What Kind of Girls Do Chinese Guys Like? - Intermediate Chinese - Chinese Street Interview - HSK 5

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[@MAX-ky2ew]

fair-skinned and attractive ladies from a decent family

[@Gigi-rq6cg]

Guy with the grey jacket and glasses was my favorite, he was the most realistic about his answers, plus it was very wholesome when he said chubby girls were nice and comfortable lol

[@vy5488]

He is a very sweet guy! I like this type of guy!

[@Gigi-rq6cg]

@@vy5488 totally same, mans was kinda cute too!!

[@arpeetabordoloi9353]

Yea he is cute too

[@jisookruzat]

It is called preference

[@Gigi-rq6cg]

@@jisookruzat exactly my point.... 🤨

[@unreliablenarrator6649]

The couple wins! I predict they will marry and be happy forever. Because they can tolerate each other quite well.

[@user-3aa6234fh]

Hopefully

[@judymegan4827]

Samee! I really wish them a long life! 😝

[@florencephoebe]

Inshallah 🌸

[@Mysecondhandbookshop]

One of the guys said:" as long as it's a girl it's fine" I laughed so loud 🤣 honest guy!

[@johng4093]

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[@DearStephanieX]

I’m so grateful for this channel too 😊

[@ezioauditore5616]

yeah, theres usable synonyms here

[@00MSG]

Hands down best channel to learn chinese. The repetition of the questions, the connecting overall topic, hearing real life conversations, the length of them, it helps just so much. Even TV shows won't help that much.

[@josephinezulu3850]

Those three guys likes money so much 😂

[@Averagebum21]

It’s probably a joke.

[@josephinezulu3850]

@@Averagebum21 yes I know 😂😂 I was laughing the entire time

[@zsofi_cs9536]

@@josephinezulu3850 tbh, who doesn't?😂

[@josephinezulu3850]

@@zsofi_cs9536 No one actually 😂

[@Ash_tommo]

@@josephinezulu3850 No it’s not a joke! Typical Chinese

[@lexil.1170]

“As long as she has a nice body it will be good enough.” most of these men probably haven’t looked in the mirror💀

[@lizam3846]

Damn facts!

[@min5169]

It's always the not so good looking one that be saying too much 💀

[@vy5488]

My sentiments exactly!!! ‘I want good looking and nice body,” do you actually look in the mirror first, what if those beautiful girls said “i want handsome, and tall”, how would you feel!

[@seokjinkimchiee2676]

But we girls saying they same thing we looking a good shape, tall handsome etc then we should try looking a mirror😏😉🤣 sorry I'm not good in English

[@vy5488]

@@seokjinkimchiee2676 true as well, the best don’t be picky, be like the other guy, he said as long as can get along, looks doesn’t matter. I don’t go for look at all, looks is not important to me. A kind and loving heart is much better than a handsome face, handsome and beautiful face doesn’t last….😃

[@约翰·约书亚]

3:05 BEST GUY HE NAILED OR THE ANSWERS

[@star-kb9sf]

I know righttt

[@rjkore5229]

Interestingly he is the better looking of the bunch lol...

[@loopymomy2532]

@@rjkore5229 it’s because he’s lying. He’s using that to get more options. He’s already attractive, so he’s probably already lucky. It makes him look even more attractive by stating he has no preference. This as a result broadens the spectrum of women he can choose from.

[@pzsu9863]

@@loopymomy2532 🤨

[@sindyfashionnerd5874]

“Chubby” in China/Asia means “skinny” in the West 😂

[@kasketbase8741]

I'm 5'9' and 160 lb

[@allio3459]

West standard of skinny vs Asian skinny is completely different for sure. Asian people have generally good metabolism and have healthier bodies.

[@sindyfashionnerd5874]

@@allio3459 that’s not true at all!!! Asians actually have less muscles than other races in nature, so it’s easier to put on weight!!! But the culture of preference on extreme thinness acts as a motivation to “force” people to stay very slim. Strangers will judge you in streets if you’re big, you’ll get bullied to death at school if you’re chubby including teachers! Also at home by parents and relatives…..and by big I mean bigger than uk 12 (us 8) even uk 10 is regards on the chubby side 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@allio3459]

@@sindyfashionnerd5874 I don’t think that’s true. Anyone can get muscles. I think it’s just the diet in general. I’ve seen muscular asians before. It’s not uncommon

[@slam5]

@@allio3459 mostly in the west i presume..

