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@ahmedhashmi7178 ай бұрын
@MD-xn1yb8 ай бұрын
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@GenevieveParkerHill8 ай бұрын
Matthew's advice helped me navigate a tricky time in my relationship back when my now-husband and I were dating. My man and I have now been married for 12 years! His advice is gold, sisters. I also want to say how much I appreciate him for squeezing into that short little chair across from Marie in a place set up for petites. It looks a bit too small for him but he made the sacrifice for us.
@TeamForleo8 ай бұрын
We're so happy to have you here, Genevieve. Sending you and your man so much love! ❤
@highticketclosers8 ай бұрын
Matthew is amazing
@grateful74206 ай бұрын
“…. Squeezing into that…..”. 😂😅Hahahhahaha
@selfloveroadmap5 ай бұрын
what was his advice to you?
@marissakeynes25324 ай бұрын
@@selfloveroadmapThey always do that don't they? They say I was cured of this and that but refuse to share the details. They love to tease.
@jacquelinemahoney6218 ай бұрын
I resonated so much with "how do I kill my desire to want someone" made me cry as it is where I am at 😢 I know my value and have so much to offer but struggle to find my person.
@abdullahtanveer3167 ай бұрын
me too and I'm really struggling with it. life has become horrible because of this one desire
@grateful74206 ай бұрын
Same. I have also been to naive & gullible with selfish, deceitful men. Wasted years. Afraid to hope. Tired of trying.
@lisaariottiart5 ай бұрын
Interesting turn of perspective Mathew has had lately. Years ago I called his organization and questioned why he only talks to women and has no male audience. At the time his sales team dismissed my question. All I could think was why pay thousands of dollars to go to a lecture with 1000's of women educating themselves far beyond the emotional, spiritual capacity of 90% of the world's men. I wonder if him finding his true love has made him realize how insanely difficult it is for an educated, consciously aware, solvent woman to find an emotionally stable, safe and secure partner that wants to go All IN. The more that woman do the work the smaller the pool of eligible bachelors become. Society, apps, porn, plastic surgery, the paradox of choice have given men a complete out on developing emotional intelligence. The sad part we are simply wired differently, In opposite ways mentally and biologically - I had a 70 year old woman tell me once to love my best life at all times as finding the right person is either destiny or luck.
@marissakeynes25324 ай бұрын
@@grateful7420 Same. This brings tears to my eyes.
@kristy83394 ай бұрын
Can u give me the time stamp
@EugeniaSoares8 ай бұрын
Did you ever read “Viktor Frankl”? How to find meaning and purpose in life. Is not always about finding happiness but understanding that we all find purpose in relationships, in love and in suffering as well. Amazing approaches from this amazing psychiatrist that created the Logotherapy. And in relationships we need to know better who we are, the personalities that influenced our behaviour and how to fit or adapt to someone else. I really like Matthew’s humbleness and smart attitude towards relationships! Thank you Marie for this episode! You Rock.
@TeamForleo8 ай бұрын
Thank YOU so much for sharing your thoughts with us, Eugenia. We're honored by the comparison to Viktor Frankl's work, too! Sending you tons of love ❤
@danielletantone8 ай бұрын
I'm absolutely in love with the fact that you used the reference of joy and sadness from the movie inside out. I have long felt that that movie is so incredibly deep… I think true joy needs some sadness and grief...
@TeamForleo8 ай бұрын
Isn't that the best analogy? We love that you caught that, too. ❤
@darenapopova43948 ай бұрын
What he did at the end there - acknowledging the real struggle and shit some people go through, and the fact that even his advice might not work for people in very difficult circumstances - I found this extremely graceful! He's grown so much wiser than before! I can't wait to see what he will have to say about maintaining a marriage, now that his is in one, in 10 years time.
@TeamForleo8 ай бұрын
We're so honored to have you here. Thank you for watching with us and sharing your thoughts ❤
@chisuwochabu2508 ай бұрын
He's always been wise beyond he's age
@erinmoug50758 ай бұрын
I also can say I’ve liked how Matthew has evolved - I didn’t always agree with his messages in his younger years - so much wiser. Love it.
