Watch These Women Try To Pick Up Men

[@alveus8205]

I’m an old man. I feel like I’m watching a weird documentary on aliens.

[@drspeed2006]

I'm a teen and this is what I have to grow around, I feel like a wildlife explorar looking at stupid animals fight each other

[@alveus8205]

@@drspeed2006 God bless you. It can’t be easy.

[@drspeed2006]

@alveus8205 appreciate the blessing, it's tough keeping a straight face while looking at them

[@MickeyMousevD]

​@@drspeed2006😂😂😂😂Yeah same, 19 and still confused 😂

[@sigmacademy]

I'm get that feeling when I watch AI technology applications (and I'm into technology)? XD

[@R2debo_]

Nut is the only one that didn't carry the conversation and actually made the girl do something

[@tbp_Nxon3727]

W nut

[@noweebatall5520]

Deez

[@gumballgary4519]

Facts Nut did his job right but she wanted him to make the jokes 😂 that ain’t the point boi

[@AshGonEntertainment]

Yeah Nut gave back the energy she gave in the first video so I didn’t feel bad for her. She was much more “mean” in her video then he was in hers and he did better too.

[@Jabbadabut123]

Nut was literally just doing what most women do when approached to be honest, he did a good part playing the opposite role.

[@nathanwho1384]

Men are simple, we just want simple direct communication. No games, no bullshit. Just tell us what youre thinking or feeling, and let us make the moves accordingly. Idk how many of my male friends talk about how frustrating it is these days. Hearing a woman say something like "idk what do you think" is already a red flag. You have opinions, thoughts and desires. Speak them or lose out. That goes for men too.

[@ducksonplays4190]

@@leahnoliah1944 Then that isn't the dude for you. Instead you would have spent ages with that dude, only to find out they weren't right for you.

[@Nindroidgamer110]

@@leahnoliah1944 See, you were straightforward, he was straightforward. He should've been nicer, 100%, but at least both of you knew the truth

[@mittyleej6796]

Truth

[@user-ly3li3ex8c]

Men plays games by omission of truth to have access to early sex that they push without saying what their intentions are first, never any time to discuss when they make moves and force the woman into a situation where she is faced with the dilemma of looking like a slut or rejecting a man she doesn't want to reject.

[@Tara-cv2kz]

@@leahnoliah1944 ikr, I been bullied too much to be forward lol

[@Tysonator1000]

If a woman approached me in real life and acted anything other than how Aurora did, I'd honestly think I was being punked. I'd also be completely weirded out if someone was sniffing me. I'm surprised the guys were into that.

[@vanderful2397]

This isn't really a normal situation, so this isn't really that valuable. I think in real life they would get weirded out too.

[@Tysonator1000]

@@vanderful2397 Fair point, it isn't a normal situation but it doesn't make the whole thing any less creepier. Myself, I have personal boundaries. I wouldn't be fond of some strange woman that I just met acting like that. I'd be out the door.

[@Captain_Insano_nomercy]

@tbag111 yeah I can actually say this happened to me in real life back in 2015. This really hot girl tried to "rizz" me and she was so bad at it, it came across as weird and I just walked away from her not knowing that she was flirting

[@domthegreat815]

The guys were so into anything it was so sad… like in the original video the girls were all laughing and stuff when the guys were tryna “rizz” them up cuz they knew it was just 4 fun but the dudes r actually playing into it like they think the girls r being fr 😭

[@Felinefobia]

@@domthegreat815I noticed this too

[@SnakeEyesSwim]

The best thing a girl can do is: - pay attention - actually listen to what I'm saying - ask questions about our conversation - casual physical touch, laughing and looking in a seductive way could also go a long way if done correctly

[@ilemcc]

Good to know

[@AstraLydia]

That's what humans want... It's just basic kindness

[@banditone7896]

The most attractive thing a girl can do for a guy is to just pay attention to him. That doesn't mean be "clingy", but listening to what he says and actually participate in a conversation. Guys don't like fake conversations.

[@MidwestArtMan]

Yeah, I'd say the best thing is to just ask about me or my day and look genuinely interested.

[@wellbuttermybiscuits7]

That's literally the same thing girls want so it goes both ways, girls want guys who listen too

[@flowersent9614]

Most attractive thing a guy can do is not only want a girl for her body, but actually want her for her personality and strength.

[@TheChoosh]

Yeah. Women do need to pay attention. Was trying to date, and told her about how our friends groups has our matching tshirts. Worn them by her. When she meets my friends and hears how close we are she suggest we should have our own tshirts. Awkward silence and she looks at me, and she says “oh no, I should’ve have known this.”

[@Agentfirestarter]

@@flowersent9614and strength?

[@cami4CYeshua787]

As a wife, I never went through all this with my husband, and we met in high school. We didn't like each other right off the bat, but once we talked we hit it off. And then he facebook stalked me and I caught him, so I knew he was interested and told him I needed a friend to go with me to Prom, and he said yes and then the next day told all our friends we were "unofficially official" 😂 And now we've been together 7yrs, married for 3. Lol

[@nicholashenderson6941]

Uh huh. I'll be impressed if you guys make it to 50 together. Statistically speaking you will file for divorce shortly after 30, take half his crap, alienate his children from him, and destroy him. Then by 40 he will be back on top while you end up old, alone and bitter.

