What is Meghan Markle HIDING? Body Language Analyst REACTS to SXSW Speech.

[@TheBehavioralArts]

Hey all! Hope you’re enjoying the video 😊. There’s a topic a few of you thought I should address and it’s her use of the term “mammalian instinct.” As someone who spends a lot of time on stage and on TV, I know how common it is to misspeak and use the wrong word or mispronounce a word. So I tend to let things slide when I feel it’s just someone using the wrong term for something. I’ve done it alot myself. The mammalian instinct has to do with the reflex all mammals share when submerged in water. It has nothing to do with protecting ourselves or our children. That said, for those who subscribe to the theory of a triune brain model. The reptilian brain is related to survival instinct and self preservation (since reptiles don’t protect their young or even, sometimes, their eggs, parental instinct is not associated to this part of the brain) The mammalian brain is connected to emotions and our emotional response to things And the neocortex is all the upper cognitive stuff (reasoning and logic) So the instinct to protect a child would come from the mammalian brain, it’s not a cognitively reasoned response and it’s not a reptilian response because that only focuses on our own survival. Now I don’t know if she’s heard the term “mammalian instinct” misused or if she made it up not knowing it’s a term with a specific meaning trying to say “my mammalian brain responded” but again messing up a term is very common and unless I feel the misuse reveals a hidden truth (think Amber Heard and the bruise kit) I tend to let it slide. I think it’s most likely that she’s heard the term and didn’t know what it meant and made an assumption and wanted to use a fancy word without knowing what it means. 🤷‍♂️

[@alisonmarsella2009]

What a brilliant video and so very interesting! Thanks! I don’t like Meghan Markle for things she has done but I also find her profoundly irritating and you’ve explained why that is. The irony, however, is that I think I make all those over animated facial expressions and gestures when I speak!

[@TheBehavioralArts]

@@alisonmarsella2009 haha what we dislike most in others is what we dislike most in ourselves? 🤷‍♂️ 😊. Glad you enjoyed the video. Don’t worry about the mannerisms, you seem self aware so I’m sure it’s calibrated and even if it’s not, there’s nothing inherently wrong with it, some people just don’t connect with it and it tends to stick out more when talking about serious topics.

[@alisonmarsella2009]

@@TheBehavioralArts thank you, you are so clever and I will be watching all your videos.

[@therealJamieJoy]

How I read what she meant was not the diving reflex but the more colloquial "mama bear" protective feeling. I think she may have heard the term and conflated "mammalian reflex" and "maternal instinct." She misused the term, but the point came across to me. Thanks again for another interesting video.

[@TheBehavioralArts]

@@therealJamieJoy yes I agree with you. She didn’t know what “mammalian instinct” actually means 😊

[@pocketnunu]

Notice how she is so pleased, by having a half smile on her face, while she relates the bullying of herself on social media. She doesn't have an angry face or a serious tone in her voice.

[@elizabethsheffield6609]

...........she THRIVES ON ANY attention

[@LK57913]

@@elizabethsheffield6609 and lying

[@linanicolia1363]

She likes to be a bully. Makes her feel like a winner. It is because she has no compassion. The term psycho comes to mind ; she could, very well be pathological. She shows all the signs. Her brother made a comment, she should not be around children. What does he know, we do not ? Not likely she is around children, anyway.

[@merrywalsh2809]

@@elizabethsheffield6609Exactly. For a narcissist, even negative attention is fuel to validate that they are important. Since they lack accountability, they are able to shrug off any suggestion that they are in the wrong, and just infer that they are the focus of attention because they are important.

[@belindamay8063]

@pocketnunu. I noticed that too and it intrigued me. This kind of mis-match is very useful to the psychiatrist. To me, as a layman, it indicates a failure to read signs from other people - a failure to make connection with anything outside herself. It could be quite serious. She thinks she’s in control of events and she clearly isn’t.

[@Angieesparza-uj4bt]

The lie about the dish soap Megan tells, is now changed. Remember the first stories we're, " She wrote a letter " in this SXSW, she clearly says " I put pen to paper, and wrote lots of letters. And then the bullying lies were just ridiculous.

[@reneej7594]

I think that was added on the fly without any thought. She’s done it before in Oprah interview with the conversation about race became many conversations and then one conversation again when Harry joined them.

[@ginahall5805]

That story isn't a lie. Meghan was featured on the local news or something because of her letter changing that advertisement. She was 11 years old. I saw it before.

[@rklong1790]

@@ginahall5805 He father put that together for a Nickelodeon news program for kids. It was staged. He has been interviewed about it.

[@Angieesparza-uj4bt]

@ginahall5805 Really..? Where can we find the article. In what paper ? If it's a public newspaper article, then why can no one find the article ? Then it's BS. IDC, what she tells people. IDC what you say. If it can't be proven, it never happened.Was it the News Paper OF Thomas Markle where we can find it ? Or the article of BS . Because that was a class project, some of the students involved already came out and admitted it was a class project. What planet are you on, lady ? Catch up already. If you're going to defend it and claim it as true, at least do the research everywhere. Ask Your Megan to give you the name of the newspaper. Did you woman lose your voice like Ariel where asking legit questions is a crime you all can't ask.

[@Angieesparza-uj4bt]

@@reneej7594 💯 exactly spot on. 👌

[@swissuz]

Spidey...you are exactly right about Meghan being criticized because of the Oprah interview and not her pregnancy. Anything having to do with Archie came after his birth when Meghan and Harry started changing the royal family traditions of not giving birth at St Mary's, and not announcing his birthright away, and most importantly, the fact that at the time they both said they were not going to give their children titles, but during the Oprah interview, she complained that her children were going to be denied their birthright of having titles. Why the flip? She was trying to support her racist claim that they were not going to be given titles because the children were bi-racial, something that was completely not true. She often tells mistruths blatantly like this and expects people to forget what she said earlier, even when it can be verified through various reported sources. She sets herself up for scrutiny and then pretends to wonder why. It's almost as if she can not differentiate the truth from her delusions. It all has to do with what serves her best in the moment.

[@helentaylor7132]

Her children were not eligible for a title until Queen Elizabeth died.

[@fibanocci314]

She's always gotten away with it before because people either question themselves or decide they don't care enough to argue. It's never been on tape before.

[@KP-mb9jx]

@@helentaylor7132 But they were offered the Earl of Dumbarton title for Archie, before Queen Elizabeth died, and they spurned it, because it didn't fit the narrative.

[@Haberdashery22]

I used to work for someone with this same personality. She told lies in just the sane way - presumably expecting us to have forgotten what she'd said before. Narcissists are a waste of time.

[@sunflowerinsfe256]

Stays away from social media, however continues to post herself all over social media. 🤔🤷 Help me understand.

[@lightfountain]

Lol..self explanatory..you said it correctly

[@gillian4856]

It’s Rachel 😂

[@jeanhopman5659]

She's ill. honestly...

[@jeanhopman5659]

She only dislikes social media that criticises her - which is most of it tbh - but she loves to use it for her own ends.

[@crowsarefab]

She opened a shopping channel on Instagram straight after said said this.

[@KathiLou1980]

Rachel Paid for this panel - she approved of ALL questions.

[@shelleykeith5645]

That explains the lopsided interview. They had a panel of women with honest and real accomplishments on stage but the focus is continually on Meghan and her word vomit. I wonder how much she paid Katie to ask her to recount the dish soap story?

[@christinegovan3712]

​@@shelleykeith5645what other story can she tell ?

[@mazzid9973]

​@@christinegovan3712Let me think........oh yeas the real truth how she used her yacht girl skills on Harry to catch a Prince....and how the juvenile Prince told all his mates, "she's great she'll let me do anything!" Really classy stuff....NOT‼️💯‼️💯🐨🇦🇺🦘

[@elizabethsheffield6609]

@@christinegovan3712 .......that she DIDN'T stand to the poorest people of Africa and actually vomited out................"NOBODY ASKS ME IF I'M OKAY!" the woman is extremely sick and needs help and therapy......

[@c.c.6930]

Brooke Shield has lost my respect. I hate it when people help bullies thrive.

[@sallyrobertson1687]

If she wasn’t on social media , how would she know she’s being bullied ?

