What is the reason narcissists lie so much | The Narcissists' Code Ep 622

[@docwhoshops]

They lie about other people lying when they are the liar.

[@MentalHealness]

💯💯

[@humanwithaplaylist]

Yessss. My mum used to always say things about other people being liars until I realized she was the liar

[@retarteddwarf2182]

Totally upside down and nuckin futz.

[@SibeHouseMM]

Omfg 🤯 Wow. Exactly! One of my favorites 😂 Was, in the same breath, accusing me of throwing away a bottle of hot sauce and lying to me about having an only fans 😂

[@melissamiller3345]

FACTS!!!💯💯

[@exofnarccop]

They lie because they are cowards.

[@rhondam4369]

They don't need a reason...they wake up and say it's Monday..what beautiful lies will I tell today 🤣🤣🤣

[@MentalHealness]

😅😅

[@anastasiajohnson4768]

Hell yeah 🤣 you ain't never lied 😂

[@dshonette1]

😂😂😂😅

[@josephmyatt7382]

Mine was a pathological liar and always told her to never lie to as I would always catch her! I have a photograph memory and always caught her ever time and boy she went on the attack when I did

[@queenofplantbasedvegan]

Mine would lie about lying. He had the nerve to say he never lied to me!!!!! I was like ARE YOU SERIOUS? Meanwhile he gets his side chick pregnant with twins while we were married. Lied all the time. Like all the time. I’m still finding out stuff and/or realizing stuff. Stuff that he doesn’t even need to lie about he lies about…I just can’t 😂😂😂 so glad we are divorced. He is doing the same stuff to his baby mama & I’m pretty sure she packed up the twins and left. Hopefully…if she know’s what’s good for her.

[@3n1sunmoon62]

They Lie So Much Due To The Fact That They Are Ashame Of Who They Are, and Ashame Of All Of The Things They Do. Everything They Do Is Fake. The Only Thing They Do That Is Not A Lie, Is When They Are Angry. This Is Who They Are.

[@lydiapetra1211]

They Lie to control...... because it gives them dominance over you!

[@tyjones2140]

Live next door to one omg!

[@bellablue2483]

So true. The rage is real.. this is my sister the vulnerable narcissist until she's Angry and then there she is.. the real person.. She lied for over 30 years so many reasons why she couldn't hold down a job and I supported her financially through it all. I finally saw through all the narcissistic deception and cut her off completely. Surprise surprise shes managed to hold down a job for more than a month now! Have nothing but contempt for her now.

[@blacksongbird100]

This is how you know something is truly off about a narcissist. They have the same excitement about getting away with lies that I have for finding sales. 😂😂😂

[@harmonyvanscott3634]

😂😂

[@jmaloney619]

She lied so much that there were two different realities, the reality she provided and the reality I saw and experienced. When it was time to pick one, her reality was the least painful. It conflicted with the other one so much my mind developed cognitive dissonance which nearly broke my brain. She backed herself into such a corner that her lies became too obvious and clumsy and constant that it allowed me the chance I needed to escape. It was like waking up from a dream/nightmare and realizing nothing over the last 9 years was real. Like waking up from a 9 year coma.

[@Aliaselias727]

That's soo soo true!! Same with my mum.

[@SandiBestLifeJones]

OMG this is SO TRUE! Totally my experience!💯💯

[@scribebing2043]

ABSOPHUCCNLUTLY!

[@TheMoms4]

It a like there is a playbook for them as they are so much alike!

[@joycea8189]

I had the same experience with my cheating ex of 15 years 😔 I forgave her multiple times when I caught her cheating back when we were on our 1st year in a relationship. And all she ever excused was humans are meant to love a lot of people and are not monogamous in nature..she's justifying her cheating and when I caught her, she said that I don't love you anymore for such a long time already...Which was really painful for me..after all we've been through for 15 years, she can just discard it like that.

