What Do You Wear to Mass?

[@tomlewis9207]

Retired NYC Police Officer here. Whenever I was required to go to court, I was expected to wear a suit. I was there to testify to truth. Several years ago, I came to the conclusion that one of the things that brought me to Mass, was to testify to THE TRUTH. Been wearing a jacket and tie since. Just this man's take.

[@ReconFacks]

You have my respect, sir. 🫡🎖️

[@frannyleyden7988]

You are correct.

[@WT-Sherman]

@@frannyleyden7988 Never have to wonder - What to wear . Also saves money on clothing. Plus - it’s impossible to overdress for Mass.

[@Valerie_Staples]

Never wear low cut anything ladies. We don't want to distract from the Mass. As a general rule if you can lean over and look at the mirror and see cleavage it's too low cut. These are simple things we can do to help the men around us.

[@RussWhite-yz2nk]

Court is a manmade institution. Don't conflate cultural norms with religious truth.

[@Catholiclady3]

I'm coming to Mass to meet the King. I'm going to wear my best, which is only a $40 dress. But its still my best.

[@johnnotrealname8168]

If it is modest you are better than most. Keep it up. The cost is not the issue.

[@manga12]

@@johnnotrealname8168 look it dont have to be fancy, what is holy is vailed and covered, the bare minimum the church requires and always did was cover your knees and shoulders not too much below the neck and not too tight and do what you can, and your golden, but I go to a traditional latin mass, mostly like it was decades ago and its soo nice visually and very traditional but not all guys wear suits usually a collard shirt though some are comming from a medical job so its scrubs or for me a third shift worker polo shirt and natural colored duck cotton khakis, and black shoes, and when I can a suit or white button down and suite pants.

[@johnnotrealname8168]

@@manga12 Yarp. Exactly.

[@darwinortiz6394]

@@Catholiclady3 Thanks awesome

[@finas.9577]

I was raised to dress your best to go to Mass. My mom would say “if you’re going to take hours getting ready to go out with friends or to a party, you should do better to go to Mass”.

[@user-ks3qr5fk6m]

@@Roman-LabradorIt’s not about brands or money. No one is being asked to buy a ball gown nor a suit. It’s about dressing your best for a special occasion. I have a few dresses that I cycle through every Sunday. If you go to the mall, you will find all sorts of formal and informal expensive skimpy, immodest clothes. Go wherever you can afford and find clothes that is simple and modest. Ask yourself, if I were invited to a special occasion, would I wear jeans and a t-shirt? There is nothing immodest about these types of casual clothes but the people who invited you might be offended that you didn’t even try. My cousin buys all of her wedding guest outfits at Ross. Sometimes they have nice formal wear for less than $20. I don’t know if you’ve been married or not, but when I got married, two wealthy relatives showed up in jeans. I can only assume that something happened to whatever they were planning on wearing the morning of and they didn’t have time to wear something else. If you’re not married, then imagine going on a date night. Wear something nice. You don’t have to wear something expensive. But dress your best.

[@timcusack9388]

Your mother is right

[@user-ks3qr5fk6m]

@@Roman-Labrador No money for socks, but you have internet? Listen, my family came from a remote area in Mexico where there was no gas, running water nor electricity. They had a small room of a house with dirt floor. You had to make your clothes via sewing. My grandma had ten kids and always said that there is a difference between being poor and lazy. We can make excuses for not trying. Again, it’s not about being rich. No one is going to scold you for wearing polyester instead of silk. It’s more of the style of dress. America is a wealthy country but that doesn’t mean that people dress nice. If you go to the store, airport etc. You will spot people in pajamas and house slippers with messy hair. They are not poor and homeless. Lots of women walk around in stretchy pants because they choose to not dress even casually to run errands. This is not a poor person problem, this is a societal problem that says a lot about our character as a society. Nothing and no one is worth changing out of the stretchy pants.

[@TaylorMarita]

​@Roman-Labrador even if you have one nice outfit to wear to Mass every week that is enough. Doesn't need to be a suit if that's not what you can afford. I've also seen some nice items at the thrift store for a reasonable price. More than reflecting our finances, our outside reflects our inside more often than not. God bless you

[@TaylorMarita]

@Roman-Labrador have you asked your church for help with both? They are there to help

[@debk3297]

I worked in cold factory on Sundays. Weekend shift. 3 sweatshirts 2 pr pants face all red from cold. No time to change. 2 of us raced to Mass. Thank God to our fellow Catholics. No judgment on our clothes. And we were able to be with them and Jesus at Mass. Now retired, I can dress for God.

[@blaisemacpherson7637]

@@debk3297 absolutely nothing wrong with that. Where I went to Mass in Colorado it was a little log church on the Platte River (st Elizabeth Buffalo creek if you are ever in the area) and it was a biker church. Catholic bikers would show up in cuts and chains.

[@leenasmitacounsellor161]

You were there for the Lord!. That's all that matters!. Thanks so much for sharing. God bless you!

[@Valientangel]

U r not to work on the Lord's Day. Hav u forgotten the 3rd Commandment? Israel was captive for 70 yrs for not keeping the Sabbath.

[@xlovelydearx]

@@Valientangelthat is a luxury some people don’t have. A nurse has to work the weekends depending on the job at a hospital. Or doctors or EMTs.

[@debk3297]

​@Valientangel I know. As a sinner I know what you reminded me of is true. I hated every minute of it so it was a short time of employment. No excuse. Bless you

[@karenwaterman2265]

I tend to wear "church clothes" for Sunday Mass. A few years ago, I realized I didn't dress up when I attended a weekday Mass. I just wore whatever casual clothes I was wearing that day. But why? Isn't it the same Jesus 😮? So I prayed about it. "God, what do you want me to wear to Mass?" God answered: "A clean heart." Since then, I have been going to confession more regularly so I can "wear" a clean heart for Mass.

[@Siegzon]

Such a great answer.

