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@SeaShellsSeaShells898 жыл бұрын
Now THIS is the real and true Islam! This is why I respect Nouman Ali Khan so much! He understands Islam the way it should be understood and practiced upon. Alhamdulillah.
@bayyinah8 жыл бұрын
+Nick Randall May you continue to benefit from this channel.
@emranhotak28354 жыл бұрын
Me tooo
@ifrahhasware57454 жыл бұрын
Even i was searching the truth. Our so called desi maulvis always talks in favor of man n pose as if woman is bad if she doesn't serve her inlaws.. This logic never satisfies me as marriage is a need for men n women n it should not be trampled by forcing women to do things for her inlaws which she finds burdensome...
@chummychimchim4 жыл бұрын
A woman owes her in-laws nothing. The main culprit in this situation is the husband. He should do absolutely whatever it takes to give his wife a house of her own. Even if it's a tiny tiny tiny house.
@user-hu5wi9lr3f8 жыл бұрын
Amazing..I wish they could broadcast this on a loop in every home until it finally registers in people's minds.
@maryamhussein88348 жыл бұрын
+Nik A hahaha!!
@JBA2928 жыл бұрын
+Nik A yeah i want that too.
@Eugenepanels8 жыл бұрын
+Nik A or give them a taste of thier own medicine humans tend to understand this a lot better hate injustice
@romanavlogs56137 жыл бұрын
Nik A right
@marnie7308 жыл бұрын
"daughter-in-laws being turned into maids". Dear Allah, You know what they did and you know whatever happened. You see the wounds on my soul. And I don't forgive them.
@yahussain12727 жыл бұрын
Tch Tch 😢😢
@zflaw72775 жыл бұрын
I felt what you said
@aliyaa345 жыл бұрын
Nazesh Fahad May Allah alleviate your difficulties my dear sister, Ameen. I know it’s a bit late but your comment made me tear up and I hope you are doing fine 😢💗💗
@vazedashaikh61275 жыл бұрын
Let's forget and forgive and move on sis, Allah will take care of everything...u need to get out of these as soon as possible coz u deserve the best life ..Ameen !
@syedfarzanulhaque35174 жыл бұрын
@@redlilly2584 our prophet S.H.A.W. said none of us will enter jannat with our deeds alone not even me.we need to forgive people in this dunya so that we can ask allah to forgive us in the day of judgment.
@naymabintabubakr69768 жыл бұрын
Subhanallah, it's so sad to hear sisters being treated like slaves inside their homes. I pray that Allah makes it easy for them and grants them jannatul firdaws Ameen.
@bayyinah8 жыл бұрын
+Nayma Bint AbuBakr ameen.
@mermaidaclee29838 жыл бұрын
Aameen ya robbalalamin ..
@SeaShellsSeaShells898 жыл бұрын
Ameen.
@gumaddict57198 жыл бұрын
Ameen
@UmmMuhammad12348 жыл бұрын
+Rida Merida ameen
@alizehmalik18724 жыл бұрын
And my in laws say that after marriage u don't owe any responsibility to your parents but to them. May Allah guide then and help me out of this situation
@dachampmaz8 жыл бұрын
That 'acha' at the beginning :D
@hifisumz8 жыл бұрын
Hahahaha! Yes it was so cute!
@aroojsiddiqui1248 жыл бұрын
hahaha made me laugh too!
@mahrukhabid8618 жыл бұрын
+uroojali19 same 😂
@ghousiasarwath1237 жыл бұрын
DA CHAMP hahaha yeah 😂
@QuranwithRain7 жыл бұрын
It made me laugh
@amiineu18508 жыл бұрын
This is why you meet the family to find out if their following their culture or Islam.
@Myview2464 жыл бұрын
yes. this is why you also set the bar BEFORE arranging the wedding. do not agree to live with his parents if you do not want this, wife has the RIGHT - yes the RIGHT - to demand separate accommodation.
@ifrahhasware57454 жыл бұрын
They pretend to be religious as soon as you get married they start showing you their true colours. I also got trapped by their innocence
@KM-wi1sc8 жыл бұрын
Every other sister has these issues. If it's not the in laws, it's the man twisting the deen to oppress her. I hope the current generation learns from the mistakes of the previous generation instead of repeating the same cycle over and over again. Marriage is supposed to be a partnership built upon mutual love, respect and support. Treat your wife/husband the way you want to be treated.