[@danieladegan8106]

Mine lied about everything even the stupidest things like where he went for lunch

[@remember1327]

I don't know if I'm a Narc but I lied to my bf about plenty of things because I knew he didn't really want to know if just wanted to see if I was lying 😒

[@Jonesybabie]

@@remember1327 Damn... that's some real shit. Cause I LOVE to catch a liar... like I have a problem where I WANT to find some shit. Like I get a rush out of it. But then get pissed when I find what I was looking for 😂

[@ericapetty2318]

Lying is putting it lightly, they create an entire illusion, and expect everyone around to uphold the illusion with them

[@MentalHealness]

💯

[@erikainiguez1314]

Bruh! All. The. Time. And they expect you to never bring it up or question it or else WE end up being the liar and/or crazy. It drives me insane that someone could be so cowardly and dishonest that they want to having their lying ass cake and have everyone eat it too and also say how delicious the cake is and how grateful you are for it. Who really finds it okay to be so dishonest and call themselves a good man and a man of God. It's truly pathetic and disgusting and dishonorable

[@erikainiguez1314]

That is my narc and his narc mother and narc minion siblings

[@elizabethmorton1585]

My former husband lied and cheated himself right into a case of Herpes......so Glad I got out before that gift.

[@welcometobrasscuisine]

Karma 😂

[@SpnishEyez79]

Thank goodness!

[@debrabrookham6670]

Gift that keeps on giving! Glad you are out.

[@Dialogos1989]

Herpes the love sore!

[@samanthasingh49]

Same here i think he got herpes i saw the pill they used for it He said that he do not have that . We was not intimate for since i got pregnant with my son i am fine where did he get it.

[@matthewtaylor3734]

Narcissist have a compelling disorder to have to win at any means necessary and that is not WINNING 😳

[@kitakittykat]

🎯 exactly it’s all a psychological game to them!

[@DaPhlyymamee]

Congratulations on six years!!! 🎊 You should be proud!!! 🥳

[@MentalHealness]

Thank you

[@lislis9134]

Congratulations!! you have no idea how much you are helping innocent people realize what goes on with these narcissists.

[@DarleneHoldren]

Congratulations on 6 years maybe 7 now of therapy

[@sobiahamid8985]

Wow! 6 years in therapy. That’s an achievement 💕

[@davidmiller4594]

I survived a decade with a clinical narcissist. It's been almost three years now, I'm better, but not even close to the person I was before. It's scary to be around someone with no moral compass.

[@MentalHealness]

🙏🏽🙌🏾

[@meaculpa22]

David please go to the doctor for a check up because a decade of suffering can affect your health Glad you escaped Much strenght from another survivor

[@Not-the-usual-BS]

Yup my entire family are narcissists and I endured severe trauma and the relationship I just came out of almost drive me complete over the edge.. a complete narcissist sociopath!!!pure evil 👿 😢😮

[@gigicooper1759]

My ex/toxic person was so proud of his ability to manipulate and lie, he bragged..."The best lie is the closest thing to the truth." So, they very much know what they are doing - thanks again Lee.

[@andreab7341]

My ex used to say conversation is a mf, meaning he could literally talk himself into a relationship by lying about who and what he is. By the time you realize almost everything about him is a lie, you realize you have wasted to much time with this narcissist

[@ajdeb5758]

My ex lied about things where you don't have to lie about. The problem for him was that after a few lies I did'nt believe anything he said. I always checked the story or I just assumed is was not true, or partly true, just to protect myself. Then he got mad because I did'nt trust him.

[@joycea8189]

This is so true. My ex is like that as well, lying when it is not necessary even when it's easier to say the truth...then she tells me that she doesn't want to cause any problems or she doesn't want to hurt me that's why she lied and then gets upset when I don't believe what she says 🥺

[@IsabelGarcia-xl6mb]

My ex used to turn it around in me and then there I was defending myself against him for calling me a liar and the focus was off him. Ugh they are so draining . No matter how much you may think you miss them, stay gone and no contact!

[@MentalHealness]

🙌🏾🙏🏽

[@queenofplantbasedvegan]

So very draining.

