What Do You Wish The Opposite Gender Would Stop Doing?

What Do You Wish The Opposite Gender Would Stop Doing?
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[@notesoftruth9301]

As a man, I have two things. 1: don't get mad if a man does something gentlemanly for you. Hold open the door, give you a seat, pay for the check. He isn't saying you can't do it, he's being polite. 2: If you wear a shirt with text on the front, do not judge any men for looking/staring at it. I never know whether I should risk reading it and get caught seemingly looking at a girl in a suspicious way. I just wanna read the shirt 😅

[@randorookie8587]

I have an obsession with reading things so if your shirt got writing I’m gonna try and read it

[@-_deploy_-]

@@randorookie8587 LOL this is funny

[@samsammmmmmmmmmmm9693]

Me with no chest, without any doubt I'll letcha stare

[@-_deploy_-]

@@samsammmmmmmmmmmm9693 if you have a good butt you will not have problems 👍🏻

[@samsammmmmmmmmmmm9693]

@@-_deploy_- aight thx

[@Fever_Man]

When it comes to us guys and hints: it’s not that we are blind to them, it’s that we are terrified of taking it wrong and getting a fucking life sentence for *”rape”*

[@alr3764]

that wouldn't be a life sentence

[@gumbothedumbo5089]

@@alr3764 it’s an exaggeration because men typically get longer sentences for things then men do. Which I have literally seen myself irl.

[@Fever_Man]

@@alr3764 whoosh

[@alr3764]

@@Fever_Man that only works for jokes dude

[@Fever_Man]

@@alr3764 it also works for figures of speech that seem to whoosh over your head

[@DontWorryIamTheStrongest]

I can support that us men are oblivious to all hell. A girl in my P.E. class held my hand to her breast and went "look how fast my heart is beating" found out about a year later from one if her friends that she had a crush on me. That's when I realized how oblivious we all are.

[@delanovanraalte3646]

That's cause that equal rights shit if we do any form of "sexual harassment" it could cost us our job and stuff hell if they feel like it they could lie about it and say it was rape there you go 5 years to prison if not longer

[@mrdrprofessoroak497]

I had a girl (coincidentally also in my PE class) that came up to me with her friend and asked which one I liked better. To this day I still don't know if this was some kind of trick question or hint that I don't understand, like I actually had a huge crush on her so I would've picked her but I didn't want to say that in front of her friend and hurt her feelings.

[@azimaliyu8093]

lucky man i dont even have girls in my school

[@DontWorryIamTheStrongest]

@@delanovanraalte3646 That was before all the bullshit with women. Probably should have said the grade level but I don't remember, my fault 😄

[@DontWorryIamTheStrongest]

@@mrdrprofessoroak497 Yeah that seems like a hint but also a trick at the same time 😆

[@some_random_guy3]

This goes for both genders. Rape is rape. Its a horrendous thing no matter the genders involved. Enough with the "you should stop thinking that you lucky guy" its fucking dehumanizing in my opinion. Throw double standards out of the window. I should be allowed to vent but I can't because of a feeling that it will make me look weak or unsuitable, or it will be used against me. Stop laughing when a guy gets hit where the sun doesn't shine. That hurts like absolute hell for an extended duration.

[@perfectgematriadecodesabc4259]

society only cares if a man R a women they don't care about women on women, women on man, or man on man,

[@nman1]

It's sad cause some men literally downtalk other men who aren't comfortable with it as if all men are the same deep down, empowering the more self-centered types of women with that mentality.

[@nathengriffiths-holland7038]

“Rape is rape” very simple way to put it but so true like just because he’s a guy doesn’t mean he can’t get raped. I had a friend (key word HAD) who clams they got raped in a video game and clings to that as getting raped while I have a friend who was genuinely got raped and it always annoyed me to no end but the thing that made us no longer friends was when she said I was going to rape her and everyone else in my friend group because I talked about being scared of being too forward with my girlfriend. Safe to say she ruined that friend group because she was saying a tone of lies and was twisting my words. Surprisingly the one friend I kept was my now ex girlfriend because she saw all the “evidence” which was me making sexual jokes to my then friend about how I found (my now ex) really hot and so on. Safe to say tho if I said it was her who wanted to rape everyone no one would bat an eye which makes me really mad because I had known her for 3 years

[@linkplays2952]

@@nathengriffiths-holland7038 actually by the legal definition a woman cant rape a man! unless they peg them its very stupid but according to the fbi something has to penetrate or else its not considered rape

[@exoticotwist3737]

Man with no bicthes will call a man who got rapef lucky because they're jealous that no-one want to be with them

[@Homeless_Pigeon_History]

this nararrator has got to be the best one. let alone the fact its not a robot voice, he actually feels the story and has a sense of storytelling. great job man

[@nicki8731]

yes! He's also talking faster than his other videos, and he doesn't use cringe replacement words like other channels do (boobs -> booba looba loobies, fuck -> duck, etc.)

[@funnydude308]

@@nicki8731 how is that cringe

[@TheCrazyLunatic8]

@@funnydude308 it makes listening to it really uncomfortable... because you know what it is, why don't you just say it?

[@funnydude308]

@@TheCrazyLunatic8 umm it’s called censorship you do realize some KZbinrs get demonetized for certain these right and those aren’t even uncomfortable that doesn’t even make sense

[@nicki8731]

@@funnydude308 it makes it feel like someone is reading a script rather than someone telling you a story. Yes, I know you can get demonetized for saying potty words, but then why even bother with a person reading the stories, just have a robot.

[@elmateo77]

Women: "Don't talk to us in public, you're bothering us." Also women: "Why can't I find a man???"

[@Ante-Anima]

Two recuring themes are women should stop dropping hints and men should stop interpreting kindness as flirt. The fact only one person out of 50 pointed out this 2 issues are connected baffles me.

[@100achillguy7]

“Patriarchy”

[@Ante-Anima]

@@100achillguy7 Patriarchy™ indeed.

[@privateuser3726]

But connecting those dots would require 2 working braincells

[@alexitorico6686]

It’s funny you say that. Women think I’m flirting with them when I’m just trying to be polite. I like to gift people small little things sometimes, and whenever I do so with women, they think I’m trying to hit on em. Guys experience this too.