[@JonineBlackshear]

Beautiful-Love this!!! ❤

[@themonsterunderyourbed9408]

Honestly, confession should be open for 45 minutes before the start of every mass. That way everyone should have the chance to receive communion in a state of Grace.

[@SinaS-w4o]

Wow.

[@markja3249]

Absolutely!!

[@elizabethk8938]

I grew up in the 70’s and 80’s where we were told to dress however you want. God doesn’t care what you wear. Just go to Mass. Well. As an adult I now realize that dressing up for Mass is right. You are going to the house of our Lord and God. The King of the universe! Dress appropriately and show our love and respect to God.

[@Sorchia56]

You must have gone to an “on its own” Catholic Church. I grew up going to Mass in the 70’s on up and we wore our Sunday best. I’m 56f and have never worn slacks to Mass. My head is always covered as well with a mantilla or hat.

[@maryannesaliba1972]

I am in my 70's and I like to dress elegantly to mass but above all it's how pure and good we are inside and especially how much love we have inside

[@daisyg8384]

I believe that God doesn't expects us to look a certain way for Mass. I think it comes only from traditions. And also, when I see people on Sunday mornings that look really modest, in simple clothes, I feel like they really embody the humbleness that Jesus wants us to cultivate. And I think we should keep in mind that we come to celebrate God during this event, not ourselves. So, the simplest outfits appear as the most appropriate for church, to me. I think that fancy clothing is better for pagan celebrations or family parties.

[@itruck96]

​@@daisyg8384What a joke.

[@pamelabalcom5583]

@@daisyg8384we have to start questioning why we did things to begin with. Why did people ever dress up? Why did people stop? Is there cause to equate tradition and faith? Or at least consider tradition as a part of faith? Begs answering

[@margaretwissler4874]

My dad used to wear a jacket and tie to mass and the men in our parish used to joke about my dad “over dressing” 😢 years later in my same parish all young dads and their sons wear jackets and tie. What a great blessing to see it now as the “normal”.

[@Mari-oe8md]

I am in my 60's visually impaired and disabled. I always try my best to dress as best as I can. Income is less than 700 a month. No I can't afford nice new clothes! But, I can and do find nice outfits, dresses at the 2nd hand or goodwill stores. But most importantly I strive to dress my heart and soul with the grace of God.

[@judithfejedelem1754]

I understand totally. I'm 75, on a fixed income and buy my clothes at thrift stores. My goal is to dress modestly.

[@Mari-oe8md]

@judithfejedelem1754 absolutely.

[@peace-and-quiet]

God knows when we are doing our best and when we're not.

[@roseparade_]

@@mike.p.1400 What do you mean you don't believe her? What a strange thing to say

[@blaisemacpherson7637]

I like your style! Yeah, dress up. But no that doesn't mean the same thing for everyone.

[@amandapflanz1041]

I’m a convert of 12 years, and at first I was in the camp, Jesus is just happy I’m here, jeans and t-shirt. Now, many years later and a daily Mass goer, I wear a long dress and veil. I don’t do it for anyone else other than Jesus. I always internally say, “I’m looking my best for my Man 🥰”. Now, I also think what would Our Lady be wearing if she was physically here right now? Probably not jeans and a t-shirt. However, if it’s literally all you have, then of course wear it and go to Mass! Jesus knows your heart. ❤️‍🔥🙏🏻🌹

[@dragonwraithmusic4500]

well said

[@danoberweiser93]

Truth! We are going to see The King! Well said, lil' sis! 😇

[@amandapflanz1041]

@@danoberweiser93 thanks big bro 😎

[@jdglock9114]

V E I L S Thank you to all the ladies who wear veils. You give a very powerful witness to us all. From: A guy 🙏🏻😀

[@RanMouri82]

Agreed 100%. Christ Our Lord knows us. I'm seeing lots of comments of people feeling the need to spiritually go deeper by dressing up for Mass. I get the impression it was good for you as a new convert to feel free to show up as you were, but that your current mode of dress reflects spiritual flourishing and maturity. Thank you for the good example!

[@heatherqualy9143]

I was humbled a couple months ago on this issue. I’m close to a family I see at church. I saw the parents and two of the kids come into mass a couple minutes late. Wearing t-shirts and shorts. And not even nice ones. The girls push the limits sometimes in their dress, but I thought this was REALLY pushing it. And one of the girls had shorts that were way too short. I was a little exasperated with the parents for letting them come like this. And at their casual wear as well. At the end of mass, I go up to the family for the usual hugs. The dad tells me how they had been up at their cabin, and there was a horrible storm, the power went out, this and this and that happened, and they barely had time to get to church, with no time to go home and even change. 😳 How many times, before I learn not to judge people? We don’t know what others are going through. Thank you, God. Reprimand noted. 😊

[@johnnotrealname8168]

That...that is not an excuse.

[@dps6198]

That is still no excuse to expose that much skin in church. Period.

[@heatherqualy9143]

@@johnnotrealname8168 You’re right. They should have skipped church, or driven home first and come half an hour late once they had better clothes on. 🙄Did you WATCH this video?

[@Mr.N3cro]

​@@johnnotrealname8168 so a storm isn't a good enough excuse to change clothes?

[@johnnotrealname8168]

@@Mr.N3cro No, I agree. Changing clothes is a good idea...but you know modest ones.

[@CharleneEvenson]

Dressing in the best you have is a sign of respect.

[@williameddy9919]

Respect to me is covering yourself up not dressing up.

[@elizabethw4519]

Yes! If you would dress up to see the mayor, president, or a wedding, you should have the same mindset for attending Mass! We are spending time with the creator!!!

[@elenoralarkin9975]

When I was growing up, there was an expression to “wear your Sunday best” when going to a special event, such as a wedding or meeting a dignatory etc. It was considered a sign of respect

[@skylergroen]

Ties and dresses!

