What EVERYONE needs to know about SELF-LOVE | Najwa Zebian

Consider this... "These mountains that you are carrying, you were only meant to climb."
I know you felt that! And so did I. Which is why I had to interview the powerful and inspiring trailblazer who coined this phrase, Najwa Zebian.
Najwa is a celebrated Lebanese-Canadian poet and inspirational speaker on a mission to CHANGE THE WORLD.
In this heart-filled interview, Najwa shares her account of witnessing her home in Lebanon engulfed in war, to her incredible journey of immigration, vulnerability, invisibility, and self-discovery.
On the heels of the #metoomovement we confront head-on the mindset of power dynamics and the reality AND effects that men and women are faced with on a daily basis.
Our backgrounds are different. Our styles are different and this interview will be a brand new experience that you do NOT want to miss. More often than not, it is our diversity that brings us together. This is why I am so thrilled to bring you this episode.
This woman has shaped and changed her entire life and is now on a mission to change the world.
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[@EdMylettShow]

Who would you like me to have on the next episode? Comment their names below and I’ll get them on the next episode!

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Eric Berry, safety for the Kansas city chiefs who has battled cancer but continues to play the sport he loves.

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Michelle Holmes!

[@FrancescaMoore1066]

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[@kimberlykay1495]

Wow, her life mirrors mine.. almost all of it. Invisible child, no love and attention, introvert, empath, abusive narcissist men. Stay wayyyyy too long trying to be perfect so they will stop breadcrumbing you.. try to fix them. They strip everything from you if you let them. 😭 I wish I could meet her in person! Wow!! What a brave beautiful woman.

[@jgauffin4548]

Same here!! 100%!! 😲🥹❤️🙏

[@vidainvestor]

All the same to me but I'm a Man empath INFJ

[@davedaniel2645]

"The mountains you are carrying, you were only meant to climb." 😱😱🔥🔥

[@zalishaabdool6671]

Very Often? {{WE DIE?}}.And Missed All!!! {{The Steep Mountain Climbs?}} "{IN OUR LIFETIME!!!}" Please Look Through This Window... "{As An Inspiration!!! Today!!!}" And Let Us Begin...OUR VERY FIRST JOURNEY TOWARDS NEW... HORIZONS!!!...EXTENDING... FROM>>>>>>>>>>>> "{OUR INNER VISIONS!!!}"... PLEASE CHOOSE ONE!!! AND BEGIN

[@Snitch-Moji]

That one hit me square in the truth too. Even brought up a little cleansing ‘ugly cry’ in me when I heard it to make it heard. 💪🏼🙏❤️

[@cecetraveldiary]

hit me too

[@birthstonehue1]

Hit me to hard

[@rainbowwarrior5282]

Yeah I like loved that too ☺️

[@claudine98052]

I can’t believe she is only 28. Listening to her equates years of therapy. I admire this young lady so much. I am 41 btw.

[@maameekuabaidoo5572]

I'm watching this on Nov 10th 2021 in Accra, Ghana and I can feel the impact all the way here. There's no boundary - time or geographical to God's truth and this to me is God's truth. If God could speak through the donkey, he can definitely speak through this beautiful muslim woman, whom I don't even share faith with. God richly bless you Ed and Najwa. Love

[@kimmchoa1858]

"When a person doesn't see how good you are, its a start of a very beautiful beginning, that your goodness starts from how you see yourself and not based on how people or that person see you are."

[@andygreen3866]

Men we really need to take the lessons from this amazing lady and her experiences, and be mindful and respectful in how we behave and communicate with women of all ages. Also beautiful and powerful examples of the impact we can have on ourselves and the world around us when we truly love ourselves unconditionally and do the right thing, not for the approval or validation of others but just because it is the right thing to do. I am sharing this with my wife and teenage daughter straight away. Thank you and bless you Narjwa and Ed

[@candiceharyan2122]

you are beautiful person your daughter and wife are lucky to have man like you i hope they know how lucky they are

[@amalitad6459]

I know men ,respect her admire her . Then they do the mistakes she is talking about . It's more about men should recognise they are doing the wrong

[@connie10000]

I also used to go back to those "Little Glimpses" of what a family member, co-worker, neighbor, friend did or said. Eventually, I would be depleted again by their toxicity. Finally, have 🎉PASSED that test in life! Praise God ❤

[@Humble_Bee.]

