What Do Women Find Attractive In YOU?

www.thesocialge... | What makes an attractive guy? What do women think is attractive in a man? The answer may be different than you think.
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[@user-zy4xp5ku8p]

This man deserves more views.I look forward seeing more videos of his.

[@shogogarcia]

Much appreciated :) More videos on the way...

[@beneph3543]

You are so wise, you deserve WAY more views.

[@shogogarcia]

[@shogogarcia]

Not only is it better than nothing Nate, it's the BEST thing. The way people (including you and me) get better at things, become better people, better men, and are able to contribute amazing things in life, is by taking action and working at it. The way I see it, the fact that you're working at it puts you in a great position for your own growth and becoming the man who you envision :)

[@shogogarcia]

Thanks Haboo, stay with it man, it gets easier as time goes on. It's a slow and steady process, but you WILL see progress when you stick with it and follow the path that feels right to you. I'll have more videos coming that will help you.

[@MyP3ac3Bro]

Thank GOD I found this channel. Awsone vids. Thanks Shogo!

[@alk4674]

I'm a woman and I'm attracted to a man who owns who he is. Many months ago I was talking to this man who was shy and a bit clumsy. But he somehow owned his mannerisms and this made him very attractive and memorable. He stood out from the crowd. And all I thought was "he seems so interesting!".

[@haboonaimee]

First comment, your stuff is pretty inspiring and motivating,I've always been shy and awkward but im slowly changing .Life's difficult because you got to balance a lot of things,creating value of oneself naturally and producing attraction can be tough because its not linear.

[@proflob]

Shogo, i keep thinking of you the whole evening. It is because you've said something that works for me. Couple of things. But i will tell about one. The difference between goodlooking and attractive. Thank you!

[@cockyandfunny]

Many people have been thought by the pua stuff not to listen to what women say, however, I'm starting to believe that what they say will help us tremendously.

[@Mrtjtran]

Your a genius and a very good public speaker!

[@jonathanking2261]

I would also say looking good as a guy gets you the interview...but it doesnt mean your application was accepted.

[@NateSpurs]

deep down she knows i'm not overly into her on a relationship level. I#m pretty sure that's why i've not pushed sexually too. Maybe she picks up on vibes from me with other women when we are are out. In fact, forget that I know she does, she even mentions this stuff. We were in a bar the other day and she was asking me what I thought of the girl behind the bar etc. Thanks man by the way.

[@Hobbies305]

Real talk Shogo

[@gameheadcentral8011]

This video hped with my whole life and changed me thank you sooo much

[@NateSpurs]

Talk talk sense dude. To be honest I'd had an argument with my neighbour that day and was feeling a little highly strung. This girl has a bit of baggage too and which doesn't help matters. I am a bit a too sensitive in general which doesn't help. I try not to be and I need to stop letting things get to me. Had a lot of shit early in life though which doesn't help me cause. I'm trying to be a better, more relaxed person which is better than nothing I guess.

[@NateSpurs]

LIke i said you talk a lot of sense. (Sorry for typos earlier but i guess you got my drift). I think i've really pushed this girl away now as she hasn't responded to my last message to her. I could be feeling a little paranoid, although i'm almost certain she just wants me to reciprocate some of the stuff she's been saying to me and i've not exactly shown any real keeness. I really like her as a friend though and even though we've not fully discussed anything especially deeper than that...

[@jonathanking2261]

There is a certain degree of trutb here. Women are definitely more attracted to personal traits such as humor and wit. However how you treat your body does fall under the category of body language. You can be an average joe in the face..but women are definitely looking at how you are treating yourself. Perhaps its beneficial for guys to think more about personality in a woman because it could lead to more rewarding relationships. For some guys and most women its really about the entire package.

[@shogogarcia]

It's not what she's saying that is messing with you, it's your reaction to it. Example: She said you're obsessed with sex, you got offended. Are you actually obsessed with sex? You say you haven't had sex and you're not pushing it. Sounds like you're not obsessed with sex. If you're not obsessed with sex, don't let it bother you. If she doesn't like your behavior and you think you're acting fine, don't change her mind about it. Give her the choice to take you or leave you as you are.

[@sydniusalminia5364]

good video brother

[@shogogarcia]

Any time man

[@vincebeckley9506]

Man, I wish he would make more videos!

[@Komega01]

oh sure i see what you mean.... accept this is real life.

[@piyushsoniccc]

amazing

[@cockyandfunny]

Those kinds of chicks are abundant too. Fortunately, there are the good ones, too :)

[@niraiarasu131]

hey shogo iam an indian i like a girl we are great frnds........ but i lack topics to talk over phone

[@mugen1777]

shogo garcia what you said at 1;40, Ive actually heard a majority of woman say that. woman don't care about looks like men do. i see some fat guys i know of have some hotass gfs you just gotta be fun around woman and have money because all women hate broke men and boring men

[@NateSpurs]

My point was they contradict themselves constantly. Women are just a massive paradox. I can listen all day but the problem with women is they always change their minds. It's all emotions with women. I got told i'm not in touch with my emotions by a girl i've been seeing the other day, also i'm obsessed with sex (even though we haven't even done it and i've not pushed her at all), but i relate things to sex too much in conversation.

[@notsocbr]

This guy is good

[@fleek2102]

Hey Shogo, I wanna meet girls. I don't think I lack confidence but I feel like I don't really have much to offer them once they give me their numbers. I'm sorta poor and I don't have a car yet. I have a job but not enough to go on fun dates. How do I go on dates if I'm dirt poor?

[@shogogarcia]

Hey Franco, go on dates that don't cost anything. Go for a hike, the dog park, the beach and bring supplies from home, go on an adventure to your favorite places and have an adventurous conversation. The most "fun" dates are actually creative dates that don't cost anything. Going out with women doesn't require money--it's all about who you are, not what you have. But that also means to explore and expand who you are and what is important to you in your life right now. If you are self-conscious about not having money, or if you think your lack of money is limiting your options with regard to how much fun and excitement you are able to have in life right now, that is where you should be directing your attention.

[@fleek2102]

Thanks a lot for the advice Mr. Garcia! I feel like I can definitely do that! Wouldn't it be hard to meet her without a car though? Would it be weird if we just met at the park separately? It kinda seems like what a high school student would do.

[@MadMarcusProductionz]

What that comment was saying is the ugliest guy can be attractive if his wallet is deep enough, haha.

[@dudleygt3327]

i can tell you what it mean ugly men have to try harder and good looking guys just have to show interest with ugly confident men they have to be intriguing and interesting in order for females to like him lol sooooo yeah its bad either way

[@shogogarcia]

:)

[@shogogarcia]

Good call Juan. A lot of the PUA stuff is rooted in fear of women, which comes about because of a lack of willingness to understand women. When men try to understand what women are all about, they go everywhere except the only real source--women. This continues to perpetuate the same lack of understanding, which perpetuates the same fear.