@bayyinah8 жыл бұрын
+Khadija M Mashallah.
@SeaShellsSeaShells898 жыл бұрын
Yes! Exacty! Men manipulate and twist the Deen and do injustice to their wives. They will be questioned harshly on the Day Of Judgement, In Shaa ALLAH.
@romanavlogs56137 жыл бұрын
justame smith what is Allah's commandment again?
@ammar6757 жыл бұрын
justame smith I'm sorry what are you doing here again?
@yahussain12727 жыл бұрын
K M you took the words out of my mouth my husband treats me horribly and says its our culture and that i have to deal with it 😢😢
@suveeraamin51008 жыл бұрын
JAZAK ALLAH KHAIR FOR CLARIFYING THAT A MARRIED WOMAN IS ONLY FIT TO SERVE HER OWN PARENTS AND NOT HER IN-LAWS, WHICH IS AN EXTREME INJUSTICE BESTOWED UPON HER BY THE HUSBAND IN A DESI JOINT-FAMILY SYSTEM. MAY ALLAH (SWT) GUIDE THE MUSLIM UMMAH, AMEEN.
@romanavlogs56137 жыл бұрын
Yes. But unfortunately there are still lots of families where such things are still prevalent. You know the problem is- a WOMAN tries to compromise, this is taught to girls from the beginning but to boys, such things are never taught. Which is why they don't care. However, not every man is bad, but most of them are unreasonable to their wives. Allah ne kitni khoobsurti se saari cheezon ko, saare haqon ko Quran me btaya hai, kitne tafsir me btaya hai Lekin ham khud se poochen ki ham kis raah pe chal rahe hai, ham apne zinndagiyo ke saath Kya kar rahe hai? Khud se poochen insan, ki use jannat chaiyye ya .....??
@achiever95604 жыл бұрын
@@romanavlogs5613 sahi kaha ladkiyon ko hamesha kaha jata hai sabr karo varna sasural me nahi reh paogi 😂😂😂😂 khud parents hi galat sikha rahe hain betiyon ko. May Allah give them hidayah.
@farhiyaa48807 жыл бұрын
This should be titled desi marriage culture...not women's rights. The answer is simple don't live with your inlaws. If they want a maid than hire one to work.
@MrHussain19985 жыл бұрын
Agreed but it happens a lot in the middle east as well.
@CatzyTeCk5 жыл бұрын
Tell that to the husband. Even when the wife is pregnant in-laws want to put the name to her children, disliking all the names she likes... and husband supporting his parents. Where’s the respect? Wife does everything in house and also work outside look for kids n her in laws and then she becomes a maid...
@flappyBoi5 жыл бұрын
Phir husband ko sunn na pare ga "pehlay maid lana ka khyal ni tha ab wofe aa gai to maid b le aaya"
@alizehmalik18724 жыл бұрын
@@CatzyTeCk exactly I completely agree with u like totally moreover my in laws literally forbid me to have any ties with my parents. It's like I live in a boarding school where I have to wake up on the time they ask me to go to my room for a specific amount of time and then expect me to work like a maniac on my pregnancy. The worst part isn't even this the worst part is that my husband doesn't even acknowledges that my in laws r wrong and they can't do this with me. How could anyone expect me to cut off ties with my family my parents my siblings like how??
@CatzyTeCk4 жыл бұрын
Alizeh Malik fell to ur parents what they are doing with you n ur baby. It’s an huge abuse. Seek for help in your family try to stay in their house more Time so u can rest. Don’t allow your in-laws to treat you that!! If i was you I Would run to my parents house! Make a drama or ask help u can’t be in that condition n even pregnant u can lose ur baby they want a maid tell them to hire. We have to obey husband but when he is wrong u do the right thing, don’t put ur life n ur baby in risk because of people like that!
@jlamaya834 жыл бұрын
This is so relevant and timeless! I'm saving this and sharing everytime I hear/see discouraging things of this faith. Horrible stereotypes and fear mongering can be defeated with truth like this. True faith in good people.
