What an emotional journey this was! First time watching Crazy Rich Asians movie reaction

[@BaddMedicine]

This film was great! Didn't expect all the emotions that came with it. The cast knocked it out of the park! What was your reaction? What did we miss? Early Drops & Full Reactions on Patreon: www.patreon.com/baddmedicine Backup channel Subscribe here kzbin.info/door/1CLUwA27dz-94o3FR0o3xg

[@eb4771]

Please react to DC films. Dark Knight, Joker, Man of Steel, Batman vs Superman, Wonder Woman And Justice League(snyder cut)

[@123haninhk]

They didn't show the Singapore Changi Airport, which surprised me. It is a MAGNIFICENT airport. Among its attractions are a waterfall, a butterfly park, a rainforest, a movie theater, and more. The audience thought the film would show the whole thing when they arrived in Singapore. There is a KZbin video about the Changi airport that you can watch.

[@brianbarnett4368]

Hey guys love y'alls reactions and this movie is one of my favorites Rom Com or Chickflick movies. I think y'all should react to IP Man movie series it stars the great Donnie Yen as a marital art movie of Bruce Lee Master orgin story of the master od wing chun. I know y'all loved Kung Fu Hustle and imloved y'alls reaction. IP Man isn't like that, but its an amazing action drama and it has awesome fight scnes that showed Donnie Yen skills as an amazing fighter. Y'all should check it out and love you guys and LETS GO!

[@ryanchan6922]

Hey, glad you all enjoyed the movie. I noticed that the Answer and Mason, were confused by the "banana" comment by Awkwafina's character. "Banana" is used a pejorative term to call Asian Americans, who assimilated to American culture and are viewed as "moving away from their asian roots". The term banana is "Yellow on the outside, white on the inside", or they are "fake asians".

[@theduckchick]

​@Ryan Chan oh, that's interesting! I can relate to that because, as a Hispanic, I've often been referred to as a "coconut",

[@usdutchkitty]

It is very common in Asian media of the family “trope”, that you never see the Dad because he is working. Because a lot of the time, it’s true. A lot of fathers don’t have a lot of time. If you see how China and Japan have overwork exhaustion, especially in the corporate world, it makes sense.

[@caryns8389]

But in the book, wasn't he "working" in Australia, but mostly just chilling there away from the family?

[@usdutchkitty]

@@caryns8389 been a while since I remember the book but in a lot of Asian media, that is a huge media family trope. First time I saw it was in anime back in the 90s. They may be mentioned or seen once or twice but nothing after that. Always “He’s working late.”

[@piriyaj1347]

I live in Thailand. When I was young, my father came home only once a month. Most business/commerce provinces are near the river, and hotel/airport industry areas are along the sea/islands. So, working men have to be in those areas staying in an apartment or a small house. Women, children, and the elders in the family stay in the main house in the central region where good hospitals, prestigious schools, and governmental offices are. I think it’s the same in any country where the standard of things like schools/hospitals are unequal.

[@toniwhiteman5791]

The game is called Mah Jong. It's actually quite similar to canasta or bridge

[@lagofala]

@@toniwhiteman5791 with special multipliers for special hands too.

[@rebeccawhite2155]

The game at the end is mahjong. The significance of what Rachel does during the game is she gives away a piece she needed to win so that Nick's mom could win. When she shows all of her tiles before she walks away, its her showing that she didn't play to win like she teaches her students and like Eleanore references in their conversation when she says "Only a fool folds a winning hand." This one simple action shows that Rachel loves nick enough to let him go, that family is first, and that she's a lot more like Eleanore than Eleanor was giving her credit for. That game is what changes her mind about letting Nick marry her. I also just love Rachel's mom after all of this. That look back at Eleanor gives me chills!

[@kathyastrom1315]

Peik Lin was saying how Eleanor was so badass, but I think Rachel’s mom is just as badass. She went through hell with her first husband, has the nerve to walk away alone when she becomes pregnant, and gets herself to another country where she doesn’t speak the language, puts herself through school, and becomes a successful businesswoman. She’s amazing!

[@BestKeptPlans]

The look Rachel's mom gives Eleanor is so damn good! My favorite part of the entire movie. Makes me tear up every time!

[@AbuHajarAlBugatti]

You wanna play with ma jong? Lmfaoo

[@catherinehubbard1167]

Well said! They needed to know about what this Mah Jong game meant. It’s a brilliant scene, and it wasn’t in the book.