I was in an abusive gas lit marriage for eight years and I've kept the lessons I've learned and am still climbing my mountains, even though I've been out for over two years. It's not me focusing or holding on to the past, it's learning from it! Thank you for speaking out on this. Much love. This lesson is irreplaceable. ❤️

[@hopesuhr9258]

Healing is very personal, absolutely true. I keep telling those who are single, to heal first so you can be good first for yourself. If poison enters your life you need to be cleansed. I love it. She is amazing. She’s a overcomer. Did I say Thank you for this Mr Ed. You find the people that need to be heard, for those that need to hear.

[@EdMylettShow]

You got that right! Thank you, Hope. It is my honor to do this work and reach out as much as I can.

[@p4melaG]

Thank you!!! Now I see that I am NOT supposed to go back to my toxic relationship. I really felt this. I can do this on my own, I am strong and I am going to heal too. ❤️

[@natalywithaY]

How did it go for you? 💜❤️

[@gdbson888]

She really heal my heart, never thought words are so powerful

[@hearthealthyhustlebyjonath7414]

I had the privilege of hearing Najwa live at the Summit of Greatness 2018. Anyone else watching this remember? If I remember correctly there was a standing ovation.

[@monabrown101]

This woman is doing God's work. Her message has helped set me free compared to some events at churches

[@adriennebrusseau1401]

Wow!! One of the most profound interviews I have ever watched. I am carrying mountains that I cannot seem to climb! She is right, I have been hanging onto every little good memory I had with my narcissist thinking I could change & he would also! I feel a burden is being lifted because of this interview & I will continue to climb my mountains to reach the best version of me! No more excuses for why he couldn't love me like I loved him! A narcissist just isn't capable and I am ok with that! I will climb & overcome every mountain I face with self love & confidence! Thank you Ed and thank Najwa. I had listened to hours upon hours of podcast's & narcissistic behavior. But how you explained it, resonates with me on all levels! 🙏🙏❤️❤️

[@Mar_NP]

Holy shit, @37mins, THAT is the KEY!!!! Please, listen to that over and over again until you get it!

[@Pimpishone]

I’m just a big fan of positivity, positive energy reciprocating and that’s why when I see a Ed Mylett post I STOP whatever I’m doing and listen to it.

[@DrNanuli]

This was so profound, thank you so much🙏🏻 especially this line: „Would you do all of the things that you normally do if you knew that no one was watching“ ♥️♥️♥️

[@chickenortheeggphotography]

Ed, I don't think you're going to read this...but honestly. I was skeptical at first about this one, mainly because I had never heard of your guest. But the more she got talking and you got engaged in a deeper conversation, this topic hit spot on. No Joke. Thank you Ed Mylett for what you do. I've since looked her up and fell in love with what she has to say.

[@dtom8888]

What an inspiration. Women are kicking our butts but have not received their much deserved respect and admiration.

[@EdMylettShow]

dtom8888 Amen! An absolute truth. All throughout history.

[@annajacome783]

My heart breaks to hear how afol that poor lady's been though. Najwa has had to endure. You have no idea how much you help people. The first time I heard you Najwa l was dealing with alot of family dietetics aswell. Until her first appearance on the Lisa Bilyeu . I finally understand. How lbwas building my home in other people was a huge problem. I love Najwa she is a God sent. ❤

[@thetruthbetweenthelines8521]

Ed, you killed it by having this amazing soul in this episode. I will use the metaphor with the mountains in the next retreat I will have with my people. #maxout , my man!

[@EdMylettShow]

Outsmart & Outwork Thank you! Glad to hear the quote really and truly resonated with you.