@HakunaMatata-fc9vx5 жыл бұрын
You're so near yet so far...I listen to you all the time with awe and respect. Allah bless u:)
@syntaxDE8 жыл бұрын
Brillant as always. Ma sha Allah!
@afnanshaikh53118 жыл бұрын
Alhamdu lillah
@IP1995IP8 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video. I can relate 100% to this video. Especially when it comes to the joint-family part and the sister in laws.
@xnazir18 жыл бұрын
Thank You So much Ustad Nouman Ali Khan. This was a very informative and beneficial talk.
@AlgerianDoll238 жыл бұрын
OMG ! thank you for this video a million times
@kamraz54745 жыл бұрын
Nice ma sha Allah. May Allah reward you for this message.
@gonjak47468 жыл бұрын
masallah. this is so good to know. thsnk you may allah bless you and your family. amin
@bayyinah8 жыл бұрын
+Gonj Gonj ameen.
@777malik8 жыл бұрын
May Allah make it easy for all of us................... its a cultural thing...... we need to avoid mixing culture with religion if the culture goes against the teaching of Islam...
@wonderfulworld26788 жыл бұрын
wa alaikum assalam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu, Masha Allah , may Allah azzawajal grant you all the goodness of this world and akhira , ameen ya mujeeb ad duaa. A very common issues in families solved in the best possible way layed out by Islam and explained to us by Bro. Nouman Ali in awesome manner. Jazak Allah Khairan kaseera.
@shaheenjamal45565 жыл бұрын
Masha Allah beautiful speech...
@shifasaira39434 жыл бұрын
thank you now this is islam when i look other videos of islamic i think thay islam is very hard but you are best you made me happy
@BlessedByAlMighty8 жыл бұрын
May Allah reward all of you for what you are doing. May Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala help us to understand. Inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi raji'un.
@bayyinah8 жыл бұрын
+Akbar Nauabi Ameen.
@asifmuhammed6115 жыл бұрын
Masha Allah very well explained 👍👍👍
@leeanne07164 жыл бұрын
my husband siblings have tried to destroy my reputation but i took the high road and remained kind no matter what they did to me. burn my clothes, poison my shampoo with cleaner....long story short, they respect me now and see my faith is strong and that my morals are clean by being a good muslim. alhumdulilah. its not easy but the sunnah is the right way all the time.
@mrsshoaib91875 жыл бұрын
I am really confused in my life regarding my husband , in laws and parents ... I am stressed 😥 May Allah bless me with all the answers of the questions that I have in my mind
@wishkashmer57014 жыл бұрын
Don't worry about anything... and don't take any stress....ask help from Allah SWT with Sabr and with Namaz....plus get busy in things you like ..make yourself beautiful...stay strong and keep in touch with Islamic Women rights lectures etc ..may Allah SWT ease your pain Ameen inshaAllah 💞
@mrsshoaib91874 жыл бұрын
JzakAllah
@Humanity8942 жыл бұрын
Don’t ignore the rights Allah gave you in order to please human being you will never be able to please human beings
@shizasworld.97363 жыл бұрын
Very well explain brother. This is Islam Masha Allah. May Allah bless all of us with health and happiness ameen. 🤲🤲🤲👍👍
@misbaahshaikh18132 жыл бұрын
so true 😢😢 amazing explanation I feel everyone should follow islam properly
@niceone22414 жыл бұрын
Finally, this is the answer everyone.... The daughter in.law shouldnt be treated as a maid and then u say that this is what islam wants, no that is ur family wants. Barakallah syeikh nouman for the speech.
@achiever95604 жыл бұрын
😨 So here I am a scared teenager after reading the scary comment section looks like I shouldn't marry in future 😨 bcoz yes its true it happens in India....*sigh* so its a request from a scared teenager😂 Pray for me that May Allah give me a good husband and good in laws of my choice in future and I'll pray for all the girls❤
@suhanadevalapur87664 жыл бұрын
I will pray for you pray for me I am too scared that if I marry a man and after a period of time when he get bored from me he will marry another woman though islam allows men to marry 4 I dont even share my dress how can I share my husband 😔😔😔😔
@creativeideas0124 жыл бұрын
Start preparing a list of criterion that you want in your spouse It shouldn't be a problem for the other party If it is then you aren't meant to marry into that family Firstly marry the one with the best deen, the other favorable qualities come only next Secondly, you don't have to marry someone unless you are sure will be able to provide for you better than your father, mind you provide does not stand for monetary provision alone. It's more to do with emotional & physical support. Thirdly you need to make sure you & the other party both communicate each others wants & future plans clearly. That'll be quite sufficient as compatibility test. Once you have made a decision, must pray istikhara & then proceed Fourth
@thegreatbilli69743 жыл бұрын
Better to study and gain knowledge than thinking about marriage and husband . May allah bless you with correct direction first .