[@elizabethr4107]

Ikr 😂

[@sweethearteu]

She simply isn't very smart. Didn't go to University Doesn't Speak French Or Spanish It was ALL a MASSIVE PILE OF LHYIES!🥺💜 🙏💜🇬🇧💜

[@PauletteCheyne]

Bullying - it takes one to know one! Takes a lot to bully a Princess who's been doing the job long before she came along as well as the future King's Young daughter - hypocrite - child abuser!!!

[@PauletteCheyne]

If your belly falls to your knees in public what do you expect? Painting a false picture trying to "dupe" not only the British citizens but the whole world! Disgraceful!!!

[@PauletteCheyne]

And shame on Harold for enabling her dishonest behaviour of phony pregnancies???

[@debdanton2295]

When she opened her mouth and started with the word salad I checked out. She strings words together that mean nothing. Zero sum game as related to what? A meaningless phrase.

[@princessdiva1717]

Exactly

[@nena1249]

Or "if dollars are coming in (something like that), it doesn't make sense." That's exactly why she does her interviews - to make dollars. It makes a lot of sense to her, I guess. I think she wanted to say something clever, something legendary. That turned out to be total bullshit.

[@Nyteowl820]

@@zararose5898jealous of what? A grifting liar? The only reason was there on that panel is because Archmewell sponsored/ paid for it. Didn’t she go to an all girls Catholic school? How are boys there in her class?

[@MoonFlower52798]

Like, what in the heck did she just say??????????? Deluxe Word Salad!!

[@nubianqueen4375]

Yet she is sitting on a platform which you will never be on 😂😂😂😂😂

[@deedsh6280]

Spot on Spidy. Criticism is not bullying. Being a strong woman means defending your position with your facts (also helps to keep your own stories straight, but that's another topic), not with the go-to of either being bullied or being racist to disagree with her comments. Speculation of her going into politics is absurd. She can't take the heat.

[@TheDriftwoodlover]

Narcissists can’t accept criticism. She’s a narcissist in my opinion, at least her behavior strongly suggests it. Thus she lashes out and labels it bullying. Also happens to give her a popular soapbox since she has nothing else to market.

[@NonnieAnn]

You are absolutely correct, also just because someone has a different opinion doesn't mean it's bullying.

[@pamsimmons3331]

This was the first thought I had when she began the bs about her “political views”.

[@jasminetea4729]

Bullying is what MM & H are doing by hiring people to go online and wage a smear campaign against the Wales Family. I hope the evidence of her bullying the Palace staff comes to light one day soon! I'm sure Harry did some bullying himself when he saw TOW wasn't getting her way!

[@jeancolthart693]

​@@NonnieAnn❤

[@sallyire1]

Very informative video. I think you hit on so many reasons why people dislike Meghan. She is an actress and very dramatic in her style of speaking. Her words and inflection are over the top. I think most people can instinctively read someone who is acting and it turns them off.

[@irishis25]

She (mm) said little girls needed to see someone that looked like them in a place of power. BUT, in the Netflix documentary, she said she had not told her friends or people at work that she was a woman of color and that she was always treated as white until she went to the UK and let them meet her mother. In other words she was passing as white until she got more attention for being black.

[@blueskysummit6153]

This is exactly what I mean about her dated views. Women have been in places of power for decades. She sounds like she's caught in a time warp.

[@dogfostermom2018]

No one would ever look at her and think “oh, she’s black.” I would bet she was never bullied for that, only for her actions. One of those you have control over the other you don’t. Very different.

[@swissuz]

She has done everything in her power to change her appearance to look white. It wasn't that no one looked like her, it was that she didn't look like anyone else. Her conflicts were internalized. She thought the answer was defying nature and changing her own appearance because she did not want to find anyone else who looked like her. Now that little girl no longer exists.

[@rebeccamack8968]

"My mammalian insticts" ...to protect my child and myself. From the same woman who threatened to make herself and Archie dead. Hmm

[@ceciliaM17256]

Don’t your children need their mother?

[@OllyB-rt7rw]

Her whole life is a script and she never *actually* answers the question. She just spouts more words that are, mostly, meaningless.

[@junecleaver748]

She lays in bed at night imagining herself giving speeches that she thinks make her sound smart.

[@CompactEvil]

I will recognize she has a passion to “help” a cause, but it appears that the passion is not as in depth as it needs to be. Someone who is passionate about a certain topic or movement for that matter, is well-versed in the area and focuses on providing well-researched responses based on personal experience and other’s experience… something she fails to do as she focuses solely on her thoughts on what things should be… this word salad I provided makes more sense than what she has provided, imo 😅

[@PhantasmicEther]

Just lots of buzzwords and very very vague statements, same narratives over and over with zero actual solutions or specific thoughts! Drives me crazy. So much potential influence and just wasted on drama, like she expects others to do the work for her and lift her up for credit. Just so pointless.

[@Scotland9090]

Yes I know what you mean. Nothing of substance there just nastiness.All the lights are on but no one's home.

[@irislai7821]

Kamala spouts words much like MM.. 2 peas in a pod. MM does it with eyelid flaps, Kamala does it with cackles😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😫😫😫😫

[@tinekebak7142]

So refreshingly neutral, professional, educational and unbiased. Thank you.

[@Pheladi-22]

You're super neutral and I love that you made it known that you're not going to attack or praise her... 😊

[@annettehunter9743]

As medic who gave public talks on women's health, what I find difficult with meghan is I never learn something new. She says lots of generalised sweeping statements with great vocab and all the right buzz phrases but I don't learn anything new. Also she never presents actual solutions. Therefore I don't view her as an expert in the area and I end up not listening to her as I know she will just repeat the same statements and same buzz words.

[@glasshalffull7583]

Very good point. Generalized bafflegab. No substance.

[@Pangdoodoo]

She speaks in platitudes

[@Iwoasasaned]

She and Kamala Harris are prime examples for people who talk for hours, using big words and phrases without ever saying anything concrete or even insightful

[@BizzyGigi]

@annettehunter9743 Agreed, Meghan talks about "women finding their voice", my goodness, we are in 2024. Women have the right to vote, the ability to work in any job they choose, and the ability to be leaders in their community or in their company. Meg talks like we are still in the 1940's. Meghan, get a grip on where women are nowadays, and adjust your speeches.

[@Pangdoodoo]

@BizzyGigi that's because she doesn't genuinely care. When the whole point of her going on about women using their 'voices' is for people to believe whatever comes out of her mouth (it's really about her victimhood, and weaponising race and gender), why would she bother to offer solutions since she doesn't care to specifically identify the pertinent problems and issues, let alone explore and delineate them?

[@geraldineperring3878]

Never listen to people who are NARCISSITIC. I’m turning this off because the Ex royal has nothing to say that most of us need or even want to hear.

[@estherfuentes5851]

For as long as she has the titles she will continue to squeeze the juice out of it

[@kimberlyelliott7933]

Even if the Monarch removed their titles, she will ALWAYS refer to herself that way. Always. No one can do anything about it in America.

[@angelabell8117]

Agreed

[@honeyowen3163]

VIEWERS: I have a question about the dish soap story. Her dad is an award-winning lighting director who worked with successful shows such as "Married With Children". In Tom Bowers' book, he describes how Thomas Markle set the entire thing up (her interview being filmed etc.) with his connections in the entertainment industry. The soap commercial was part of a social studies project the entire class was working on, it was not an idea that sprung up in Megan's head because of a feeling of injustice. This time she's left out the part about writing to and receiving letters back from First Lady Hillary Clinton, Gloria Steinem, and the famous attorney Gloria Ulrich. I think any rational-thinking adult wouldn't believe that letters from an 11-year-old's social studies class would change a billion-dollar company's marketing campaign in 30 days. Not only would I understand that the timing was a huge coincidence, but I also think that any rational-thinking adult would believe her dad when he told her he'd set this up to boost her self-confidence. I'll also mention that a reporter from the magazine "Vogue" has revealed that when he did a story on her she wanted this soap story included however it was not because nothing about her story could be verified, even by a seasoned journalist. My personal opinion is that the only reason she repeatedly tells this story is that she has nothing else to offer as an "achievement". All the woman on that panel are successful and highly respected in their fields because of a lifetime of hard work and dedication. I dare to say that the only reason one of them is there is because of a man. Without that man, she didn't have a voice anyone was interested in listening to. Opinions?

