What Kind of Girls Do Chinese Guys Like? - Intermediate Chinese - Chinese Street Interview - HSK 5

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[@MAX-ky2ew]

fair-skinned and attractive ladies from a decent family

[@Gigi-rq6cg]

Guy with the grey jacket and glasses was my favorite, he was the most realistic about his answers, plus it was very wholesome when he said chubby girls were nice and comfortable lol

[@vy5488]

He is a very sweet guy! I like this type of guy!

[@Gigi-rq6cg]

@@vy5488 totally same, mans was kinda cute too!!

[@arpeetabordoloi9353]

Yea he is cute too

[@jisookruzat]

It is called preference

[@Gigi-rq6cg]

@@jisookruzat exactly my point.... 🤨

[@ange1265]

One of the guys said:" as long as it's a girl it's fine" I laughed so loud 🤣 honest guy!

[@unreliablenarrator6649]

The couple wins! I predict they will marry and be happy forever. Because they can tolerate each other quite well.

[@user-3aa6234fh]

Hopefully

[@judymegan4827]

Samee! I really wish them a long life! 😝

[@florencephoebe]

Inshallah 🌸

[@00MSG]

Hands down best channel to learn chinese. The repetition of the questions, the connecting overall topic, hearing real life conversations, the length of them, it helps just so much. Even TV shows won't help that much.

[@josephinezulu3850]

Those three guys likes money so much 😂

[@Averagebum21]

It’s probably a joke.

[@josephinezulu3850]

@@Averagebum21 yes I know 😂😂 I was laughing the entire time

[@zsofi_cs9536]

@@josephinezulu3850 tbh, who doesn't?😂

[@josephinezulu3850]

@@zsofi_cs9536 No one actually 😂

[@Ash_tommo]

@@josephinezulu3850 No it’s not a joke! Typical Chinese

[@nancymcgee4776]

😂 You got to love the boys that just care if she's a girl...can't blame them for that now days! Nothing wrong with having high standards when finding a partner but a couple of those guys are looking for "Miss She does not exist!" Good luck fellas! This was a fun video..Thank you!

[@chinesegrandpa]

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[@theprplzebra]

Aww the two guys with the glasses have some of the nicest responses

[@sindyfashionnerd5874]

“Chubby” in China/Asia means “skinny” in the West 😂

[@kasketbase8741]

I'm 5'9' and 160 lb

[@allio3459]

West standard of skinny vs Asian skinny is completely different for sure. Asian people have generally good metabolism and have healthier bodies.

[@sindyfashionnerd5874]

@@allio3459 that’s not true at all!!! Asians actually have less muscles than other races in nature, so it’s easier to put on weight!!! But the culture of preference on extreme thinness acts as a motivation to “force” people to stay very slim. Strangers will judge you in streets if you’re big, you’ll get bullied to death at school if you’re chubby including teachers! Also at home by parents and relatives…..and by big I mean bigger than uk 12 (us 8) even uk 10 is regards on the chubby side 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@allio3459]

@@sindyfashionnerd5874 I don’t think that’s true. Anyone can get muscles. I think it’s just the diet in general. I’ve seen muscular asians before. It’s not uncommon

[@slam5]

@@allio3459 mostly in the west i presume..

[@lolita960]

I love how.. open? Chinese people are. They don’t seem to shy away from honesty and they’re very straight forward.

[@allio3459]

Then you clearly never met many Chinese guys.

[@jzc7368]

In a sense, that's not always a good thing. As we all know, the political correctness of the Western left has become more and more the object of ridicule in China, but this has also brought some side effects: many young people in China, at least on the Internet, no longer care about any speech rules.All kinds of completely politically incorrect content, including blatant discrimination and offensive remarks, are bluntly said.

[@dttth7192]

@@jzc7368 你是中国人

[@kahn5636]

@@jzc7368 and why is that bad

[@yoangyu]

​@@allio3459 your all comments are against them. you just l4ser white dude.

[@liuxianglee1433]

I'm married to the most beautiful Chinese man and he tells me how even though he thinks I'm so beautiful, it is my heart that he fell in love with and that looks were just a plus, so for him he feels he is the most lucky man, but I think I'm the most lucky woman! I will say it made me travel all the way from New York to China just to be with him! Great choice we are now married 2 years and thousands more to go!

