Ways I Made My Home A Cozy Sanctuary | Cozy Minimalist

[@janetharley4713]

Hi from London,thank you for all your advice your such a kind lady,i am 61 and its so nice to see someone giving ideas to us older ladies,best wishes to you

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Janet, hello and welcome. It’s so nice to hear from you. Thank you for watching today and spending some time with me and I hope you’ll subscribe and join us on our pro aging journey❤️

[@jennil7797]

Thank heaven! I have found someone on KZbin who likes order and cosiness but doesn't think that has to mean minimalism! I loathe the idea of living in a home that feels like an IKEA room set. Memories are precious and while I have little items around me handed down from the generations before me, it as though they live on.

[@lifewithsandrahart]

I’m so happy you agree. Certain things a very comforting for me❤️

[@streaming5332]

Who buys things at Ikea....?

[@connydm729]

​@@streaming5332 Many People!!!

[@susanford4351]

Sandra you are an exceptional lady! I am so glad I have found your channel. You give me hope and comfort as I lay in my bed from having surgery 3 days ago. You make me feel like the wind could pick me up and carry me away to those big puffy white clouds and the blue skies and let me feel so free!! Dreams are like rainbows, rain and sunshine. Thank you❤

[@robynmax8719]

I so enjoy the peacefulness when I start your chats. Since I have found you, I often start my day with your LOVELY music and encouraging words! Robyn age 73👏🏻🥰

[@wildflowerwind6941]

I have found as I get older that none of my things make me happy. What makes me happy is connecting with people. I probably would never have said that 20 years ago. The stuff is just that, stuff. It doesn't talk to me or comfort me. But I enjoy beauty and peace and quiet in my home.

[@lifewithsandrahart]

It is amazing as we age we realize that connections with people in our life is more important than things. That is why we can downsize and and eliminate so much stuff we have accumulated throughout the years. Humans are more important than things. You are right.❤️

[@gayleritter1199]

All I can say is “thank you”.

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Thank you❤️

[@christinadaggett6024]

Hi Sandra. We love all the same things in our homes, flowers, candles, photos of my children, and cozy places to curl up with a good book. Right now, we're taking a break from the apartment renovation, in Chiatura, Georgia, and are heading to Antalya, Turkey, for 2 months. I will buy a plant and candles for our Airbnb, like I always do when I'm staying in a temporary place. When we get back, and are ready to move into our own place, I'll be looking for an antique fainting couch, to be used in my cozy reading corner. Of course I'll have candles and flowers, and many vintage pieces, for our new space. Thank you for sharing these wonderful ideas with us. xx

[@lifewithsandrahart]

How wonderful A fainting couch! A perfect place to read. I can’t wait until you have completed your renovation please share with us as you go along. Enjoy your break in Turkey and I look forward to hearing from you again.❤️

[@christinadaggett6024]

@@lifewithsandrahart I also have a KZbin channel, where I cover our renovations from the beginning. I don't pay for ads, so I don't have a big following. Thank you for your kind words. I look forward to your next video. xx

[@swimmergirl250]

Thank you for sharing about what makes a home cozy. I needed this today. I’m trying to love myself more and I’m going to implement some of your ideas to help me. Thank you for your motherly wisdom.❤

[@Gena777-r95]

That's when you know you have a sanctuary...When you leave home for a while, come back and your home looks so beautiful to you. You missed your sanctuary and are so glad to be HOME... Beautiful video 💗 I went on a short trip one time, came back and a huge bed of gladiolus had bloomed out. Oh My, it was so beautiful when I came up the driveway!!! Such relief to be home....

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Such a great way to express it absolutely true❤️

[@l.5832]

Many people don't understand the importance of objects that hold sentimental value. They accuse you of being materialistic, or valuing objects more than people. They don't understand the memories attached and how those objects are symbols that allow you to relive those memories in a tangible way. I also downsized but was very glad that I still had room for the treasured items in my life. I like your video!

[@lifewithsandrahart]

I feel the same way. Certain objects really have strong memories attached to them.❤️

[@poodlegirl55]

We retired and downsized and I tried to decorate the house in an uncluttered style. I took one of the bedrooms for my crafts including quilting, crochet, painting, miniature making...the list is long. I filled it with furniture and art I loved but had no place in the house, stacks of quilts and anything I love. Then I filled all the shelves with my trinkets and collectibles., anything goes in this room. It is very neat and tidy, but full. In 2020 I was diagnosed with cancer and ended up having 5 surgeries in a span of 14 months, all during these Covid lock downs. I can say with all honesty that having that room saved my sanity and life. I love your channel, I have been binging your videos. Thank you for your messages.