[@yssa1945]

p0​@@BestKeptPlans

[@gigglebuggy]

His mom giving up the ring was her own form of closure on the fight she could never fight herself. That part makes me instantly sob. Acceptance is the biggest form of respect.

[@aaron601]

The Green ring used in the movie is Michelle Yeoh’s personal ring. Michelle didn’t believe her character would wear any of the rings the production company planned on using and so she told the director she had a ring that was more appropriate. The director loved it so that’s what she wore. I’m sure the value of that ring has skyrocketed after being used in the movie.

[@luna498-h5z]

That ring is freaking gorgeous

[@patriciaroberts308]

This Emerald is top notch!!! The cut and setting is beyond perfection!!!! Thanks for the info, I had idea!! Emeralds are one of my favorite gems EVER!!!! I LOVE this ring and the way it was first displayed in this movie was breathtaking!!!! 💖✨

[@alexachipman]

Cool, I didn't know that detail!

[@romanzolanski6256]

I dont know why but that wedding scene really made me feel emotional every time.

[@KayaaaaDe]

I just feel bad for myself whenever i see that scene lol.

[@michelle6337]

Same! I'm not a super romantic person at all -- never fantasized about my own wedding or get ooey gooey over romance. But I get teary every time I watch that scene.

[@alexianigollarza3583]

me too!! I always cry watching it, dont know why. That scene was very well done

[@lizmagu3189]

I cry every single time I watch it..

[@Omonohoshi]

I've seen many "wedding scenes". The one that impressed me the Most and stayed with me was "Sound of Music". Then this one. I was "OMFG!!!!" WTLF!!!" LOL! This one tops SoM wedding scene.

[@the_nikster1]

Astrid is my favorite character in this movie. Not only is she gorgeous and classy, but she is so kind and she obviously cares so much about her family. I love how quickly she warmed to Rachel just because she knew how much she meant to Nick. Thanks for another fantastic reaction guys! ❤

[@E_btsot798]

I love the actreess who plays Astrid in the movie Eternals as well! I saw that movie before I saw Crazy rich asians and I was trying to figure out where I knew the actress for astrid was from....

[@fayesouthall6604]

Astrid is my favourite too.

[@haute03]

@@E_btsot798 Gemma Chan is so lovely! Great casting.

[@haute03]

Astrid is my favorite. In the books she's even better (if that's possible).

[@taylormalais5522]

I'd like to give some clarification to the post credits scene with Astrid. We don't see the exposition in the film, but in the book it is revealed that that guy is actually her former boyfriend whom she chose Michael over. So it's not a love-out-of-nowhere trope, but rather an old flame returned.

[@lungboy8980]

I think there was also supposed to be a spin-off TV show about Astrid so I assumed that's what that was for, but there hasn't been any news about it :(

[@hazri8758]

@@lungboy8980 yeah I completely forgot about it. It's been five years. I thought there would be a sequel or a spin-off.

[@caryns8389]

I think they're planning on doing a second movie, but Covid

[@sariel8406]

​@@caryns8389 i read recently that it's happening

[@E_btsot798]

He's played by Harry Shum Jr. who was in Glee and Shadowhunters! I want them to make a sequal because I want to see what happens next major cliff hanger moment right here!

[@MiciousDawn]

I don’t know if you guys realize how healing it is to watch you. Three masculine, grown, established men speaking with so much kindness and compassionate is something a lot of us need. Thank you so much for your presence and vulnerability ❤

[@magicmilestone]

Princess Intan was played by Kris Aquino, one of the most well-known Filipino socialites and businesswomen in the industry. Her presence in this movie was such a huge win for Filipinos worldwide, on top of this movie being such a smash hit that widened representation for Asians in general, throughout Hollywood

[@athenstar10]

🤣🤣🤣 NAAAH, Niko Santos IS the real Filipino rep their... and of course so as Astrid's helpers. Niko is doing his thing in Hollywood, like other real actors like Jacob Batalon (SpiderMan) and recently Dolly De Leon.

[@j134679]

Lol a rich person is not representation of a country riddled with poverty

[@georgiebennett3336]

this is so cringey my god. 😂🙄

[@magicmilestone]

@@j134679 literally, all I meant is that someone from the Philippines was featured in a big Hollywood movie which you don’t really see as often… you don’t have to take it so negatively. I’m a filipino myself so I’d like to think I know what I’m talking about and what it means to our country. You’re entitled to your opinion but all I was getting across was how proud we were to see someone from our country be featured in a film such as this one.