[@rsj4192]

Draining and exhausting 🙄

[@INFJArtistLounge]

This one is a classic behavior of theirs!

[@malicedewon1376]

I agree drain all ur energy and then smirk at u

[@JenWIL641]

My partner would lie and if I caught the lie he would spin it and say that I misinterpreted what he said and would make up a new lie to cover the old.

[@brightpage1020]

Guesses: - Because you let them, you are still around to listen to it. - because they can - because they're bored without the drama - because it's more fun for them - they believe lying actually makes them look better, in the moment - because they feel sexier lying than telling the truth because it's an ego boost to control what you think.

[@Vyborne]

I agree that they lie in order to control. And also they want you to give up and don't ask any more questions.

[@dyoung2739]

My soon to be ex🙏🏽🤞🏾narc lies when he has absolutely no reason to lie. I’m so thankful that I now know that he’s 💯% incapable of being truthful. Makes it so much easier to leave him.

[@MentalHealness]

🙏🏽

[@queenofplantbasedvegan]

It does make it easier.

[@rsj4192]

I ended it with my narc 3 days ago. I feel free from his controlling grip. I expect some foolishness from him sooner or later but I'm prepared.

[@seameology]

EXACTLY. That is the one thing I don't understand.

[@slimtee2]

There are so many levels of narcissism, but lying is one of the biggest components of narcissism, as well as manipulation. I didn't realize I was in a relationship with a narcissist until after we broke it off. I started coming across videos like this on KZbin, and a bell went off. This was one of the most draining and baffling relationships I have ever experienced.

[@revadriana_psychic_medium]

My narc loves withholding information (like he can get away with it) and he swears its not lying 🤣 Even though I always find out, he still tries to do it 🙄

[@RobinW73]

Except you don't always find out. Very likely there are many, many lies you will not find out.

[@Beautiful_Divine]

My kids dad lies sooo damn much like literally nothing that ever come out their mouths are the truth

[@MentalHealness]

🫠🫠

[@rpcrealpeopleconsulting6324]

I am a narc survivor. I free no contact.

[@suzannemaroney4579]

Congratulations on your continued growth and recovery 🎉🎉🎉

[@MentalHealness]

Thank you so much!!

[@robbiewooden5067]

100 % true. Big Liars.

[@NicoleBalmain-vp7en]

💯🔥📣 I GIVE YOU PROPS FOR COMING ON HERE BEING STRAIGHT FORWARD ON THIS MATTER!!! 📣🔥💯

[@MentalHealness]

‼️🎯

[@juliekooiker3408]

My husband is not the narcissist in my relationship but my stepdaughter is. She crazy lies about nonsense. I’ve set up boundaries finally because of your videos.

[@MentalHealness]

Sorry to hear that

[@JennR323]

Been there. Fortunately my narc stepdaughter moved away and never contacts us. Even her own brother filed a restraining order on her.

[@deejames1st]

Hearing the many stories about single dads has made me want to date men with no children.

[@kikataye6293]

I feel your pain!

[@JenWIL641]

​@@JennR323 That is scary.

[@An_Gha_]

I ve never met a sicker person than a narcisist. It seems likr their souls is completely rotten. Thanks Lee for your videos.

[@sism3028]

I agree.. They do know that they're lying. Most of the time to benefit themselves.

[@ThisOne64]

My ex used to lie with pity stories every time he had to cancel plans. Ppl died, rushed to the hospital, etc. Smh none were true. Blocked n done.

[@djroth22]

Living in fear makes you a liar too!!! I am married to a narcissist, and I found that I started lying to get out of conflict with my controlling, miserable husband 😢. Thank you for these videos!!! It's my time to heal!!!

[@bettycarmella1127]

I’m so proud of you Lee!! Congrats on your healing journey ❤🎉🙏🏽

[@MentalHealness]

Thank you so much ♥️♥️

[@AD-cx2mw]

I'm proud of you. A real one ! We love you ❤ and appreciate you ❤️

[@MentalHealness]

♥️🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@heatherview3870]

It’s frustrating trying to tell them they are lying… to your face!