[@lifewithsandrahart]

I’m sorry you had to go through so much health wise, but I’m hoping that you are fine now. We have to have our creative interests around us. It is part of our being. No matter what type of creativity we love, it saves us. Thank you for sharing

[@goldie51944]

Another morning video I just enjoyed Oh my Sandra I could sit for hours and watch and listen to your videos. You have such a way of making them wonderful. Making a home a cozy sanctuary is so important. Your mother’s cosmetic train case brought tears to my eyes making me think of treasures of my mother that I have I love candles I have special books I display in different areas love floral arrangements real and dried arrangements. Fresh flowers in a home always bring happiness to me Sandra you and I are so alike it’s amazing. Oh my goodness right down to our love of Chanel perfume Looking forward to next Tuesday’s video Sending love and happiness your way xo 💖

[@guenetgirma8941]

The introductory quote is touching. Organizing, toxin free and refreshing home, plants, aromas, meaningful things (not clutter). Not only beautifully said but is inspirational and practical that changes lives. Hope I will embrace and work towards all the points that I jotted down from your saying to live a happy and meaning full life hereafter. By the Grace of God I will change to shine light in my life. Since my husband passed away and my retirement truly speaking I had no direction. But your video is now giving me direction and hope. Thank you Sandra. Abundant blessing.

[@lifewithsandrahart]

I know it’s been hard with your retirement and then the passing of your husband, but you can have your home your sanctuary with memories that are special to you. When you open the door and come into your home you know it’s a place that you love and you feel warm and welcome❤️

[@guenetgirma8941]

@@lifewithsandrahart Thank you Sandra for your prompt encouraging words. It wasn’t easy for me so far. With due respect your words has penetrated into my soul and I believe I will gradually change and you will hear that change in due time.

[@carlamarcelino6393]

I live in a small cottage!!! My space as yours is organized, I love candles, plants, pictures and things of sentimental value!!! Cozy home, I relate to you and your stories!!!🌞

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Carla, thank you for sharing what you do in your small cottage. A cozy home is so important, isn’t it❤️

[@ursulamullikin4723]

Good morning Sandra, I needed to hear this because I am moving out of my big house from Fort Lauderdale to Jacksonville where my son lives, it's emotional because I have so much stuff accumulated and it's hard to let go, but you just helped me to sort out the things I'm going to take and the things I can let go, thanks and have a blessed day

[@lifewithsandrahart]

I had to face that when I came here. It really is hard and serious thought us to be put into those things that you want to surround yourself with in your new smaller space. Good luck with your move and how wonderful it will be that you’ll be near your son. Family is so important❤️

[@ursulamullikin4723]

@Fred Jensen hello to you too

[@MeTreesndirt]

Best wishes to u as u enter the new phase. I dread that . I' non adaptiven. Hope I get a brain aneurism before I needvto move from home

[@ursulamullikin4723]

@Fred Jensen yes I am, why are you asking?

[@ursulamullikin4723]

@Fred Jensen Germany

[@kupid88]

We must be sister's from another lifetime lol ... everything you have shown & speak about on this video is exactly how I choose to live, I'm not a hoarderer but a 'keeper' of what brings me joy, I surround myself with things that add fun, laughter, love, peace & comfort to the home (as do you) it's squirky chic & it gives me great pleasure when coming home, how correct you are when you say that your home should reflect you & your home comforts as we all have different tastes/styles but keeping in mind the simple functionality that your homes serves & that's comfort & cosy ... thank you again for "reminding" me to appreciate my space coz truth be told I can sometimes take my home for granted until something happens which 'wakes me up' to realise that I have bypassed my cosy comfortable sanctuary for fast-paced living, yip I know then I've gotta pause take a breather & inhale in my home & take in all the great senses, smells that I have created for reason THANK YOU for bringing me back💯🙏

[@SariShares]

Lyrics from my favorite song sung best by by Luther Van Dross in my opinion. Loved to hear the lyrics used this way! Your style is glorious ❤️

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Sari, I agree about Luther. Thanks so much for watching today❤️

[@kelleyireland3108]

You could not be more spot on. A home should be a sanctuary. Thank you so much for this video.

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Thank you Kelley.❤️

[@dulcehajjar5826]

Good Morning Sandra! Good morning Everyone 🙏

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Good morning. I hope you have a great day❤️

[@lorrainewhitlock5377]

I live in a retirement community in a small one-bedroom apartment with a balcony and this is my home. The things I have here bring memories my parents and family and friends and the nice things that I like and it makes me feel comfortable and safe. So I know what you're saying

[@lifewithsandrahart]

That is so important, isn’t it? Thank you for sharing❤️

[@sh.ab11]

Dear Sandra I learn English with you and also many other things about life, you have a wonderful personality, thank you very much 💕💕💕

[@christinebuckingham8369]

👍💖💐💖

[@ekaterinabalderdash1274]

I downsized from my house to my mom’s smaller home in the retirement community. She died two years ago. I just made the move two weeks ago. I gave away and donated so many things while I was packing. Today I gave away a 5x8 trailer full of furniture that I simply don’t have room for to a young couple I know. They were thrilled. I was even more thrilled to not have to ‘find a place’ to cram everything. I want to feel cozy and peaceful without feeling crowded. Once I am sure that furniture is placed where I will want it to remain, I will hang artwork etc. But I am sure that I will let more things go as that unfolds. Right now, I live alone. I am engaged but my fiancé and I have been separated by COVID border closure (US/Canada) since March 2020. My home is a perfect blend of my past and my present - but I must also leave space for my future to blend in with it.