[@nathengriffiths-holland7038]

I think the reason men think it’s flirting is because most of the time we are starved for affection so we get a little bit and really over think it. This is not an excuse just a point and it comes from some personal experience that involves me feeling really pathetic

[@jonaskeepauthor1935]

The “male privilege” story near the start hit home with me. I also grew up with very little, had to walk everywhere, started working at 11, did a lot of fishing off the beach not because I enjoy fishing but because we had no protein for the rest of the week, saved up for a year to buy a bicycle which finally helped to actually start getting ahead through better accessibility. So many people in my school year told me I had things so easy because I’m male, they had no idea of how difficult my life was.

[@adamhernandez7183]

90% of Society: (gasp) "But we don't WANT to hold women accountable!"

[@adamhernandez7183]

@@paspax Pfft yeah right. That's why most women get away with murder and abuse cases. I've seen it before countless times.

[@lumieretheforgiven3804]

@@adamhernandez7183 yeah if that's the case then why can't we get away with murder? I mean I feel like we deserve equal rights too!

[@adamhernandez7183]

@@lumieretheforgiven3804 Well obviously not because: #1 We have a penis. #2 Rape. #3 Refer to #1 & #2.

[@delanovanraalte3646]

@@lumieretheforgiven3804 i don't think we should have rights at all

[@idontevenexistanymore]

@@lumieretheforgiven3804 nobody should rights to murder, women get away with shit so much easily than men I ALSO HATE WHEN PEOPLE SAY “DONT HIT WOMEN” LIKE ITS BOTH WAYS, WOMEN DONT HIT MEN AND MEN DONT HIT WOMEN AHHHHHH

[@gramfero]

Men dont "dont pick up obvious clues" Men know that women can accuse a man of rape and, without a single question, that man can go away behind bars for 8 years and have their life ruined and friends abandon them

[@SRC692]

When it comes to women dropping hints it seems obvious in your head but sometimes they aren't that obvious. I've heard of girls complaining how some guys won't pick up on a hint however if she didn't intend it to be a hint and it was just a random girl that guy would have been hit with charges. For example there was a story I heard a while ago and this girl told a guy hey the bathroom door is broken, do not come in.... She was surprised he didn't come in. It puts men in a bad situation if they misread a hint and end up with a charge so it's best to just take it at face value

[@livedandletdie]

How hard is it to just go, Oi Anon, wanna F... For reals, women need to get to terms with how to fucking speak properly to convey their intentions.

[@schizoidmeme5470]

They'll also legit want a person to keep going after THEY say no. At that point, I realized a ton of Western women, DON'T know what they want. And those that say they do, rarely put in the effort to achieve it.

[@DeRez19]

@@schizoidmeme5470 So true. I've heard a lot of stories about Western men leaving the US and finding the love of their lives in different countries. Extreme feminism, hook-up culture, and dating apps are making it far too hard to get into a good lasting relationship in the US. I see so many people get married then absolutely regret it, including my parents.

[@gabrielkawa3477]

And that women don't fucking know what they want.

[@ThePursoodm]

also women really underestimate how often some women will flirt with you just for the attention or they find it fun. Some really love to tease dudes they dont really want. She's flirting and then you try to act on it and you see her change up real quick smh. Afterward you feel like a fool for taking her flirting seriously. So when a girl that actually likes you is dropping hints, sometimes it doesn't register because you've been accustomed to women that just like to play games wit u.

[@ZacharypjgStudios]

“What do you wish the opposite gender would stop doing” My mother…

[@RowanPFC]

XD

[@Plaguegotarrested6573]

Hah thats funny

[@DaRThVadAr314]

This is also kind of sad when u think about it

[@amoris5202]

What I got from this video: Women: Stop dehumanizing men. You can feel empowered without being a bitch. Be more direct when it comes to liking a guy. Also, stop using your femininity as a way to mess with a guy's mind. Men: Don't be weird and pay more attention to what your partner says. It's okay to talk about your feelings.

[@GalaxyChoke]

yup both sound like pretty good lessons

[@Lostbreva]

I don't do that but because I'm a girl I feel somewhat responsible Weird

[@alwenke212]

if american men talk about our feelings and emotions, we are criticized by women for being weak. if american men keep our feelings bottled up inside, women criticize us for not having emotions ! then women criticize men for not wanting a relationship ! women of america ; you are no longer worth the effort !!!!!!!!!!

[@Lostbreva]

@@alwenke212 every community has a dark side and a bright side with a few exceptions. I mean same visa versa but with our bodies

[@pandajaeger3079]

Question✋🏾 what if I'm 98.765428% sure I have no feelings to share

[@RandomMackem0069]

If a girl in my school forced me to touch them I’d immediately run for my literal life no way I’m staying there to wait to get a lecture and get the shit beat out of me for supposedly sexually harassing someone it’s a good thing I have a friend who happens to be a girl and knows 100% what kind of innocent introvert I am and knows how destructive other woman can be

[@schizoidmeme5470]

Be careful. You never know who you can really trust.

[@RandomMackem0069]

@@schizoidmeme5470 well I know I can trust her

[@KyleLowryRaptorsGOAT]

@@RandomMackem0069 from my experiences you can't even trust the closest of your friends

[@RandomMackem0069]

@@KyleLowryRaptorsGOAT I only put a certain amount of trust in people and it isn’t a lot I only hang out with them for the sake of not walking around with no goal I care about them as much as a poacher cares for an endangered species

[@KyleLowryRaptorsGOAT]

@@RandomMackem0069 I guess I'm not the only one with friends I don't care about. I don't care about them because they don't care about me

[@solandri69]

18:19 A lot of men in relationships don't bother with making appointments, organizing holidays, shopping for the house, childcare, elder care, etc. because if he "does it wrong" the woman will incessantly nag and criticize him about it. She then ends up doing it "right" (i.e. the way she wants) while accepting little to no input from the man. After which the man figures what's the point and gives up - why bother doing any of those things if she's just going to erase all your work and re-do it according to her own specifications? If you want the man to do these tasks, you have to let him do it his way. Even if his way of doing it is not your way of doing it, if it gets the job done then there's no real problem. And obviously the same applies in reverse too - if you're letting / making the woman something all by herself, then you really have no grounds for criticizing her work. (I had to learn this when I became a manager. I had to resist the urge to micromanage, and let the employees under me finish their work their way. Even if it wasn't the way I would've done it or I thought they were doing something inefficiently, the important thing is that the job gets done on time, not how it's done.) Ideally you'd work on it together so both of you have some input on the final outcome. But if you're going to delegate certain tasks to one person, you need to let that person complete them their way. If you want it done your way, you should be doing that task yourself and giving your partner a different task.

