What Happens When Some Men Are Rejected By Women

What happens when some men get rejected by women.

[@kgs2280]

“Men are afraid women will laugh at them. Women are afraid men will kill them. - Margaret Atwood, author of The Handmaid’s Tale

[@jema2609]

My brother laughed at me when I told him that I'd rather watch the worst horror movie than the Handmaid series. He asked why, and I answered that the show hits too close to the truth.

[@xxarianahiltonxx5116]

Yes, i could not finish that show. I watched 4 episodes and had an anxiety attack. It made me vomit. ​@@jema2609

[@TeknuAddict]

​​@@jema2609 Fun fact about Margaret Atwood. She refuses to call her works "science fiction" and gets annoyed when other people do, because she purposely never includes something that has not already happened at some point in human history. So that people cannot say "this is unrealistic, or "that would never happen"... like "sir, it already has."🤨

[@elishh8173]

Wow she is amazing. I haven't watched it for the same reason. It hits too close to home.

[@kgs2280]

@@jema2609 I understand, but I think it’s very important to watch, especially now when all these anti-women laws are being passed. As another commenter said above, the author of the book (Margaret Atwood) said that everything that happens in it has happened to women in different countries in the world and in different times, so it’s all real. We have to understand what some men, and even some women, especially in government and religion are willing, and even happy, to do terrible things to women so we must be ready to fight against them. Some men, again - and women (Ann Coulter) are even saying that our government should take women’s right to vote away! Our right to vote is the ONLY right women have in the U.S. Constitution. Ladies, fight for your rights!

[@gem9535]

Too many men: "Just say no." These same men: *commits a felony because rejection hurts for, like, ten seconds*

[@qjtvaddict]

The jail is the biggest mental institution

[@cosmicreef5858]

NEVER hurts is what you mean They are just degenerates

[@maevav5645]

@@qjtvaddictI think maybe hell.

[@LiterallyAllNamesAreTaken]

⁠@@maevav5645 you realise the amount of criminals who “take the easy way out” ? to avoid jail. yea I’m pretty sure they’re not afraid of a fictional land.

[@maevav5645]

@@LiterallyAllNamesAreTaken like I said, “I think maybe”. If you are gonna try to insult my believes there you go. Maybe they think is the easy way, and then is worst than what they could imagined🤔

[@Libby-MD]

She was not playing hard to get. He was playing hard to get rid of.

[@HauntedCadaver]

LOL 😂

[@TheMspoodle2]

Or hard of hearing

[@Childfree334]

Right. They think the word NO is just us playing hard to get.

[@eaglechick1113]

Also hard to want.

[@HauntedCadaver]

@@TheMspoodle2 I think you mean selectively* 😂

[@PrettyPrincess9609]

I was SA’d by a guy I thought was my friend because I said NO! He knew I was a virgin and he still forced himself on me. I fought back and bit him and he claimed I injured him so bad that he had to go to the hospital. He threatened to harm my family if I didn’t give him money. I called the police but they said I didn’t have any proof so I never received justice. I fell into a deep depression and even contemplating suicide. My friends turned against me because I brought “ negative vibes “. My own mother said I should have never invited him to the room and my cousin called me “ damaged goods “. I’m still in therapy to this day. This is why I choose the bear. At least if I was attacked by a bear, they would believe me.

[@Priscilla_Boye]

This is so sad I pray you heal from this ❤❤

[@harriettubman337]

❤

[@cherryivana1129]

I am so sorry sis🫂🫂🫂🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺

[@goddessofthetsc5699]

I'm so sorry sis. I'm sending healing and positive vibes to you. Their are good people out here, your one of them, dont give up💫

[@thandondlovu5392]

I am so so sorry i hope you know that it wasn't your fault and I am so sorry you were let down by those who should have had your back the most. Unfortunately there was nothing you could have done to protect yourself because it's not up to the victim to protect herself it's up to the perpetrator to stop.

[@Aliensanonymous_]

Yall say men don’t get it. Yes they do. THEY JUST DO NOT CARE.

[@flutatious_music4]

this the one

[@Liz-wz8dh]

You're right. You're right. They lack empathy, many of them.

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

Exactly💯

[@Prismatic9008]

THIS 💯 They're going to remain entitled, dangerous, and selfish

[@Chris-dh3ve]

It is because they were taught, learned, and observed not to value or listen to women. Now it is integrated in there average functioning and become part of their personality.

[@breezluize3282]

He's ALREADY showing her EXACTLY how he'd act if she got into any sort of relationship with him. NO THANK YOU.

[@yubelwish]

🎯

[@Gloweysworld51]

And he was sounding sassy as hell😂😂😂

[@Myaccount923]

@@Gloweysworld51yes! Probably DL trying to catch his next victim

[@KurosakiLuvar01]

@@Gloweysworld51 he’s definitely gay. She probably can tell too 😂😂😂

[@triniwondawoman]

and then men will say she chose him

[@pixidustdealer]

woman: No! x15 man: stop playing hard to get! woman: No! bear: walks away.

[@SweetEssie]

😂😂😂😂

[@sweetflower570]

😂

[@TheGreatman12]

I think you're all being a little disingenuous to try to make a point

[@angelsarereal4902]

@@TheGreatman12 It's not being disingenuous if this exact situation happened in the video goofy. Everyone knows you males don't take no for an answer because your egos are larger than Saturn. There is an entire subreddit dedicated to women who've been murdered by men for rejecting them.

[@annsanimationaddiction8024]

It's easier to explain shooting a bear than shooting a man. That's how I see it it I ran into either middle of the woods. ​@@TheGreatman12

[@EdieRoxUrSox15]

"I know you want me." ABSOLUTELY NOT. THE GASLIGHTING

[@RedSoloCuppppp]

You just know he'll be telling his friends after that he's a 'nice guy' but these women can't appreciate a provider 🙄

[@Sophia-angel]

Oh yeah I hear that a Million times 😂😂😂 I think they live in a delusional world

[@a.b.2850]

The cockiness

[@jessicascoullar3737]

He isn’t trying to gaslight her. Idiot actually believes he is an irresistible sex magnet and can’t understand how she is resisting. The delusion is strong with this one - and that is what makes him dangerous.

[@h0rriphic]

Oh no he had the audacity to say “ _you_ know you want me”

[@AminaPhilosophy]

Teach children the art of accepting rejection.

[@Liz-wz8dh]

One of the many lessons schools SHOULD be teaching but don't.

[@Armelleee]

teach boys.

[@hopefulfortomorrow1039]

Teach children the art of accepting when someone is out of their league as well and then mabye attractive women wouldn't constantly be harassed by dusties.

[@hopefulfortomorrow1039]

@@Armelleee There are plenty of women that can't take no for an answer as well. Most of us just falsely assume that all women are straight and non predatory.

[@KurosakiLuvar01]

@@hopefulfortomorrow1039the “unattractive” ones are harassed and SA’d the same. Please don’t think SA is about attractiveness because it sure tf ain’t.

[@hurtingfeelingsdaily]

Dudes will tell you they are natural hunters. They always on the prowl. Then get mad when you call them pr3dators. You cant make this ish up!

[@ravenrebel3183]

This comment needs ALL the likes!