@monicaperry29408 ай бұрын
Thank you Marie and Matthew! I love both of your work. As I’m listening to the health struggle it made me wonder. Do you know about oxalates in food. It’s a new topic I’m learning from my kidney issue. And as I read more on it it talks a lot about how it can potentially give aches in pains and no doc can figure out why. It’s hard because oxalates are found in extremely healthy foods.
@katrinabernal42716 ай бұрын
Same! His message IS so much better
@MartaDc-n6rАй бұрын
Real!
@beccamartinez83198 ай бұрын
I am so grateful for someone to acknowledge people with physical illness or limitations, or in a state of terrible pain. A lot of people really need to hear this.
@TeamForleo8 ай бұрын
You're absolutely right, Becca. Thank you for sharing this important perspective. So happy to have you here. ❤
@lunarose90425 ай бұрын
Michelle Elman does he same and her dating g books includes how to date despite being chronically ill etc.
@NicoleFlodin-o6e7 ай бұрын
I think this is one of Matthew’s best interviews I’ve seen!! She is such a fantastic host. Thank you both!!! ❤
@kammyo86608 ай бұрын
Love yourself to not let anyone take advantage of yourself anymore when you will be played again by wrong person
@seraphinamarini3 ай бұрын
The number one reason I don't have the hard conversations is precisely because I'm not sure of how to deliver the information in a way that will be well received. It's one thing to understand the concept of what to do and not do in dating but another completely when given an example of HOW and WHAT this looks like in real life in the form of having an exact script to emulate. So thank you for that!!
@TammyPerry8 ай бұрын
Love yourself as a verb, as an approach. That does change everything. I'm responsible for this human, the only person responsible for this human having this human experience. It's simply my purpose to love her.
@TeamForleo8 ай бұрын
You've got it, Tammy. You've absolutely got it. ❤
@bananarae92072 ай бұрын
Wow! I've never thought of it like this. I always tell myself to look after everyone else to make sure they're ok, but I'm trying to get my head around looking after myself and caring about myself... Thank you Tammy 😌
@Seamannon6 ай бұрын
01:27:01 - 01:40:47 The part about self-love was wonederful! Finally someone explained that concept in a way that's much more easy to understand and implement. I appreciate that perspective so much.
@El_Tremendo__Pinkin2 ай бұрын
This was incredible. So healing.
@Token1016 ай бұрын
Hallmark of depression is resigning yourself from happiness, but you can be happy for others or help others be happy
@debdanes85136 ай бұрын
I think what we have to ask ourselves, is. I know what I have to offer....And do you match it? If not, then we can never be.
@marissakeynes25324 ай бұрын
I think it goes beyond what we can offer one another. I have recently ended a relationship where we both were up there in what we could offer one another in every sense of the word but our relationship failed because he wasn't as wedded to the truth as I was.
@preetofficial134 ай бұрын
If you came here from Instagram and looking for a clip where girl ask that how to kill the desire to want someone it start 15:50
@krisking19902 күн бұрын
Wow thanks bro
@jeysch51196 ай бұрын
Omg this was one of the best podcasts i ever hear!!! I love this guy. His book is so good
@hdshjs8 ай бұрын
Matt is talking about woman acting 'crazy' and how would that evaporate if they are dating someone who is making them feel safe. It reminds me of Oh Wonder song 'Drive', it goes: 'I remember all the times you made me covered in crazy. Can't forget it, all the ways you played me...' This is so true. I was acting totally different in different relationships. It's very important to realize what is our responsibility and what is not. So we can stop blaming ourselves.
@MyCrystalSwan5 ай бұрын
Our behaviours are not as justifiable as our emotions though. Our emotions are valid. Always. Doesn't mean because of that that a wild "crazy" reaction/behaviour is justified. We should aim for control of our responses to certain situations, while it's okay to try to understand the emotions behind it and how it caused it. And to be able to look inward and be able to end something that we can finally realise isn't giving us that needed sense of emotional "safety".