[@cacoca79]

@@EdMylettShow sorry this is out of place but i used to be in wfg nd heard you speak, and you got me so irritated with your pandering to other races it was like listening to a democrat. you showed a lot of bias talking about the police killing blacks just because the media made a big deal about it but you never had anything to say about how other people are attacked because of their race who re not black which happens more often, and yes illegal aliens come here to work the system, the majority of people on government assistance per capita are illegal aliens, thanks.

[@tamarawelch2712]

I just learned something physicalogicly. Never close your legs. We breathe from two major places. Stay open yet protect your transparency.

[@teresa6564]

Thank you for this interview. I felt that I was sitting in her chair telling my experience, with the difference of I was married for 27 years to a narcissist. Every detail is exact just different actors. Self love was not in my vocabulary. I appreciate her words and will definitely be following her…very powerful.

[@ToniaRichardson-tm3ff]

Wow, what an eloquently articulate and insightful young woman. Thank you, Dr. Najwa, for speaking up and out; the world needs your voice. Thank you, Ed, for providing this platform and for sharing your openness to her perspective, as well as how you learned from her, right in the moment. Bless up, everyone! Mahalo from Kauai!

[@aniabrandt7]

Profound words Najwa used about emphaths deceiving themselves that narcissistic person will change but we know well inside of us that they won't

[@The4s]

And to anyone who sees this message 🙏 I promise you her books will change your life. I cannot stress this enough.

[@kareng7397]

Which one?

[@suchithota5373]

oh my god .......i could totally relate to this interview...Najwa Zebian u r awesome girl

[@connie10000]

RAISING YOUR VOICE. "The Mountains you are Carrying~You WERE ONLY Meant to Climb" 28:30 -30:00 Then NAMING these feelings is VITAL❤

[@yaminik7]

I really want this video to reach as many people as possible. This is so important! I ended this video in tears, with the kind of words spoken, once again Najwa, I saw a glance of my inner pain, my feelings, opened up in front of me. It is so important to learn to love oneself and heal. Thank you Ed for this beautiful interview.

[@cynthiarunge4858]

Even though my experience was more abusive…this is my story

[@isaiahharmison]

This was an amazing podcast! As a man I was shocked by how much I related to what she was talking about. I 100% related to the Empaths (me) vs Narcissists from a past toxic relationship. This podcast really hit home for me and I would highly recommend anyone to listen to it! #maxout

[@banankokokoketso2503]

I been watching Najwa s interviews for a while, is it just me? I see a different Najwa here... More confident, glowing..she s oozing radiance of positivity . Even her voice projection, it's like before you could still feel the pain in her voice... She is more light now...

[@WeEducateAndTutor]

Ed is really empathetic and compassionate; he’s the type of man I pray to Allah for!

[@aimeecollins3943]

Absolutely awesome podcast. This spoke to me so much. Especially the importantance of making a home within yourself + not looking to other people to fulfill you. Also thank you for reminding the men about their position when it comes to these things and how uncomfortable it can get for some women being out in similar situations! Thanks Ed and Najwa

[@klixplus]

Ed and Najwa, thank you both! I am trying to think about what to say but just feel so thankful that I get to listen to you both tell us your stories. Allowing yourself to be so raw and vulnerable to the world is just so powerful and emotional, you both are incredible humans with a gift.

[@EdMylettShow]

Thank you, I appreciate it, Adam! Was there anything in particular you liked about the video?

[@klixplus]

@@EdMylettShow What resonated with me the most was how personal everyone's experiences are. It is never just the experience itself, it is our own beliefs, environment, upbrings and previous experiences that make every situation 100% unique and personal. The way that Najwa is able to articulate this message has really opened my mind and I am sure will help me become a better person. Thank you both again

[@leahspringer7706]

When the students ready, the teacher appears. Where I am in my inner thought, this showed up. Divine timing for me. Thank you.

