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[@labgirl739]

You are so BEautifullll

[@sexychick206]

Girl, I'm at the people dem job watching this. Thank God your out of that relationship!! 🎉👏🏾

[@fj4396]

Lol I thought you did that to emphasize the point

[@keluvnme]

To me, it’s just emphasizing certain parts sis. We love you no matter what Daina. You’re a great woman! Someone will appreciate you❤️💪🏽

[@user-uu2fb7cd2z]

I think it’s good you have learned where you went wrong romantically. But I do hope you realise the poor financial decisions you both made aswell. Hopefully you set between 15-70k to actually buy a flat or house in somewhere affordable instead of paying excessive money to help pay someone’s mortgage off for them and going forward invest a large portion of all your funds going forward.

[@ReeceyboiMusic]

The fact you’re telling this story from your house and not jail, I commend you😭👏🏾🖤

[@afroaffirmations]

Lisssseeeeennnnnnn

[@aarmani.x3015]

Honestly 😂😂😂😂

[@mayflower2904]

Fr she’s a better woman than me 😅

[@JRae1]

girrlllll I would be in somebody halfway house talkin to my great grandma.. who has been dead for over 20 years!

[@dominiquexo4772]

For a man? No thanks lol

[@ihatejellybeans7375]

Once he lost his career, he began to resent you for still having yours. He secretly grew to hate you for being good to him, and the more he cheated and treated you poorly, the more he began to hate himself. He projected his self hate on you. He was this guy all along, but the more you thrived and had something special about you, the deeper he got in self-pity. He wanted to see how far he could break you because he needed to see you as an equal. That's how he sees himself. I'm glad you're no longer in a relationship that was literally driving you mad. The more you thrive, the more his resent will grow. Be careful and godspeed!!!

[@blueberrybird357]

Yes and yes that's exactly what I was thinking but props to her to a better and brighter future!

[@princessjade6259]

This is a sum of my past relationships word for word !!!!

[@makeupgeek11]

You surmised that shit perfectly. I'm making a note of this because i think this can provide some real comfort to others going through this, which let's face it, there's a lot.

[@maggiepp7997]

Yup. My ex was the same.

[@jayminjoh142]

I can say from experience this really what happens 😢

[@ShawnteAmoure]

Never let a man tell you he doesn't want you more than once. I am soooooo glad you finally chose YOU! Very proud of you.

[@bmmotives]

He always wanted her, he alone said that because he knew he was stepping out on her and yamming next girls front

[@lillyrose123]

No she means the fact that he took up the courage and said Diana i dont love you anymore, that requires balls and some deep thinking and actually run with it for days ignoring her and what not im sorry but he already not only shown her who he was but he told her also... but yeah trying to fix is a good thing but u just waste time cuz the separation is not far anymore after those revelations most of the time

[@ShawnteAmoure]

@@bmmotives For your sake I pray you don't believe that. Because if you do you have years of heart break ahead of you. Happy growing. Love really isn't this hard.

[@bmmotives]

@@ShawnteAmoure clearly you don’t know them nor did you watch their journey for year. And it’s you that will have years of heart break kmt don’t project that to me because of a comment.

[@JamesCM86]

@@bmmotives 😂😂😂😂

[@Loveit45]

Men don’t break up with women they just act up until you leave

[@Loveit45]

What I’m saying is he was checked out from the relationship years ago but men don’t believe in wasting their time so they’ll stick around and just keep messing up until we get the hint

[@hyusuf4280]

This is true very true.

[@alkahinat4558]

Sounds so passive Not masculine at all, those boys have too much time to waste, they think everything is a game

[@Liitebulb]

Yup. Mine has "dumped" me an continues living in our house. Cuz he's on easy street. Gtfo if that's how you feel. "I've got nowhere to go" is not my problem (he's got a 100 siblings). It was my house then jt was ours

[@eveheart2876]

@@Loveit45stick around for the benefit and company

[@CB____]

Not even gonna lie this video is the wake up call I needed. When you’re in these types of relationships you’re blind to stuff but hearing someone else tell their story opens your eyes.

[@alkahinat4558]

💯

[@estherbjerga523]

Yep you need the stronger language in the explanation of behaviors. When I left my ex it was because I imagine how I would react if my friend was telling me the same things were happening in her relationship.

[@twocathome399]

@@estherbjerga523this is such good advice that i recently been taking as well. it’s okay to leave someone you still love because of how they treat you

[@katjaxxx7353]

when you ask each other for passwords, than the relationsship is over

[@gretelrue]

Yes sis milk this series for whatever it is! Get that compensation

[@hazel250]

Period 😂

[@followchrist0]

😂😂

[@nights-frankocean8750]

And I’ll watch every vid too!!

[@chelsea9641]

Absolutely!! I hope she gets every dime.

[@AimeeLP]

Period!!!!

[@baybeetricia]

He LITERALLY tried to break you..... I'm feeling so much emotions right now. Disbelief, sadness, disgust, and disappointment. You're strong Daina. Just wow.

[@georgia8592]

♥️

[@sheebaby]

I agree. He got her to his parents’ so he could implement “devaluation” or “break her” as you put it.

[@LuckyUrbana]

Crazy bc I went through the same thing!! Took me 15 years to free myself from it all. He took a lot from me, but God restored me. Healed me.

[@ChimangoMwandira]

I went through this. The same thing. Its like they have the same script. Thank God it was just a boyfriend. Thank God i am single now. I am now coming back to the happy creative person i was before i met him

[@StarringShameka]

They always end up trying to break you after they’ve ruined things. It’s heartbreaking, sometimes more than the initial betrayal

[@n.b3366]

Stories like this is why I'll never judge a woman for going through a man's phone. A lot of the time when a woman has a feeling her man is cheating they're right 90% of the time

[@Kingofthenet2]

Facts

[@iridescentlytey4933]

I really loved how she said “the five story house that I was paying all the bills for” multiple times. Girl yes. Thank you for sharing all of this, being vulnerable online is a lot. I hope you make bank off this trauma 😩

[@tonietonitone]

right & I feel guilty lowkey watching but 1) at least she's making bread off it 2) hopefully someone's eyes open from hearing her story

[@iridescentlytey4933]

@@tonietonitone I Don’t think you should feel guilty at all! She’s getting to share her side. I’m not sure if it was this one or another video, but she’s said that so many women have shared similar experiences in her comments. I think it’s nice to see her doing well after the bullshit she’s gone through. Damn powerful tbh 🔥

[@1978-m1i]

Why did you love her saying she was paying for everything? They were married. Lack of sense to pay and financially irresponsible to have a five bedroom house for two people.