[@lolita960]

I love how.. open? Chinese people are. They don’t seem to shy away from honesty and they’re very straight forward.

[@allio3459]

Then you clearly never met many Chinese guys.

[@jzc7368]

In a sense, that's not always a good thing. As we all know, the political correctness of the Western left has become more and more the object of ridicule in China, but this has also brought some side effects: many young people in China, at least on the Internet, no longer care about any speech rules.All kinds of completely politically incorrect content, including blatant discrimination and offensive remarks, are bluntly said.

[@dttth7192]

@@jzc7368 你是中国人

[@kahn5636]

@@jzc7368 and why is that bad

[@yoangyu]

​@@allio3459 your all comments are against them. you just l4ser white dude.

[@nneann]

The couple is hilarious lol

[@seth1455]

Really !

[@judymegan4827]

Yeahh they are! And cute too! I really wish them a long life! 😝

[@bananaart6481]

Lol ikr

[@RupsD319]

😂😂yes

[@nancymcgee4776]

😂 You got to love the boys that just care if she's a girl...can't blame them for that now days! Nothing wrong with having high standards when finding a partner but a couple of those guys are looking for "Miss She does not exist!" Good luck fellas! This was a fun video..Thank you!

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[@liuxianglee1433]

I'm married to the most beautiful Chinese man and he tells me how even though he thinks I'm so beautiful, it is my heart that he fell in love with and that looks were just a plus, so for him he feels he is the most lucky man, but I think I'm the most lucky woman! I will say it made me travel all the way from New York to China just to be with him! Great choice we are now married 2 years and thousands more to go!

[@aniime6463]

Your story sounds similar to another American girl who was interviewed in 'asian boss' channel video what it's like dating a Chinese for Americans Wait aren't you the same girl

[@liuxianglee1433]

@@aniime6463 so funny I never saw that video, but that is not me! I looked at the video you mentioned it is funny she mentioned New York and length of marriage but she and I are different people!

[@一个大妈两朵花]

Bless u couple! Have fun in China

[@liuxianglee1433]

@@一个大妈两朵花 thank you and we are now living in both China and New York and I am so happy and thankful for such a wonderful lao gong everyday!

[@florencephoebe]

Congrats 🌸💃🏿

[@VivianChin-s8w]

for those 3 guys, you want a hot chic, rich, sweet and young girl to be your girlfriend, but the point is that kind of girl will choose you?

[@meiliph2948]

Ofc no.

[@loopymomy2532]

Ofc not. Seems like men in China are picky. Makes sense they there are more of them than women.

[@xsomili5501]

They just joking lol

[@ogeginika1407]

They are obviously young. Typical responses

[@gateofbabylon9722]

They don't rlly take it seriously either

[@NghtMonster]

I definitely feel a lot more comfortable around Chinese guys as they are really so kind and very sweet and respectful towards me! I really love this!! And such gentlemen too!🥺🥰

[@lishiya3579]

😱😱😱😱.

[@shihongpeng3071]

不错的想法

[@段文欣]

😂how I wish you can read Chinese so that you know how they really think of foreign women.

[@theprplzebra]

Aww the two guys with the glasses have some of the nicest responses

[@MandarinCorner2]

Eileen does a street interview to find out what kind of girls do Chinese guys like - especially regarding the following: 1. What kind of girls do you like, regarding appearance? 2. Will you be okay with a girl who is taller than you? 3. Regarding personality, what kind of girls do you like? 4. Will you be okay with a girl that smokes? 5. Do you prefer girls that are older or younger than you? 6. Will you be okay with dating a divorced woman? 7. What kind of girls are the most unacceptable for you? 8. Is marriage your dating goal? 9. Regarding a girl’s education and financial ability, do you have any requirements? 10. Will you be okay if the girl doesn’t want to have babies? 11. What will you do if your parents dislike the girl? 12. Will you be okay with providing a car, a house and money in order to get married? 13. Appearance and inner quality, which is more important? 14. If your girlfriend or wife, and your mother falls into the water at the same time, who will you save?

[@MetrakitProRaceII]

Hi Eileen. Nice content. Regards from germany. 👍sad Chinese is hard to speak language :/

[@IamHandsome4u]

Next time try to interview some good looking people.