[@jyes23.]

Damn right it is

[@seameology]

My daughter's quote that made me spit out my coffee. "I know it's not true. But thats how I feel." When I confronted her about lying about me.

[@MentalHealness]

😮😮😮😮😮

[@cloyewoods]

Totally true! It's definitely all about control. You even said some of the exact lies he told. The bigger the lie, the more he enjoyed it. 😂 One of my favorite memes to send him: "How are you gonna lie, get caught in the lie, lie about lying, apologize for the lie, then get mad because I don't trust you?" Make it make sense. Lol

[@nomadqueen1111]

The way I chuckled at this truth. 😂

[@jessicakerber856]

Mine told me that he "hates liars so much" and then convulsively lied to me over and over. I believe that was just part of the story he told me to back up the lies he knew he would continue to tell, and left me confused and constantly questioning to say the least. Sadly I came to the conclusion that he really just hates himself.

[@sarahkariuki998]

I’ve been with one who still believe in their own lies and urgue about it even after showing the evidence and truth. It’s too unfortunate to those who believe in the lies and live a manipulated life and end up in a messed life 😢😢😢

[@LorraineKelly-lf8ky]

My father told me he didn't smoke while he had a cigarette in his hand.

[@MentalHealness]

😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫

[@inbornwanderlust1076]

An alcoholic friend who had moved out of the neighborhood was back visiting once, so we were catching up. He was saying he was doing really well and wasn't drinking anymore as he was putting the 40 under his seat. I never really called him out on stuff like this. The pain behind his eyes was enough to have to bare.

[@God1st504]

This is funny bt TRUE!

[@cidcoleman2262]

LYING=FEAR🤣

[@lb1798]

4:04 GETTING LIED TO CAN affect your mental health...FOR SURE

[@flowersofthefield340]

Gaslighting .....

[@lesliezucker3862]

My ex had trouble keeping his lies straight. Would say he had a headache when I'd question him. I'd get a kick out of tripping him up

[@K_Cole0128]

6 years of therapy is amazing!

[@adrennahall3959]

By the way Congratulations on the six years, I think you are helping a lot of us.

[@joycepurnell2441]

And will get mad when you prove/call them out on the lie. They will make up ish in order to keep the lie going.

[@carlaruggiero5200]

They lie straight faced no reaction

[@MentalHealness]

💯🎯🎯

[@debral9651]

Thank you for being so honest. I mean it hurts to hear this is how people think. But yeah, it's good to be confronted with the reality

[@MentalHealness]

you’re welcome

[@debral9651]

​@MentalHealness well done for your 6th year of therapy

[@freedoml1129]

Ye shall know the truth and the truth shall make you free! John 8:32

[@pacmult]

“Your favorite self-aware narcissist”. Still got the superlative touch!

[@ms.j.7095]

Oh wow! They live in a totally different realities! So true!

[@deedriver4566]

My husband has played with my mind for 8 YEARS. I am finally breaking away from him and this. I've seen him gas light his own mother and use her as collateral damage to cover his lies. It's beyond sickening

[@tonyarice2069]

This sounds like my husband, that's why I'm filing for divorce

[@joannajourneys]

once you see them lie to everyone including their own mother, it's a done deal...

[@ksilly2006]

I started following you at year 3 I think. It's crazy I'm just seeing the light at the end of the tunnel. Thank you for the insight on narcissistic abuse.

[@MentalHealness]

you’re welcome

[@emmadean3007]

Keep smiling Lee it suits you. It's important we can be proud of our achievements. So it's lovely knowing you feel proud of yourself too. Happy 6th year healing to you and your love ones who support you to keep growing positively too. ❤️

[@lindagonino4486]

True . Once my Narc ex got away with passing a lie detector test , he became ore bold in his Narc actions .