[@haute03]

The replies you're getting are extremely weird. I got what you meant.

[@MavenCree]

I love that Nick is not only a literal nice guy (and not the jerk type), but also a good man.

[@Serenity113]

I agree. However, I think he should have prepared Rachel better for his family a bit. Like the Ta Hua party? She didn’t even know it was a formal event . Just thought it was a normal family dinner. But that wasn’t done on purpose I know.

[@jemandjemand2362]

he is a loser

[@parad0x.76]

@@Serenity113sometimes rich people can be out of touch with the ordinary

[@jaimicottrill2831]

Although there was a lot he didn't tell her about his past. I can understand if its the beginning of the relationship, but he should have confessed all to her BEFORE they went to his home. Not just about his family's wealth but also the expectation that he was supposed to go home to run the business, that his ex girlfriend works for the company, there will be formal events etc. He totally let her be blindsided!

[@WhoDoYouKnow03]

I came for Harry Potter, and stayed for you guys. Love you guys and your discussions. Also loved Oak opening up. I feel like we all have a few movies, books, tv shows that connect with us on some deeper level. Keep up the great work guys

[@vjones4769]

Same

[@giselazavalap]

u must to see they Twilight reactions its soooo funny (speccially the last one)

[@Catherine______]

Same here

[@ASkyy166]

Saaaaame!! 😊

[@daisykim3674]

Same, i also discovered them through HP.

[@ParadoxFreak]

The Oak is such a teddy bear! I love watching this channel because all the guys are really open minded and will watch anything. Great video!

[@MavenCree]

I literally cry every time she walks down the aisle when the music cuts out. Every time.

[@molamola7093]

So glad I’m not alone with that reaction! It’s the most bonkers beautiful wedding!

[@kimy000]

Oak opening up at the end really got me!! Appreciate your stories always 🤍

[@davidbaye3758]

Thank you for the kind words Kim and apologies for the spam comment. We’re working on that! -Oak!

[@entrcpy]

Second comment to give my flowers to Oak. He always gives the little anecdotes that make these reactions feel human. What a good dude.

[@RazetheAxolotl]

Hugs to Oak! I love that you are able to share with us, and thank you to your buddies for saying "it's not weird to get emotional". Great reaction and discussion 💜

[@keiju.6289]

Absolutely!

[@Sthuthukile]

This is probably one of the few great romcoms of the 2010's. I lived for the Asian representation even though I'm Black, I love how they tell stories.

[@Zay2000-o8m]

Same I enjoyed the movie a lot I’m not a big person on romance films but this movie is just different it’s actually funny and the characters are actually well written

[@Tadpoli]

Answer immediately saying "It's never weird to get emotional" when Oak started getting choked up was so awesome. This channel sis o much more than just movie and show reactions, it's a really cool community, and you guys should be really proud of this little space you've created. This movie tackles some pretty hard topics, and Oak opening up at the end was really brave. You guys are awesome. Thanks for sharing these reactions with us. They're always so comforting and fun.

[@kymsat.h.o.t1758]

the wedding scene makes me cry every time. beautiful 🤩

[@noahhanson9476]

I completely relate from the boyfriend’s perspective. I’m gay and my family took years to accept my boyfriend because they couldn’t get passed the fact that he was a guy and they were very religious. I’m married now to this guy and my family has sort of accepted him, but they came a long way from where they were.

[@corneliahanimann2173]

Finding someone you actually want to spend your life with is something most people struggle with, so to hear that you have decided to walk this way with your boyfrienda nd now husband is such a nice thing to read about. It's a bummer that your family is missing out on the opportunity to just be happy for you.

[@cometgirl217]

Love that I saw this post and my first reaction was “oh, I bet the guys really enjoyed this one!”