[@KCJSummers]

Perfectly said. You know the facts. Tom Bower’s book was interesting. Howcome M has never sued Bower? We know they love to sue, so why not Bower? Yep, Bower has excellent contacts.

[@maryabbott5005]

SPOT ON..FULL STOP!!!💯🫡🎯🛑🚦💕

[@juditszabo8751]

One hundred percent right.

[@angelinebriscoe-sperling8177]

She still doesn't have a voice anyone's interested in. She has a husband, who many are interested in finding out how long she will use for self-promotion. I think she is more jealous of his background than she is critical. I listened to hear if anything new would come out of her mouth, but no, only recycling of all the old self praise.

[@TheSarahSunKissed]

Yes, when will she be called out for this fake story???

[@ninastanek3388]

It’s interesting that the „bullying“ started when she & Harry were accused of bullying their staff members. Such a hypocrisy.

[@julietkelly7215]

Heresay.

[@fibanocci314]

@julietkelly7215 Court documents

[@julietkelly7215]

@@fibanocci314 you'd have to show me those.

[@fibanocci314]

@julietkelly7215 They're publicly available. Tom Bower quotes them extensively in Revenge.

[@LK57913]

"a little bit on the attack" and "dish out criticism" is very much an understatement. She urges them on, allegedly pays them, and she would never, and has never, called the sugars out. They have scripts. Don't you wonder where they came from? They are viscious and cruel bullies. Catherine is her favorite victim even more than those who see through her lies.

[@kimberlyelliott7933]

💯💯💯 absolutely!!!!

[@Meems56]

It’s been said that she and Harold actually call them to thank them for the support and or bullying! What a fraud!

[@cualter]

The good thing about MM is that she's consistently shoddy and that reflects in the calibre of sugars that are on her payroll. They're all scripted, regurgitating the same lines in the same style like robots. Majority, if not all, of them have a much lower command of English than she herself does, which is a rather amusing disservice to her attempts to portray a polished image. As long as she doesn't denounce the sugars, we can confidently conclude that she's using them as proxies to attack the RF. Wake up MM. High school tactics don't work in the outside world.

[@shannonclark3755]

I have eyes to see , I have the Gift Of Observation, I had no thoughts on this wo-man innictally or the RF.. There is a Wicked Spirit in Her. Something SO Very Very Twisted

[@raindancer2460]

@@Meems56 I have seen her actually thank them. I have never seen her or Harry ask them to stop, or tell them they are wrong, etc. They are cruel, vile Bullies.

[@GLCToni]

Funny she is telling people how she distances herself from social media, and then launches an Instagram page a few days later.

[@kimberlyelliott7933]

And pays for followers

[@kimberlyelliott7933]

And pays for followers

[@FJFJ2023]

And most of the followers are paid or bots.

[@selenachan4230]

Well, she does turn off all comments. Meaning- she never wants criticism, only praise.

[@melindariddle6042]

Especially while harold admitted that employes were bullied

[@belmy0836]

This assignment that Megan is talking about was shown in the entire school systems in Los Angeles . It wasn’t Megan’s letter . The reason the commercial was being shown in class was to write PG letters to change it . She was the only one that had daddy make it a film about her like it was her idea . It wasn’t her idea

[@mariewhite4709]

The first time she told this story she was in an all girls school. This time there are boys in her class. Which is it? 🤔

[@fibanocci314]

@mariewhite4709 Actually the "boys in my class" bit dates back to the TV interview when she was eleven. She went on to the all girls school the next year, I think. Not a Meghan fan, but I think that's actually one of the few things that hasn't changed (that story as a whole has been relatively consistent, except that she's toned down the "single-handed" aspect this most recent time).

[@akikomimi-tb2kr]

All that she said is BS, lie, play victim, moaning, complaining, anything to get attention. She's the one the bully, not others. She loves social media, she loves cameras, she loves limelight, n she acts as if she is smart woman n famous.

[@kathy3866]

Such a hypocrite

[@pamostman516]

She doesn't have to bully others personally, she pays others to do it for her. She said we would see the real her in her podcast. Yeah, we saw the real you and we don't like what we saw. She is a mean and evil person acting like a caring person. She has destroyed both sides of her and her husbands family, I think that speaks volumes.

[@Traceishere]

exactly

[@anne-marie2972]

So true.

[@jacpat5372]

Well said..100% agree

[@hellonomasonto]

You people need to focus on your own lives, honestly. Coming online to say hateful things is really not good for your health, and this is a fact. Hate consumes the hater more than it does the person you are hating. Focus on your lives.

[@tabatha7888]

Totally agree. I don’t think anyone has seen the real her. Her and Harry speak about family, but they have completely torpedoed both their families, but cry victim. And their fans are some of the most vile trolls and bullies.

[@kerry5372]

i don't think meghan wants to be equal, she wants to be at the top.

[@fibanocci314]

Benevolent dictator making everyone ELSE equal

[@sallymjmj750]

She wants to e more equal than everyone else.

[@AnjanaBas]

She want to be top and control everything

[@sharonc9259]

@@AnjanaBas MeGain reminds me of Yertle in the children’s short story “Yertle The Turtle” by Dr Seuss.

[@crowsarefab]

She is keeping away from social media then opens a shopping channel on Instagram.

[@kimberlyelliott7933]

Exactly. Women don't belong in the kitchen but 2 days later she's starting a kitchen/cooking Instagram page 😂 Even though she doesn't go on social media. Or ever photoshops her pictures. 😳

[@lindaparkin61]

And to add more evil, upon all the evil that she has already done. She put her new Instagram page out on lady Diana's memorial Day!!!! And Harry must have agreed to that, he claims he loved his mother, I dont think so.victim mentality yet again.

[@desres2281]

... with the comments section closed! 🙄

[@Stormy575]

I'm not particularly for or against MM, but she has traits that can make it really difficult to like and relate to her. Like Spidey said, she has these talking points that she's practiced and seems very proud of (like the "it's about making dollars, but it makes no sense"). When she hits these points, she appears very self-satisfied and as if she's waiting for applause or approval. It just seems very staged and scripted, and therefore comes across as inauthentic.

[@sandyhesse4698]

Good point.

[@theConquerersMama]

That's an old, oft used phrase and she says it as if she made it up.

[@johnthompson-sr4dy]

Every answer is a word salad and it makes zero sense

[@livers1011]

It’s the hypocrisy for me. Listening to her lecture women in senior position of power to do more rather than just saying. Literally her . Her foundation has huge male/female disparity . Her husband and by extension her ?! Have a huge problem with Africa parks . Yet I see nothing and hear nothing from her . Ridiculous

[@lynlawley8903]

Yes not able to be honest she is able be truthfull

[@lynlawley8903]

Not a chance

[@jenniferlane6720]

Meghan demanding other women to bow & curtsy to her while calling Meghan Your Royal Highness…why didn’t Katie Couric ask MeGain about her treatment of women? Meghan uses women as stepping stones….let’s have that conversation.

[@jenniferlane6720]

Katie Couric asks Meghan about the soap commercial yet fails to ask Meghan about super glueing shut her sorority sisters’ eyes while at college! Let’s have that conversation plz!!!

[@fancynancy7161]

Africa parks have George Soros donating money

[@annfulcher407]

I cannot understand how she can sit there criticising people for bullying on the media, especially women on women, bullying women who are high up, when she is 100% aware that The Princess of Wales has been getting so much vile abuse from hers and Harry’s squad/sugars? How can she sit there so innocent looking knowing that is going on? And she wonders why she gets so much criticism herself? It is shocking.

[@mariastabler8917]

SHE is the ONLY bully in the RF

[@kimrici8542]

Oh how I wish the RF would release that bullying report about her. This would be the right time now.

[@Threadbow]

Yes, and bullying the late Queen Elizabeth II when she knew she was dying Evil

[@annatjienilsen539]

​@@kimrici8542 They wil never disrespect ther staff, but the book written by Louw contains quite a bit of those facts

[@annatjienilsen539]

She is sddicted to social media. She has been following the RF for years and years. She has 34 platforms and 11 Twitter accounts. She has been leading a smesr campaign against Princess Catherine from before her engagement to prince William and is duplicit in the creating of quite a number of lies that were spread about the Wales's

[@gayemarshall5629]

You clarified beautifully. Her face and voice don't reflect how a normal empathetic person would deliver this message.

