What My Wife Really Thinks

[@sixpinkoneblue]

There is absolutely nothing wrong with having some solar panels to make life comfortable. You're still off-grid, you're still being self-sufficient, you're still building and living the life you want. You want your wife and daughters to be comfortable beyond what you have. Your home is growing out of love and that's always wonderful.

[@petepeterson4540]

and if he isn't he can always rig up a bike with 12 v dc generator to charge batteries more work but will keep him in shape

[@willierants5880]

I have no issues with any choice Shawn makes. This is his cabin and way of life. I think even off grid you need some form of means to generate/produce electricity. I have no issues with solar, batteries, etc. Heck wind and even larger permanent solar panels and a battery bank would be perfectly fine in my book.

[@jeff6899]

@Sixpink ...Nice thoughtful comment, my friend...blessings this Holiday season to you & your family !

[@BoneBGone]

people who think that selfsufficient means you HAVE to live like the amish people are pretty stupid :D electricity makes stuff much easier and you dont have to focus some things so you can focus on more important things so why not automate stuff you can? :D

[@oldtimerlee8820]

As much as we hate to admit it, there comes a time in life, when these "comfort" things become even more important. Approaching 75, I can't split a lot of wood anymore. Maybe enough for a campfire, but certainly not enough to heat our home. Grew up with wood heat and pulling water from a well, one bucket at a time. Today, I appreciate having a faucet and a flush handle. Allows me to stay in my home! Lord, willing, Shawn and his wife, will reach an age, where what they put into their homestead today, will be what keeps them there when wood splitting becomes too difficult to do each day.

[@hunkychunky27]

My mom makes quilts and I can tell you to have someone make a quilt for you is a real act of love as it takes a lot of time to make one. It's beautiful by the way.

[@shiloh45eth]

Yes. It is beautiful work.:-)

[@willierants5880]

Agreed and that is a very nice quilt. It'll look great in the cabin either on the bed or on display.

[@maureensmith4451]

My mother does too. She is 84 and I don’t know how many beautiful quilts she’s made, 100’s. I still look at it as magic. That is how I feel about this channel too. Building here reminds me of my mother making quilts. Creative and personal.

[@roberthudson6284]

I love this man and his dog. I've got nothin to send him but thanks. That quilt is beautiful.

[@e2renee]

Chuck Redhill it looked like every patch was worked. Truly beautiful!

[@Laurie_Tinsley]

My husband and I both had different dreams...He wanted to live on a homestead/farm and I wanted to live on a houseboat. After we found out that my husband had terminal cancer I decided his dream was more important than mine. I have to say I actually love living on our homestead. Caring for the livestock brings me a pleasurable and rewarding experience. I love being able to raise our own food and living in a cabin style home has been really fun to decorate. Being surrounded with trees and away from the city life has been peaceful and way less stressful. Hopefully in time your wife will feel the same as I do. I am so glad that I can spend the last days with my husband living his dream.

[@blackmanops3749]

You're a good woman. I hope he appreciated your sacrifice.

[@wadepg]

You touched my heat Laura. God Bless you both.

[@donnamount151]

Great Life...

[@moonlesslamb]

Made me cry so selfless 🥰🥰🥰

[@danielmorse6597]

I am happy for you.

[@iahelcathartesaura3887]

That quilt is gorgeous. And meaningful, heartfelt. Wow.

[@jaxdaniels1562]

I love your videos, I love your honesty, I love how you can talk to us and show your vulnerability without hesitation. You are a good man Shawn James!

[@worldpeace42069]

I second that!

[@nakithompson5303]

I totally agree.

[@rnupnorthbrrrsm6123]

Agree.....I wish I was his wife !!!

[@siminghalehtaki6083]

@@rnupnorthbrrrsm6123I agree too

[@gjef9971]

Well said.

[@thetimeisnow.2420]

Towards the end of the video ,you sounded nervous, apprehensive and confident at the same time about wifey moving in. It shows you care about her needs. That's a real man.

[@thomaspayne6866]

Wants*

[@l.anthony1]

Build her a She Shed.

[@janethartwig774]

While he may care about his wife’s needs, something important didn’t happen because as of July 2020 his wife has left for a more civilized, bug free, life.