[@bettychi5021]

yes i knew it they lie to gain control cause if they tell the truth then you will leave, or withhold affection

[@Sashologist]

This guy cracks me up... "a pinning ceremony for lying which makes you a narcissist" ...love your content. Definitely sheds a tremendous amount of light

[@nl7504]

It is SO refreshing to see a person want to change their lives to become the individual God intended. Good for you! I admire your dedication and hard work. Thank you for the videos put forth to help those who have been affected by a narcissist, including myself. These videos have educated me with an understanding of who I was dealing with. I constantly questioned myself, blamed myself, and walked on eggshells when I was with my ex narcissist. My self-esteem was at the lowest ever in my life. This person tried to emotionally destroy me. I had no idea narcissistic personality disorder existed. I am an empath. It has been challenging to move forward. My faith in God and the strength I get through God in the name of his son Jesus Christ and the Holy Spirit who guides me has helped me come to a point where I finally went 100% no contact. It’s getting better and a little easier every day. Your videos have helped me move forward with hope. You have a beautiful family and I am proud that you have worked on yourself to reflect and become the person your wife and beautiful baby deserves.

[@cardinalsandrosestarot4724]

Absolutely, my lied when the truth would have served him better. I had no idea that it was a control issue

[@MentalHealness]

it definitely can be

[@kamed.]

We are so PROUD of YOU Lee!🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 Continue on your journey of therapy.

[@exofnarccop]

Thank you for knowing your truth

[@MentalHealness]

you’re welcome

[@elizabethchidiac221]

Because it's their truth??? Hopefully they learn about impact of their behaviours towards the people closest to them! We don't need their validation. We are the ones piecing the brokenness they constantly create for everyone ourselves over time! We know right from wrong too. We always have!! Thanks Lee! 🙂🌹

[@5EmBem]

My ex told lies for no reason and I caught him out a couple of times. One time after we had broken up and he ditched our kids to hook up with a girl he didn't even like much and didn't see again, our daughter cried herself to sleep. He worked away and he usually came to stay at the weekend (I didn't want him taking the kids to his house because he was so neglectful of their needs) and she had spent all day waiting for her daddy who didn't show. He then told me some bullshit story about taking his friends home in his car and losing track of time or some load of bollocks, he wouldn't even pick the phone up. I didn't say anything to him about the lies but blasted him for breaking our daughters heart, now I barely believe anything he says so I let most of it go over my head, sometimes this annoys him. It does backfire especially since he's in serious trouble with the law and I still don't believe a word he says so doesn't have me backing him up. Serves him right for telling lies for no reason

[@KvonD9836]

They lie so much,while asking the same question in five different ways you will get five different answers. And when you confront them they freak out. So exit for good for ever.⛔️❌️ They want to 'control' others but can't even control themselves.🙈🤣🤣

[@MentalHealness]

😅😅

[@majorsolutionsllc]

Proud of you too Lee!👏👏👏

[@sism3028]

You have every right to be proud of yourself! God bless you!

[@uncleboslifelessons2448]

Congratulations on your six years brother.

[@pattiaden5946]

All of the so-called overtime that he was working back in the day, how did we end up in bankruptcy court several years ago....?...hmm.... And his paid vacation time seemed to melt away, without spending any real quality time together. Many many times did I sit down with this guy in all the years that we were married, to talk about our relationship. I never could get any straight answers. Just a lot of blame pointed at me, for not working a full-time job. How many times did I explained to him that working full-time would have been child care expenses that I'm sure would have come right out of MY pocket, not his. I wonder what he was doing with his "overtime". Well, that was a long time ago. Been done with him for over 3 years. Since then I have thought off and on about things that happened in our nearly thirty years together. There were a lot of things that didn't make sense. So that tells me a lot of lies were going on.

[@beverlyball8722]

Your story sounds almost like my life.

[@marlawilliams8005]

My ex who I live with lies so much he believes his own lies.

[@ShaisTime]

Needed this video so much right now !! I CANNOT DO THE F.king LYING !! OMG 😭😂👏🏽👏🏽💯💯👋🏽✌🏽

[@MentalHealness]

😂💯

[@tonkysue207]

We just pretend to believe,but we actually believe absolutely nothing....even things that may be truth.but it makes for an easy life...we often have a laugh as well.great channel.💙uk

[@adrennahall3959]

Do they ever forget what they told you and later in the conversation mess up and spill the partial truth?