[@mariakal605]

Really appreciate Oak opening up about his experiences! As someone coming from an Indian culture as well and personally experiences the frustrations of dating on a daily - the judgemental culture doesn't even go away when the other person comes from a family that supposedly "checks all the boxes"! I don't know if that helps, but I thought I'd mention it 😂 Real story: I once heard a set of aunts talking smack about a girl THEY had hand-picked at their nephew's engagement party!! It's wild. In many Asian cultures but especially Indian cultures, there's this concept that you're not just marrying an individual, but you're marrying an entire family - and with it comes the whole shebang of reputations and public image and et cetera. It's a vicious cycle! But fingers crossed that with this new generation, we have so many people who are finally brave enough to take a stand against those parental expectations and break those toxic cycles. I have seen numerous friends go through it, and while it's never pretty (especially when they're in LGBT+ relationships), it's still important and they're making it through to the other side, which is amazing to see. And it's making a difference for the next generation 🤞

[@rohinaiqbal7109]

As a Pakistani girl dating a white guy, I agree with your comment about marrying the family, and the cultural and social pressures of fitting into a box. It is unfortunate but you have to be brave to push things for the values and people you care about.

[@faureamour]

I'm glad you guys watched this. The wealth depicted in it is staggering. I can't imagine how Rachel felt. I love the commentaries at the end of your videos and especially that Oak goes last because I never know what to expect, but know it will be deep. Thanks for opening up. Looking forward to more deep social commentary in Avatar tomorrow, along with some good laughs.

[@이마크-r8e]

Something about 3 dudes reacting to this movie just makes me smile.

[@HeatRaver]

Regarding the mid-credits scene, the guy Astrid sees is her ex-fiance, from her college days. But her family wouldn't allow her to marry him. With Rachel and Nick making their relationship work, it gives Astrid hope to reignite that old flame.

[@saraann3281]

It's always refreshing to see Oak and his biceps end up being the most emotionally attached to the things you watch.

[@NinaG494]

You all do such a great job, but I really appreciate Oak’s vulnerability and transparency in the final remarks. Love seeing everything you watch definitely think the Devil Wears Prada should be on the list

[@cmlemmus494]

The amazing thing about this film is that it was made on a budget of $30 million. The director was offered more, but specifically wanted to show what could be done by filming in Asia. Oh, and the emerald ring is part of Michelle Yeoh's personal collection. She lent it to the production so that it would look real. Speaking of cultural differences, there's a great social psychology experiment that really highlight the differences between how East Asians and North Americans see the world. I'm going to try to simplify as much as possible: A 5-year-old child is shown a page full of stickers and asked to indicate their favourite. Their mother then indicates their favourite. The researcher shows their favourite (randomly generated). The child is then shown a selection of the three favourites and told they can keep whichever one they want. North American and European children almost always select the one they said was their favourite, then it's 50/50 with the other two. Asian children are 50/50 with theirs and their mother's favourites, almost never take the third. The point psychologically is that people in East Asian cultures grow up thinking of their family as an extension of themselves. Their mother's desires are just as important as their own. It's not that family is more important than the individual, it's that the individual is part of a family. It's a group identity. What's good for the family is what's good for the individual.

[@Codametal]

Big thanks to The Oak for sharing a part of his past that the movie had a profound impact on him. Yes, the movie is cultural, and may seem over the top for many western viewers. But for me being asian, it wasn't cultural enough, and I understand that it's a movie that needs to speak to a wider audience. Michelle Yeoh as the powerful mother figure is very accurate to many famiies because if the husband is away on business, it is the wife's responsibility to be sure everything in the household is run well and a tight ship. The family's reputation and image is very very important in that world they live in. And she also talks about building for generations, not for just the present. Which is very different than western culture. I've read all three books, and the reason they threw in that tiny credit scene with Astrid is because the second book is primarily about her. Astrid by far was my favorite character in the movie and the book. Thank you and your patreons for selecting this movie to react to.

[@nica7163]

To be honest, I always come for The Oak's comments. The other two are a bunch of wholesome goofballs and has great insights too but The Oak always has a lot of wise things to say. He digs in deep with his reviews and relates it to his experiences. I also watch their ATLA reactions and I love his comments there as well.

[@AbuHajarAlBugatti]

Oak is the Daddy we never had

[@ibts6519]

This movie really connects with me because I experienced the same judgement from my first boyfriend’s Asian mother. There was a real cultural clash and she didn’t want him to date me so she would tell him horrible things about my parents. He really fought to be with me, and I was prepared to go through it but it was a hurtful and damaging experience to go through. I always love to hear Oak’s perspective on movies and his own experiences. The depth of your reactions is so refreshing!

