Habits of a Buddhist

[@robertholman9743]

What the world needs is more people who have buddist values

[@jaissegobelyn9667]

That's what beautiful about Buddhism, is the compassion, deep understanding... THAT'S WHAT MAKES US BEAUTIFUL. I'm a Christian but I admit, we always lack of this simple things. It makes me sad, and it always feels like a burden, like when you just want to commit to the things that will make u bless, but there are so many hindrances. I hope I could talk to someone like you. I don't know what to do anymore.

[@bienmachacao]

Buddhism isn’t a religion

[@jaissegobelyn9667]

@@bienmachacao I did NOT state on my statement that Buddhism is a "religion" but simply admiring how good their practices is. Just to make it clear. Thank you

[@hater2554]

@@bienmachacao It is a religion, they dont believe in neither god or existence of a god which is nontheistic religion

[@whorror_punx]

@@jaissegobelyn9667 id suggest looking into more Buddhist teachings, books, what have you. Taoism may be of interest to you as well. I consider myself something of both. You may find many nuggets that can help you, if at a crossroads. Not a Christian myself, but remember, we dont worship the Buddha. You can still keep Jesus in your heart if you so choose to follow down this road. Lots of people do. In fact, the teachings may be more synergistic than you'd expect. Either way, I hope you find whatever it is youre looking for ☺ best of luck in your life 🖤

[@jaissegobelyn9667]

@@whorror_punx Thank You very much, bless you brother

[@original_orange]

Bhuddism is such a beautiful religion. Very intelligent, interesting, martial arts, great values, everything is 100% real.

[@CrissyLee88]

So true, judging gets us nowhere. We need more people with these values.

[@Konantealiajnkredojn]

This is like somehow the best thing I even go through I use to be aggressive and somewhat judgemental to people, but by Siddhattha's teachings, I have now fully transformed. 😊

[@jannisk4956]

keep going! :)

[@Shvntvls]

I would love to convert to Buddhism, I will be following you just to learn more

[@jannisk4956]

I can reccomend you the podcast "Learn Buddhism with Alan Peto" for a good understanding. It's available on spotify and maybe also on other platforms. Have a nice day :)

[@GautamKumarBaudhh]

This is so true. I always try to listen my elders.

[@supriyakatiar8542]

This is how every human should

[@shiverarts8284]

Christians are not this way

[@BobIawblaugh]

❤😂🙏🏻☀️🌈💃🏻🥰 Thank you so, SO much for this. I feel like I’m finding where I actually belong ❤️🙏🏻 Biggest hugs to you from Texas!

[@bbqq013]

I wanna become a Buddhist High key, I got to study it last year and I thought the culture and practices where very interesting! My Asian family side owns multiple/many Buddha statues, I think I will enjoy studying Buddhism

[@Kaneiko_studios]

you are 4 months in how is it going

[@tslilbearshoppe9870]

Listening without judgement. Look past the behavior to the person. Listen to their heart. Have compassion and deep understanding. Got it.

[@zaydanelson6039]

Thank you for your wise and kind words!

[@walkwithmeASMR]

I have always had this deeply ingrained in me since childhood. I'm so different from, for example, my sister. It wasn't good for me throughout my life as I didn't look after myself properly and was more focused on helping others.. even if it was to my own detriment. I look after myself now and have truly realised that I must care for myself in order to care for others.

[@jannisk4956]

you have great potential to become a truly good person. Use it :)

[@nikkijubilant]

👂🏻 Listening to you now again and again 🙏🏻🪷

[@jencaceres55]

Such an important message. Thank you. 🙏

[@calibreeze4461]

Very wise words!!!!! Thank you so much ❤️ 🤗💯.

[@nimeshaperera8819]

Sadhu Sadhu Sadhu 🙏🙏🙏

[@dreamisbetterthentechno3199]

I have followed a lot of this my whole life. When I discovered Buddhism I knew it was for me. I'm studying to become a Buddhist currently

[@TemiArinola88]

Love having this skill...always had it💚

[@jannisk4956]

keep going! :)

[@MelanieMoseley-r7d]

Look past the behavior and into the person. Beautiful ♥️

[@shiverarts8284]

Christian only look at behavior. Bad religion

[@wombanversity8831]

This brings me peace & clarity as personally this is how I strive to live. I have the ability to see , hear & experience others pain to the point that I will give so much empathy that I ignore who/how a person is. I’ll be loving the potential I see within them.