[@jenniferd1703]

I'm old enough to remember Latin mass with back to the congregation. Women wore dresses, gloves and hats ..men suit and tie ...church was an event ...I miss that time

[@Maverick-zy7yu]

You can still find TLM and it’s still that way 😊

[@bluefinMarga]

@@Maverick-zy7yu Yes! Our TLM attire is beautiful! Many women wear veils as well.

[@KellyS_77]

TLM is the old rite, as opposed to the Novus Ordo (new order rite) that most Catholic Churches follow. If you decide to look for a traditional latin mass, I would suggest looking up an FSSP or SPPX service near you. There is a difference between them but both seem to be good. I'd recommend watching a few videos on youtube about them as they are a little different from the Novus Ordo mass that you would normally attend. (Communion on the tongue, everything is in Latin except the homily, there's incense, sprinkling of holy water, etc.) TLM masses are really quite lovely and very reverent. If there is one near you, you should really consider trying to attend, especially if you miss the old rite.

[@joane24]

Compare it to what they were wearing general in the daily life. Context matters. I think it's good enough to wear something neat, decent and modest, some discreet elegance, without necessity of dressing up in very formal wear.

[@RanMouri82]

​@joane24 There's also something to be said about modern casual dress being a bit too casual. Some folks go shopping while wearing bedroom slippers.

[@klasik68]

As a dad, I don't care what my kids wear when they visit me or call upon me for help just as long they still have faith and know that I will always be there for them. I see God the same way. We as people put the value and importance in not the best clothing but in the style of clothing. Every day that I go to mass, I go to God as a sinner and no matter what style of clothing I wear it doesn't cleanse me of my sin but only God does!

[@DAKneesy]

He gets modesty, purity of heart, and an openness to hear His call. I actually felt interiorly the call to wear long skirts, no pants, and veil in Mass.

[@AlexanderBrown77]

♥️1 Peter 1 KJV 12 Unto whom it was revealed, that not unto themselves, but unto us they did minister the things, which are now reported unto you by them that have preached the gospel unto you with the Holy Ghost sent down from heaven; which things the angels desire to look into. 1 Corinthians 15 KJV ✝️🩸 1 Moreover, brethren, I declare unto you the gospel which I preached unto you, which also ye have received, and wherein ye stand; 2 By which also ye are saved, if ye keep in memory what I preached unto you, unless ye have believed in vain. 3 For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that Christ died for our sins according to the scriptures; 4 And that he was buried, and that he rose again the third day according to the scriptures: Acts 20 KJV 🩸 28 Take heed therefore unto yourselves, and to all the flock, over the which the Holy Ghost hath made you overseers, to feed the church of God, which he hath purchased with his own blood.

[@Mr.N3cro]

Why a veil?

[@AlexanderBrown77]

@@Mr.N3cro 2 Corinthians 3 KJV 16 Nevertheless when it shall turn to the Lord, the vail shall be taken away. 17 Now the Lord is that Spirit: and where the Spirit of the Lord _is_ , there is liberty. 18 But we all, with open face beholding as in a glass the glory of the Lord, are changed into the same image from glory to glory, _even_ as by the Spirit of the Lord. 😀

[@florencegarcia208]

I felt the interior call to wear a veil just last May. It just came to my mind for a week. And I felt a calling to wear one. I finally bought one, and I wear it every time I go Mass. It was weird for me at first bc I didn't want to draw any attention and make it seem like I'm more holier than another. I also think it shows a sign of love, purity, and modesty for the Lord.

[@david_nn]

@@Mr.N3cro 1 Corinthians 11: 2-16

[@youngsongmusic]

Mass is the only time i wear dress clothes. I figure God deserves my nicest. That being said, last summer I started a new job. And I had to wear shorts for that job because it's outside. I was a regular daily Mass-goer and I wanted to stop going because I felt if I couldn't wear nice clothes I should not be going. And I was mortified to show up in shorts. I had a small discussion with my pastor about this, and his words resonated. He told me to come to Mass in my uniform, shorts and all, offer my discomfort to God. I did that and was grateful i didnt separate myself from Him simply because of my uniform.

[@ellieplantagenet9121]

I sometimes wear shorts under my skirt. (I wear mid-calf length skirts - personal taste). If I need to be elsewhere or do something that shorts will be more appropriate or comfortable, I drop the skirt in the ladies room after Mass and exit through the narthex. No prob and no weird looks or comments.

[@Jesusme-p8e]

We grew up in a large family and we’re extremely poor, my mother could not afford to buy us Sunday best with how quickly we would grow an arrow even with handmaid downs. She would tell me and I continue to tell people you go with a clean heart and clean clothes to mass. So didn’t matter if I had on a pair of pants that were faded or a shirt, that wasn’t as dressy as others as long as they were clean, and I went to Jesus with a clean heart to mass 🙏🏻✝️♥️

[@NormaKiernan]

That's why Father Mike said it is best to give Jesus your BEST, and if that means faded jeans and a handmade blouse, Jesus KNOWS that! Just like the widow who put two coins in the collection basket when it was ALL that she had! That meant more to God than the large donations from people who were wealthy. He appreciated both donations, but he knew that the widow gave all she had because she had faith that he would provide for her!

[@sherylbeamer7189]

I know God will love us any way but I have always dressed up for mass and made my children do the same, I see it as a sign of respect to my fellow parishioners, our Priests and most importantly, the Lord ✝️🙏🏼❤️ It is surprising to me to see even older adults wearing shorts, tie dye t shirts and flip flops🛐 Thank you for addressing this Fr. Mike!💕

[@bonniemelielo5446]

The question to ask oneself is - do I dress "up" more for a party/Sat. night out/occasion (like a wedding) then I do to receive our Lord in His Body/Blood/Soul/and Divinity at Mass.

[@JohnRoX]

When you dress up for that Party, the key difference is that maybe on saturday its okay to have a little vanity in dressing up fancy. However when you come to Christ, be sure to leave that vanity behind, because Christ wants your heart! Dont hide it with the external clothing or what you might do when going to the club.

