Confidence is not walking into a room thinking you’re better than everyone, its walking into a room not comparing yourself to anyone at all
@CesarGarcia-nd5xz3 жыл бұрын
Instagram quote material
@moehashim84423 жыл бұрын
@Juan Cruz Stakys yea therefore there wouldn't be a point in comparing yourself to anyone
@HelianaFranko3 жыл бұрын
Do you comment the same thing in every video? Even on the best food review channel lol🤣
@moehashim84423 жыл бұрын
@Juan Cruz Stakys in that occasion, yes but generally speaking, it's better to focus on yourself
@renatoarauz77843 жыл бұрын
Yes exactly you dont need to compare yourself to anyone When you know your are way better than everyone. LOL im joking
@taabishkhanself-improvemen73313 жыл бұрын
*5 things to quit right now:* *1. Overthinking* *2. Trying to make everyone happy* *3. Living in the past* *4. Worrying* *5. Doubting yourself…* Love from a small channel💙
@faithlyngrace25173 жыл бұрын
Taabish, just jumped to your channel. Your vids look knowledgeable and interesting. Just subbed. Will be exploring your content very soon.
@num1Jaysta3 жыл бұрын
Working on those
@DamianSzajnowski3 жыл бұрын
Just living in the present would fix most of this. Try meditation along with it, seems to help.
@TheDarkPan3 жыл бұрын
*6. Paying for goods one has not received.*
@quicklittlesnail16163 жыл бұрын
I did all of those things when i was younger. The result, i couldn't even talk to girls
@user-xg8hv1lu8k3 жыл бұрын
Confidence is like “Show up in every single moment like you’re meant to be there.”
@HeavyMetalorRockfan92 жыл бұрын
it works all the time, I've gotten quite expensive parties by simply dressing the part and walking through with confidence, smiling at the wait staff, nodding at them and then waving to someone who briefly made eye contact with me. It's ridiculous what acting like you're meant to be somewhere can get you
@sans41242 жыл бұрын
Where ever you go,act like you belong there and dont look around. No one will confront you
@MrBuketman Жыл бұрын
Not trying to be negative, but Charlie sounds like a douche that made up the cat story to look like a hotshot. Seemed scripted.
@PinupSticknerd7 ай бұрын
Like. Pfff Every moment. You've never not meant to be there😊 Appreciate you ✊
@alightened3 жыл бұрын
Imagine Robert Downey jr as a late night talk show host. He’d be legendary
@Circuses3 жыл бұрын
He’s automatic legend at any job that puts him on a screen.
@samsam-tq1cf3 жыл бұрын
Podcast for rdj would be soo much betterrr, TV would just censor everying thing
@covidfartfog80763 жыл бұрын
Completely agree
@vishnunarayanan56903 жыл бұрын
i disagree,he's better off as an actor
@damocles81803 жыл бұрын
He would get cancelled for speaking his mind so quick lol
@jachymandrysek85273 жыл бұрын
Guys. I was at a party w/ few friends and there was this girl and we clicked. I invited her for a date and she said yes, but our date somehow became a group hang again and I got overwhelmed by the number of people and could not "focus" properly to getting to know the girl properly. I think, it would be a good idea for a video: How to be seen in a group, or smth like that.
@corbans57963 жыл бұрын
I dont know the situation but I would suggest just being honest that you were excited to spend some time just with her. Not getting in to a group dynamic in the first place.
@themostcapableman3 жыл бұрын
bruh no video needed. you need to single her out from the group and hang out with her 1v1.. make the next hangout clear that it will only be you two, and if it somehow turns into a group hang again; sorry bro, but looks like you in the friendzone.
@honkhonk51813 жыл бұрын
@Kenton Nguyen @Corban S Oh god no. Don’t listen to these people. She’ll think you’re the biggest creep ever and destroy your rep on social media if you suggest that to her. Be more subtle about it and do not make any mistakes. Also not a bad idea to have audio or video (preferably both) surveillance on every inch of your property so she can’t say you tried to grape her.
@honkhonk51813 жыл бұрын
@The Daily Weather Forecast Yet they have a free pass and are even encouraged to be as subtle as they want whenever they want.
@karentaylorsmells3 жыл бұрын
Hey man, all is not lost, it was just the first date. I like some of these comments about taking the initiative to ask her out again, women love confidence in a man - like just be low key about it and put it out there a little, get her reaction, build up a bit of contact between this time and the next time you see each other. She will definitely have still ‘seen’ you in that group hang, but yeah, just keep being you, that is what took her eye and attention in the first place.
@RogueWolfArtist3 жыл бұрын
Relaxed and attentive eye contact shows confidence and assurance to what they’re saying matters to you. As it genuinely should.
@1005corvuscorax3 жыл бұрын
And what if what they're saying matters not one whit to me? Some think "it should", but honestly after Ive listened to a "poor me" martyr over and over again, I could really give not one whit about what he/she says about her life as a self perceived victim. And I still maintain eye contact, and somehow he/she still thinks I give a damn about what they're talking about.
@RogueWolfArtist3 жыл бұрын
@@1005corvuscorax - That’s when you can sell them anything you want. 😎
@RogueWolfArtist3 жыл бұрын
@@1005corvuscorax - But really, I’d just organically move on. They got the coat check into my interests, but I’ll save us from stepping on each other’s toes by not dancing around this conversation. I’m sure you do the same.