[@tikagurung9338]

🙏🙏🙏🏵🏵🏵💐💐💐Wandana Bhante jiu Hajur Sadhu Sadhu Sadhu Bhawatu Sabba Mangalam!!!

[@ninagalluzzo6943]

Thank you for this TriDao..your posts are sooo informative and helpful. ♡♡♡♡♡

[@chrismyers6797]

This is awesome I’m sad there are only 10k likes tho

[@annemariegombert7603]

Merci a vous j apprecie gratitude

[@oliviaarteaga4092]

I would to become a Buddhist someday ❤

[@TeaLaRee]

Ty, I want to convey to my spouse that I want to understand better and have him know I do try to listen better. I will keep your words close. 🙏

[@fernandasn9840]

(This is a big mess) I have always had a deep passion about Buddhism and have always loved every lesson it preaches (and also, unconsciously followed these words for my whole life. Since I was a little kid I was told I was a good listener and my family would always say "I have never seen her open her mouth to talk about anyone") Anyway, only recently I started to actually study and go through Buddhism teachings and every time I learn a bit more, I love it a bit more. But something is bugging me - thus the reason why I wouldn't learn about it sooner - I grew up Christian, but even though I feel peace in God and find him beautiful, I don't like church's history (for innumerable historical orthodox reasons I can explain if someone asks ♥︎)... So the thing is: can I follow Buddhism and still be a Christian? I mean I do some random things that I don't think the church sees as "holy" like manifesting by writing, believe in the power of the elements (fire, earth, air, water). Actually I have some candles, crystals and stones I put around my rosary and some adorable angel figures I have... I am a complete mess rn, but somehow I feel like I'm so in peace and in connection with the heaven since I stopped overthinking about it and meditate while praying before go to sleep 💖 I'd be so thankful if someone could help me with that🥺🥺

[@toyobeats1580]

If u want to involve in buddhism and really get something out of it you need to make sure to put true effort into meditation every day. Reading buddhist books and performing buddhist rituals without meditation will not take you far, even if you read all the buddhist scriptures and memorized all the mantras in 1 week, it will never compare to the results of meditation. Once you get further into meditation you will really feel some positive progress

[@tchong5424]

Everyone should learn the meaning of bodhidcitta well. For the sake of all living things and humanity at peace.

[@pallavichattopadhyay5591]

This is great!thank you for such a valuable lesson.

[@ShimmerBodyCream]

Great advice, thank you for sharing.

[@thamaangurung8323]

Namo buddhaya i am going to follow this teaching from now and thank you the teaching

[@amopuha6110]

AMEN 🙏🙏🙏🕯WITH ALL DUE RESPECT BUDDHISM VERY KINDHEARTED PEOPLE THATS WHAT MAKES IT SO BEAUTIFUL .

[@taramillstead538]

You are so inspiring and also beautiful thank you 💗

[@LaiHeangKheam23]

I'm Buddhist too🙏🙏

[@Imasome]

I have a question. This may sound stupid but should a Buddhist person curse lol

[@General_Dogo]

Thank you for having a social media to share your knowledge

[@god13xable]

Sadhu Bhante 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@frvrfierce9060]

OMG I live by this now❤️🤔💯🎯

[@brokenrose5421]

I’m an atheist, I used to be a catholic. Ever since I stopped believing in religion I felt like I was free. I liked learning science in school. If I had another choice I’d rather be a buddhist, it looks cool.

[@sonamyangdon3969]

What you saying it’s very true ❤❤️❤️☸️☮️

[@Talesfromtheotherside]

Love this ❤

[@stephenleguern444]

Right on thank you ❤

[@olympic-gradelurker]

Judgement stems from the desire to control. Let things be and you won't judge.

[@agatadelaparra1789]

Distinguishing between the higher will and the lower wills, seems a matter of words only yet to practice requires much more than listening.

[@yinyogawithkit]

Judging does nothing for us, but it’s something that many people in society do and unless we grew up with parents or friends who don’t it’s a long road to unlearning this toxic behavior. Thank you 🙏

[@ravi__ak47]

Namo budddhay💙✨

[@ChineseApricot69]

There is a big difference between Buddhism and neo-buddhist bhimtas

[@bevear]

Question: What do you think about air monks/nomads in ATLA.

[@TheAvatar.]

Great question

[@innerbliss108]

@@TheAvatar. haha☸️✌️

[@elmatador1280]

Buddhist monastery in guwahati, assam kzbin.info/www/bejne/qYHXoIiwaNeAhqc

[@MonicaGeller264]

Your talking style soooo nice loved it ☺😇

[@cuts240]

I need to improve - so I am told

[@joejoe9979]

When practice properly in Buddhist. Life is improving to greatest and calmed.

