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I've been mulling this question over. Looking back into my childhood there were influences that probably shaped my thinking, although I didn't realise it at the time. My father wasn't a kind and loving family man, he spent more of his time and money with his mates in the pub.
When we are young we don't realise how much parental control we absorb from those who are meant to love us. I got enough love from my mother to see me through the growing up stage. My father thought all he had to do was to provide money. At least he went to work to earn it, but it wasn't all shared equally, leaving my mum to pick up the shortfall.
Maybe I have inherited some of my fathers traits, like living a single life. Now I am older I realise that my fear of being trapped in a relationship that wasn't working, probably came from him.