[@iridescentlytey4933]

@@1978-m1i this is giving hater. People do have luxury and extra. Given the fact that she was paying ON HER OWN, I assume that if her ex was doing what needed to be done, it wouldn’t have been a problem at all. Why are you pocket watching like this lmaooo 🍅🍅🍅

[@imvivi3953]

Why does this sounds like what ive been through😢

[@rhens8088]

He moved you out of that 5 bedroom house into his parents house so that you can’t flame him for not paying his part of rent since both of you aren’t paying rent anymore. It was never about saving up, it was the fact that he didn’t want to share responsibilities.

[@jayminjoh142]

Facts tho'

[@Reesa89]

Daina looks TF good! When women choose themselves they glow different ❤

[@noriwilliams4637]

Yass

[@ngabusiimane6969]

💯

[@Jaden370]

💯💯💯💯💯💯💯🔥🔥🔥🔥🐐

[@Laura-sg6ss]

FACT

[@walktalk_208]

Her dress sense and style is on point too. She doesnt try too hard she has swag. I love confident and strong women!

[@TT-eq3om]

He literally LITERALLY tried to ruin and derail your life. My jaw dropped SO MANY times during this video. I am so so happy that you got out of that, and you’re shining now 🥹💞

[@0003-t6x]

The emotional manipulation she described is crazy. I respect her for sharing her story and warning/reminding other women. So many things you can learn from this: -Never build up a man and count on his potential. - He used her to build him up then left her with nothing. Got women and a new life based off her helping him. He literally drained her till she had nothing left and didn’t care. -This is a warning to ladies that men will use you to a point you have nothing left as long as you let them. They have no morals. And their friends will help them. -Build yourself up and meet someone that matches you. -always have your own finances. (Prepare for the worst) -Never change your boundaries in a relationship or marriage. -Never put your life on pause or neglect your dreams for a man. And make sure you have a support group of females, don’t neglect friendships for a relationship.

[@krissy9128]

Exactly! When he lost his career, he started to resent her for having hers. So, he slowly grew to hate her and did everything to throw her off her path. The more she thrived, the more he started to hate himself which then caused him to behave the way he did. Stressing her out and taking her focus off her business.

[@reffa2858]

​@@krissy9128she was more of a man than him and he couldn't take it. Cheat, leave, whatever but dont bring the girl down with you. Thats low...

[@queenkreviews1999]

Men always try to derail your life and success when they can’t control you anymore smh. Terrifying

[@yasminangel6284]

him having you at his mums house was such a nasty manipulation tactic, he basically robbed you of everything you made for yourself and then wanted you to slowly feel as low and helpless as him. actually evil I’m so sorry you experienced that 🥺

[@lizzy6970]

The positive part of this situation is that you've had a 10 year relationship and are STILL so young. The wisdom you'll take into your next relationship will be unmatched and I truly hope it brings you onto the path of happiness

[@perdybirdie]

Is she 33 now? I can't remember but yes still young either way

[@inheidiselement7981]

Yes I agree! Also that she didn't have a child for this man. Because then she'll have to deal with him for the rest of her life.

[@amaleyy-661]

For anyone who’s been through narcissistic abuse, this story hits close to home. I cried a few times watching this because I actually felt your pain. The part where he randomly told you he doesn’t love you anymore and you described him as “ cold” that’s where he was making you go through the devaluing stage. A stage where your partner turns cold, and yet you’re there confused and extremely depressed trying to figure out where it all went wrong. It was his plan to do it right after he felt you had nothing to offer him after he depleted you financially and removed you from the house. He’s an absolute piece of shit. I am so proud of you Diana. A lot of people who haven’t gone through NA can listen to your story and learn from it and for people who have unfortunately experienced narcissistic abuse, you have no idea how it feels to know we are not alone. We love you! I’m happy to see you at the other side and you’re giving us all hope! Thank you.

[@erykahleigh9139]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾Thank you!!!!! These narcs need to be exposed. They set out to ruin you from the beginning and you don’t see it coming because you have no agenda.

[@melahi_]

I felt that too especially the part where she said she felt numb to it and it no longer bothered her anymore when he said that to her 😓

[@qaxcraxchik]

sis you just said it all. thank you! exactly this!!!!

[@idontcare2046]

I went through this while pregnant smh completely depressed now my baby’s father wants me back and says that he’s changed 🙄

[@maggiepp7997]

@@idontcare2046 they never change. He wants something from you so do not give in. My narcissistic exfiance did the same to me. He tried to break me but I was string enough to see through his bullshitt.

[@Cherrypopissweet]

Babysitting and micromanaging a grown man means doom, whether it's the woman's insecurity or the man's infidelity. Walk away once that's on the table.

[@Katice634]

I agree but when you’re in it. It’s just hard. Especially when you love that person.

[@StarringShameka]

Absolutely but when you’re in DEEP, you’re not thinking straight

[@Cherrypopissweet]

It's hard and Dainá began dating him young. It usually takes experience to not only understand why you have principles in place, but to stand on them. Being emotionally invested can make you lose common sense but you have to look at long term toxic relationships not as "how much time have I invested", but "how much more time am I willing to waste on somebody who continues to prove they ain't worth a damn." You learn the fine line to walk between self preservation and relationship commitment.

[@shachede6828]

I’m for try again but this one was done, because he wasn’t trying to change. Sigh

[@malisiaevelynstl]

@@Katice634 You have to love yourself more.