[@elbarto4069]

Are you sure he didn’t like you in the beginning

[@rogueknight5984]

@@nicholashenderson6941 Genuinely curious, who hurt you???

[@lowkey_kiana]

​@@rogueknight5984lmfao real

[@lowkey_kiana]

​@@nicholashenderson6941are you speaking in experience orrr?

[@Triaxx2]

So... the tall gal did two things: She was confident, and spoke our language. It's been noted again and again that men are visual creatures, and so by walking up and checking him out, she showed that she was interested in him in a direct, physical, visual way. Clear signals that she's interested and likes what she sees. Amarra on the other hand, avoided the 'I don't know syndrome'. She knew what she wanted to watch, where she wanted to eat and what she wanted to do. It's feedback without just being a list of things, but in that one conversation, you know what kind of movie she likes, what kind of food she enjoys and something she finds romantic to do. From there we can build out a ton of great ideas, without having to either drag answers out, or play a guessing game.

[@eh2zedd956]

this right here.

[@timothyspory6475]

I disagree with your first point. Women who behave that way communicate the they primarily want a physical relationship with no depth which is in line with what we guys seek for immediate gratification. Women were designed differently so that we all don’t just seek out sex with nothing to follow. If you look at current social issues this is a huge one that spring out of hook up culture.

[@elyssacorbaley8133]

@@timothyspory6475 Thank you so much for saying this! I love this point. 🥰🤗

[@Johncarver7777]

@@timothyspory6475 Yeah I disagree as well. For starters, she smelled the dude and had the dude smell her. I mean, smell is important but it's not flirting. And I'm not as picky flirting as Brett is. Tho the cosplay did give her points, not gonna lie. Any girl that is willing to cosplay during bed, gets like a handful of points. But if she's not bearable, then don't expect those to count either.

[@NickMachado]

​@@timothyspory6475 was spot on with his reply. I was going to say something similar. Women coming on very strong is a red flag if you are looking for something more than a one night stand.

[@livywithane]

10:47 was THE BEST thing I’ve seen in this video 😂😂😂 “oh hey”👋🏾🙄

[@johnthewalrus7308]

I've been approached by a lady only one time in life. I was so surprised I just laughed uncomfortably the whole time. I couldn't stop it.

[@oarfish1481]

Lucky. I’ve only ever been approached by a gay emo man

[@mythicalslugbeam130]

@@oarfish1481 Damn. And I thought my experiences never being in a relationship, yet having mostly friends that were guys was bad. (I'm a woman)

[@eclipsos8187]

I've been approached by two guy men. Sad tears😢 Lol

[@DrSwazz]

Most men are guy men though

[@Chacharson]

@@oarfish1481 same, except that I was approached by a woman, who said to me that her friend likes me and she asked me for him if I'm gay :D

[@skimt7818]

Back in roughly 2006, a girl sat across the table from me at a party. Our eyes met a couple of times. I tried not to stare too much, so I joined the conversation next to me. She then suddenly stood opposite of me. I turned and look up at her, and she looked down at me. She sat on my lap, reached out her hand to greet mine, and said "My name is X. Who are you?" I told her my name. She then said "Can I see your phone?" and I showed it to her. Maintaining eye-contact with me, she took it, then typed something in it. "Now you have my number," she said. Her phone bleeped, "and now I have yours," she smiled. Then, she got up, and slowly walked away like she was not in a hurry.

[@pikatrainer3835]

What's the point of this story? To brag about how high your Rizz is?

[@colatte378]

Girl got game

[@Sigurther]

Okay?

[@skimt7818]

@@colatte378 Very. Can't think of any other examples of girls with "rizz", though. Maybe it only happens once in a lifetime?

[@csanadjakab7717]

"And then my alarm went off, and I woke up." At least in my case if something like this would happen to me.

[@chinchilling92]

As a woman, I've noticed that all women have to do is just be a normal human. Don't be insane, over-the-top, or too try-hard. Don't be mean. Instead, be friendly, have genuine interest in the man, and be supportive and appreciative. Women don't have to work hard to get a decent guy. It's always the men that have to work, and that's how nature works; it's the same in the animal kingdom. But, for some reason, a lot of women want so much control, many women are a little greedy (not just with money) and pretty impatient, so they spiral into bad behaviors that aren't attractive to men and the women drive themselves crazy which also drives men further away from them. Sadly, I've learned this from personal experience, having had absolutely no social or "romantic etiquette" for lack of a better phrase.. or that kind of guidance from mature adult women as I was growing up. It took me a long time to learn, and I have a lot of remorse, but at least I learned. I feel extremely sorry for females and males growing up in today's world. There are almost zero healthy male or female role models for children. It makes me so sad.