[@ortneybrown4320]

Forget about us for a minute and focus on your wife. You've got one heck of a support system between your girls, and your wife. We will be here rooting for you both. Keep up the great work. You're a great man. Love your videos.

[@catsincredulous9998]

He's got a lot more minutes and hours in the day than what he puts into the video. I'm sure he's going to be fine.

[@WayWillow]

So you're running away from your understanding wife and the life she wants for her and your children. Your remote lifestyle is not condusivevto raising social children and the opportunities that fosters. Good luck.

[@3611136111]

gorgeous quilt ... what a talented quilt maker!!!

[@willierants5880]

Agreed

[@davemi00]

My sister in law makes Quilts. That was very time consuming & nice !

[@reemclaughlin4260]

I’d like to buy one. Would she have any interest?

[@kathleenfredrickson8593]

I’m an old lady who watches you but has little experience with this lifestyle. I have, however, felt the pull between living a conventional family lifestyle and the need to live in the wild and explore the adventures of solitude. I used to watch and read Proeneke and imagine what it might be like. However, I am not capable like you are and was a dreamer instead of a doer. I like to live through the adventures of others though, and I am glad you are finding ways to make it work with your family, whatever that works out to mean. You are definitely a treasure!

[@lizcaporicci8483]

Hello Kathleen. I am also a retired female and enjoy these videos for the same reason you do. My most favourite song that we sang in grade 3 was entitled: Land of the Silver Birch, home of the beaver" The wild allures me, but I am also at a stage where I could not participate, yet I love to watch these energetic gentleman brave it out in the cold. This feels very nice to share one's feelings with another. Bye for now

[@deboraherchul4036]

That is so nice the way you open the mail and present the gifts you receive. It is a very nice and polite thing to do.

[@Acadian.FrenchFry]

That quilt was gorgeous! So many thoughtful and lovely gifts.

[@lynnwoods4965]

As a quilter I am amazed that one of your followers sent you a beautiful handmade quilt. Reading the other comments regarding the quilt I agree with them that it was an act of love that it was sent. I hope you cherish it.

[@LB-eh5fz]

Lynn Woods agree quilts can take a year to make and sell for many hundreds of dollars,,,I have several I paid $1,200.00 dollars for each

[@patodaful]

L B interested in beautiful homemade quilts? A friend of mine makes them and is willing to sell... let me know, i will send you her details.

[@jonothandoeser]

When a person gives you a handmade quilt, they give you a part of themselves.

[@lynnwoods4965]

@Snow Angel KZbin has lots of videos on quilting I would start there. I originally taught myself from reading books long before the internet. When you said they use sewing machines at the local classes are they using the machines to piece the tops? I sew my tops by machine and then I hand quilt it. You should go to a class and check it out. They may be able to help you get started. Also check to see if your area has any quilt groups, try posting on Facebook to see if anyone knows of a local quilt group.

[@carylhalfwassen8555]

Snow Angel In your community there is probably a quilting quild group that meets regularly and includes members of all experience levels and styles. They offer meetings and speakers and opportunity for exchange of information. There is a modest annual fee usually.

[@1minigrem]

Sounds like you have a good marriage, built on compromise and respect along with plenty of personal space. Good for you both.

[@salomewilson9032]

Mr. James, everything you said you wanted to do to make life more comfortable for your wife weoulld be things i would want a husband to do for me. I don't know your wife's age but I'm 60 yrs old and I know I want life easier, not harder. I know she will enjoy and appreciate those changes/additions you talked about. God bless

[@itsmekaren1884]

What a beautiful quilt!!!! Absolutely amazing and so heartfelt from one stranger to another. This person has taken minutes-and hours out of their life to make you such an incredible gift with no expectations in return..

[@heatherpage2237]

Thanks for sharing your life with us. Such a blessing as we all shift our thoughts and lives to what really matters in our near future.Glad for your example.Prayers and thanks

[@mrwes100]

Shawn, you’re so humble and appreciative- don’t ever change brother.

[@foertzeg00]

Indeed! He is very fascinating!

[@ernabueing4250]

Love that quilt you received.........so beautiful............

