Wedding planning as a mixed couple

[@uyenninh]

I’m making tofu on the video, with soy beans, the white powder is Glucose, you can find it easily online!

[@LegoCookieDoggie]

Tell your partner Teddiursa to think of all the bugs in Vietnam he will get to see

[@mongoose9851]

Can the tofu be made with other beans?

[@annakret910]

so soy beanse and glucose? And that's it? I find only recipies with nigari (no clue what that is) and tofu mold. Ca you really do it without all that special stuff?

[@lijohnyoutube101]

I have never seen anyone make tofu before. It’s so cheap and prevalent in the grocery stores. I would love to learn more about the how’s and whys of decision to make etc.

[@windyhawthorn7387]

What about making it an destination wedding for both sides of the family. And only close members of the family invited. Pick an place that both sides can travel to easily. Whatever you choose will cost money. My father got married in the 80s in his hometown. Only the relatives that had to travel a long ways showed up. Which when you think about it is really funny. So it ended up an small affair and my dad put a lot of effort to make everything nice for his guests.

[@purplejellytotPJT]

Do the legal part of it in Germany, then have a party to celebrate in Vietnam

[@caitroseco6752]

This is what my South African husband and I did

[@sxynomi]

Yes. Exactly. This is what I want to do if I marry the dream guy.❤

[@vomm]

That would be unfair because her Husband is German and loves his family

[@folkertdejong6974]

Yes! It is a hassle beyond believe to get a marriage outside the EU recognized in the EU. You end up bribing people. (Yep, I know what I’m talking about)

[@cascharles3838]

​@@vomm they could have his family at the smaller ceremony in Germany, and if any of them wanted to come to Vietnam they could

[@Aiden-V2.0]

not casually making tofu in the background like it's no big deal! that's amazing!

[@CreativelyPhoenix]

Exactly! I had to watch multiple times because I was so blown away by the tofu making I didn’t catch everything in the story 🤦🏽‍♀️ 😅

[@SamanthaNase0514]

Me thinking she's doing a cream Cheese 😅

[@lia-sn6co]

The homemade tofu & soy milk taste different.seriously..once you taste the thick taste of homemade ,you can never go back to store premade😅

[@lindsaytoussaint]

But as you can see it really is no big deal! Simple process!

[@TrishDigginsDesign]

Have one in each place.

[@086Laura]

Congrats! I’m an American who married an Indian and faced similar situation. We ended up doing two weddings, one smallish low key one in the US and a bigger one later in India. That way we got to enjoy the best features of both.

[@TheTacticalHaggis]

HAHAHAHA. Imagine spoiling your bloodline with brown BOBS AND VAGNE

[@8114梦见]

My fiancé is Lebanese, so we are just going to get a courthouse civil marriage and do a celebration sometime in a couple of years or so.

[@NighTMare.001]

lmao all I can think about is a video of a stand-up comedian who made fun of how you never want your lover(husband/bf) to be an Indian because of how funny their English accent sound. But you do you.

[@8114梦见]

@@NighTMare.001 It doesn’t really sound funny if it is an accent you are accustomed too. Several of lab mates in grad school were Indian, and their speaking accent just sounds normal to me.

[@nobyra]

"I'm getting married" is all I could hear 😂 ahhh I'm happy for you both! ❤

[@juleswifey6003]

did I miss the proposal 😮

[@miranda13c]

@@juleswifey6003They’ve been engaged for years lol she first told the story about it on a full video she posted on this channel back in December of 2022 and even in that video she said the proposal happened a while ago. I would post the link but KZbin shorts don’t allow links to be clickable.

[@jaimierae525]

@@juleswifey6003they have been engaged for a while.

[@Cutiepatotie628]

​@@juleswifey6003 It's been ages since they've been engaged 😁

[@snr0n]

@@juleswifey6003 yeah, I guess you did! It was a long time ago - the video she made announcing it was in 2022, and the actual proposal was a long time before that

[@octavia0220]

Two weddings! I got married in the Netherlands and had a second wedding party in Italy. Twice the emotion, twice the happy memories. Highly recommend ❤

[@vomm]

yeah she acts af is she is not a millionaire but a poor student who can't barely afford one wedding lol .. no one believes that at this point

[@cascharles3838]

​@@vommhello again. She never claimed she was poor? Anyone can talk about finances

[@cheriyuna]

@@vommshe isn’t a millionaire? genuinely are you okay? and weddings are extremely expensive, doesn’t matter how “rich” you are

[@B1ackWo1f13]

@@vomm Except she's not a millionaire. People on social media apps don't get paid that much.