@carolshannon64495 ай бұрын
To me the key here is that Matthew is - overall - coaching us to come from a sincere and vulnerable place, rather than a strategic, manipulative "make him obsessed with you!" place. That part about tactics - it's really, really true. People are constantly screening themselves out of eligibility as your person to be in a happy relationship with, and your choice is whether you join them, or focus on that relationship with yourself and your life, and practice self compassion and tender loving care. There's a woman named Sarah Peyton who teaches this in depth, she has videos on here, and I am sure she's not the only one. I am learning this and am happier - and still alone - than I've been. I have hope now, but also I don't feel so alone/lonely.
@StraightWooAstrology8 ай бұрын
These closing statements were stunning and moved to tears. I am really impressed with how he grown over time. He now seems to be channelling the very real experience of many women today and speaking beautifully to it: the possibility of finding love is narrowing, and many of us must now grapple with this long-term. I really appreciated this and found it extremely healing. Very grateful.
@TeamForleo8 ай бұрын
We're so grateful for YOU and your beautiful share. Thank you for being here and taking the time to watch with us - sending so much love your way. 💖
@Lottieandcopper4 күн бұрын
Well that was fabulous. I don't think I have ever sat through more than 15 mins of anything on youtube yet I was completely hooked on every word for 2 hours. Thank you
@thematthewhussey8 ай бұрын
Loved this conversation! ❤
@TeamForleo8 ай бұрын
So honored to have you on the show, Matthew. We adore you 💖
@EiliKaijaKuusniemi7 ай бұрын
‘How do I kill my desire to want someone?’ Literally, brought big tears to my eyes…
@marieforleo7 ай бұрын
🫶🥹
@drnessimakaabeche71895 ай бұрын
I wish there was an answer
@kiranNiks4 ай бұрын
@@drnessimakaabeche7189I came here after watching in a shorts just to find the answer 😐
@mfgplima4 ай бұрын
@@drnessimakaabeche7189I was so strongly waiting for the answer...😢
@areSareSueQАй бұрын
@@drnessimakaabeche7189 i was hoping for an answer too 🥺
@dimpith23117 ай бұрын
Why this podcast is so underrated? I have learned so many things related to relationships from mathew. He is an indeed a perfect coach for people who feel too much, who love too much.
@grateful74206 ай бұрын
Maybe because it’s so long?
@blazingfire78248 ай бұрын
My heart is so touched with Matthew's sincerity and honesty and vulnerability on this video. The extent to which he acknowledges the human condition and how difficult it is for some to find the right one. I found Matthew's work about 10 years ago. I bought his program, and even went to his live event in LA. I still haven't found the right guy, and it has felt like how he says "is something wrong with me", but it was so refreshing to hear about his own personal story and to hear how those that are on the mountain top can also feel the struggles. I love the part about loving oneself, and the question answer at the end. Thank you Marie, for facilitating this interview and giving the people a voice.
@TeamForleo8 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing so openly with us. And don't worry - we're here to reassure you there's absolutely nothing wrong with you, and we're so proud of how far you've come. Sending you tons of love and support. We're so glad you're here ❤❤
@if73636 ай бұрын
So many illusional questions in this video on "the one". Matthew himself have addressed it on several occasions - there's no such thing.
@RoseMary-gl4ee8 ай бұрын
Great job, both of you! Matt seems to have gone through enough life lessons to summarize beautiful strategies, with great understanding. Thank you Matt
@TeamForleo8 ай бұрын
Thank YOU for being here and for your kind words, Rosemary! Sending buckets of love your way. ❤
@if73636 ай бұрын
1:35:53 this is the best ever contemplation on self love
@MuzikAficionado7 ай бұрын
This was by far the most interesting tete-a-tete with Hussey! Marie you sure know how to handle his idiosyncracies, and let him come out in an unfamiliar yet safe environment! Loved every bit of this insightful banter! Hussey has sure grown with his age - a trait getting rare among most men, worldwide.