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Thank you so much for sharing your downsizing story with us. I really hope the borders will open again so that you can be with your fiancé. We have the right ideas when downsizing. ❤️

[@ElleIsForLiving]

We are super organized and I hate clutter. I love the fresh air and we have our doors open all the time at our mountain home. You are right that lighting is so important. I hope you are having a fabulous week ♥ Elle

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Thank you, Elle, Until it starts getting hot here, our doors are always wide open. I love fresh air!! The heat is here, so we can’t do that anymore. Have a great week!❤️

[@TheVisionBlue]

I turned 60 about a week ago and just found your channel. You are so peaceful and inspiring. Thank you.

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Welcome And I’m just delighted you found me. I hope you will subscribe and join us on this pro aging journey❤️

[@firecrackerkeuch4183]

Dear Sandra, Thank you for your beauty inside and out. Thank you for your wisdom and most of all your kindness and honesty. A couple of weeks ago I was so sad and I am Not a sad person or a down person. I am the one that is always driving the bus for everyone else but, my good elderly neighbor passed away a little over a year ago and my mom passed away 7 months ago and my brother and my neighbor will be moving in the near future and my cats cancer came back and I just kind of lost it… only for a day but, I felt so very alone and here you popped up on Utube. I feel like you are talking to me. I know it sounds a little nuts but, I know you and your followers understand. Thank you for being my friend when I felt alone. I love listening to you, your stories and life experiences. I am not 60 yet but, I will be someday. Heart felt Thanks to you!!❤️❤️💋 FYI: My Firecracker is doing Great!!! She is doing 10 treatments of radiation. Today was day 6. I told myself if, she is having a good then I am having a good day! Like you said,”Acceptance!”❤️❤️❤️💋💋

[@lifewithsandrahart]

I am so happy that the fire cracker is doing well with the chemotherapy my prayers going your way. Thank you so much for your very warm and kind comments. I do hope that I can be of help, sharing my experiences, even if it’s just in a very small way. We all get down now and then. It’s only human. But the fact that we can get up again dust our emotions off and smile is important. Thank you so much for being here and sharing your beautiful contact with us❤️

[@patriciagrant6687]

I love being at home sometimes I want to be coming back, before I am gone😍 I have flowers, the other day I was at Walmart and I saw these yellow pillows, and they had inscribed on them " MY Happy Place" I have a porch, I like reading, I feel that my home is my sanctuary, and a sanctuary to others that may enter in. LOVE AND HUGS😍 ( I did buy the pillows)

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Patricia, I’m glad you bought those pillows!!! Our homes are our sanctuary. A place of comfort and calm.❤️

[@Fyrinspector]

When my Mother passed I kept 2 of her beautiful floral lipstick cases, a bottle of her perfume and a couple of other beauty items. I have them displayed on the vanity and they bring me joy. Beautiful video Sandra. 😎❤️💄Kathy 😷

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Sometimes even the smallest things can evoke memories that are so special for us. Thank you for sharing that Kathy❤️

[@planetissa4899]

I love my me space with my comfy chair, throw, candles, books,plants and rock light in the corner of my bedroom.It is so needed for my soul.

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Excellent!❤️

[@marshamarshall6840]

A quote from Anne Morrow Lindbergh... "Framed in Space One cannot collect all the beautiful shells on the beach. One can collect only a few, and they are more beautiful if they are few. Gradually one discards and keeps just the perfect specimen. One sets it apart by itself, ringed around by space ---- like the island. For it is only framed in space that beauty blooms. Only in space are events and objects and people unique and significant ---and therefore beautiful. Even small and casual things take on significance if they are washed in space, like a few autumn grasses in one corner of an oriental painting, the rest of the page bare."

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Beautiful. Thank you❤️

[@cremebrulee4759]

For sentimental items that will not fit into your space, take pictures of them. Then you can keep the memory even if you can't keep the item. If you like, you can make a photo album of those items so that you can look through it and bring back sweet memories.

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Thank you for sharing those wonderful ideas. I think that is a great way to keep memories when you have no space for them. I did some of that when I left New Jersey. But it really is a great idea thank you again.❤️

[@roylenekornovich447]

I’ve also done that with some items. 😌

[@AndNowIWrite]

I did this with my former home. I revisit my old yard, garden, and rooms.

[@dloveofgod8269]

What a wonderful idea

[@jw6180]

What a wonderful idea. Thank you!