[@gdsadventures8166]

It’s troubling you more than you suggest my friend. Your voice tells a different story in this video. Do what you need to do for both you and your wife to stay happy, forget us for a minute. We will stay watching whatever happens because you are an awesome guy

[@dexterweb]

I had the same feeling. You can see from his bodylanguage and voice tone that its a troubled decision. But I'm sure you both will find a solution

[@allengrant]

@@dexterweb : Agreed. I noticed as well. Hopefully, I'm wrong, but starting at 14:25, body language, lack of eye contact, carefully searching for the right wording, speaking of 'man cave' & modern features (that he doesn't seem thrilled about), etc..... seems to affirm your observation. A precarious situation, to be sure! 'Course I'm old, what do I know ??

[@wwaxwork]

Change is always scary, I think people are reading too much into it. It sounds like they are both willing to work toward a compromise & support each other which is healthy.

[@DIGPLatinodriftking1]

Here here

[@niyadapanpreecha1225]

I like your comment. you are an awesome person too.

[@cplrey]

Shawn: If you really don't need a quilt on your bed at this time, I can tell you from personal experience that they really make great wall hangings and look great on log walls! You must have really impressed the sender as the quilt she sent to you is both gorgeous and well made!

[@gerrie2477]

at the cabin you are living the exact life SO many of us wanna live but for one reason or another is not possible. we live vicariously through you when you share how you spend your time alone at the cabin . . we get to go along for the ride. it is very special and you truly have no idea how therapeutic your videos really are . . they really do save some of us.

[@BA-yo3vz]

Thank you so much for being so open and honest. I’ve been following you for a long time. A Canadian woman in her late fifties who came upon your station by accident and I’ve stayed ever since. I never knew that I would be so interested in your adventures and watching you build this lifestyle. I had asked in other vids some questions on what your wife thinks of all this and you delivered with this honest reflection of how she’s fairing and not knowing what the future holds. None of us know these things. Wishing you and her much success and good health and I’ll keep watching as always to see it unfold. I’m Always proud to live in this wonderful country and you showcase it so beautifully. Take care.

[@TheMrAshley2010]

+

[@ellebelle8515]

Sounds so much like me :)

[@hanginlaundry360]

Same here, in Wisconsin! 👋❤

[@JustinBarbournlexplorer]

Really appreciate the shout-out Shawn . Enjoy the book, hope it keeps you hungry for the woods and waters. All the best from Newfoundland. Keep er going

[@ksharpe8137]

OMG! What an awesome gift...a handmade quilt! I’m a quilter and I KNOW how much work goes into making one. And, it is absolutely gorgeous. You were blessed to receive such a gift!

[@robinr1714]

That quilt is absolutely beautiful!

[@KM-Mink]

I love how considerate you are of your wife's and children's comfort and privacy. I watched you dig the foundation and build your cabin and some of your add ons. I was so incredibly impressed with your strength, knowledge, and endurance. I think everything you have built is so very unique and cozy and very sturdy. I love it. I wish more men were as capable as you are. I was already subscribed to your Self Reliance channel, but I just subscribed to this channel I didn't know existed. I love the intimacy of this setting very much. 💜 Many blessings of peace and safety to you and your family.

[@graceandglory1948]

I am positively blown away by the beautiful and very generous gifts you have received. How blessed you are.

[@highenergyog]

Hello Shawn , I just finished making and having dinner with my wife , now I'm having coffee and watching your latest video . Life is good.

[@linedanzer4302]

The quilt is beautiful. She even captured your bear! I crochet while watching your channel since your channel makes me relax and be still.

[@linedanzer4302]

@Stephanie LeDuc Vanderyacht Love it. Watching Shawn's channel I have crocheted 58 beanies and 22 scarves and 8 shawls! LOL! I feel like a spider with that yarn! Glad someone else is "hooked" on crochet like me.