[@mariamorales428]

@@JohnRoX Extra clothing for the club? what clubs are you talking about? most women now days put on as little as possible to the clubs. The point is, when we go to Mass dress appropriately, modestly, it's really not that hard.

[@Marie-s9x8s]

For me, I might dress up for a party because the occasion is of this world and in this world appearance matters. But when I go to Mass, there are drastically more important things to think about. I'm not saying a person can't dress up and since we are all praying together I try to be considerate of the other people in the pews, but dress is in the end a very superficial thing, it's unfortunate to me that we spend so much time focusing on it when we discuss the Mass.

[@lhoover7334]

I dress up going to mass and I never judge what others are wearing. I feel better when I’m dressed up and I want to show my respect to God, so I feel like this is my way of showing my reverence for Him

[@terryhartman9522]

Thank you Father for reminding us to not judge others. I remember my grandmother , a Protestant, telling me when I was young, that she felt she was being judged for not having nice clothes to wear to church. I would never want someone to stay away from mass because they didn’t think they fit in.

[@NormaKiernan]

It only matters what Jesus thinks and he KNOWS your situation!

[@davidmorton2780]

When I usher, lector or am a Eucharistic Minister I always try and dress up, with a tie. I do go to Mass on Fridays, during lunch. I am a gardener so at Friday Mass I am not in my best clothes. When I attend Mass on Sunday only as a partitioner, I do still dress up. So I am all over the place. As a kid, my family was camping one weekend and my mom wanted to attend Mass, we were camping and on vacation, so we attended in shorts and t-shirts. I think if we have the ability and fortune or dress nice for Mass we should, but we shouldn’t let the fact that we don’t have something nice to wear prevent us from worshiping God either. Thanks Father Mike, I pray for you every day. ❤

[@joane24]

Not 'all over the place' but in accordance with your state of life/profession/liturgical task, honoring the context and circumstances.

[@santi7616]

I am totally agree with you

[@santi7616]

in order to go mass one should dress up ,in is possibilities , as correct as possible 😊

[@JohnRoX]

Christ wants you to come as you are. On Friday you may be a gardener, and Christ totally understands this does not need you out of Vanity to go and get formal gear on. This is exactly what this video is warning about. Vanity.

[@petesmith9472]

I was overwhelmed and a feeling of going home to Mass when I was on holidays in a town I was visiting. I entered the church and sat at the back. At the end I was slow to get out and was “forced” to bid farewell to the priest. I apologised profusely and his exact words were “we are so pleased to see you…at any time under any circumstances “.

[@sylviahelderly5057]

God Bless the people who come to Mass right from their jobs! If I am not working I strive to come see the King in my Sunday best,

[@oneperson5760]

I agree. Our church is downtown, near hospital and police station. We get scrubs and police uniforms because they are on break, or on their way to or from work. God bless those who serve others, working such long hours! It is best to not work Sundays, but medical and police always has to have someone ready on duty.

[@madams.5976]

Growing up, my parents didn’t have much. We didn’t have much. However, we had our “Sunday clothes”. We wore our best, whatever that was to church, because we were going to visit God in His house, not going to a ball game or the park. Today, I still like dressing for church. That just means that I wear something better than what I wear the rest of the week, because I’m going to spend time with someone very special: God.

[@jennifer7648]

Me too! I don't hardly ever get to dress up for much of anything anymore, so I love dressing up for Mass to see God☺️

[@fabibtncrt2]

My grandma would always take me to mass, and I would wear skirts or dresses. Always dressed nicely/modestly. I recently returned to church, and I still dress up, business casual, every time I go to mass or church grounds out of respect for the house of the Lord.

[@Nwakuebre273]

Everyone's best is different for everyone, God meets you where you are...

[@DawnLapka-c8i]

I was raised that way. Even when I didn't have nicer clothes to wear, I still chose my best outfit to put myself in the mindset of being joyful about going to sit beside a bunch of people I don't know to do the same thing that they do: pray, worship, and receive the Real Presence of the Lord in the Eucharist.

[@zanecote]

Growing up Catholic I would dress casual. Left for over a decade came back last year and I wear a suite and tie with dress shoes. I agree with Father Mike

[@simple_naildesigns]

Agree! And cover up as to not tempt our brothers and sisters.

[@cooperutley2502]

Father, I remember last year going to Mass at the Cathedral of Our Lady of the Rosary in Duluth Sunday evening after being in the Boundary Waters Canoe Area for three days. I left the BWCA Sunday morning. I had brought a change of clothes for Mass and changed in my car in the Cathedral’s parking lot. I didn’t have time to shower though so even though I threw on some deodorant I knew I still smelt terrible. It was so good to be there anyway. I got to meet you briefly afterwards and I thank you for the kindness you showed me in that meeting. I just joined the Church this past year’s Easter Vigil. Thank you for the help you have been to guide me and others to enter the Catholic Church and thank you for your dedicated service to the Church!

[@AnnaVicklund]

“What else would I wear to visit a King? “ This says it all for me!

[@pyxis55]

Here in Vermont, people don’t dress up for anything! I’ve started attending Mass and RCIA. I was surprised to see how people dress for Mass. Like jeans, cutoffs, sweatpants, etc. Since we live in such a casual place, I don’t have very dressy clothing either. But I do make an effort to wear the best I’ve got.

[@oneperson5760]

Maybe if you dress more nicely, others will take the hint and start doing so as well.

[@lguevara586]

Yes, Fr Mike, it's your heart that matters. And if your heart's set right, you'll dress right. Give God the best you can in that moment. Whatever your best is, He'll welcome even if it's the worst in the eyes of the world. And that goes for everything, not just apparel. The widow's mere two coins were her best. ❤️✝️

[@RanMouri82]

This! The widow offered her best from her want.