[@claudiascott6484]

Hi Sandra. I love your comfy looking home. Beautiful scenery and of course that is a beautiful song by Hal Davis and Burt Bacharach. I have to resume getting my apartment where I want it to be esthetically with a bit of throwing out/giving away and a few comfy addages. Live plants don't survive in my place so I have a few fake but pleasant colorful realistic looking ones on my kitchen and bathroom window sills. This was a very helpful and pleasant chat that made my day even better. Looking forward to the next chat. Take care Sandra 🎶 🎺 🎶 💝

[@lifewithsandrahart]

There are so many fake plants that look so real! ❤️

[@claudiascott6484]

Yes, there are Sandra.

[@Rita-bw3wh]

Hello Sandra, you are really a great artist and, above all, a wonderful person. You have created a beautiful home there. I can feel your love for people and for everything around you. Thanks for sharing tis video. xoxo

[@lifewithsandrahart]

I’m happy that you enjoyed it and spend time with me this morning❤️

[@shirleylangton7967]

I appreciate every video that you put out Sandra. They are so calming and so positive. I find music my best comfort. Before I even wake in the morning, I am singing, as my mother did. My love for the '30s and '40's music were because of her. Shirley

[@lifewithsandrahart]

I love that music, too! Of course my husband grew up in the big band era so he really enjoys it along with me. Thank you for spending time today with me❤️

[@sandrablake2362]

Love your videos 🥰. I lived in St Cloud Florida for 20 years after spending most of my younger years in San Diego Calif. I LOVED FLORIDA and it’s natural beauty and animal life so close at hand. After all The Name Florida means the FLOWERED ONE in Spanish 🌷🌸🥀! I encompassed everything you mentioned of coziness into my yard and inside my lovely home. Not in a cluttered manner but in a way that was pure therapy for me and my husband and any who entered. It was like a private paradise of calm and peace whims my closed front door and the gates that opened to my sanctuary 🌾🌟! Pure THERAPY FOR MY SOUL🙏🏼. Thank you for giving me the opportunity to reflect on those precious years in Florida 😘 I had to abruptly leave my home in Florida and return to San Diego where I have a lovely room in my daughter and Son in Laws home. It’s like a hotel suite I have revamped it to my desires and comfort levels as I had done in My Florida home😁! It’s my sanctuary and once again my THERAPEUTIC ENVIRONMENT👍🏻 I’m 75, soon to be 76 and I am no longer married. I do have my sweet dog Chance. He is my companion in all things and our calm private sanctuary is our longing👊🏻! I always have beautiful music playing softly to accompany my mood and contribute to the lovely environment. So many ways to sooth our souls🙏🏼 Thank you so much for this encouraging and thoughtful video💕. I

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Thank you for sharing

[@gailolmsted5749]

I can not express how dear you are to me. No matter if I'm having a zen day or a difficult one. Watching your channel always makes me feel happy. You are a guiding light that brings comfort to the world. Thankyou Gail

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Gail, and I have to tell you how much I really appreciate your being here and enjoying what I’m doing on my channel. Thank you for your support❤️

[@irenelim2140]

Hello sweet lovely Sandra, I’m 61 and relatively a newbie to your channel... I could find myself saying yes, yes and yes to your sharing. I just moved to a tiny 300sq ft unit and definitely bringing the outdoors in. Waiting to find time to try make my own candles. Sending love from south east Asia in my low light Patio ❤️❤️❤️

[@lifewithsandrahart]

So you know exactly what I’m talking about. It’s so nice to have living things in the house. How wonderful that you’re going to be trying to make your own candles. That’s a great idea. Much love to you in south east Asia❤️

[@patnewman9543]

Such a lovely sweet video, however, it made me a little sad. I moved to senior retirement community into a small condo two years ago ( am 79). I wish I could go back and go through my things again. I now miss so much of what I let go Things that I thought I didn’t need or had the room to store. I chose more of what I needed, would use, & fit in with decor. Donated so many books. My home is my cozy happy place & my sanctuary, but it is different living alone & getting motivated to even light a candle. But I do love & appreciate my home. Thank you.

[@lifewithsandrahart]

I also have regrets on a few things I wish I had not gotten rid of. Too many choices in too little time. I have to not look back. Nice that you have created a happy place for yourself. ❤️

[@michellediekman4873]

Your Message Was So Beautiful and Meaningful, Bless you and Those you Love 😙❤💐

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Thank you so much❤️

[@ellenh278]

I love what you said about dark houses in your past and when you had control of yourself and your life, your houses had light. Very profound. I feel the same but never heard it spoken. Beautiful video from start to finish. Thank you .