[@aimsfabs6147]

That’s not COMPLETELY true: Women are supposed to be ‘pretty’, smart and kind- love cooking and making a home but also a career woman(as this is STILL what many men want in a woman) , but not too accomplished because it makes men feel inferior, Independent but not too independent because it makes men feel inferior, but not too dependent because you look like a gold digger. Attractive and confident but not too confident cause you look cocky and not too attractive because THEN people say it ‘tempts men too much’, ‘you look like a h** and like you’re trying to hard for attention’ but don’t cover up too much cause ‘you look like a prune’- being a woman and dating exposes many double standards and can be extremely confusing. We are told to be ‘this’ but not ‘too much of this’ cause then it becomes unattractive etc. So in my opinion, what you said regarding ‘women don’t have to do much to find a good man but men do have to, to find a good woman isn’t true’ Because a lot of women in relationships accept the bare minimum and are too afraid to ask for more, put up with disrespect and are too scared to leave but for majority of men- if they aren’t happy they demand more or jump ship in an instant.

[@Mashle_0]

​@@aimsfabs6147L take

[@chinchilling92]

@aimsfabs6147 I think a lot of what you said applies to what society says about women, more so than just one man. When it comes to actual wife material, as opposed to a one-night stand, a lot of men don't like when women wear too much make-up or are too exposed, for example. I've never personally met a guy who was serious about a woman who said, "She covers herself up too much and doesn't wear enough make up." I've never even heard that from guys just looking to get laid. The problem is that there are way more crappy men and women in today's world, so everyone is getting the wrong ideas about what the other sex wants in a partner. If a man has the capability to take care of a woman on his own, I highly doubt that he'd want her working. He'd want her to be at home raising their kids. The government (like always) is mostly to blame for the destruction of the nuclear family; now, it's almost impossible for ordinary couples to have only the man working to survive as a family. The government also allows human trafficking and porn, so they know what they're doing. They're weakening society in order to control everyone, and it's working. They're literally driving everyone insane and gaslighting people into thinking depravity is what men and women REALLY want to be happy. The perfect example is that Adam22 guy and his "wife" LenathePlug, if you know anything about them.

[@adrianaamado473]

👏🏿

[@aimsfabs6147]

@@chinchilling92 I understand your point- and I agree to the extent that radical people online distort our perception of reality when it comes to dating but I’ve heard the same men say things like ‘I want a woman to keep a household’ but ‘She needs to work cause I don’t want a golddigger around’ but I do understand your perspective

[@Jking0005]

Brett's uncomfortable cringe face is one of the best things I've seen on her show 😂

[@adelyn4341]

Same😂😂😂😂

[@gcstudios9091]

Bro same, the cringe be real though.

[@alexanderingham4650]

Yesss

[@johnclinnick3969]

As a 25 year old single male with virtually no relationship experience whatsoever, I'm not bothered by the idea of a women trying to "rizz" up a guy. Partly because I suck, but also because I think it should go both ways; both men and women aught to be able to approach each other.

[@Aethon_Angelo]

Me too brother.I am antisocial,dating and communication is not my strong suite.

[@eliminator173]

You're wrong, though, bro. Any woman who pursues you the way a guy would a woman is for the streets.

[@NickMachado]

I'm not trying to be a dick but you sound like you need to listen to fresh and fit or some type of RP podcast. The world doesn't run on could, would and should, it runs on what is. The fairy tale equality you are talking about is just that, a fairy tale.

[@DrSwazz]

That’s…just sexist. And I think this is the first time in my life I’ve ever bothered to accuse somebody of being sexist lmao. A woman being forward in wanting to date someone shows initiative.

[@eliminator173]

@DrSwazz the problem is that most women can have any guy they pursue given that they are average to attractive. So now it should be assumed that if they take the initiative that they just go around getting a bunch of dudes. They are for the streets.

[@TheLettuceDragon]

I really appreciate the guys in the comments explaining what they are and aren't attracted to in women, because I have been wondering about that forever

[@gageshippy2256]

Its only the guys who are explaining things clearly. If only women can learn how to do that.

[@Bclle128]

​@@gageshippy2256bro God created us this way for a reason

[@michaelrusso6822]

The only thing I've learned from this video is... being "rizz" apparently means being awkwardly cheesy.

[@matthewcadden1967]

Lmao pretty much what I've also learned 😂

[@bluerobin7051]

True information.

[@ydid687]

your fault for coming here of all places to "learn" brother

[@tbp_Nxon3727]

No it means having good charisma

[@vatsalsharma4061]

Do you think us as a civilization have a purpose? If yes, what is it? What is the best way to live human life according to you?

[@Promatheos]

The guys can’t help themselves but fall back into their natural “I’m supposed to flirt here” default. Easy mode stuff. As others said, Nut was the only one who knew his role here.