[@MishaMishaSoprano]

🎯

[@joanneaurica3189]

Examine behaviour, examine appearance, examine away. But the reason for any "scrutiny" of this woman Meghan arises from 1) Her and her husband doing interviews and books criticizing family via global television and in print books. 2) Acting victimized by being scrutinized on social media. We all are smart enough to know it's semantics, not truth. What's the difference here? Meghan can do all the criticizing and bullying she wishes in interviews but no one can dare criticize her on social media. Don't you get it? She has been caught in soooo many lies, so many exaggerations, so many untruths. We can see it, but apparently she thinks she justified in her lies. This is why people cannot stop watching her car wreck of PR and do not like her. She acts a saint and role model. She behaves a conniver.

[@ymleow4712]

Well said

[@akristen4971]

Maybe she has trauma responses from childhood that created these problems. I see myself in her at times and consider how to grow through to new ways of behaving with others.

[@lynnbrunn7865]

Exactly! Well said. 👏👏👏

[@lynnbrunn7865]

@@akristen4971 Nah, Meghan was a brat and a bully even as a child. We can clearly see it in the home video clips that her family has released.

[@joanneaurica3189]

@@akristen4971 But akristen, don't you, as adult, now that see you have some trauma responses, address those in a way that is beneficial to your healing while not dragging others into your past trauma? It sounds like you acknowledge your responses, which is first step to healing. Isn't the next step to focus on you and your past, while not attacking others all around you? We all have pain and pasts that make us weird in some way. We can acknowledge that (with help) and not harm others.

[@Rocsanna]

Your analysis of how incongruently she is talking about depressed children is absolutely spot on! Her detractors have picked up on these (frankly, weird) mannerisms of hers from the start. You just get this iffy feeling and exclaim 'fake' without being able to express it more articulately than that. She will go "empathy, compassion" all guey and shmaltzy, and to me that just makes me doubt she is even capable of those. Also, as a woman, this opportunistic, disgusting use of the "sacred" pregnancy as a shield against what was simply valid criticism reminded me of when Serena Williams was penalised for being coached during the game with hand signals, and her response was to go to the judge and yell "I am a mother"!

[@patriciasisson84]

Birds of a feather...

[@weltonhouse]

Truly the biggest problem with this panel is the inclusion of a woman whose status has been solely given by marriage and a somewhat ludicrous title which for inexplicable reasons for a ‘feminist’ she insists on using. It made a mockery of the fantastic achievements of the other panellists. It was a sad statement on International Women’s Day.

[@shalitasmith-ashigbi42]

She went into the marriage already established.

[@weltonhouse]

@@shalitasmith-ashigbi42 She had done well as a working actress which is an achievement but not anywhere near the career pinnacles of the others.

[@toffee2547]

​@shalitasmith-ashigbi42 you think she would have been up on that stage if she was plain meghan markle from suits?! Of course not, which means she's there purely because of the man she married.

[@fibanocci314]

She's there because Archewell paid for the panel

[@vickinator]

Absolutely!! What exactly has she done to have expertise in anything except marrying someone labeled a prince because he was born into a certain family! I don’t care about the monarchy and fail to see why their society accepts supporting these people so they can live in extreme luxury while most citizens can’t afford the basics.

[@WOELS1807]

I think people are sick of her holier than though attitude when her social media presence allegedly is extremely toxic and based on bullying... IMO it's about blatantly lying and hypocracy.

[@genie4591]

It's not only that her voice that is out of sync with her expressions that is so offputting. It's the pleasure her facial expression shows when she's talking about other people's pain or when she recalls being bullied while allegedly pregnant.

[@margaretconnery7422]

Exactly moonbumps can't have miscarriages only mythcarriages and why is she smirking.

[@doggyteabreaks9362]

She had the duper's delight smirk when she said the word 'pregnant'!

[@georgiaeustace3803]

If M is saying she doesn't like bullying, then what about her bullying Princess Catherine's daughter ( Charlotte ) who was only 3 at the time and made her cry at M's stupid Wedding....or Super-gluing a girl's eye shut and then rushed to a Hospital. Yeah, M has been one of the worst bully's on the face of this earth and Still is. Allegedly.

[@madmelwood3778]

And when she knows she is lying and getting away with it

[@ingridkoppers4540]

She retells horrid stories of how badly she’s been treated but always smiles during the retelling

[@lisageilhausen1866]

Stays away from social media my ass! Who’s she trying to fool? You were spot on when you said she should have called out the Sussex Squad for bullying Catherine.

[@PJ-Sparkles]

Here’s an example of Meghan being criticized online when she was pregnant with her second: Meghan went on Oprah and called the royal family racist. She was pregnant in that interview. The world criticized whether she was lying or not, and also criticized the timing of the interview being done/aired when Prince Philip was dying. She chose to do the interview, she decided to do it while she was pregnant, she decided to air it while her husband’s grandfather was dying, and she didn’t like the criticism. Now she’s using her vulnerable pregnant state to garner sympathy and framing it as online bullying.

[@Mand675]

Totally agree 👍

[@doggyteabreaks9362]

Except she wasn't 'pregnant' lol

[@Romdormer]

🎯

[@valiakloeppel7252]

She threatened to kill Archie and herself !

[@valiakloeppel7252]

Exactly !!!

[@PJ-Sparkles]

You know what else is not catty but cruel? Talking about a rift with Catherine on the Oprah interview and saying Catherine made her cry…knowing that Catherine can’t respond and defend herself.

[@_Amanda_Lynn]

Only to have Harry write in his book the SHE made Catherine cry. That was a huge turning point for me and made me ? Alot of what happened in that interview

[@princessdiva1717]

Exactly.

[@AnnaMarieKenward]

Personally I can't believe that only Catherine made her cry.Meghan bullied Charlotte and made her cry, I don't doubt for a second that didn't make Catherine cry, and numerous times.

[@AnnaMarieKenward]

I find it hard to believe that only Catherine made Meghan cry. Meghan bullied Charlotte and made her cry, I don't doubt that made Catherine cry numerous times including having her staff reduced to tears many times. I think Meghan made Catherine cry far more than the other way round.

[@valiakloeppel7252]

Katie- heard the ivory crap story a million times. Her Dad was so supportive and he's dead to her. Wonder how her kids will treat her in 10 yrs 😂😂😂 karma

[@DillyHackett-if6po]

She is such a liar 🤥! Has she forgotten her bullying everyone she knew & knows?

[@jenaedior]

She literally received racist death threats. BFFR

[@julietkelly7215]

Please name who she bullied and provide proof.

[@christineduffy3113]

​@@julietkelly7215Princess Charlotte staff at Buckingham Palace staff in her poundland modelling shoots quite a list lots more will come out

[@elizabethr4107]

Yes. Narcissists only focus on the present

[@pingxingming]

@@julietkelly7215 Staffers were slumped over their desks crying, according to Harry's very own book. According to court documents and her assistant Jason Knauf, staffers formed a "Sussex Survivors Club". Two PAs left, and according to 60 Minutes Australia, one female staffer was completely destroyed. Whatever that means.

[@sm5574]

Spidey, I like that you've started replaying the clips after you talk about them. It's very helpful.

[@TheBehavioralArts]

Thanks. I felt it was important for this one coz there were little bursts where we saw a lot and it was easy to miss so I wanted to show those moments again. I’ll keep it in mind that you found it helpful 😊

[@sandyhesse4698]

@@TheBehavioralArtsMe too. Love your true analysis

[@lightdweller1]

It's strange that Meghan talks about being bullied online while pregnant. To refute this claim I must refer you to a time when Meghan was pregnant with Archie and sat on the UK International Women's Day panel in 2019 with Annie Lennox. There she proudly claimed that she never reads online comments. One of the ladies challenged her: "so you never look online or read the comments?", Meghan reiterated "Nope... but I do read the economist, I'll give you that". So how can she be bullied while pregnant if she's not online? I know this is digressing a little, but it lends itself to reading her body language knowing that she's potentially lying - or she lied back in 2019. I find it staggering and incongruous that Meghan is smiling (almost with dupers delight) as she recounts being bullied when this should clearly emote a distressing or unpleasant recall ("cruel" is the word she used) - so why instead do we see a look of glee on her face? How can that be explained? I guess my question is do these body language indicators read the same for a person with a cluster B personality? Thank you for the education.