@MishaElRusito2 жыл бұрын
The funny thing is that they're not using any "tips", they are just natural themselves. The biggest tip here is to find your passion in life that makes you happy and confident, then your natural traits will come out
@12222422 жыл бұрын
The funny thing is, that discovery is hard enough as itself. But once you find it, everything else becomes easier.
@kirkfavre30172 жыл бұрын
B
@saitamaone21642 жыл бұрын
Good one
@siler72 жыл бұрын
How do you know that? They're actors. Being charming and confident, telling stories, keeping people's attention...this is their profession.
@davidcarothers33112 жыл бұрын
@@jayjohnx Why are you Lying??
@littlevoice_113 жыл бұрын
And for woman looking to gain and keep attraction through conversation? I feel the wider scope of 'attractiveness' would be interesting to address. For example attracting colleagues, the public when speaking in general, family, friends etc. Attraction doesn't have to be refined to sexual interest. Communication and general engagement is important in all forms of relationships.
@Mistyfaery3 жыл бұрын
Right. I love their videos! I do wish they would keep their female audience in mind and add more female celebrities breakdowns for us to learn from. 😉
@littlevoice_113 жыл бұрын
@@Mistyfaery thank you for your comment. I also think more wider scope on charisma could be covered because relationships with family - parents, children, strangers, colleagues and friends are all important connections for happy healthy lives.
@Hhhh22222-w3 жыл бұрын
@@littlevoice_11 I'd recommend you any Jordan Peterson lectures on family interactions and communications
@corynorell36863 жыл бұрын
But this video wasn't "refined to sexual interest"....?
@littlevoice_113 жыл бұрын
@@corynorell3686 no, but it was aimed at a particular kind of attraction and relationship dynamic
@41203062 жыл бұрын
The worst thing you could do to a person in a group conversation is to shine the spotlight on that person when he/she doesn't want it (has nothing interesting to say). It could be a passive aggressive way to show people how uninteresting/uninteresed that person is. So be mindful of when you call on people to share their opinions because they might not have an opinion they feel is worth sharing at that very moment.
@michaelmcgee3352 жыл бұрын
Good point.
@osamasp78882 жыл бұрын
Great point man .. 🔥🔥so relatable
@akninety62 жыл бұрын
@@tonic1667 in other words, be fake. noted ✔
@melikmourali2072 Жыл бұрын
You mean don't FORCE the spotlight on someone, right ? Obviously you don't always know berorehand if they are interested or not. There is nothing wrong in including someone that didn't talk much. If they make it clear they don't like the conversation, just change the subject idk
@isaiahkipp55093 жыл бұрын
“Being a successful risk taker may not be attractive to 100% of women but, nothing is” 💀☠️💀☠️
@shalyfemusic3 жыл бұрын
😂😂🤥
@ajhandsome013 жыл бұрын
Mans speaking truth
@drewpointkouski65713 жыл бұрын
Boom
@zahra53012 жыл бұрын
Well, we aren't a hivemind😂
@rambam692 жыл бұрын
Roll credit scene
@papl203 жыл бұрын
I love how we all love RDJ. Like he really is an extremely charismatic guy. It doesn't matter if you're attracted to him sexually, you're attracted to him because he shines and you just want to pay attention to him. Amazing guy.
@Tian.S2 жыл бұрын
Know what help too? Integrity. Knowing who you are. Liking who you are. Absolute confidence and peace with who you are, and who you are not. Something to think about before you start practicing in the mirror how not to be yourself.
@westyNUFC2 жыл бұрын
When Charlie tells that story about the joke prom invitation. He knows for a fact every girl in that room would be thinking they would go to the prom with him. And every guy relates to him or is inspired to become successful despite previous rejection. Well done Charlie, this story hooked in 100% of the audience. RDJ could speak gibberish and you'd still listen with intent. His personality and charisma is just that huge.
@rickonethousand63042 жыл бұрын
Where in the f is that guy from? That's the weirdest accent I've ever heard. Last name?
@westyNUFC2 жыл бұрын
@@rickonethousand6304 Charlie Hunam. I don't know where he's from. First movie I saw him in was Green Street. So I always thought he was a cockney.
@Tagikakibau2 жыл бұрын
@@rickonethousand6304 He's from Newcastle in England. And yeah, it's such a messed up accent.
@satinekryze28933 жыл бұрын
Charisma on command : you know he survives Me : YOU SPOIlED IT !!!!!
@ASmartNameForMe3 жыл бұрын
Me: Satine dies in clone wars You: "YOU SPOILED I-.......i-it, *wait* "
@rtoomer923 жыл бұрын
😂
@AakashSharma-qd5uo3 жыл бұрын
Please make a vedio on Captain Jack Sparrow's charisma
@SuyashK3 жыл бұрын
Yes please
@haseebkhalid98213 жыл бұрын
Yesssss
@EmmaSaints3 жыл бұрын
I'd love that!
@FroscoToppings3 жыл бұрын
That's too easy. He gets his charisma from all the rum he drinks.
@aydenjensen93953 жыл бұрын
Yes.
@AhmetKaan3 жыл бұрын
*You can NOT control what happens to you, you can only control how you respond to them.* There is power in your response. 🔥
@JayYangInspires3 жыл бұрын
Istg you’re everywhere. How many channels do u comment on? I’m just curious
@illuminated24382 жыл бұрын
Spam
@CyrilSneer1232 жыл бұрын
Stoicism
@siler72 жыл бұрын
There's a lot you can do to control what happens to you. Life isn't just reactive.