[@DeRez19]

2 things from a man. 1. Be straightforward about your feelings. We are tired of your "hard to get" games. Just tell me you like me. If you're willing to flirt with me and things, you might as well ask me out so I know you're serious about this. A lot of women just flirt to get reactions out of us and not because they actually like us, so being straightforward helps us a LOT. 2. Stop ghosting people after YOU GAVE THEM YOUR NUMBER. This is why I don't ask women out anymore. Every time I get a girl's number, I try to start a conversation but they never reply. Sometimes the women asked for MY number and still don't initiate anything. If you truly wanted to be with me, *prove it.* If you're wondering why men find it "so hard to find a woman" THIS is one of the few reasons why.

[@lillowh6126]

Recently got ghosted and blocked with no explanation. I think what I realized is that a lot of women want you to play hard to get and just wait for them to initiate things. You kinda have to act like you don’t care. Cause if you message them too much or show you care too much it makes them believe you’re obsessed with them.

[@DeRez19]

@@lillowh6126 Yeah, hence why I never message them too much... and they still ghost me 😑. Sorry to hear that, man. Women are just hard to read nowadays. They want Spider-Man yet walk past Peter Parker everyday.

[@yeehawgecko]

I can speak for almost all other men when I say; we usually get women's hints. It's just we are worried about... 1. Being wrong 2. Seeming pushy 3. Jumping into things (usually with a woman we don't really know) Obviously there are more reasons but these are the main ones

[@cookie9393]

For the one complaining about men forgetting thing and getting upset/frustrated with us, that's understandable. But saying that, we don't remember anything either. The last birthday I had I was confused when people said it was my birthday because I forgot about it.

[@Kyl3Gamez]

Lmao that's the level of forgetfulness I'm on.

[@livedandletdie]

It's not really important though. It's just another day of the year.

[@JT93641]

@@livedandletdie so it's the dead birthday month? I am almost close to my birthday it's January 2 wouldn't expect any presents because they don't need me. I'll still want a food more than a present because it would only waste the money.

[@imzesok]

I too forget my own birthday. days just blend together for me, so it's usually the next day/week when I remember if someone doesn't say something. that said... I usually do remember friend's/girlfriend's birthdays. just never my own, because I don't really feel like mine were all that important after the 21st birthday, kinda stopped keeping track with the 23rd or so. a good way to do this is setup birthday reminders via email. I vaguely recall there being a webservice just for this purpose. they'd email you like 3-10 days in advance or something like that.

[@delanovanraalte3646]

4:40 if we try to show any physical attraction and they don't want it they call it sexual harassment and we get beat up or thrown into jail

[@MrXemrox]

Story 3: Society and those of influence needs to hear, accept and expect this and not disregard it.

[@schizoidmeme5470]

You'll notice majority of Men know it. Its the women that take advantage that knock it.

[@semanticalman7802]

To the women that say all men are trash, I have but to ask: What did you expect to find while dumpster diving?

[@GrayDino20]

Hahaha

[@papermangd]

I swear all the girls who say this are also straight

[@semanticalman7802]

@@papermangd I'm pretty sure that's usually the case

[@RowanPFC]

HOLY YOU GOTEM THERE!

[@boof994]

I wish they didnt just randomly ghost you despite them being the ones being interested and starting these long convos

[@DeRez19]

EXACTLY this happened to me several times.

[@grenadecraig9619]

I'm a male and I'm 26. 90% of reported sexual assault is perpetrated by men. Ok. Now what about unreported? Spoiler alert, almost half of men face sexual assault as adults and or as children perpetrated by who? Women. 😮 Men and women. Humankind. We are too sides of the same coin, women are just as capable of doing evil as men are... and they do, just nobody talks about it. But nobody gives a shit because nobody cares. As Men, we don't like being perceived as the victims in our story. We are supposed the strong one, the pillar, the cornerstone. I agree that men should be strong, but we just shut up and lock down our burdens, which can go very wrong if not handled properly. There is a big difference between emotional intelligence and just bottling it up. Women LOVE attention. If a woman is the victim of any circumstance, what does she get? ATTENTION. So it gets reported and talked about, CONSTANTLY. There are support groups, hashtags, just about everyone hangs your every word if you accuse a man of literally anything. Personal example. I was 8 y/o and I had a 15 y/o female babysitter. She would make me touch her, perform sexual favors. And she would do the same to me. She would also threaten me to be quiet and not say anything about it OR ELSE I WOULD BE THE ONE IN TROUBLE. Like it was MY fucking fault. I was afraid and so I kept quiet, never told another soul until I was in my 20s. This went one for about a year until they moved away, she babysat me multiple times a week... To any guy out there who thinks "ooo lucky guy, I would kill to have that happen to me." Shut your f***ing face. To any women who think to themselves "pfft men can't be victims of sexual assault. You probably liked it." Shut your f***ing face. It traumatizes us too and made me incredibly awkward around girls. I wouldn't even hold hands with or kiss a girl until highschool. I had multiple prescriptions for depression and anxiety as early as 12 or 13 because of this. To this day, if I were to bring it up and press charges against this person. Not one finger would be lifted, there would be no one supporting me or choosing to believe my testimony. That person is married now and has children of her own... mortifying. I know. In highschool, there was a massive overcorrection where I overcame my past but was filled with a lust and an overpowering sense of longing. I was a flirt, I could say anything and do anything to get girls in school and in my young adult life to sleep with me. I consider myself an above average looking guy, I was very fit and toned. I had a six pack, fairly big arms, big chest. I played football, wrestled, took difficult PE courses literally called Advanced strength and conditioning. Which was almost like boot camp. I was 6ft and 175 lbs (still am) I challenged my friends and girlfriends to punch my abs to see if they could get me to wince, flinch or even move. Everyone would laugh because it sounded like they were hitting a bag of concrete. I had game. I didn't have too much difficulty having and keeping girls around me. But there was a heartbreak and an anger within me that I didn't know was there, I hated myself and sought to be sought to fill this void within me through sex. As a guy, you constantly hear about how bad men are. How bad you are for existing for our whole lives. I went through life seething about this societal hypocrisy. My experiences contradicted many things society narrates and stereotypes about men and women. I was bitter and hateful. Fast forward 5 years. Things are better now, I'm 26. Single. Been to therapy. Not lonely but happy with my career, who I am as a person. I've forgiven myself for the hearts that i ve broken in my previous relationships and the person who hurt me. I'm keeping my ear to the ground for the right woman. I just want to love and be loved. I still want to be the strong one for her as I should be. If I have children, I want to be protective and never let what happened to me, happen to them. If that is all I achieve as a father, I will die happily.