[@charleshart5563]

Awesome much respect.

[@blueskilla6]

beautiful man

[@thunfisch4345]

I think this is very beautiful and meaningful to the person we listen to. I wonder though how you actually process their stories? I often empathise with these people which also emotionally burdens me…because their stories might be sad…I want to listen to them but it also feels exhausting sometimes. What can I do??

[@alexadam6998]

Love your ears

[@Melancholian]

I am an 18 year old Orthodox Christian who plans to become a Christian monk and I agree with this

[@kingofnuggets7304]

That's really cool , I hope you succeed on your path , not many people can dedicate their life to a higher purpose , it really takes big courage and passion to do that

[@Melancholian]

@@kingofnuggets7304 God saved my life so I will never leave him 🥰

[@TheBubblyBartender]

I love this completely

[@andreispataru7077]

habits good or bad are what are keeping us from realising the Buddha nature. Peace

[@zerotolorentvlog5032]

I'm Hindu🕉️🚩 but my life is Buddhism ☸️🕉️

[@alejandrogonzalezinarritu9142]

Buddhism is not a religion🙏

[@hater2554]

@@alejandrogonzalezinarritu9142 it is, they worship buddha, but don't believe that he was a god, they worship him to show their respect and loyalty they have for him, for what he did for the community of Buddhism

[@alejandrogonzalezinarritu9142]

@@hater2554 I am a Buddhist iknow that Buddhism is not a religion

[@hater2554]

@@alejandrogonzalezinarritu9142 its a nontheistic religion, so its still a religion but they don't believe or believe in god

[@hater2554]

@@alejandrogonzalezinarritu9142 and plus he didnt even mention about Buddhism being a religion he said his life is Buddhism, which means that his life is full of peace, happiness, love and is spiritual

[@relishcakes4525]

I appreciate the content and wisdom however at first the angle you are at looked like you were laying on your back in a chair against a wood floor which i found hilarious.

[@ghostbug-rn7yq]

I need to listen more

[@ipurpleyu]

Thank you 🌼

[@Ang_Nicole]

Thank you ♥️

[@Che_Guna]

❤

[@Tomi_1808]

I wanna be a Buddhist

[@avanitank5361]

I'm a hindu but knows much about Buddhism and knows that we have similar roots. Well do you guys know that Buddhism originated in India and Nepal.

[@GautamKumarBaudhh]

No that's not true. Buddhism is very different than Hinduism.

[@hindustanibhau3512]

Lindu please keep your shit with yourself 🙏🙏

[@chikongchakma5709]

Namo buddhaya I'm also a Buddhist but i always think why there are different types of Buddhism why buddha divided into different types of Buddhism

[@DharmaKarmaMoksha]

Dharma Karma Moksha ❤

[@TILEROB]

Well said

[@p32819]

What CBT book are you referring to? Amazon has 100.

[@AjahnTriDao]

CBT for dummies by wilson and branch

[@ryyreads]

💜💜💜

[@ten_cents3436]

When we have Buddhism in this kalpa but people don't want to learn or even try to listen to it. Either they get the wrong idea that it is a bad religion. It's not even a religion it's a way of life. Do your meditation and vidarshana

[@yomna903]

Hi , I want to learn about Buddhism more , someone tell me about budish people see women and they got a value in the religion 🙏🏻

[@theliewelive2066]

Namo buddha

[@Moonhecate]

Buddhist is the best . Nothing compare to Muslims Christian’s and Jewish They are so judgmental and critical .

[@NightWing1800]

Not to disagree with you on the point there, but I do want to point out that thought is itself a judgement and being critical of them. Granted, we judge people all the time and judgements don't have to be a negative thing, but you should be self aware if your judgements and when you are making them.

[@aadpunjabi3473]

I love budhist

[@christinesorensen8050]

I thought he was laying on the floor when I first looked at this

[@akashsingh-oe2xt]

Namo buddhay jai bhim

[@ankaralion]

Gay Bhim

[@WsusDuck]

- a wise monk

[@meganreed6166]

❤😊

[@avipshasarkar7655]

🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@stanzinnorphail2242]

Beautiful 😍

[@devanshbanawali1022]

❤❤❤❤

[@mathieucharbonneau2710]

True, but buddhists are not interested in helping others achieve their desires, which are always forms of clinging (tanha), the source of suffering. Buddhists are there in part to remind others of the four noble truths, to show the path which leads to the cessation of suffering (dhamma). I think when listening to others, Buddhist monks can identify the causes of suffering within people - hopefully if they decide to advise the speaker, the advice will be along the line of seeing the desire for what it really is (or something similar), or to help the speaker achieve a state from which they’ll be able to see their desiring, as well as their suffering, as it is.