[@CherylSimser]

Shawn, your videos bring me joy! You are living the life I have always wanted. I am now 66 and as life can do it threw me a lot of curves. My son and I were having a discussion about afterlife and I told him I didn't know. However, if there was one, he could think of me living in a log cabin.(with all the wonders of nature) He replied that if there was an afterlife, I wouldn't need a log cabin and I responded that I would have one, regardless. I truly enjoy your self reliance, respect for nature, and your love of family. :)

[@MizzzTake]

Dont let this one go Shawn! Having a spouse who loves you just as you are, loves you enough to 'let you go' so to speak, speaks volumes about her. She's a rare one buddy, build her a hydro electric system, where you harvest and purify rain water for her lion foot bathtub that you heat with your hydro system. This channel should be your 'Ode to joy' channel for your wife and we get to watch you guys' love story 😇

[@ladyofthemasque]

I've been in the midst of finally getting my own house sold, so you & your wife have my deep sympathies on the cleaning & clearing out, the downsizing, the choosing (sometimes all too rapidly) through what to keep and what to sell or donate. With that said...I think it's both brave and wonderful of you to open up about these things. You're leading by example. You clearly feel there is nothing wrong, and everything right, with being able to change plans, make compromises, and have a close, loving, and utterly healthy relationship between two people who aren't identical in tastes and needs (since it's healthy to have your own interests as well as common interests with your beloved). That's a really good role model for other relationships to emulate, even if the actual details will be different in their own lives. You're both willing to try, both willing to bend a little, and both willing to realize that these things make you stronger, not weaker, as a couple. And you, Shawn, are exemplary in your emotional strength, being willing to share these things for the sake of others.

[@DillRidge]

ladyofthemasque I once heard a quote I never forgot, “Every marriage has its own dance.” I love that.

[@Jeff-jg7jh]

@@markv151 Yes.

[@UnNoSeQue2]

when I was growing up my parents were always together and living in the country, raising their chickens, farming, fishing, and their children. That was the life my father loved so much, but my mother not so much. Later on they came into an agreement when my mother moved to the city to be with my brothers, that my mother will live in the city permanently, and my father will go to visit them once a month to see them and buy supplies. All his life my father refused to go live in the big city. He just hated to be away from nature, and his wonderful and simple life. This arrangement worked, they were married for over 65 years, they love each other till the end.

[@marthaadams8326]

What a beautiful story. Every one seems to have some perfect picture of what a marriage is - but is respect and caring for the needs of each other and your parents demonstrated that.

[@elsamartins9076]

That's love and respect.... beautiful story!!!! No man's like that enymore...lol

[@Lajos279]

There is a beautiful verb that says: "You should not compare a good marriage with 2 people constantly living in the same room, but with 2 people, each living in their own room, but with their doors constantly wide open."

[@lks572]

We are all cheering in the background for you and your wife. A new chapter, part of a great life story. Best wishes.

[@Skyliner03]

You are absolutely amazing when it comes to building and everything you have done, I have watched from the beginning how you built a log cabin and the only thing I could do is be amazed at your determination, improvisation, experience and still find time between building, I play with Cali, cook the food and I could go on. And I'm not talking about the weather, whether it's hot, rainy, cold ... you're just great and I'll continue to watch you. RESPECT (note: sorry for my english, so I help myself a bit with google translator)

[@thrivingnow7843]

Are you for real? Nature lover, considerate husband and father, a neat and well organized man, takes care of tools and things, very self reliant .....not to many men out there who are all the aforementioned. Nice commentary.

[@ShawnJames1]

Lol, thanks.

[@tyrarenae3486]

He's a blessed man! I admire men like him who loves, provides for, and takes care of his family- humble, hard-working, and handsome!

[@fongyow6583]

@@tyrarenae3486 handsome n beyond awesome photography skills - I was sure it was all faked but nah..James can actually be real. Just rare though, only met cads so far..

[@mtn_linda364]

I think Shawn humbly underestimates his wife's devotion to him. She agreed to give up the house so I'm sure she is a real trooper.

[@tyrarenae3486]

@@WarriorGoddessSubliminals His wife's no fool ! 😉She's a very smart woman! She's moving out to the cabin with this perfectly awesome man who adores her! I dont blame her! I'd haul ass down there to be with him too!! 🕵

[@adelacoburn1396]

Wow.... BEAUTFUL quilt

[@lynndelduca4399]

The quilt that u received is beautiful !!!! Alot of hard work and a tremendous amount of of time to create that piece of art !!! Nice !!!🇨🇦🤗

[@johnkaimins9998]

I heard advice years ago that stopped me in my tracks and made me think. Happy Wife ~ Happy Life. Blessings to you both.