[@PrimordialNyx]

I am so sorry that happened to you. The girl who wrote that comment either didn't word it correctly or didn't think enough when writing it. I hope you have a bright and happy future ahead of you. You are stronger than you think. You did well so far. Congratulations. I wish you find greatness in your future.

[@timehero2040]

I read half of your comment , and I agree. It's getting ridiculous nowadays in today's society , and maybe even before.

[@w00rmz]

I like how so many of these are about social cues, and as an autistic person: EVERYBODY STOP DROPPING HINTS, please just be direct about literally everything it's so confusing, for example something I do personally - that I should stop doing considering only my mum picks up on it - whenever I'm thirsty I find it too difficult to ask for a drink, so I say my mouth is dry and expect others to pick up that this means I need a drink.

[@xxzombiemythxx8990]

Thats not the same bruv

[@MattiAntsuK]

Had a girl in school who both I and her liked to hang out. Play video games, Watch cinemas/movies and just hangout after school. I could never get the courage to ask her out cause I was too afraid to get rejected. She ended up switching school after 2 years and I never got the chance again.

[@hjuoowou560]

:(

[@Sumikrios]

I asked out a girl once after hanging for a few months and could have sworn she was dropping hints, her answer? "Ew no besides aren't you gay and dating Jon" (Jon being my best friendat the time) I have never tried to initiate relationships with any women since, that "ew no" rings out in my head every time I consider trying to put myself out there again.

[@nobuna2114]

Same. Asked out a girl once that I thought was dropping hints and she was literally disgusted. Her reaction is burned into my brain. I'd rather stay single than ever asking out a girl again.

[@ernimuja6991]

Workout, become sexy if not good looking, and try again. If you had high testosterone you wouldn't have a choice in whether you choose to approach or not, so I'd probably check that as well.

[@AverageHuman453]

Didn't ask anyone out, but during class a while back I was called gay in the middle of the class with my best friend because we talk during class. Almost everyone there talked during class, are they all gay?

[@Sumikrios]

@@AverageHuman453 well in my case my friend and I were together every single day save for when he went to his dads, so I can't really blame her for the mistake and it never bothered me, it was the "ew no" part that hurt as it was extremely unnecessary and women I've met since (purely just friendships through mutuals) have said I'm not even that bad looking, like one time at a gathering I was asked why I don't try to get a girl by a friend and after telling them the 3 girls there decided to rate me and it was 2 7's and an 8 (and yes despite it having been 5 years since that gathering i still remember those compliments) but who knows.

[@ThaFuzzwood]

"Keep that up and I will prove that I am not gay. *Unzips*"

[@Main07vega]

Story 12: easy to say when it's never taken seriously when a man speaks up/reports it

[@rhyswheeler858]

Yeah I get strong femcel vibes from her. The lack of awareness and intelligence is quite something

[@cubesmaster7439]

As a man who has been told im as dense as an anime character I couldnt agree more with the be blunt rather than drop "hints" because im 99% of the time gonna miss them.

[@ITheNameless]

*Something happens to women* Society: "poor thing she must be suffering" *Something happens to men* Society: "Man up"

[@RowanPFC]

True af

[@supotter377]

That’s a product of toxic masculinity.

[@greilus4535]

cope harder

[@RowanPFC]

Yes

[@RialVestro]

1. Wearing low cut tops and expecting me not to look down your shirt. You don't need to be wearing a turtle neck to properly cover your cleavage but if you have anything with a lower next line than a regular T-Shirt it's pretty much impossible for me to look anywhere in your general direction without seeing down your shirt. I'm tall, I have to look down just to make eye contact with you, it doesn't mean I'm looking directly down your shirt but yes it is in my light of sight which is why I tend not to look at you at all. 2. Do not touch my chest or ask me to take my shirt off in a public place. I might be a man but if I did those things to you without your consent I'd be arrested. Equal rights works both ways so if you wouldn't want me doing it to you then don't do it to me either. 3. Stop assuming that if a man doesn't like a female character that it's ONLY because she's a female. Some people are genuinely just sexist but they're the minority. Not every criticism has to do with gender and when someone has a legitimate complaint about the writing that has nothing to do with gender, stop dismissing it by accusing them of sexism.

[@100achillguy7]

leave some for the rest of us bro

[@StevenTLawson]

For Number 3 part of the problem is that many of these characters are written that way because they are female. For example, the stereotypical sitcom dumb dad. People are getting sick of that being the only (most common) version of a father they see on tv and so they dislike that depiction. In other shows the men are written to be wrong for absolutely absurd reasons while the women are right and in some cases are only right by technicality or for something entirely out of their control and was either luck or chance. As a result you have primed audiences to already expect these traits out of female and male characters. Its like with gays or lesbians on tv shows, whenever a problem comes up in the episode which affects them the root cause it because they are gay or whatever, it cant be anything else but always that some straight (white) man or woman is oppressing them. When the character has trouble paying rent or getting a mortgage, it isnt because they have a low paying job, terrible with saving their money, bad credit history, but that the bank or landlord are evil bigots. If that even happened to 1% of 1% of the real gays and lesbians then it doesnt explain why 90% of plot lines use this.

[@RialVestro]

​@@StevenTLawson Dude what the frick are you even talking about? About the only thing you said that I actually agree with is that people are tired of the dumb dad stereotypes but that has nothing at all to do with what I was even talking about. The fact that you started out your reply by claiming "these characters are written that way because they are female." tells me you're part of the problem not the exception. Get of here with your nonsense.