@marke45762 жыл бұрын
You 100% can control what happens to you. This quote is like someone saying... "nothing lasts forever so love what you have" but saying it like they came up with it.
@okkogono3 жыл бұрын
Well my question is, what about the conversations where you're asking questions, but they're not asking anything back? I have a hard time trying to work in my stories because it doesn't seem natural to me. Like I might end up sidetracking us on a tangential topic, but then come back to the original story, and after the story is done, there's just an awkward lull where I want to share something but I haven't been asked. Me: So tell me more about that necklace you got, it looks very interesting! B: Oh yeah, (blah blah blah) Me: Insert questions to expand on details that I find interesting, then going off on tangents B: Ends story Me: (awkward silence until I ask another question) The problem is I find myself feeling like I'm doing an interview, and not talking with someone. Do I just share stories or experiences, unprompted? I have enough social skills to know which ones to share and which ones to keep to my chest obviously, but I'm so confused by these interactions, and I think it's gotten worse since 2020. If anyone has any advice, or video links, I would really appreciate it. Thank you all.
@DJRyby2 жыл бұрын
I'm in the same boat my friend. You can try to be direct and call them out (for example I usually say: "Ok can you ask me something?") but if after that they still don't add to the conversation, I for one believe that the other person is not interested in you and I don't interact with them anymore bc I know my worth and if the person is not making any effort in getting to know me why should I?
@NickNotas3 жыл бұрын
Ambition is always attractive. Fortune favors the bold.
@rodovariocragur87322 жыл бұрын
I think its very important to point out that most of this traits shows up spontaneously when a man actually feels realized in an activity that is intimately interesting for himself
@PracticalInspiration3 жыл бұрын
Excellent points, I really like the one of the idea of being a successful risk taker, it's an important sign of leadership (which is attractive)
@concernedcitizen65773 жыл бұрын
Tip #1 Look like Hollywood movie stars. Tip #2 Don't forget Tip #1
@buffyd57372 жыл бұрын
Or $$$$$
@wesofsaints3 жыл бұрын
Hey Charisma, could you do a video on the short series called ‘Mixology’ . The series is 13 episodes long and follows the story of complete strangers on their night out, giving insight on night out situations and the do’s and don’ts when approaching someone of interest. Though the series is quite comedic, I still think there is some pockets of knowledge to be acquired from it.
@mummyjohn Жыл бұрын
man I was a fan of this show, not the kind of thing I probably would have watched before or since but it landed at just the right time and I got my whole house into it.
@louislocke79543 жыл бұрын
Can you PLEASEEE do more group videos, or parties and how attention and focus flows and what causes it etc. I think it's something a lot of people struggle with
@getfreakybaby2 жыл бұрын
I met and hung out with Robert Downey Jr. In the late 1980s at China Club in Manhattan. I have to say super nice...very down to earth guy. We didn't talk acting or movies..just life in general. Neither of us was feeling any pain that night..lol. I have to say his voice was definitely different than most men. It was kind of deep but direct. Cool guy in general though.. I could clearly see why women would want to hang out with him for him. Not for his money or fame. Just because he's a cool dude. He was kind of short guy but big personality. Almost animated. Very similar to Tony Stark. Think he has something special? In the 1980s he was in a movie called weird science. His sidekick in that movie was a model looking actor. Downey stole every scene...made himself more attractive than the other guy. If you held up two pictures of these two actors...he would never be picked. He went on to super stardom and the other guy was never seen or heard from again as an actor. I believe what Robert Downey Jr. Really has is charisma. Huge self confidence... NO FEAR.
@jessi20773 жыл бұрын
I scoffed at the title but actually ended up feeling very attracted to these men lol
@mrmustangman3 жыл бұрын
me too.!!!! just kidding.... but seriously, that was a wonderful story.
@VintageCardinal3 жыл бұрын
Really? To me they were less attractive.
@Frogman12123 жыл бұрын
You were attracted to celebrities? Wow imagine that
@Sam-xr8ne2 жыл бұрын
suckerrr lol jk.
@jthompson13273 жыл бұрын
The story telling and social directing advice works flawlessly. I'm a 7, but have always attracted higher using these techniques. Thanks for these videos. Helped me transform myself in the early days of this channel.
@mccormickja Жыл бұрын
Just wanted to say, I’ve been watching your videos for years and they really are so good. The way you include real world examples is so helpful and also makes it a pot of fun to watch. Life changing stuff. Thanks again.
@apelincoln16163 жыл бұрын
RDJ is the king of "playfully cocky". It's a rare gift
@srbaruchi3 жыл бұрын
Whenever I see RDJ, I can't help but think about the time, not long past, when he was so drug addicted and spending time in jail that "everyone" presumed his career, and maybe his life, would end soon. What a remarkable human being!
@devoncooley55052 жыл бұрын
He’s the guest on a talk show people, understand situational awareness. He knows he has everyone’s attention already, put him alone somewhere and uncomfortable and we’re almost all the same, a human that isn’t perfect
@teddyoshirak46283 жыл бұрын
I love how Robert Downey Jr. has a different haircut in every clip.
@iPuzzlePirate2 жыл бұрын
Great, now I'm going to be self-conscious; I'm definitely a group leader, but I've never done it to make myself look more attractive; I group-lead as described here because I like to allow everyone to get a turn to be in the spotlight, I like to allow everyone to get involved if they want to, and I like to give everyone a chance to be heard. But now I'm afraid knowing about this is going to make me feel like I have ulterior motives.