[@princesscfn]

I'm sorry I can't believe a grown man had you paying £3000+ a month in rent and bills on your own, and had the audacity to call himself your husband? AND cheat ?????? Wow

[@jor-ja8523]

Right. Smh

[@afroaffirmations]

He is not an isolated case, the world is crawling with these cute in the face BUMS!

[@perdybirdie]

That's why I'm not paying no bills. Men have higher capacity for foolishness so in my marriage I don't want to pay more than 25% of the total bills

[@Caljay213]

Foreal that alone his ass would've been divorced

[@mdot1799]

That’s how men feel

[@yourstruly256]

Making you pay all the bills and cheating. My blood is boiling. I was cheated on but my guy paid for everything and that hurt like hell. I cant even think about being cheated on while losing all of my financial security. You are so strong Daina

[@Caljay213]

Her decision. I would've got myself a studio. Moved out and left him with the house

[@mdot1799]

Now u know how men feel

[@newleft2254]

@@mdot1799 Women birth kids and do 90% of the child and domestic labour. It’s utter stupidity for a woman to pay anything when she’s paying with her entire body and labour. What exactly do men bring to the table? Like Ahmet, what did he bring? She already did all the cooking, cleaning and emotional labour, then paid for everything too while my man is just chilling at home. Men are dead weight in this day and age then y’all cry about losing your masculinity and identity. So unattractive 🤮

[@sabrinasjourney]

​@@mdot1799🤡🤡🤡

[@miaw9158]

I know all about the crying next to a man that don’t even care and act like you don’t even exist, and it’s truly the worst feeling ever.

[@rhispence]

I love the amount of views you are getting from these videos. You deserve it.. my heart goes out to you. I remember watching you from the tootsie time days and the algorithm brought me back to you. Us women need to stop holding men down, I've made the same mistake a couple times and recieved nothing in return! Never again! Stay strong Dainá xx

[@SoloCityTravels]

I am so disgusted by him… not only did he ruin your mental health but compromised your physical health as well!! And the health of these other women. He needs psychological help. He probably didn’t want to go to a therapist because for some reason he probably can’t face who he is as a person. So sorry you had to go through that!

[@laaliyahchanell]

Imagine going through that with a child. You are so smart for not getting pregnant by him. I’m so glad you are free for his cheating. I’m sorry you had to endure this for this long. You’re so strong.

[@aisha691]

This made me deep that cheating is grounds to end the relationship right then and there. No turning back, no ifs no bits. Before I thought, cheating could be worked around through time and forgiveness but evidently the relationship after that is forever tainted and not worth salvaging. After such an act, the paranoia and distrust would drive anyone crazy. Cheating is too much of a betrayal unless you would be able to work within a polygamous relationship. It’s just never the same smh.

[@Blake1720]

The problem is 99% of the time if you forgive them they WILL do it again. Yes, there are very nuanced situations where someone does just cheat once and then they learn/grow together, but most of the time they know that you’ll put up with it and they don’t care how badly it hurts.

[@letscooksomestuff8205]

Never. I realised very young it’s a no for me. I DON’T have that forgive and forget or work on it heart when it comes to that type of betrayal. So guess what when it happened I immediately left at 17/18.

[@wolfsisterhowls]

Even if you could do polygamy, never do it with a cheater. They have already demonstrated that they are untrustworthy, dishonest and selfish. The levels of trust and communication that I've heard it takes to bee polygamous without being a whole clown tell me that cheaters are suited to that lifestyle. In fact, the bait and switch of a man manipulating a woman into polygamy AFTER he betrayed an originally monogamous commitment is a GIANT red flag. He'll bait and switch you out of everything else, including sexual and reproductive health after that. It's just a hotbed of STDs and babytrapping waiting to happen.

[@prettybooreyyy630]

And this is the reason why I wouldn’t stay even if I really wanted to! Because mentally it’s not worth it, especially if you have kids. Imagine that just being depressed and crying all the time being paranoid and stressed always being in doubt it’s awful!

[@ib961]

Cheating is horrible. Women often forget that these men bring home STD/STI’s… like how can anyone be ok with that?

[@erykahleigh9139]

I can’t lie…I wasn’t shocked hearing any of this, because like many ppl- I’ve had the unfortunate but valuable experience of dealing with a narcissist and once you know 1 narc- you know them all! But it’s still hard to listen to the abuse they inflict 😔 They WILL destroy you if you let them. All I can say is, I’m forever proud of you and I love you girl! Oh and you look STUNNING!❤️

[@NehaSharma-777]

If you know 1 narc , you know them all. - Golden and most truest words ever spoken

[@AmiraBira]

It’s very common that men get jealous of their partner. You were the breadwinner, you’re gorgeous, and you have a reliable steady income… which was more than he made! God bless you girl. Thank god you never carried his child. I’m so happy for you and your growth Dainá fr 🖤

[@gottalovebri]

this series is the epitome of don’t judge a couple by pictures

[@Leira6267]

Girl. People be out here admiring these fake influencer relationship as "couple goals". lol! If only they knew. After Niki & Jamie were done. I was done done done.

[@ndzalln]

@@Leira6267 right so many of the couples of that era have gone thru it 😟

[@tisheralvay4010]

Or couple videos

[@lanadavis5820]

​@@Leira6267 Lol right, girl me too! After Jamie and Nikki I was done too! 😆

[@sg5720]

Yep. 🤷🏽‍♀️😔

[@aliyaplummer]

I left my lying husband at the end of December. What these men put us through is a mental illness.

[@ye23.]

I cant believe she went back to him twice. How manipulative this man was

[@aliyaplummer]

@@ye23. when you’re married it’s a completely different mindset. I know I took my husband back for the sake of working on our marriage. When you take vows and commit to a lifetime with someone you’ll try until you just can’t. These liars and cheaters only think of themselves and it’s rare that someone takes marriage reconciliation serious. I’ve been in her shoes so I get it. There were things in my previous relationships that I would have never tolerated but I put up with it in my marriage.

[@lookingfora6795]

Im 22 and Im living with my partner... at the end of our tenancy in 3 months I am going back to my parent's house because he cheated on me online. I don't want to have to deal with him escalating the cheating... as a young girl its really scary because I never went through this before. I accepted to rent a place with him thinking he truly loved me but he's been cheating on me and I don't understand why would you make such a big decision if you are going to cheat on me...