[@purplelove3666]

Natural hanters, they can go to the wild if they are hunters,go and catch a bear

[@strudelh]

I’m genuinely confused like which is it lol?

[@hurtingfeelingsdaily]

@ravenrebel3183 aww thankies! It's true. When you say pr3dator all of a sudden errbody offended lol.

[@Quirkyalonester]

I had one tell me, having decided to message me despite my not having a picture on my profile which seemed to be a deal breaker for him, in an effort to convince me to share one with him was to say that men are visual creatures and go after women like they do pigs. It was sooo sad when he finally left me alone. \s

[@Ms.AllSunday930]

"I can get cho hair did yo nails did, get chu some lashes" Probably the same type of dude to be like "Damn why all these girls usin me for money and lookin fake"

[@annstewart8506]

💯

[@May-nt3ow]

Also, "You owe me now"

[@annstewart8506]

@@May-nt3ow 💯

[@juanita_rocksteady2761]

Also I thought they liked "natural" women. Plus it's offensive that he thinks he can offer nails and lashes to get me? Black men have no game. How about you approach her like a real man?

[@TheQueenRulesAll]

That was my thought as well!!

[@Veren-qi5oc]

Rejected a guy in college, he then stalked my socials, harassed my family members, friends, etc. Rejected a colleague months ago, he stares at me constantly and lied about me to other colleagues. It's tiring living as a woman

[@77kc_77]

Same had to move , delete social media pages, block him, and change phone numbers/ carriers

[@emjohnson7207]

Survival skills if you can't get a 🐻: *Cut hair short *Buy a fake 💍 and wear it *Buy mace *Buy taser *Look predator in eye & don't smile; most will look away *Call police and file harassment, threatening, stalking charges. He will understand this.

[@emjohnson7207]

Their behavior after rejecting them really validates your instinct on saying no to them.

[@rosalynkastner9072]

Experienced this…disgusting 🤮

[@DeathnoteBB]

@@emjohnson7207Do cops even fill out charges? Usually I hear they just go “Well if they haven’t done anything we can’t do anything” and nothing ever gets done

[@sourcandydoll]

The man in the first video sounds like he wants his hair, nails and lashes did…

[@servantleader9036]

That’s what you got out of that video….. 😒😒

[@sourcandydoll]

@@servantleader9036 stop talking to me

[@KilonovaBurst]

It puts the lotion on its skin

[@Alexandra_Mauve]

😂😂😂😂

[@AlyssaIrvine]

​@@sourcandydoll😂❤

[@linseypollack2309]

If you are in the vast wilderness of a forest, well away from the trails, and a random man shows up he likely is already stalking you.

[@Recoveringred]

And likely has a gun. If I saw a bear I know it can’t take aim at me from a distance.

[@anonymousa-uy1hk]

Bingo!!!

[@Liz-wz8dh]

Exactly. I think that's what is implied.

[@Lwa616]

​@Darkskinfairyactually , bears as well as other mammals are known to sometimes hunt for sport. As well as participating in acts of sadism .

[@Lwa616]

​@Darkskinfairynot true , many non-human species participate in violence for fun. Dolphins, orcas, bears, big cats etc

[@bookmarker7471]

"Get yer hayr did" "I know you want me" "I'm helping you out" Chile would've got irritated too

[@Liz-wz8dh]

She was way more polite than I would be. I get worn down dealing with those types of guys. And then half the time they're wearing a wedding ring on top of that.

[@bookmarker7471]

@@Liz-wz8dh she handled it perfectly. We don't know would've happened if she handled it in a rude way with the dusty. Kuddos to her

[@RasheedahNizam]

Hairstylists comment less on the hair of strange women than these men do. But they are the first to complain about a hairdo 😅 a man with responsibilities typically can't wax philosophical about women's hairdos or lack thereof

[@Anonymous-dq3ok]

"WoMAn aRe EMotiOnAl " Never more then a man hearing the word "no" 😂

[@Sweet_Dee]

"I'm a man and I know what I want." "I'm a human being, not a vending machine, and I'm telling you that you can't have it."

[@Childfree334]

I was in Bloomington a couple of months ago visiting my niece for her birthday, and we went to Mall of America for a shopping spree and lunch. We went into Sea Life Aquarium, and were accosted by a group of bm dudes wanting her attention (she is a gorgeous and red boned 22 year old). She very politely declined, and we kept on walking. But NO, they couldn't let it go at that. They kept following us and pumping each other up. I then turned around and asked them if they wanted to see my ghetto come out. They called me a few choice names and proceeded to threaten my niece. Luckily, security came over and separated us. They held the guys there until we left the aquarium and put a good distance between us. When we sat down for dinner, she was so upset that she couldn't even enjoy her meal that I ordered especially for her. They put a damper on her special day. After that, she took down all her social media for fear they would stalk her. 😢 People need to start actually raising their sons. I don't know wtf parents are doing, but it's certainly not parenting with these boys.

[@Liz-wz8dh]

Then the boys end up raising each other, sharing narcissistic tactics to accost and put women in their place. It's all just horrible.

[@normette]

Sadly, this isn’t new. I’m 43 and from Long Island and had the same exact situation play out at Roosevelt Field Mall when I was out with friends over 20 yrs ago, only no security guard intervened. We literally were afraid to go to the car because it was in the parking deck and we were afraid they’d follow us and do something. After an HOUR, a friend of my uncle happened to see us and the escalating situation in the food court and went off on them and walked us out.

[@ColdDiva]

Truly sorry you had that experience, although not surprised! BM stay being trash. I definitely recall childhood friends being chased and I do mean chased by boys/men. Terrorizing those girls smh.

[@Tigerlily_Fresh]

I wouldn't engage and just walk straight to mall security or to the first police officer outpost. They only understand the law on their necks.

[@pigeoness22]

They are becoming more and more crazy. Behaving like that in front of other people in plain sight. She was not even alone. Omg. Just imagine if she was alone.

[@felixtc8344]

Toddlers know what no means. Dogs and animals know what no means. And yet a grown ass man does not??

[@eeahdesigns4236]

This is too aggressive and unnecessary. Women need more protection.

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

I agree

[@fantym1633]

Which is why I have such @ all times - I am the only one who can ensure my safety

[@Liz-wz8dh]

@@fantym1633 Yep. More women need to start thinking this way.

[@jessikajane4967]

Yup😊 getting my lessons and license this year

[@PrayerOfMannesah]

He was one of those men that are gay, but they can have sex with women if it’s BDSM about domination yeah so anyway you better be careful your heart!

[@les1den2]

This is why it’s hard to be completely honest with them and tell them the truth…. The fear of retaliation and bodily harm. Doesn’t even matter how NICE, PATIENT OR GRACIOUS u are about the situation.

[@i_am_the_ember]

It's never worth losing an eye over

[@ebonynaomi1085]

It can get scary, if the man is desperate.

[@melchiorlise2466]

How many women have rejected guys by telling them "You are a very nice guy", or "I am a lesbian", or "I am not looking for a relationship right now". And by doing that we are unwittingly teaching them that not only do we owe them an explanation for rejecting them, but we owe them a SATISFYING explanation. And now they think they can negotiate, when a simple no should have closed the conversation...