[@kimberlyelliott7933]

Very good points!!!!! Worst liar ever, I almost get second hand embarrassment 😮

[@basicallyno1722]

I don’t trust her often and it bothers me she speaks on topics like racism and sexism….I feel it discredits really important topics, especially since everyone hates her and immediately tries to find fault in what she says. A broken clock is right twice a day though.

[@mcourtois75]

Great points! I think she can't help loving the attention she gets when she talks about being bullied, which is strange as it would be a traumatic experience that is hard to smile about.

[@jacquelinemiller5823]

​@@mcourtois75any attention whether it be good or bad. Narsassim at its highest

[@findus8600]

And she was never pregnat 😂( moon bumb!)

[@mariarosaMoreira-nx6yp]

The company received millions of letters. So, she thinks that the changes were made based on her letter ! So ingenious !

[@waterbearer4627]

She is very rehearsed, like she has memorised a script, she is trying to remember what to say next. Blinking to organise her words, then the recall is when she looking down when she speaks as if she is looking at her notes which is what she was doing before she got on stage. The behaviour is very clear.

[@deedsh6280]

A script she's rehashed over and over again. One would think she'd have it down by now. She buys the opportunity to talk and then says nothing new. How about a little work to develop new content that builds on her philosophy? I think people just start to tune her out. I verbally groaned when Katie asked her about the dish soap.

[@waterbearer4627]

I agree, her approach is flawed. She has a constant victim narrative and doesn't take accountability. She can not see the difference between criticism and hate. If people behave badly then we have a right to call them out. We have that freedom of speech. She lacks self awareness and wants to label any criticism as hate and cruel. Here is an example of fair criticism..."I don't agree with the fact she took 4 private jets in a week and at the same time gave talks to the public about being aware of our carbon footprint". That's a clear case of double standards and hypocrisy. This is not a cruel comment. It's legitimate criticism backed up. We need to call out people and situations. What is not acceptable is incitement to violence or threats. But other than that criticism is OK. Not liking something is not bullying or hate. People that can't handle criticism have inflated ego, narcissist tendancies, live in a bubble demanding only positivity. Life is balance of both we need to hear and accept positivity and negativity.

[@PJ-Sparkles]

But it was so hard for her to memorize the lyrics to God Save the Queen 😂

[@jgfreer8322]

Her supporters don’t dish out “criticism” though, they bully. They spout lurid personal insults and spread damaging falsehoods and bizarre conspiracy theories. That is not the same as legitimate criticism based on poor or dishonest behavior.

[@waterbearer4627]

@@jgfreer8322 that's true it works in both directions, the bullying she is talking about can apply to her supportets too.

[@karaynaR1132]

For some reason topics around Megan don't interest at all. Probably because she comes out as inauthentic. Every interview she does feels like its either scripted Or I just end up confused with her word salad answers. However this is a body language and behavior channel. It's not about anyone's feelings towards her or anyone being analyzed. Learned so much as always thank you Spidey. 😊

[@juliegerasimenko200]

Yeah, she’s verrry boring to me. Because she doesn’t seem authentic whatsoever. But Spideys analysis made it interesting for sure! 😊

[@Threadbow]

But he neglected to say she bullied the elderly dying Queen Elizabeth II as she was dying

[@conniemcwherter1928]

I never know what she's talking about.... It's a bunch of words, please give us the reader digest version 😊

[@chrisevans9688]

​@@conniemcwherter1928Chris Evans did you take just me in now this morning right after you left and time back next time we can do it like that before I will be back in it and out of my life just me right now soon did I will be back

[@kristinetaylor3290]

Always fake and ineffably BORING. Everyone is catchingbon now. BORING

[@di942842]

There are people like Meghan who believe that disagreeing with them is tantamount to bullying them or worse, racially discriminating them.

[@desres2281]

She's got all those cards in her wallet, including the Diana card, which she plays constantly. 🙄

[@chrisdownunder]

Spot on

[@michellecgb]

Of course she didn’t call her own fans out. In my opinion, she doesn’t mind when the bullying is done in her honor.

[@LK57913]

Or possibly, at her direction. Plus, she had her bot curator on her whining infomercial.

[@e.starling141]

Exactly. The Sussex squad is brutal towards William and Kate and yet she says nothing. But actively speaks out against bullying?? Ok. 🙄 I can't with her and her phoniness. It's impossible to take her and her perpetual victim hood seriously.

[@catco1coolrn]

Ohhhh, you may be right about that.

[@annahart69]

Oooh I did notice. She has always had poor self control and is very transparent. Especially in moments where things/conversations/people get out of, or are beyond her control, or she is momentarily “overwhelmed” by a “ tickle” of delight, fun, slight sense of exited, wonder and ever growing megalomaniacs feeling of importance & “immortality” from continuing to get away with something, like here, knowing that everything around her is staged and choreographed by/for her and that she has people on the scene & in high places/positions willing, instructed &/or paid to do her bidding.

[@christinegovan3712]

Bravo...

[@annahart69]

​@@christinegovan3712 ..and bravo as well as thank you☺👍🏼for making it all the way through my ridiculously long & mistakes-riddled sentence👀! It reads like a “Woodstock” (little bird from “Peanuts”) flight pattern💫➰

[@Pollyanna8]

“Incongruent Affect” - what that means and when you see it expressed speaks VOLUMES about what is actually going on behind the curtain of a carefully curated performance….You nailed it! Thanks, Spidey. It all makes sense now.

[@livinglife4835]

One week later she has a new social media relaunch.😅. The constant smiles during her, "being bullied" does not gel. She says equity, when she should say, equality.

[@Roxy0405]

Equity is a woke term....

[@kittycatmommy2364]

I totally agree with what you are saying you are spot-on with this. Personally, I feel everything she says is pre-scripted in her mind and if it doesn't match what she wants to say she will keep talking and turn things around to get her point across whether she answers the question or not. She likes to play the Underdog and knows how to manipulate the conversation towards look at poor me while loving every second of getting praise and glory.

[@yourconnection9303]

Her act is rehearsed each time she steps out the door and comes in contact with anything that breathes. And it appears she can't get enough of being in the public eye.

[@kimmypossible6717]

And there are always the same buzzwords: „you know what’s/that’s interesting“ is one.

[@catherinegoh]

I totally agree with you Spidey that she's extremely conscious about her 'performance' and so cannot act and speak with her heart. She wants to come across as empathetic and intelligent thus has 'scripts' with buzzwords and catchy phrases but unfortunately miss the mark (like the mammalian instinct) or twee (like make dollars but don't make sense). Hearing such words and phrases makes me discount her credibility by 80% . 😂😂😂

[@sophialewis5474]

She has to maintain her narcissist facade

[@laineyqueen]

It is not bullying if it is questioning the legitimacy of the Royal births, considering they avoided the proper scrutiny. There are laws regarding the line of succession which she has not followed yet she has claimed titles for the children so we have every right to know that those children were born of her body and not illegally by surrogate. These laws exist to make sure the line of succession is a real legal claim for Royal births.

[@gangoolie68]

If we want to talk about that, the true king is a bloke in South Australia. QEII cleared it up, but the fact remains his line is the legitimate line. Lucky for the Winsor’s he’s a staunch republican and as I mentioned before when it all blew up QEII sorted it.

[@laineyqueen]

@@gangoolie68 troll off somewhere else

[@everywherenowhere6901]

​@@gangoolie68 Illegitimate children do not count in the LOS, so even if he is Charle's firstborn son, it's irrelevant.

[@rosered103]

Very true.

[@christiaanraftery1739]

Spot on Spidy, MM often gives the impression she imparting secret flowery knowledge that no one else knows.