[@JamesCM86]

@@aliyaplummer the thing is it appears only ONE of you were talking those vows seriously. In which case, you need to know it’s time to respect yourself and walk away

[@aliyaplummer]

@@JamesCM86 I agree, but like I said, when you commit to forever with someone, you will most likely give more than one or two chances. If you have a child and they mess up, disrespect you, etc, you aren’t going to just disown them from the first incident.

[@perdybirdie]

I hope daina realizes how healing this is for all of us. I literally went through a toxic relationship that I didn't realize was toxic and ended it officially in September after 3 years. Genuinely thought he was my soulmate and future husband at one point to feeling broken by the end. We had a closure conversation today and I'm finally free. This series came at the PERFECT time. Your ex sounds like a narcissist and mine had bipolar disorder and a lot of the behavior sounds similar. The sex addiction, lack of accountability, the back and forth with emotions, emotional Rollercoaster, etc.

[@sabinasultana6789]

I'm so happy your free now, it won't be an easy road but you'll come out better and happier than ever ❤️

[@miaboo544]

This is one of the REALEST story times I’ve watched in a longggg time! This was so triggering for me but we need to speak our truth more instead of protecting these piece of shit men! Diana I applaud you so much and I’m so proud of your for finally speaking your truth!!! Like someone said, milk this series for all it’s worth!! Collect them coins girls!! You deserve the world and more and you’ll definitely get it! ❤

[@MsAqua-bb5gi]

Am I the only one who’s loving this new side of Dainá? The look, the background, the sexy dresses… The music. I swear when I’m at the gym I have to play your new stuff. It gives me a confidence boost and I be feeling myself.

[@MsBre7]

She looks soooo good

[@Endlesslove29]

Imagine cheating on this fine babe

[@savewithtee]

I’m so disappointed that the moms on both sides weren’t supportive of you valuing your decision more , it’s okay for us women to not put up with the same things others will. I enjoyed the video ❤

[@luyandamthembu5678]

Same. It's crazy how they expected her to stay with someone that is hurting her so much. She was expected to be the good wife and work things out but he was cheating and destroying their relationship. They would much rather have her lose herself in her marriage than her have peace in her life.

[@afroaffirmations]

@@luyandamthembu5678 This is a major problem. Traumatised bw with low self esteem raising another generation of BW to be the same. We all need to actively break this mess with our own children.

[@Caljay213]

I think they thought he was helping out financially. Most older generation stayed because of the rent and bills

[@vaneshcaa]

It’s especially jarring because if she was the one doing dirt, they wouldn’t hesitate to tell him to bounce. Why are women encouraged to ride out the storms and overcome obstacles and struggles that MEN create, yet men are encouraged to know their self worth?

[@mrod87]

@@Caljay213 i disagree... that may have been in our grandparents (80+) generation but these parents (50-70+) these baby boomer and gen x mothers were largely the bread winners in married households...it wasnt rent and bills.

[@cutiepatootie1990]

It blows my mind that both mothers knew the levels of violations that he put you through and still asked you take him back and endure more abuse.

[@Bianca.Nceeee]

It's crazy these mom's would never excuse this behavior is it was the woman doing it. They never do. I'd daina was the one doing this her mother in law would have taken matters into her own. Hands to save the son. I hope this generation does not take this mentality forward

[@deej5608]

nothing new JUST BLACKISTAN MINDSET

[@SobrietyandSolace]

@@Bianca.Nceeee Sons can do no wrong in their eyes, doesn’t matter how many times he has violent outbursts and cussed you out or goes out late ir doesn’t support you, you don’t talk shit about their son, he is the victim

[@JESUSLOVESYOU219]

Right?? I’m like why couldn’t at least someone say that he should “get help” or whatever nonsense before trying to “fix” the marriage.

[@JESUSLOVESYOU219]

@@SobrietyandSolace this is why fathers are so important. Sons will always be their baby.

[@morevaluethanrubiesxo1175]

As much as i want a relationship, listening to your life made me realize i am worth so much more than what these boys have to offer. 2 seconds of attention and feeling wanted is not worth 10+ years of misery and suffering. And you definitely do not look like what you’ve been through and i appreciate how much class your telling this experience with❤❤

[@iwantcrystals]

This is HELLA emotional abuse. I have experienced this before. I'm so glad you got out of this situation.

[@KushQueen9]

Once you have to constantly start checking your partner's social media/messages it's truly the end. Trust is the most important aspect of a relationship. Looks like he also took advantage of the fact that you were paying for nearly everything and began to depend on you.

[@greatgownsbeautifulgowns]

I agree! I caught my ex messaging (several) other women and I read all of the inappropriate messages that had gone on between them. I started constantly checking his phone and social media because it was just so hard to trust him after that. I was always wondering if he was cheating if he was late coming to my house, or if he was lying when he told me he stayed later at work. I stayed with him, but I was still angry about it and from time to time I would bring up the things he had done. One day I just got sick of it all and I was like, "I'm done." and ended our relationship. My heart just wasn't in it anymore after being treated like that and I wasn't going to waste anymore of my life and time with him.

[@KushQueen9]

@@greatgownsbeautifulgowns thank goodness you left in the end. It's never easy to step out once you are attached to a person, but we have to choose ourselves every single time.

[@greatgownsbeautifulgowns]

@@KushQueen9 Yes! We sure do! If you don't choose you then you're just choosing a constant state of stress and unhappiness.

[@sheldinemay30]

For the record Diana... nothing about your story gave embarrassment. From watching your videos (all these years) your characteristic always gave confidence, strength and nothing less and this right here proved exactly that. It takes so much to make these kinds of videos. Nbs, I’m really excited for new journey... I really can’t wait to see you at your happiest 👏🏾

[@MsBre7]

I can’t imagine being married to a man that can turn so cold and evil. I wouldn’t wish that on my worst enemy. I’m so sorry you went through this. Im happy you’re passed it and on the other side now. Wishing you absolute abundance and happiness

[@berenicei.7283]

This is what I just thought. This is just a regular relationship. It's your whole husband, and they turn EVIL on you??? I would probably go crazy and not recover !