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Thank you spending time here Ellen❤️ i’m happy you like the video and my narration at the end of the video. It’s from the beginning of my memoir, Behind The Magic Mirror.❤️

[@juliegolub2602]

Your comments are so thought provoking and true. Thank you ❤️

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Julie, thank you so much. I really appreciate that. I try❤️

[@katatarot597]

Hello dear Sandra, I hope you're well. Thank you for this lovely video, I really appreciate hearing your voice again 🌹🌺🙏

[@gazels11]

I agree 100%. Our home should be our sanctuary. Love and blessings 🙌

[@lifewithsandrahart]

That is so true, isn’t it

[@maxineboxer9714]

Such great advice, you inspire me. I’m 76 and wore some nice, dangly, owl earrings today, because I see how nice you look. I intend to follow your lead! Love all your videos, you’re like a wise friend.

[@californiaglo9666]

I always loved my home, but having to work from home the last year has made me really appreciate and enjoy it. I have been buying crystals for many years. Recently I decided to place them at every window sill. When the sun hits them, they look so pretty. My yard is small but very cozy.. I call it my secret garden. I place ceramic birds all over. Have a blessed weekend Sandra. 🌻🌼🌸

[@lifewithsandrahart]

What a fantastic ideas to put crystals on your windowsill and let the sub make them come alive! Thank you so much for sharing that❤️

[@gutchiespencer2714]

YOU never fail to bring joy to my soul, Sandra! I’m not embarrassed to say that I cry sometimes listening to your truth as it so often reflects some of mine. I live in an apartment in NYC, I decluttered a lot of stuff recently. I have a huge rubber plant and a few others, I have crystals everywhere, I’m starting to make my own candles, and I love color. Oh! I have a painting of “Buddha” it says, “May every sunrise hold more promise, every sunset hold more Peace.” Sandra! Can you please update us on Arthur??? 💐💕

[@dulcehajjar5826]

I loved your comment! Some things reflects” on my life too😔 You said everything I want to say to Sandra...” God Bless you with all The happiness🙏🌹

[@gutchiespencer2714]

@@dulcehajjar5826 Aww! Thank you....🥰

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Gutchie, it sounds as though you are making your space a sanctuary that pleases you. Thank you so much for asking about Arthur. He still has dizzy spells and they can’t seem to find what’s causing them. Otherwise he seems to be doing fairly well for his age.❤️

[@tinabrickley8157]

I recently had to relocate and drastically downsize. The one thing I had to keep was my family photographs. They are so valuable to me. Some things I felt sentimental about but made the choice not to keep I took pictures of so I would still have their images at least and I gave to family or friends. But I did bring with me one small crystal lamp that was my mother's in her house before that she had given me, and everytime I have it turned on I feel warm inside and think of her with love

[@rahamadhuparna]

Ur words serve as a spa to me,I'm really grateful.

[@MaryEllenAfter60]

Loved the song "A House is not a Home." I enjoyed this so, so much, Sandra. When I moved into this home in 1991, I only brought with me the items I love. Thankfully I haven't added much. I relate to having items that bring joy, and wonderful memories. Many blessings, and love, my beautiful friend..MaryEllen

[@lifewithsandrahart]

MaryEllen, I had to leave so much Behind, but I think I’ve brought the things that mean the most to me. Because of my small space I can’t add anything even if I wanted to exclamation you’re a better person than I am. Always sending love your way my dear friend. Miss you❤️

[@larasoohon207]

This was simply beautiful thank you.

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Thank you so much❤️

[@streaming5332]

I agree about clean fresh air circulating throughout. There's nothing worse than entering someone's stuffy kitchen and the smell of dog circulating!

[@cathypreddie98]

What a beautiful peaceful video. Yes a home must be your sanctuary ❤️ I bought a picture for my wall today but I almost didn’t I thought it was not necessary or needed but I loved it so much I wanted it in my home. After watching your video I am happy I got it. It’s hanging in my bedroom and it brings me joy. Thank you 🙏🏼

[@makeupwithvalerienotrends7961]

Hi Sandra 🥰 your video is so relaxing I love 💕 it. I feel the same way, my home is my sanctuary where I surround myself with the things I ❤️. That’s including my babies my Yorkshire and silky terrier. Thank you for the video. 🥰

[@lifewithsandrahart]

It sounds as though you have surrounded yourself with a true Sanctuary and the Welcome and firemen. Hugs to your Yorkie and Silky! Both very sweet dogs.❤️

[@OlderWomenRock]

Hi Sandra Spending more time at home than many people . My home is my sanctuary. Today I wanted to stop at the local nursery to buy some potted flowers . I ran out of steam as I often do. Tomorrow I’ll try again , I’m missing the bright colour of fresh flowers 💐 xxx 💕

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Oh I hope you can get more potted flowers. My cut flowers are dead and I have to go get more this week. They just brighten up the living room so much❤️

[@lisaalexander2011]

What you said about a place for just one's self, somewhere we can be alone...THAT is what I've been trying to get across to my family for years...everyone has a place they can go except me...it's making me crazy!