[@jelliesinbellies]

Thats expensive

[@miniruby88]

Do the wedding in Germany but have a party in Vietnam with relatives and friends there

[@ellengrace4609]

Agreed! I am happy to attend both! 🥰

[@Lonley_Location]

Honestly that sounds like the best way, since I doubt it's viable to the German ppl to a full on wedding in Germany *and* travel to Vietnam

[@baewuxian]

What about her family?

[@lijohnyoutube101]

Yep this one!

[@Lonley_Location]

@@Shubhangi_dwivedee those are in Vietnam, were the celebration would be. I (and op) meant like, all the legal stuff would be in Germany, but then the actual celebration/party with family and friends is in Vietnam

[@namelessrando]

Ive never been this happy for two strangers on the internet- congrats yall!!!

[@rebekahcrispin7764]

I love your casually talking about your wedding while making freaking tofu 😂

[@chromeo3945]

You realize that she takes the video and then does the voiceover while editing, right? Or do you actually think she’s talking while working in the kitchen…?

[@Kat_Day]

Both!!!!

[@emdove]

​@@chromeo3945 I think they meant that the video is playing like it's no big deal that she can make tofu herself. While the audio is talking about something completely different. I'm German and I was hella impressed when I realised what she was doing, and that it's not even the focus of the video 😳

[@BenEyles-v1t]

No way she put in so much effort into that just to make tofu lol

[@PhaythGaming]

To be fair tofu is incredibly easy to make with the tools she has. Not in a negative way or anything, it’s just if you’ve made a homemade Mac and cheese with a roux in the oven or made fried chicken the level of complexity is on par. It’s right above making the basics of meat and side dish, but still nowhere as hard as a French omelette or something that requires technical skill. This is just a recipe anyone can follow, no skills needed, is my point.

[@chicken]

Two weddings sound perfect for you both, double the celebration and memories! So happy for you two!

[@maahimehta936]

Wow you again

[@toonasag]

Chicken is at it again

[@tabytrujillo8314]

Who's got money for two weddings

[@redeye1016]

That’s a really dumb comment without any thought for their finances - she literally mentioned this was a big part of their thinking

[@kuwaiiisagamer8596]

It’s you *AGAIN*

[@CoolTaxiDriver]

Two weddings!!! A small one in Germany, then the family wedding for all of your family! It will be a blessing for all 💕

[@teacuup]

Not for their wallets though

[@that_dam_baka]

Did you hear the comparisons to the options with the same budget? They're getting married in Vietnam. There's also the issue of getting the Visa vs travel being expensive, which is true both ways. Vietnam is the better option.

[@DJ-el3ry]

It will be cheaper in Vietnam i think

[@uwerichter]

500€ in Germany for Standesamt and a small eat at the Restaurant with BF Family and friends should enough. The Party and maybe a second Ceremony (Buddhism, Taoism, Confucianism) in Vietnam.

[@bri5155]

@@that_dam_bakait’s a far more complicated choice than you seem to realize. Yes, it will be cheaper in Vietnam, but if they do choose to get married there there’s a good possibility that her fiancés family and friends won’t be able to attend if they can’t afford to travel. Whatever choice they make they’ll be sacrificing something. It’s a difficult choice.

[@silviabertozzi7996]

As others suggested, organize a ceremony with GB's family and close relatives in Germany with the benefit that the marriage is registered legally there. Then go to celebrate the marriage in Vietnam, and if German parents want to join, all the merrier.

[@Everynameistakenwhy]

2 weddings in both traditional ways. That's the beauty in intercultural weddings. All the best guys!

[@jnny511]

Expensive

[@honinakecheta601]

@@jnny511 family and friends can ptich in to mitigate funds, at least in Vietnam it'd be very cheap

[@steveth1000]

Not expensive, it's cheap in Vietnam and they can make it a vacation. Small wedding in Germany.

[@propogandalf]

​@@steveth1000Did you guys listen? With the budget it's big beach wedding in Vietnam OR small restaurant party in Germany.

[@firebenderkitty313]

@@propogandalf She doesn't have to have a large party in Germany. She can have a small get-together (maybe at home) with just close family/friends and cut down the budget for the Vietnamese wedding slightly. Then have a big wedding in Vietnam. It's not either/or. Yes, Germany is expensive but it can be done.