[@judithmariabradley5603]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@cmp-vegan5136]

she seems to be condescending… like amber heard…

[@mariee.5912]

​@@cmp-vegan5136 women savior complex. Hah

[@lynlawley8903]

She was at a girl school not mixed at that age

[@desres2281]

She thinks because she married a dim one that suddenly everyone is interested in what she had to say! 🙄🙄

[@donnamaria4475]

So disappointed with Katy as a journalist for not researching the story to confirm because we all know it was actually a school project and the letter was written by Her father and produced by Him. The add was changed as a result of massive negative response and was already reshot and released 3weeks into the the class letters. Her father told her it was her letter that was responsible 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@GieCampbel-ug9jl]

Didn't she go to an all girl's catholic school when this occurred?

[@alphabetacanton]

@@GieCampbel-ug9jl Yes, she went to a very expensive private GIRLS' school; there could not be any "boys jeering!"

[@sherileaverton731]

She paid to be leading the panel, right? The question was probably set up beforehand. I doubt it was sincere.

[@paularubin4711]

Omg. The public is so bad. Always looking for any excuse to be negative

[@NicolaMaxwell]

I thought she'd have disappeared out of the spotlight by now...

[@currentlynoname7499]

People won't leave her alone so she might as well get on with it. The media could always stop following them around and people that are fed up with her can not read or watch her. She is hounded by people who just want to hate on her. Look at the comments. Obviously not her supporters that are clicking and chasing updates. It's mostly people wanting desperately to hear more nasty things about her so they can keep bullying her online.

[@Traceishere]

crawled under a stone more like

[@hahabass]

Well, Spidey here and the haters keep her there, to be fair!

[@hellonomasonto]

Why?!

[@HarmonyScott-m9w]

Lol ya right you see those eyes fluttering she loves media

[@tracythomson2604]

I like that you are remaining neutral on what you think of MM. I do not remain neutral and need to say: she PAID for that stage - that Microphone AND that 'question' from Katie Couric.

[@mhmhartmann]

100 % agree.

[@elizabethr4107]

Yes

[@dawnc1419]

She says What's Interesting alot and in the words of the Princess Bride... "I do not think that means what you think it means" 😂😂😂😂

[@rosered103]

LMAO...good one.

[@Emefur1]

She always says that. “What’s I find interesting” to try and make herself sound intelligent. Zzzzzz….

[@timmythecat7478]

Just FYI: MM went to an ALL GIRLS CATHOLIC SCHOOL. There would have been NO boys in her class at this point in her life....... 🙄 I like your commentary. I think that you put things together very well and you analysis is directly ON POINT............Thank you. You are unbiased and clear and concise. Thanks

[@DR-jv3hk]

Also she said many times that she doesn’t check social media.

[@timmythecat7478]

@@DR-jv3hk Yes, MM had sad that since her marriage to that dolt and their move to California.......

[@enginerding]

She went to a catholic HIGH SCHOOL aka the last 4 years of school, typically ages 14-18. Not 11.

[@basicallyno1722]

That’s high school….aren’t 11 year olds in 5th grade? Pretty sure she was not at a private all girls school at that point.

[@findus8600]

The Letter wrote the whole class! 😅

[@valiakloeppel7252]

As Prince William was speaking at his Moms 25th anniversaire- she just had to publisize her Martha Stewart, Paltow goop brand. She went from princess to hawking tableware 😂

[@Nogahla]

Knowing she mocked Queen Elizabeth, Knowing she lied/mocked & bullied Princesd Catherine, Knowing she was a mean/bully Princess Charlotte, Knowing she bullied & made cry her staff, Knowing she dismissed, humiliated her own sister, Knowing she didn't invite/include her own niece, She is absolutely 💯 the last person to talk about any of this!! I can't believe anything she says.

[@marlenepolinik3302]

Wow... excellent observation.

[@Mxtraveler]

And I lost respect for Katie Couric for having her on the panel.

[@sniperpd9505]

And she has lost the father who brought her up and hasn't asked anyone to help her find him.

[@Ashley-vs8nu]

You KNOW those two 1st statements? Do you also know that the monarchy allowed slander towards her via media. If the monarchy wasn't so secretive and acted in good will, then a great many wouldn't call nonsense.

[@KP-mb9jx]

@@Ashley-vs8nu What slander? The monarchy did NOT allow slander towards her. If the monarchy took legal action over every single amount of criticism against them from the media, they'd never be out of the courts. It's called choosing your battles. A lot of what was printed had some truth behind it, but Harry's wife has more than proved she isn't well acquainted with the truth.

[@kariparker6797]

I’m still baffled by this idea that young girls are searching for someone that look like them!! I never once worried about anyone looking like me growing up, I wanted to look like other girls/females that I saw in various mediums like snow white with her dark hair and red lips, pippi long stocking with her long red braids, the beautiful women on the back of my grand central station album cover with brown skin and black wavy hair I couldn’t stop looking at them… I think this is something created by adult women and imposed on their children and now it’s become an overused phrase…just not buying into it.

[@karennogaski1473]

I agree. Since when are young girls thinking about positions of power and finding role models that resemble themselves. I say never.

[@brenc7961]

You should have seen the video of the little girls who saw the little mermaid for the first time .They were so amazed when they saw Hailey with her braids .The expressions on their faces were pure joy. I think that's what people are talking about .😮

[@grannyweatherwax9666]

I've never met anyone who looks like me, and I've asked friends if anyone looks like me. No one does, it has had no positive or negative effect on me, just weird 😂

[@SusanaXpeace2u]

Yeh I never needed to see somebody 156cm with curly brown hair and green hair first achieve what I hoped to achieve. I was always competing with myself. Better results. Better applications. And I'm 53. So even 30 yrs ago, I still knew, I need to DO Better.

[@grannyweatherwax9666]

@@SusanaXpeace2u yep 5 foot tall pear shaped women are apparently rare😂 edited to add, I've always wanted curly hair!

[@kathyduffyharte1636]

Correct..nobody bullied babies or children ..what I find most disturbing is her lies and the way she deliberately twists the story around ...she happened to be pregnant wen she accused the RF of racism and much much more , they had to flee to freedom to save her life... I mean.. wot was that all about..she had been treated extremely well with a lot of love admiration and welcomed warmly..she left the because she wanted to live in America and had no reason other than that to leave ...so made up lies..to justify her leaving... where the reason she wanted t9 leave wkd have been acceptable because that's what she wanted, no one wld have kept her there against her will.

[@fionalyon9448]

As far as I'm aware , the Queen asked her to leave 😮

[@NikkiWright-r8e]

This is all true. I actually think they were asked to leave - or told shape up or ship out. Megan was causing problems. The Queen gave them a year to think about their future. They decided to leave and not return - hence their demands for apologies and this ongoing vendetta. However I don’t believe Markle had any intention of staying and living a life of service.

[@findus8600]

And she was never pregnat, moon bumb megsy 😂

[@dioneunderwood3817]

One of the most biggest bullies I've ever took the time to read about, yet she's speaking against bullying. Hypocrite!

[@robertareason7299]

Your honest non biased reviews is what draws me to listen.

[@Ann-ed3ny]

Keeping Markle offscreen and silent would be best. Her word salad is not a part of normal life. By the way, the story is not true😊😊

[@doringhaak8392]

She likes to be a victim

[@doringhaak8392]

She is a word salad expert Nothing she says makes sense

[@kimberlyelliott7933]

Nothing that comes out of her mouth is true!!!

[@butterbeanqueen8148]

Mammalian instinct???😂😂😂 Mothers instinct. Is that the word she’s looking for? She’s so freaking pretentious that she comes across as really creepy.

[@treece01]

Her favorite thing to say when stalling is …”it is really interesting”. Every single thing she talks about is interesting in her own mind along with equity, inclusive, community blah blah blah

[@kurehanzo]

I noticed too because she does this SO often. It makes her sound fake. I can't help but to wonder whether she ever contemplated or really thought deeply about these things she called 'interesting' because she describes EVERYTHING with that word, and also never actually explains why she finds them 'interesting'. "It doesn't make sense." Is another of her favourite phrases.

[@jgfreer8322]

“It’s very interesting ..” indicates to me, that she is accessing the relevant rehearsed script that can best match the question. 😂

[@kimberlyelliott7933]

😂😂😂

[@YourFavoriteSwiftie]

Or her other favorite sayings: "It's really funny" or "Funny you ask!", or the most irritating of all: "Right?"