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Please, it’s important that you find a space for yourself. Really! Your family has to understand❤️

[@lisaalexander2011]

@@lifewithsandrahart Thank you. They do understand, it's not that they don't want me to have it...it's more like, my girls can go to their separate rooms, my husband can go to his shop, I can go to...NO WHERE that's MY OWN, I can go to my room, but it's not just "my room"...I believe that makes sense. I'd LOVE to build a sacred space for me, but don't see that happening. The only place that I can have, somewhat, to myself is the yard, but that's always depended on the whether/bugs and sometimes it's just too darn noisy out. lol I have actually just gone and sat in my car in the garage and listened to music, it's not a nice little haven, but...it has kept me from biting 😄!

[@patrickbell9976]

Sandra, definitely one of your best videos. Treasured objects from one's past are absolutely crucial in creating a serene, joyful living environment. Thank you for your insights.

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Thank you❤️

[@janettehunt6831]

Sandra, I share your views on creating a sanctuary. My home and garden is somewhere where I can always find somewhere to sit,look around me and gather my thoughts. You are such a positive person and self love and being kind to yourself is something I’ve only learned this past few years. Thank you for your content, you are an amazing woman. 😘🇬🇧

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Janette, it took me a while, too, to appreciate the joy and importance of self-love.❤️

[@mariaalex3956]

Thank you for the wonderful video Sandra. What you say is true and this is the wisdom that comes with age. When i was young I didn't treasure the old things, i wanted everything new , but later in life when my parents were gone I need some material reminders of them, to make me feel safe and loved again. The old belongings have soul in them, life ❤

[@lifewithsandrahart]

I’m glad you enjoyed this video and thank you so much for sharing your thoughts with us about this conversation and topic.❤️

[@mariloufleenor5747]

Yes that's what I want too. My husband is my best friend now and forever. Yes thank u.

[@gladysperez8156]

Hi Mrs. Sandra, in listening to you, I’m finding myself, the ways I feel about me & how & the apartment I’m. I’m now extracting my inner’s thoughts and finding love within “me.” ( self-love). Right now, I’m crying, not of sadness but of gratitude for the opportunities that God placed in you to detailed all of what you say for me and others to listen, feel, and act. May the Lord always continues to bless you, and your families.🙏

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Gladys, Thank you so very much. Makes me happy to know that you really appreciate my conversations here. I send blessings your way❤️

[@ingridrobertshaw2283]

I am in this space now! Cozy an d safe. Just went through a hurricane. All good

[@AndNowIWrite]

Dear Sandra, I just found this video. I cried almost from the beginning. I do all of the things you mentioned and so agree! I left my home in the states almost two years ago to move abroad, not so much my choice as it was my recently retired husbands. Leaving family and my home was very traumatic. I put all the things I loved in a room a few months prior to moving and would visit the room every couple of days. Funny how some things become important to us. I brought a little ceramic bunny with me. I'm now a minimalist that buys a lot of plants and candles! I so appreciate your words. So happy I found your channel! Much love to you.

[@lifewithsandrahart]

I hope you are doing well in your new home. I understand how difficult it is to leave your family and familiar surroundings. You are smart to surround yourself with things you live. Thanks for sharing.❤️

[@kathyirvine6719]

Thank you my dear sweet Sandra I've been kinda down in the dumps but I will make my home a place where it makes me happy. Sending Lots Of Love To You And Your Husband.

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Sending love your way and we all should make our home a place that makes us happy❤️

[@teresatillery7501]

I love the way you have decorated your small home, Sandra! I really think I could downsize and be quite happy in a much smaller place, if it contained the things I treasure most!

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Thank you and I’m happy that you are here❤️

[@mskulagal]

Sandra! I have my mom’s train case! My parents did not have much so did not inherit anything of monetary value. My brother got our dad’s pocket watch and I got the train case and her glasses with the rhinestone wings on each side. They are very meaningful to me. Lovely video. Mandy from Tucson🌵

[@lifewithsandrahart]

What beautiful treasures from your family. I remember those wingtip glasses. How fashionable were they at one time! Thank you for sharing❤️

[@addie109]

Oh Sandra, thank you for another beautiful calming video. I’m home this week icing and elevating my knee. And I fractured my hip in March. The music and your calming voice helped ease my anxiety💓. My Golden Retriever left his place next to me on the couch and went and laid down in front of the TV to watch you 🥰. I noticed your Jesus Calling book. I’ve been trying to read that every day. So glad you and your husband had a wonderful visit with your son and family. What a beautiful baby.

[@lifewithsandrahart]

I’m so sorry you are also having problems with your knee. I hope your hip is healing well. I love golden retrievers. They are loyal, smart and beautiful! A big hug for him from me. Thanks for being here today and feel better soon. ❤️

[@addie109]

Thanks so much Sandra💓

[@cindyhernandez7240]

You said it right self loving. A small space in my chair. Just for me and to be kind. I wish my art eyes were organized to look like art and not chaos. Thank you for being such a calming and wise example.