[@haylie.joy.2001]

I’m late to this comment, but that’s exactly how my ex husband was. He was the perfect guy. The perfect partner, the perfect best friend to me. And then very shortly after we were tied down in marriage, things just went so wack. Suddenly I was chasing him all the time, meanwhile he seemed he had little to no interest in me anymore. Basically overnight. It did make sense in the end, because I ended up finding out he’d cheated, and the cheating only continued but I wouldn’t wish that pain on anyone. Someone you 110% thought was your soulmate just turning their back on you when you did nothing but love and support them 😢

[@Jayxxxxxxxcc]

He was going on ski trips outside of the country but couldn’t help his wife pay the bills? Wow. Going halves on the storage ? He could have covered that at least. This is so sad. He only came back to you after cheating to boost his ego. He couldn’t take rejection & he didn’t want to deal with the consequences of his action. Definitely a narcissist

[@kK2K952]

He 100% moved you to his parents house because he knew he was going to try and end it. He didn’t want to commit to a new lease elsewhere.

[@biabia9181]

Cheating and I’m paying all the bills? I would’ve flipped the world over. The pros must’ve outweighed the cons because baayyybeeee. This is why men want younger women. They don’t know any better for themselves. So men can walk all over them. And men love that they can do that. It’s sick and twisted.

[@Greatness_]

I tell you!!! Lmfao the ultimate madness 😭

[@Heyu7her3]

Idk what the laws are in UK, but palimony can be a concern, too

[@queenieb7378]

BINGO.

[@Lulalily]

He truly sounds like a narcissist smh. I hate that this happened to you, but I’m so happy to see you thriving! I love seeing women come back from heartache better than ever 💚 Edit: If you weren’t the breadwinner, you could’ve taken him to the cleaners from this divorce. The disrespect from this guy is crazy 🤨

[@cherylkay1636]

Agreed! He is a narc 😫

[@Chosenfavor1]

Definitely a narc! All of the signs are there unfortunately 😢

[@dejawest3976]

honestly im loving this series..the amount of RELATION...omg we really need to pay attention to the red flags..we only got one life to live..dont let a man or a womans potential..stop us..keep healing and loving you frfr your vibe is refreshing af lol

[@kmarieking12]

AMEN!

[@mizzpeach01]

This!!!! I’m like me too sis!! Me too!!

[@d4i1ynn]

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[@Andrea9223-i6r]

It’s crazy too me how ALL women who’ve been cheated on feel the EXACT SAME FEELINGS. We can all relate to the same things.

[@cocoh2920]

Me too sis! This video resonated with me so much and it’s sad that so many women have to experience this.

[@OnlyLilynn44]

I hate how families always seem to be siding with the cheating husband. Always asking the wife to work it out, to stick it out, to stay, to help the husband stop cheating like… No ! He betrayed the marriage. He’s the one who broke his vows, so why is the weight of the marriage falling apart always on the wife’s shoulders ? Why is it that when she’s the one sad and crying and trying it equals pathetic, but when he cries and he’s the one sad and trying last minute, everyone rallies behind him ? This makes me so mad. 😤

[@_LilacRoses]

I literally almost physically shook and felt the unbridled rage you felt when you told your story. I've also been in similar situation, completely blindsided and heartbroken. It's the worst kind of pain. Lucky you didn't have any children in the middle of this. I had a child with my ex and it further complicates things as you can imagine.

[@allthingsloveone4584]

It's so sad that the older women (the mothers) encouraged you to remain in a financially, and emotionally abusive relationship. It's Patriarchy and the women who up hold it

[@jonelledaniels2602]

Yep sadly, it’s very common

[@blossomwinter]

Yeah that’s quite disheartening telling her your married and to try work it out yet he’s going around with other women didn’t consider his marriage then don’t get that

[@TarenesTalentTime]

IM SO GLAD YOU GOT TO THIS POINT IN YOUR LIFE WHERE YOU FEEL LIKE YOU CAN TELL YOUR STORY. YOUR HELPING SO MANY PEOPLE I APPLAUD YOU 👏🏾

[@myatrilszo]

Thissssss !

[@EniSays]

This woman is extremely healed. It takes a healed person to be able to be this transparent about even the embarrassing things you have done. God bless her

[@naoedouard4422]

I wonder if it's because ever since he first started cheating years ago, Dainá already had one foot out the door and had begun to heal then knowing the future of their relationship was uncertain.

[@twanaanjuli3217]

I watched you through this entire journey and as an empath and someone whose been through similar I saw you. His energy was equally telling. I hope people realize how powerful you speaking your truth and advancing your life is. Wait till the masses finally realize how you express your feelings so effectively through your music. It'll be way up from there. Don't ever quit, keep going. Happiness is truly a journey and not a destination. Stay consistent and your true fans will def support. We see your worth!

[@tychelol]

I feel that. I went crazy after dating a narcissist, he would accuse me of cheating constantly but turns out the entire time he was messaging other girls. I lost myself and became so insecure. I don't want to ever let a guy make me feel like that again. Glad you got rid of him.

[@Freethefeminine00]

This is so relatable for so many women. You’re real for sharing your story

[@shabbyLaw]

I'm starting to wonder have we all lived the same story because whooh

[@Freethefeminine00]

@@shabbyLaw sounds like he has a sex addition and you only hide it for so long.

[@jarricah7920]

So true😢

[@lookingfora6795]

true 😔

[@naoedouard4422]

I hope you have a good day, know that JESUS died for you and loves you so very much!

[@tehewhatthe]

This web series is devastating tbh but I hope it also feels like a satisfying sigh too not having to hide how hurt you were. Dainá you look great. The thing about love is if it was someone else going through it we notice it sooner and advise them to end it. However, when it’s our own relationship we often miss or ignore obvious red flags. Never mind, we live and we learn.