[@itschoisan1720]

The casual dropping that you’re getting married is insane but OMG CONGRATULATIONS

[@nicoladoering5030]

She announced her engagement a while ago 😊

[@AsterFoz]

what's insane aboit getting married? many people marry.

[@Anthrows]

They've been engaged for like a year. 😂 she's talked about it a lot already.

[@bluebellcrushedvelvet]

Ermmm I'm not even a follower and I know she was engaged to that monstrosity, so why are you surprised that she is all of a sudden getting married??

[@paramountives]

@@bluebellcrushedvelvet what the heck is your problem with her fiancé dude

[@caitroseco6752]

I’m American and my husband is South African. We had the wedding in the US (and live-streamed it) and a second reception in South Africa with a candle ceremony. Highly recommend celebrating twice; it’s the best way for everyone to feel included 💕

[@ForsetisStenographer]

We did something similar. Haven't gotten back to my country for the reception yet because of costs but hoping to do so soon 😊

[@jclyntoledo]

Yes! That's exactly what I was thinking too wherever she has the wedding she can live stream so that the family and friends that can't be there but want to be there can still be a part of it. Also the having the wedding in one country and the reception/wedding party in the other is such a good idea.

[@significantfoliage2932]

Oh live streaming is a fun idea!

[@SandraGrauschopf]

We did the same as a US/German couple

[@dwinajones3276]

Ah!❤ my partner and I are both South African, but of different races and cultures, so we might have two weddings as well. 😊 congratulations to you and yours

[@P47P47]

I’m going through a VERY similar situation! Your arguments for either are exact same for us! Can’t wait to see what you guys choose! It will definitely help us decide❣️

[@classical7]

Do it twice!! Officially in Germany and party/reception in Vietnam. Twice the memories and twice the fun, plus meet your budget. Congratulations! 🎉

[@msbee5183]

Dropped the mic❤❤❤❤❤I said elope! But yup I'm glad I read your comment

[@claudia1735]

Exactly this!

[@franhunne8929]

Both families should be able to celebrate with you. You need not have a high cost wedding in Germany - you can easily rent a room at a Christian church (not the church building, the Gemeindehaus) - and have a self-catered party there - people bring cake and savoury buffet if you tell them to. You can choose a vintage dress or second hand dress or just rent one for the day and you can even skimp on the music and just either use the equipment of the church - or your own playlist with good speakers. Leave the big celebration for Vietnam, your in-laws might still want to come over to meet your family, but not many German relatives might do, so that will be a Vietnam wedding with Vietnamese food (which you miss so much here!) and with Vietnamese rituals and your family, friends and all your neighbours you grew up with. You will regret it if you do not have that. And you might also want to do the marriage here in Germany, too. Make the most of it - enjoy you can have it both ways!

[@veronica5lmaa]

Great advice!

[@TDiddi16]

Best advice yet!!! ❤

[@franhunne8929]

@@TDiddi16 Thanks! I truly think she should embrace to live in both cultures and get the best of both worlds!

[@lenakohl2339]

Das muss noch nicht mal das Gemeindehaus sein. Ich lebe an der Ostsee und hier gibt's einen Leuchtturm, wo häufig Hochzeiten stattfinden. Auch eine alte Mühle gibt es zur Auswahl. Man muss halt nur extra für die Anfahrt des Standesbeamten zahlen.

[@franhunne8929]

@@lenakohl2339 Oh, ich rede nicht von der Zeremonie, sondern von der Feier danach.

[@Jestir66]

have two weddings. A friend of mine had a huge wedding in Vietnam and came back here and had an intimate wedding here. He signed papers in Vietnam cause the family is more stern about tradition there and here were really relaxed, so it was more of a formal party. it was at a nice all you can eat buffet. it was perfect. His vietnam wedding was huge and beautiful. Why not two?

[@schaschuschascho]

I find you so naturally cute and friendly.

[@LochNessax3]

🥳 Congratulations! It is a tough choice… We’re also an international couple (USA & S. Korea), but skipped the wedding for those reasons. Either my family couldn’t be there or his family couldn’t be there. 🥺 Our solution: wedding photos in both countries, 2 casual family dinner and a small party with friends. We’re happy with our decision. It saved us money and everyone felt included. Plus the pictures turned out beautifully. I hope you’re able to do something that both of you are happy with. ☺️

[@shewolfbabe3419]

That's smart honestly

[@tsukitanuki101]

How did you two meet? I’m really curious 😭 sorry if that’s nosey

[@User-laiejwo5381]

앗 늦었지만 결혼 축하드려요!