[@sigmacademy]

That was only because guys are supposed to be the ones that need to prove themselves, so this exercise where THEY are being "courted" is a new experience for them. :P

[@brianna_banana478]

As a woman Rizz is entirely unnecessary. I’m not above-average looking, I’m not flirtatious, but I am always genuine. I enjoy meeting new people, I love sharing my interests and never shying away from being true to myself. As a result I have garnered a lot of interest from men despite their being a myriad of prettier girls and charismatic girls. For reference, I’m only 21. The boys I’m near are literally surrounded by beautiful, talented, and smart women at the peak of their attractiveness yet more men have openly expressed romantic interest in me than any of my friends or school mates. True confidence- which is being yourself- is attractive. You don’t need to play games, or be who you’re not. Treat everyone respectfully and with kindness, that’s how genuine connections are born.

[@cheyenneross758]

I never really got any interest from men. I had a lot of male friends I had crushes on throughout my life. The stereotype is that male best friends always want their female friends. Nope. Not true. Every time I expressed my feelings or interest in them I got shut down. "Ew", "what a joke" and "you're not my type" are just a few of the responses I got. At the age of 20 I've never been asked out and never been in a relationship. I've been told I'm above average looking but my " weird personality" is a huge turn off. My take away from that is that being yourself is inherently a bad thing unless you're open to casual sex.

[@brianna_banana478]

@@cheyenneross758 Girl I am so sorry to hear that, it hurts my heart that you hold this view on yourself. 20 years old is so young, keep true to yourself and time will reward you. At this age our bubble is so small, I am sorry the men in your life thus far have made you feel this way. Those comments are very childish and something I’ve seen myself prominently from high-school girls. You will find someone who is truly enamored by you, sometimes it takes patience. Especially at our age where so many are hyper-focused on their own image, and others validation. Please keep true to yourself, everyone including men will appreciate it some day soon❤️

[@MiguelMedV]

@@cheyenneross758 I'm sorry that happened to you, it's weird because responses like "Ew" or "What a joke" are usually used by girls, at least in America 🤔...

[@cheyenneross758]

@@MiguelMedV I think it's just because we're most used to hearing about women rejecting men. Both sexes can be equally childish

[@levrubinstein1099]

imagine being a girl lol

[@rhueoflandorin]

Women do not need rizz. They need to be genuine, they need to show effort and interest, not be fake or mean or entitled, or bratty. They need to show that they find us attractive and want our affection. What your mom said about lightly brushing the arm or whatever is actually really good advice. it's a signal to a man that a woman is comfortable and wants to be close. Initiating conversation or physical intimacy are huge positive signals to a guy. It doesn't make a woman a hoe to go up and hug a person, or to take his hand, or initiate intimacy or call/text first. Being genuine and kind is far more important to a man than a woman's ability to come up with a witty pick up line. We don't care about pick up lines.

[@DrSwazz]

I dunno, undiscovered pick up lines are funny.

[@cobra7282]

IMO a woman's version of rizz is their ability to let a guy that they are interested in know that they are interested and can be approached. Doesn't mean that she needs to be some sort of pick-up artist or anything.

[@honeycal]

taking notes ..

[@anonymouse956]

A liberal man's dream? Every man's dream for a girl to ask a guy out.

[@MN6WS6]

She held his hand and made up her mind without him having to ask five times. Marry her.

[@emdub3081]

💯😂😂😂

[@warpedreflection3650]

A lot of people don't seem to know what rizz is. It's slang for charisma and relates to the charming/seducing/chatting someone up you want the be with romantically/sexually. Nothing more, nothing less.

[@paddington1670]

so flirting.

[@i04q3aa]

@@paddington1670Lol yeah but gen z version..

[@raemackinnon]

That's quite the way of saying "flirting" lmao

[@craigf.4828]

Thank you. I didn’t know what “rizz” was either and Brett never defined it, at least in this video. So…it’s what we “used” to call flirting. Got it.

[@the3nder1]

Girl who ended up in first did the thing that no man can resist: she made choices about what she wanted and communicated them clearly and directly. That and a cheesey pickup line is all it took to put her in first.

[@Carolyn_Cannon]

A guy once told me his last name is daddy and that he prefers to be called by his last name

[@LanceNRusso]

Great video, there is nothing like a perfect marriage or relationship, I learnt that in everything there is always a solution, 5 years ago I and my wife divorced because we were having some difficulties in our marriage but we are back together, it was a really bad phase but we got through it.

[@LanceNRusso]

@josephregland its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is SHELLY RENEE WHITE.

[@LanceNRusso]

@josephregland kindly look her up online and you won't regret it.

[@nebulysses7124]

Omg an advertisement. Ha!

[@BeccaaWeccaa]

her voice, her editing, HER MAKEUP AND BEAUTY, brett is just amazing. LWK SHE NEEDA DROP HER MAKEUP PRODUCTS BC HER MAKEUP IS JUST SO PRETTY

[@Gimmedembolls]

She always talking about her Nimi skincare

[@caffeine.and.sparkles]

I came to the comments hoping somebody would know what bronzer, highlighter, and lipstick shes wearing!! Her makeup is always so pretty

[@gillroygarlic3616]

She kinda looks like Ben Shapiro

[@BeccaaWeccaa]

@@gillroygarlic3616 why can i see it

[@froppledopple8899]

I still can’t get over how smooth Brett Cooper is with her ad transitions. Cracks me up every single time. 😂

[@HubCityIcon]

The girls that have it are just confident and unapologetic without any need for gimmicks and get straight at it. It always brightens my day to encounter a girl like that.