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Cindy, don’t be so hard on yourself. Give yourself a little slack. You’ll get it all done.

[@noelleagape8684]

I absolutely love the old fashioned cosmetic cases, with the little mirror. I remember my Grandmother setting it on the kitchen table and applying her makeup. When I moved across the U.S. two years ago, I got rid of a lot of nice things. I only brought with me artwork, family pictures, computer and some of my antiques. Soft lighting and fairy lights add to sparkle and whimsy. I too love beautiful scents thru wax burners, incense, candles and wind chimes which are a must at my house and of course, a garden is very theraputic. Most of all, however, it in the making of friends with people who share your interests. As one here, who wrote in put it, it's in the connection with others that makes our lives rich, with family and friends. It's the gathering, the exchange of ideas, breaking bread with others and the shouldering of burden with each other that makes life sweet. Thank you for sharing all your beautiful thoughts!

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Noelle, Thank you for writing such a beautiful comment. I appreciate your sharing what you do in your home to make it cozy. It is true the most important things in our lives is human connection❤️

[@Lilymoon1971]

Love all your keepsakes, I have my grandmas traincase and I keep all the little things that are special to me. Excellent ideas, its so important to have sanctuary in your home 🏡 ❤

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Thank you so much. I’m glad you agree❤️

[@Ideli53]

Hello dear Sandra. Thank you so much for this great video.Thank you for sharing your wonderful tips that help me to look at myself with respect ,love, admiration and worthy of a sanctuary. Love you.❤️

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Thank you so very much❤️

[@larkhughes9740]

I can see your authentic soul. We are kindred spirits. Thank you for you.

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Thank you so much Lark❤️

[@DeborahCaldwell77]

One of my favorite friends has her spaces very carefully thought out, and she gave me a tour just last week. Even though I’ve been in her home on and off for 20 years, we never carefully went from corner to corner and room to room like that before, in her space. It is wonderful to share.My favorite new tip from you today was the book stacking

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Believe it or not book stacking can be artistic and doesn’t have to look like clutter. When we moved here I never thought about the lack of storage, so I have had to really be creative in order to keep things that I love around me.❤️

[@davidmadison5582]

I love this touching video ! It's so true. I've recently downsized to this tiny cottage that I love. I've had to let so much go. I'm still trying to get everything situated and it's a trial but I have things here that mean so much to me because I capture special moments in time with them. I am going to watch this video several times because it speaks to me. With "my stuff " and Jesus my home is a real home. Sending love your way! Gwenda

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Gwenda, I just want everyone to understand it’s not the size of the space, but what you do with it to make it your own. We all need a place that’s just for us that makes us happy. Best of luck to you❤️

[@SandySmilesProductions]

Dearest Sandra thank you for sharing your videos so much especially this one, it helps me, I miss my mummy and daddy so much. I find you a very safe place to go to and listen to, thank you with all my heart. It’s so heart warming 💜 much love xxx

[@lifewithsandrahart]

What a wonderful and warm comment. I’m sorry that you don’t have your parents with you anymore. I miss my mother every single day of my life still. Thank you so much for finding comfort in my channel❤️

[@jongreen163]

Thanks for your support and the help I will get

[@janetstraw191]

Dear Sandra, THIS was one of your very best! Thank you so very much.🥰

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Thank you Janet❤️

[@INSIDEBEAUTYwiththeoldgirl]

Hi Sandra, I love your intro, and that song! This is a beautiful video Sandra. My best sanctuary is outside where I am surrounded by creation, smells of flowers, all the greenery and nature. I am at peace outside. I am clear minded and can surround myself of beautiful memories throughout my life. Love and blessings, Sheila

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Shelia, I love being out in nature, too. I think that’s why we chose this place because it’s open and I can be outside on the balconies and enjoy nature just stepping over the threshold. Also being close to the ocean is important to the ‘sea inside of me’. Have a wonderful week❤️

[@virgierutledge3004]

I am 71 and really don't want anything to sit around. However, I wanted a Salt lamp for a few yrs. Finally, bought one, and I enjoy seeing it. Great thoughts in video.

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Aren’t the salt lamps nix! They are also good for the air inside our houses. ❤️

[@TLK526]

This was such a refreshing , helpful and enjoyable video. Thank you.

[@lindahayes2868]

I love you video today very inspirational

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Thank you so much Linda❤️

[@eleanorpolchinski7919]

Sandra , wow ! Thank you for loving yourself and sharing your thoughts and feelings. I was tearful as I listened . ❌⭕️❌⭕️

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Thank you Eleanor❤️

[@sasas7509]

Thank you Sandra for sharing your loveliness, your knowledge and your time for us. You are a very very special person.💓

[@lifewithsandrahart]

I appreciate that. Thank you very much❤️

[@roylenekornovich447]

Lovely video. So relaxing and calming. I paused it, got up and lit every candle, low light, incense, and oil lamp in the house. ☺️

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Very good ❤️

[@deltablue4369]

Sandra, you always hit my spiritual spot! Thank you.