[@lalac1378]

Girlll! Keep talking make back all that money you that missed while having to hold this all in and be miserable. Once again so happy you are in better place and able to tell your story.

[@jamaicancewtie5]

Agreed!!! The redemption she deserves! So painful we KNOW how much she loved that man 🥺

[@aliyawnamarie250]

A relationship is never the same after cheating

[@eveheart2876]

Exactly. Make sure u have thicker skin. Cause seriouslsy , is punishing yourself and you neglect urself

[@itsdalora3006]

He was jealous girl!! He made sure you was down and he was thriving to drop you. SMH, and not only did he drop you, he wanted to make sure that no one else had you either. It was all about him and his EGO! He knew your worth. He didn’t want you to know it though.

[@baybeetricia]

A month into moving he wanted to be a single man?????? The way I'm cussing right now!!!!!!! 😡😡😡🤬🤬🤬 I really wish you had cut him loose then cause this is some BS! Don't let no one tell you that they don't want you more than once.

[@janellmaybank7402]

It's simple, he's a hardcore manipulator and narcissist. Them type of people will never change unless they want to. The best thing you did was leave him, otherwise he would have ruined you.

[@oseremeee]

I felt so sad hearing the part where you describe trying to save your marriage. There’s no shame/embarrassment sis, you loved that man & made a vow of commitment. In a time where less and less people value the institution of marriage there’s nothing embarrassing about that. You tried for your marriage and that shows the quality of your character.

[@judithogboru3808]

Not him saying “this ain’t me” when that’s literally been him the whole time. Some men are just sickening 🙄🤢. You really went through it in your whole relationship with him Daina and I’m really sorry about everything that’s happened to you. Thank you for sharing your story with us, lol it’s really knocking some sense into my head so I don’t even think to get back with my ex who’s cheated on me.

[@Caljay213]

My ex had a naked picture in his camera roll and it was recent. He tried to say his homeboys was sending him pictures and that they were old pictures

[@judithogboru3808]

@@Caljay213 why some men behave like this, I will never understand 🤦🏾‍♀️ I’m so sorry you even had to go through that babe, and good for you that you left that situation!

[@womanofvalor7]

May we not marry our enemies - Im so sorry you went through that and also happy youre giving your testimony!

[@heartlacies]

Jesus… did Ahmet even _like_ you? He couldn’t have, all of this sounds so hateful, it’s unhinged. To dangle you on a string and bleed you out like that, nah.. no one deserves that. Even to reduce you as a sex buddy towards the end is truly vile and he entrapped you as well. All of this is very toxic and very abusive, I’m sorry you went through all that.

[@mariasimone4141]

Typical narc behaviour it’s like the read the same book, deep down most of them are battling with their sexuality because it’s clear they don’t like or respect women.

[@CONGLOMERATE32]

Typical BLACK MALE behavior! Most are filled with self hatred so they really don’t have the capacity to love anyone else. That’s why they are treating their so called preferences just the same as they treat black women. They don’t care about anyone but themselves. Do yourselves a favor and choose you. Love is not traumatic, painful and leaves you a shell of your former self. Deprogram yourself of your toxic upbringing and let’s be the first generation of black women to finally choose ourselves over being mules to black males.

[@Caljay213]

Narcissist. I could see that in his smile

[@KayMens3]

My thoughts exactly

[@erykahleigh9139]

@@mariasimone4141 They LITERALLY read the same manual.

[@ruwaida9155]

The way my jaw dropped when he told you he doesn't want to be with you anymore. The audacity.

[@leonarita5220]

Listening to this is making me believe I have ptsd as I feel like its me going through it! Hearing these stories drags up long buried memories of similar situations I went through with my ex. Men really have no idea how traumatic it can be to be deceived by someone you love and trust. I'm so sorry this happened to you, but you are shining now girl!

[@adwoasam9237]

And yet they couldn't take it if a woman cheats on them. So, they understand what it does to us but cheaters don't care!!

[@vanessakennedy1420]

Literally felt this same feeling as she was telling this story

[@harveergataurda526]

10000% me too! Relationship ptsd is real

[@Lee-ii9mk]

@@adwoasam9237 It’s always double standards with many men when it comes to sex. Having a spicy past would trigger many to the point where they don’t see women the same anymore

[@tangiesingsssss]

No frrrrr !

[@StellaRaeVon]

Once a cheater, always a cheater!! I'm glad you got out of this relationship, I'm sorry it was a marriage. I'm sure you went thru so much heartbreak and heartache but it would have only continued... Now you can work on yourself and find yourself a man who knows how wonderful and priceless you are and treats you like the queen you are!!👑❤️♥️

[@amys5208]

This made my blood boil oh my GOD!! You are a real warrior for telling this story from anywhere but jail fr. This man intentionally set out to hurt and derail you and he was your HUSBAND!!! Like who needs enemies when you're loved ones are like this? ?

[@franceskirk5462]

We women get to a point where the man doesn't hold us down, he drags us down. So glad you realised that peace is being alone sometimes 🙏

[@xobee2534]

Best story times ever! I’m so invested. You’re one hell of a story teller! After following you for so long, it’s so eye opening to see what you’ve dealt with all these years behind closed doors. You’re one strong woman!

[@jadeviper4]

He really failed you as a husband. I feel like a lot of these men don’t know how to be proper men. So happy that you chose you and that your doing better. I’m cheering for you

[@idontgetpaidenoughforthis]

Not all us KZbin girls living the same life 🤣

GIRLLLLLL! we need to chop it up over some wine lol

[@ashleygrey7986]

My heart broke when you said you were doing everything to keep your marriage together and it was crumbling in your face. I went through the same exact thing.

[@superblife1126]

Many women go through this, glad you’re being transparent and letting it be know that this type of behavior is unacceptable!!