[@emjohnson7207]

Look him in the eye, do not smile, say no thank you. Do not turn you back in him. Man got an attitude when I turned him down for lunch. No was at my job and just given him his background record. I had to tell him to come closer. Me: I was polite to you when I said no, don't make me show my azz up in here. He nodded and walked away.

[@Its_like_the_T-Rex]

I have expertise in this area, having chased off men and bears. As a single, Canadian women at 40, I have actually had to chase off an agressive bear before, all by myself. I was fast asleep in my tent with the flaps up because of the heat. I woke up to immediately gaze into the eyes of a black bear that was 2 feet away, standing over me. I stayed calm and carefully got out of my tent and made loud noises and aggressive gestures and the bear decided fighting me wasn't worth it. As a Canadian, I've encountered dozens and dozens of bears in my lifetime. I get the impression from a lot of men in these response videos, that they don't have any bear or wilderness experience. Sort of in the same way that a lot of men didn't think that women's MeToo stories were true, because they hadn't experienced that type of sexual harassment. And as a city dweller, I have in fact been chased by a man trying to rape me. A man tried following me home. Ive been groped, threatened and harassed by multiple men. I have taken bear courses. I feel good about hiking and camping solo. I have also taken self defense courses and gun courses. I do walk with pepper spray and rape alarms because of MEN. I would 1000% percent prefer the bear.

[@glassycreek1991]

@@thugslayer lying about a opinion? lol you're just delulu

[@ravenrebel3183]

@@thugslayerif it helps your feelings to believe that, sure little fella 😂

[@joannamonique707]

They don't. They swear most bears are actually actively hunting humans. They have no countryside experience at all. Anyone who does knows that most animals are truly more afraid of us then we are of them. I've run a few coyotes off myself. I'm not saying animals aren't dangerous, but they'd almost always rather leave you alone then to fight about it lol

[@maevav5645]

@@thugslayerI think you are lying to yourself, though.

[@NurseKayP]

If you had been asleep in your tent with the flaps open and woke up to a man standing over you instead of the bear you probably wouldn’t be here to tell us this story. That is the problem!

[@GK222_]

They understand 100%, them playing dumb is part of their stupid games.

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

Weaponized Incompetence

[@thugslayer]

No you girls like pretending.

[@user-jt5jm3qo3t]

Weaponised stupidity

[@Svetlavic]

Weaponized gaslighting

[@angelsarereal4902]

Exactly

[@adellturner3846]

Knew someone who gave the guy her number so he’d leave her alone, then blocked him. He found her name, address and work. You don’t win either way.

[@LadyAstarionAncunin]

Oh, yes, you absolutely should NEVER give them your number for that very reason! One phone number and they're unlocking the rest!

[@77kc_77]

Google number text now - I don't give my number out

[@Twdee2]

Pro tip! I started giving guys my Apple Watch number. Your watch still has a separate number even if your phone is connected. Phone will still ring but the watch number won’t bring up any personal info if someone searches it. Hope this helps ❤

[@boochi7087]

I got a Google number just for this. They can't find me.

[@77kc_77]

@@boochi7087 same and a Google phone to rid them

[@theodorathompson2034]

When they are rejected, gently at first, but when they finally realise you mean it, I’ve had several men react angrily. They say that you wrongly think you are too good for them and you will die alone and unwanted. That’s when I knew I had made the right choice. A decent man will say he’s sorry you don’t reciprocate his feelings and wish you well with your life.

[@shanicrystal8671]

💯💯

[@Liz-wz8dh]

Exactly. They always think they're the good guys but their behavior indicates otherwise.

[@dianaprince3176]

They aren’t wrong, though. We are too good for them, sis!

[@Sophia-angel]

They turn and go insane when they realize you mean no and it’s no

[@Pocahantes]

They always say u missing your blessings ...RED FLAG

[@petalflower107]

😂😂

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

Right😹😹😹🤡🤛🏾

[@LadyAstarionAncunin]

God don't deliver blessings in the form of a lacefront and fake lashes. SMH And if she'd already had that stuff on her, he'd have insulted her for that.

[@MikaAKAJada]

😂😂 lorde

[@xxarianahiltonxx5116]

Blessing from Satan himself.

[@uduvudoo3083]

I'm quite introverted. But I took my health seriously one year & lost 120lbs in about 18 months. I got reintroduced to this madness from my teenage years, including relentless catcalling, being accosted in a supermarket, & being threatened for not "being loyal" because 2 dudes I didn't know conspired with the male waiter to pay for my dinner. I never asked. I had my own money. I was simply there to read & take myself on a date. I've since gained back the weight. It's been easier being fat & Invisible. Beauty is dangerous.

[@zr9145]

Saaaaame I get harassed all the dam time now minding my business going the gym. At least once a week a car will pull up then demand I get in then hurl insults when told to fuck off!

[@uduvudoo3083]

@zr9145 like, why, though? It's so terrifyingly cringe! The way they have NO fear invading people's personal space & will NOT accept a simple no! Dude, what if I have a gun?! Back tf up! Hoping you don't have to deal with this in the future.

[@zr9145]

@uduvudoo3083 happens every day sadly and the women are just as bad. The men perv the women give me dirty looks. One time I counted 27 dirty looks from women. 27 on a 20 min walk. People are impossible!

[@hopefulfortomorrow1039]

I have gained plenty of pounds and it still doesn't stop. I am starting to think most of these creeps are just obsessed with young women regardless of how they look. I think the only thing that can spare us is aging because most of them are ageist and probably see older women as their mother or grandmother.

[@zr9145]

@@hopefulfortomorrow1039 some of them seem to home in on it when there's some extra pounds. Like they presume it's an insecurity they can manipulate. The shenanigans never end!

[@balance7350]

Since my early 20s ive been telling people there's something wrong with men. Im so glad to be alive during a time when people finally realise it.

[@Liz-wz8dh]

Right? I grew up not with no one really acknowledging it and I'm so glad people are saying something now. We've all had these experiences and it's become normalized and it shouldn't be.

[@Queenbbyj]

My mother and father have been telling me. My dad even encourages me (he’s black) himself to stay away from these trash BM.

[@thugslayer]

No that was just your dad.

[@balance7350]

​@@thugslayeryes you're right its our dads, our brothers and men in general. Good boy for getting this right you get a sticker 👏

[@thugslayer]

@@balance7350 Aw did daddy touch in a bad way that's called being black.

[@AminaPhilosophy]

Start handing out the number to your local police department. Let them call the police on themselves.

[@scroogemcduckrich9705]

😂

[@fayepatrice1672]

Love that idea!

[@biblethumper8088]

That's a good idea. 👍🏾

[@Liz-wz8dh]

They just leave the building and call the number to see if it's fake. Then you might be setting yourself up for further problems since they know where you work. I like SovereignWoman's take on this. Just keep a fake phone number that actually acts like a real phone number and hand that out. It's sad we even have to do that but that's where we are right now.

[@Ruhrohraggy23345]

Good idea, ima use this.

[@teoleno4019]

This happens at work settings a lot. There is always that one guy that keep bothering and harrasing you. 🙄

[@Gelnailstookblackmenoutthehome]

And don’t let him work in IT, he’ll start deleting all your requests for service orders

[@Liz-wz8dh]

@@Gelnailstookblackmenoutthehome If you work in a restaurant, they will also do things to your food.