[@aniime6463]

Your story sounds similar to another American girl who was interviewed in 'asian boss' channel video what it's like dating a Chinese for Americans Wait aren't you the same girl

[@liuxianglee1433]

@@aniime6463 so funny I never saw that video, but that is not me! I looked at the video you mentioned it is funny she mentioned New York and length of marriage but she and I are different people!

[@一个大妈两朵花]

Bless u couple! Have fun in China

[@liuxianglee1433]

@@一个大妈两朵花 thank you and we are now living in both China and New York and I am so happy and thankful for such a wonderful lao gong everyday!

[@florencephoebe]

Congrats 🌸💃🏿

[@cdramaidols1888]

33:10 IDK WHY NO ONES TALKING ABOUT THIS GUY BUT HES SO CUTE AND ATTRACTIVE 😭💘

[@josephinezulu3850]

You're right!! He's so attractive

[@cdramaidols1888]

@@josephinezulu3850 exactly 😭😭 I want to know his weibooooo

[@davidwinet5607]

I have been working through this one video a piece at at a time at 25% speed, and I feel I have really gotten to know the interviewees, typical Chinese guys’ attitudes (for example, extreme double standards as regards smoking). I particularly love the couple who are always teasing each other. Very endearing. I can just imagine them doing the same thing 50 years from now! I also note the skill of the interviewer in drawing out the true feelings of the boys, and lastly I have a sense of how she herself feels, in terms of some traditional attitudes. I highly recommend this method. It is also very helpful for learning the commonly used vocab and collocations, especially in conjunction with Pleco. Another valuable skill it helps with is listening to the various accents and styles of speech (in particular, how fast and how clearly or unclearly different people speak, and also regional variations in accent). When you learn Chinese, it’s NOT just a matter of acquiring the language. There is a whole culture, a whole set of attitudes, without which knowing the language is pretty meaningless. You may like that culture or dislike it, but you need to know it for language to be of any practical use to you. This is by far my favorite Chinese learning site on the Internet, hands-down! Thank you!

[@DearStephanieX]

I completely agree, that’s why this channel is such a goldmine, so much value 💕

[@johnyossarian9059]

On the other hand, Chinese society expects men to buy a house before getting married So a little double standard with regards to smoking is more than warranted

[@fatcammal]

You seem really knowledgeable and cultured

[@tsuisiu7162]

You’re very good at engaging people in a conversation and digging into their feelings and perspective. Most of the respondents are open minded and seasoned with social norms and self awareness. Pretty sure if they represent a cross section of the community, it is a rational and stable society.

[@jennifervaughn1541]

That guy that always answers that as long as she has money....just cracks me up 😆

[@MandarinCorner2]

Eileen does a street interview to find out what kind of girls do Chinese guys like - especially regarding the following: 1. What kind of girls do you like, regarding appearance? 2. Will you be okay with a girl who is taller than you? 3. Regarding personality, what kind of girls do you like? 4. Will you be okay with a girl that smokes? 5. Do you prefer girls that are older or younger than you? 6. Will you be okay with dating a divorced woman? 7. What kind of girls are the most unacceptable for you? 8. Is marriage your dating goal? 9. Regarding a girl’s education and financial ability, do you have any requirements? 10. Will you be okay if the girl doesn’t want to have babies? 11. What will you do if your parents dislike the girl? 12. Will you be okay with providing a car, a house and money in order to get married? 13. Appearance and inner quality, which is more important? 14. If your girlfriend or wife, and your mother falls into the water at the same time, who will you save?

[@MetrakitProRaceII]

Hi Eileen. Nice content. Regards from germany. 👍sad Chinese is hard to speak language :/

[@IamHandsome4u]

Next time try to interview some good looking people.

[@manuelapacheco9129]

aw the boy in the gray jacket has my whole heart, such a nice guy

[@TitaT]

funny how people in the comments are mad about other people's standards. truth is love is shallow, we all have standards. that doesn't mean we always end up with such guys. if you asked me, I'd say I love tall, lean guys but I've found a 5'7 chubby guy attractive, when I was younger my crush was 5'4 🙄. there's nothing wrong with wanting to be physically attracted to someone you're dating. most of you guys complaining are just projecting your insecurities and you probably do have unattainable standards too, it's human nature。

[@thembadgers]

well said

[@hopebby3750]

The thing is that no personality trait was mentioned, only looks 👎

[@loopymomy2532]

Facts. Lol men in China are picky just like women in America. I think it’s more that women are mad that men actually have preference aside from them lol.