[@elizabethpawlowski2673]

The man didn't have the money to pay 50/50 but had the money for ski trip?? 😳

[@neisha9o4]

I EXPERIENCED THIS EXACT THING! Literally. My ex and I never married, but he literally did like EVERYTHING you mentioned your ex husband did. The ig, the friends helping him talk to other women, me losing my appetite and suffering depression, me spending hoursssssss online just stalking his every move. It’s embarrassing. Im glad you stuck to your guns and left. I told myself he was not my forever person after making a list of pros and cons about him. After reviewing that list it was obvious it was time to go and Idecided to leave. Cheers to new beginnings 💕

[@geisacarvalho61]

This is so crazy to watch & listen to cause I remember alllll these time periods/videos & vlogs! You’re so strong & I love seeing you prosper rn. You go girl!!

[@bindyb3594]

Thinking of your hurt brought me to tears, I hope this series turns your channel up and you get your reparations, so proud of you!

[@lanadavis5820]

Don't forget to like the video guys! Even if you don't like it lol. She deserves all the likes in the world! ❤️ Thank you Daina for sharing.

[@KoKoCola82]

Yo, thanks for the reminder. Hahaha. I actually just did after I read this comment

[@tajam4769]

I liked bc if this comment as well Lolol

[@destinymcgowan5328]

You are more forgiving than I think I could ever be. I feel like if you can look me in my eyes lie and then go out to cheat and try to sleep with me afterward, what else are you capable of?

[@wolfsisterhowls]

This! I just kept thinking throughout this video "Lord please let me NEVER love a man this much!" I just can't imagine a man looking me in my eyes and telling me he doesn't love me and not immediately going, "Bet." Begging him to explain and give a good reason? I just don't think my heart could take it!

[@MissKamara95]

@@wolfsisterhowls Same here- I’m out! I’m not waiting around or trying to see if you could change. I’m good

[@deepdivewithkhy]

It’s always the lowest moments, the times that make us feel the most shameful and embarrassed that we blossom in the most beautiful way. Been watching you since HS and aside from everything hurtful that you shared, what I heard the most from this series is a woman coming to terms with what she will and will not accept. No matter how long it took you to get it, you got it. And that my girl, is a blessing! Love YOU up Daina 🫶🏾

[@ruita3189]

That man is a literal physical manifestation of a demon, I am so glad you rid him from your life. The lengths men will go to suck the life out of you and try to turn you into nothing, when you are such a bright wonderful soul, a goddess if you will. They will never be able to be comfortable understanding the fact that women are powerful and we are the reason nations are built because we have the power to give life and to nurture. I'm glad you have become stronger from this and I hope you excel in everything you do and you become so big not to show off to other people but because you deserve everything good in life.

[@IndigoCosmic]

As someone who in my 20s took a cheater back only for him to do it again, I am now a firm believer of the saying "once a cheater always a cheater". I leaned a valuable life lesson from situation and will never, ever forgive a cheater again.

[@gayle3138]

He is a narssassist he tried to break you. I was in a relationship like that. The constant cheating,lies,manipulation,toxicity was just draining . I left and went back so many times before finally deciding to break free for good. The unfortunate thing is I didn't know what a narssassist was until I got older. Once I realize who he is ,he could never control me again . I left and never look back. I am so proud of you for being so strong . You deserve better for a husband. You're so beautiful and strong. I hope you find the partner you deserve some day.

[@keyanav24]

DAINA ! this is literally exactly like my relationship. it made me sad to hear this coming from you bc as a teenager i looked up to you and your confidence. as a girl i was like “this woman don’t take no shit” but i also loved hearing this journey bc it made me feel less alone. i don’t feel as ashamed for what happened in my relationship bc it happened to a woman that i thought was untouchable. i hope that doesn’t sound rude bc i mean it in the best way. my ex was insane. he couldn’t NOT talk to other women. i didn’t find out until 6 years in that he was a completely different person than i thought he was. i remember finding out about things he did and the pure shock and fear i felt. i’m so glad you were vulnerable enough to share this with us. it really is comforting to know that my situation isn’t unique bc for so long i felt like a stupid girl for having dealt with any of that bs.

[@Laura-sg6ss]

Aww 🥺🥺🥺 How did you find out?

[@Caljay213]

Sounds a bit shady

[@Caljay213]

Well didn't you hear about Beyonce

[@naoedouard4422]

I hope you have a good day, know that JESUS died for you and loves you so very much!

[@theohsospontaneous]

Guys, don’t forget to watch the ads, don’t skip any of them. Our good sis will at least get a hefty cheque off these videos. Daina, I’m so sorry you went through this. I’m wincing listening to this, mouth ajar. But I’m even happier you have moved on from that nonsense. You’re so much better than that and him.

[@eden3127]

it’s the way you could have broken this up into 15 videos and i would sit here n watch each one to the end. I’m so so so sorry he was a horrible piece of crap. You have a beautiful blessed life ahead of you that’s been waiting to be lived, entering your flourishing era now babes 💗💗💗💗

[@Kingofthenet2]

Yes girl ❤❤❤

[@CapriceBizzle]

This sounds so much like my ex who ended up getting diagnosed with BPD. Men will really break you if you let them. I’m so glad you survived this ordeal ❤

[@XactlyCeSe1]

I bet the first time she found out was absolutely not the first time he cheated.

[@youheard03]

I can’t even begin to imagine what he got away with throughout the years 😳😳😳😳

[@mikalabosetti]

Wow......... Daina I've been a silent watcher for sooooo many years. This? THIS? How you survived this???? You are incredible!!!!! So much love, light, strenght to you!!! Hope you chose therapy for yourself, and take time for healing yourself! Air out his dirty laundry. GET YOUR MONEYYYY!!

[@RicanPrincess888]

This is a wake up call for us the single ladies who crave other people’s relationship and feel insecure for not having it, we’re doing GREAT✨

[@StarringShameka]

Absolutely! 🙌🏾

[@Subllama]

This!!!!