[@tsuisiu7162]

You’re very good at engaging people in a conversation and digging into their feelings and perspective. Most of the respondents are open minded and seasoned with social norms and self awareness. Pretty sure if they represent a cross section of the community, it is a rational and stable society.

[@celianeher7637]

As a non Asian and from the Caribbean I found this a very insightful interview. Also it was fun to see the reaction and answers to the asked questions. As for men and boys they are similar in their thoughts and behaviour no matter from which countries or cultural backgrounds. This I haved experienced now living in Europe and interactions with people of different cultures has taught me.

[@davidwinet5607]

I have been working through this one video a piece at at a time at 25% speed, and I feel I have really gotten to know the interviewees, typical Chinese guys’ attitudes (for example, extreme double standards as regards smoking). I particularly love the couple who are always teasing each other. Very endearing. I can just imagine them doing the same thing 50 years from now! I also note the skill of the interviewer in drawing out the true feelings of the boys, and lastly I have a sense of how she herself feels, in terms of some traditional attitudes. I highly recommend this method. It is also very helpful for learning the commonly used vocab and collocations, especially in conjunction with Pleco. Another valuable skill it helps with is listening to the various accents and styles of speech (in particular, how fast and how clearly or unclearly different people speak, and also regional variations in accent). When you learn Chinese, it’s NOT just a matter of acquiring the language. There is a whole culture, a whole set of attitudes, without which knowing the language is pretty meaningless. You may like that culture or dislike it, but you need to know it for language to be of any practical use to you. This is by far my favorite Chinese learning site on the Internet, hands-down! Thank you!

[@DearStephanieX]

I completely agree, that’s why this channel is such a goldmine, so much value 💕

[@johnyossarian9059]

On the other hand, Chinese society expects men to buy a house before getting married So a little double standard with regards to smoking is more than warranted

[@fatcammal]

You seem really knowledgeable and cultured

[@toastedmarshmellow704]

The guy who likes his girlfriend's look: perfect!!

[@johnmofula]

The couple was really fun... that guys really enjoys annoying his girlfriend. They seem to have a really fun relationship. This was a really fun video and lesson. Thanks

[@manuelapacheco9129]

aw the boy in the gray jacket has my whole heart, such a nice guy

[@acaciaeugenia4386]

26:16 26:40 28:15 their smiles are beautiful, very pleasing to see and their laughs are very satisfying to hear.

[@TitaT]

funny how people in the comments are mad about other people's standards. truth is love is shallow, we all have standards. that doesn't mean we always end up with such guys. if you asked me, I'd say I love tall, lean guys but I've found a 5'7 chubby guy attractive, when I was younger my crush was 5'4 🙄. there's nothing wrong with wanting to be physically attracted to someone you're dating. most of you guys complaining are just projecting your insecurities and you probably do have unattainable standards too, it's human nature。

[@thembadgers]

well said

[@hopebby3750]

The thing is that no personality trait was mentioned, only looks 👎

[@loopymomy2532]

Facts. Lol men in China are picky just like women in America. I think it’s more that women are mad that men actually have preference aside from them lol.

[@loopymomy2532]

@@hopebby3750 duh! Nobody sees your personality before even talking. If you want personality, then date online.

[@hopebby3750]

@@loopymomy2532 do u date random ppl from the streets? If so then that’s ur personal problem, most ppl date someone they alr know, a friend, a co-worker, a classmate, a neighbor, etc, u gotta know their personality before dating so you’d be dating for PERSONALITY, most ppl don’t just pick attractive ppl from the street and ask them out, they know them before, and they how their behaviors, duh!

[@gertjankoreman]

This video is so great! The reactions are so funny. I really enjoyed it 👌

[@Maranathamrembo]

The gentleman at 4:09, mentioned something important, and interesting. “Finding a girlfriend and finding a wife is two different things ” The couple and the 3 guys have such a great humour😂😂....not a good idea eating while watching; food going in the wrong place while laughing.

[@Mi-yj2pp]

can you find the couple and make a long interview with the them again please!!! they are adorable and so funny!