[@loopymomy2532]

@@hopebby3750 duh! Nobody sees your personality before even talking. If you want personality, then date online.

[@hopebby3750]

@@loopymomy2532 do u date random ppl from the streets? If so then that’s ur personal problem, most ppl date someone they alr know, a friend, a co-worker, a classmate, a neighbor, etc, u gotta know their personality before dating so you’d be dating for PERSONALITY, most ppl don’t just pick attractive ppl from the street and ask them out, they know them before, and they how their behaviors, duh!

[@streetfighter1065]

Best channel about study Chinese in KZbin. Please make more interviews with foreigners and like this video content too very interesting to watch

[@gertjankoreman]

This video is so great! The reactions are so funny. I really enjoyed it 👌

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[@FilipP88]

Thank you for the video Eileen! Those 3 guys were funny and the couple was interesting haha

[@hanooi7450]

That was a fun interview.

[@kenxd585]

For any other mandarin learning if you slow the speed down u have more time to pause and read the words and characters and put some new connections together

[@taknaknak4957]

😂 even the subtitle is faster wtf, the speaking is fastest

[@Keay9527]

I'm totally different...I learn English by reading you guys comments...🤣🤣🤣

[@daviszhu2202]

Listening to the 3 guys' answers, it seems like they're just trolling hard LOL 😂 Sarcasm in Chinese is a little harder to pick up imo

[@kthekith1889]

who's gonna tell these men who care so much about appearances that good looks don't determine the relationship's happiness lol im glad there are a few who do not care how their partner looks like, that's maturity

[@babatune5751]

Ah you’re one of those. People have preferences. Is that not ok?

[@cSedx00022]

They’re just asking for their ideal type appearance wise though haha.

[@alonsocruz6477]

Looks definitely matter. Sex and physical intimacy are important in a relationship and there's nothing wrong with wanting to do these very intimate acts with someone you find physically attractive.

[@saracruze2212]

👍

[@lolita960]

Ugh YAWN

[@davidtuer5825]

The couple she interviewed seemed to have a very easy going and comfortable relationship. I liked them. edit:- that was before the money question came up!!!

[@laur-unstagenameactuallyca1587]

guy at 2:48 is the mose zen, "live and let live" person I've ever seen lol. I aspire to have that type of energy.

[@kieranmcdermott27]

Thank you for continuing the great content, Eileen.

[@skowlessar4660]

I liked this so much! Most of these men were raised right. 👍😂

[@RealNameNeverUsed]

Wow I didn't expect the men's answer are very wild and diverse in opinions. I was expecting safe answers like the Japanese would give.

[@rodrigoe.gordillo2617]

Chinese people are more open

[@icephoenix3565]

Chinese people are better and more open

[@upthedown1]

Yeah and wouldn't That be boring!

[@lolita960]

@@icephoenix3565 “better”? Try again :)

[@icephoenix3565]

@@lolita960 found the racist!

[@mc_learnvang6794]

Soooooo funny! These answers are hilarious! These guys are so innocent and naive.

[@Radheshyam-iz5hc]

Guy in grey shirt stole my heart

[@LeLeTesoro]

Lol, my thoughts while watching: “That couple picks on each other so much, it must get exhausting & annoying after a while. They probably won’t last long.” Everyone else while watching: “The couple is the cutest! So fun and humorous. They’ll probably get married and continue to joke for the next 70 years.” Just goes to show how many different perspectives and preferences in relationships there are 😆

[@diyanasalimovna9632]

Just found out your channel and I love this video. I'm currently seeking information related to dating and marriage from Chinese people's perceptions and this one helps me, so thank you! The couple's interactions are cute tho😂

[@elisabeth73]

This is great for training to understand casual conversations. Thank you!

[@silveriver9]

Which city did the interviews take place?

[@elisabeth73]

@@silveriver9 Nanchang city in Jianxi province

[@williamrelue]

I really enjoy your videos. Thanks for all your hard work!

[@bananaart6481]

3:05 this guy and the couple had the best answers in my opinion

[@louisemives]

特别喜欢这个视频！谢谢你，Eileen! 😊😀😊😀

[@创造未来]

你好，我觉得你的采访挺不错的，希望能够让更多外国人看见真实的中国，现在一些外国媒体有事没事曲解中国，特别是BBC一挂的，希望有更多外国人通过学中文了解中国

[@freakiniilse]

Very nice video, learning Chinese whilst learning social stuff. Most of the guys in the video are very thoughtful I think.