@thegreatbilli69743 жыл бұрын
@@suhanadevalapur8766 lol why don't woman dream about being Independent? Why always think about marriage and husband?
@achiever95603 жыл бұрын
@@thegreatbilli6974 lol who told you that woman always think about marriage and husband? If you are watching a video about marriage then the comments will surely be about marriage if the video is about cooking then the comments will also be about cooking what's wrong with u? and if a man or woman is independent it doesn't mean that he/she shouldn't think and be careful about his/her spouse.
@Dina-M.14095 жыл бұрын
Totally agree with nauman Sir mashallah this is true Islam
@festnoz72018 жыл бұрын
MashaAllah!
@6rockinrobin8 жыл бұрын
Jazakh Allah khair! Amazing quality on this video! :D
@anaamsaher50734 жыл бұрын
JazakAllah this is real islam really...
@emannabil19548 жыл бұрын
may Allah reward u
@Mmuus985 жыл бұрын
well said. all people should think like this, so that there's nobody will overclaim themselves just like as if they're the best of human kind without thinking about others need privacy and space too
@user-nz7fs2jl3z5 жыл бұрын
I showuld show this to my dad and grandparents...
@ahmedrasim17404 жыл бұрын
May allah bless everyone with righteous spouse..make them as a coolness of our eyes.. Aameen
@HasanMostafa7 жыл бұрын
Jzk brother Nouman :)
@afrinmalka092 жыл бұрын
Please do more of these bayans in Urdu,as it would be far more reachable.This is relevant and clearly shows unjustified customs followed by generations. It is high time to change
@alinehme94255 жыл бұрын
Well said brother Ali khan
@javedahmad75138 жыл бұрын
alhamdulililahh, Islam had solutions and answers. Allah hu Akbar.
@user-po2zx2zi7z3 жыл бұрын
اللهم صل و سلم و بارك و اثني على محمد و على أهله و صحبه أجمعين و على التابعين بإحسان إلى يوم الدين و أته اللهم الوسيلة و الفضيلة و ابعثه اللهم المقام المحمود الذي وعدته.
@kjaan8 жыл бұрын
25 seconds for intro is too long.....
@SamaraTrollero8 жыл бұрын
these are questions from the gulf tour. the intro showed the places where the tour was in.
@user-po2zx2zi7z3 жыл бұрын
و عليكم السلام و رحمة الله تعالى و بركاته
@shakespearaamina91174 жыл бұрын
May Allah bless you nchallah
@moimoi-lf6gp8 жыл бұрын
Mashaa Allah
@reineabsicht11824 жыл бұрын
Assalamu Aleykum my dear Bayyinah-team, where can I ask brother Nouman Ali Khan a question? JazakAllahu Khairan for your hard work, may Allah reward you all and may Allah give you all Jannah-Firdaws 💎 Allahumma Amin 🌺
@Mommy2.24 жыл бұрын
Thankyou
@TheMemi20078 жыл бұрын
jazak Allah
@andromeda83255 жыл бұрын
Hey. Amazong lecture. Its really truly sad that sometimes husbands and wives become spiteful of inlaws. Because of my father's hate of my grandparents, I unfortunately lost my Grandfather and didnt get to visit him enough or get to know him enough before he past away, may Allah swt bless him with Jannatul Firdous.. Ameen. And the sadest part was we were neighbors and my father forced my Mom to never visit my grandparents. And he used that statement of "obedience" to ur "husband" so much, it broke my mother down and opressed her and by extension, it harmed all of us. Now everytime I hear lectures where shieks tell wives to obey Husbands, I don't like to lsiten to them. I mean there are so many disturbing stories of men abusing women or treating them like captives or children and forcing this on them by saying they have to "obey"... im glad this lecture touches on how Islam doesnt actually require that kind of servant submission that God deserves...