@kmacc9743 жыл бұрын
watched this just to see if it was accurate and it really is. I can see all of those things "working". The bad light story does more than what he suggested though, it engages the woman's heart, which is already primed and ready. lol We have the most overactive brains (too many pathways working in too many directions at once) AND hearts or emotions that are always ready to be engaged in any situation. Also, our sexual attraction or desire is sometimes directly connected to our heart/emotions. So take care with your words. They are more powerful than you will ever know, believe or be able to comprehend.
@jordanfelt59783 жыл бұрын
Charlie ran two miles to the vet with his nearly dead cat, that's both so strange and so awesome at the same time. Respect, my guy.
@donaldcalloway45583 жыл бұрын
Bull hockey...
@Sam-xr8ne2 жыл бұрын
you fell for it too lol.
@picturebreakdown3 жыл бұрын
I’d like to personally give an award to the people who commented “first” to commemorate their stupendous achievement If you’re interested, I do great in depth BREAKDOWNS of MARVEL and Star Wars Movies and TV shows (if you’re not interested, just ignore this and have a great day:)
@Jackmerius_Tacktheritrix57333 жыл бұрын
These are the same friendless inbreds that edit their comments to thank for likes
@deborahangel87613 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@mbsucks1013 жыл бұрын
Haha XD
@lev76033 жыл бұрын
First
@elizabetha85653 жыл бұрын
"If he would do that for a random cat, imagine what he would do for a loved one." Except many that proclaim to love animals are the types to treat family and co-workers like garbage.
@shreyanag89883 жыл бұрын
Agreed! That extrapolation does not always work. Fallen for that trap before. :P
@elizabetha85653 жыл бұрын
It seems that when people brag about being anything it turns out to be more of a warning. Like the 'nice guy' phenomenon or those that say how they don't like drama...
@num1Jaysta3 жыл бұрын
Action speaks louder than words
@Winterreise1892 жыл бұрын
That's because a large portion of animal lovers are narcissists, and they use it as a tool to virtue signal and look like better people than they are. Almost every extreme animal lover I've ever met that has too many pets was a covert narcissist.
@Iron-Bridge2 жыл бұрын
OP: Quite accurate 👏.
@nayan59623 жыл бұрын
The thing is In the end - your natural instinct comes forward . You got to train yourself at an early age or spend time with intellectual people .
@GENGHISKHAN-hk3qs3 жыл бұрын
RDJ is the man. Everyone knows that. He is a really cool funny guy. I like Charlie as well SOA was a fantastic show.
@mattc11243 жыл бұрын
Charlie is that guy who just keeps telling you stories about how great and caring he is, whether you want to hear it or not. Do women really fall for that? I guess a lot do.
@mummyjohn Жыл бұрын
I think you miss how he tests the waters always, and then tells the story when there's clear interest expressed from the other person
@jjcoll4088 Жыл бұрын
It helps he is hot
@self-developementhub37313 жыл бұрын
You need to do a video on Jesus from "The Chosen". He seriously portrays such incredible charisma and genuine kindness. I've learned so many things from watching this actor.
@michaelmcgee3352 жыл бұрын
Hard to emulate to talented.
@fernandoroberts35913 жыл бұрын
so basically be a leader, aware of others around you, complement people and tell stories ;d
@gerdina51682 жыл бұрын
Basically :)
@ChattinBoxingWYB2 жыл бұрын
8 Things All Men Must Do In Order to Be Successful with Women: 1. Be Decisive. 2. Be Assertive. 3. Maintain Your Masculine Frame & Energy. 4. Never give her free validation. 5. Never put her on a pedestal and treat her like a Queen. 6. Have an abundance mindset. 7. Show her you have options. 8. Never appear be needy or desperate to her.
@piperbrady83932 жыл бұрын
How can you have an abundance mindset while intentionally withholding validation and respect? Only someone who sees themselves as small and limited deep down is afraid to show the woman he loves that he loves her. Either that, or he doesn't really love her. Free validation? She earned it by loving you too, and by being a child of God. If you can't think of anything positive to say about her, or a reason to treat her with compassion, you need to find someone else and develop your own character.
@ChattinBoxingWYB2 жыл бұрын
@@piperbrady8393 How do you learn to drive, how do you learn to read and write? Through evidence!! Women respect men who have an abundance mindset and see them as an afterthought. U ever why nice guys always finish last? It's because they operate from a scarcity mindset. Which is a major turnoff for women.
@piperbrady83932 жыл бұрын
@@ChattinBoxingWYB you teach someone to drive by driving and demonstrating how. you teach someone to show you respect by showing them respect, obviously. only a silly dude is afraid that showing someone genuine kindness and generosity will rob him of his macho power
@ChattinBoxingWYB2 жыл бұрын
@@piperbrady8393 Nice guys who have a scarcity mindset finish last with women for a reason! I shall say no more.
@piperbrady83932 жыл бұрын
@@ChattinBoxingWYB kind and humble people have peace and happiness in their lives, and happy relationships. you don't need to say anything more.
@cjeff993 жыл бұрын
Did the audience just laugh at rigor mortis setting in on the cat...