[@estellehuang1475]

2:50 我喜欢他！除对抽烟的话题之外，我们有同样的想法！ 视频很有意思！

[@maxmitin8491]

我也喜欢他。对我来说，最舒服啊

[@rotten_orang3]

Wait I'm crushing over that pretty guy who has glasses and grey jacket on and yeahh has a cutest smileeeee.Aaahhh exactly my type😭😳 Wish he could notice me☹️

[@ebsfbs]

After watching a few Mandarin learning videos youtube recommended this video to me :))) But, it was so funny to watch. Thanks to the youtuber's good questions.

[@levac912]

"I LIKE HAPPY GIRLS" If you dnt treat her right, the happy girl will disppear.

[@kalakalachuchu]

More like this. Content is long too. Love it

[@ejlim3335]

30:02 HAHAHA I CANNOT

[@benjaminsamueldaumont8167]

Thanks for giving the microphone to men :D it's pleasurable to hear our opinions

[@vanillaann]

😳5:25 this boy is so handsomely cute

[@marwaboutaghane8012]

Shit girl yeah hrheheheh

[@exwhalechannel2601]

More of this series please!!

[@mxd-1990asn]

Similar answers to my male cousins , all Asian guys. (almost all members of my family live in Thailand and we are a ethnically Thai-Chinese mixed family) the wifes they have now vary from average skinny to chubby, most of my female cousins also dont have big boobs either except for very very few (and that was mainly ONLY bcs they got pregnant before) . I think what the guys answered isnt realistic for china , the women there usually dont have huge boobs (mostly from A cup to B cup). and especially no natural double eyelids etc (but ofcourse many get surgery done now anywhere around southeast and east asia, mostly nose jobs, boob jobs and double eyelids). The only thing i notice with all people living in east and several countries of southeast asia is the liking to CUTE girls (my female cousins all more or less try to be that way too... ideals etc are obviously different from example the US or Europe). Females often on the other side like cute things. At least thats my observation as a asian (thai-chinese mixed) who visited china a few times before, maybe its different from region to region (so im only speaking for the places i visited). AND ofcourse this isnt the case for all people in china & other countries around the east/southeast asia region, its just what i mostly noticed with specifically China, Taiwan and partly Thailand ,Vietnam, malaysia and singapore (inlcuding also any asians i personally know + my family members)

[@jan-ef1fp]

yea, i don't think you've been in china enough because there's a variety of body types in different regions. there are just as many girls with naturally big chest and double eyelids which can be natural too. like many asians have it, it's just smaller and not as big as a foreigner's double eyelid. but i'm glad you're open minded enough to acknowledge not all of china or east asia is a monolith

[@radrose4864]

Clicked for the hot guy, no lie

[@rodrigoe.gordillo2617]

true

[@bijaklestari4537]

And all his answers hits home. Can I get his number lol 🤣

[@ttyaaa]

37:48 his answers are literally the best, idk why people barely mention him in the comments

[@MrRomanrin]

3:39 she looks so young and cute :3

[@pollyshy]

I like the guy with white t shirt in red wording, he seem genuine

[@hammedreeves9085]

I love this kind of content, I feel like it's too long

[@Mi-yj2pp]

the couple is so funny

[@naskyani5032]

Believe me, what type of your soulmate you might have no idea? Soulmate is just like a riddle you think you like some type of person but then not. Soulmate is have to fit each other not one side only

[@heatherhafer3333]

Loved this!

[@clickett]

Hello Mandarin Corner, can you make a content about how Chinese people think about older woman younger man relationship? Do men prefer younger or older women? Do women prefer younger ror older men? Besides learning chinse6i also want to know other people's perspective. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@baqikenny]

well my girlfriend's a few months older than me and want me to call her sister just to feel dominant sometimes lmao

[@MandarinCorner2]

This is one of the questions asked in the video. And for the women's perspective, here is the video: kzbin.info/www/bejne/jHmaknZooceaZ8U

[@clickett]

@@baqikenny just a few months doesn't count age gap, I'm referring to big age gap.