[@prismonthethehorizon5793]

34:55 This is the beat way I've heard the narcissist and empath dynamic explained! Brilliant!😊

[@connie10000]

🎉Amazing Interview on both parties half. Sounds like my last 20 plus years. Thank YOU... Wish I had this info/ability to SPEAK UP prior...just past few yrs and NOW starting TO PROTECT MY VALUES, showing genuine LOVE & RESPECT for MYSELF & MY Little Child within❤

[@chadgeetarz]

Absolutely phenomenal interview. I can’t believe how powerful and inspirational your guests have been on my life. And your guest today is no different. Mind blowing, impactful, and brilliant! Thanks to the both of you!

[@nanibernal9986]

Powerful is an understatement! I literally played this podcast 3xs this morning alone. The truth and rawness she spoke really brought me to a place where I can relate with her. Self love is so important and you don’t realize you don’t understand the true meaning until your looking every where for a feeling and a love but really your looking for yourself . Thank you for your inspiration as a mother and young women I needed this! Ed keep these interview and podcast coming you’re creating such good value!

[@kristykeller871]

but really i was looking for myself. Do you realize this sentence super impacted me. Thank you for this insight! I completely sank into that relationship and when he walked away, I did not even know who I am anymore, a ghost of myself was all I was. I gave everything I had away, till I had nothing left. Time has shown me to keep my eyes on myself and keep growing, just me.

[@danielle2502]

Stephen speaks I think this would be the perfect interview please make this happen 🙏 🙂 😊

[@esgibtnichtswasdunichtnuch4994]

OMG ED & NAJWA IN ONE ROOM! My day is blessed. TWO OF THE SWEETEST & KINDEST SOULS ON PLANET EARTH ❤ ❤ ❤

[@fesutankayo]

let's stop by my Chanel my friend

[@theweirdsiblings123]

Phenomenal show today Ed and great to see a fellow Canadian. What a powerful young woman with so much wisdom that we can all learn so much from. Thank you. It was brilliant!!! #maxout

[@EdMylettShow]

John Harrison Thank you John, appreciate the love and support. She’s such a great representative of Canada in every way possible.

[@abaibireid4035]

Assalamu alykum, i hope all the best for u najwa. I hope you can let go of the pressures of cultural/ traditional obligations that you may have felt as a child with islam wrongfully from family and see islam with new eyes for the wisdom, beauty &reflections that it really has in it. As someone who has come from being without islam to now being a muslim for 10years i have seen both sides of the coin in life. I hope u continue your own inner soul searching&research with the Quran for yourself and not without it.I hope u keep ur heart and mind open to the Quran as it can provide more insights than u can imagine. You may find Bayyinah.com really useful on your journey. It is a great place for tafsir and learning the complexities and meanings in Quran within its language so you discover islam for yourself and not just by what u were told. with these insights, ur words can b even more insightful and give u more focus and precision in the work u r meant to say yes to. I hope the best for u in life and in the next as with everyone else

[@naomis4852]

Well said, I totally agree Mashallah

[@vivianblandon8181]

This is so true, felts chills when you said Holding on those moments kept us there! I felt that to the core. Thank you for no being afraid nor embarrassed of failure on your love life. I used to blame myself for everything not realizing who I was with. Thank you Ed for having her.

[@TheOlgaKay]

I felt chils over that precise moment as well. This is what kept me in every unhealthy relationship I've ever been in. Very powerful realization.

[@christyjewell2695]

Litterly in even just the first five minutes it felt like u were interviewing me. Your so right her emotions relate so deeply to so many people. Thank you both so much

[@Foxiest63]

Phew, as I listen it's as though you've walked through 58 yrs of my life. Thank you!

[@samanthaellis7132]

I've been binge watching your videos for days now, while I workout or while I'm cleaning and all them hit me in the best way! But THIS ONE, THIS ONE I really am so glad I heard today. In God's perfect timing, always so good. Going to buy her books soon. Thanxx so much for having this beautiful soul on here. 💜

[@kristykeller871]

she's a treasure!

[@Lilyrockstarr]

I’ve watched a lot of videos with her and honestly all I see is a lot of pain. I don’t believe that’s she doesn’t have it any more. But listening to her helps me dealing with mine.

