We Have MAJOR LIFE UPDATES!!! Where Has Jay Been? And What's Going On With Our Baby??? (THE TRUTH)

Today we are going to be giving y'all some major life updates. A lot has been going on behind the scenes that we feel like we need to address and clear up. It's been a very busy last couple of months. Thank you all for your continued love and support! We couldn't do any of this without you and we appreciate each and every one of you! Thanks for watching and we will see you on the next adventure!
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Mailing address:
Cole&Jay
P.O Box 2194
Conway, AR 72033

[@beverlymeetze8312]

You may have already heard this...but as a maternity nurse and a mom of 4...all 4 via C-section, fair warning, take a small but firm pillow with you and use it to support your stomach after the C-section. Support your tummy if you move, laugh, cough, and on the ride home from the hospital. Cole, try not to hit any bumps on the way home

[@rickcole2301]

I had a small pillow when I had surgery. They cut me a whole stomach open and they didn't tell me the first time. The second time they told me and it makes a whole lot of difference especially when I got home. I got sick a few times and it supported my stomach and it was nearly as bad as it was without it. That's all I got to say about that. You have any way you have to blondie Long as you and the baby come out safe. That's the only thing that counts Y'all have a good evening

[@marceitamartin8279]

Agreed, mother of 4 with one section.

[@TheodoreSchnell]

Jessica and Cole, I am glad you are doing what you need to do to keep both Jessica and your precious bundle safe and sound. Praying God's very best for all of you and am rejoicing with you bout the new addition to your family! Take your time, and Cole, ignore the "bullies"!

[@glennhutchinson9049]

Please take good care of Jay and the little one, she adds so much to your channel! She has a way of magnifying the thrill of the catch and making it feel as if we were there sharing in the moment! She has another talent, she draws her audience with most of her cloths on and I appreciate that! Thanks for keeping it clean and also for keeping it fun, praying for a healthy baby and a safe delivery!

[@marilynnfreeman7308]

Sorry to hear your having some problems but I know the Lord will get her here safe and sound. Our daughter did great with her c-section no problems. You will do great. Love and prayers to you all. ❤🙏

[@teena4194]

Wow!!! Oh co gradulations no I saw her face clear

[@johnathonsandler9507]

Glad your ok

[@jeffcartright2148]

Prayers for you guys. Her health is the most important thing

[@mikesumner2020]

It will be good to have Jay back on your channel, hopefully sooner than later. She adds that extra light and spark when the two of you fish together.

[@larrysutton6530]

Thank you for the update and Jay you do whatever it takes for both you and the baby to come through this healthy. It is more important that you are both healthy than it is to see you out there fishing.

[@richardjones7788]

Yes absolutely

[@importdevistator]

Awesome video guys and Happy Birthday to all y'all 🥳🎊!!

[@martydunn298]

Saying a prayer for y'all right now!!!!

[@kellystenson7800]

First off...Happy Birthday to all 3 of you!! Cypress is beyond cute!! Love his hair cut. Many thanks for doing this video - certainly was great seeing Jay and hearing that despite the hurdles, she is doing well. Still has her beautiful smile. Those pics of baby girl are priceless! Can hardly wait to see her and I am sure y'all feel the same. Keep taking it easy as the docs have told you. Praying for a smooth 3 weeks and delivery. God Bless

[@michaelclinard4969]

I appreciate the update guys I was worried about Jay myself but I'm glad you got it all figured out congrats I'll be praying y'all are also youngins wow

[@bettytrotman2124]

Cy's hair is so cute 😍

[@alanjones4597]

It's amazing the picture you get now when we were having kids you were lucky to make anything out Jay take care of yourself and wish you both the best

[@bryant8635]

Prayers for all 4 of you during this time. I am so glad all is OK and she is only a week early.

[@markholmes1346]

Glad your doing ok Jay, amazing the quality of the ultra sound, she’s adorable, locks at those cheeks end lips, aww 🥰! Glad y’all did a update! Congratulations y’all, 3 weeks?? Woo hoo! You’ll never be ready 😂 Keep is updated! ✌🏼❤️🙏🏼

[@MsKindaSorta]

She’s having it but Cole, it is a “We” situation. ❤

[@W0RLDBR8KER]

Will keep Jay and the baby in prayer, as well as ole and Cypress.