[@mllelunatic]

Yeah like 20+ age gap

[@dawitabdisa7262]

lol.. I can not swim was the smart answer for that guy with the girl.... they are funny...

[@kenxd585]

2:58 what a gentleman

[@MafiRdong]

Anyone who are not Chinese watch this??😅😅😅 btw I'm watching from North-East, India

[@quirky_geminight]

🖐🏻

[@miexilili7035]

YIXING IS 30 YRS OLD AND HE STILL DOESNT HAVE A GF CAN SOMEONE HOOK ME UP WITH HIM...

[@denisialopiccolo6761]

Ahahaha 😂 the most handsome Chinese boy is actually a leftover man ahahah I'm joking 😁

[@swissroll4432]

@@denisialopiccolo6761 handsome boys are usually gay😂 but this is just minority

[@bluebird1463]

@@swissroll4432 does this mean im handsome

[@wonwoohoranghae3632]

@@bluebird1463 probably

[@corgi00butt78]

Actually he’s 29… he doesn’t turn 30 until October 7 but yes who wouldn’t want him. 😆

[@FHASHI]

I like the guy with the grey shirt/jumper.

[@AdnanAdnan-hd3xz]

Nice to see your video. I learned and understood a lot. From Bangladesh

[@kasketbase8741]

I'm mixed race, 173 cm, weigh 72 or 73 kg, I dress very plain, and I dont wear makeup. As for personality, I am shy but talkative, friendly, and bubbly but can be difficult 我是混血，173 厘米， 重約72公斤，穿著很樸素，不化妝。 至於性格，我很害羞但很健談。我也友好， 善良的，但是困難。

[@virginiaperez-baez2445]

that was a great interview

[@chriscuth9010]

@2:44 that kid said"Bigger than his head"🤣🤣🤣

[@czjens]

My boyfriend is Chinese and he is way younger than me.

[@twotwosix3396]

And what Kind of Boys Do Chinese Guys Like? Just want to know for a friend.

[@Erik_Escriche]

I am the friend!

[@xiyi4764]

😂for a friend 😌

[@chen-mq1by]

they like masculine man

[@Gloriosus]

I think the girl at 6.20 showed great restraint.

[@jiafei8482]

You can tell that these 3 guys are hella immature🥴

[@elvis4868]

I can tell you dont understand sarcasm

[@jiafei8482]

@@elvis4868 I can tell that u didn't understood my commenr

[@yoangyu]

sister you look soooo angelic pls be my bff 😢

[@MarkisCouch_1WhatJustHappened]

Interesting! Informative!

[@vanillaann]

As long as she's girl 😂😂😂😂😂😂this boy omg

[@annam1966]

So so good.. love from Iceland

[@brightlongpham]

非常喜歡你們的影片，辛苦了！

[@doricemichelle3614]

3.2 has a best answer to me

[@cq4600]

I got HSK7 18years ago..I can understand the meaning, but I cannot create these sentences.. I should study mandarin again...

[@nicoletteuy8455]

It's so fun listening to these guys...😅😃🙄

[@steveneven5128]

The guy in the thumbnail is one fine specimen 😏

[@FrancescaAntares]

我很喜欢你的频道！我想跟大家分布我的观点，对我来说，虽然最近年中国社会的思想打开一点，但是好像性别陈规定型观念依然存在。有可能性为了超过这些刻板印象还需等待20年左右。

[@evenhuang7071]

虽然我能知道你想表达的意思，但是部分句子有语病

[@FrancescaAntares]

@@evenhuang7071 不好意思， 当然我不是中国人，其实我是意大利人，我一定需要把我的中文水平提高多了。既然你懂我的意思那就好啦 :)

[@evenhuang7071]

@@FrancescaAntares 加油加油！

[@littlelady7843]

The culture has been there for over 5000 years, it is not going to change in 20 years.

[@JuderkaMoretaaitetsu]

i will tell you what they all like: 1( rich 2: slim 3: white 4: big eyes 5: petite.......

[@jan-ef1fp]

did you even watch the video.....

[@jareeeeed_]

to the guy with glasses and gray jacket who said "I don't care too much about appearance", sorry （対不起）but I'm doubting you. I mean, you're rare-and cute! if you see this comment now, then get back here after years and let me know if I'm wrong. I'll wait. but I don't think you'll be able to see or understand this. I wish all male does have a mindset like yours. ❤️

[@iseeflowers]

But I do think there are some guys who don’t care too much about appearances. I see some cute guys with some average or below average gf or wife.