[@annhandy4273]

An incredible interview! Just goes to show that where ever we are from, we are all in this human experience together ., and have like experiences. What an amazing woman who is a light to show the path to healing and greater understanding!

[@kristykeller871]

Her realness is so helpful on so many levels, I cannot even count them. Thank you for your truth.

[@derrickupshaw3008]

Thank you Najwa Zebian for this beautiful message. And thank you too ed for inviting this amazing woman on your show. We Love you both. ❤

[@TheTILAGO]

WOW. If there was ever a time I needed this interview and her words...it is right now! She spoke directly into my situation and I see a great deal of similarity in our paths and stories. I must get her book. Thank you both for sharing!!

[@joannbattle1599]

THANK YOU FOR SHARING! I lived this for so many years. I am working on healing now.

[@angalmeida29]

Ed Mylett your. Voice !!!! Wow Thank you Nejuwa

[@susanbayerle4395]

Najwa...what a beautiful soul! Loved this episode and how you discussed looking for validation from others and looking at what you have accomplished and overcame. Taking time to look in the mirror on a regular basis and learn to grow is SO POWERFUL! Keep doing what you are doing ED #Blessings

[@nicoler3219]

oh my god NAJVA you made me cry , you remind me of my daughter that passed away 4 years ago and she now shi is almost your age , such a old soul , your amazing thank you 🙏 😘😘😘😘

[@shawnie2027]

I just noticed this was filmed two years ago! Lol but this is so relevant and it helped me so very much! Thank you 🙏 you will never know how much your sharing has literally changed my thinking in a very very hard time in my life. I really pray that I can not take this information and make the changes I have put off for over 11yrs and end the abuse n move past it to make a home inside of myself that is big enough for the 52yrs of hoarded hurts and lies and disappointments; so I can one by one unpack them and purge! God bless you both and may God bless everyone out there that reads this as well and may you too finally climb over the mountain you’ve been carrying !!! Putting on my hiking shoes right now! Hahaha metaphorically speaking🤣👍❤️🙏

[@michaelfishbaugh5157]

Very powerful! Mr. Mylett, I love when you have someone with you on a podcast that I have never heard of. I learn so much. Najwa saying about 'carrying mountains vs climbing mountains...and I think the advice be the person you want to be....direct and to the point. Goes with what you have said, "you are enough just the way your are."

[@EdMylettShow]

Mike Fishbaugh An absolutely perfect way of summing it all up. Amen Mike!

[@elleleonfilms7263]

Holy moly that was so good!! I related with her story in so many ways, I think the moment I chose vulnerability was the moment I saw me without the need of craving the need to be seen. Which allowed me to go through my healing and find my home within myself knowing that I was already enough and was worthy. I think the greatest gift of love is to be able to chose ourselves- love ourselves in the way that we become whole. That leads to even standards and knowing that you won’t allow just anyone to walk into your life’s And lastly. Thankful for my fiancé, for magnifying me! He was actually the one who sent me this

[@daniellesmith2445]

Woah!!! That just changed my life!! It's interesting how you can go through life and have people tell you something and you sort of "get it." Then, this beautiful soul comes to talk and BAMM you hear the same message but now you "REALLY get it."" Be your true self FOR YOU!! Stop relying on what other people think or tell you about who you are. Be what you want to be...... Kind, generous, buff, a good listener... Be you

[@angelitominez684]

Exactly what I needed! Hope to be on your show one day!

[@gangaselvaraj4165]

Both of you are incredible souls,fantastic Interview,powerful insights WOW!

[@taniagil3122]

Thank you for briinging this !!

[@valeriarushiti8478]

As always , amazing. Depth , wisdom , soulful knowledge 💜

[@michaelholloway1111]

Soft voice and persona, powerful message! Thank you

[@nicholasfenzke4926]

One of the best yet!!!👏👏👍👍👍

[@sonjaveda9832]

❤ what a beautiful gift to be able to articulate in a clear beautiful way❤

[@pranjalagrawal9083]

She is one of a kind

[@carolseibert4941]

Ed and Najwa - no words to describe the depth and beauty of this conversation! I am grateful for your willingness to share your experiences and insights, and for the impact they had as I listened. Ed, I am encouraged by your podcasts and you tubes that reflect your faith in God and your commitment to changing lives. I share often. Thank you so much.