[@SM-br5os]

And when she always says what she says and at the end goes… “right”.

[@patriciad28]

Have you ever checked out the messages from Megan's sugars to any of the Royal family or to anyone that hasn't agreed with something Megan has said? Her and her husband have put out a video thanking these people for defending them. Please comment on those online horrible messages.

[@marilynfumia]

Meghan, you would know, wouldn’t you, what bullying is all about ! You’re an expert at it!!!

[@GillNRTT]

I think Meghan has learned expressions that she sometimes gets wrong. She struggles with empathy. For example she talks about when she joined the royal family it was worse for her than it was Catherine but she did not experience what Catherine did so can’t relate. Then with this Mother’s Day Picture. She says if she had done this the press would have been harder on her. If I fall over and hurt my knee it hurts me more than it would hurt someone else, this is how I think Meghan reacts to others. She just can’t relate to what others feel. She acts as it’s the only way she is able to communicate as she does not understand if it’s not directly affecting her.

[@kimberlyelliott7933]

That's because she's a narcissist. She can only guess and try to mimick real feelings and reactions/emotions.

[@hazelmccloy1136]

Yes, you see it in action. When she doesn't know how to react she looks at Harry or someone close and copies their reaction but often exaggerates it.

[@smithamy1982]

She has no empathy whatsoever which leads me to believe she is either a psychopath or a sociopath. I lean more towards sociopathic because she was raised to believe the world revolved around her and her needs. She was given what she wanted, never had to earn anything and was treated like a spoiled princess her entire life. Her father even lead her to believe she single handedly got the dish soap commercial changed and even got her interviewed on Nick Jr for it. Her over inflated ego and delusions of grandeur began at a young age and only got worse as she grew up. She would reinvent herself to be whichever guy she was targeting's dream girl, instead of just being herself with each of them but the moment she believed she had outgrown them and she had gotten everything she could out of them, she could end the relationship without even saying goodbye and never felt anything for them or what it put them through. Same with friends and eventually family too. Only a true sociopath or psychopath could be so emotionless and move on so quickly. Since she doesn't know what an authentic, organic or natural relationship is actually like she uses those words to explain her relationship to others, while implying it was meant to be. Most people who have an authentic relationship wouldn't even think of the word authentic to describe it because it goes without saying. She's got delusions of grandeur while being incapable of feeling actually attached to anyone who isn't serving her purpose towards social climbing and the moment they're no longer beneficial to her she will cut them out, without a second thought just like everyone else she's used to climb her way to the top. Sadly for Harry, his time will end sooner rather than later, as soon as she finds her next mark that is.

[@jeanhopman5659]

The more interesting body language is in the other women on the stage - tell us what is going on there, Spidey. Couric is trolling MM - everyone is sick to the back teeth of that story.

[@kimberlyelliott7933]

Yes!!!! We can already see through Meghan Marmalade! 😂

[@angelawhitehouse8066]

I think I can read Brook Shields...disgust? Contempt? 😂

[@lynn6221]

Absolutely 💯

[@anniebauer2563]

You are so right--You even explained what I feel before the emotion! It's so true, her tone, expression doesn't match the subject matter immediately at hand and that is how you subconsciously know something is amiss! She's got nothing under the hood--almost everything is rehearsed, her script gives her confidence and she reveals it instead of being compassionate or passionate.

[@christineduffy3113]

Nothing under the hood brilliant much like South Park's episode she is an empty vessel nothing inside it is an old saying Empty vessel make the most noise

[@mademsoisellerhapsody]

“It’s really interesting” is Meghan’s pivot phrase Growing up in the 50s and 60s most girls had close to zero representation outside nurse, teacher, secretary housewife. Yet we managed to IMAGINE ourselves doing other careers and voilà here we are in 2024 and women can do many careers, or not. Why is Meghan stuck in the past?

[@nancymcnally7849]

Excellent point!

[@mllecritter8261]

MM is manufacturing victimhood for self serving purposes

[@dylanelizabeth7712]

Yes the other thing she said that really bugged me was when she’s talking about new mothers just scrolling through social media for hours at a time…. Um when I had a newborn I was on his schedule when he slept I slept I had no time between eating sleeping diaper changing and other responsibilities to be scrolling through social media (not that I have any social media but still)

[@Lorian7748GenXr]

​@@dylanelizabeth7712 Right after I read your comment, my eyes shot over to my daughter trying to manage my 3 month old grandson. 100% of her attention in the world is focused the baby. 😂 She proved your point in the moment.

[@TxWildflower247]

Yup!! Funny how she keeps talking about this “poor me” attitude and how hilarious she expects us to believe she overcame so much… and these older women are obviously giving her the big head she needs. They are boosting this narcissist..:: and maybe cuz they feed off each other

[@lizblock9593]

I thought her inappropriate smile while she was talking about such serious and sad topics was due to so much of her brain focused on self-involved image management instead of what she was talking about. Thanks Spidey for continuing to confront us on our biases, it is sorely needed. Seems like it is too much work to think and question when one can just have knee jerk reactions.

[@hsmd4533]

I thought the same. She’s more concerned with appearing pretty than she is with what she’s saying.

[@jackstaunton1457]

Spidey, you personally do an outstanding job conveying not only the immense knowledge you have, but also th responsibility to keep it about your analysis. You always take on controversial situations, but do it in the most unbiased method possible. Kudos to you for trying to help bring others to examine themselves for their personal bias too! Keep up the outstanding work!!

[@thalitahiebert2994]

I got the impression that she was smiling during the online bullying part of her speech because she was proud of what she was saying and that the audience was receiving it well. Almost as if she was thinking: “that’s a pretty good statement I’m making and they are going to love it”. Obviously I could be wrong but that is what was coming to my mind.

[@smcd6101]

I agree. I think she loves having an echo chamber where she can rehash her victim narrative all she wants without being called out.

[@anonview]

She's thinking that what she says next is so in line with current social trends that people will have to agree with her. What she doesn't understand is that her words ring hollow because she, as the person who speaks them, doesn't really practice them.

[@pittdog4496]

But she’s the biggest bully of all her jealousy of Catherine princess of wales is like something I’ve never seen I forgot H boy’s hate and jealousy of his bro these two are evil😈they need to GO AWAY

[@nieveswhite3859]

The people from the crown is an empire. It’s obvious that she can’t win against them. And I’m not in favor or against but is unfair that we sheer for the crown (the powerful empire)

[@kt2906]

@@nieveswhite3859Yes but she has made up such abhorrent lies about said institution and that’s unfair whether they are powerful or not.

[@lynn6221]

Agree. The disgusting duo should never be allowed around Prince William and princess Catherine, because they are dangerous to the Wales kids and parents

[@rebeccahartong5700]

SO well-informed, well-presented, and well-spoken. VERY enlightening without any bias whatsoever. Wow. I am an instant fan and will subscribe right now. Bravo!

[@crazycatlady1976]

When she said about the mammilian instinct kicking in and protecting her child did she forget that she told harry she wanted to unalive herself while she was pregnant!!

[@NikkiWright-r8e]

I’m pretty sure she meant “maternal” instinct.

[@carolball5764]

@@NikkiWright-r8eHad to laugh at that mammalian comment . Don’t think I’ve ever heard David Attenborough say that word in all his 96 years..😂😂

[@findus8600]

And she was never pregnat, moon bumb megsy 😂

[@tracymetherell8744]

EXACTLY! I had the same thought!

[@cualter]

That's old news. The only thing that matters is now - that which is expedient to manipulate others right now. Inconsistencies are a problem for another day.

[@GinaSouth-z1l]

Sounds like she's jealousy, bullying, and liar and liar. She needs to worries about herself and her own life. Stop bullying Royal's family and her family! Harry needs to stop his bully wife! Sick of hearing them notthing good but liar and bull of their own family! So sicking tired of them them!

[@FredericChopin-ht5xm]

Meghan asks:"Why can people be so cruel?"I too wonder:"How can anyone be so cruel to her own father?" Are all "her friends" to cowardly to ask her?

[@sandymiddleton5323]

😱😱😱She is one of the cruelest

[@cjlbulsara]

What a hypocrite that former royal is, talking about bullying and abuse. Word salad and nonsense.