[@Mangolite]

The mid-credit scene with Gemma Chen’s Astrid looking over to the guy is Harry Shum Jr., who appeared in Everything Everywhere All At Once as Chad, the Raccacoonie Chef. Shum’s scene in Crazy Rich Asians played Charlie Wu-Astrid’s ex-fiance, who will have a more prominent role in part 2 of CRA.

[@hazri8758]

Still waiting for the part 2 though.

[@Carpathianpixie]

There's a part 2!?

[@Mangolite]

@@Carpathianpixie There are three books in the series. The movie was based on the first book of the same name. The other two books are China Rich Girlfriend and Rich People Problem. Due to the success of CRA, a plan for the sequels is underway.

[@Carpathianpixie]

@@Mangolite Thank you. I might have to add them to my TBR.

[@ssotkow]

Thank Oak for divulging your past. You're one of the most interesting reactors on KZbin, and i've seen many. We love you and keep up the good work on and off camera.

[@TokuRewinds]

I'm not one for romantic comedy, but being Asian I love seeing all these Asian actors in one film and it was funny and entertaining. I cannot wait for the next movie. I love that there's so many Marvel actors in this lol

[@kaybouie1972]

Finally!!! its a hoot. plus all the cultural things are prefect. the aunties knowing everything. the mom's saying "you're fat" instead of i love you or miss you. and the Mahjong game. i grew up around family's like this going to celebrations and family functions; this movie was dead on. will always be one of my favorites.

[@EliiVelez]

I appreciate you a lot, Oak. Thank you for opening with us ❤️

[@zazalula9064]

His mum let the grandma raise him so Nick would be the favourite grandchild and receive the privileges that come with that. It was all planning on her part.

[@franciscao1380]

I came for the reaction to Crazy Rich Asians, and Oak's opening up really got me. I've been through a similar situation, and it took me time to reclaim my security inside. It is the point why CRA is not only a great romantic comedy. I am happy not to be alone in this.

[@achmadrahman4890]

What is Oak means?

[@jpachu16]

The Oak opening up about his past and relating so much to the movie made me really like this commentary/channel. I know not everyone can relate to an Asian oriented story but him sharing his story really added a depth of understanding that I really appreciate from this channel.

[@TheMaskedChef7]

I never want to spend that much on a wedding infact I prefer no wedding but this was an absolutely stunning wedding the running stream and botanical gardens theme was magical.

[@nikwalters1029]

Wow, having this movie hit Oak is surprising yet touching. That's why I love movies and books, as it can be surprising what resonates with people. Edit: I need to read the books but Nick always kinda pissed me off with how naive he was with how unprepared he allowed Rachel to be and didn't help her with how she would have to adapt. Astrid's husband felt like he wasn't enough but instead of dealing with it he then turned around and made her feel like she was too much meaning not enough for him. It also sucked that it impacted his relationship with his son.

[@crystaladams8214]

I love that The Answer reassured Oak and reminded him "Its never weird to get emotional". I love that Mason and The Answer listened intently.I love that Oak was able to open up. I started watching you guys because of the Harry Potter series and stayed for the long run! I was taking to my husband yesterday about this channel. I didn't have the privilege of having a good father, brother, or uncle, but if I did, it would have been a privilege if they were anything like you guys. Keep doing what you're doing. Thank you for all that you do. Mentally and emotionally it's been a hard year however, this channel has brought some sunshine to the cloudy days. 47:24

[@roxysdg334]

They were playing Mah-jongg in the end. Rachel is an Econ professor specializing in GAME THEORY.

[@gennafer]

I love how The Oak always surprises me with his reactions.

[@tammyparsons5656]

Oak your a beautiful soul, and it's ok to be in your feels. Many blessings to you. All of you.

[@AnimeJT-08]

As an Asian American woman I never thought I would live to see the day where I would see full cast Asian Movie

[@andyandys5356]

Watch warrior it's a series with mostly Asian cast

[@jazziered142]

Have you not seen the Joy Luck Club? It's one of the best movies ever.

[@CatharticCreation]

The Oak always finds a deeper meaning in these movies

[@imsokeiko]

This is one of my comfort movies, so glad to see you react to it. My friend is currently in Singapore and she went to that bar at the top of the big building they had the ending party at. The view is just as gorgeous as you'd think

[@p-forest]

I forgot how fun this movie is, glad you guys watched it. And FYI, when Awkwafina was saying the mother might see her as a 'banana,' among Asian Americans means 'yellow on the outside, white on the inside.'