@alinehme94255 жыл бұрын
There is an amazing book by imam Ali Zain abiden as. “A divine perspective on rights” you can find it in Amazon
@aliptbm3 жыл бұрын
This topic is so huge and the problem is bigger than this. It’s really hard to explain this situation and make it work out in the way Islam wants. :( May Allah guides us and our parents into righteousness.
@allmainmooo77748 жыл бұрын
mansha allah
@marlamariemariemarierichar67388 жыл бұрын
Wow, Mixing cultures is not what causes conflict necessarily. Sometimes it is a matter of personalities clashing, being prideful, impatience, lack of humility and humbleness. in addition add being temperamental lacking active listening skills.
@Husssiani8 жыл бұрын
Ok we understand those are pretty lights and trees but can we focus the camera on Ustad Nouman Ali Khan's beautiful face. thanks :)
@SpontaniousGuy8 жыл бұрын
hahaha
@ubeydeyildiz14368 жыл бұрын
Hahaha really ;) im smiling still..thanks:)
@moosaizzat7068 жыл бұрын
Lol, well said
@QuranwithRain7 жыл бұрын
Omg
@fatimanoorahmad87205 жыл бұрын
you are joking right?
@Mahreen20106 жыл бұрын
Assalam-o-Alaikum hope you are doing great first of all Ramzan Mubarak to you and all the Muslim world. .. I really like your lectures as they guides me in my personal life.. Is there any platform where we can send our questions anonymously as I have certain queries regarding husband wife relationship?? Thank you ...
@nabeelsarfraz30697 жыл бұрын
Mashallah very well explained. I got a private question to ask nouman Ali khan how do I get in touch with him any help please?
@anisaulker91248 жыл бұрын
Dear Mr. Ali Khan, please make a video with explanation what does mean "To Obey husband" in real life. What is obedience and what is not? If husband says you have to discuss all expenses with me, then when you discuss to buying something for your health and he says no, better save money. But I really need it but he says no and I'm not happy with this decision, am I disobeying him? Didn't find such a video about this topic, please help with details what is included into Obedience? Thank you
@SeaShellsSeaShells898 жыл бұрын
Sister, it's your health and as a human and a wife you have the right. So if your illness is serious, which I hope not, then your husband is doing injustice. In Shaa ALLAH, everything will be fine.
@didasinan96695 жыл бұрын
Dear sister he is wrong. Weather you have serious health issue ir not or you just likecti take better care of health us absolutely your right There should not be saving when comes to health. Allah wants us to take care of ourselfs a specialy health. It is his duty to provide for your needs. May Allah make it easy. I really don't understand brothers why they getting into marriages without being prepared being stable and knowlege respect etc. Now days they just care fulify their desires
@Penn.obsessed5 жыл бұрын
No, he's wrong. Y would u think ur disobeying him for that? Dis is y sometimes it's better to make ur own money, Inshallah when I finish school I'm gonna get a job & provide ma damn self. I ain't gonna depend on some random guy.🙄
@naaz88035 жыл бұрын
What do i do if my husband doesnt listen to me and keeps violating my rights?
@aishahz62374 жыл бұрын
Leave him
@chelseasmith47008 жыл бұрын
How do you contact nouman ali khan so that he can answer questions
@zueadam57238 жыл бұрын
why is it most people complains about this in laws treatment in Pakistani culture or families? I read so many issues about sisters being treated this way in Pakistani families of their husbands.
@MsSimpleMovies8 жыл бұрын
Hinduism 's taint on Islamic practice.
@QuranwithRain7 жыл бұрын
Culture
@Ashnesss7 жыл бұрын
Zue Adam because it's a serious issue. Most Indian and Pakistani women who get divorced have endless stories to tell about their abusive in laws. I've never met a Pakistani wife who's shoes I'd like to be in or who's marriage I consider ideal. Not ONE! South Asians are unaware and ill informed. Immature controlling guys who get older are expected to get married. They expect girls to be loyal no matter what they do. There's daily abuse. Women all over the world don't raise good men. Men all over the world provide a very bad example of how men should treat women. And the south Asian culture concerning marriage is gender biased, controlling and dehumanising!