@lindyn48 ай бұрын
Honestly did not expect the guy to give such great advice but the Matthew has a wonderful voice and tone and advice so interesting and useful
@TeamForleo8 ай бұрын
We're so happy to hear that! Thank you for watching and for being here. 💖
@larissafonseca40073 ай бұрын
I've seen a lot of interviews with Matthew, but i feel that this one is the best
@TeamForleo3 ай бұрын
🥰 *blushes* 🥰
@itsshierlz7 ай бұрын
Matthew’s podcast with the fertility specialists actually helped me decide to freeze embryos with my partner as we were (still are) both undecided and weren’t at the right place to have children. Thanks Matt!
@aperta75256 ай бұрын
IVF kills 5 children for every one successful implantation.
@gracepurcell78258 ай бұрын
I've just recently found Matthew's work and have been binging on several interviews which is this double WIN as I've now found several others whom I will follow. Thank you Marie..you have a new subscriber 💚🙏
@TeamForleo8 ай бұрын
Oh, Grace! You've absolutely made our day. WELCOME. We're so happy you're here. 💖
@sophiedewitt4648Ай бұрын
Love how real and honest Matthew Hussey is here!
@TeamForleoАй бұрын
So glad you enjoyed it, Sophie! We loved having him on the show (:
@haslindakasim1107 ай бұрын
Matthew has truly helped me through my depression, pain, and anxiety from past breakups. Thanks to him, I am now stronger than ever before.
@annettelinwood46476 ай бұрын
WOW Matthew Hussey has grown up on so many levels...... Love it!
@MichelleRothman95 ай бұрын
Marie has such a beautiful laugh. This is my new favorite podcast and it's only the first video I've seen
@Ludmilavbueno4 ай бұрын
I loved this episode, it is incredibly grounded, human, honest and vulnerable. Thank you!
@hdshjs8 ай бұрын
I am a fan of both of you for over a decade. This collabo is a dream. How this interview went so deep and touching so fast? Thank you Marie for bringing Matt in. You are both amazing human.
@TeamForleo8 ай бұрын
We're so honored to have you here! Thank you so much for your dedication and your love. And truly - it's YOU who's amazing! 💖
@kinethecoach8 ай бұрын
This went much deeper than expected! Thank you so much! Amazing framing that initiating hard conversations is taking leadership. ❤ Absolutely loved that!
@TeamForleo8 ай бұрын
We love when we can surprise you, Kine. Sending you tons of love 💖
@parisaforpeace7 ай бұрын
Great tips on good communication. Loving yourself and loving your partner need to come within a framework of commitment. We are not always going get things our way, and the relationship becomes the priority.
@yaritzaurbina68358 ай бұрын
I loved this interview! Thank you, thank you! He’s so funny and so right! The “one job” explanation is gold, I’ll buy this book now. Also, I love how Marie always talks about Kuma! While doing Time Genius, I saw him in one of the videos, Marie was talking about her morning routine, and there he was. Being a dog mom too, I can understand with wanting to start your day with a dog’s unconditional love! I liked her a bit more when I saw that!
@TeamForleo8 ай бұрын
We're thrilled to hear it and we're even more happy you're one of our beloved Alum. And from one dog owner to another, starting your day with a dog is the best way to do it. Sending you and yours tons of love. 🐕
@carolynmaryscott8 ай бұрын
Matthew Hussey thank you for your transparency and openness. Regarding the tinnitus - look into the links between it and non Hodgkins Lymphoma - it could be an immune issue. There is a lot of research linking these. Also turn off your wifi at night. a great book OVER POWERED by a Colombia University professor who spent forty years and world specialist linking chronic illness and exposure to non iodizing radiation. The W.H.O has also done decades of study on cell phone and wifi exposure and has listed them as probable carcinogens.
@sumayaisse33604 ай бұрын
1:12:29 To ask the other person where your relationship with him is headed, aka the 'hard' conversation, is irrelevant after a certain time!
@aqsaiqbal81918 ай бұрын
Yes Marie! Thanks for doing this!!!!!!❤
@TeamForleo8 ай бұрын
You're so sweet! Thank you for being here and for watching with us. ❤
@MasterYourMoneyMindset8 ай бұрын
Such an incredible and powerful episode, filled with deep compassion and heartfelt advice. Thank you both!