[@LS13.]

Honestly a REALLY well put together movie. Just enough of humor, romance, plot with backstory and culture. Ngl this one was worth the hype when it came out. It’s a great movie. I ALWAYS cry at the wedding scene depiction, no idea why but it’s great. Love your reviews at the end! Glad to hear about some of Oaks story

[@Valeria-hy1ey]

Thank you Oak for always being so honest and open with us in sharing your feelings and experiences!! 🙏

[@0FynnFish0]

I love your reactions especially to those movies that you don't usually see three buff dudes watching or reacting to! Two more movies that also applies to and that are absolutely amazing are Pride and Prejudice and Mean Girls!

[@ItsAsparageese]

Conventionally masculine men reacting to underratedly good "chick flicks" and sentimental films is my absolute favorite genre of reaction content lol. I'd L O V E to see these guys watch the iconic "just some dumb blonde movies" trifecta of Clueless, Legally Blonde, and Bring It On. Some aspects of each (especially Bring It On) aged poorly but they're all objectively fantastic movies with solid messages and I love seeing guys normalize being able to appreciate them. (Shoutout to the Movie Budz and Reel Rejects for, along with these bamfs here, being the "wholesome guys normalizing wholesome masculinity" trifecta of reaction channels lol)

[@kathyastrom1315]

Calvin Wong, who played Peik Lin’s brother PT, was on the podcast School of Movies. I highly recommend checking that episode out, because he had a lot of great stories about filming as well as about Singapore and Malaysian culture that shows up on screen.

[@uncchristine99]

Wow Oak!! Your final commentary made me tear up. You're absolutely right about generational trauma and it was super interesting for me as an Asian American watch the three of you watch this movie. I think most Asians think it was okay--yeah, it touched on some things that are common among Asians but it was still a light touch and only showed rich, educated, light-skinned Asians so from a representation standpoint, it hardly breaks any barriers or stereotypes. I really enjoyed your reaction though bc I realized how important cross-sections of identity are. Americans love the idea of pursuing happiness and chasing passions. Asians love legacy and legacy is built on power and influence so families are the number one agent for those. As an Asian American, I often felt like I had to temper my individual hopes and dreams especially when it went against the grain or typical expectations of what a young woman of my ethnic group should be like. Like Rachel, I went around unapologetically American because that's what I believed. I'm 40 now and even though I still side with Rachel in this movie, there's a newer part of me that understands Eleanor even though I still don't agree with her. To me, it's understanding what you're in and the power of the decisions you make. Oak, I'm really happy for you bc it seemed like this movie helped you come to a new understanding of your own past situation and I think you're right--in the face of everything, she still chose you so you were worth everything. ❤

[@wittleMermaid13]

I loved the Oak opening up the end there. This hit home for me, too. So glad you guys picked up on all the nuances especially with the layers of Eleanor's character and how she continues to be judged by her own MIL. One of my favorite scenes that doesn't get touched on a lot is when Nick and Rachel are talking after the disastrous bachelorette party. He owns his mistakes and they were receptive to each other and it was a very mature conversation - this is the gold standard. I rooted for this couple because they had a wonderful non-toxic relationship.

[@brendajmurphy]

The opening scene was actually a look-back to decades ago in London when Nick and Astrid as kids were brought there by both their mothers for Boarding School, that was why they had to stay in a hotel. Also, Nick and Astrid are first cousins, not siblings. Astrid's Mom is the sister of Nick's Dad.

[@IslesYankeeLady]

The director always had an intense response to Coldplay’s “Yellow,” considering obviously having to navigate the stereotype of the color of Asian skin tones his whole life. He asked Coldplay if they could use it. At first I believe they were concerned it may not be the best idea coming from White singers, but the song meant so much they agreed. The translation as far as I know isn’t exact. It’s beautiful though. It makes me cry. I’ve never listened to the song the same way again.

[@johnklin]

First time watching your channel. Really enjoyed this reaction video and very impressed with The Oak opening up so emotionally about his own personal experience.

[@BaddMedicine]

Thanks for giving us a shot! 🤙🤙🤙

[@alexachipman]

This is an awesome channel, some of my favorite reactors!