@sampuatisamuel97853 жыл бұрын
Chill out, the audience knows kitty is now his much loved pet, but they had not expected to hear that kitty had almost died
@c0Ld3 жыл бұрын
i fell out of my chair laughing
@ivyjones18813 жыл бұрын
to the women watching this: you're not alone
@SoVidushi3 жыл бұрын
Lol glad to know
@corbans57963 жыл бұрын
@@SoVidushi what a woman response
@SoVidushi3 жыл бұрын
@@corbans5796 glad to have a woman response
@corbans57963 жыл бұрын
@@SoVidushi nice
@stevejette23293 жыл бұрын
As a guy, what does that mean ? Women feel alone ? Women don't know these techniques of charisma ? Thanks.
@IAmMrQ2 жыл бұрын
I've always been relatively charismatic but I'm somewhat introverted as well. Sometimes it attracts negative attention from people who become overly sensitive to your opinions and perspectives in general. There's a time and place to show a little charisma but it's usually better to show a calm and stoic personality overall. IMO
@shoff293 жыл бұрын
when I see people tell stories like that it makes me roll my eyes and tune it out. it feels too much like bragging, and in my eyes, bragging is very unappealing.
@my_family_journal3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I'm the straight to the point kind of person. Just get to the point, don't waste my time and also yours.
@Hhhh22222-w3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, but it's good story telling advice, just content doesn't appeal to me either
@KingofNewYorkkk3 жыл бұрын
This is why humans overcomplicate life. We tell stories to engage. To share our experiences. To entertain.
@minaljain_makeup3 жыл бұрын
Make videos for women too... Please
@benjaminaltman48953 жыл бұрын
For dating I can really only give advice from the perspective of a straight man, at least until we get other people in as research assistants or writing the videos. But I'd say 95% of our videos work for all genders, it's probably one every 15-20 videos that's specific to dating
@fhuckgoogle41712 жыл бұрын
Be attractive and hot guys with throw themselves at you.
@FlamingManofIron3 жыл бұрын
Great video - a video on how to handle group conversations when you're interested in a particular woman would be helpful.
@isthatujeebus3 жыл бұрын
Only found this channel a couple of days ago. These videos are UNBELIEVABLY insightful! Good work!
@TakeBackYourMind9973 жыл бұрын
The trick is to make sure you're not just a walking version of these videos, normal conversation and being yourself is a big part of connecting with people as well as these tips.
@PSOnoni3 жыл бұрын
Agreed. You mix in some of these traits with your own traits to create your own genuine style. Even with a genuine style, not everyone is going to like you and that is ok
@robertwest5422 жыл бұрын
Soren Keikegarrd, the Danish philosopher, referred to as the Danish Time Bomb, in his younger and "anesthetic" days, before he takes his 1st, "Leap of Faith" into his Moral stage, was always the life of the party. But, after the party he wanted to get a gun and shoot himself. He had some physical abnormalities, which did not seem to bother him. One leg was shorter than the other and he was a hunchback. His 2nd leap of faith was his conversion to Christianity. He received a degree in Theology but did not want followers. He was never ordained and wrote to save himself rather than an audience. The bulk of his writings were found 50-70 yrs. after his death. It's possible that he hoped to save the world.
@franka99423 жыл бұрын
I never agreed with a point so much as playful cockiness, that always gets me. I'll take a playfully narcissistic joke over a self-deprecating one any day
@YourChangeIsNow3 жыл бұрын
Attractive people can get a halo effect easily. Also, in a talk show, many things depend on the host as well. All is set up for the interview to be as interesting as posible. Celebrities are used to this. You get the laughs and the attentions just because of your fame.
@TheTechAdmin3 жыл бұрын
I wish I had an older face. Women usually think I'm 30+ years younger than I am. It may sound great, but trust me, it's kind of embarrassing when the number is SO far off. When I was 30, and people guessed 20, it was great. At 40, it started to change for the worse. Over 50, I'm at the point that I'm thinking to just tell people that I am 25-30, and just let them think I'm wise for my age.
@michmich18802 жыл бұрын
For myself who is introverted and not super good in social interactions but not shy at all! These videos are really usefull so thx a lot!
@nolifezay46367 ай бұрын
What have u learned
@Michael-gi5th3 жыл бұрын
Don't forget looks play a big part in whether you're seen as attractive or not, I get this video is used for motivation but being honest about how much looks effects how others see you as attractive or coming off as creepy is more important than being blue pilled about everything
@camzeee8403 жыл бұрын
Sounds like excuse to me already. Having an attractive disposition can overcome anything.
@Michael-gi5th3 жыл бұрын
@@camzeee840 I haven't said anything about my looks though have I? I'm on about those below who are below average in looks not to rely on these videos to get their self esteem up only to get it blown apart with over confidence that can be a direct result of watching videos like this
@DanielMores3 жыл бұрын
I feel like these things cannot be taught but learned by experience. You certainly won't reach RDJ level charisma by following these rules.
@machupikachu10853 жыл бұрын
that's the spirit!
@lathanturner86083 жыл бұрын
To make this all clear about the interview. Sherlock is not depressed. He's observing.
@jomorkenstrseth35263 жыл бұрын
I became an expert on finding the small thing the person opposite me kind of secretly wanted to show. Like complimenting a girl's n obviously fresh manicure. It allows youu to show that you are comfortable and secure enough in your own masculinity to compliment something that would be considered feminine to notice. I have turned women from meh to just really being curious what else I am a sure shot at.. It sort of became a reputation. To learn it took years of reading behaviour. The focus stemming from explosive adults when I was young. To be safe it was very important to be able to read adults, because I was unconventional in my approaches
@idbefamousifiwere3 Жыл бұрын
I love this! I was also really hypervigilant for a long time from my childhood and it sounds like you took something really difficult and made it into a positive trait of yours. That's not easy to do, good on you man
@MikePhoenix0073 жыл бұрын
But let's be honest... If you're handsome AF like Charlie or naturally charismatic AF like RDJ you don't really need to put any effort into holding attention in a conversation.