@TeamForleo8 ай бұрын
You're so sweet! Thank YOU for being here and watching with us. Sending you tons of love. 💖
@TM-gs4jy6 ай бұрын
Such great advice!! 👐🏽 As I practice loving myself more I get more comfortable settling boundaries asking my date what his intention is and being ok with them potentially saying the opposite of what I’m hoping for and letting them go if our intentions don’t match.❤
@emilytamayomaher8 ай бұрын
such a great interview
@TeamForleo8 ай бұрын
Thanks, Emily! Grateful you're here. 💖
@michellez7278 ай бұрын
So good! I love his take on life and love. The self love portion was mind blowing !
@TeamForleo8 ай бұрын
So glad you're here, Michelle. 😁
@highticketclosers8 ай бұрын
Good communication helps understand each other better.
@TeamForleo8 ай бұрын
You've got that right. 👏
@elisabyler34218 ай бұрын
Please never use scripted texts!!!!!!!! If you want a real relationship you have to be real! Recently I was talking to two guys via text, they used the exact same scripted text that said, "yeah, let's try to cook a meal together and after we burn through a couple pans we can just scrap it and go out to eat." There were several others. Instant turn off! If you are not intelligent enough to write your own texts, you shouldn't be dating.
@Joy-mm3cz8 ай бұрын
I agree. Most of those people are scammers. They use the same similar texts.
@marissakeynes25324 ай бұрын
@Joy-mm3cz I wouldn't say that all are scammers but more like they don't have gift of the gab.
@Myytchannel_food5 ай бұрын
Thank you both I enjoy listening thank's for inviting Sir Matthew here.
@maria-wh3km6 ай бұрын
mathew is awesome! thanks for inviting him, now I know to follow you too :) .
@JanetTuttle-cb3xxАй бұрын
Love your videos, such great information as the dating scene is very difficult to navigate now, have been single for 2 years. Spent almost my whole life married.❤❤❤❤❤❤
@TeamForleoАй бұрын
Thank you so much, Janet - we sure appreciate you being here and watching. Sending you so much love. xoxo
@none3773 ай бұрын
15:51 Even though I'm a guy, I relate to her question so much! 😭😭😭
@erinmoug50758 ай бұрын
Oh Matthew - that tinnitus journey is my journey. Massive relating.
@TeamForleo8 ай бұрын
Sending you so much love, Erin. ❤
@erinmoug50758 ай бұрын
@@TeamForleothank you … I liked hearing Matthews real-ness.
@beatrizmoreno34108 ай бұрын
amazing! simply amazing
@TeamForleo8 ай бұрын
😘😘😘
@francescam.69994 ай бұрын
So sorry that you have to go through this chronic pain phase. Do you know "the way out" from alan gordon? somatic tracking helps to come out of chronic pain and dizzines. And nervous system regulation also helps with being so sensitive to noise. There is also a study in the book that shows how effective it is.
@saidrahman21108 ай бұрын
Your tips sharpen the skills. Yes true facts easy to sell. Thanks
@crimplecrumble8 ай бұрын
Thank you both for this conversation. I learned so much. And feel excited to apply what I learned to my life. Very rich and timely.
@TeamForleo8 ай бұрын
We're so honored to have you here and watching with us. Keep us posted. Sending you all the love. ❤
@elenasunshine7 ай бұрын
I receive all the abundance blessings in this reading❤❤❤Thank you!!!
@monicajones49246 ай бұрын
Mathew, I loved this . I can def relate to this so much ❤ thankyou ❤️
@stevecatanio85327 ай бұрын
Marie ages like fine wine. 😂❤
@christinamarti44418 ай бұрын
Thank you Matthew, magic it’s my way of living I’m so excited waiting for the book blessings to you and Audrey
@TeamForleo8 ай бұрын
We can't wait for you to read Matthew's book, Christina! Let us know what you think - we're so honored you watched with us ❤
@leinad16185 ай бұрын
tak end with ghosting was briliant 👍👍👍
@aniketsingh10572 ай бұрын
Thank you so much Mathew love you ❤❤
@TeamForleo2 ай бұрын
You're so welcome! Thank YOU for being here! xoxo
@MichelleRothman95 ай бұрын
Amazing and really funny becasue it's so relatable
@stefaniastoica42678 ай бұрын
thank you so much for this interview! It's amazing!