[@cdramaidols1888]

33:10 IDK WHY NO ONES TALKING ABOUT THIS GUY BUT HES SO CUTE AND ATTRACTIVE 😭💘

[@josephinezulu3850]

You're right!! He's so attractive

[@cdramaidols1888]

@@josephinezulu3850 exactly 😭😭 I want to know his weibooooo

[@jennifervaughn1541]

That guy that always answers that as long as she has money....just cracks me up 😆

[@streetfighter1065]

Best channel about study Chinese in KZbin. Please make more interviews with foreigners and like this video content too very interesting to watch

[@ClaudiaSaks]

My favourite was the golden trio😭🤣... They: As long as she is rich the appearance doesn't matter. Reporter: Personality or appearance? They: Appearance. Reporter: Wasn't it money? They: What money. They forget that they only like rich woman😭🥲🤣...this means that ideal type doesn't exist always, you never know when you gonna fall for someone.

[@johnyossarian9059]

Just boys being boys

[@SuperGuitarboyz]

This channel doesnt only help you learn chi ese but the culture as well which is quite amazing!!!❤❤❤

[@hanooi7450]

That was a fun interview.

[@kthekith1889]

who's gonna tell these men who care so much about appearances that good looks don't determine the relationship's happiness lol im glad there are a few who do not care how their partner looks like, that's maturity

[@babatune5751]

Ah you’re one of those. People have preferences. Is that not ok?

[@cSedx00022]

They’re just asking for their ideal type appearance wise though haha.

[@alonsocruz6477]

Looks definitely matter. Sex and physical intimacy are important in a relationship and there's nothing wrong with wanting to do these very intimate acts with someone you find physically attractive.

[@saracruze2212]

👍

[@lolita960]

Ugh YAWN

[@FilipP88]

Thank you for the video Eileen! Those 3 guys were funny and the couple was interesting haha

[@davidtuer5825]

The couple she interviewed seemed to have a very easy going and comfortable relationship. I liked them. edit:- that was before the money question came up!!!

[@Sc-11111]

Just remembered that if my mom and wife both fall in to water, it’s not a problem at all. Even my wife can’t swim, but my mom is a very good swimmer . So wife will be rescued, before I get there.😅

[@evxlt7645]

Remember be chubby in China means normal in USA

[@doricemichelle3614]

Only in East Asia being Chubby is chubby but outside of that, being chubby is okay, doesn't matter as long as you are healthy

[@ucchau173]

@@doricemichelle3614 south east Asia too(vn , Thailand,laos, ) even vn people is skinny than east Asia people

[@skowlessar4660]

I liked this so much! Most of these men were raised right. 👍😂

[@daviszhu2202]

Listening to the 3 guys' answers, it seems like they're just trolling hard LOL 😂 Sarcasm in Chinese is a little harder to pick up imo

[@lil_wildboar]

Lol the couple was so funny. And the funny thing is even the gurl is answering the questions haha

[@Sisilsmurfjesus]

She seems very domineering.. the guy seems very intimidated.. hahaha

[@kenxd585]

For any other mandarin learning if you slow the speed down u have more time to pause and read the words and characters and put some new connections together

[@taknaknak4957]

😂 even the subtitle is faster wtf, the speaking is fastest

[@Keay9527]

I'm totally different...I learn English by reading you guys comments...🤣🤣🤣

[@carlosneto1275]

Amazing! Not only was the content of this video interesting, but also extremely helpful to my Chinese language skills! I didn`t know that 仪表堂堂 is only used to describe men!

[@chinesegrandpa]

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[@gracesutton1359]

Intresting 😊。

[@ljz7623]

😂😂 True, but it hardly got used in life...

[@Keay9527]

It's a compliment in a serious situation, and most of the time it's used when writing. An expression in ancient Chinese.

[@RealNameNeverUsed]

Wow I didn't expect the men's answer are very wild and diverse in opinions. I was expecting safe answers like the Japanese would give.

[@rodrigoe.gordillo2617]

Chinese people are more open

[@icephoenix3565]

Chinese people are better and more open

[@upthedown1]

Yeah and wouldn't That be boring!

[@lolita960]

@@icephoenix3565 “better”? Try again :)

[@icephoenix3565]

@@lolita960 found the racist!

[@comicrecap3003]

I learnt a new phase today,😂😂 " As long he/she has money"🤣🤣🤣 But, if only you would have asked the question, " Are you ok with marrying a foreign girl?" It would have been more satisfying 😂❤️

[@laur-unstagenameactuallyca1587]

guy at 2:48 is the mose zen, "live and let live" person I've ever seen lol. I aspire to have that type of energy.

[@kieranmcdermott27]

Thank you for continuing the great content, Eileen.

[@Radheshyam-iz5hc]

Guy in grey shirt stole my heart

[@donovandownes5064]

Damn, someone made the song "A Girl Worth Fighting For" a real thing!