[@bettytrotman2124]

Beautiful sweet baby girl. Praying 🙏 for mom and baby girl 👶.

[@que-stead-que1717]

Prayers for a safe delivery. I have a couple of name guesses based on one theme. BUTTERFLIES🥰. My guesses are 1. Butterfly. 2. Monarch. 3. Swallow (after the black swallowtail).

[@glennhutchinson9049]

I would add Magnolia in honor of a beautiful flower!

[@kennethowens1956]

God bless both of you I’m praying for the best with your baby!we need another fisherman and your going to need a bigger boat maybe a pontoon with a playground in the middle

[@earlshaner4441]

Congratulations everyone

[@williamgahman5028]

Hi Cole and Jay. Jay glad you are doing well. Can't wait to see the beautiful girl. Take care. God bless and love yall ❤❤

[@davidbangtson3109]

It is just so amazing that you guys literally share your lives with us and you do it so well! I feel like I'm part of your environment and it warms my heart that you let us in.

[@gloriakelley7383]

The hair cut is perfection! You will do great after the c section . Labor and delivery nurse for many years and it’s usually a piece of cake. The small pillow is a good idea. Thanks for sharing your life with us.

[@shahnapaul2005]

The hair dresser was amazing!! His hair looks great! And he still has flow!

[@louisaziz1235]

What a beautiful family. And the hibiscus flowers are almost as beautiful as Jay. The pictures of the "Slab Princess" are beautiful, too. Happy Birthday and Many Blessings.

[@williamperreira6107]

You guys are so awesome! Cypress looks great with his new flow. Daddy needs to get his locks back. Can't wait to meet Baby Girl Harken. Love you guys!

[@reneejackson1144]

Hello glad you all are doing fine and Happy Belated Birthday to you all

[@earlshaner4441]

Good afternoon from Syracuse NY everyone

[@dianaorcutt2442]

She is precious ❤ My last pregnancy was the same. When they say rest please take it seriously. I ended up spending the last weeks of my pg in the hospital no fun. But it turned out good and now my son will be turning 19 next month. Praying everything turns out perfect for you Jay. God bless

[@mattshanks2604]

Awe love you Jay❤🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@colleen8089]

Cypress is the Cutest! Happy belated birthday to you all! 🎉🥮

[@rl2109]

God blessed y'all with a beautiful little girl...! She is a flower and Cypress will be a tree of a big brother to her! God bless ALL of us! WWG1WGA

[@timschroeder3784]

thanks for the update. So happy for you guys!!!! You guys are awesome...Take care

[@deloriswhite1309]

Awww, so precious. Thanks for sharing. I pray all goes well for you Jay.

[@elviraobregon5225]

Adorable, she looks like Cy. Wishing you a speedy recovery from your c-section. You both will do great.

[@jimellison3358]

Thank you for the update my wife and I I've been hoping you were OK.

[@sclewell777]

Jessica we now know how to pray for you. I'll remember you in prayer. Your family is very special. You and Cole are great parents. Cypress is gonna break some hearts. We love ya'll. Hang in their. Blessings to all 4 of you.❤ 🙏🙏🙏

[@edwardh1591]

Hope everything goes ok with your pregnancy. Take it easy.

[@erin-sl3up]

Congrats on your soon to be little baby girl! Plus happy birthday to y'all

[@prestonrussell605]

I think she is going to be so cute! Hopefully everything goes as planned. Jay take care and we’ll see you back fishing in the videos real soon.

[@brandonhiggins7319]

She’s a beautiful baby very happy for y’all

[@richardjones7788]

I look forward to y'all's videos. His haircut is perfect. Praying for you Jay and Shelly????

[@papat9610]

Love y'all. I'm praying for you two.

[@stevedoty5841]

I’m so so glad your little one is going to get a haircut. Needed. 🙏🏻🙏🏻’s for Jay and your new little one.

[@patrickwells1472]

Awe, that pretty baby. So sweet ❤️

[@johnbubbajohnson5630]

Baby C is just as adorable today as the first time we got to see him. My prayers are with you both. God bless you both and your whole family...🙏❤🙏❤🙏😊🙂😀

[@williamkilby3364]

Thank you for sharing your beautiful family.