@nabeela93276 жыл бұрын
One of the main reason is bcz it has joined system.. they dont allow new couple to have seperate home .. wen they married thier son the dont want wives for thier son but instead they want daughter in law for them.. they think their son is getting separated from them bcz of his wife .. its very belittle thgs .. culture should change ..
@IDontCare395 жыл бұрын
Because we lived with Hindus for centuries. In their culture wife wanting a separate house (which is her right in islam) is seen as her playing some Bollywood villain because she's trying to separate mother and son.
@zeenat.hashmi3 жыл бұрын
The way he said “Accha..” 0:38
@juveriakhatri92332 жыл бұрын
Men and women should remember that even they will grow old one day, and then what if their own children don’t look after them well. Treat your parents/in laws the same way you wanted to be treated as a parent/in law to the future generation. I mean just take care of them a without being tortured ofcourse.
@arifnjful8 жыл бұрын
Allow me to say something. Talking desi culture, well it is heavily influenced by some other traditions and cultures (Desi People know very well ). It is almost impossible for us to compromise with or leave traditions, which is unequivocally agreed upon and denial put one in a deviant position. Just as an example, Islam has no culture or traditions when it comes to cuisines and dresses, food has to be halal and dresses follows Islamic parameter, the problem occurs when extra baggage comes along with those traditions and we start feeling comfortable and taking them as core Islamic values or at least a part of it. Islam doesn’t adopt other cultures when they overwhelms its values and doesn’t comply with its root values. In this regard desis are not the exception, we are stuck between Islam and culture, that which one should be given precedence over whom. I personally believe that desis will be okay when they start taking Islam beyond Samosas, Pakoras and Biryani. May Allah give us Hidaya to think and act as a one Universal Ummah free by any culture, tradition or nonexistent boundary. This is my opinion and no insult is intended or propagated towards any person or community.
@vazedashaikh61275 жыл бұрын
The most reasonable explanation, I hope we all get it as soon as possible insha Allah!
@madihashaikh47874 жыл бұрын
My God!~ so long I didn't even read.
@toushiri94765 жыл бұрын
from the title I thought I would know exactly what I should do my wife but apparently the video was a reply to a message thanks though
@sadiakhan85593 жыл бұрын
I wish to know in this regard something more. What brother nouman is talking here is about normal circumstances. My in-laws are toxic not just for me but for my husband also, so much so that it has become life threatening to both of us. They do sihr upon us. Recently, they did sihr on my husband to take a divorce from me. After months of avoiding the situations and ignoring the fights, I found it difficult to carry on because during those fights, my husband turned suicidal and then suffered some kind of epileptic seizures. I would make dua and recite some surahs and ayahs and only then he would come back to his senses. It used to be so difficult for me to handle him during that. Again, no reason to fight but still he did that. This worsened so much that he even used to forget everything he did while fighting. He had no idea what he did or said. Therefore, instead of going to a raqi (coz i live in India, its difficult to find a genuine raqi here, instead you will find another magician who is very Islamic outside but corrupt inside), I myself started doing ruqya on him and he is fine now. Not a single fight since then. Now my problem is I clearly know it's his father and mother (they are my paternal uncle and aunt). I even know they made him eat something to do this like dry fruits etc. The problem is they don't care about him. Their care and their anger has no separation. When they care, they make him eat the sihr or blow upon him something or tie taweez in their home to make him return and divorce me etc. When they are angry, they make sihr to destroy him. I am not talking out of suspicion. I am recently married 7-8 months, but I know all this since years. They did this to all their sons(there are 7). They used to speak about all this very proudly. Now my problem is, even after all this, they still don't leave us alone. This is very toxic. My husband has a bond with them, although he too hates them but still we are trying to figure out some sort of balance. I don't know what to do. Can anybody please help me what should we do here?
@someone-bn7lx5 жыл бұрын
That's why you marry a not only practicing Muslim but one who is a true one and is also pure in heart
@jameelaali53394 жыл бұрын
Assalaamu alaikum jazakallah for that wonderful lecture . Can anyone tell me how can I email this guy I want information on many other issues
@suhailnyc14 жыл бұрын
Just wondering, does anyone have a version of this with only the responsibilities of the wife? Or can you make one and send it to me? jazakAllahkhair
@aanjanulhaquefahad13898 жыл бұрын
asalamualaikum wa rahmatullah, thank you very much for sharing meaning of the al-quran with everyone. iam not a regular viewer of your videos, but I want to ask a question. what is alaneen? what does it mean?