[@diyanasalimovna9632]

Just found out your channel and I love this video. I'm currently seeking information related to dating and marriage from Chinese people's perceptions and this one helps me, so thank you! The couple's interactions are cute tho😂

[@9yearsagosomeonecommentedb999]

That guy with glasses and grey jacket is so cute😂

[@bin4709]

I'm just gonna save this guy right here 5:00

[@louisemives]

特别喜欢这个视频！谢谢你，Eileen! 😊😀😊😀

[@Erichiki]

Honestly those three guys were damn funny 😂

[@chikamazri5817]

18:08 right 😂

[@YuuSHiiiN]

4:59 Currently live in Nanchang and I've met this guy in person, lol! Him and the other guys he was working with once stopped me to hand out a flyer and ended up talking for about an hour.

[@Keay9527]

翻译的吗,长句子读起来好累啊.

[@mc_learnvang6794]

Soooooo funny! These answers are hilarious! These guys are so innocent and naive.

[@freakiniilse]

Very nice video, learning Chinese whilst learning social stuff. Most of the guys in the video are very thoughtful I think.

[@autorock1987]

我最喜欢你的街坊视频！感谢你付出的努力💪

[@williamrelue]

I really enjoy your videos. Thanks for all your hard work!

[@laststar8018]

The girl with her boyfriend at 37:34 on the background wanted to have the interview and her boyfriend stoped her 😂😢

[@florencephoebe]

😂😂such an observer 😂ahhh

[@laststar8018]

@@florencephoebe hahahhahahh i really watched that vedio with all of me 😂

[@dukenukem3dgaming]

find yourself a girl/guy who looks at you like how the couple looks at each other

[@vunguyet7733]

Such a deep interview! Thank you 🤗

[@ejlim3335]

30:02 HAHAHA I CANNOT

[@alexandreduhamel-rajhi4170]

Thank you for all the videos. Street interviews are great 😁

[@IntermediateChinese]

Interesting topic. I share it with my foreign friends and we had a great discussion about it.

[@hugodeval8652]

Those 3 are jokers

[@cassa6416]

you are so funny in interviewing them. giving you a like. i like your questions but most men would answer the same on camera and cannot live up to their own standards. i find women on the other hand more generous and forgiving such not caring if the guy is divorced or with kids, have money or no money. then men on the other hand without getting to know the girl will refuse

[@andyatmosphere]

Interesting to hear Chinese guys perspective on beauty and relationships

[@niki4787]

I have the highest respect for men who do not impose standards on the attractiveness of the women they wish to be with. They're becoming increasingly rare these days.

[@LeLeTesoro]

Lol, my thoughts while watching: “That couple picks on each other so much, it must get exhausting & annoying after a while. They probably won’t last long.” Everyone else while watching: “The couple is the cutest! So fun and humorous. They’ll probably get married and continue to joke for the next 70 years.” Just goes to show how many different perspectives and preferences in relationships there are 😆

[@estellehuang1475]

2:50 我喜欢他！除对抽烟的话题之外，我们有同样的想法！ 视频很有意思！

[@maxmitin8491]

我也喜欢他。对我来说，最舒服啊

[@elisabeth73]

This is great for training to understand casual conversations. Thank you!

[@silveriver9]

Which city did the interviews take place?

[@elisabeth73]

@@silveriver9 Nanchang city in Jianxi province

[@bananaart6481]

3:05 this guy and the couple had the best answers in my opinion

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[@rotten_orang3]

Wait I'm crushing over that pretty guy who has glasses and grey jacket on and yeahh has a cutest smileeeee.Aaahhh exactly my type😭😳 Wish he could notice me☹️

[@levac912]

"I LIKE HAPPY GIRLS" If you dnt treat her right, the happy girl will disppear.

[@KingOfThePirates101]

What kind of guys do chinese guys like? It would be a much more interesting question to ask. 😆

[@Erik_Escriche]

Hahahaha, I want to know that too!

[@KingOfThePirates101]

@@Erik_Escriche Right. I was like not all Chinese guys like girls. I do know some Chinese guys that like guys.

[@kky-jd3xj]

@@KingOfThePirates101 I think it would be kinda hard to find specifically queer men to interview in China, since it's a very private topic and you wouldn't just go around asking random guys "hey do you like other men?". It would be interesting to do maybe a Q&A about LGBT in China though.