[@justtrollinalong977]

Winner initiated physical contact and "had plans" (i.e. she demonstrated that she wanted to touch, not catch us with a charge...and wasn't going to make the guy do all the mind-reading guess work)... Thats GOLD.

[@PradaSomto]

“She is grounding her legs, like tree trunks. Into the ground” 😂omg that had me rolling. It’s so true.

[@WestRonin75]

“Men insult each other and don’t mean it. Women compliment each other and don’t mean it.” 2:18

[@blackswan7568]

My thoughts: I saw this thumbnail, and literally thought to myself, "Women try to rizz men? I thought that was just a myth." Most of these guys were probably just happy to have a woman speak to them. Brett and I have the same reactions to all of the cringe pick-up lines (just be yourselves, y'all). The whole time I was trying to figure out what was on Brett's shirt😅

[@sigmacademy]

"Most of these guys were probably just happy to have a woman speak to them." That's so true it hurts. Especially for average looking guys, since they are practically invisible in society, and more so in dating life. :/

[@micahm7123]

It's a picture of her in London

[@blackswan7568]

@@micahm7123 Thx, man.

[@joshuadalton6063]

@@blackswan7568 Yeah I think she was trying to imitate dylan mulvany or something.

[@NoidoDev]

They will have to do this more and more, since many guys are careful and also don't even go out to meet women because they gave up or stopped caring.

[@Triniti-vi4rx]

Matt Walsh: What is a Woman Brett Cooper: What is Rizz in a Woman

[@skyraider1656]

I remember as a young man I was terribly uneasy around young women, just didn’t think I was any great shakes as we said back then. I eventually got over that phase, but just had to learn to relax.

[@michaelsutherland6652]

Yes that would absolutely work. Direct. Forward. To the point. This all equals confidence and maturity.

[@amysiebert4752]

This was so much more interesting than just watching the jubilee video, because watching Brett's reactions was awesome!

[@HPTFan]

Good video. I know there are women who makes the first move, and ask men out on dating. It's rare. If a woman tries to rizz or flirt with me, I'll get nervous because I over analyze the little things. It's great to see both genders having fun. :)

[@nathanwho1384]

They should just do a 30 minute show of women trying to rank themselves. Youll learn everything you need to before you have to even talk to them. Womens worst enemy is other women, plain and simple.

[@mitchellmccroskey4568]

Fun fact about the word ‘Rizz’. It’s actually short for ‘Charisma’. So girls can have rizz by simply having charm and being compelling. Rizz just looks incredibly different when a man does it vs a woman!

[@AngryHVACguy]

Brett you hit it right on the head. Confidence and coming ready with at least a baseline plan to go and do something.

[@oliviag6407]

Ahahh, someone used the “Your hands look heavy may I hold them for you” on me and I wasn’t able to leave the situation so he just kept asking and asking and I felt like dying.

[@J.Young808]

10:07 I think she was very nervous that’s why she closed herself off. She may not be one that socializes much.

[@JustAverageJeff]

All a girl needs to do to Rizz is to be interested and to say a few compliments and there you go. Nobody else ever shows us interest so that's all you need to do to show interest, because no one else is talking to us.

[@qwmx]

If some do talk to you, it's not flirting. I swear I talk to random men for the fun of it becuse I have no one to talk to.

[@JustAverageJeff]

@@qwmx That’s not what I said. Just be clear with your intentions. Nobody has randomly talked to me since school other than standing in line and I’m sure I’m not the only one with that experience.

[@veronicaana]

Then why have I as a woman had to compete with so many prettier women in every situation? Women DO go up and chat up men. I SEE it. Sorry if you get offended, but the only men not being spoken to are men that women do not find appealing.

[@hatchhermit77]

@@veronicaana The only time I've ever been chatted up by a woman is when I was with a girlfriend. When I'm a man alone, not a single one will talk to me. It's called mate poaching.

[@maxiehilaire686]

​@@veronicaanagreat personality uve got there. heres a pro tip, some men care more about that than looks. but keep telling people theyre too unattractive.

[@justme7415]

Sense of humor, outgoing and being bold with it. That to me is female rizz. Someone who drives a conversation and isn't all shy.

[@jameshedrick4490]

I like shy girls. They're more trustworthy in relationships.

[@seriouslyryan6592]

I think a shy girl also has the most riz, someone who has a hidden personality and has more to them. And actually has opens up more as you talk to them. The girls who are overconfident and me me me constantly are not interesting at all…

[@jameshedrick4490]

@@seriouslyryan6592 I agree completely.

[@Tara-cv2kz]

@@seriouslyryan6592 I’m glad someone out there thinks that

[@manuelfarias2820]

Yes yes yes. Its like a ping pong game

[@thebee0320]

If a woman walks up to me and says "My name is X, but you can call me mommy." I am in a relationship the moment that is spoken.