[@jennygabbard6421]

I am guessing a 10# baby! It is so net to see the images. THANK YOU! Her eyes were wide open as if saying, "What are you doing pushing on my mommy's tummy? It's just so cool!

[@orgeebaharvin6284]

We ALL love Cole and Jay, be safe Slab Queen and thank you two for everything🎣

[@jenmcpena5857]

Cole… your hair looks amazing. Cys hair looks amazing . Jay’s hair looks amazing. We love y’all ❤

[@jennypepster1462]

Everything to keep y'all safe, especially Baby #2. Prayers for you guys....

[@Ralphcanoeingadventures]

❤🎉 I am so happy for you sharing your life with us. I feel so close to your family. A BIG THANK YOU 😊

[@williambenner701]

The new Altra sound technology is just amazing! I used to work in Nuclear Medicine back in the 70's and they were very veg pictures then

[@sanster7700]

Mercy. I never thought you should be fishing, but I just wished you would be feeling better. Prayers for a wonderful, sweet baby girl.👶❤ I agree with the pillow suggestion after the C section. ❤❤❤❤

[@davidcleveland9815]

So happy for you two

[@kelvinhill9651]

Prayers for a beautiful healthy baby girl !! My guess for her name is Lilly. Be Blessed !!

[@priscillachristenson3768]

Thanks so much for the update, been praying for you Jay and your sweet baby girl! Can’t wait to meet her. Cy is so adorable, especially with his green tractor! 😊🙏🙏

[@pastorlivingwaterfellowshi5116]

Healthy baby. Healthy mama. Everything else is gravy. Praying for y'all!

[@01awesomeGod]

That was an awesummm video!! So much! So fun!! SO glad everything is okay… 🙏🏽💕🙏🏽 Cy is growing SO fast! He’s fun to watch! Waiting for y’all to get thru this and hopefully more family content can be show once again! Thankful for y’all, and the things you share…. Love the haircut Cy got! LooKs great…better than before! Thanks again for sharing your family….I enjoy good yt channels like yours! 🙏🏽🙏🏽♥️💕🥰♥️🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@lorettaduncan3694]

It’s great to see you Jay sending love light your way many blessings to you all

[@Hebrews13verse2]

Awww! First, praying for our girl Jay and the new baby! Cy’s haircut Rocks. All bidness up front, all party out back. Cole, Jay, Cy, and new baby sis. Thank you for bringing light into all our lives that watch you!

[@mikewilhelm6951]

Wonderful update video! Thanks for sharing with us. When the ultra sound portion played, my mouth dropped and stayed open gaping at the amazing image. She is beautiful! I remember when my daughter and granddaughter were born; it was so exciting. Now, my granddaughter is expecting later this year. Wow! I'll be a great grandpa! Anyway, I love watching you guys and wish you the best. My baby girl name guess is Meadow Brook Harkin. In fact, I came up with that when you announced the pregnancy but restrained myself from suggesting it. She's your baby and you deserve to come up with the name.

[@pamelapelech3249]

She is precious. Prayers that all goes well for you both and Cypress.

[@Jonigmickna]

We all can’t wait to meet her!

[@edneymoody7164]

Hey Cole and Jay all our love from North Carolina we are Praying for you and the baby you be back fishing soon my prayer go to you and Cole and family, stay well ❤

[@alienschmaliens]

GOod to have an update! Thanks for sharing. 👍

[@cathleengrundhauser6385]

Congratulations to you all on your new upcoming baby girl. I am sending you something from your registry and something extra for Cy to get a surprise too. By the way, I love Cy's new haircut and love the clips of him driving his new tractor. So adorable! He is growing up so fast. Congrats and praying everything goes well for the delivery. ❤

[@stancebingham2209]

Thanks for the update! It's apparent you're all doing the best you can. I wish you the best. You good people.

[@wallacev2267]

Glad to hear the update on Jay and baby, you guys are great parents and I know baby girl will be given all the love she deserves. Keep us updated on everything and God bless your family, your friend in Christ, Wallace.