[@carylhalfwassen8555]

john kaimins I think wife here will be happiest, not necessarily happy though, living as she wants to. He will be supremely content without her presence in his “man” world but nostalgic about their past relationship. Not a criticism, an objective observation. It is what it is. They will each move on, have tender thoughts for each other, come together for family events but live separate lives going forward.

[@limnancy5146]

I just stumbled upon your series and it has been addictive- the grit you have, your carpentry skills and the beauty of your country. Just beautiful.Been watching your series for more than 8 hours :-)

[@lindsaylittle6535]

Shawn, after 42 years of marriage, it was my wife's idea to move to the woods. Go figure. Marriage is all about compromise, and there is nothing wrong with it. I think the mutual respect we have an you have for your wife show through. Glad Cali was in the video also. (what a neat companion) . Winter storm up here this Thanksgiving week. Our log cabin is snug, so let it snow. More splitting wood for the days ahead. Greetings from the Arrowhead of MN!

[@jasonreid611]

Man, sometimes you think the world has little civility left and then you watch someone put a quilt together like that...

[@glamygirlie6829]

Work of love.

[@daisylatu6196]

Kind donations that's from the heart keep it up.

[@riff2072]

The quilt looks nice enough for a wall hanging.

[@kirkdustin3930]

Not sure how this awesome display of privacy can have SO many "thumbs down", for goodness sakes! Love y'all Shawn, Cali, & family. Thanks SO very much for all you do. God is so awesome and has blessed y'all with good health & strength, & LOVE! 🎣🔥🏊🌳❤️

[@calvinlawrence1250]

I am very late watching this video but overly touched about the support in the community. The hand made gifts are so deeply moving. Thank you for sharing your life and keep the videos coming. Blessings.

[@robcondit8488]

Thank you for being vulnerable and honest. From previous videos I have sensed an unease with the arrival of your wife. To me it seems you are following your souls path and there is no doubt about the love for your wife and children. I'm undecided whether improving the amenities will make it easier, I'm also curious what she will be doing with her time. We shall see, I've truly enjoyed watching your journey and truly appreciate you sharing it with all of us. BTW, I knew there was no way she was walking to the out house at minus 20, lol!

[@sandravanlankvelt7975]

I am a quilter here and that is a beautiful "lap quilt" perfect size for sitting in a chair with your feet up and reading a book. A labor of love and many hours to make what a blessing. Wow beautiful knife. So many beautiful GIFTS from people that really appreciate your video's, your vision and your gift of love for nature and creating. Thank you Shawn for sharing with the world....your world. God's blessings.

[@Robin-eu8ve]

Home made quilts are priceless.I love that yeti bag.That's great for grocery shopping.Thanks Shawn ps.You're a lucky man to have such a great family.Make that back room a bathroom for your wife.

[@robertpotter5810]

You're a good person, Shawn. Thank you for all your videos. Obviously you are much loved by so many of us!

[@helenehenson7191]

I wish you and your wife all the best the best for the future.

[@scottm.franklinnc7942]

Thanks for bringing us along... to have your wife and girls support this and to adjust to make your wife more comfortable tells a lot of your character ... 👍

[@ogoodgriefsavournin3563]

'I think your wife understands that it is never a bad thing to reinvent yourself a bit. When we retired, we began taking our motorhome and heading south for 3 or 4 months to escape the winters. One year, returning home, I said,"I dunno ... I might be able to do this full time." "Really?", said hubby. Before we got to our state line he had listed the house with a Realtor. We had been living in my absolute dream home ... an 1841 stone farmhouse, all original and filled with my antiques. I would have spent the rest of my life in that home, watching the world go by. We were close to many of the grandkids, lots of friends ... but husband desperately wanted to travel. So ... I took a deep breath and jumped off the cliff! We spent 5 years living full time on the road in our 40' motorhome and it was the MOST fun I have ever had in my life. BEST leap of faith ever.