[@govindkr8426]

Switch to online wedding😂😂

[@ewe392]

Are you American

[@jotainjotain6543]

We ended up getting married without any guests. It was great. Just the two of us. We went to a fancy restaurant, walked on the beach, had cake and went to the movies. It was definitely my kind of wedding. Our honeymoon trip was a bike trip to the woods where we had pizza.

[@steveth1000]

Yes it's about a marriage, not about a wedding day. My daughter got married at the top of a snow covered mountain in Canada and then snowboarder down holding a sign, just married. They had cake and champagne at the top, and a small afternoon tea and more cake at the bottom. It was Valentines Day and 9 other couples got married as well, some second marriages and some just renewing their vows. They are mad keen snowboarders so it was perfect. We are from Australia.

[@lleysokaz5159]

sounds cute!

[@xSongbird]

I looove this :) Just doing things that u want

[@puroobsessed]

I definately would rather prefer this. I hate my Indian relatives thinking the wedding is about them and taking everything to be about them.

[@arinrumi]

But doesn't wedding required witness? At least that's how it work in my place.

[@VanillaflavoredSora]

My husband's family is from Ohio and I have a very large family across Canada. I'm Canadian and my husband is a dual citizen. We live on the opposite side of Canada from this family in the USA. We had a small ceremony in Canada with family and friends that couldn't travel and immediate relatives, and a reception in the usa for everyone else (mostly his friends and family). It was alot of work but worth it to have everyone included!

[@lael6376]

OHIO RIZZ

[@miapena7993]

AGHHHHH NO WAY I LUV U GUYS. You’re the sweetest couple I’ve seen I pray everything works out 🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽

[@bethsspaceship1902]

Two weddings! N that’s final!!!! 🤗🤗🤗🥰

[@aliceli8137]

And write it all off as business expenses when you post the videos for us to live vicariously through you 🤩

[@KolorfulDreamsArtKda]

You mean two actual civil weddings? That's illegal, in case you didn't know. The only way to have two actual weddings is to have the civil wedding in one country then the religious wedding in another country, but I don't think they share the same religion.

[@Ebunoluwa13]

​@@KolorfulDreamsArtKdaIllegal where because Germany and Vietnam are two different countries with different laws

[@KolorfulDreamsArtKda]

@@Ebunoluwa13 that's illegal in both countries. A couple that's already married (civil marriage) who arrive in Germany from Vietnam or in Vietnam from Germany are considered as already married even if the marriage took place in another country, they can't marry again unless they get a divorce before. I'm Mexican and I married my French husband in Mexico, so the next step was to take our Mexican marriage certificate to the French embassy/consulate in Mexico city and they gave us the French document that was the equivalent of our Mexican marriage certificate + other French documents we'd need in order for me to live in France. Getting a second civil marriage in France would've been impossible (without lying) and unlawful. When you're a foreigner and you wish to get married in another country they ask for a document from your own country that proves that you are not already married. So that's what they should do, if they get married in Vietnam they take their Vietnamese marriage certificate to the German embassy/consulate in Vietnam and they'll have their German certificate, without a second civil marriage in Germany.

[@KolorfulDreamsArtKda]

@@Ebunoluwa13 that's what embassies and consulates are for, to sort this kind of administrative situations, so that a marriage that's performed in one country is valid in another country, without second weddings, etc, etc. Believe me, as someone who married a foreigner I know what I'm talking about, plus my mom worked for almost 20 years in a consulate and this was part of her job.

[@katla_phc]

My friends (who are Vietnamese and American) ended up doing two weddings. One big traditional American wedding (albeit paid by the American groom’s family because they wanted to invite plenty of their family/friends when the couple was originally planning a small wedding because of $$$) and then next year they’ll go to Vietnam for the wedding in the Vietnamese bride’s village with all the bride’s family and community.

[@DrQwertz]

my friends did it like this: they had a beautiful, big wedding in vietnam, and the family from germany and poland came to vietnam. They had a fund for family who did not have the money, to help them with traveling expences, ad helped everyone to find a place to stay (most slept at his familys house but not all). Everyone had a wonderful time.