[@mateosglimpse1]

💜

[@MannySim-k3m]

Is it comfortable in the thing you were

[@umarkhayam4403]

Sadhu Bhante...

[@GuildOfTheImmortalBlades]

So taking refuge in the Triple Gem to become a buddhist, is that how one joins the religion? If not taken can one not be a part of the religion, I ask because Buddhism is something I truly believe in hard to explain why but I don’t understand it as much as I do say Christianity.

[@AjahnTriDao]

you can be buddhist without taking refuge, taking refuge is a plus but not a necessity

[@loveyouyarro]

Only life is true understand it first .

[@stefnedupreez8072]

Is Buddhism and Christianity mutually exclusive? I have a lot of Buddhist principles that I practice but am a devout Protestant Christian. Please give me your opinions!

[@dsbmgrey9504]

No they are not mutually exclusive because Buddhism at its core is a science.

[@NightWing1800]

It is and it isnt. Buddhism, to my knowledge, doesnt actively prohibit you from worshipping a god. Theres also different kinds of Buddhism just like theres different kinds of Christianity. And one of the paths to enlightenment some buddhists practice is a path to enlightenment through faith in something higher. From that description, you could find enlightenment through Christianity and through works, something Christianity approves of. And stuff like meditation and introspection doesnt conflict with Christianity. But the way it conflicts from my understanding is in two ways. One, part of Buddhism is learning to recognize divinity in yourself. And I think that might class with most Christians belief of no other idols before God. So it'd take some compromise. Secondly, I think the mindset Buddhism cultivates and doing a lot of introspection and a lot of self improvement might end up weakening your conviction in the Christian god depending on where that faith comes from. Because some Christians believe in God because of a very deep rooted fear and their faith is basically covering a lot of insecurity. And so if you engage in a practice that actively works to undo that insecurity and fear, that person might wake up one day, stop fearing God, question a whole bunch of things, not get good answers, and realize that their religious upbringing had a lot of baggage and they dont want it anymore. But for other people, they might have a much more positive relation with Christianity, and their faith could come from a place of peace, love, and compassion and so everything they discover when introspecting instead leads them to the thought "Hey, this is really healthy and I do good for my community. I dont need to justify this relationship to God to anyone but myself and I am satisfied with it." In that case, I think theyre probably going to develop a much stronger bond to their faith because its not root in insecurity, they dont feel the need to defend their faith or explain their beliefs, and when someone does raise a concern, they might actually take it on, consider it, and incorporate a deeper understanding of their faith because of it.

[@manaspratimdas707]

I think Orthodox Christianity is more compatible with Buddhism than Protestant and Catholic.

[@fernandoorozco5968]

thank you

[@juanjimenez4156]

Then, what I am doing wrong? Because I don't heal.I get worse inside every time.

[@hindustanibhau3512]

You aren't wrong brother🙏 You need a path, you are in wrong direction

[@olivermatias2349]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❗

[@CourtneyLovesFood]

😁😁😁

[@zackilla2776]

What day of monk mode are you on bro?

[@samadwan]

You think an all loving God would put us here on this earth? To go thru this?

[@dharma_mane]

It is what we believe. If you don’t believe that’s ok. You have your beliefs and we have ours 🤷🏽‍♂️

[@bradleymiller437]

But neither micro-communities nor societies thrive on everyone being validated though. We cannot tolerate nor validate everyone's behavior and opinions because many of them are detrimental to the group.

[@ameerasahar9145]

I cleaned my karma. It's about understanding God.😑

[@tarrynkowalski7816]

I need your help then😢

[@uncledrewhtoofamily9334]

You can not fully understand other people problems if you not in their shoe . Yes can be kind to them and help them but you can’t feel what they feel . If you have issue and problem turn your self to the created of the universe to ask for help . Not a man can can help you but god alone .

[@DemureDarlings]

Yes✔️

[@paramitabanerjee7495]

Pls give us similarities between hindu and buddhist

[@hindustanibhau3512]

Nothing

[@Ananya-lq9vq]

@@hindustanibhau3512 there is, a differance

[@hindustanibhau3512]

@@Ananya-lq9vq Yes, there are differences