@btai33304 жыл бұрын
alamin - worlds or universe ..... eg Rabbul Alamin lord of all the worlds ....
@minyoongi70056 жыл бұрын
It scares me so badly that later in the future my future husband will take control over me (god forbid)
@BulkyHealthyCat5 жыл бұрын
Hahaha if I'll have a woman I won't torture her I'll take care of her and also help her in works of the house
@ahussain29733 жыл бұрын
@@BulkyHealthyCat bro ur not 'helping' her in your own house those are your duties too. She doesn't owe you housework 🙄.
@whitelilac1018 жыл бұрын
Allahu Akbar! The truth is beautiful
@mariampopy16095 жыл бұрын
How to communicate with you regarding any queries? Please reply
@yourebeautiful91692 жыл бұрын
Mashaallah
@1muizz8 жыл бұрын
الله اكبر
@-fakhri-73658 жыл бұрын
This raises the question and concern parents have. They raise their children, spend their life looking after them, so that they go off and leave them, neglected and old? I understand that one cannot neglect parents as that is contrary to Islam, but leaving them to be with your wife, essentially means they will be in their home, alone, weak, lonely and vulnerable, even if you do visit them.
@btai33304 жыл бұрын
you can visit them everyday, all day if you wish, you do not have to live with them, it seems that for the most part its only the desi culture that cant seem to understand that one you get married you need to move out, even the prophets daughter moved out away from home when she married, besides if your out all day at work, your 'essentially' making your wife babysit your parents, entertain them etc, she has her own parents, what do you not get?
@ludivinagonzales4 жыл бұрын
salam bro, I want to ask if it's possible that a husband have a two "first wife" in their marriage contract,, is it acceptable or the other marriage was null and void. thank you for the answer. Allah Bless you!
@abcdedghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz.5 жыл бұрын
I want to know the Malaysian Islamic Rights and how to abide with the rules and how to give respect to elders as I been living by my own and I don't move with anyone as I don't know and have no proper guidance from the age of 13 however just kept battling my life
@prantyhossain35413 жыл бұрын
I'm proud to be a Muslim woman
@somebodyy323 жыл бұрын
Nouman ali Khan looks so much like my teacher her face and accent is same as his they look almost same she is also Pakistani and she speaks urdu same accent too
@Insaf-property5 жыл бұрын
How can I contact to you dear Noman Ali Khan?
@wahajlaeeq72434 жыл бұрын
How can I contact u Sir...I need a counselor for my mess up Marriage
@twocrazyboys43674 жыл бұрын
May Allah swt guide my in laws they don’t let me stay for a day or so at my fathers house wallahi it breaks my heart coz I behave good, respect them for sake of Allah swt but they just don’t change.
@btai33304 жыл бұрын
why do you obey them? take some responsibility of your life,
@twocrazyboys43674 жыл бұрын
B Tai I have 😄now I don’t behave emotional nor I let anyone do that Thank u for the comment
@btai33304 жыл бұрын
@@twocrazyboys4367 happy to hear, good for you
@kahkashann73608 жыл бұрын
need more emphasis on the un islamic combined family system ,that keeps a woman in compromise ,not on on her physical strength but deprive her of observing pardah with inlaws
@stephanier50798 жыл бұрын
How do I ask the ustadh a question?
@didasinan96695 жыл бұрын
Asalamy Alaikum Does anyone knows brother Khan email or any contact for questions please Thanks
@Pearlsofnaseeha3 жыл бұрын
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@PARKCIRCUSFOOTBALLCLUB5 жыл бұрын
there is so much of responsibility that comes to marriage why do we learn things the hard way maybe because we don't do mistakes, love is not getting what you want from your partner, that is the desire of the self, your own self-interest, love is when you partner see you as your equal , my wife will only see me as he equal when I do good to her , don't look for love , look for love in marriage, know your obligations .... love is just a lost cause without knowing the proper way to love, hope Allah helps me with my selfish desires ... I long for a happy relationship but my own nafs is my biggest thorn ... I just care about how I feel, my emotions and desires and what I wish from her instead of a bigger and more important concern which is what I do besides her, does it help her? does it makes her life easier! if yes then only you can hope that she will love you and respect you! don't focus in your past! don't focus on your past problems and past misdeeds or mistakes and don't repeat it! focus on how to make a change! don't focus on your own selfish desires ! even if you have them that is not the solution! focus on your responsibilities! it will make your life easier and also life easier for others! manage and observe your thoughts! problems arise from our own shortcoming! if your partner complains about something don't listen to you! don't get offended asks why she ignores you ! or doesn't listen to you! hope I change! and I am more than I am today!