[@StevenTLawson]

@@RialVestro its fine you dont understand what it means when, these characters are written that way because they are female, since you likely dont understand the process for creating a character in a writers room and script design. What happens is all these little annoying nerds sit around a room and bounce ideas off each other for what a character says and does, what they dont like is not used and what they do moves on to maybe make it into the final script. So when they design a female character a LOT of traits get thrown away, she cant be weak and get saved that would make her a damsel in distress. If shes a house wife she cant like it otherwise shes reinforcing the patriarchy by implying women belong in the home. And you do this over and over for whatever curre t grievance is popular and you can drastically reduce character originality since every character is now pulling from the same small pool of "acceptable" traits. So they are seen everywhere and thus reinforced as the only acceptable way to write a character.

[@xxzombiemythxx8990]

@@StevenTLawson this happens to guys too mate. Always muscular is the popular and good guy. The thick guy is disgusting and a gamer. This happens to both genders.

[@nebulittle5697]

As a man. If a man does something that's creepy to you, say it. Especially if it's only creepy to you, don't expect someone else to say it. What's worse is when they stop talking or hanging out with you entirely and then refuse to tell the man why. Idk if that's ever happened to anyone else, but its happened twice to me. What's worse is none of the other people I hung out with, with her, said that I was doing anything creepy or weird. Its frustrating.

[@mollyb2004]

I agree, and I usually do so, but sometimes it's hard to read whether stating so would put me in danger. It sucks when both parties only want the best though, I know

[@lillowh6126]

@@mollyb2004 could always message them so you’re not face to face

[@mollyb2004]

@lil low H that's true, I've done that and had unfavourable outcomes though. it's too bad that there's no real right answer :/

[@adaptable1553]

The bullshit girls and guys do rather than be direct. I once was chilling in the library, reading a book. Randomly, I'm approached by two girls. They ask me if I have Instagram and or Snapchat and because I'm one of the rare people who barely use their phone for anything other than phone calls and texts, I say no. Being genuinely honest. They explain that their friend wants to know if she can have my socials and again I explain I actually don't have any. I guess they then presumed I was rejecting her because they gave up and nothing more came of it. This means that some people just assume everyone has a social media account of some kind. Not the case. Very. Much. Not the case.

[@dominicstevenson8816]

15:03 Story 23. I am a guy, and almost always leave the seat down, granted I normally only go standing like once or twice a year. Girls might dislike when guys leave the toilet seat up, but I hate when the toilet is not closed when not in use, it’s just nasty and things could fall into the toilet with it open.

[@hyphae6164]

I finally got fed up with the whole "Don't leave the seat up." like it's not that hard to turn on a light and look before you sit down. So I started leaving the toilet seat allllll the way down. Lid fully closed. They then told me not to leave the toilet closed which I finally replied, "You can do it yourself, you're an adult." It's such a weird concept that the toilet needs to be perfectly prepared like she can't see or use her hands. I probably just live with a weirdo though.

[@nightsoul395]

I love the person in number 31, I can't read your mind. Just be blunt!

[@Kyl3Gamez]

From my experiences, about 90% of both genders are assholes. I don't mean to be stereotyping people here, and if you aren't, that's great. I am just treated like shit behind my back from most people I was friendly with. Choose the good ones, everyone.

[@delanovanraalte3646]

I mean look at our history what did you expect humans to be nice

[@Kyl3Gamez]

@@delanovanraalte3646 no not really tbh

[@popdogfool]

Exactly this. Though I don't agree it's as high as 90%.

[@lionsatmidnight]

As a man, I wish a lot of women would hold themselves more accountable. It feels like dignity and integrity have completely gone by the wayside with some.

[@trublacking8572]

The planet will burn down in hell before they do that shit accountability is like kryptonite for women most not all

[@shparto1118]

​@@trublacking8572 Correct. But i's men's fault for how fucked up things are, the average man has become too soft. We should enforce accountability. Society gives women way too much leverage not to have it abused by some

[@ebro7315]

@@agentcurlzbut be real is he wrong tho?

[@jffry890]

​@@agentcurlz Sexist spotted.

[@rhyswheeler858]

@@ebro7315yes as remarkable as that sounds he is wrong. Women fail to hold themselves and other women accountable, that’s not the fault of any one man.

[@MegaPhycoKiller]

the last sentence in story 2 should apply to everyone. dont by shit for yourself around a gifting time, makes it awkward if someone buys something for you and then you buy it yourself before they can gift it to you. im currently worrying that my brother will buy what im planning to give him for christmas. he probably wont but he does go shopping a lot, so its entirely possible

[@ebro7315]

I think a lot of men who are ‘oblivious’ are just acting, because when girl does drop a hint he is probably thinking about what to do, but one wrong moves and his ass is in prison

[@7bitranger833]

As someone who struggles with esteem and finds it really important to not be misunderstood, it is unfortunate when i try to let loose a bit and get comfortable, thinking i got into some sort of mutual understanding that the other person is not dangerous or whatever, then notice that the other person took a thing wrong which i of course pick up on. Then when asked if something indeed went wrong here, they just put on a polite smile and say everything is fine, then proceed to never talk to me again and burn the bridge so goddamn fast. Applies to a lot of people but i experienced this with woman most often, it not only hurts and makes me want to crawl further into my shell, but it also destroys any chance of improvement.

[@achromaticism]

spraying perfume in school hallways

[@ExeErdna]

That's a classic having a whole fucking school smelling like "Sweet Pea" yet said girls be like "eww you smell like axe" after we all came from gym and been running for an hour.

[@choryllis6646]

I apply this to all genders because perfume/body spray meant for minors smells god awful no matter which demographic it's for. Adult perfume/cologne smells MUCH better and it's a shame its so damn expensive because the parents would probably buy that for their kids if it was 7.99 per bottled instead of 89.99 for a quarter that amount.

[@czarus_the_sniper9924]

This guy spits facts

[@samray6807]

The game one consists of everyone no matter who or what they are get burned, it’s part of the experience

[@sr_gaming7161]

gossiping about us-

[@nobleradical2158]

slavs?

[@sr_gaming7161]

@@nobleradical2158 about men

[@Pure_Skillz]

Personally i find that most men (Myself included) have really shit memory. I have a lot of guy friends and some female friends and the female friends always remember stuff WAY better then any of my guy friends.