@machupikachu10853 жыл бұрын
I respectfully disagree. It's what takes a guy who looks like that from a Chad to a High Value individual.
@Incognit07773 жыл бұрын
Yes, you have to be attractive so that people focus more on you, but I doubt charisma is natural. I've improved a lot in that regard since I was a shy kid and later an introverted teen. It's still work in progress, but despite setbacks I'm more confident and assertive than before, something I wouldn't have even believed I would be.
@uptownsunni35603 жыл бұрын
All of these men are doing much more than standing there looking handsome. They are driving the situations they are in, being playful and showing interest in others. ANYONE can be better at doing all that.
@nochu9753 Жыл бұрын
If a man is handsome he can easily get attention at first, but if a handsome face is all he has, it becomes boring AF. Only a handsome face does not grant real attention for longer than 3 seconds.
@kimpaintscanvas70233 жыл бұрын
I naturally do this story baiting thing, but I think I overdo it a bit much cuz people often say I talk too much.
@corbans57963 жыл бұрын
Then maybe you're not actually telling interesting stories. Or maybe you should put the spotlight on others more
@zsofiasej3 жыл бұрын
I’ve always believed story baiting only goes well if you can hold the audience’s attention. Make sure you’re highlighting the tense/dramatic/funny parts, but being brisk and succinct with all other details. Otherwise your audience will lose interest.
@Hhhh22222-w3 жыл бұрын
Tell your story pause and ask the listener a question, just engage the listener and make them talk and give feedback during story telling is great as well
@kendawgthemasterdude3 жыл бұрын
In a one on one situation, try to only talk about 40% or less of the time, people talk more than they think
@cnh17103 жыл бұрын
Anyone who's watching these and are skeptical if any of this works. Let me tell you. It does. Tailor your personality to steps of what he is telling you.
@ninenzinga1542 жыл бұрын
Im at a loss. There is some of these tips on that i have had working organically at some point in my youth but have seemed to go dormant or evaporate. Itd be nice to be my full self again and thats attractive to myself if to no one else
@Plumpers3 жыл бұрын
Why does Charisma on Command always assume their audience is male. I would love to see more videos geared towards women!
@gonzalo_rosae3 жыл бұрын
statistics i guess, law of supply and demand besides, you women have it waay easier in romantic environments
@blackcat35853 жыл бұрын
@@gonzalo_rosae doesn't mean we dont have trouble with it. Sure it's easier in romantic situations. But it's harder to be taken seriously in professional settings!
@nikorasu_karasu3 жыл бұрын
How to be charismatic as a woman is a lot easier than men: be less than 250lbs and know the right times to NOT speak.
@MilaBarross3 жыл бұрын
@@nikorasu_karasu ok bud, if you want to be charismatic don't tell any section of society that "they need to know when to not speak"
@andrewactingwayne3 жыл бұрын
@@MilaBarross @playalisticmusic Thanks you for proving his point!
@izayuhhbohjanglez4413 жыл бұрын
Hey thanks so much bro for all your videos. No joke these videos have changed my life for the better… no.. I mean for the GREATEST!! Lol but seriously though,I absolutely can’t believe on all the opportunities that I have passed up due to my self being my worst enemy!!.. these videos gave me my faith in myself so THANK YOU A ZILLION!!
@JLPayne_78 Жыл бұрын
How to be attractive to women: Look like Charlie Hunnam and tell a story about saving a kitten. But most importantly look like Charlie Hunnam. That is all.
@ladyjei Жыл бұрын
This is pretty dang accurate. I use many of these tactics in tech negotiations every day. Very observant… And if this course is as good as the insights in the video, it’ll be worth it (to guys especially). Level up your COMMUNICATION skills guys. Women adore that!
@juliacharlie37023 жыл бұрын
My husband reeled me in by telling me about the time he saved an injured owl lol
@dwim6193 жыл бұрын
Can you do a video on how to respond to someone who attempts to mischaractarize you? ie. Falsely accusing of racism, assuming you're something your not or whatever.
@KaiserSoze6792 жыл бұрын
See, the problem with a lot of these (and honestly a lot of the traits this chanel highlights in general) is that they at least somewhat rely on having previously cultivated a particular type of persona, which is easy when you're famous and most people have seen you do a number of things, but it's not so easy as a regular Joe just meeting somebody for the first time. Take for example, 8:54 . That over the top cocky joke works BECAUSE it's RDJ, and he's known for that type of personality. Even other celebrities, if they haven't established that type of personality, wouldn't be able to pull that off. Like, can you honestly imagine that joke coming out of Evans or Hemsworth? I sure as hell can't, and if they'd said it, it would have come across really weird, and probably a bit off-putting. He makes it work because that's his shtick. I remember thinking this same thing when watching the video the used Craig Ferguson as an example of flirting, and how he uses these over-the-top, uniquely worded compliments (almost always about someone's appearance) and again, that works because he's Craig... but if a random, less attractive, guy who hasn't established a persona as this whacky, flirty, charming guy copied the same lines, it'd probably come across creepy. So in the end a lot of this seems like lessons on how to use types of charisma you already have... but if you already have them, you don't need to videos.