[@oldtimerlee8820]

Bravo! Hands clapping. Thank you, on behalf of your husband, for taking that leap of faith. Over the years, my better half and I did that for each other, till the Lord separated us, for the time being. No regrets, when looking back over almost 50 years together. That, IMHO, is what marriage is all about. Thank you for sharing your story. Truly appreciated!

[@Souljahna]

That's a great story. Really inspirational.

[@cynthiastinson7059]

ogoodgrief Savournin I was living in what was supposed to be my forever home too and my husband got a job in Germany. I’m glad I traded safety and routine for adventure too. Best thing for our relationship ever!

[@janethartwig774]

ogoodgrief Savournin Yes, but I’ll bet that motor home had a proper toilet, and screens to keep biting/stinging bugs out.

[@piewhackit2me]

Thats me!I could easily adapt to living in a tiny home/small rv.Long as I got my partner,my dogs,cat,bird.Everything else is just material things.

[@dsop66]

Your wife is a fantastic lady to join you on your adventure Shawn. You can tell by your words how much it matters to you. Bless you sir.

[@lynnepierce3676]

Would like to add, the fact that you’re willing to compromise speaks volumes about the kind of person & man you are. Thumbs up for you and your wife👍👍😊

[@wisconsinfarmer4742]

I do think they will figure it out.

[@kateb6866]

I dream of a husband/ partner that has the same passion for nature and being outdoor as you do...not to mention how capable sand skilful you are with all that you created! Your wife is a very lucky lady :) wish you both all the best ❤️

[@reglindiseckhardt9777]

I just found your videos. I was blown away as |I was raised in Midhurst, just north of Barrie and have lots of friends in Huntsville. I now live in northern Alberta and I miss the bush a lot! Glad I found you (and love watching while I quilt).

[@havecoffeewilltravel3507]

Shawn thank you for being so honest about your wife and accessorizing the cabin for her. I have long wondered how the heck she endures that outhouse in the dead of winter with no heated water. I can imagine that the switching over from a 'pampered' lifestyle to full time 'glamping' (not to mention empty nesting mother) would be an incredible journey. Please consider having a series for her journey too!

[@Missym1986m]

HaveCoffeeWillTravel that would be awesome! I would thoroughly enjoy her opinions and seeing how she transitions

[@LR-vg4et]

yes...the outhouse in winter is probably tough. Especially for a female. 🤷‍♀️

[@tyrarenae3486]

Yes that would be nice !

[@oldtimerlee8820]

HaveCoffee, a FWIW..... I grew up on a farm, family of 7, where using an outhouse was the norm for both male and female. Had a slop jar under the bed for night time emergencies that was emptied on the first morning trip to take care of business. *It is the normal thing to do.* It was the necessary thing to do. Thus, it was simply taking it in stride, as a routine part of life. Gripping and complaining didn't change the fact that the outhouse was there for a purpose. Far better and easier than the more primitive ways of accomplishing that same purpose. BTW, yes, our school had modern plumbing. Appreciated it, while at school. Yet, that didn't make it harder to go to the outhouse, as needed. School was school. Home was home. Home was where I lived and wanted to be, regardless of the plumbing arrangement.

[@fongyow6583]

@@oldtimerlee8820 u r inspirational, lee👌

[@samohtben]

The personal stuff is great! You’re honest and open and that makes all of this much more interesting to watch.

[@suzannegullace965]

Love that quilt!! So beautiful

[@suzannegullace965]

Love these videos! So calming

[@DillRidge]

You’re a good man Shawn. I really enjoyed this video and the sharing of your thoughts about the future and how you care about your wife’s comfort. I hope she can be happy there. I think now that the house sold, (congrats on that too) it’s getting real. January is not too far off. God bless.

[@dorisjonsson7653]

Love howe hard you work like my parentes did and grandparents and so on. Have that chanse to live like that you do its amazing.

[@realology777]

True Words from the heart Sir. I will always respect the genuine kind of man you are being true to yourself !!! Any1 who doesn’t get that has a lot to learn. I can only hope to have the honor of maybe meeting you one day sir. Jason Anthony, Army Veteran Living in Texas! Wishing you nothing but continued happiness and success with your journey, channel, & everyday inspiration.