[@imaginekudryavka9485]

What your friends did is exactly what I suggested in a separate comment! Have a big but cheap wedding (compared to Germany) in Vietnam, and use the extra money to get the boyfriend's family and friends there. They could cover their accommodations and other expenses (having her family pitch in with places to sleep, feeding them etc), and only ask them to pay for their own flights and related travel costs. They can forego any gifts, their mere presence is a present. Partially cover those who truly don't have the funds for the plane rides (or who have to also pay a baby/pet/house sitter).

[@caraplayz0501]

@@imaginekudryavka9485that’s almost exactly what I just said too! Since they would be paying the same amount either way then. 😂

[@Totallynotgay603]

OMG IM SO HAPPY FOR YOU GUYS. I have been watching your KZbin channel for so long and it's so amazing that you've come this far with German and your fiance!

[@coolnamegoeshere]

@@Totallynotgay603 ur name is hilarious! 🤣 TY!

[@lunalovegoodey]

Congrats on your wedding! No matter where you hold your wedding, I know you both will be surrounded by love and support

[@AsterFoz]

how can you know that?

[@Mya23-z6j]

Omg congrats! But “it’s not about you it’s about the whole family” got me laughing 😂

[@virginiailands]

1.2k likes but 0 comments, lemme fix that

[@Mya23-z6j]

@@virginiailands thank you!

[@MM-jf1me]

Why did it make you laugh?

[@charissapaul97]

I'm also facing the same predicament. I'm from Malaysia and he's from Norway and everything you mentioned from guest list size to having better options for a cheaper price is true for us too! Finally we decided on a courthouse registration and small family (immediate) dinner after in Norway then a ceremony + dinner for more guests in Malaysia.

[@ImKikiBodine]

Congratulations! Hope where it is it is a beautiful, joyous, love and laugh filled occasion for you two! ❤

[@sagesufferswell]

I'd definitely get married in Vietnam! Sounds like an experience you'll never forget.

[@waysrodd]

In India we invite whole village to the wedding 😂

[@NoorNoor-dl2mh]

Same in my Country 😂😂

[@jeanmatsimella5120]

In certain parts of South Africa, the village invites themselves 😂

[@6and7]

​@@jeanmatsimella5120 🤣🤣

[@mohammed_sadiq.]

Almost 4k people 🤡 I really hate this culture 😂

[@EusoumeuSol]

My boyfriend is Indian and he's very excited about getting married in Brazil for this very reason! 😅 His sister just got married and there were over a thousand people and it was insane! He was exhausted and I'm so relieved he doesn't want to repeat that experience! 😅

[@JorinT-u6y]

You should have two weddings Alot of mix couples usually do that. An inexpensive, intimate wedding in Germany and a big booming inexpensive wedding in Vietnam. This way both family get to enjoy each of their child's wedding and you won't have to worry about cross menu that would satisfiy both families.

[@minyu5612]

This sounds like a great compromise!

[@lauratligui6073]

Congratulations! Do 2 wedding!! you both deserve it!! Both families will be excited to experience both cultures of such a wonderful couple!! Xxx

[@miahempel7991]

My parents had a small wedding in Austria and a biiiig party in Turkey with the other part of the family some days later. They loved it. You could have a really relaxed (and cheap!) wedding in Germany with a garden party and a big one in Vietnam. Lots of love, dear Uyen! ❤

[@descensum1154]

TURKEY MENTİONED AUU

[@n0zT4Lg1a]

Do a German style wedding in Vietnam! Save money and still be able to invite your family, while your husband’s family can come with as well-plus you can do it the way you like it. I have a few other ideas but I’m not quite sure how to put them together. So happy for you two, I’ve been watching this channel for a couple years now and I was just waiting for you guys to get married. Congratulations! Edit: omg 868 likes? tysm! guys this is ultimately up to Uyen and what she wants, I’m just giving advice…

[@sieraarmstrong620]

That was 100% what I was thinking

[@EmanueleManferdini]

@sieraarmstrong620 same

[@suvashree100]

By German style u mean with only close people?? Yeah it won't work.. Her extended family will be kind of offended..that she had a wedding in Vietnam but didn't invite them. For asians n South asians, if u r related but dont get invited to big events means u r being treated like an outsider... I think they should have a big reception in Vietnam n the wedding in Germany. That way both sides will be pacified

[@mayuravirus6134]

​@@suvashree100What people meant was a traditional German wedding idk how traditional German wedding looks mike but that seems to be what they meant by German wedding

[@n0zT4Lg1a]

@@mayuravirus6134yes, but Uyen said she would prefer it that way.