[@virginias.9529]

OhMyGosh!! Cypress is a big boy now and still as cute as ever!! Oh, the baby girl looks so pretty. I bet she will be named after a Flower, so I'm guessing something like Jasmine or Dahlia or heck maybe even another tree like Willow!!

[@Philc231]

Beautiful flowers . How about a garden tour JJ ?

[@melvinganoe1175]

Time flys. So happy everything is ok. Sending prayers that everything continues to go well.

[@garyb4929]

Prayers for yours & baby's health. Thanks & appreciate the update. You'll have little ones catching Slabs, before you know it 😊

[@kathimeadows7869]

Appreciate the life updates. Glad you and the baby are good. I was high risk so I get it. Can’t wait to see your daughter!

[@jagslayerboy9647]

Cant wait for the beautiful Sissy, She does favor Cy, Happy Birthday sweet boy! Praying for Jay a safe and blessed delivery 🙏

[@comiketiger]

This i have said before. There are people who genuinely care and are concerned about Jay. I hope most are. But you should not and cannot let the bullys and mini hitlers, dictate what you and/or Jay need to be doing. Who in their right mind think they can say what is best for you!! Tell these people to go pound sand! Block them even. You dont need them complicating your day or making you feel bad! Its not a " man versus woman" issues. This is YOUR family YOUR marriage and your children. You both are a treasure and beautiful sweet people. God bless you.

[@EricJackhammerMorris]

❤ it! Video of the year right there. Congrats, Happy Birthday all that stuff. He's getting so big and so is Jay.. wow! She's going to be such a cute baby. Great stuff ya'll I'll see ya on the 6th at my favorite lake I hope.

[@henrettadaniel7393]

Great update and please take care of baby jaycole 🤣🤣🤣 CY is cute as ever full of energy HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ALL

[@lewisjohnson2732]

Awwwwww he’s a doll baby !!! 🎊 Happy Birthday little buddy

[@davidsears5576]

So happy for you guys, can't wait to see her,thanks for the update

[@MrWhitetails4ever]

Glad to hear Jays ok. Always enjoy all the videos. Look forward to them daily. By the way…looks like another beautiful baby! Cypress will be a great big brother!! 3:52

[@jamesmcooper104]

I'm glad you all are doing good

[@doloressmith6342]

Happy birthday to you all! Prayers for a safe delivery and a healthy baby girl.

[@justobserving170]

All 4 of you are in my prayers. I pray that Jay and the baby are fine. When working as a nurse, I worked delivery for a bit, and I know this is scary. Imagine going from nursing to law enforcement, that is an unusual one isn't it. May God bless you and keep you all.

[@darrelbaillie7829]

Congratulations 🎉 on your baby daughter. Take care of yourself and Cole. Wish you well with the op.

[@louisecampbell2827]

Can't wait to meet this little nugget. Good luck and really hope everything will go well!❤

[@Jonigmickna]

A C-Section is really amazing! You will recover quickly! The baby - she will be great!

[@ede8193]

Great video you guys! glad everyone is doing good!

[@74bananaman]

Y’all are a beautiful family. We want you happy and healthy and fishin so relax and enjoy peaceful happy days. I love y’al, y’all are amazing!

[@lizcosten724]

Now you need an unboxing ;) I'm guessing baby girl will be named after flowers & butterflies ❤. Again, thank you for sharing your beautiful family with us!!

[@kennethevans138]

I don't mind Jay not going fishing right now but I would like a smiling cameo from her on the end of the videos so we can see she is doing well.

[@viccimauldin9786]

Jay take care of yourself. Praying for a smooth easy birth. ❤

[@wellness50]

In our prayers. God bless you both and the babies.

[@alvindebraux3566]

Thank you. ❤ Be safe

[@wonderchild53]

Wonderful, wonderful, wonderful...GOD bless you all...!!!!

[@brendahogue5487]

May the Lord bless and protect you and your family and the pregnancy

[@Cybercox1]

Love the channel, You both make an awesome duo. Best of health and smooth sailing on the delivery! Cypress is so cute we know the new arrival is bound to be cute also! Happy belated Birthdays🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@victoralbert1451]

So glad you all are ok. You’ve got some strong ladies Cole!