[@wolfsisterhowls]

I've always said this. The more enviable someone's relationship looks, the less you should want it. Strong foundations are often peaceful and private, once it starts becoming content be aware that it's probably to compensate for something. (And this includes real life couples you know who won't shut up about how perfect they are for each other, not just internet content creators)

[@karmellla]

Being single after the trash I’ve seen and endured feels sooo relieving. No one to cause back to back stress and anxiety

[@misswhiskey9971]

​@@wolfsisterhowls🎯

[@lily-mariaosborne2117]

I’ve never related to a video/story like this in my life. Thankyou so much for being so raw and honest and keeping it 100% real. You’re giving other women who are going through this the opportunity to reflect and heal and understand they’re not alone. I hope you have healed Daina !!! You deserve to be able to live your life now and experience happiness ❤

[@Adelaidetornyenu99]

This hit way too close to home. Gave two years of my life away. Dealing with a narcissist ain’t for the weak.

[@yasminreid4507]

I started crying half way through because WOW you have been through so much.. I know the feelings and emotions you must have been going through during that time, made to feel less than, crazy making, manipulation and gaslighted! I’m so sorry. Praying for you’re happiness and peace because you truly deserve it Daina ❤

[@Goldhearted_]

Literally 😢liked he was a very skilled sadistic narcissist ! He stripped her of everything and then left. And to be taken back after cheating just to cheat MORE it’s giving revenge and power struggle! He’s sick in the head

[@boricuasloveme]

Ahmet is really a narcissistic, controlling, SOB. Is that why he came back on the channel saying the gave his life to Christ? 🥴. I am so sorry Daina that you went through this but thank you for opening up and sharing this with us. Your day ones know you are normally a private person but this is therapy and you are going to make it through this. Better and bigger than ever ❤❤❤

[@chelsea9641]

He’s lying he did not give his life to Christ. He’s full of it.

[@boricuasloveme]

@@chelsea9641 exactly. It’s ALWAYS when someone gets caught they say that. It’s sick smh

[@blujazjeans]

Standard narcissistic move 🙄

[@karmellla]

If anything, he gave his life to the devil. 10 years ago

[@chelsea9641]

@@karmellla right !!!

[@stylefabwill]

It's so weird that you were going broke and had a whole husband. Crazy 😐. Ahmed is hella weird and sounds narcissistic

[@xXxbaxroxXx]

And having his wife borrow money from friends while he was just living life

[@stylefabwill]

​@@xXxbaxroxXx even forgot about the part. Yuck!

[@Jerry.anthony.c]

1:57 - I couldn't look at him the same 5:00 - Mental Spiral 9:15 - I didn't trust him 10:40 - Trust 11:40 - Red Flag 12:20 - Trust. So important! 13:50 - Taking a cheat back. Consequences 15:15 - Back to Normal. Not easy 16:50 - Anger & resentment 18:30 - I wanted him to hold me down 20:00 - Moving to Parents house 23:00 - He's thriving while I'm stuck 23:50 - Shit divk move! 24:00 - I'm not in love anymore! 😯💔 26:00 - Couples therapy 26:20 - Saying hurtful things 26:40 - Being so cold 😢💔💔💔 27:30 - Crazy IG 28:50 - Pandemic happens. Stuck 30:00 - Being used for sex. 💔 30:35 - Desperation sigh. 31:10 - A good day. Happy day 32:05 - Phone and Tiktok incident 33:00 - Texting multiple women 33:40 - I felt like I died. 💔 34:25 - Heartbreak. Special thing 💔 35:25 - His boys complicit. 💔 36:15 - Playing her emotions. 💔 38:00 - Whatsapp web detective 39:10 - Betrayal. Deep! 39:45 - Rage manifests!!! Anger 41:25 - "I wanted to kill him". Yeah! That's rage and anger 42:00 - Why. Why. Why. 💔 42:30 - Flimsy Excuses. 43:15 - Message her friends 44:15 - Never amicable break 45:00 - Grieving & Crying 45:30 - Him Messaging & Calling 46:30 - Wanting to see me broken 47:57 - Direct question. 49:10 - It's too late. Late begging 50:20 - He won't leave me alone. 51:00 - 10yr Marriage. No fixing. 52:20 - "I'm going to change" 53:05 - "I'm believing him again" 53:40 - "I went back" 💔 54:40 - "I'm checked out" 56:25 - He sorted things out.

[@esvck]

thanks.

[@Sarah-zq6tp]

Love

[@starveilvalley]

Very random but its helpful

[@ZizYoubizHERE]

wow, I hope Daina see this comment. it lays it out so perfectly.

[@sophialeejhonson]

This is amazing 😭

[@Pinocicci]

Sounds like this guy tried to ruin you financially because of his ego and failure to be a breadwinner or equal partner in the relationship. You paying the bills and then moving to his parents house?? And then telling you he didn’t love you after he made you move out of your home?? He was an opp from the day he decided to cheat.

[@Justonevideoplease]

You look the best you’ve ever looked! Is that a coincidence??? No!!! He was holding you back! I think you can keep building and you’ll surpass anything you’ve ever imagined! Speak your truth and walk with your head high! He is a nasty jealous man! No one should want him after how he was with you

[@bridneymumford8133]

Idk if anyone else is thinking this but I feel like once he realized that you was not loaded with money any more it’s like he discarded you because you was not his cash cow any more smh he moved you out your house just to break up with you and make you damn near homeless 😢I’m sorry you went through this

[@nayatarot777]

textbook narcissist shit. and i don’t just throw that word around. his face should show up next to the definition 😭

[@patriciahercules6852]

He was a hobosexual.Just needed a place to stay.

[@bridneymumford8133]

@@nayatarot777 exactly this is some textbook narcissist behavior

[@nights-frankocean8750]

I’ve looked into narcissists a lot and he definitely sounds like one I’m sorry you had to go through that. The control and gaslighting he was putting you through is so heartbreaking he didn’t even have your back as a best friend let alone a husband.

[@Josie3387]

He begged for you back because having you back meant cheaper bills, in house sex and free domestic labor. Everything he said he was going to do fell flat as soon as he had you tied up because that's what manipulators do- say anything to convince you to get their own needs met. I KNEW the house thing was not going to happen and he had zero intention of making sure that happened.

[@NaturallyNicole]

I pray for nothing but blessings for you girl. I couldn’t imagine this happening to me and how I would react. I’m so happy to see that you have/are healing from it and I love that you’re telling us this in your own way on your time ❤️🥰 nothing but prosperity and healing your way