[@fantym1633]

There is a recent case involving a mail (cook) having intimate relations with cafeteria-style food coz of "urges". IIRC it was in Houston area

[@jessikajane4967]

​@fantym1633 what?!🤢🤮

[@smlorrin]

@@Gelnailstookblackmenoutthehome 😮☹

[@adrianwillis66]

Another influencer called it the sassy apocalypse. She was right

[@scroogemcduckrich9705]

😂😂

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

I agree 😮

[@idontevenknow7017]

Was it Lay Bankz?

[@try8042]

This man blocked my door and continued telling me he's sexually attracted to me(was dressed in a sweater and pants) and wants to see how submissive I would be because I have that vibe. We never laid eyes on each other before. I declined for a straight hour. An hour! He gave me every reason. I think I'm too good, he knows I think he is sexy, everyone needs sex at some point in time because no one can spend their whole life without sex and he's trying to give me that. I'm going to be lonely. I stood there an hour because he had my door blocked and I didn't know what he was going to do. It's ridiculous.

[@Sophia-angel]

They do that to everyone don’t take it personal. They try to keep pestering you to break you down

[@xxarianahiltonxx5116]

I'm just fine without sex. Men like him are deranged.

[@Diana734]

Walk away and call the cops.

[@maevav5645]

@@Sophia-angelyou are sounding like “boys will be boys” excuses🤨🤔 Be careful.

[@Sophia-angel]

I’m not excusing his BS that would be insane., I’m just saying this is extremely common doesn’t make it acceptable or romotely acceptable

[@beeautifuldreamer2211]

They love getting us at work because they know it's our job to be nice to every customer as best we can. It's sick and annoying as hell. 🙄

[@dianaprince3176]

So… customers buy things. And if they aren’t customers, you are under no such obligation.

[@Sophia-angel]

That’s why I don’t work public facing jobs

[@chanela.7786]

@@Sophia-angelthat part I used to work in retail and came across so many damn weirdos customers and fellow employees alike…No I work from home and don’t wanna go back

[@elenalizabeth]

“ShE’s FliRtiNg WiTh Me” he’ll claim. Like no, her job is to be friendly to EVERYONE, I can guarantee she ain’t interested in your dusty-ass self 😂🙄🤦‍♀️

[@i_am_the_ember]

'I'm trying to help you out' 'Lemme get your hair did' It's so annoying and irritating. People need to raise their sons better. Which one be 'I'm trying to help you out'? That bear video was funny asf😂😂😂😂

[@Queenbbyj]

Sounds like “the ism” and pimp talk, men who are genuinely interested and respect you DO NOT talk like that and offer to buy you things to make your appearance “better” to him.

[@Queenbbyj]

With the sprinkle sprinkle stuff yall gotta be REAL CAREFUL about men buying you things and expensive gifts from the jump. They are either pimps or narcissists

[@J.P_INC.]

I was called weak because I held the door open for a woman and didn't try to get her number. She asked me why I didn't try and I told her because i don't harass women for their numbers and she already had dudes harassing her. I didn't want to add to that stress.

[@theinvisiblewoman5709]

I sprang my ankle and was on crutches still in daily pain fresh injury… and this man walked up on me helped me in the elevator and then instead of letting the doors closed he held it open and said “you ain’t got a man to help you?” I said “huh?” And he repeated himself. I let out a big sigh by accident I was tired and in pain and not all there mentally. He finally said “never mind” and let the door close. This was in public elevator with people walking by. I wouldn’t even have been able to defend myself if need be. But men don’t think about it from a woman’s perspective. Also who is out here hitting on injured people anyway.

[@txspacemom765]

No is a complete sentence. If you keep talking after no, I'm calling the police for harassment.

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

And fast 😮

[@maevav5645]

Police won’t listen, I think…

[@ITEEZ-]

​@maevav5645 they better or I'm calling everybody there even the ambulance and fire department. I need witnesses

[@nellesbombshell371]

I remember I was 15 and it was raining. I was standing at the bus stop under it so I didn’t have my hood on because I was covered. A man pulled up and said I was beautiful and asked me for my number. I could tell he was much older than me so I said no I’m only 15. He made a U-turn, drove back past me but got close to the curb and splashed a bunch of water on me. I couldn’t believe a GROWN man was insulted by a 15 year old telling him no. I’m older now and I can also recall several men calling me the B-word for not giving them my number. It’s very strange and something I’ll never understand

[@LiterallyAllNamesAreTaken]

that’s hilarious and also incredibly sad. I remember a few years ago witnessing a group of young girls (13-14 maybe) walking home from school, still literally wearing school uniform and getting beeped at and hollered at (is that the right word?) whilst crossing the road, by an obviously much older guy judging by his voice. those girls went from chatting and laughing together to complete silence and you could tell they were uncomfortable from the situation and that the guy wasn’t at all someone they knew. I felt so bad I almost wanted to ask if they were okay but they were a significant distance away and I’m shy anyways but I think about that situation often. I was technically no longer a minor when I had my first creepy interaction but it didn’t make it any easier to deal with.

[@heartjewelry-hh1nz]

One time I was walking in a normal route I usually walk to get home. I was wearing a new dress, the hem around my knees. I felt so happy just coming back from an aquarium. I love going to places where there's animals and nature. A man in a car began to talk to me. I realized he wasn't asking directions, he was trying to flirt with me. I walked away because that's my usual technique. He drove ahead and I began to round the corner of the street I usually walk. Suddenly he was outside of his car, approaching me. I couldn't believe a man was doing this. I ran away. Luckily he didn't chase me. I can't understand why can't I just walk home without being bothered.

[@AlyssaIrvine]

You sound so sweet. "A new dress coming back from the aquarium." You didn't deserve this treatment. I'm glad you got away ❤

[@LadyAstarionAncunin]

It's so sad and makes me so resentful because I don't bother anybody. I mind my business. And for someone to bother a person minding their own business, possibly having a good day (which happens sometimes) makes me so angry and kind of sad because, dang, they really be out here ruining people's day because of their own selfish entitlement.

[@Sophia-angel]

They are entitled

[@crowoath8044]

There is bear spray that keeps them away. Someone needs to invent manspray.

[@user-kz8rm9ro9d]

It’s called Pepper spray!😂😂😂😂

[@shanicrystal8671]

@@user-kz8rm9ro9d or wasp spray if your in the uk 🙄🤣

[@leydle]

Nawww manspray needs to be stronger than bear spray. N That spray needs to reach a whole block away. Sir, you're too close. Imma need you to be 100 yards away.

[@crowoath8044]

@@shanicrystal8671 I've never thought of wasp spray. 😆 It does have great range...brilliant!!🥰

[@crowoath8044]

@@leydle THIS!!!🥰

[@fayepatrice1672]

I keep saying that you get more harassment when you dress down. No one believed me. But try wearing professional attire, nice hair and makeup and a designer handbag. Dusties are too intimidated to approach, and they’re more respectful when they do.

[@Nono38-jj1tk]

You just get hit on by a different caliber of men when you dress down opposed to dressing up.

[@jessikajane4967]

It's true. Men are as creepy as they believe the environment will allow.