@aasmahsohbat61545 жыл бұрын
Wise words. May Allah give us the ability to live accordingly. Ameen.
@msmanager27755 жыл бұрын
Very wise man and may many men come to this realisation . Alhamdullilah
@syedasyed60023 жыл бұрын
Do u have any videos on marrying a man with kids and the rights of the wife in islam as a stepmother.
@sabrinacoolest8 жыл бұрын
life is a test....
@BlessedByAlMighty8 жыл бұрын
+sabrinacoolest Never lose hope in Allah, Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala will help you with everything you go through.
@safatajammuldalvi26693 жыл бұрын
💜
@lover74035 жыл бұрын
Anyone who deprives someone of their rights, especially in deliberation should be reported to authority in this world aswell! This counts for mutliple counts of abuse, why dont we people of ability do anything? Yes we should pray we should fast we should fulfill tawheed, but what about those whoms rights are taken away????? You should try to exit the situation as best you can and if you cant then report them and if that cant be done then your justice is with allah swt anyhow. But brothers and sisters dont just let someone oppress anyone, ask them and ask in honesty without wrong intentions and help them out! It is our duty as muslims to look out for one another
@lonelybia7 жыл бұрын
which is a email address to contact ustaad nouman??
@bapon3217 жыл бұрын
what if my in laws are embarrassing and harassing me for no reason?I am their daughter in law and they are mentally torturing me?then what should i do?My husband is also not upto giving me justice? what would i do?still go to them and get insulted?
@assilarhan53997 жыл бұрын
Mosabber Uddin Ahmed Bapon salamo alaykoum dnt know what to say its very difficul need to talk with him or ask ur parents to talk
@CathyKitson6 жыл бұрын
Mosabber Uddin Ahmed Bapon You should leave him.
@btai33304 жыл бұрын
leave
@juveriakhatri92332 жыл бұрын
I pray I get a good husband Ameen❤️
@ferdousichowdhury99508 жыл бұрын
"Men are to support women by what Allah has bestowed on them over one another and for what they spend of their money. The righteous women are obedient/dutiful women (Qaanitaat / قانتات) they keep private, the matters for which Allah would keep watch over. As for those women from whom you fear desertion, then you shall advise them, and abandon them in their sleeping place, and go away from them. Then if they yield to you (فان اطعنكم), do not seek a way over them; Allah is High, Great." (Qur'an 4:34)Understanding of قانتات - QaanitaatWe fail to comprehend the word 'qaanitaat قانتات, women who are obedient/dutiful, which is referring to believing women who are obedient and dutiful to Allah. It does not refer to the husband The same word is used to describe MEN and women in other verses, it is also used to describe Mariyum and from what we know of, she never got married in all the other verses the word Qaanitaat is translated into being obedient to Allah but when it comes to Quran:4:34 the translation of the same word Qaanitaat changes. Why? In summary this verse does not command wives to be obedient to their husbands hope this clears a few things up
@sihintas53368 жыл бұрын
thanks for the explanation 😄😊
@urixz36105 жыл бұрын
Salam brother my friends husband has married 2 times he didn't ask for permition now her question is he is telling her that how things were going between her and him so finiacialy how they were working with there money they carry on doing that is that correct her money should b her money now and his money should b her he should pay her with his money she has 4 kids with him
@sana-bz1gs3 жыл бұрын
An Imam told me that women have to obey their in-laws doesn’t matter how they treat them and respect and obey them even more than their own parents..my conscience is not supporting this..What is said in islam about this and where (ayah in Quran or qouted in hadith)..please answer..I am really confused..!!!