[@crystal_snow875]

THANK YOU🥹 I so love that you all laughed and FELT as much as I did!!! I probably cried for more than half the movie but knowin y’all really took it in and enjoyed makes me wanna cry again!!!! WOO HOO ! Patreon is the best for voting this to win and YOU THREE are the best for watching it for us all🤗💜 Also I get major identity crisis being half asian (vietnamese) but raised by a single mother (shes the asian one) who let me be whoever i wanted and dating someone Vietnamese and trying to live up to their family’s expectations of culture and language 😢 The movie is so relatable to so many situations

[@chillsimmer1471]

Wanna give The Oak a big hug for opening up the way he did!! That takes a MAN to not just acknowledge it but to discuss your past!

[@arjunks316]

Happy to have heard Oak's story. I will take it as a life lesson. Thank you.

[@robinmatz6686]

Aww I love this movie. Its based on the first book of a trilogy, and in the books the dad only ever briefly shows up. He doesn't have the biggest role anyways, pretty much spends his time in Australia, fishing and drinking coffee coz the hussle in Singapore doesn't interest him one bit and he is truely wealthy enough to afford not to care. There was also a pretty important deleted scene, at the end in the montage where Eleanor goes to visit her son in the hotel. They have a brief conversation about their principles in the past, where Nick tells her that he understands her motives, but he wishes she understood that he needed his mom sometimes too. Of course he loves his grandma, but it wasnt the real thing for him too. I hope they make the next 2 books too, especially the third gives great insights into the Ah Mahs past, which I extremely want to see on the screen.

[@katherinebaxter6870]

Thank you for sharing Oak, and never apologize for feelings and emotions. It is important to acknowledge those things. Loved all of your reactions. ❤

[@paulineandrushuk8923]

Thanks guys, it was fun to watch your reactions. The Oak shares some deep emotions.

[@gracebrown3074]

The game at the end that they are playing, it’s actually really interesting because instead of Rachel choosing to win she actually let the mum win instead. Which is so powerful, just so crazy in context of what she is talking about! Such a good movie.

[@u140550]

wow being asian i'm happy y'all watched this, and its great to see your pov. i'm glad you understand the nuances of the culture; along with things that relate to others.

[@aishiteruikioi]

Wow, I never expected this to have such a respectful, insightful, emotional review at the end. I just found you guys so I don't know your names, but thanks especially to guy on the left for sharing his personal stories.

[@cniknik9863]

I, too, was waiting for the dad to show up. I think he wasn't shown to show how much family responsibility and pressure Eleanor has to take on alone without him, the same way Rachel has to deal with Nick's family without him too. But definitely wish there was a scene with Nick talking to his dad and Eleanor with her husband to get family resolution. But I guess in real life that rarely happens.

[@laurynblake3824]

Answers wheeze when he laughs is my favorite thing. I need like a compilation 😭

[@jenndevault741]

literally one of my favorite movies!! amazing reaction as always guys, good job

[@cozydayzandnightz]

It was interesting listening to Oak talk about his experience. As an adult, I've only ever dated far above my class once and while, and it's great, until reality kicks in. If you're prepared for it ahead, I'm sure it can work out, of if you're like me, you find out the hard way. Wealth aside, there's a huge power imbalance, and it can sneak up on you. This was a great movie, but yeah, uncomfortable memories, I guess.

[@bologneseprince]

This just made my thursday

[@globetrekkerfromCA]

Enjoyed your reaction a lot but the Oak opening up & giving such insightful commentary really took this to another level. So glad I came across this!

[@ttscream]

Yes, the song is Coldplay’s “Yellow.” Coldplay is notorious for not giving permission for their songs to be played in other forms of media. Director John Chu was able to convince them to use the song for the movie due to what the color yellow represents to Asians growing up. For cultural context, the color is significant in the Asian diaspora in a negative context. Using the song for the movie helped present the complex relationship Asians have with the color. As an Asian American, the song and the movie hits home with the distinct discrepancy of feeling not American enough, but also when visiting Asia, not being Asian enough.

[@SD-hv2vl]

What the Oak said at the end really resonates with me. I'm Asian and I'm going to America this Fall for college and I already know that it's not a good idea for me to date an American guy 'cause no matter what, he will never be invited to family dinners.

[@milicajovanovic9141]

Love how she is all we put family first and Nick's father is living it up in Australia, the grandma basically forced Elenor to give her the son.

[@patriciaroberts308]

One of THE best wedding scenes in the movies EVER!!! IMO 💖✨ I LOVE this movie!!!!