[@NoName-rq6bg]

14:15 girls should approach. Y’all don’t have to worry about getting accused of being creepy. Girls, Just approach the guy you like, don’t wait for him to approach you. Approach first, the guy will continue the conversation but approaching should be a womens job.

[@SledgeMichaels]

As an average person living an average life in Illinois I will continue to reach out by commenting on videos just to say, you’re doing an amazing job and a lot of us support you and wish you the best. Keep it up!! Cheers 🤙 thanks for the great videos and content.

[@MidwestArtMan]

Even tough I'm only 27, Brett Cooper is my only window into Gen Z. Like, who says "rizz"?

[@Gimmedembolls]

12 year olds at my school😂

[@DannyDevitoOffical-TrustMeBro]

I’m 17 and have never heard anyone but preteen boys say it unironically 💀 it must be the lack of tiktok in my social circle

[@juliehops3164]

Shy Traditional Girl's guide to Rizz: 1. Be Yourself (don't put on a persona, it's exhausting!) 2. Find Common Ground (Talk about something you have in common. Even if it's just the awkwardness, bc it's hard for everyone out here! Embrace it and laugh about it together!) 3. Listen (Make eye contact & take the time to make him feel heard/understood. Everyone wants that connection!) 4. If you don't know what to say next: Repeat a simpler version of their last statement *it proves you were listening* and close it with your own opinion or compliment on the original statement. (It comes off as genuine, engaging and intelligent) 5. Relax your shoulders, let your face settle into a softer smile/attentive expression (the point is to just loosen up and not look frozen. A huge smile and uncontrollable laugh is NOT going to communicate confidence.) Practice meeting safe-looking strangers at work or wherever you go. If it bombs, you probably won't ever see them again, there's nothing to lose! Try it with anyone & you'll build real friendships & confidence, and yes, it is proven 100% successful on single men!

[@deusdex1186]

Excellent advice.

[@sigmacademy]

6. Have a trusted friend on speed dial. If you panic, you can ask for advice when excusing yourself briefly, or in the case of meeting a creep, get someone safe to drive you back home.

[@paddington1670]

good advice

[@ab-gail]

Was this advice successful for you (as in you’re married or dating someone)?

[@thurin84]

the "i might need a tour guide" totally works on guys. worked on me. we like to look knowledgeable and being a tour guide is great because you can show off your knowledge and maybe help someone to feel more at home in a new place at the same time. win-win.

[@GavinSpence-mg9eh]

Frrr

[@abeclark524]

I've been "rizzed" by women, and yes it's as awkward as you would imagine, but having been on the other side of the equation for most of my life, I had nothing but sympathy for them. And no, they didn't end up as dates, I wasn't interested.

[@potatosalad6699]

It doesn’t take much to make a man happy a little compliment will take our hearts

[@MidwestArtMan]

I'm an introvert and attracted to feminine women, so the first two actually felt off-putting to me. My favorite was the last girl because she was very normal and polite and spoke more one-on-one rather than making a show of it.

[@Chainer00000]

6:53 The sound right after "Wouldn't wanna get lost" that Brett made is now on a sound board. Dunno what I'll use it for but maybe it'll bring some "WTF" moments at work when I play it. It'd be interesting to see the DW cast do this. Classify it as "team building" if you wish. It would be entertaining and educational at the least.

[@fullyfb3847]

My wife rizzed me by saying the following at a party,"Hey, I like you. What are you going to do about it?" Thirteen years later 😂 Women don't need Rizzoli. They just need to communicate with us men simply. We are a simple sex

[@MyLifecraft]

10:57 If a girl told me that I probably would have burst out laughing. That was pretty funny. But she has guts, I’ll give her that!

[@kyle4251]

I died laughing when he said they were celebrating Hanukkah🤣🤣

[@nnnnnnnnnataliem]

I am used to the term "wifey material" as a high compliment... Not "rizz" I can't flirt for 💩!!!! ❤

[@AdamPruett]

Yeah girls don't have rizz.

[@LiamHalla-pe5nt]

Are you single

[@RmonK2000]

Nah, that's a different thing. "Rizz" is just charisma. "Wifey/hubby material" is qualities that make someone a potential "husband or a wife". Not the same

[@MickeyMousevD]

Sameee😂

[@W34KN35S]

This seems almost impossible to compare because guys don’t need to be talked up for us to be attracted to someone. Rizz for women is their looks, if we are attracted to them then that’s enough.

[@sashacardenas377]

“This girl is getting sturdy” LOL! Thank you makes me think abt my body language

[@Clasam09]

The girl who "won", was mid in the Rizz game. She was friendly and charming. But there was no banter, no flirting - it was contrived, like was said. After that, it was basically, we're gonna go on the date I wanna go on. Turn off. I think the guys rated her highly because they weren't used to a girl following the script of what they usually have to do.

[@jerdtgg]

14:55 dude in the back hands his phone to her too.

[@Bummerdrummer463]

I picked up a guy. But he wasn't very heavy. 😂

[@ViewpointUnique]

Watching stuff like this makes me very thankful to already be married to an amazing woman. Because these are exactly the kind of social situations that I would walk away from 😆

[@bullshark3771]

I was talking recently at work and rizzed up a girl based off her t-shirt. We aren’t going for a relationship or anything but we have similar interests and can be friends. It was a D&D shirt.