[@kusuossecretgf5401]

I'm so happy for you both, you two are the cutest and most inspiring couple here!

[@TMD3453]

Great advice everyone! I hope it’s figured out. Congrats 🎉🎉!!

[@lw8380]

Super happy for you both. Two weddings!! We got married in Germany and shortly after also had a second wedding in the UK, the full works incl. church ceremony with exchange of vows, meal & party -(just no paperwork)! As a British woman that meant a lot to me to be able to have my family (not able to travel) celebrate an important day with me/us! And it felt just as special as THE day! Excited to hear how your plans turn out

[@Ninorca_]

You could do one in Vietnam and one in Germany. My cousin did something similar when she married her Italian Husband. They had the "standesamtliche" wedding in Germany and the "kirchliche" in Italy.

[@susannebaum219]

I think that's the best solution.

[@KolorfulDreamsArtKda]

They had two actual civil weddings? Or was it like just one actual, real, civil wedding in Germany and then a party or religious wedding in Italy? Because that's completely different.

[@Ninorca_]

@@KolorfulDreamsArtKda They had the "legal" wedding in Germany and the Christian one in Italy. So the one I visited in Germany was in a "Bürgerhaus" (something like a community center) and it was the legally binding one and the one in Italy was probably in a church and with a priest.

[@danielamaus]

@@KolorfulDreamsArtKdaThe second wedding doesn't need to be the full (dry) legal stuff, I think there will be ways to make it happen.

[@scrappygirl100]

I hope you can do both. I attended a wedding in Vietnam and it was wonderful, on a cliff, overlooking the beach. Best wishes!

[@VidBint]

Congratulations! Never underestimate the value of family & community & your marriage will be blessed 🙏🏼

[@jaboi7709]

The wedding anouncement video being you making some yummy food is so fitting

[@G_de_Coligny]

On which planet is tofu “yummy” ? Are you the last hipster ? I though they all choked on avocado toast before the p4ndemic…

[@No-sr3nv]

​@@G_de_Coligny chill dude, have you even tried tofu?? It's delicious

[@G_de_Coligny]

@@No-sr3nv 20 years in Japan… so, tried: yes But you have to be from a 3rd world dump to find this delicious Especially when you consider. Vietnamese or french cuisine It’s like licking the plaster while being in the Palace of Versailles.

[@No-sr3nv]

@@G_de_Coligny ig to each their own tastes , but you don't gotta bring people down just cuz they like something you don't like 🤷

[@G_de_Coligny]

sure, keep mediocrity alive and well... welcome to wokistan @@No-sr3nv

[@ericas5255]

I am learning so much about Vietnam from you. What a beautiful culture.

[@RoseleeMartinez-ne1sh]

It's a 3rd world country n all the family gets supported it never ends

[@justicedemoe6532]

Two weddings that happens a lot in the US because of its size

[@tesssssy597]

No it doesn't?

[@jkoonce4244]

What nah we travel freely and frequently 🫵🏻🫶🏻🇨🇦💩

[@Xam_yippie]

Depending on the state

[@holdensaia5962]

Are you crazy, do you think people in the US are made of money, no we have one giant wedding with everyone, or a small reception with close family and friends that’s it.

[@KJ-gc8oq]

Are you talking abt immigrants in the US having 2 weddings?

[@glassmunch]

you made making tofu look so easy omg congratulations on your wedding!!!!!!!

[@chicken]

Congratulations on your upcoming wedding, two celebrations sound like a dream come true for you both! Wishing you endless love and happiness in your marriage journey!

[@leonieburnham322]

Yep, do it twice. You both deserve to have the blessings of your loved ones.

[@terrafletcher1930]

Whatever you do decide, I wish you all the happiness! I hope we get to see some pictures after!

[@ktk81]

The more weddings the merrier, i had a big wedding the netherlands, a smaller version in hongkong and another small version in shanghai. Directly after we could continue our honeymoon in hawaii. Afterwards we flew to los angeles to celebrate our marriage with the last part of the family. You (should) only marry once in your life, so just be creative if it fits your budget.

[@Vesperrv]

Congratulations! My advice is just follow your heart, your wedding day is special for the two of you do it on your terms. If you want to have a beach wedding then go for it, but there is nothing wrong with an intimate wedding and they can be just as beautiful. I had my wedding at my grandparents house and we made the food ourselves and decorated with diy projects and it was perfect for us. So do what will be perfect for you not others, you will be less stressed and happier. 💜

[@IndigoFireFandubs]

Another vote for two weddings! Congratulations you guys!