[@freespirit2449]

Finally saw this recently myself and really enjoyed it. Glad to see you guys enjoyed it too!

[@mccdreamys]

I feel like y'all would love the Maleficent duology! It is very action based for Disney movies imo!

[@bobomstyles3810]

Thank you Oak for sharing your stories, i could listen to you talk for hours 🥰

[@eatsmylifeYT]

This reaction is awesome. Three dudes watching and actually liking this movie.

[@alexianigollarza3583]

loved how you catched the thing with the message at the beginning and I loved all the laughs you had. I loved the discussion at the end. Thank you Oak for openning up with you friends and to us, you are amazing and it was incredible to see how you learned from a romantic comedy becuase not everyone would have been willing to do so, so cheers for you. I was surprised when I saw this movie coming this week and I loved that you loved it! p.s The sister was actually the cousin.😂 P.s.s guys I know you have TONS of movies being recommended to you but would you be willing to watch "Your name"? it is a very emotional anime movie, it is perfection!!

[@__Peace__]

Yes plz watch Japanese anime, they're the best! and (Your name) is a great emotional movie with a shocking plot twist! Also, maybe you could watch anime series like ( Vinland saga) you'd be amazed at how real, epic and great it is!! 🥰 And ( Attack on Titan )

[@alexianigollarza3583]

@@__Peace__ we need to make a campaign for Your name!! I was going to tell you to recommend me some good anime, but you already did😎 adding those to my list

[@hamitokia]

That little side story about the husband feeling insignificant and not enough caught me the most. Reminds me that working at the insecurity within myself is my job. Not somebody else. People around me are not supposed to diminish themselves to keep me happy and comfortable. Deeply appreciate Oak's sharing, and him catching this little side story. 👍

[@katemoon1594]

This is a deep movie that i didn't fully know how to enjoy or appreciate the first time. The second time, Rachels strength as a character & the tragic irony of Eleanors' story really sunk in. Just a great departure from your average romcom with so much more to offer. ❤

[@Edmqueen]

Oak, my guy, your story breaks my heart!! We've all been there in some way or another. I love who've you've become!! xoxo from Canada

[@MavenCree]

Yes, that is the Mandarin version of Cold Play's "Yellow".

[@La-elise-a]

you guys are such a safe space. love the emotions andthe answer saying it's never weird to be emotional. always gives me hope to find other men like you guys out there

[@jaedo6180]

As an Asian, I was happy to see so many Asians on the big screen, and with no martial arts! Although I admit, Crazy Broke Asians would've been more relatable to me and my family!

[@lizlyrics3399]

This is one of the most beautiful,sweet,romantic movie i have ever seen. The couple is so cute,nothing toxic about their relationship and so full of love. And what makes this movie so good is the fact the is not just about their relationship,there's some focus on others characters too.

[@daverowe03]

Answer, when you mentioned all of the actors in this movie, you forgot a couple. Gemma Chan who played Astrid was Sersi in Eternals. Also Michelle Yeoh was in "Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon" along with the recent things we've seen her in. It was a great movie that you guys need to watch if you haven't.

[@zaidatulakhmal]

Tq for sharing your story Oak. Great reactions from Bad Medicine ❤️

[@loohdz1290]

My favorite part of my working hours. Work while Watching your videos. Henry Golding… so dreamy 🥰🥰🥰

[@Spideymence]

9:04: Love how she is following the 3 time rule while being invited

[@melanie62954]

I've been a big fan of Michelle Yeoh since Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon. It would be amazing if you guys would react to that! Possibly the best fight choreography I've ever seen in any movie.

[@MarinaAngelska]

I have watched a lot of movie reaction channels but have never subscribed to one until I found you guys. Your insight and discussions really bring something new to this type of videos.

[@catherinetong4472]

One if my favorite rom-coms! Love how it gives different prespectives. Great reaction. Thank u for opening up at the end, its great to see how movies can help us reflect back on ourselves.

[@vadalia3860]

I love this movie, it showed some great friendships (Rachel & Aquafina's character, Nick & Colin) and family relationships even in the midst of the not-so-great ones. That wedding scene gets me every time!

[@believeume122]

Omg I smile everytime I see your uploads, such good picks. I love this movie!!!

[@liaaaaa13]

i cant wait for the sequels, hope its happening soon!