[@delanovanraalte3646]

We do make generally make better leaders tough and can think outside the box better than women generally can

[@100achillguy7]

I would attribute this to the fact that women are more emotional. Pneumonic devices help you remember things by attaching emotion to it.(and other ways) This is why you remember that bad dream you had 10 years ago but not what you had dinner last month on the first Tuesday.

[@all4one151]

I got called a creep because I was talking to one of my friends (a boy) who would usually sit around some of his friends that are girls and every time the girls tried to make me leave, I simply ignored them. Girls are weird.

[@nightsoul395]

As a guy I am very forgetful, if it's not important or if it's too much information then it's in one ear and out the other. I am not trying to be mean but that is just the truth

[@knightstemplar3087]

I set alarms and stuff

[@CasualCasimir]

The first one is the reason why a lot of men are in jail for sexual assault or sexual harassment related crimes and why women complain about not finding a “good man”

[@solandri69]

Toilet lid goes down before you flush (you can just leave it down after). Flushing causes a fine mist of water particles (and whatever was in the water) to shoot up into the air, and rain down on everything in the bathroom. Including your toothbrush if it's the bathroom by the bedroom. Before I knew about this, I used to have a dog which liked to drink out of the toilet so I always asked guests to put the toilet lid down after use. It was almost always women who left the lid up. Not really their fault. Guys are frequently asked to lower the toilet seat so are used to fiddling with it after use. Women are used to just leaving the seat down after use, and are more likely to forget doing extra work after using the toilet. But in my equitable "test" of being asked to do something with the toilet seat after use, men were better at following instructions than women.

[@MrXemrox]

Giving hints or being nice is basically 50/50, and some people are bad at 50/50 chances.

[@6th_Army]

Story 23. I have the reverse of this as a problem. I keep the seat and cover down when the toilet is not in use. I don't want things to fall into the toilet. I'll only take things out of there so many times before refusing to ever touch a toilet again. Meanwhile the woman I know either leave the seat down but the cover up or for some reason leave the whole thing up. Seat & cover. Because what if a man comes over...

[@Disaster-star]

As a man, I want these three things from the opposite gender to stop doing. 1) Don't falsely accuse 2) Don't take us (Man) for granted 3)Don't judge every man by your own perspective. Comment, if I have said anything wrong or offensive.

[@psow4062]

As a guy who once thought that a female friend is giving me a signal, but it turned out that she wasn't - I asked her out, got rejected and felt like a complete idiot (not to mention that our friendship is a bit different/weird since then). Since then unless your signal is VERY obvious and repeated multiple times I won't see it at all or just ignore it - I will just think there's 90+% chance that I've misread it like I did in the past and I don't want to make the same mistake again. Even better don't drop hints/signals and just tell me that you like me.

[@bacoran1187]

Me: *Gets hit in the balls by a 156-gram piece of hard leather travelling at almost 100 km/h and complains about the pain.*

[@lemone630]

You know what else I wish the opposite gender would stop doing? *Breaks into tears* MY MOM!

[@Crimson9711]

idk if its just me but as a man if i think a girl flirts with me its not that im oblivious to it, i just dont know if there lying to me as a prank or they just had a poor choice of words.

[@skyhill4940]

4:10 wait wait wait what does having Twitch have to do with anything???? There stuff that's not inappropriate on there too??

[@NoOneIsMeIGuess]

Don't discriminate based of off anything, hate everyone equally. (Can be a low amount of hate, this still applies)

[@RowanPFC]

Feminists be like “equal rights, for boys and girls.” *hits a man because he disagrees slightly- the man who raised his hand as he got hit first, the feminists be like “you can’t hit me I’m a girl!”

[@doormatcat]

The women saying: "Stop thinking you are entitled to sex with me just because you bought dinner." You're choosing the wrong guys. 95% of us won't think like that.

[@rejta858]

I’m a girl and the thing about how women think the man has to initiate physical affection kind if insulted me. I have asked guys out on dates before but the only reason I don’t start anything physical is because I make it clear what I’m okay with and then want to know what they’re okay with.

[@josephjclarke1871]

I was looking for female comments on the matter. Thanks for replying!!!

[@adaptable7836]

Man story 19 is so dumb. The person is saying not off experience or from anyone she knows . She’s baseing it off of tv shows that’s so post to be dramatic BECAUSE ITS TV , IT’S SO POST TO BE ENTERTAINING!!

[@THEREALGATES]

Supposed

[@greilus4535]

"saying it's okay when it isn't" oh I'm sorry, I've been told too many times that my feelings don't matter but thanks for telling me I guess.

[@sleepingforest3979]

For me it's 3 1.I just want women to be more honest stop blaming man for your bad chooses of man. 2.maybe not all dates but it wouldn't hurt to pay once in a while for a date 3. Please stop telling every got damn aspect of you're dating life on tiktok. P.s holyshit story 5 hits the nail on the coffin. P.s 2 story 45 that 1. I never meet a man who thinks this.

[@thethesaxman23]

Responding to Story 21: YESSS!!! What’s even worse though is doing this to a LIVE BAND!! I’m in a RnB/funk band and part way through a show, some drunk woman tried to request Don’t Stop Believing by Journey by shoving her damn smartphone in our face while I’m trying to play. She did this for about 2 or 3 songs before giving up. First of all, doing this while we’re on stage is such a sick move. Second, wrong genre wrong band. This would be like going to a symphony and shouting FREEBIRD halfway through.

[@DarkHorseNo1]

As a dude, I sometimes go around girls and one thing might happen with their clothes or whatever (maybe their hair is blowing in the wind or dress/skirt) and they’ll think I’m creepy. It’s kinda annoying.

[@getoveryourself2212]

#18 is ironic I met girls that forgot their Bf's stuff or plans for the bf so it's not even a guy thing, even though I do it too my ex did too everyone does it, it's not even a gender thing. #17 sounds like she might've done something that made the guys change their mind but they changed their mind a little late... reminds me of a girl I had a crush on and she said and did shit that turned me off 100% I don't have a crush on her anymore #26 isn't only a woman thing lol + those words of wisdom can be used for men as well, my ex was a raging narc and were exactly what I needed to hear back then. #28 is both genders, not even a gender specific one but the amount of times a woman is an ass to a random guy just because she thinks he's only talking to her because he likes her "ugh, so desperate" then treat some better looking guy more generously/decency..