[@flowersofthefield340]

Yepp ....

[@BecauseYoureBlessed]

Word salad. Then you’re like what ? W.h.a.t .. really like that made any sense. ( point made ppl ) it doesn’t. Then you try to figure it out but guess what ,, your not focused on them anymore…: 0h look squirrel 🐿️. Exactly what they wanted. Now what again did you really want to talk about with them ? ,,,……😮yup exactly you don’t remember …

[@flawedandbeautiful]

Yes, absolutely.

[@natural_free_spirit]

Yes, so I purposely would bring up the same thing again weeks or months later and the story was always different.

[@Mary-xf4ew]

Hello Lee, Just wanted to say congratulations on your 6th year.That is such an accomplishment. Keep up the good work.

[@tonyking7066]

Yeah, for no reason neither. Never understood that.

[@danovangrinnell4479]

Bigga lies the more they feel power. So true

[@MentalHealness]

💯💯

[@robinmcintyre3472]

A couple thoughts, if I may... First~ While I agree wholeheartedly with your assessment that the lying will only become more prolific the longer you're with them, "put up" with it. And that in a broad sense, if you *Can* leave but don't, then you're in essence telling them that you're willing to accept being lied to, you're "Ok" with their habit.. what I wish more people would allow for and include in these sweeping generalizations is that the other person dealing with the Narcissist(particularly thinking about someone living with them) may Loathe, be truly distressed by the constant lying and everything else that comes along with the NPD package, and Yet, they may not have the luxury of a place to go should they "leave"! There are tragically, quite a few of us in that very situation. I would leave in a heartbeat if only I had someplace to go; other than being instantly homeless on the streets. At 64, serious health issues, and thanks to my husband- terrible credit, meager monthly income(SSDisability) which unfortunately, precludes my being eligible for state aid.. only a handful of clothes, a few photo albums & sentimental possessions to my name at this point.. I don't see leaving him currently as an option. My therapist and I have been diligently, tirelessly looking for a simple place that I can afford- a living situation that would provide shelter/sufficient food/ability to pay for my 2 essential meds each month.. I'd make do with just the most basic situation if only we could find a place, but so far, to no avail.😔 But, I keep praying, looking, researching & searching... Added to my difficult situation is the fact that my therapist left her practice in Feb. to pursue a different aspect of the mental health field. I will always be grateful for the almost 3 yrs I was fortunate enough to work with her and get to know her. I'm having a tricky time finding a new one that accepts new patients in our area, but I'm still looking. Anyway, my point is this: I would leave if I could! And I'm not alone in this scenario, that's all I'm saying!😉 My other question(?).. is this: why do so many Narcissists lie when the truth vs telling a lie would make zero difference to the one listening?! Where it has zero to do with control or controlling the narrative for a desired outcome, like laughter? Just as an example: Me:"Oh, what were they serving for lunch, honey?" Him: "pizza." (They were serving fish) Now, do I Care whether they were serving fish or pizza? NO, lol! Yet, here comes the lie.. Why?! That's a very simple example, there are so many other times that deal with all aspects of his & our daily lives that he lies about.. And maybe that's something you can't really answer, I don't know, but I thought I would ask. Thanks so much!😊🩷 Thank you very much for your videos.. your insights are very perceptive and seem to be honest.😉 I hope you know that you are a unicorn among Narcissists, lol! It's almost unheard of to get a Narcissist to do serious self reflection, take therapy seriously.. let alone, put in the work necessary to get to where you are today! Congratulations!😊👍

[@lydiaalvarado41]

You have to fit all the characteristics in being a narcissist.. some just lie just to get out of trouble .. Narcissist shows control in lying ..

[@welcometobrasscuisine]

It’s amazing that you say that because my ex Narc used to always say things like “control the narrative” wow

[@Gena-t4l]

You should be proud! Good on you! No great on you.