@musicinme20108 ай бұрын
Love the analogy re take care of this human to give it the best life you can versus self love.
@MonaMarMag8 ай бұрын
I wonder from where you get your inspirations for your books ? Personally I base my thoughts on different kind of subjects on my own life experiences .
@zalinanugaeva44937 ай бұрын
That episode is something special
@gracepurcell78258 ай бұрын
This stuff is GOLD!!
@TeamForleo8 ай бұрын
✨⭐💖
@sukaicosmica7 ай бұрын
This video is pure gold
@yudelkisdiaz87425 ай бұрын
For those who came for “how do i kill my desire to want someone” is in the minute 15:46
@RoseMary-gl4ee8 ай бұрын
Hey guys spot on with the self love thing!💕
@TeamForleo8 ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@monicajones49247 ай бұрын
Loved this ❤ mattew hussey
@ClaireMonica-Art6 ай бұрын
Love this convo ❤
@modistasrl27308 ай бұрын
Thank you!
@karyncooks45538 ай бұрын
His perspective on impermanence and clinging is very Buddhist in many ways.
@pkowalke8 ай бұрын
Yeah, I also saw the influence. I'm not familiar with Matthew enough to know if it was a direct or indirect influence, though.
@berndgeels7 ай бұрын
Decided to look up Hussey's age after he mentioned it in this video. He's all of 36. I just don't get how someone that young, even if he is an "expert", is given such credibility on such an immense and complex topic. Only 36? Really?
@Yogis4066 ай бұрын
I’m inclined to agree. Life experience counts for an awful lot. I like Esther Perel for this topic. Relating essentially.
@marissakeynes25324 ай бұрын
I agree.
@glapistola4 ай бұрын
Age doesn't mean wisdom. Matthew is amazing. 😊
@guitarsz8 ай бұрын
I love Marie's Italian size...now it all makes sense.
@lynnembrooks18318 ай бұрын
WOW‼️ WOW ‼️ WOW ‼️ I so needed to hear this today and I found it purely by accident.. I was looking for yet another video on Fibromyalgia, something I've delt with for 40 odd years and Tinnitus for about 10 years. Nothing in the title let me know there was anything to do with either of these things yet I felt I had to watch it...... thank You
@TeamForleo8 ай бұрын
We're so honored you watched and so honored you shared this with us (and even more proud you listened to your gut and heart.) Grateful to have you here, Lynne! ❤❤
@lynnembrooks18318 ай бұрын
@@TeamForleo I've also shared it with my friends..... at 68 it would have been nice to have this information back when I was in my late teens earlier twenties...
@crismacintosh8 ай бұрын
16:20 I also teared up
@TeamForleo8 ай бұрын
You're not alone. Big hugs. ❤
@SelmaBaitiche-sg4fy6 ай бұрын
💔💔so relatable
@musicinme20108 ай бұрын
Self respect should be the self love rebrand.
@musicinme20108 ай бұрын
Matthew is amazing!
@naairam35262 ай бұрын
I don't find a man's unavailability attractive, it doesn't make me want him even more if he gives me signs that he's not really interested, I don't think a man is valuable because he's hard to "get". However, for me chemistry, that physical, sexual attraction is very important in a couple. I can't be a couple with someone I don't have chemistry with, no matter how great he is as a person!
@Mayuri1994ify8 ай бұрын
Funny i am suscribed to both and i rarely open KZbin and see this 😮
@TeamForleo8 ай бұрын
Meant to be ✨
@saidrahman21108 ай бұрын
Difficult to explain love themes. Creating a well organized plot, very difficult. Hope your tips will make it easy. Thanks.
@Myytchannel_food5 ай бұрын
"Two people building together that plot of land"
@susanparkes50966 ай бұрын
First dates hold no excitement for me. They're just depressing because past experience tells me it's just more of the same crap and > 99.99% certainly a waste of time. The
@marissakeynes25324 ай бұрын
I think it's better to meet people in real life situations as that's when u feel if there's a spark or not.