[@mybooks1733]

She just loves to hear herself give longwinded speeches to make herself come across as bigger than she actually is

[@reinebusson6538]

Je suis Française et même avec la traduction je n'y comprends rien Et sa voix est insupportable 😂😂

[@kkd4811]

Says someone who wants to launch an instagram fashion or whatever career. Hope those girls don’t look at her and wish to be like her. Everyone knows what problems the world has and can complain about it. A leader is someone that can provide a solution and has a plan to solve it. Where’s hers? All talk no walk.

[@Mithras444]

She just made "dollars" bullying the Royal family on Netflix and the Oprah interview. Meg needs to practice what she preaches. That's my objective view on this!

[@anne-marie2972]

Yes she and "this one " (Harry).

[@angelabell8117]

That's my take on it as well. That's all that MM and H do, troll different sites to see what negative things are being said about her. She wanted the late Queen Elizabeth to tell the news media to stop. Then, MM would never call her "Queen " always, photos of reaching over the Queen, to get attention, etc. 😮😮

[@melbournegirl7]

She gets her Sussex Squad and various “friends and associates” to do her bullying of others …. Horrible woman.

[@chanelv5373]

Yes, remember the 5 friends in 🤔was it People magazine to talk about that letter she wrote to her dad? Then gets upset with her dad because he felt he had to respond to it. It’s horrible the way she treated her father.

[@Mahmoodelsaid-i6x]

No she doesn’t pay anyone..they choose to do it because they like her and are unhappy with the injustice. Maybe Katie is the one paying you. To which I say she should pay her family debt too

[@Roxy0405]

Yep. Her squatties were actually on Twitter bragging at times about their bank account deposits and crabbing about not getting paid at other times. 😮

[@Mahmoodelsaid-i6x]

@@Roxy0405 That’s all made up because Kate’s supporters can’t stand the idea that there are people who actually like Meghan

[@bbm-lu6bj]

@@Mahmoodelsaid-i6x It's actually the people, derangers I believe they're called, bullying Meghan on Kate's behalf that are criticising people, "sugars " that are bullying Kate on Meghan's behalf. I do believe the "derangers" are in the majority as white people in the UK and the US are in the majority. "It's got nothing to do with race" they say.

[@JillianFischer1]

Wow. Another fantastic video, Spidey. I learn so much from you! 😊

[@constancemk603]

Re: Spidey's question at around 14 minutes - I agree. A lot of the criticism I've seen of MM is not based on her appearance or perceived place in society, but rather a reaction to how she chooses to act and what she says. Honestly a big part of my reaction to her personally is that she acts like a bigger victim than she is - not taking anything away from her emotional experience, just adding that other people have experienced worse things and she doesn't appear to recognize that. Even if she has been emotionally abused, she's still wealthy and a part of the top level of society in a way that wasn't possible 60 years ago, and her intense focus on her own oppression feels ungrateful to all the pioneers who did change society in a big way.

[@weltonhouse]

I would add to your comment that her status is from marriage not from the groundbreaking hard work and focussed determination of the other amazing panellists. It’s a terrible statement for International Women’s Day. I am appalled.

[@SarahHolt-z4y]

Wouldn’t the proper way to say it be my MOTHERLY or MATERNAL instinct. And I think her confidence drops bc she had surrogates IMO. She was never pregnant

[@margaretconnery7422]

Exactly moonbumps can't have miscarriages only mythcarriages. If she had really given birth she would have been on the hospital steps like a greyhound chasing a rabbit and having her Diana moment.

[@vcmay626]

Real moms don't use the word Mammalian. She is using Big Words in an attempt to convince people that she is more intelligent than she thinks she is. Real moms say things like Nobody's gonna mess with my kids! I know this because I've done it since i was a bullied child. Shame on her for bringing in her kids whom she has only released a handful of photos of in the past four years. Even her Neighbors don't see those kids and when police went to do a home wellness check they reported that it appeared like nobody lived there. This, to me is very suspicious. Same with her office address. Who creates a shell of a life and then recreates and sells themselves as a huge brand? 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 There's something fishy going on in a Sussex.

[@KarenRobson-t6h]

American organizations need to stop giving this liar a stage.

[@BetjeWolff-v2s]

Money makes the world go around.

[@madmelwood3778]

100% agree

[@wendyturney8914]

@@BetjeWolff-v2s And Meghan thinks that charity begins at home.

[@JulieFourie-mv7mp]

She paid for this!

[@GillNRTT]

Only way to stop her is to ignore her. Don’t buy the papers, don’t click on her videos. As long as there is money to be made it won’t stop.

[@jodievukmir3187]

I couldnt fathom calling gloria steinam "Glo" like she did...that to me is disgusting and disrespectful

[@musicmorsel]

I actually started out liking MM. But now I disapprove of the many recent things she's done. Because even when she seems to be doing the right thing, it often turns out that she's doing it for all the wrong reasons--like supporting a charity that ends up more for her personal profit & self-promotion, using a women's rights platform like SXSW to whine about cyberbullying (when in fact, it's just to silence her critics), the list goes on & on. It's her hypocrisy that bothers me the most.

[@dbow3576]

I really enjoyed this video! I am one of those who, from the beginning felt uncomfortable with Meghan’s communication style. Over time I began to believe her words (aka “word salads”) weren’t in sync with her actions. Thank you for sharing this thoughtful analysis!

[@jo-AnnCB]

Even if it makes dollars ? Harry wrote a book criticizing his family and made dollars Megan&Harry went to media and Netflix with claims of bullying,racism, and blaming the RF ,they also made dollars . For her to say these things it sounds as if her&Harry can do it to make $$ but others cannot do it to me& Harry to make $&&. She is very manipulative and this is the reason she brings so much dislike for her. If she would actually use this platform to do good instead of pretending to be Royal here in America , I believe we would begin to like her more . A feminist who won’t do anything without her husbands title (from another country) I have tried to like her ,it’s difficult!

[@dianethomas9384]

What does she mean you have to see people who look like you to be a success. Total nonsense. Who did Ada Lovelace, Marie Curie, Abigail Adams, Joan of Arc or thousands of other successful and innovative women have to copy? They didn't. They all had someone though who taught them and encouraged them. This was most likely a parent, teacher or religious leader, but it could have been an overheard phrase. What it definitely was not was repeatedly hearing "you are not able to do this because you are ...

[@dianne1646]

You are very correct. I do agree that its not so much bullying but criticism of a lot of the things she's said. I also agree with you on the B Shields response about not reading it. I believe that she couldn't respond to the management of the "bullying" because she does read them...she does eventually respond to them to the extent I believe by having changing several PR teams who have to manage all of it while constantly having to rebrand her. So she's heavily in this process but I think she cannot admit to it and even respond properly.

[@Mrs_Mama_MFT]

I never understood this “I have to see someone who looks like me.” Who looks like me? It assumes that we all group ourselves and don’t see ourselves as individuals. In the concept of race, insulting. I have 3 kids, they don’t even look like each other. They are unique individuals. That’s what makes the world so beautiful and points to a creator. On the other side, the people who most look like me ( my family of origin) have caused me to do what they never have. The fact that I’m the first to finish college, let alone graduate schools means what it does BECAUSE no one “who looks like me” has ever done it.

[@marianac715]

I raised my kids with the idea that in a world of copycat and imitations they should be an original. After all great works of art are always sn original.

[@Sunnydreamer1470]

She says it to make people angry . It’s the victim narrative.

[@gold9ja]

I think it depends on the demographic, your environment and etc. You have some points but I understand what she means when she says that especially if you are part of a demographic that is negatively stereotyped in the Western world.

[@marianac715]

@@gold9ja But how is that stereotype created? Is it based on fantasy or reality. Meghan reality was not the same of someone regardless of their race born in a ghetto, slum or hood.Her father was making 250, 000 dollars at a time when a middle class man was bringing in 60, 000 and doing well. Meghan was raised a rich and privileged life.

[@bearessentials4383]

This would also mean there would be no suffragettes or feminists in the first place if they needed someone to copy.

[@13thFatima]

24:42 She’s talking about the Queen not standing up for her against the tabloids.