[@jadesmith574]

The quilt was stunning! I’m sure your wife will love it! Great video Shawn 🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🤗

[@virginiareid5336]

Such beautiful gifts. Your quilt is definitely one of a kind.

[@bobobrien8968]

Your candor, honesty, and even your humour is so appreciated. Like so many have said, you can bring a person out of a funk. You have such a natural gift of gab. I like to chat in a similar way but most of my long time friends have past at an early age and not everyone gets my humour. So thanks for chatting, displaying some of your cool gifts and giving us a bit more knowledge of your plans with your family. I love that you are using Huntsville as a centre for mail etc., simply because it’s maybe my favourite town. Best wishes to you for ongoing happiness, peace and good health.

[@robertlassiter5808]

The quilt was a thing of beauty! There’s just something about a quilt that is comforting.

[@alexandrasalvador9672]

The first time I watched one of your videos, I got intrigued and I really liked it,spontaneous ,effortlessly building your log cabin and you just smiled talking to your dog,it was lengthy but I never skipped or forwarded, it’s just captivating watching you hammering,sawing,gathering logs, it’s relaxing watching your videos, soft spoken,talented man,best of luck!

[@stephanieluigon5192]

With over 1 million subscribers, the overwhelming majority of whom like you almost as much as Cali, you're going to eventually have to say "please, no more gifts". People are generally wonderful, and very giving when the feel a connection, but many do not understand that "lots of stuff" is one of the things about modern life you are trying to escape. You are a terrific guy, Shawn, and I know you'll likely never do that to people, so you had better make the next project the Log Cabin Museum and Storage Facility. About 50' by 30' should do it, with a 12/12 roof pitch to support a South facing solar panel array which will make NASA proud. I estimate that will keep you busy for at least the next 2 1/2 years, and I doubt anyone would criticize you if you went with timber framing instead of the solid logs. God Bless you and your family, and Good luck with the empty nest situation.

[@selfsufficientnic7112]

I thought the same thing, watching this video!

[@mindyvaughn8217]

Stephanie Luigon So well said.💖

[@DatsWhatHeSaid]

@Tony Lopez He has worked and supported his family. He's actually a millionaire, as he stated before. He doesn't need or solicit any of this. Also, it's "Shawn", not "James". In Germany, we have a saying: If you don't know the facts, *shut the fuck up* ..

[@dlspiritdancer9548]

@Tony Lopez what exactly is your problem? Why are you even on this ch.? Are you illegal & finding it quite difficult to hide & prosper? Or do you just not like your life & the poor choices you have made? These reasons, or any other, do NOT give you the right to verbally abuse others (whom you do not even know!). You must be extremely dissatisfied & unhappy with your own life. Everyone can tell by what you are spewing out of that vile mouth of yours. If you can only reply with venom flowing thru your teeth, veins, why do you watch it? We dont like your vibes or jealousy, so pls stay off this ch or at least refrain from sharing your toxicity b/c we DO NOT want to hear it! We come here to share a part of this man's quiet, simple & beautiful life along with his family when he choses to share. So please, people like you do not belong here. You mentioned God but He is far from your heart b/c..."As a man thinkith in his heart, so is he; for out of the abundance of the heart, his mouth speaks." Prov 23:7. Go find a devils ch to spread your negativity & venom. I am sure if you look long enough, you will find one. But it is NOT here! Or better yet give your heart to the Lord Jesus! We dont appreciate your remarks AT ALL, so pls kindly leave & dont let the door hit you in the ass on your way out!

[@71kaye]

@SmellyCat exactly. or he could do a give away to his subscribers after he has gleaned what knowledge he needs from the books or after the tool or gear is no longer needed...lots of options.

[@PerMoritz]

Shawn, I've been watching since day one and I must say that this was one of the most intimate videos you've made. I really appreciate the way you opened up about your relationship, the compromise and the uncertainties. You did it with such class! Brave!

[@the1000master]

it's 1 am here and your videos really help me relax. I love watching them before I go to bed.