[@lguevara586]

@RanMouri82 Yes, indeed. 🙂❤️

[@TheresaBreymeyer-i5z]

Hi. Several years ago I went to an evening Christmas Eve mass and the last one of the day for our home church. I say home church because our priest had three other out of town parishes to minister to and the Christmas morning masses would be in two of those towns. My husband had to work late at the water department 45 miles away. By the time he got to town, he knew he would miss mass if he went home to change so he came in wearing his job uniform. I was so happy to see that he had made it but I noticed that he didn't go to communion. I asked him afterwards why he hadn't. He said, "Didn't you hear the people behind us? They said that only an uncaring moron would come to church dressed so crappy." My husband was far too embarrassed to go to communion after hearing that. I don't believe that our Lord cared that he was wearing a work uniform which wasn't even that dirty. What meant the most to our Lord is the my husband wanted to be there despite the work and clothing circumstances.

[@fawn1785]

I love seeing people in their work clothes. They are truly God's own people. 😇

[@Yoli-w10]

Those people should not be judging anyone!

[@MaryAntonia-tc9rv]

Your husband did more to get to church it was a sacrifice and meaningful. Those that were behind you were like the rich man that criticized Lazarus.

[@DoctorDanielle]

I used to leave my 7p-7a night shift as a nurse, drive directly to church, play the organ for mass wearing my scrubs from work, and then go home to shower and bed. If someone had criticized me for wearing scrubs and looking like a nurse who had just worked a 12 hr shift on the floor, I would have lost my mind. People can be so insensitive. I'm sorry you experienced that. I'm way more bothered that those 'good' Catholics were talking during Mass and being so critical.

[@JayseeLyn]

@@MaryAntonia-tc9rv This reminds me of the Gospel readings from this past Sunday, of the rich person giving alms vs the poor woman giving all she had.

[@dorothyschreiner6052]

I am of old school. If you can do better, be better. But.... I love that when we were in another city for a sport and we could get to mass immediately before or after, thank you Jesus, we felt at welcomed.

[@z8msban]

what?

[@jennifer7648]

​@@z8msban In other words, they didn't have time to change before Mass so they had to wear their sports uniforms.

[@marynywarriormom]

I love this message I like wearing my best to church out of love and respect for Jesus

[@user-kg1zv5xb1m]

If we were going to visit someone who was important.. wouldn’t we want to look our best?? It’s respectful and shows that person we care enough to make the effort for them. Surely God deserves the absolute best we can offer Him to be in His presence ✝️🙏🏻🌹

[@mariannakump8857]

I think it's important that we come to mass neat, clean and modest. No matter your economic situation, you can present yourself that way. It shows respect for the Lord, the church, the congregation, and yourself. Yes, God accepts us as we are but He also expects us to use good judgement.

[@i.b.640]

Neat, clean and modest are good words here. Nobody expects a ball gown or full horse race dress up.

[@wiiflix]

@@i.b.640 Definitely. Besides, nobody could see past all the very fancy hats!

[@oneperson5760]

Very true. Better clothes can be had for cheap at Goodwill. At least something modest, not torn or stained.

[@reeveetalk1907]

God will take you as you are. If you're already struggling to put yourself together or coming in from off the streets he will take you. I have ADHD. some days I've been more put together I dress more nicely for church. Some days I stayed up too late and instead of picking out nice clothes and doing a bunch to get myself ready I just throw something on and at least go to church.

[@brianahanson6449]

My background as a lifelong Protestant with Biblical studies around the tabernacle and [essentially] liturgy has clicked in a new way seeing the Mass and the Eucharist. I’m currently a catechumen who intends to become Catholic within the year. Anyway, the new eyes I see the Mass and the Eucharist with is leaving me with more of a sense of reverence. What I’ve studied about before is here on earth in the Mass and the Eucharist, right in front of me and not in a distant time and location. With these things has come the increased desire to dress nicer at Mass, something better than what I consider every day wear outside of work dress code. I’m getting dressed to serve as a priest together with those ordained in Holy Orders. That changes my attitude in actions, in attitude and how I desire to dress at Mass. It has also been changing how I want to dress in every day life, carrying God with me into the world. I want to wear dresses, nice ones that cover my shoulders, décolletage (chest and bosom area), back, down to my knees, and non-bodycon unless I have other clothing items that help with the modesty like leggings, undershirts, overshirts, and cardigan-like items. Such clothing items that can meet all of those criteria are difficult in the US. This leads to specialty stores or vendors and really digging out there or even getting custom clothes made by a tailor who can do it. But I’ll work with what I got and improve my wardrobe as I can over time.

[@KellyS_77]

Inherit has some lovely stuff. Expensive but lovely. They also have frequent sales and discounts. They have some very nice high necked camisoles that are fabulous for wearing under dresses that would otherwise be too low cut. I'm with you on the leggings, they rock as an alternative to regular pantyhose or tights. I never got the hang of tights/pantyhose, I'd always put my thumb through them or snag them on something. I just really despise pantyhose & tights, waste of money those are lol.

[@sam02150]

During the week, I usually dress casual during mass. I go to mass during my lunch break. However, on holy days, holidays, and Sunday I will always dress up my best. I also tell my kids to do the same as well.

[@RanMouri82]

Kudos for attending daily Mass! ❤

[@bcfriardoyle7697]

My kids went to Catholic School, but Sunday was a fight over what the kids would wear to Church. I quieted that down by buying two outfits for each child as a Church uniforms. Best thing I ever did. Smooth Sunday mornings after that!!🎉

[@ninjabgwriter]

This is a beautiful video. I've really been trying to embrace showing up in my Sunday best recently. For me, I find that trying to find as many ways to worship God through mundane actions as possible helps me keep my eyes on Him. It reminds me that He is my foundation, and should be at the heart of everything I do. I'm disabled, and sometimes I struggle to take care of myself or make decisions, but putting the extra effort in to make sure I've got a nice outfit clean and have properly gotten ready feels like a good sacrifice I can offer up, a way I can try to give God my best even if I don't have the ability to do so any other day of the week for myself. That point about also giving Him your worst is great too, because we definitely can't really do much about that on our own. As much as I'm trying to gather the effort to give Him my best, I'm also trying to get up the courage to give Him my worst and just keep showing up with whatever it is I have, because He cares most that I'm simply there.