[@gmartlife]

Very interesting

[@Grem305]

Great topic as usual. Keep it going as longas you can as I am a greay Fan. I do appreciat though that it requires a great deal of work and preparation time to get it done so congratulations. Welcome to france when you get a chance.

[@AbcRhakho]

Im 26 and im planning to get married after 32 plus😊😂 enjoy the youth life guys🎉😂

[@worldview730]

This probably ranks as one of the funniest comedies on social media, a classic joke!

[@Moodboard39]

If looks only matter , then what's the point ? Being in relationship

[@johng4093]

In the hukou system does it mean the guy has to marry a girl from the same hukou region or village? It seems implied from the questions (question 12) and answers about how much the caili is in their hometown. For example at 31:15.

[@MandarinCorner2]

No. That is not true. They can marry people from any region, including foreigners.

[@johng4093]

Ok, good, 谢谢你!

[@johng4093]

I suppose it seems like a dumb question, but it's hard to understand why the 彩礼 would be much more in some places than others if people can choose a spouse from anywhere, but I suppose there could be reasons based on matching language, dialect & customs, falling for the girl next door, or wanting to live close to both parents and inlaws, etc.

[@nunaora3644]

Boy is wearing glasses and jacket hehe if he have gf than his gf is so lucky 🥺😄

[@claivee6069]

Guys, u must to watch this video

[@muhammadazmat2255]

Sei gioia

[@muhammadazmat2255]

mi rispondi gioia perfavore

[@niha3454]

By the very fact that i have brown skin i automatically went into this video expecting nothing lol. But gray jacket with glasses was very nice!

[@dil__lo]

我现在真想交一个中国男朋友😅 他们都这么可爱

[@DementedDamsels]

Hi Eileen! Please explain what the young man means by “government stipulated” at 31:39 ?

[@rasmus9311]

Basically means the government said/suggested that the caili should be 30 000 in that region

[@rasmus9311]

Julio Duan yes

[@johng4093]

But do people follow the government stipulation or ignore it? Why would the caili be stated as some other number if people were following the government number?

[@XblackkingdomX]

I don't like kind of guy who don't accept your girls to smoke while they smoke. It's two standards and selfish.

[@davinciswife1533]

Exactly! This is the most obvious misogynistic example, but there are more in this video. Also, I dont understand why people in the comments love, the couple...honestly I feel bad for her as I felt she was not comfortable being made fun of by her boyfriend on camera. It was rather immature than funny ...

[@XblackkingdomX]

@@davinciswife1533 They like this couple cuz it's fun, but don't notice that deep down he took advantage of her and think a man above woman. She thought he is a jerk when she said, "You're two standard." I think she will be the first one who need to break up.

[@davinciswife1533]

@@XblackkingdomX yes! And I don't get it, why people cannot see this? It is so obvious. I came to check the comment section for this:)))

[@XblackkingdomX]

​@@davinciswife1533 FYI, Asian always treats men better than women especially China and Korea. It became normal about unfair treatment, so people overlooked it. That couple look like irritate friends with gender inequality. It's not healthy or long run.

[@gateofbabylon9722]

@@XblackkingdomX how is it so unequal women live far easier life than men people keep talking about male privilege but nobody talks about female privilege not only that and the man had to provides even tho the women is independent which is unreasonable I mean if the guy is marrying a girl like 18-25

[@jenniepennie6052]

Why is skin tone so important in the Asian community damn 💀

[@jan-ef1fp]

i mean it's rly just a beauty standard that's been ingrained in society there. just like how tanning is so important in the US. neither is healthy. basically in asia, it was once said that paler asians did the high end jobs that didn't require outside work so that's why they didn't get tan, while tanner asians did low outdoors work and that was looked down upon. it was never based on racism of black vs white people like westerners assume, more like colorism/prejudice in asian society. but it's becoming more open minded in china and a lot more young people don't care. like these guys don't even have a problem with chubby girls. and gay relationships are even being accepted even tho the older generation has long had a conservative mindset in china. so hey, at least things are changing now.

[@jjosephinemshi0623]

My problem: my crush like chubby,but i want a slimmer body🤣🤣

[@barthzesperida]

wow ha, u have pinyin, also.... so great...

[@finback2005]

Really enjoyed it.