[@laulutar]

I've been harassed while I've been at work. The only reason I gave them the time of day was that I had had a reasonable discussion with him previously and because I couldn't tell him to eff off, because I was at work, once he started hitting on me. It still took me three "Nos", including the third "No, I'm married and my husband doesn't share". Even then the twerp had the audacity to look confused and go "Oh, I hadn't thought you'd be married".

[@kdphotos4691]

This is true.

[@zammymynakersnackstbmoth]

I've been harassed by a dusty when I was in upscale cocktail/Christmas brunch attire going to a very nice establishment. Dusties have no sh@me.

[@TheMspoodle2]

He's an entailed stalker and he sounds zesty anyway. Some men don't understand the word 'no.'

[@blu_acoco]

What is zesty?

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

True💯

[@AboveRubiesTV]

@@blu_acoco Ghéy…

[@heneverforesakesme4038]

@@blu_acoco sugary

[@mc1618]

He’s on down low narcissistic demon. Most of them spread their std around. Be safe my sisters. Smith and Western is always a girl best friend not diamonds .

[@nikapooh9286]

Had she accepted any of his offers for gifts, he would then feel he’s ’owed’ something. She isn’t interested and doesn’t want his money and she’s still wrong. We can’t win for losing.

[@stephaniebrooks8044]

Exactly! One dam dinner and u owe them!!!

[@J.P_INC.]

A guy swung on me because the woman that rejected him said hi to me and asked for a lighter. I got into a fight over a hi and a lighter 😂. I didnt even get with the woman and walked home while she got into her car and drove off. Lucky for me the witnesses told the cops i was defending myself and the other dude attacked me first. Guess who went home and who went to jail lol

[@mrs.katsukibakugou115]

This video showed up right after i rejected a dude and suddenly grabbed me and told me he loves me and that I'm the love of his life. HE WAS FOLLOWING ME HOME FROM THE PARK.

[@Queenbbyj]

Get a firearm

[@stilljocelyn_]

0:35 I thought they didn’t like lashes etc only natural right?!?

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

Right!🤡🤛🏾

[@moinschatz777]

Men: Just say no if you don’t want it! Also men: she’s just trying hard to get. And that’s ladies and gentlemen is the reason why 1) women are scared of men; (2.) there is so much sexual assault and men always say „but I’m not a bad guy - I’ve never done that“ even if they do exactly that - THEY DONT THINK ITS ASSAULT

[@biblethumper8088]

They already know this is wrong. The fact they don't do this to other men proves it has nothing to do with home training. For the ones blaming the mothers, just stop 🛑.

[@maevav5645]

I kind of blame the PARENTS, I mean who rise that thing? The wolves? Or, their friends? (Of course, most of them are are also adults after and humans, so they should already understand what is good and what is bad, though, and choose bad) It’s sad that bad people like that still exist.

[@xxarianahiltonxx5116]

They do it to other men, too.

[@biblethumper8088]

@@maevav5645 blame the parents for what? If you think that a parent should be blamed because they are an adult, then obviously they are to blame for their own actions because they are adults.

[@biblethumper8088]

@@xxarianahiltonxx5116 no they don't.

[@maevav5645]

@@biblethumper8088I was referring to when they were children, it can’t be a coincidence that those group of men are like that, I think. But, yeah, when they are adults they certainly or take that from their parents or the society or are somehow crazy…Aren’t excuses, but sad reasons. And it’s sad those kind of dangerous people still exist and/or are free to walk.

[@Luna-jk9de]

woman: "No!" Bear: "Oh ok, say less." Man: "OH YOU THINK YOU BETTER THAN ME???" (asks 32849284 more questions and attempts to belittles the woman)

[@ellorasg4525]

I would trust a bear to not SA me over a man

[@Diana734]

They think going through SA is better than being dead or maimed.

[@thandondlovu5392]

Even if this video is a skit there isn't a woman alive who hasn't gone through this. Even when you are covered from head to toe wearing a mask that covers your face and hoodie that engulfs you and you don't engage or speak to them just buying whatever you need to buy and they still insist on bothering you and refuse to leave you alone. It's hard to accept that unfortunately when it comes to men there is nothing you can do to prevent a man from harassing you and too many definitely don't accept the word no.

[@Childfree334]

Women go through this all day, every day. 😢

[@fayepatrice1672]

Honestly, I get more harassment when I dress down. Something about high heels, nice makeup, modest professional attire and a designer bag keeps the dusties away. And they’re more respectful if they do approach.

[@Liz-wz8dh]

Exactly. We've all been there with guys who don't go alone despite you obviously not being interested.

[@lauratracey1405]

And they most of the time are so unattractive!!! And have the nerve to stay in your face.

[@qjames5808]

Women vs bear: yell, look big and angry...bear:ok bye Women vs men: yell, say no, fuck off, leave me alone, not interested, not my type, I'm gay, I have a boyfriend, I'm underaged: man....she's playing hard to get/she wants me/is flirting with me because she looked at me(not exaggerating my ex was like this)

[@alexoceanmeow]

Her working and him bothering her - a guarantee! She was at work! And bc he's likely a conscious predator. He knew she was trapped, her job depends on her having a customer service presence and being polite, and she has to deal with him for the next hour, two hours, him waiting for her after work, seeing him around her neighborhood, etc. He knew she was trapped and had to be nice and he had time to pressure her.

[@Cancam1997]

So true, most of the guys that have stalked me I’ve met at work

[@carolward6073]

Men like this DO understand "no." They can intimidate some women into saying "yes." They keep pushing those women who will not say "yes" to try to make them uncomfortable as possible. It's how they lick their wounds and soothe their egos.

[@ultravioletmix33]

Yup… ol’ tit for tat. “You” hurt me so I’m going to annoy you by being stupid, selfish, and childish.

[@Tonya05]

That man in the first says he is trying to be her blessing. He’s the type of “good man” the red pill guys think are great. He’s not and that video proves it.

[@teachertracee]

He’s actually suggesting that she isn’t good enough as is. That she needs those things to be more attractive. He’s devaluing her appearance. And why does he think she can’t do all that for herself if she wanted to?

[@Tonya05]

@@teachertracee exactly and that’s why the red pill followers would defend him. 🤮

[@lavish_rayne5730]

This is why women should stop telling the sons, that when a girl says no it means try harder.. No means No.. Another one, stop telling your girls that when a boy hits her it means he likes her... This bs is apart of the reason why DV and other crap is going on..

[@amberinthemist7912]

It wasn't mothers telling their sons that.

[@lavish_rayne5730]

@@amberinthemist7912 mothers, fathers, grandparents shouldn't tell boys or girls that bs... My apologies..

[@xxarianahiltonxx5116]

What mother would tell her sons that nonsense?

[@qjtvaddict]

That’s Christian parenting

[@jamberry8026]

Where they do that at?

[@gabriellethompson501]

I will never forget I was working and this guy came up and asked me out right in front of customers. Then, when I said no, he became rude. I wasn't embarrassed, but the fact he reacted like that. I didn't even know him

[@zr9145]

I've had the opposite. Some loser works on my local supermarket and I've stood in his line and watched him come onto literally every single woman in line. After watching him come onto one after another he tries it with me. Really bro? Now he's confused as to why I refuse to even acknowledge him. Total mystery!

