What life is like with ADHD

[@KishorSridhar72]

Ok, guys, I have to admit...I came across your channel after I met the most lovely and at same for me weirdest woman ever. Then she told me she had ADHD....I saw your videos and O full started understanding. Your videos and books have become our guideline since. I truly learned to sympathize with her, understand challenges and we are so happy. You saved our relationship. We love you guys. Thank you ❤

[@SIRKISSHY]

that is so wonderful!! love that for you two ✨💕

[@ZuerstJesus]

I'm so happy for you! :)

[@KishorSridhar72]

Just today, she told me...she had three meetings with friends yesterday and she promised actually to spend a fun day with me, but she is totally ADHD overwhelmed, and I told her...all is ok, I feel for you, just relax fully today. My old me would have had a hurt ego...why does she spend time with all her friends and today when wanted to out she can't I have to bring her tea to bed. But I embraced and she was the most happiest women, as she finally felt understood thangs to you guys. Really, all you tell is so true and in can be so rewarding to just be understanding

[@ZuerstJesus]

@@KishorSridhar72 Wow, such a cute story! :)

[@KishorSridhar72]

Thank you ❤​@@ZuerstJesus

[@pattie2day]

They should have warned us in advance before that slurping occurred! I went straight into fight-or-flight mode -- aaaggghhh!!

[@shadowfax0240]

The mouth noises 😭😩

[@ADHD_love]

Ahahahahhahaa! That is definitely an oversight on our part! We profusely apologise! 😅😆

[@cechzc2e]

​​@@ADHD_love, nooooo, but you nailed it. For those that aren't neuro-spicey, they need to know. Your vids are an educational beacon, to neuro-boring people, and sources of comedy, for us 'spicy' ones. Inspirational.

[@cechzc2e]

​@@ADHD_love profusely apologising is so adhd too....😂😮😢

[@lfc8277]

The vacuum...😂 And the thought of wrapping up the cord

[@holleighlordel1575]

That’s EXACTLY why I got an expensive cordless vac!

[@TheVibesAreOff]

HATE that cord!

[@maryannedonald8974]

I feel less alone now.

[@ADHD_love]

😂😂😂😂

[@charlotte5671]

Sometimes I put it away and I just shove the cord near it 😂😂

[@Amyjwashere]

“Right now that is where they go” meeeee

[@SC-gp7kt]

VERY important!

[@muchadoaboutkovu]

And again you have taken every struggle I have and made me feel relieved and calmer that it’s not just me! We will have the energy to put the vacuum away tomornextweekend!

[@ADHD_love]

Tomorrownextweekend 🤣👏🤣👏

[@vikkievenden9988]

yep I leave the vacuum out 😂 right where I finished

[@skeletordanzig4999]

Where do I keep the broom? Last room I swept...

[@larisadabeka7387]

It's an amazing reminder of how productive you've been!

[@lisastenzel5713]

You have too much room? I would stumbled and hurt myself 100% of times I would need to go past that. Which would be 20 times a day at least... I don't remember the British homes to be spacious at all...

[@vikkievenden9988]

@@lisastenzel5713 my husband says I leave “man traps”everywhere he’s an amputee and I leave many obstacles out for him poor bugger 😜

[@goldarnit]

The trick I find is to make 'Put Vacuum Away' the final part of 'Do the Vacuuming' in your mind, with a hefty side-dose of 'GTF Away From Me Vacuum I'm Finished With You' to make it feel positive. Like, the vacuuming is DONE, I don't want to look at that thing anymore.

[@raea3588]

Can I hug you for knowing, for getting it and for putting it out there so well. To be seen is a gift and when you make these videos I don't know if I'm going to laugh because it's relatable or cry from the relief that someone knows ❤ ❤

[@ADHD_love]

You can crylaugh laughcry if you like. Feel it alllll. 🩵

[@raea3588]

@@ADHD_love Bless! ❤ Thank you so much ☺ Both of you!

[@Jay-ql4gp]

I buy multiple copies of the same clothes so that when one wears out, I still have some. Becuase of all the times I've found out that the company stopped making it. _Or_ ...they make the new ones different than the old ones and I hate them.

[@richardemerson8075]

Exactly this

[@soulcenterhealinghypnosis]

Slurping, chowing, clicking, tapping, whistling, banging... and the dog licking itself...I'm out 😂xxx

[@maryannedonald8974]

All my life slurping and chewing were the worst. All of those sounds really. Banging traumatizes me. I feel less unreasonable now.

[@LadyRenira]

Don't forget scratching. 😵‍💫

[@VickiRiley-jx5zp]

My place is an utter disaster, but I can't clean it because I will lose everything!! 😄 I call it "organized chaos".... just like my life. 😉😁 LOVE y'all!! ✌💚💙🤗

[@lynn6462]

❤ Same!... 😊

[@TheVibesAreOff]

"Right now, that IS where they go" 😂👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 Too frickin true!! Why don't you ever TELL us you've tidied our pile?!