[@josephjclarke1871]

Thanks for the perspective!!!

[@enriconaves6501]

i realized the hints of a girl that i liked after 8 years and losing contact with her, im sure she already changed her mind

[@knightstemplar3087]

I don't know how I feel about this becoming throw out the video I kept thinking to myself if I'm messed up or something because I do the complete opposite. I'm a 21yo male and in the rare moment where I have a conversation with a woman I'm always thinking they don't like me and these "hints" I'm picking up are just a figment of my imagination bc I'm lonely

[@zminergaming1297]

This whole video sounds like one big counciling session

[@neathendboss1]

When I heard the video game lobby part it immediately rang bells, not because I do it, but because I have heard other people do it while I scream: "DIE DIE DIE!" to everyone I kill. I try to make it a point to annoy these people when I can. I get it, you are a lonely person who needs to get your anger out, but targets should be targets, and at the end of the game we should all just be gamers. Comradeship loves!

[@trevinschaerr3732]

8:27 I love the lack of chill there, straight to the “slur.”

[@IExist-wy8yk]

Story 8: I KNEW I make people uncomfortable when I do that! I stare at everyone like I’m a hitman scanning for my target, sometimes I lock onto one face for minutes on end.

[@legitimatefbr9714]

Experiencing menstrual pain. I used a series of calculations to determine that menstrual pain is, in total, more painful than a kick to the balls. OP did ask for things you want the opposite gender to stop doing, after all.

[@MonkeyMan-co9io]

Wait a minute how did you calculate it again?

[@DroBoww]

Source?

[@History_Nurd]

@@MonkeyMan-co9io by getting kicked in the balls

[@yesiwillstealurwig6589]

Makes sense. I would like to stop experiencing menstrual pain too

[@choryllis6646]

bless you

[@ExtraPorkin]

As a man, One big thing that really pisses me off. 1: Girl gets knocked up by loser and then he leaves her only for her to try and go find a man to take care of kid. Won't give you time of day till guy uses her as a relief toy and won't pay attention to her anymore so now she's willing to date other people. You don't deserve love if all you're using it for is to take care of losers kid. If you're gunna get knocked up you go deal with it not try and pawn the responsibility off on someone else.

[@choryllis6646]

Stop hitting on my coworkers who are literal minors. You're old enough to be their father or grandfather, you have no business asking someone that young out, or any reason to believe that it's remotely ok. Some day, I WILL end up in jail and it's because I'll use a booster seat to bash a skull because some 40 year old is hitting on a 15 year old.

[@schizoidmeme5470]

Yeah, I have coworkers who I'll literally cover for (I'm a guy) and even I think it's creepy despite me being 10 years older than some of them.

[@lolzorze]

@@schizoidmeme5470 ey you do what you gotta to protect ppl in a work environment.

[@TheShadowblade9999]

Story #18 13:00 --- I have always had memory issues and often forget peoples names, even my best friends of several years, at some point I just gave up and its even worse for birthdays. I hear when it is like once a year among dozens of other important dates and I can hardly keep mine straight. On the note of men in general, it might not be a matter of not caring but that it is genuinely difficult to remember things even if you try to keep track/notes on it. People who have bad memories also are very likely to downplay it or be used to it and not understand why others act like you should remember everything.

[@Homar_1]

In the past years I learned a lot about psychology and the MBTI and I need to say there are to many personalities to say oh women is like this or oh man are like this. sure, a man is more likely to overthink things and women are more attracted to their emotions. But you can't say there is a 100% stereotype. But if I can wish something from both genders try to be once someone else do something you never would do. For example someone who will be organized for every situation in their life do the opposite try to be more spontaneous.

[@ThomasSicking-yv6sw]

My wife was did a lot of things. And now after 20 plus years of marriage 3 kids we tell each other what we want.

[@mrboo9253]

11:02 Imma be honest here. As long as a woman isn't in like a small street at night with no one around there is no reason to try "not to get murdered". The public will ALWAYS help a woman who is screaming for help. So if you don't want to talk to a man just don't laugh at his jokes and dont smile, or, and I know this sounds unbelivable, tell him you don't want to talk. I legit don't get why this is so hard for some women. Don't be arrogant or agressive, just say: "Sorry, but I really don't want to talk to you right now." And if he asks why just say (still friendly!) "Thats none of your buisness. Just leave me alone, ok?" If a man doesn't leave you alone after that, ask someone for help. If you are too scared then just call the police. Say there is a man who just doesn't leave you alone and do it while he watches. If he STILL doesnt leave then just ask the police to have a talk with him (not on your phone but in person obviously!). Say where exactly you are and start describing the man. Then either he finally leaves or the police will come and handle the situation. If at any point the man comes close or seems very intimadating just try to keep your distance and, again, very suprising, tell him to leave NOW. If he approaches you after that you should probably run and scream. That man aint gonna annoy you or ask you for a date. He's defenitly up to some bullsht.

[@Nikolai_The_Crazed]

I’ve seen one. At my work place, no less. I’ll see women slapping each other on the ass, telling another woman they have a “dump truck”, or making lewd comments about men they find attractive. But then they double back, and they say, “I was trying to adjust my pants, and I saw X checking out my ass. It was so creepy.” Let’s not lie ladies, some of y’all are just as grody as some of us; but for some reason it’s considered more acceptable coming from you. Either sex is an okay and open topic or it’s not, don’t tell me it’s fine when you do it but not when we do it. Also, thank you to the guy who mentioned being out at night. Crime statistics show men are twice as likely to be the victims of most violent crimes, but _we_ get lectured on how _you_ don’t feel safe, because “most crime is perpetrated by men.” Yeah, it is. Yet the criminals still seem to have a bias toward victimizing their fellow man over a woman. Don’t lecture me about feeling threatened by a potential criminal in the night, when I’m at greater risk than you are. A news agency tried the same rhetoric with female reporters, stating that the number being killed on the job rose to 11%. They told people to “stop targeting women”, despite the fact that they ignored the flip side of that statistic, that 89% of those killed in the field were men.

[@AByteofCode]

A very important element in that reporter stat is that a third of journalists are women. If they were 11% of numbers and 11% of deaths, it would make sense, but since that is not the case, women can definitively be marked as under represented in dead journalists.