[@palesamashiane3053]

I love seeing healthy relationships like this❤

[@Alsie_yt]

congrats💖! I would do a German style wedding in Vietnam! that way everyone can come, you guys don't have to spend that much money, and everyones happy, but personally I don't know a whole ton about weddings, so whatever you do I trust your judgement!

[@mariaabirk]

“Tell me you want to have the wedding in Vietnam, without telling me you want to have the wedding in Vietnam”

[@nasinnarcotics]

I can’t blame her, sounds like they’d save a lot of money…

[@kampase]

I'm having 2 weddings. A main one in Vietnam with my fiancée's family and my parents and grandparents. Eventually, I'll have a second, very small one in the UK for the rest of my family and friends. A big benefit of the Vietnam wedding, lots of gifts of gold!

[@akireodd]

Both. You can do a cheap, intimate ceremony in Germany (even City Hall) and a large (affordable) one in Vietnam. Can they meet halfway for cheap? The Germany family may need to suck it up. Or... You guys can elope and just throw a party for family and friends later. Ultimately, it's about what the two of you want. I hope it works out.

[@mariacruza756]

"But yeah, we are still thinking." Can't wait to see your Vietnamese wedding pictures!

[@samstone8674]

You're getting married!!!! That's so awesome!!!! And I'm sure however you choose to do the wedding, it'll be amazing. Congratulations 🎉

[@reajay8548]

The squeal I let out!! Congrats on you both, yall deserve each other and I hope for nothing but happiness for the both of you.

[@shawnycoffman]

So happy y'all are getting married!! You haven't been showing up on my feed lately so this is the first I'm hearing of it. Congratulations 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻⭐⭐⭐🎊🎉

[@chihyuwang7561]

恭喜！祝福你們百年好合❤

[@天国のマリ]

You can see how happy she is You go girl ❤

[@bodhiswayze1892]

I agree with a lot of people on here, 2 weddings! Legal stuff in Germany, party in Vietnam. I’m so happy and excited for you both. Love from England 😊❤

[@VashtiStampede]

Two budget friendly weddings that everyone can attend! It would be a gorgeous experience and be like taking a vacation ❤

[@sunyiesq.]

Congratulations🎉 I am a Korean enjoying your videos recently. I found quite a lot of things are alike between Vietnamese and Korean cultures. You look so good in many ways. I wish a good wonderful luck to your married life. ❤

[@kerenrosario3486]

Do two weddings! I had a similar situation. I got married in the states and later in Puerto Rico. It was perfect both places were amazing and everyone was happy to celebrate the day.

[@SP-io7lj]

TOFU! I love tofu and I love to see people make it! Congrats on the love & pending marriage!

[@MariaMrstad]

Yes! I found a coment telling me what she was making!

[@kelsofox369]

I’m very excited and happy for both of you! You both were meant for each other. Blessings of happiness and longevity to you both.

[@HobbesTheTigerr]

I like the two wedding idea. You get both worlds.

[@unhinged_trash_urchin]

❤omg yall getting married is thw sweetest thing ever! I am so happy for you guys!🎉

[@trivedibros9083]

OH MY GOD!! Im so happy for you both, cant believe you're both getting married, congratulations!!!

[@cya6109]

I vote the vietnam wedding, yes there will be more people but your wedding should be one of the best days in your life, something beautiful and bold to remember for the rest of your life ❤️

[@amirahsufian2301]

I love the vietnam one... It will really connect you with a lot of people and get a lot of blessings from all the guests.... But any of your decisions are fine as long as you and your future husband are happy

[@gabrieldias3479]

As many other people have said it already, do the legal part in Germany, then throw two celebrations. One in Germany and other in Vietnam. It's way more common than you think. It doesn't even have to be with people from different countries. I've seen that with people from different religions even. The couple get married, then throw one celebration according to one religion and then another one according to the other religion. Also you get TWICE THE FUN!

[@francesca11767]

Do it in both locations. It's the best way for people like us marrying in two different cultures 😊

[@FemaleLuciferMorningstar]

Congratulations on having an amazing person to hopefully share the rest of your life with!🎉

[@LX777]

"But we are still thinking about it" 😅 idk why as the answer it RIGHT THERE, GODS! *Astarion voice*

[@JaiMak-i4c]

2 weddings, one small one big!! Congratulations!!