[@jasonbienia3568]

Father Schmitz, I want to thank God for placing you in the position that you have, to heal prior damage and unite people by providing a better perspective on many topics, such as this. I have the same understanding as you, on this topic and have never been able to convey it as wonderfully as you do. Just as in Jesus's time with the Apostles, people selected portions of the truth to increase their worth and or decrease the worth of others. How to dress at mass is one of the simple examples of this with good priests and bad priests, good parishioners and bad parishioners fighting over the details instead of teaching and learning the meaning and allowing it to dictate the details and also the understanding of why the details may be acceptable depending on their heart. You've unlocked this topic from both sides and should make both sides happy. In the end, it's always about going deeper and not remaining on the surface. And in that respect, you could add, that while God always meets you where you are and loves you as you are, He always wants you to improve and become more than you are, in effect, to be more like Him. It is both and, not one or the other. It is adding together and not dividing. Did I say that ok? Ps I love saying the rosary with you on you tube every morning on my way to work. Oops, not doing it reverent on my knees in my prayer room. Lol. God Bless you.

[@mikef5212]

I love this video. I work weekends a lot and there are times where I have to floor it out of the parking lot to make it to mass 3 blocks away to show up on time in my work clothes with not even a minute to spare. I don’t feel any shame because I’m there to celebrate the mass and be witness to the sacrifice. Under normal circumstances I will wear jeans with a nice flannel as I live in an under-40 urban neighborhood while some show up in sports jerseys.

[@briangeraghty1555]

❤

[@tsaehtron]

A few thoughts: Firstly, I agree with you, Fr. Mike, that the external can convey the inner condition of the heart. However, in some societies (e.g. traditionally catholic) I've seen this take a turn towards a fashion show (but probably this is the question of people's individual responsibility). Secondly, in a world, where there is so much acceptance for ugliness and where it is assumed that beauty is relative and in fact does not exist, I would say, that taking care of the external beauty is a form of testimony, that it matters. Thirdly, what is beautiful is not necessarily good, but good is always beautiful. Oh! And today I'm on day 109 with the Bible in a Year and the reading was about Sammuel going to Jesse and his sons! And on the same day I'm listening to this podcast, where Fr. Mike mentions it. How crazy is that!

[@joane24]

That's also what is included in what Fr Mike said about the external conveying the internal - that what you later said that the attire is a testimony. These two points are in accordance with each other, there's no contradiction here.

[@mega-bustershepard5537]

The most important thing is to go. If you have to go when you just get off of work then go. But also try to look your best if you can.

[@elizabethpannell-ui6nf]

I always dress respectfully. My clothes are clean and neat. When I was a law enforcement officer I often attended Mass on my way home from work so I was in uniform. I try to be respectful of where I am and reflect that in my clothes. My clothing ranges from jeans and a sleeveless shirt with a light jacket to a nice dress or skirt and blouse. It also makes me feel better.

[@psychn1706]

Fr Mike is a BLESSING button

[@rachellewood813]

Huge blessing!

[@wiiflix]

Do you mean that your comment is meant as a button? I hope many people will like your comment. I’m sure an amazing number of people agree, and it would show our gratitude to Father and thanks to God for inspiring Father’s ministry.

[@bcloetta]

God deserves our best 100%. I am happy that you addressed this. I don’t think too much about what others are wearing at Mass with the exception of those that serve. I live in a rural area, so often when assisting at daily Mass many of us might be on our way to work or to some other endeavor which makes “best” dress difficult. (We drive great distances). But bare shoulders and knees on the altar disturb me.

[@Charlielizard]

I agree with you 100%. I have nerve damage in both legs and am forced to wear light weight clothing that doesn't put pressure on my skin. However, I always look my best with the black light weight pants and a shirt which has come freshly laundered and starched from the dry cleaners. I've seen many homeless people attend Mass and I always welcome them and try to make them feel welcome no matter what they are wearing. Thank you for your beautiful message Father Mike. 🙏✝️❤️

[@KaylaT93]

I was raised to dress up for mass, but we went to mass to listen to my grandma sing in the choir. I didn't have a strong faith as a kid. I know now that God wants us to dress our best with the clothes we have. Great video Fr. Mike!!

[@Pellegrino809]

This topic reminds me of when I go to meet my girlfriends every time (looking my Best) when going to mass looking my best for God whom I love, and the love of our Lord Jesus is a joyful time. Offering God our best , just puts a smile in my heart and spirit.

[@cindyb.535]

God deserves our best, period!

[@maryp5127]

GOD BLESS YOU Fr Mike , I always try to dress appropriate for Church,BUT I will never forget how last year was out of town celebrating 5 de Mayo, when I went to my room to change since I was wearing a T-Shirt and shorts I was locked out and had no time to go to the front deck,and attended Mass in ,shorts and T ,But I was NOT going to miss Mass.

[@joane24]

In summer I went to mass in between a change between a train (half a day journey from early in the morning) and a plane - few hours layover in between, I put the bulky baggage in a train station locker and run to a church, wearing the bulkiest trekking shoes and sweatpants 🏃‍♀️🧗‍♀️☺️. Everyone else was dressed in nice elegant summer dresses, dress shoes and all. And I was sitting next to a religious sister in a habit. Well, the mass was beautiful, beautiful homily, and I'm most happy I managed to made it ☺️. Then off to the airport for a plane in the evening.

[@pg4662]

We used to use the phrase 'dressed in your Sunday best' meaning dressed up as you did for church. I always dress properly for Mass. It's about respect.