@user-go2xi7zq5q2 жыл бұрын
Interesting. This is a thought I always have. You can have these kinds of personalities and it works well because you’re a celebrity. I used to be that kind of charismatic person when I was younger. It worked well truthfully but it also sometimes comes off as obnoxious or trying too hard, and that’s a balance that’s easier to achieve if you’re a celeb.
@alexfeder47212 жыл бұрын
Confidence is when you know what you can offer, and who you are, and believe that is enough for you and your loved one, rest is just the world, no big deal
@brandonknable78902 жыл бұрын
True
@jamesoliver26273 жыл бұрын
To any young viewer or person looking for help socializing watching you need to seriously stop watching this channel AND others like it. Speaking from experience watching these kind of videos almost ruined my life bro, it made talking to people like science with all these tips and deadass some lies altogether. Plus it can make you think like a sociopath looking at people not as humans but as puppets. So with all the love of my heart close the damn phone and learn how to actually communicate and be more social through experience, plus stop trying to manipulate people with tricks like the one in those videos cuz it's really obvious and it makes you look bad and manipulative. Peace and good luck to everyone who took the time to read this♥️
@SpicyNuggs5622 жыл бұрын
I respectfully disagree. These videos teach valuable social skills. If you want to just "be yourself" and then accept whatever the consequences are, then go ahead, but a lot of us want to be more attractive and charming, because being attractive and charming generally makes one's life significantly easier.
@simchaehrman65293 жыл бұрын
There is finally another video I hit it off impatiently
@johnp.87493 жыл бұрын
Is it possible to make a video about Raymond Reddington from Blacklist? I think there is a lot to learn about him, especially regarding his personality and confidence.
@Letgoofthatfear3 жыл бұрын
I literally wait for your video!! They are great and I love it. They help me grow as a person alot
@captaino163 жыл бұрын
The first story is just making me think of Dennis Reynolds and his fake dog story on It's Always Sunny.
@justanotherfella44783 жыл бұрын
One thing girls love is if you achieve soemthing and instead of talking about that, talking good things about your mother and how grateful you are. Gets them everytime.
@Raphanne3 жыл бұрын
I agree, another one is talking about what you have learned in life and why you're thankful for it. It shows me that you have humility to recognize you didn't know something before, introspection to have been able to realize it, a will to improve yourself and a positive mindset to be thankful for all of it.
@nicoleonfeels3 жыл бұрын
Sure you could be get people to like you, but the more important question is: do you like you?
@hurk4thewin8103 жыл бұрын
It’s hard to like you when the whole female race doesn’t. Becoming the nicest person doesn’t get you success at all. I will narrow it down since you possibly wouldn’t understand. It’s when you get the latest yugioh / Pokémon cards as an adult and becoming extremely happy. You like yourself, but does the female? No.
@corbans57963 жыл бұрын
@@hurk4thewin810 also don't call them 'the female race' super off putting
@williamcecil42653 жыл бұрын
@@corbans5796 yeah, they're the same species.
@Hhhh22222-w3 жыл бұрын
You like yourself enough to want to spread that likeability with others ofc
@Hhhh22222-w3 жыл бұрын
@@hurk4thewin810 don't be a salty incel, have an abundance mindset
@myufostory6893 жыл бұрын
The fact that he's attractive is why he has her attention. I've tried sharing stories and the females walk away in midsentence.
@derek.seaborn3 жыл бұрын
Have you never seen less-attractive people with good looking people? There's many variables that aren't mentioned in this video. Don't give up on yourself.
@blaulich52823 жыл бұрын
U sound like an incel dude
@Kellah91Official2 жыл бұрын
You need charisma and personality. If you're funny and know what to say and how to say it, you're there already. I know ugly dudes with beautiful females simply because they're funny and charismatic yet ugly.
@tobywatson70682 жыл бұрын
i feel your pain fella x
@Michael-dh5iz3 жыл бұрын
I just wrote and it's being published as we speak. Guys get Confidence wrong most of the time, the read things like "Stand tall", and other things, but if you have to remember these things you'll come off as Confidences close cousin, arrogance. The way to be confident surprisingly is by being honest with yourself, we all want to have good traits, but instead of taking an inventory we act like we are good at everything. The person who isn't honest about their weaknesses are UNSURE OF THEMSELVES, this is insecurity defined. By knowing your positives, you can be strong on them, by knowing your weaknesses, you can admit them, and your body language will automatically change, remember body language, some 80% of communication, is merely the outward expression of what is on the inside. Women have a heightened sense of reading body language, because they couldn't risk getting a bad leader. The most confident guys don't say anything positive about themselves, for example at a bar, talking to women, they ask "What do you do for fun", what do most guys do? They act like their lives are a joy a minute, but then the girls either believe or not, when I am asked "What do you do for fun", I say "Nothing, my life is boring", they see this as incredible confidence as I do not have to impress them, they respond "No way I don't believe that", so it adds mystery and they wonder what I do for fun, since I have their invisible shields down they fill in the blanks with their greatest fantasy of what they want in a man. The problem with story telling, I see this a lot with guys and girls, is that a guy for example can tell a story about a motorcycle, and a girl will hate it, and boom, over. If I were a famous movie star on one of those shows and they asked me what I do, I'd say "My live is pretty boring", no one would believe it, they would fill in the blanks of what they want in a man, and they'd all see pure confidence in that I don't care if they think my life is boring. Be different from every guy, every guy TRIES, you have to stop trying, just do, take, be, and you will draw women left and right. What drives me most crazy is guys putting the onus on women for everything, "Would you like to go to lunch with me", the guy is making the girl the decision maker, and they hate that, when you see a girl you're interested in, walk up and say "Come on I am taking you to lunch', her instincts will force her to come with you, for women instinctually follow a leader, and adore men who make decisions for them, Finally stop making the women the prize, you are the prize and act like it.