[@gabriellethompson501]

@@zr9145 I suppose men don't think women observe them

[@chidenisee]

This is why I am focusing on raising my son better but also hoping to teach him to not even be around guys like this. I don't want him to even have friends or guys like that around him. We have to raise our sons to understand that no at any time means just to walk away.

[@biblethumper8088]

They already know this. The fact they don't do this to other men proves it has nothing to do with home training. Stop blaming mothers for their behavior.

[@LadyAstarionAncunin]

You really have to stay on him about avoiding men (and media) with minds like this because it just takes one charismatic man "with a point" to get to these young dudes sometimes.

[@maevav5645]

They must learn that what matters is not the toxic male or female validation but his own validation and that of his beloved ones that actually really care about him. His worth is not in his bad actions, but the good one. Even if it will be the hardest way, that’s the correct one.

[@shaypope4732]

It's like they are salesmen trying to sell something we don't need r want

[@chauntill]

This!!!! It's like enough with the rebuttals I said NOOOOO

[@keracancook]

I never would have imagined being a introvert could save my life 🥺

[@leydle]

Did you see the video of the man saying how he was looking for a homebody type of woman? I'm gonna have to go to Home Depot and Lowes to get some barricades for my front and back door. Now they out here looking for me and others like me. I need to get a🔫. Man, I'm going under ground now. Let me find out how to build a bunker

[@keracancook]

@@leydle Girl yeah, like do you even know what introvert is? We REALLY love being alone and may have a FEW friends. Maybe 1. Plus they cheat on us anyway bc we’re “boring.” I want a 🔫 as well. Girl…. I already said we I make real money I’m building one👀👀👀#leavetheworldbehind

[@riarivera5995]

It's saved mine too, one guy texted me saying "come to the gym track" and I wanted to be a fat ass and ignored his text, took a nap. I later learned he intended to assault me and thankfully people above me got wind of it and kept him away from me.

[@rhsb553]

Telling a woman she needs to get her hair, lashes, nails, etc. done is NOT the way to gain favor with her. You don't know why her appearance is her appearance. She may have a health condition. She may not be able to afford it. Or, SHE IS HAPPY WITH HER APPEARANCE! It is not anyone else's job to point out what they think her "flaws" are.

[@PraiseTheFSMonster]

And these are the same type of guys who go around and saying things like "nowadays you can't even talk to a girl without being called a creep."

[@the_agate_gate3782]

This is why I’m not polite anymore. I will just walk away from them or pretend they don’t exist until they go away.

[@DeneseJamerson]

Men or women, if someone tells you they are not interested in speaking with you, keep it moving. Some day, someone will say "yes".

[@Childfree334]

No, just say MEN. I am so sick of people acting like women are out here hurting and unaliving men because of rejection. The numbers are not even close.

[@Butterfly_Beauty]

@@Childfree334 Exactly!!!!!!!!!!

[@pearlljewels7330]

Much more dangerous for woman because they get unalived. My dad told me this years ago. They bw would get murked for rejecting a bm!

[@ITEEZ-]

​@@Childfree334YOU BETTER CLOCK IT!!

[@Childfree334]

@@ITEEZ- What do you mean?

[@SableDevon]

We try to hide like “A DIAMOND IN THE ROUGH” and still here they come.

[@LadyAstarionAncunin]

That's why "What were you wearing?" is such bullsh/t.

[@strudelh]

⁠@@LadyAstarionAncuninexactly she’s wearing a bucket hat and a sweater, yet… 💀

[@mocollata]

The amount of people who now think I'm Muslim because of how much I cover up when going out in public. 🤦🏾‍♀️ I have a whole curated Grown and Sexy wardrobe going to waste until I find a magical land where I can be cute and unbothered.

[@bphoxay6440]

Men must not have seen the video of the woman shoving the bear off of her backyard wall while protecting her puppies. 😅 Women will rather deal with a Bear Everytime. And men get an appointment to get that .... Drizzle Drizzle checked out 🤢🤣😂🤣

[@briannagoodwin5001]

In my case it's led to stalking....currently being stalked by a cop and his cop buddies because I nonverbally indicated no even though I'm married. Life ain't easy especially with men involved.

[@jessicadominguez1315]

Good lord, what a discouraging situation and hardly the first of its kind. I am so sorry and I hope he moves on soon.

[@briannagoodwin5001]

​@@jessicadominguez1315 thanks I appreciate it... It is very difficult living this way

[@jessicadominguez4244]

@@briannagoodwin5001 These types only give up when they find someone else which is morbid and very discouraging in itself. My dad was the type too, it's a horrible way to live that is for sure.

[@briannagoodwin5001]

@@jessicadominguez4244 yeah we'll see.......doesn't help that he recently got promoted to sergeant a few months ago.....he's virtually unstoppable....and several of his buddies on the department know about this and are actively participate in the stalking.

[@victoriabanks7701]

That video was triggering and scary for me…like I was scared that he was about to attack her.

[@tracyhill4405]

I am single, celibate, and work. I live alone. I do not allow men in my home to visit me. Well, what do many men do? They follow me every single day. When I go to work, to the store, mall, wherever...etc, they follow. Its like I am a rabbit dodging to keep from being devoured. I ignore them and continue to live my life by the grace of Jesus Christ. Jesus Christ is Lord.

[@titibabalola6768]

Jesus Christ is God sis. Please don’t ever stop praying. It really works. Don’t stop please.

[@OneLindaCarter]

He can’t take no for an answer & he sounds spicy. You can tell he’s going to be a problem if she chooses to move forward with him because he already is a problem.

[@Liz-wz8dh]

Someone that persistent is probably also a control freak.

[@LadyAstarionAncunin]

I was detecting a lil zest myself. I keep saying it: These men look at women for their utility. That's why even low-key zesty ones be trying it. They want to be taken care of, keep the woman chained to them, while they run the road with who they really want. Issa trap!

[@Nat-mw3bz]

COPS CAN GET THAT "STEEL" TOO!

[@Musicmelishere]

I just lie to them by saying I am married with four kids, and I love my “husband” too much to be unfaithful. They eventually leave me alone.

[@LadyAstarionAncunin]

I wonder what would happen if we told them our violent boo is about to get out of prison for manslaughter. 😄I've heard a woman or two recommend something like that.

[@sleeplessmax]

When I was in college I used to always study in the library between long gaps and one😊 time this guy tried to get at me in there. IN THE LIBRARY. I started quietly rejecting him getting increasingly uncomfortable and then he got mad. There were a TON of people around too. He knew what he was doing trying to pressure and trap me. After that. I always hesitated going to the library.

[@Sophia-angel]

I’m the same way I had too many creepy encounters in the library

[@merhona3472]

These demons stealing women's peace of mind and making spaces unsafe for women. Then men turn around and say we not good in the work environment or school or sports when we are sqeezed out of places.

[@dariasdouble212]

This video calls into how corporatism is anti-women. The amount of harassment retail workers have to deal with, and we're told to just be nice because "customer service." Absolute BS.

[@qjtvaddict]

Corporations are anti human

[@mama-nono3652]

And this is the way it has been since forever. It is nothing new. My brother warned me 50 years ago, "Men do not have an "off switch" built in them". That it was only societal pressures and fear of the law that keep men from running totally amuck, but that they will still push and push boundaries anyway. I knew this to be true because it was actually a common thing that women would wear a fake wedding ring to keep men from harassing them. But even then, some guys would be like 'wink-wink, your man ain't gotta know'.