[@Nancy-nx4yy]

We must always wear our best-as GOD said to Moses “take off your sandals, for you are on sacred ground” -amazing that people dress up for every occasion (weddings, cocktail parties, etc) but are fine with coming to Mass in running shorts

[@kbee6078]

Dress nicely, neatly and modestly. Not in t-shirts 2:01 , shorts and flip-flops. There are many places to buy gently used, nice clothing also…Good Wills, thrift stores, etc. Do the very best you can.

[@nicola489]

I agree! Secondhand is nice on the wallet and on the environment. I find plenty of Sunday Best options at my local thrift store.

[@KirbiHolat]

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[@BravyAustinburg]

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[@Dcn.Ronald]

Father Mike, as usual, beautifully shows us both sides of a potentially thorny issue and gives us the tools to discern our response. I believe it comes down to what we want to convey from our hearts. As Father Mike says, if we use our external appearance to cover our internal “messiness” we are approaching it in the wrong spirit. Conversely, if our hearts are in a holy state, (understanding that we are a fallen people), we should not cover that with something less than a neat and tidy appearance. Showing up at Mass offering the best we have, internally and exteriorly, in my opinion, is what we need to strive for. Blessings to all!

[@darwinortiz6394]

Father Mike I proudly dress with a shirt ,tie blazer and dress pants. I want to show respect to the lord. . After all I am going to his house.

[@themonsterunderyourbed9408]

Pride huh? Sounds to me like you're trying to show off and look down on others.

[@darwinortiz6394]

@ That’s sad for you to think this way. Everyone is different.

[@bradyevans9114]

I have always said you don't have to have alot of money to look nice and your best. We are going to be in the presence of god. We should be reverent and wear our best. It is a sign of respect.

[@calaferraguti8309]

glad you addressed this subject. you don't have to look like a million bucks but you should dress appropriately and I believe conservatively for mass.

[@dakotadustin3556]

Reading these comments makes my soul rejoice. How wonderful and such lovely disposition of heart you all have. This also was a great video. Thank you Father for bringing up this topic.

[@Dragonslaysgal]

I wear comfy clothing. I love and adore Christ. My heart is always in the Mass. But I am also a tired and somewhat sickly Mom of 3 kids 5 and under. I veil out of respect for Christ, but I wear what is comfy and easy to navigate in with young boys. I do not judge others for what they wear, because I am not one to talk. As long as it is appropriate attire, it does not matter to me. We are there for God. ❤❤

[@Eternallyhopeful7788]

God loves you and understands. He sees your heart! May Jesus bless you with His Love, Peace, Presence, Rest, and great JOY!! ❤❤❤

[@briangeraghty1555]

I love this. Unfortunately many Catholics and even priests and clergy will very much look down on you for your dress. Just remember you are not there for them. Jesus loves you, not your clothes.

[@Eternallyhopeful7788]

@@briangeraghty1555 Agree with you! ❤️

[@rayvanee277]

i have always had the opinion to come to the Lord in my best. Also it provides an opportunity to be an example to those around us, especially the youth.

[@Magical3DAnimation]

Another way to look at it is if we think of ourselves as the prodigal sons (and Daughters) and look what the father did after the son returned to him. "Bring quickly the best robe, and put it on him, and put a ring on his hand, and shoes on his feet." so maybe we can view it as God is dressing us up with the best clothes.

[@themonsterunderyourbed9408]

God is. We can't do that ourselves

[@CaffeinatedBookwoorm]

Yes God loves us as we are, but I feel like covering up and dressing up for Mass shows respect for God, yourself, and others.

[@amandagray2757]

I'm definitely for Sunday best and also probably more important is modest dressing 🙏

[@1okedoke]

Absolutely wear your best. If you were going to a restaurant, wedding or a concert, you would certainly be wearing your best!

[@Catholicity-uw2yb]

I go to an Assembly of God Church and then go to Burger King! They don't care what you wear. So friendly!

[@deerhil]

Tactfully done.

[@littlebutterflii]

What a great topic, Fr. Mike! I heard a priest once say to dress for Mass as you would if you were going to have an audience with a king: respectfully and tastefully. A different priest also said there is a happy middle ground between immodesty and "frumpy" as in both of those extremes we can draw a lot of attention to ourselves. If we are trying to have our focus on Jesus, our clothes can reflect that. Something tasteful and respectful to the best of our ability. Not to draw unnecessary attention to ourselves with our clothes, but to keep the focus on our King to the best of our ability. Reading The Bible in a Year has really changed what my idea of modesty is, that it begins in the heart and soul and then your clothes and taste come to reflect that. I would highly recommend searching for the best way to dress in scripture, in prayer, and by the example of the saints and other holy people you may know. God can work such miracles in the heart if we allow Him to. ♡

[@lindawright2557]

I’m a 73 year old convert. I wear slacks and a nice blouse to Mass. I just got my first veil, just when the few ladies that wore veils quit wearing them. It is a small church in a small Texas town. I don’t know why no veils suddenly but maybe me wearing mine will start a trend. 😊

[@Eternallyhopeful7788]

I believe veils are beautiful!!! You may start the next thing!! I hope so!! ❤❤❤

[@barbarawalsh2875]

Good for you. I wear mine every time I’m in the sanctuary. Wear it proud.

[@claustelmach5305]

Go for it, it’s awesome, wear it for our Mother!

[@KellyS_77]

Are the ladies that used to veil still attending? Maybe they went somewhere else. My NO church has one lady that veils, just the one. I respect her a lot for having the heart to do that every Sunday.

[@lindawright2557]

@@KellyS_77 they still attend.

[@mrs.shanamartinez4568]

My grandparents always made me dress well for Mass and that is how we are easing our children. I understand that there are some circumstances where one can’t change prior to Mass, but for the majority of us we can take the time to present ourselves properly before God.

[@DrWainkwa]

This is an awesome advice. Back home we dress our best to Sunday mass

[@prolifefilm8127]

Thank you, Father. It is your job to teach the people to dress appropriately. Some people actually are open to proper instruction. Most people will “be offended” by proper instruction. Attire is one way to demonstrate the value of Mass and to honor Our Lord.