[@penrar]

Slurps are banned!!!

[@pattie2day]

I'm still shuddering from that one second of slurping in my headphones! 😂😱😱

[@saraquill]

Hearing that woke up years’ worth of flashbacks.

[@johnfloden6406]

Also smacking when chewing. That one drives me crazy!

[@lynn6462]

Gosh I love you two! You're awesome and amazing and made me realise that I'm not quite as mad as my friends say I am! ... Thanks guys... ❤ 😊

[@jukatol745]

I’ve been suspecting for a while now that I have ADHD.. the algorithm suggested your videos and I am just so flabbergasted as to how much I relate to every single thing! It’s a relief to see that I’m not lazy or stupid, but that there is a name and a diagnosis and other people struggle the same way. Thank you for the work you do ❤

[@janevanderveen5188]

I love how the thumbnail "i think it's mid" and the title "what life is like with adhd" tie in together 😂

[@katzenbekloppt_mf]

Oh, the last one would get an angry look from me too (sorry Rich).

[@lisastenzel5713]

I go one up: I hate slurping myself... I don't get out, what I wanna get out and it's just annoyingly extra air in my mouth and stomach.

[@katzenbekloppt_mf]

@@lisastenzel5713 exactly!!!

[@LibraryAce]

"that IS where they go!" 😂 I saw that one coming bc it's real emptying the vacuum canister so it will be ready next time is also another task. it's a lot to do all 3 things right in a row

[@maryannedonald8974]

Overwhelming in fact

[@JKThom-59]

And I thought I had misophonia! Covering stuff up, like a pile of dirty dishes, me too. Hoovering as multiple tasks is funny, and that must be why it feels like I need to do 5 things before I can accomplish any task. ❤❤😅

[@poida84]

ok this i can relate to..... idk why but lot of what i do 🤣🤣🤣 i always just thought i am wired different hahaha

[@the_algo_rhythm]

Oof ouch owie- my soul. I'm glad I was already double caffeinated and halfway through my other other other to-do list before you came at me so hard.

[@Amy-oo7mm]

My auditory sensory issue is the sound of people chewing. I don't know why, but it absolutely grates on me.

[@johnfloden6406]

While my ADHD symptoms generally align very closely with yours, I don't have all the same. I also present differently from a lot of other ADHD content creators that I've seen. It might be helpful for you to post something to explain that ADHD has a range, with some being more attention deficit and others more hyperactive. Different people will have different symptoms and/or different levels of each. I haven't seen anyone talk much about that. For example, I hit pretty much everything from this video except losing things. I always put my keys, wallet, etc in the same place so I know where they are.

[@Zilitzbeautiful]

I don't have that agony with slurping (love the sound!) but, please, DO NOT rub you EFFING DRY FEET in a SYNTHETIC FABRIC SHEET, thank you.

[@freaxfilm]

I wish to experience how does it feel to find the love that you two found

[@niconoui2736]

I actually bought a second vacuum because I needed one on each floor of my house or else only half of the vacuuming would ever be done. They both have been left out in random spots for months.

[@ryangooseling]

If you aren't in a rush to get laundry done. One of those washers that automatically dryer your clothes are a lifesaver

[@susanne5803]

I am totally confused that I seem to actually really be the first. Love you all!

[@katzenbekloppt_mf]

I understand, it would be quite disturbing to me as well😅

[@cechzc2e]

Omg........it would take me about an hour, to describe everything in this video, to describe to the T, the exact same scenario. Bullet pointing adhd, is so good for showing others what we go through. I personally think that we are normal, and everyone else is compromised, it seems easier to rationalise it that way...😂

[@lalunacee9168]

Love this.... as I've just piled stuff in a corner and put a nice white foam board in front of it. So white and fresh to hide my mess in use 🙃

[@SC-gp7kt]

So relatable!

[@joeyjojo84]

OMG the hoovering one, yes! If I spill something on the floor and grab a tea towel to clean it up. That tea towel will stay on the floor indefinitely because picking it up and putting it in the laundry is a whoooole other task.

[@AprilTheRockStar]

I have seven of the same Amazon brand shirts (3 black, 1 navy, 1 olive, 1 light grey, 1 dark grey) that I wear any time i leave my house. I haven't worn another shirt outside, apart from going to the gym, in over a year, i don't think 😆

[@Autodidactz]

Bahahahaaaa. Oh how I love you guys. This one was sooooo funny.

[@steffersonairplane]

“Put it away,” excuse me but how dare you 😂

[@Annabellevazquezlopez]

Hi there! You guys are great and I love watching your videos! On a random note. I know that it was said that Rich is autistic but Rox I keep getting Audhd vibes from you all the time. I was wondering if that something you’ve explored?