[@Nikolai_The_Crazed]

@@AByteofCode Yeah, you’d figure that if they make up 33.3% of the work force in that industry, they’d make up 33.3% of the deaths in the field. But it seems like women are targeted less when it comes to crime. It’s rare to be the victim of a crime either way, depending on the area your in. But I constantly get ladies at my work talking about how they’re scared to walk to their cars at night, which aren’t very far from the building and in a nice area no less; when I’m twice as likely to be victimized but I still park at the back of parking lot. I get not everything is equal, but that doesn’t mean that the ladies are _always_ the ones who got the short end of the stick. But for some reason, some people act like they always do.

[@AByteofCode]

@@Nikolai_The_Crazed I often get women complain to me they're afraid of walking alone in the street because they're women. In the meantime every day to go home from school I walk an hour in pitch darkness on a dirt road while on high alert and I never complain about it. I understand there are physical differences and I probably have a better chance of fighting someone off than a girl, but also that difference doesn't really make matter much against a weapon or someone who's actually strong.

[@DanSavageGames]

For her to stop dropping 'clues' that nobody can pick up, and tell me she likes me already

[@thatisnotdababy9694]

9:22 the hell is this gonna do? "my bad bro"? 😂😂

[@Virtue2721]

This video needs to be heard.

[@warriorsorb1111]

This list goes for both sides; 1) Quit playing head games. Ladies, quit pretending to hit on men and quit pretending to be interested in them. If you really like them, and I'm not talking "as friends", then see if they're interested in you and if they are, then be with them. If you don't like them, then leave them alone. Guys, same thing that I said to the women. People have feelings too. 2) Respect boundaries. Don't go being a stalking creepzoid following someone online or IRL and harass them. It doesn't matter if you like them or not, if they say "leave me alone" then leave them alone. Don't go giving some BS sob story like "my girlfriend cheated on me with my best friend and I'm lonely" because A) Nobody cares and B) That's no excuse to stalk and harass someone. 3) Quit fabricating stories and accuse someone for something they didn't do. If it did happen, then by all means speak up. If it didn't happen, then shut up. It's ridiculous that innocent people are being punished for things they didn't do. Go after the real guilty ones. 4) Quit playing "gender superiority". Women can do a lot of the same shit men can do. No one is superior to the other. 5) Quit cheating on each other. If your relationship is falling apart, try to fix it. If it can't be fixed, then break-up and move along. It hurts a lot less than cheating.

[@merrim_d3ad882]

As a girl myself I can say that women sometimes overdramatize that it's worse being a woman. Men also have problems and not all of them are bad. Some women say that they are stronger than men. Some men say that they are stronger than women. No matter the gender we are all equal. I might have said something wrong in this comment, but the main thing that I mean is that women are women, and men are men.

[@mentalshatter]

No, nothing wrong that I can see. The only difference our genders have is physiologically.

[@lemonboi5670]

i listen to these stories everyday

[@KhoaTran-md5ou]

about flat out ignore another woman... do you know what hell we wiil walk through if we even try to offer to open a door for another girl beside her?

[@trapper830]

I wish they would stop trying to be special but actually just be themselfs

[@Arak_Drakoniz]

I wish people in general (especially women) would stop thinking with negative emotions and letting it control them. And while we’re at it, quit antagonizing people.

[@ShynLamo]

What do I wish they'd stop doing? Assuming they're worth it without any effort or directly trying to do anything. Ive had countless girls trying to date or get me to do stuff for them and say "well I'm a girl so that's enough" just for me to turn around and say "you're a human. Race and gender do not matter. If you want anything find a way to get it without expecting to give something in exchange. Nothing is free for many men or women"

[@TinyDragonGamer250]

As a male, I wish women would stop acting dumb and actually act as they should be. Intelligent, proper, upstanding citizens of society. None of this "E-girls" or "Furry" business.

[@Triaxx2]

This video makes me think the whole co-ed Society experiment has gotten out of hand.

[@chadderrick1737]

Most of these comments are about being direct when telling someone you like them 😂😂

[@tristanbagley8773]

1. Quit getting jealous 2. Don't lie just to end a argument 3. Don't result to cheating just to get back at each other.

[@neintimesthegeek1337]

I wish for young women (18 - 22) to stop making OF accounts. Reducing themselves to a sexual object because they refuse to get a real job. Have some pride and don't sell yourself for a portion of a meal.

[@michaelb.3006]

15:12 I just always have the lid down. It’s basically the house hold norm and both my parents and girlfriend are fine with it (my girlfriend lives with me seeing as it was recently discovered her psycho mom was very mentally unstable and her dad is an extreme alcoholic and very abusive so his father is in a treatment facility and her mother is in the looney bin. The reason I live with my parents is neither of us are 18 yet. Plus when I go to a college/university my parents want me to live at home so I don’t have to spend money on any living accommodations and can focus on spending it on school supplies and enrolment in the first place. And yes my parents are respectful enough to give me money for various feminine products so my gf doesn’t have to talk about it with my parents and they also support us if we were to get intimate with our relationship. Honestly I’m very lucky for all of this and I recognize that odds are there may be only 1 or 2 humans on the planet who are just as lucky and for this I wish you all the same luck or even better luck going forward… except for Greg. Still don’t like what he tried to do to my cousin.

[@InoriVoid]

3:56 this one example really puts me off. Like, you can not have sex, but still love someone. Paying for food is such a miniscule cost, and it makes you seem like you only date people for the sex and dont want any actual commitment. Completely made me stop taking him seriously after that one

[@bryanmcloud4121]

As a man, if you women can't stand how we forget things that you've told us or things you want us to do, there's a really good reason for that. You're talking too much. And I'm not trying to be a misogynistic asshole guy for saying that, but it's the truth. Women speak how many more words than men a day? And when you factor that an average human can only retain a small fraction of all information that is thrown at us every single day, yea, we are going to forget crap. Don't take it personal.

[@xmason8562]

Something I wish women didn't do (feminists mainly) is to stop saying just because you can push a baby out of you doesn't make you stronger, it does take muscle I think but npdoesnt make someone stronger overall

[@melodyofloveinblood]

1St of all, "refusing" 😂

[@MateInTwoPAC]

I was really hoping someone would say “being alive” and that’s why I clicked on the video.