[@Idi0tN0nS4v4nt]

Lately I’ve started feeling uncomfortable knowing I dress better for job interviews than I do to worship God. Still not comfortable enough to wear a full on suit to mass but have stopped with the super casual clothes Overthinking it all, I’m sure, but idk where the line is between dressing “nice” and looking like I’m showing off or whatever

[@angelacorredor4059]

God deserves the best! The best “dress” internal and externally 😊

[@GodLovesAll-j8j]

Mass is a come-as-you-are party! Glad to see you!

[@lyndiepanitz4431]

I always always wear my best to honour Him. There's no bigger occasion than being in the presence of our Lord.

[@camodogamingfan2180]

I was raised to dress respectfully.

[@Saraabdif43]

Thanks

[@cory896]

I agree with everything Father Mike said. We are a come as you are Church but not stay as you are. We are called to grow in holiness and virtue. Although I personally do not dress in a suite and tie to Mass every Sunday I aspire to. Food for thought: To paraphrase Venerable Fulton Sheen we as a culture seen to care more about our dress when going to dinner with friends than we do when going to Mass. I am trying to dress equal to or better then dinner with family and friends when going to Mass.

[@patrickh9937]

I try to always wear a shirt with a collar; maybe an Oxford or chambray. Long pants of course, but often canvas or herringbone twill. But if I can make it to weekday mass, I sometimes have to wear a sweatshirt (I work in a gym). If I have to choose between not going or wearing a hoodie, I'll were the hoodie.

[@maijakosunen8140]

I've gone to Mass as an absolute wreck, seeking out guidance in tough times. But when I'm in a good space with myself, I will also look my best in a holy space and before God. I want God to see me as I am, in good and bad times, as well as show my respect by putting in effort to the way I present myself. However, going to Mass looking shabby is better than not going at all!

[@Siegzon]

Many people struggle with grief or depression or sadness and just getting out the door is a great struggle fueled by love of God to get to mass. Please don’t put more barriers to fulfill a grave obligation.

[@amyschmier8090]

I understand the struggle of mental health and how overwhelming it can be. I will pray that you will not feel this is a grave obligation but a time of true comfort and peace and that Jesus personally touches your life!

[@RanMouri82]

No need to consider this guidance a barrier, because it's a matter of giving God our best. For those of us with mental illnesses, sometimes our best is dragging ourselves through the church door.

[@Siegzon]

Thoughtful replies. And i agree. I would say grief and sadness and even sloth are struggles of the human condition and not illnesses. We respond not always at our best but the obligation to attend is grave, so how to encourage without putting up a barrier is a worthwhile pastoral topic.

[@eliseeaddy]

I usually dress up for Mass, but there are times when I just have to wear what I have on. My son has to go to Mass from work. He wears what he has to. On the days that he is off, he wears a suit. Do what you have to do to get to Mass, and do your best to dress for the occasion. If your best has to be your work clothes, God bless you for being at Mass to worship.

[@barbarawalsh2875]

I would not think of entering the sanctuary without my veil on. It’s an old old habit and I’m an older woman. I don’t always wear a dress to mass but most of the time I do it just takes a little bit of extra effort to look nice don’t get me wrong. I love my jeans and my sweatshirts. I do I live in them at home, but I don’t leave my house whether it’s to go to a meeting or to go to church unless I am dressed appropriately. I’ve been that way my whole life and I’m not changing now but I appreciate your insight.

[@christopherdauerer791]

I always try and dress nice for Mass. No shorts or jeans. After listening to Father and reading the other comments, I think I will go back to wearing a tie as well. It’s important to show respect at Mass.

[@HectorCamacho-t9b]

I'm NOT ONE To Judge Anyone, MY RESPECT Towards Everyone, I've gone To Church with T-shirt and jeans. Gracias Father Mike, GOD BLESS YOU ALL. ☝️💯💯🫡✌️

[@catherinedunsmuir8118]

I’m a devout Catholic; and I feel that I am going into the Lord’s house. To show my respect to Our Lord I like to always wear a nice long dress and always gloves and a nice hat. Due to my deep love for the Lord I like to be pure both inside and out.

[@deeana6050]

That parable about the wedding banquet is what comes to my mind when I think of Mass. I always wear a modest dress and a veil. I am going before my God. Why would I not wear the best that I have? I veil and dress FOR HIM.

[@babatwofive5727]

I had someone ask me why I went to such a fuss for Mass. I told this person, sometimes you just need to give God your best.

[@nariko47]

Humble, respectful, modest.

[@Eternallyhopeful7788]

Agree!!! ❤

[@GregoryGlessnerViolin]

Yep. I always try to look nice, but also remember that I'm not trying to impress anyone, myself included.

[@mlast3264]

Well expressed. I think taking the time and making the effort to present myself the best way I can is a helpful practice. It falls into putting my faith, my internal self, in to action in the tangible world we share. It is the works that naturally flow as an expression of my faith.

[@ellenkopmanis2659]

As a woman, I feel I need to dress modestly, especially at mass. I do not wish to be the reason someone else sins.

[@CatholicWhisper]

That’s a great “politicians answer” Father. 🤭 You’re all over the place. I’m more confused now than before I watched your video. My family members are walking around scratching their heads saying, “what does that mean, what is he trying to say?” My answer. Sunday BEST is not what I aspire to, but modesty. Wearing modest clothing is extremely important. Even our Lady says so. God loves us and accepts us as we are; However, this subject is a lot like head covering. Once we are in the church and not new anymore, we begin to live out our Christian journey, reading scripture, and following holy protocol presented in sacred scripture, or by revelation of Our Ladies apparitions, matters where the church is silent on.

[@AlejandraRose.28]

I think modesty is the priority above all, God understands if we forget but we should always strive to do better and give him our best always.