[@vashtikelly6837]

ATTENTION ALL WOMEN!!! WHEN A MAN SAYS HE CAN'T TAKE REJECTION, YOU LET HIM KNOW THAT JUST LIKE IF HE HAS HIGH BLOOD PRESSURE THAT WOULD BE HIS MEDICAL PROBLEM NOT YOUR'S, SO HIM NOT BEING ABLE TO TAKE REJECTION IS HIS OWN MENTAL AND EMOTIONAL PROBLEM!!! NO WOMEN IS TO FEEL FEAR BECUZ HE LIKES YOU BUT YOU DON'T LIKE HIM!!!!

[@artofaries1113]

Grizzle grizzle 💅🏾 🐻 ✨️ Yogi Bear, Sugar Bear, Winnie the pooh, Smokey the bear > than man in woods. It's those bear necessities. You deal with Baloo, you forget about them worries and your strifes.

[@shanellem6310]

So true. 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@shanayekh9345]

😂😂😂 this was too good

[@Alexandra_Mauve]

😂😂😂😂😂🎉❤

[@asluckwouldhaveit]

Grizzle Grizzle!😂😂😂😂

[@artofaries1113]

@@asluckwouldhaveit At least bears know how to fish, find those berries, and can take you to honey. Grizzle Grizzle.

[@katrinarucker9773]

He keeps irritating her. I had a nail technician(male) asks me "why aren't you married?" My mom(an angry Pisces)called him and TOLD HIM OFF. I didn't go back to that nail salon again. Oh I'ma choose THE BEAR. I'ma choose GOD. But I'm not choosing men. No means NO sir. Go somewhere and play BINGO. GET YO LIFE!

[@Thereasonyoudontlikeme]

I’ve dealt with this so many times. It’s annoying asf🙄😡

[@hue008x]

1. This is a function of who and how men are being raised. 2. There are unfortunately enough women who accept this behavior that it encourages some men to act out this way. 3. And ladies, if you fall for this from a male (not a man), trust me it will only get worse.

[@goddessofthetsc5699]

# 1 is false. This is nature vs nurture. Men have been behaving like this since the beginning if human life. Violent and aggressive behavior is in the make up of the Y chromosome.... weren't caveman clubbing and dragging women into the caves. What has changed? When are we gonna stop pretending like the Y chromosome isn't defective?

[@shauntikayvette]

Wow we continue to blame women for the acts of males.

[@scroogemcduckrich9705]

nobody is raising their sons to harass women. these fools are doing this because they want to. Everything isn’t parent’s faults. These men have free will being themselves

[@hue008x]

@@scroogemcduckrich9705 But no one is teaching them how not to behave especially those that are absent fathers.

[@Gem-n-life]

@@hue008x-They’re doing what their peers are doing. I agree with the responder. Adults take responsibility for themselves.

[@barefootedbougie]

Wheww this was triggering and too familiar. And all the while you're holding yourself back from telling him you want nothing from him, including his breath all over you but you're terrified he's going to turn abusive. Apex predators of the highest level 👏🏾

[@laulutar]

I've dealt with people with sensory hallucinations at a previous office. I would rather talk down an angry person in the middle of a psychotic episode, than deal with a person hitting on me at work. Unfortunately I have experience of both.

[@carolynwebb8726]

I had a run in with a bear up in Colorado mountains and told it no too and it left with it head down looking so sad. I felt so bad, theyvare so respectful compared to "men"

[@Liz-wz8dh]

God this gave me flashbacks.

[@solomoon3083]

Same. I was in the army for a pretty long time. The army. And it is a cesspool of coverups and female abuses. Not to mention what I experienced In my family environment. A drove of demented men who harmed women, children and animals.

[@Liz-wz8dh]

@@solomoon3083 I've heard that about the army and that's why I refuse to date any army guys anymore. You never know if you're dating one of them who 'got away with it' and has gotten smarter at graping women in the future. It's so disgusting how the army just lets these monsters back into the world unrehabilitated.

[@thugslayer]

No it didn't porky.

[@thugslayer]

No it didn't fatty.

[@SatyrToon]

I'm married. I wear my ring every day. I have my husband as my lock screen. I have wedding photos on my phone able to be shown. None of this stops some men. I've had men say they don't believe I'm married and get angry because they think I'm lying to make them leave. All the while, not realizing that even if I WAS lying, shouldn't me lying to get you to leave mean I'm NOT INTERESTED? You would think, but no. They still think they can convince me to date them. Other times, they acknowledge that I'm married, BUT CHOOSE TO KEEP PESTERING ME. They claim to be better than my husband. They say they can "steal" me from him. I said no. I'm happily married. I'm not interested in someone older than my father. Working in retail is a minefield for women.

[@Lady_Lizard]

I'm reminded of a Tiktok I saw awhile back wherein a woman mentioned that her preschool-age son was sad because a little girl in his class didn't like him. When I tell you I was APPALLED at the number of comments just dragging that 4- or 5-year-old little girl. So many people were saying things about how she didn't deserve him anyway, he was too good for her, she'd regret it when she was older, she'd grow up to be a bitch, she was already a bitch, the list goes on. All this vitriol aimed at a SMALL CHILD who didn't even do ANYTHING wrong. It made me feel physically ill. If the roles had been reversed, I guarantee you the little boy wouldn't have been attacked so savagely.

[@Lady_Lizard]

I should add that there were also plenty of comments not aimed at the little girl specifically, but encouraging the little boy to take revenge on and mistreat women in various ways as he got older.

[@hazelmint6671]

Absolutely disgusting.

[@guinealove3744]

It shows the lack of respect for women. Men like him never listened or cared about what a woman is saying to them. The close their ears when being told that women are happy on their own, want to be respected and are fulfilled within their network of loving, supporting friends. Whenever, the opportunity presents itself for them to reflect, the response is more anger, deflection and delusion. Be safe out there ladies.

[@milili27]

“I mean…you missing yo blessin’, I’m tryin’ to help YOU out.” Are you kidding me? She’s not asking for handouts! She’s asking YOU to leave her alone. The nerve of some people.🤨

[@LadyMarigoldWithers]

They wonder why women have a hard time communicating sometimes but if we are clear and blunt it can put us in danger. ‘Fawn’ is probably an insanely underestimated response in women for survival. I will choose that initially if I feel uncomfortable and to de-escalate but if I’m then harassed or disrespected I will get loud real quick and violent if necessary. A friend says she purposely doesn’t move out of the way of men in the street because they are so used to everyone clearing a path for them but I personally think that isn’t a wise move as you never know who you’re annoying and generally as a courtesy both people adjust their course naturally anyway. I’ll choose the bear but I won’t poke it lol. One man I went on a few dates with then told him I wasn’t feeling enough of a connection stalked me and threatened suicide, it took a year and threatening to call the police for him to leave me alone. I’ve been rejected a few times myself, yes it hurts and I was upset but I just left and got over it after a while. You can’t *convince* anyone to be with you when they already don’t.

