard way..

[@moonlightstargem1006]

You gotta see everything for what it is in it’s raw form. Dating will feel so unnecessary when you realize almost anybody could make you miserable & that being single is like the best peace you’ll ever experience!

[@user-ox4ci2wr3z]

There are two types of people in a marriage. One of them is always right...and the other one is the man.

[@danieldhardman5388]

Its the grenade in the room for me.

[@ga1n3s]

I didn’t click on this clip to hear hafeez talk. He should have been on the thumbnail so I knew not to click on it. Came for Coach Greg

[@joederocco9321]

years back a bunch of us were at a new years eve party. one of my buds got engaged that night in front of all of us. we all went up to congradulate them. one of my buds goes up congrats them then turns to all of us and in front of his own wife and says. why should he be happy. and the marriage after all that lasted all but 2 yrs. dont get married. stay single and raise your kids that way

[@valecasanova]

Can we actually think an OF woman with kids has a happy marriage?

[@jddiggy2343]

Ya most cuckold's seem pretty happy I guess

[@hillsideonly]

Yes she can, it depends on compatible values

[@iflick7235]

Nearing 70 and never married. We must encourage young men to remain single. The traps and pitfalls that await so many.

[@animex3368]

People who try and use big words to sound intelligent are usually not

[@n.manasseh8615]

When someone says "Let's Get Married" they are not saying, let's have a successful relationship or let's have True Love. They are saying Let's go to the court House and execute a legally Binding Contract regarding our financial assets and wealth THEN let's go to a venue and have a celebration party called a Wedding. You are legally combining all assets. That's why you need a CONTRACT.

[@ARMOR_MASTER]

F*ck yeah 😎

[@stoundingresults]

Thank you Al Bundy

[@JADiaz10]

When this man said “roomates” and I know current people who’s divorced but forced to still live with each other cause this country is economically imbalanced smh. I always thought getting married young was dvmb.

[@luckymetal13]

All i heard Hafeez say is "🐔🐔🐔"

[@sleepy1760]

Coach Greg Yup a Good One

[@user-op7uc6jb9k]

I am a man and certainly biased but I've seen so many damaged women hurt so many men I've known or met. The main pattern I see is that they [women] don't seem to understand or practice unconditional love whilst all along being verbally abused by women.

[@GroupConglomerate]

CGA is the GOAT!!

[@njvega6692]

If its about love, god, and the Bible why is the state involved? Why not change the laws? If they did maybe more men would consider it. They wont because its not about that. They just want to make you believe it is.

[@idontcare9797]

And DNA test every baby born before a man's name is put on a birth certificate

[@kalvincarter5621]

CGA 🐐

[@paulrivera5231]

He won’t shut up because his arguments are weak

[@Adrian-X1]

Well, I've been enjoying my marriage for the past 7 (going on 8) years 🤷🏾‍♂️ So far, so good. Sex is still great. Joking around with each other is still fun. I get it's not for everyone but I like what my mom and dad had and wanted that for myself and just took the dive. We're both like minded in what we wanted and take care of each other. I truly enjoy it😏

[@BDKing-hh7pk]

the comment section is so refreshing No christian so called tradcons forcing men for their sky daddy propaganda.

[@andrewmarshall7569]

I hope the man who spoke first has a marriage that lasts a lifetime. I really do, but one has to look at statistics. From what I have read, divorce rates are at or close to 50%. In Christian marriages, it is slightly less. One has to ask what the root issue is, and I assert it is because there is no longer a stigma around divorce like there used to be. It is far easier for someone to throw up their hands and file for divorce, and the lower earner (typically the wife in the past), usually gets taken care of for life, or for a significant amount of time. In 2023, there should be zero alimony paid to another person. High earners, realize that when you marry someone, you will be forced by family court to maintain their lifestyle, even if they cheat on you, spend all of your money without you knowing, etc. It is basically the state's way of forcing you to pay for your former partner's welfare. In my opinion, it isn't worth it to get married in the slightest.

[@renegaderunner332]

What's wrong with engaging in loveless relationships and financial ruin?