[@skittles2055]

😄🙌 yesss 0:20-0:31

[@angnoesberger]

Hoovering = 1 task Putting the hoover away = second task, no energy for that one...that's me🙈

[@ReinaElizondo]

😂❤ oh no too relatable

[@Dee17]

Not me watching this video just vacuumed the house and the vacuum cleaner still not put away 🤣

[@veritysmart]

I love a good slurp 😂 are you even enjoying your cuppa if you haven’t slurped.

[@teadrinkerfication9160]

The hoovering one is so real 😂 I mean they all are but especially that one

[@elbasset7214]

I thought I was the only 1 that did the chopping board thing

[@janedoex1398]

Why , why is this so reltable ? ❤

[@dcphillips1991]

The panic as you up tunr the entire house as you've lost your house keys, for them to turn out to be in your pocket 😅

[@Yukosan13]

Honestly, Adhd or not.. if you find a favorite shirt then definitely buy more than one.. I got the perfect work shirt that doesn't wrinkle and had pockets, have one in nearly every color.. and when my favorite shop makes another I just have to buy❤

[@lisastenzel5713]

0:38😮 I do that too, but cos I am never sure... whether or not I look alright in something. I never have anyone with me during shopping. Cos they all wanna go when it's packed as hell and I can't just go when I am done with the people 😡😤 Also I hate the fashion... when I know there is something good gone after the season...I buy as much as my budget lets me. So I stock up for like a few years 😁😅

[@misspat7555]

Yep, once something finds a home, there better be an absolutely critical reason to move it! No sense in trying to put it elsewhere; I’ll never find it again! Also, a task for us being about 1/10 of a task for those without ADHD! This all seems so normal, though I know it isn’t! 😅

[@FringePrincess]

He’s got his boba squishy fidget!

[@Lindalindali]

The hoover has been standing where i last used it for a while now ...

[@TheWhistlingkettle]

I too have two brains. When i had my brain scan i was so disapointed that they only found one of them the other must have been hiding.

[@saraquill]

I resemble most of this.

[@thehomelesshebrews]

100% me ALL THE WAY!! ❤

[@Leshantra]

You know what is even worse than someone tidying up your stuff and putting it where it should belong? Having to move spontaneously and not knowing which box contains what and being to overwhelmd to do the search... Thankfully, just buying new trash bags IS a reasonable option, since, they are being used up anyway.

[@BigyetiTechnologies]

ADHD in France is called TDAH, as in T-DAH!!

[@sheolcodemonkey4027]

"I think it's because I don't like doing laundry" Fucking... my 5 identical plain black tops from H&M and I would like to have a word with you about this, because damn...

[@chefykitty]

Oh the slurping! That is a surefire way to press all the wrong buttons

[@hestikleynhans4926]

I own less than 10 pairs of clothing. I have someone come in to clean the house and do the laundry, otherwise it’s just never gonna happen.

[@bradleyhighett-sv6wu]

The clothes thing, check ✔️

[@Groundwater24]

If the vacuum lead gets tangled…..nOOOOOOO *curse the individuals who invented leads & cords*

[@flavia3600]

Now I am wondering if I have ADHD 🤔

[@XGarveyX]

I spent twenty minutes last night looking for the glasses that were already on my face

[@truth-hurts3089]

It's an actual Hoover 😂😂

[@2joynow42]

😂👍✨

[@LOVEANGEL-hm6oj]

all so truue 💀

[@authenticallyadhdwithcarme2203]

😂😂😂

[@juniorthedaffodil963]

I can be really terrible for losing my glasses. Either they've been stuck on my head, or sometimes, I've lost them and I'd start storming around the house like a total maniac throwing a complete tantrum trying to find them. Can't see absolutely nothing what's in front of me, at all, and then I'd pipe up, "What am I going to do, they're just nowhere to be found - somebody must have snook in the house and nicked them because they've gone. It's the only explanation to where they could be." And then, I'll find them.....In my hand. Used to think to myself, I've never known anything like this.....What an absolute simpleton, I am. Then I'd get upset because I'd feel like an utter trollop for not knowing they were in my hand all along. 🥹🥲😭 And the hoover, I can't stand hooving. Hoovering my stairs are the worst, i think it's because i can't just whiz around at speed and get it done like the rest of the carpet-y parts in my house, so it gets on my wick having to do my stairs, dead bad. I just leave it half the time until the dog hairs and crumbs start looking like a layer of top soil has been put down....😅 Hate wrapping the cord too, most boring thing, ever! Same as waiting for the tap to fill the kettle up, I blast both taps together to fill it, otherwise it's like waiting until doomsday, else, and i still stand there saying, "Come on, hurry up." It really does bother me just standing at the sink until it decides to fill up. 😅