[@independentx0x0]

I love how the guy in glasses and grey jacket thinks, realistic and not traditional.

[@ahh3121768]

That guy on the thumbnail is so handsome

[@创造未来]

你好，我觉得你的采访挺不错的，希望能够让更多外国人看见真实的中国，现在一些外国媒体有事没事曲解中国，特别是BBC一挂的，希望有更多外国人通过学中文了解中国

[@ttyaaa]

37:48 his answers are literally the best, idk why people barely mention him in the comments

[@ebsfbs]

After watching a few Mandarin learning videos youtube recommended this video to me :))) But, it was so funny to watch. Thanks to the youtuber's good questions.

[@kalakalachuchu]

More like this. Content is long too. Love it

[@Mi-yj2pp]

the couple is so funny

[@MrRomanrin]

3:39 she looks so young and cute :3

[@mxd-1990asn]

Similar answers to my male cousins , all Asian guys. (almost all members of my family live in Thailand and we are a ethnically Thai-Chinese mixed family) the wifes they have now vary from average skinny to chubby, most of my female cousins also dont have big boobs either except for very very few (and that was mainly ONLY bcs they got pregnant before) . I think what the guys answered isnt realistic for china , the women there usually dont have huge boobs (mostly from A cup to B cup). and especially no natural double eyelids etc (but ofcourse many get surgery done now anywhere around southeast and east asia, mostly nose jobs, boob jobs and double eyelids). The only thing i notice with all people living in east and several countries of southeast asia is the liking to CUTE girls (my female cousins all more or less try to be that way too... ideals etc are obviously different from example the US or Europe). Females often on the other side like cute things. At least thats my observation as a asian (thai-chinese mixed) who visited china a few times before, maybe its different from region to region (so im only speaking for the places i visited). AND ofcourse this isnt the case for all people in china & other countries around the east/southeast asia region, its just what i mostly noticed with specifically China, Taiwan and partly Thailand ,Vietnam, malaysia and singapore (inlcuding also any asians i personally know + my family members)

[@jan-ef1fp]

yea, i don't think you've been in china enough because there's a variety of body types in different regions. there are just as many girls with naturally big chest and double eyelids which can be natural too. like many asians have it, it's just smaller and not as big as a foreigner's double eyelid. but i'm glad you're open minded enough to acknowledge not all of china or east asia is a monolith

[@vanillaann]

😳5:25 this boy is so handsomely cute

[@marwaboutaghane8012]

Shit girl yeah hrheheheh

[@pollyshy]

I like the guy with white t shirt in red wording, he seem genuine

[@exwhalechannel2601]

More of this series please!!

[@jackjonmonaghan8758]

I'm a PhD student in the U.K. and dated a Chinese woman from Jiangsu for many years. In my experience and opinion, people are becoming more relaxed about marriage in general because of the tough socioeconomic factors (increasing real estate, three child policy, long working hours, increasing tuition fees, and simply the fact raising a child is very expensive). Moreover, I do think the average persons life in China is quite hard and stressful. I have much sympathy to be honest. Finally, I think marriage should be based on love. That's the most important thing. This is an interesting video. Thank you.

[@yin_xing]

I agree with you but in this case I am the taiwanese men and she's brazilian. But we're in the same educational level PhD, to ne this is pretty important since we're both university professors

[@bohu1701]

marriage is never based on love. from the very begining of marriage system in history until now, it's based on property rights. if you love someone, you don't have to marry her/him, you can just live with her/him. but if you want to share property with someone, you must marry her/him.

[@jackjonmonaghan8758]

@@bohu1701 Marriage is perhaps quite different in the west. We shouldn't marry someone if we don't love them… How miserable would life be to wake up in the same bed as someone you hate? It's great if you have property or whatever and fall in love and marry, but I don’t think marriage should be purely based on material possessions. After all, we can easily lose everything just as quick as we gained it. Nonetheless, like I stated above I think people are more relaxed about this stuff now, especially considering the tough current socioeconomic factors in mainland China.

[@bohu1701]

@@jackjonmonaghan8758 you can wake up in the same bed with the one you love without marrying her/him. but why do you have to marry?

[@yin_xing]

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[@lalina1304]

This was a fun lesson. 😆

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By watching this, i am more focused with how they use their language.. i wish i know to speak it too.

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Thanks for giving the microphone to men :D it's pleasurable to hear our opinions

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