[@stacelcs]

Amazing.....Simply Amazing thank you I needed this so much right now more than ever so much love and appreciation

[@hanans9992]

Such a beautiful soul and an inspiration. Your books have help me in many ways.

[@southernboybuddha75]

Ed you did a brilliant job with that interview! You're definitely one of the better interviewers in the way you guide and allow the conversation to glow and add in to the talk when needed but nit consume the interview. Excellent job on thos one brother! 🙏

[@doloresvalencia2950]

Thank you for your message, beautiful lady♥️

[@AndrewSavedbyJesus]

What a gorgeous soul! Everyone can relate to this in some way. Excellent stuff, thank you!

[@christiansolano9455]

Thank you Ed and Thank you Najwa for this awakening moment, you have truly impacted my soul for the positive.

[@alheriking8205]

I love her, I see myself in her story. Thank you both.

[@Alex.Vonderhaar]

Uncle Ed, once again for the 100th time you put out content right as a needed it. The universe works for you and both of you are shining examples of that

[@FrancescaMoore1066]

What an amazing journey. So powerful and thank you🙏🏽

[@ChimegsCoffeeBreakblog]

Thank you so much. Please make more of this kind of conversation. You are both amazing.

[@jazzyrm6812]

Wow❤️❤️❤️ thank you so much for this!

[@ruchanaik1457]

I relate with this woman so much Thank u for healing

[@creyes9702]

This is a perfect video for my teenage daughter to see. It’s so empowering! Thank you both!

[@amswestyorkshire8048]

Omg! How incredibly beautiful written I love what Ed read out. Thank you just found this.xxx

[@USMLESuccessAcademy]

Mr. Mylett, I discovered you a few weeks back on Tom Bilyeu's show and ever since I've been captivated by the awesomeness that you put out into the world. Read your book in one sitting and loved it. Just wanted to let you know that you've inspired me tremendously. Thanks.

[@mara1275]

Thank you so much! GOD 🙏 bless you guys!😭😭😭

[@kirstanmccarthy6566]

I can relate❣️ thank you for talk about this!!

[@daleswain9520]

Thank you Najwa... I just heard about you today... then I had to hear more, been scoping the internet while at work even. You somehow got in my heart and soul and in a sense told the world. Thank you!

[@donaldwymer7749]

Beautiful MIND, Heart and Soul. Awesome Understanding...

[@randypassi9018]

What a beautiful soul. This moved me in so many ways. Thank you for bringing light to a dark world.

[@roseanngarcia9436]

This content was so incredibly deep for me. I’m thinking when I saw myself with a glow in my eyes and I don’t think I ever saw it! I recently put up a motivational Instagram because I use it to try and motivate others but I don’t get bit maybe one or two likes and I began to feel discouraged but after listening to this I’m going to continue to post to motive myself! Thank you so much for today!!! 🙏🏼❤️

[@137Stepha]

Loved this interview. Both of you are very special! Thanks for sharing!

[@Frantictoad]

I’m so grateful for this ! I’ve had real breakthroughs watching this. Thank you Najwa, you’re very brave, smart and beautiful. Thank you Ed Mylett , I’m growing and loving myself more and more through your contents

[@avicrane113]

Ms. Zebian's story is call to action for all women, whatever time in their life. I will purchase a copy of her books for the women in my life.

[@TiengViet365]

Thanks Ed and Nagware Zebian!

[@cleadenlewin6550]

Wow! Simply Amazing!!!!!

[@Anastasia-ps1lv]

thank you she is amazing❤🙏

[@latashawindham197]

She told my story and touched my life to confirm my growth!!! Made me cry tears of Joy!!!!

[@carinaisabellavarela2735]

You twoo🙏💕 Thank you🌹

[@akansha1823]

She is powerful in real sense.

[@michaelfoster8961]

I loved this! Thank you