[@bulbouskiwicat9608]

After the boys said they were celebrating hanukah, a true rizzer would have said “ooo I like to light candles too” all flirty and look the guy up and down

[@caitlinbrands9009]

15:32 gotta love Brett's editors😂

[@AdamPruett]

😂yeah

[@LiamHalla-pe5nt]

Are you single?

[@hansolo1487]

Think about what game is for guys. It's men showing off the parts of themselves women would like most(i.e. charisma, leadership, confidence and the ability to protect) For women it's the same. Just wear a nice dress, be genuine and kind. As long as you show genuine interest and are nice to look at you'll be fine. Also knowing how to make a good meatloaf is a plus.

[@Viennery]

I feel like for women, you want to be the opposite of men. Don't act overly confident and sexual, because that's an immediately turn off. Act honest, genuine, and a bit vulnerable. Men are natural protectors, so if your opening yourself up without an ego we will naturally want to protect and take care of you.

[@marijeewana]

what if us girls are like, shy or somewhat awkward iykwim .. is that a turn off or

[@Viennery]

@@marijeewana nope, that triggers the man’s desire to protect and lead the woman. Shy women can actually be an attractive quality.

[@marijeewana]

@@Viennery oh, im not that outgoing tbh, atleast with new people and ecspecially dudes . people make it seem like they want women to act more confident and oversexualized where im from atleast but it might be becuz of my age 🤷‍♀

[@paninthedada]

Wear your sweetest dress and moderately trauma dump on them - gotcha 😂

[@xAnAsianx]

"I might need a tour guide. Wouldn't want to get lost." If that came out of a guys mouth, every red flag would be screaming "You're gonna get kidnapped/murdered in the alleyway" and even as a guy, my mind went to "I'mma get shived and wallet stolen"

[@DanielTheCanadianOne]

"You can call me Mommy" That would get funny points from me. I would probably burst out laughing, but that is probably where it would end.

[@christopherjamesjuniorarms3795]

this stresses me out also , but Brett makes if factual and fun. thanks Brett

[@dragonsman4733]

Finally, I've been wanting to see something like this, since it's usually women ranking men

[@Peaceful_Zen_Life]

I think rizz is all about finding the person that matches what you’re looking for, generally, and acting on it by starting a casual conversation, and slowly become more flirtatious and sexual as appropriate.

[@Peaceful_Zen_Life]

@@YoursTruly01-1 😁 thanks!

[@TonyDovahkiin]

comment became unreadable after the ignorant lazy word "rizz". 🤷🏻‍♂️

[@Peaceful_Zen_Life]

@@TonyDovahkiin what word would you have preferred/phrase? Game? Ballin? Pimpin? Being smooth? Being a player? Being a Chad? Which modern term or old term do you want used for the same thing? What’s the difference? It’s just terminology to get across meaning. What would be the non-lazy way to say it for you?

[@TonyDovahkiin]

@@Peaceful_Zen_Life 🥱 oh my, someone's feathers got ruffled. my my, how touchy. what a big nothing burger word salad of a comment, and yet, you still don't get it. 🤣 ah well, far be-it from me to point out the obvious, if you don't know then you don't know, i don't do others' homework for them, it should have been obvious, oh well. tc now. 👋🏻

[@Peaceful_Zen_Life]

@@TonyDovahkiin don’t worry I can recognize when people are playing stupid games. Don’t forget to pick up your stupid prize. And for the record, my feathers are not ruffled I just find it pointless for you to pass your judgment thinking it matters any. Get off your high horse, relax and enjoy life.

[@peanutwars]

watching this as a guy this is the best thing ever and not yucky at all lol could you imagine if just once in your life a woman acted like this towards you lol!?

[@dragomirdespard974]

Lol. Brett dancing in her chair while criticising the girl with planted feet stance is just awesome.

[@Brett1692]

As a traditional husband with a traditional wife, all of those girls were too much, brett on the other hand, perfect levels of cute, intelligent, and confident

[@MaddiesBetter]

I love your videos it feels so good when you post

[@LiamHalla-pe5nt]

Are ye unmarried?

[@Ninjagaming44566]

​@@LiamHalla-pe5ntare you?

[@MaddiesBetter]

@@LiamHalla-pe5nt I’m 12

[@Hal0246]

Awkward "hi"s are the cutest thing and 100% rizz

[@professor_soup__3302]

my college friend group literally just walked up to me and said "we're going to firehouse subs, you're coming with us"

[@LamarqMarcutte]

The thing is that the thing that really matters is to make it feel authentic and natural. If girls have a conversation with you and they are the one with the interest, it NEVER feels that way. They just can't do it or fake it properly.

[@Ruzland]

The "straight for the hug" was the best move and the last girl was the best overall.

[@paularized1]

How can they judge rizz when it’s just fake set up bs like this? Anybody can have rizz when you’re in a setting with no rejection or consequences.