[@BABYDOLL87LOVELY]

I HAVE DEALT WITH THAT BEFORE. AND CALLED B****, INSULTED B2B FOR SAYING NO. ONCE A GUY FOLLOWED ME FOR 2 BLOCKS UNTIL I SHOUTED HEY THERE YOU ARE TO SOMEONE ELSE ANGRY LOOKING FATHER. EVEN WHEN YOUR POLITE ABOUT SAYIN NO. OR LIE AND SAY YOU HAVE A MAN... IT'S SAD AF OUT HERE. JUST LEAVE US ALONE, DAMN!

[@melchiorlise2466]

Men are being obtuse on purpose: of course we know we can't reason with the bear, it's a wild animal after all, we're not stupid. We choose the bear because the bear has no agenda, he won't single mindedly pursue you to hurt you. Animals are like nature, they are neutral, they are not cruel or evil, only humans can be that..

[@psyso999]

A guy once asked me what was it going to take for me to give him my number.. I replied with “when you split the atom” He asked me who was Adam..

[@angelsarereal4902]

OMG 😂😂😂😂😂

[@sandyfyffe6849]

Fun fact about the bear video: the bear isnt likely to come back later, to attack the woman, because she told him "no." 🤷‍♀️

[@kiriasagi2681]

I told this guy on the bus I was taken when he asked me out and his response was "thats cool, I like a challenge". Like I'm still available. Gave him my number to get him to leave me alone and lied saying my name was Faith for him to say "we'll see how faithful you are". Blocked him. My fiance isn't competition to anyone. And not interested means not interested

[@twocents8355]

He's enjoying her discomfort. This isn't about attraction or even rejection. It's about holding power over a woman by disturbing her peace and forcing her to pay attention to him.

[@Nat-mw3bz]

I was in Baltimore City eating at a restaurant near the Inner Harbor, enjoying my ALONE TIME. This young fool walks in with two friends of his and the two friends dit at a table and this clown walkec over to my table and sat down and laughed. I was eating, I stopped, reached in my bag and pulled out my CS SPRAY AND A BOWING KNIFE. No more laughter, and a quick exit from my table.

[@juant4972]

I remember I was 19 and needed to get gas, but the only one opened was one I normally do not go to due to how many men usually hang out there at night. This particular night it was a lot, but I needed gas. I pulled in and immediately some guys were catcalling me. The gentleman on the other side told his son to get out the car and stand next to me ask if we were together. He told me if I was okay and if it was okay his son stayed close by while I pumped my gas. I was so appreciative of both of them. They both waited and didn't drive off until I did. There are so many more instances of men that were not so nice that I had to encounter since my teens. Men have no idea how scary they can be and how scarier men have become over the years. Woman/girls are being raped on trains, buses, daylight, night time, killed on first dates, killed for rejection, etc. Yet, you have men who still get mad us for picking bears over them. It worries me on if these men are really not watching the news or just don't care when something horrific is happening to females.

[@daishawilliams8301]

Some men get angry and lash out at the women who reject them and other men just walk away.😊

[@fantym1633]

All men benefit from the intimidation factor. They walk away to preserve that entitlement

[@Emilyb21-dm3bf]

They need to learn to be happy alone go to the gym or run bike walk. Get therapy or talk to a friend. Get hobbies. Self improve. Deal with your insecurities childhood trauma etc. They want to be saved by women. No work on you realise being without a partner isn't the worst thing in the world but they won't

[@ufos-cos]

They don’t have friends. They don’t even like EACH OTHER.

[@Jeremiah402]

How

[@Emilyb21-dm3bf]

@@Jeremiah402 I have bipolar I've been hospitalised 5 times in 12 years. I've had every horrid mental health problem ones that made me want to be dead. I lost most be friends. There comes a time in life where you sink or swim. I went to art classes I joined a games night and I was nervous but I made more friends. I couldn't work for people and I lost my business being in hospital so much. I did a dog grooming course and got back on my feet. Are things perfect no I still have things to improve esp my health but you have to make changes.nobody is going to save you. Start with va good routine. Write down achievable goals get motivated

[@thinkinginn7443]

All that talk of ‘listen’ and he didn’t hear her ‘no’? I’m also not a fan of a guy hitting on a girl while she’s on the clock at work. Anyone’s that’s worked in corporate or retail knows that employees are instructed to be polite and to ‘temper’ their attitudes towards customers or clients, even when they’re rude/pushy/negative. It feels like a desperate, low level power move to approach her under those circumstances. She can’t physically leave without risking disciplinary action from her manager, she ‘has’ to still be cordial which he’ll constitute as ‘flirty/playing hard to get’, and if it still goes south for her he can weaponize the interaction to ruin her work experience. And that’s not even focusing on the fact that even if he decides to ‘back off’, she now knows there’s an aggressive/pushy man who knows where she works.

[@paradoxtatorstudios9681]

It's a very pathetic low blow move. They know the poor girl is trapped, and yet think they're being flirty when they KNOW she is forced to be polite...? Too many men are creepy and desperate-- and dangerous

[@HauntedCadaver]

Priscilla and Burb really need a podcast. I feel like they will completely dominate KZbin even more with both of each other in the same room. I love you ladies. ✨Edit: also Maria Davids

[@HarrietWanjau]

And Cynthia G

[@HauntedCadaver]

@@HarrietWanjau that's a new one for me, I'll have a listen 👀

[@HauntedCadaver]

Lmao with all of yous, I can see it being the 4B Committee channel. I'd pay for live tickets. 😂

[@TheRealBlackPanda]

They dont have the same message or even similar messages and their approaches are so different there doesnt seem to be much congruence. I couldnt imagine them collabing at all but I mean crazier crossovers have happened lol

[@Gem-n-life]

@@TheRealBlackPanda-Yes, I’m great with them keeping their individual channels and podcasts.

[@ThePeteSandoval]

I have a rule to never let anyone buy me drinks. One time a man kept bugging to buy me a drink I kept saying no and even told him no, I was there for my friends and not to find a man and if that I let him he would feel like I owed him something. He called me a B and said that he wouldn’t I said fine but told him after I get my drink im gone. Big Mistake things escalated but longer story short I ended up ditching him on the outskirts of my City and went back to the club back to my friends. That solidified the rule of not letting men buy me drinks. I spent the next day googling to see if anything had happened to him lol

[@muadhnate]

Hopefully. They're annoying.

[@annstewart8506]

Rule 1, never accept anything from a stranger. Try saying I am not thirsty. Thanks anyway.

[@ThePeteSandoval]

@@annstewart8506 Thank you I will remember that one for the next time! ❤️ with this situation I was in line to get a drink lol 😑

[@annstewart8506]

@ThePeteSandoval always pretend you are buying a drink for a friend who just text you they are running late ok? Protect yourself always with these comments to deflect these undesirables ok?

[@ThePeteSandoval]

@@annstewart8506 thank you friend and I will remember 😊❤️

[@TOFFEETASTICC]

“I know you want me” is grapist talk. 😕

[@HauntedCadaver]

Damn, start carrying some canned air to get rid of these Dusties 😂

[@kdani4777]

😂

[@SouthernPeach46]

I thought I was the only one that does this 😂🤭

[@HauntedCadaver]

@@SouthernPeach46 and its bitter af, just spray right into his mouth when he's off spouting his piece and he will shut up real quick 👉

[@Gem-n-life]

We need bear spray outside the woods 🥴

[@muadhnate]

Raid.