[@carlaruggiero5200]

You should be extremely proud of yourself not everybody has that self determination

[@MentalHealness]

i really appreciate it

[@karenhall8330]

Congratulations!🎉 6 years, I'm so glad therapy is working for you and your beautiful family ❤

[@MentalHealness]

🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@willadasher1485]

Why do they feel that they have to pretend to be someone that are not just to be with someone

[@nicolatough8427]

I was told so much lies now I'm no contact and out of it I can really see what was going on I'm going through therapy now

[@ms.j.7095]

Healing! Congratulations 🎊 🎉

[@ifeomaamalu6189]

I stayed 17 years , and he lied about things as simple as what time the eclipse happened. It was scary, but ai had to leave for my sanity.

[@alice3310]

I recently divorced my narcissistic husband who was constantly disrespecting the marriage. After the divorce was final he asked me can we still be friends. I told him no. Question, why he still wants to be friends with me?

[@robbiewooden5067]

Thanks for sharing.

[@jabbojenkins8776]

SALUTATIONS EVERYONE…CONGRATULATIONS ON YOUR SIX YEARS ON THIS JOURNEY. I PRAY THAT GOD WILL CONTINUE TO BLESS AND CONTINUE TO LEAD, GUIDE, AND DIRECT YOU ON THE PATH HE HAS FOR YOU. THANK YOU FOR BEING SOOO TRANSPARENT.💕💕

[@raylanadamsdiscoverychanne2816]

Congratulations Lee !!!

[@jackiejansen7594]

Congratulations on 6 years of therapy. I know the common belief is that NPD isn’t fixable. I like to believe that a person who is dedicated to self-improvement and actualization is capable of overcoming anything.

[@taraarrington2285]

Yes it's all about controlling the narrative I started understanding that when I realized that there was some kind of effort made for not me not to be able to speak to anybody about anything basically

[@03taych]

This channel is helping me so much

[@SpnishEyez79]

Congratulations and kuddos to you for sticking with it. I so wish I had discovered your channel years ago. I recently got out of a 4 year relationship with a narcissist. It wasn't until after the relationship ended that I realized he was a narcissist.

[@MentalHealness]

🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@zoraidita2022]

😳

[@samanthasingh49]

Same here but every thing in due season.

[@ClassicOpinion]

It’s my opinion: ~ no reason…..as lying is part of the Narcissistic spirit~

[@LesleyAnnPrettyBeads]

6 years! Amazing 👏 👏 Big ups to you Lee 🙌

[@raymondtorres3166]

She lie in court and the judge fell for it, I couldn't believe what she said....

[@lydiaalvarado41]

Congratulations on your wellness! 🙏🏼

[@maryw3989]

He told me Why tell the truth when a lie fits better that's his philosophy he's done it his entire life and it's always worked for him so if it isn't broken why fix it.

[@shilohbreigh3591]

Ok… wow! Living with my 6:20 narcissist boyfriend for almost 3 years. In the past year he Stopped taking😮 me with him to his friend’s house . Buddies didn’t want me there. He stopped including me with his family. I am blocked on his messenger and Facebook. I did nothing. Evidently I grind my teeth in my sleep… he woke up in the middle of the night … got angry.. kicked me out of the bedroom… next morning he announced he would NOT be spending my birthday with me! (A BIG birthday.) It’s been 3 days. No words spoken.

[@switchbackimage5966]

I started deliberately mirror the narcissist to see if they feel anything and they were just ignoring me as if they knew that was "their line". Js lying and cheating also involves theft and the worst part is theft of time. ✌️ I think the distance is not working bc they planned the emotional hurt so I would leave. Js a man who tells you they're late for change of tire, but come home clean, tire is replaced but where were they that they couldn't call to inform you of their issues?

[@switchbackimage5966]

I'm thinking he paid the bouncer at the strip club to change it bc we have assistance with vehicles. We are in this 23 years and lies keep coming even when caught and the teen is catching on. I wouldn't want them to be treated like that. Js