[@Leila_Bell]

I was walking into work and my now husband was sitting on the bench inside. Never spoken to him before, I stopped and told him how beautiful his blue eyes were then I walked off. Less than a year later we were married and have been for over 22 years. He still tells people about that so maybe I’ve got whatever this Rizz is. Haha

[@rociocartes]

I’m laughing so hard - when Brett was like gagging. I get stressed too and I cringe

[@williamchapman2434]

So glad I married the perfect woman many years ago,I was dating in the late 80’s -mid 90’s and it was easy even though we didn’t have any social media interactions ,dating apps,facebook ,etc

[@Generic_guy_with_glasses]

I think it would be funny to see Brett do something like this

[@maraisreynolds9688]

I can attest to a slight touch to show a guy you like him. Playfully hit him on the first date while we were joking around and he remembers it to this day and knew it was real. I don't even remember thinking about doing it but it really meant a lot to him. 😂 We are married with 1 kid and 1 on the way. Just do it

[@charlottehernandez8803]

Oh goodness! I guess I'm a rizz girl and didn't know it. My friend has joked with me that I am a total tease when I'm just being nice and trying to make them laugh.

[@AriannaArdent-rs1di]

I think I would just smile and say Hi and make eye contact because that’s all I’ve ever had to do lol

[@jaredchalker7914]

The thing about being a girl is if the dude finds you attractive and you make the first move you're 99.99% going to get a positive response. Hey, don't work like that with guys though

[@yoshiforpm]

I’m probably too old to understand the concept of “rizz”, but I love the tag used in this video (and many others) where Brett rolls into the frame. That’s sort of body language is inviting and intriguing and makes me want to know more.

[@okaySam]

Humans used to call it flirting. Soon we won't need a word for it..

[@SirHurricane_]

It’s supposed to be short for charisma for some fucking reason

[@YugiSupersaiyan]

Some tips for the ladies, from a man; Like Brett said, showing a clear interest and a little bit of skin contact is the first big step. Second, when you compliment us, try to avoid complimenting our appearance or our clothes (It feels fake, because guys generally don't think that much about those things). Compliment our actions or our behavior, but try not to make it seem like you're focused on those actions more than who we are. Point out how certain actions or behaviors (Punctuality, hard work, patience, etc.) show positive and appealing parts of our personality (Reliability, leadership, empathy, etc.). Third; Eye contact. This goes for guys as well, but this is a very strong way of showing interest in someone. Fourthly, it's better if you're by yourself, not with a group of your friends. If you're in a group, guys will think you're not serious, like it's a dare or a joke or something. It's ok if you're a little uncomfortable talking with a guy alone. Guys fall for vulnerability real easy. It plays up their ego and makes them feel like the powerful one in the interaction, even though you have most of the control.

[@ColorsBright]

These people seem like they live in a different world. I could never act like this

[@BattleKing00]

The first girl did really well because she was straight to the point, defining what she liked, what she wanted to do, and didn't leave it open to ambiguity. That was fantastic and exactly how us men communicate. She initiated (appropriate) physical touch, which is big for many men, including myself. On top of that sneaking in a cheesy pickup move, which I feel men appreciate much more than women, because we just think it's a fun way to interact. I liked that the one girl opened it up with a casual hug. Going back to the physical touch, it shows that they are comfortable with you and trust you. And it defines a boundary and puts us at ease. We feel like we can initiate physical contact with them being ok with it. Otherwise we feel like we have to keep a distance between us as to avoid making her uncomfortable and putting us in a damning position. The last girl, who Brett thought would rank high, I thought the conversation felt a little awkward and the only reason it kept flowing is because the guy was really good at keeping it rolling. She had a couple good lines, but mostly reacted to him. The opening line that Brett really liked, I personally wouldn't have thought anything of it, maybe just a girl thing. I agree with the good exit though. The closed off girl just didn't seem like she wanted to be there. And the other two just weirded me out.

[@JAMPortraits]

your reactions are killing me 🤣🤣🤣

[@mlaprarie]

At 1:20 Brett perfectly describes why young women have turned Dylan Mulvaney into some kind of weird goddess. Not just social media influencers, but young women in the business world who head corporate marketing departments. It finally stopped with Bud Light, a product consumed largely by men. Men give weirdos like Mulvaney the side eye and back away. But young women turn into simping fools.

[@kokuutou92]

I like casual and chill most, cuz I'm like that. I don't push a girl too hard to go out with me. I don't cat call of course. I've dealt with a ton of rejection, which I usually respond with something like "alright thank you, take care." If member of the female sex is kind and caring, add in jokes + sarcasm, while being obviously interested in me, I would be very interested in her.

[@howtodrawwithstephaniemari1102]

I had to literally go back and look at the girl who ranked first to remember what she did!! *same*

[@emilymg1]

this video is making me SWEAT! im so nervous and HIGHLY entertained. Hysterical how all the dudes react to this stuff

[@NobleHusky]

Rizzing Men - It's about what you do Rizzing Women - It's about what appeals to their current emotional state.