@susanparkes50964 ай бұрын
@@marissakeynes2532 and it's 99.9% of the time 'not', so a lot of time wasted on something I find a real chore.
@musicinme20108 ай бұрын
My boyfriend of two years was on a dating app, as “single!” He had multiple women going believing he was single.
@marissakeynes25324 ай бұрын
I'm sorry u went thru that. He wasn't worthy of u.
@farhantariq24317 ай бұрын
Great conversation. But still this version of Self love has flaws. My brain knows that if I have 'to love' myself' as a job, that means I don't. Though, it might be that after 50 years of actively doing the job, it would stop to be needed anymore, like the psychological bucket of self love would be full, and unlike physical cells that need food everyday, perhaps love being Psychological, doesn't. But then, this kind of self love is a process of conscious thinking, which is based on memory (as in, brain cells say- dressing nice is self love and brain cells being physical need Self love till the end.)
@Myytchannel_food5 ай бұрын
*Relationship with other people *Relationship with ourselves *Relationship with life itself
@saidrahman21108 ай бұрын
Please explain differences between story and plot.
@MichelleRothman95 ай бұрын
Thank you youtube algorithm!!!!❤ !
@angelgray88995 ай бұрын
15:58
@jasblossoms7 ай бұрын
What is your advice for someone who communicated standards and needs in a healthy way, didn’t feel like they were being met, then communicated in an unhealthy way from a dysregulated nervous system and now I feel like the crazy one. 😅
@AnaGfit237 ай бұрын
I personally feel like I did this in my last relationship. You *might* have to be honest with yourself about the other individuals’ willingness to understand and work with you. I asked my ex for couples counseling 3x in our relationship. First he told me basically he thinks it’s just me. After some self progress and events in my relationship, I asked again and he said sure-you find the counselor, set the appointment and I’ll show up. Truthfully, that didn’t encourage me it would be a fruitful endeavor. Last time, he suggested it-after I sat down with him and told him I believe I wanted to end the relationship. Now I had a bad rebound situationship (one that taught me a TON so I don’t regret it and am actually super grateful for it), but still I don’t regret it. Not saying that’s your journey-now though, I just asked someone I’ve been seeing for 2.5 months if he’d be up theoretically for that if I feel (or he) ever feels the need. And he said absolutely. Just my experience, again, you may be different. Someone committed to misunderstanding you, never will understand no matter how painstakingly you choose your words or attempt to regulate yourself. While with someone who is committed to understanding you and your internal context, you can use the “wrong” or “not the best” words and they still are there, for it all-“right” words or wrong.
@sunbeam92227 ай бұрын
My ex partner just did that, I think, looking back, he did express his needs in a healthy way and I did not notice. And then he expressed them in a big meltdown way that I sure noticed this time ;) but it triggered me which triggered him again then bang he broke up and ran. Just like that
@jasblossoms7 ай бұрын
Im sorry. That makes me sad. And I know im learning how to be a better person from it all. I listen to Heidi Prieb and she had a great episode on self containment that helped me. Thank you for sharing. I don’t know what the outcome of my meltdown is quite yet. I love how Matthew says it’s about who can handle you the best.
@sunbeam92227 ай бұрын
@@jasblossoms I'm sorry also. I understand now how he got frustrated at me and felt ignored and abandoned. And from my perspective I felt super hurt to suddenly go from love of his life to enemy number 1. What a mess relationship can be even tho there is so much love ;) I also watched her videos. It sure brings tons of understanding.
@AnaGfit237 ай бұрын
@@jasblossoms Heidi is the best !
@lmm14476 ай бұрын
all the things, all the things, all the things
@Myytchannel_food5 ай бұрын
"Happy enough"
@parentsplaybook8 ай бұрын
Matthew Hussy should see a developmental optometrist and get his eyes checked to see if he needs vision therapy. That might fix dizziness and pain.
@Myytchannel_food5 ай бұрын
"Nasty behaviour" "Response system to Uncomfortable emotion"