@brandonknable78902 жыл бұрын
Great comment
@wefinishthisnow38832 жыл бұрын
Your points are still valid, but this example of Craig Ferguson in this context is just all kinds of wrong: 1 - Firstly, the guest's motivations are entirely different to anything one would experience in the real world. Their intention for being there is to promote their own brand and/or recent project, so they want to come across with a certain image themselves (e.g. fun, relatable, comedic, smart, whatever their brand). 2 - Secondly, there are discussions with agents, producers etc back stage to discuss how to best promote that brand and can get a 'pep talk' into how to best behave with Craig. Some shows (not Craig's I believe) even script many parts of this. 3 - Thirdly, although filmed in front of a live studio audience, most of these shows are heavily edited, so they can edit out the bad flirting or jokes that bomb. 4 - Fourthly, Craig is relatively rich and famous, well groomed and not considered hideously ugly. This makes women interested in him immediately, regardless of what he says or how he flirts. 5 - Fifthly, many of the guests (and possibly Craig himself) can be drunk or on some illicit substance, so of course they will behave a bit more openly and flirty than usual. There's even a scene at 7:24 where she's drinking DURING the interview! TLDR: Nobody in the real world will EVER be talking to girls who are as open or interested before a word has been spoken. The dynamic is completely different, making things MUCH easier for Craig. Not invalidating points, just a bad example in this context.
@firstname10743 жыл бұрын
As a woman I am just hear to see how accurate this video’s going to be 😂😂😂
@Novocaino_GG3 жыл бұрын
So what did you think?
@FlamingManofIron3 жыл бұрын
So, what do you think?
@orangy85493 жыл бұрын
So what do you think?
@Novocaino_GG3 жыл бұрын
Yeah I dont think she's gunna respond
@orangy85493 жыл бұрын
@@Novocaino_GG I was just tryna continue the chain lol
@ogersteiner2 жыл бұрын
This may be my new favorite KZbin channel. I usually agree with everything you guys say. I think we are on the same page but I will keep watch to continue to improve on my personality.
@rxt7403 жыл бұрын
Please do a charisma breakdown of luther (played by idris elba).
@Nobody-xp6ip2 жыл бұрын
"...don't have to keep the spotlight for yourself and rather redirect it at someone else" Bold of you to assume I got the spotlight in the first place
@danielmurray98203 жыл бұрын
That first story did seem massively "amn't I a beutiful person " ... really bigging himself up.seemed obvious to be honest... RDJ ... Great to watch , great manner.
@Raphanne3 жыл бұрын
I agree, I would personnally find someone showing a bit more humility to be more attractive.
@iaayush19462 жыл бұрын
Be playful Give honest compliment Be a risk taker A protector
@SeeDestinFlorida3 жыл бұрын
Love your videos, You should check out some older shows main characters, like... castle, burn notice, and white collar, also great examples of charisma
@pamelaschutz283 жыл бұрын
love your videos. I always learn so much. Thanks for sharing!!
@vonjd3 жыл бұрын
0:48 Actor and screenwriter Charlie Hunnam really literally uses this cheap cliche of the screenwriting bible "Save the Cat" by Blake Snyder. And it works! 🤣😎
@romain5920 Жыл бұрын
The succes of this type of videos obviously shows how much people are totally lost in this collapsing society.
@chihaya22993 жыл бұрын
Just imagining RDJ being playfully smacked everytime and their some serious smack here and there
@mikomelandro2 жыл бұрын
Robert confirmed what I've been thinking in social occasions for so long! He's a Genius Mentor!
@taabishkhanself-improvemen73313 жыл бұрын
*5 ways to raise your vibration:* *1. Smile and laugh* *2. Do what makes you happy* *3. Eat a healthy diet* *4. Workout* *5. Meditation* Love from a small channel💙
@Kevo_942 жыл бұрын
Looks is what catches all the attention in the first place. It's what makes others interested in you and things related to you.
@taabishkhanself-improvemen73313 жыл бұрын
*”The next chapter of your life has not been written yet, you hold the pen. Write the story you want to read.”* Love from a small channel 💙
@vojtapro48432 жыл бұрын
Be confident and be yourself. Worked like a charm for me.
@IceTom873 жыл бұрын
Always famous people as an example.
@corbans57963 жыл бұрын
Well they don't have 100 hours of your life filmed so they can't do one about your life
@IceTom873 жыл бұрын
These press conferences are pure coached business appearances and not their private behaviour.
@corbans57963 жыл бұрын
@@IceTom87 yeah I'm sure they get coached. And now we're being coached. The principals themselves are still true tho. It doesn't matter how 'real' the interviews are the fact is we find them attractive. And this channel is just explaining why.
@BT-vu2ek2 жыл бұрын
I'm not going to debate the validity of any of the concepts in this video. But you DO realize that talk show hosts are GIVEN a list of questions to ask the guest. The guest already has had time to construct his answers. It is NOT totally off the cuff responses.
@davidanthony64083 жыл бұрын
They learned this stuff from the legend T.J. Mackie, AKA Tom Cruise.