[@SummerAlleriaWindrunner]

Is that tofu?! I've never seen it made and have never had it that fresh but now I really want to try 😍

[@uyenninh]

Yeb it is supper easy to make as well!

[@Gi-fz8rk]

What is the white powder that you put in it?

[@Paprica008]

​@@uyenninhI want the recipe please !

[@nicolewatkins5829]

I only came to the comments to see if anyone was going to mention the homemade tofu. I want the recipe too!!!! But yeah, have the two weddings (legal part in Germany and reception in Vietnam).

[@athena6832]

It looked like gelatin powder​@@Gi-fz8rk

[@lai-yeec.1917]

Wedding in Vietnam!! Think of your family and friends being present, Plus the food and afterwards you can go to another Asian country for the honeymoon.. Your German friends might enjoy visiting Vietnam too. 💕💕

[@propogandalf]

But it's expensive so many Germans can't come

[@zan9898]

lol when ur from south asia, going to south asia for ur honeymoon isnt as exiting as it might be for western people

[@sampattnaik1911]

​@@propogandalf But if it's Germany, none of her family can come.

[@KattyTube21]

You guys will make the best choice and congratulations to you both on your wedding! 😊❤

[@BerryBerry1465]

I agree on having two weddings if possible. Your viewers would like that as well. ❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉

[@bethsspaceship1902]

Two weddings! 🤗🤗🤗🥰

[@davidrbrtsn]

Friends of mine had this problem. They just registered the marriage with only essential witnesses, followed by two 'wedding' celebrations, one in each country.

[@juicywatermelon15]

I’m so happy for you ❤️❤️❤️ as long as you are together, even Antarctica is okay 😍

[@SJ-ni6iy]

I’m from Appalachia and I wish we had kept outside influences out of our weddings. We used to have them at our local church and everyone would bring potluck dishes. Even the cake was a stack cake, where each family would add a layer of cake. The more popular the bride and groom were, the taller the cake.

[@christiedecker2724]

Love the stack cake idea and potluck reception. My wedding was potluck...blessings.

[@kienla4280]

The white powder that she used to make tofu is actually called Glucono Delta Lactone or GDL. It is derived from fruit/vegetable glucose. Had she pour the soymilk INTO the GDL mixture and let it sit undisturbed instead of stirring it, her tofu would've been much smoother.

[@MercedesLefrancois]

Maybe you guys could tell your german guests that them flying out for your wedding can be their wedding gift to you

[@youllbemytourniquet]

Exactly! I think going to Vietnam for a wedding would be the highlight of my life, so cool

[@pandamaiden1675]

I love this idea ❤

[@OP-1000]

Asking people to spend €1.000 per person (at least) on your wedding might be asking too much though.

[@mishynaofficial]

​@@youllbemytourniquetsome straight out of movie stuff 😃

[@kmanc418]

​@@OP-1000you not forcing them to go. You're saying if they do go they don't need to also buy a gift. Only the ppl who will go are going to be the ones who really want to take that trip.

[@Shmol_kitten]

I think you should definitely do it on a beach!!! You'll have an amazing view and I can guarantee you that you would enjoy it!

[@shreyabhattacharyya7573]

I think a Vietnam wedding party would be awesome and legal part in Germany ❤

[@chips6670]

My brother had two weddings one in Australia and one in Spain where his wife’s family is and where he now lives. It was really nice. Had a smaller Australian wedding and a larger one in Spain.

[@minime7375]

Smart move, I got married only in Australia and the marriage is not recognized in EU countries unless you do a lot more paperwork.

[@rashmeettalujapursuitofkno8413]

Congratulations!! :') I've really enjoyed watching your videos and the blossoming of your relationship! Wishing you both a lot of love & light! I'm sure the wedding will feel really special irrespective of where it is :)

[@jessyello3816]

So strangly beautiful how two people from totally different cultures can make such a perfect couple ❤❤❤ either way it is the marriage that's important, The ceremony is just dressing

[@hamham577]

🎉congratulations guys!!!

[@frog56414]

Imo you should do the legal aspect in Germany but hold a German style wedding in Vietnam

[@polarfamily6222]

Really glad y'all are getting married! 🎉

[@ChartierMel]

Small idea Maybe you can go Vietnam for the wedding (for the cheaper price) but have the German wedding invite and stuff ( I love your vids btw)