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Thank you. That makes me happy.❤️

[@ritaduplessis9956]

Hi Sandra, I'm coming across quite a few of your chats that I never watched as it was before I registered & had my bell on , that I'm really enjoying so much to watch now. Thank you for uplifting me , just love listening to all your great chats. Much love sent to you ❤️

[@tinabrickley8157]

Sandra, you are such a great story teller and I love hearing your voice.

[@patricebest545]

I have ocd order my life so love minimalism Yet to get the homey feel with it so you have helped so much Regards from Australia

[@abigailhortencia5901]

Thanks lovely lady❤️

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Thank you so much❤️

[@PeachesSkinCare]

Sandra🧡 You are so beautiful 🙌🏻 My space is so important to me, it’s my sanctuary and a place I want people to come to and feel welcome and loved and safe. This was so lovely. Thank You 🙌🏻🍑🧡Lisa

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Thank you, Lisa❤️

[@heliamartins3378]

Yes, our homes are our own sanctuary I have the same feeling and loving it .

[@sylviathomas7331]

Greetings From Maryland Sandra , thank you for inspiring me to make my space cozy and comfortable.I incorporated your helpful techniques and I love coming home to my santuary!

[@lifewithsandrahart]

I went to college there!! Thank you❤️

[@CatchMeIfYouCan55]

Thank you 🌼😄🕊️

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Thank you❤️

[@christined2495]

Sandra, my Dad loved that song You quoted, he even bought me the CD... he is gone a year now, so hearing the words just touched me.... beautiful video as always,and I couldn’t agree more in what you said 🦋

[@lifewithsandrahart]

That is such a beautiful song, isn’t it. And so true. I’m glad it brought back memories for you❤️

[@christined2495]

@@lifewithsandrahart it is so true, my dad would sing this song to my Mom, and when she passed two years before him, I thought of him many times looking at her chair.... I know they are together again.. Your videos, always touch my heart ❤️

[@ginamarie8231]

Greetings from NY! I agree with all of your strategies to create a sanctuary. Thank you for this great content and reminders to make life wonderful! Have a great week. 🌹

[@lifewithsandrahart]

You too, Gina❤️

[@janetatkins3210]

Beautiful video Sandra ,it gave me some ideas l love the cat that your neighbour gave to you and your mothers Vanity case ,what lovely memories xx

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Janet, thank you. Small things, but meaningful to me❤️

[@ninaeaston3083]

What a soothing, calming, relaxing beautiful video. Sandra, my friend, YOU are incredible & bring light to anyone's life that listens to you. Thank you! ❤🦋

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Thank you so very much Nina❤️

[@carolcaruso6641]

What a lovely video. We downsized 4 years ago and I have had more joy decorating this place than any other. Mementos and new things. My goal was always that my house say "me" and that it is!

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Thank you and it is not only a challenge but also rewarding to be able to create sanctuary no matter what the size of the space❤️

[@mareeschollum2986]

Sandra, how refreshing it is to hear your wise words. It is so important to have a place of quiet and sanctuary in these times. Somewhere where we can experience a space that is ours created by our hands, created with what feeds our soul. Opening the windows and allowing the air to move about in the home not only refreshes but clears away any ‘ stuckness ‘. Candles seem to illuminate an area and I love the smell. I often enjoy having a lit candle or two during the day when I’m home. Thankyou for reading the lyrics of that lovely song. The words are so true. Blessings to you. PS could we see Sophie please? 💕

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Thank you for enjoying this video. I too love candles. I’ll have to bring Sophie in on my next video. She does feel left out😊❤️

[@catmama54]

Your home is so lovely. I have to keep my house on the dark side as the Fl sun is bad for my lupus. I love your place, very welcoming feeling. Thats one of my favorite songs you quoted. xoCathy

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Cathy, I understand. On hot days I do draw the drapes in certain rooms until the sun gets higher and less strong because of the heat. ❤️

[@HarpistJoanna]

Thank you for sharing! You are such a pretty and elegant lady, so well-spoken.

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Thank you Joanna❤️

[@gionagrace6279]

Hi Sandra...WOW! Thanks for such a beautiful video. That is so very true. It is the little things...that create such ZEN moments. I always use a diffuser in my living room with an essential oil that suits my mood that day and always burn candles while taking a bubble bath. Every few weeks I will buy beautiful greens and baby breath and gorgeous fresh flowers and there is something about that in the home. It simply brings so much beauty and life indoors. Thanks again beautiful soul for brightening our day.

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Thank you❤️