[@deborahmouille1442]

What a wonderful sharing experience from you Shawn! Just found you a few weeks ago and watching older videos and enjoying each and every one of them! The video with you and Cali on the camping trip was a joy to watch, amazing photography capturing the essence of who you are! A pleasure to watch! Thanks for sharing your lives with us, it's truly heartfelt! Looking forward to more of your adventures! ;)

[@conniehowe5421]

You are being real and that’s what makes it so special .... it’s great to hear about your family and how important they are ...

[@davemi00]

Gotta hear this ! Honestly - those sauna hats were awesome

[@Ghostiification]

Gotta be a foreigner thing.. Just saying this as a Finn.. Nobody uses hats or any other pieces of clothing in sauna. It's a cool hat don't get me wrong, but it just feels super weird.

[@danaskubic2145]

@@Ghostiification Yes, weird. I use cool water on head when hot in a sauna as most everyone else does. Cute hats though .

[@noocemiller6005]

I Googled “sauna hats” and they seem to be Russian. Funny looking things!

[@davemi00]

Nooce Miller - Lol, it must be a long cold walk, to russian saunas 🥶

[@TheKatelinn]

@@Ghostiification as a Norwegian, we use badstu, which is the same as sauna..I have never seen those hats either. Yeah, looks strange, but cool hats.

[@frederickmoller]

It's all good Shawn, family is first I agree, and I think that most of us agree that we will follow you which ever way that you choose. Besides, electricity and internet rock IMO, thanks for sharing your thoughts, it's appreciated.

[@joansommerfield8419]

A very heartfelt video, Shawn. I don’t know how long I have followed, but have found great solace in all of this as I miss the cold snowy winters of Michigan, forests and lakes and the smell of the pines and other things too numerous to mention. Of course viewers know you don’t film everything about your life, but I have been concerned for awhile about the adjustment for both you and your wife as she comes into what essentially had been your space. For most women making a home is part of her DNA and it will interesting to see how this plays out. Also leaving a more social life in town may be a relief or it could leave a great void. It sounds like you have both learned the art of being thoughtful and supportive of one another and I trust you will find a way to navigate these new waters. The gifts you were sent are very touching and indicative of how these channels touch people. A friend used make beautiful quilts and I know the one sent to you must have taken countless hours. A lovely and thoughtful gift. Blessings to you, Shawn, your wife, and Cali.

[@mrwes100]

Joan Sommerfield I thought it was one of his best videos. IMHO.

[@mikeklamer9322]

people are so nice. i am hooked on your building and lifestyle . im stuck working at 65 wishing i could be like you.

[@bcb2585]

You are living my dream. Even if I have to, for now, live it vicariously through you, I still feel a certain satisfaction watching these videos and imagining I am there in your place. Your videos are inspirational, and provide a feeling of purpose and well being. Thank you for sharing your experiences with us. I hope your wife supports your vision, and also manages to stay true to her goals in life.

[@sheilarogers2771]

He is living my dream too. It sounds like his wife supports him as an individual but she is not "the outdoorsy" type....which is too bad because she may not have a desire to be in the wilderness for long periods of time. I hope she can adjust as he has put in a lot of time and effort. They'd likely have a longer life together in nature as it is not only beautiful but very healing....they'd also be in connection with the Earth's Schuman's resonance.

[@willierants5880]

That quilt is AMAZING!

[@avatarofenlightenment386]

I started off in a cabin without electricity and eventually, with pressures of a young family, went the complete route of electricity, septic tank, proper foundations, lights, the works. It is inevitable. The charm of living in the 18th century wears off soon enough. If we want to go back to the 18th century, all we have to do is wait for the inevitable power failures. Then it is back to lanterns and pulling water from the stream.

[@lynnereed3677]

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[@jmartin2778]

Had a feeling you were in the Huntsville area. I've been to Dotty Lake, ON many times. That's some beautiful country up there. Thanks for taking us along.

[@crispy63]

mrjoeyzaza I’ve been having fun trying to find where the cabin is located. Think it’s near Dotty Lake in the P1H postal zone. Google Maps are old so it’s near impossible to figure it out. One day I will 😊

[@jameswulzen590]

you have come a long way since i started watching you 2 years ago. I live in a very rural area of the Bic Island of Hawaii, I'm in a wheelchair after having 3 strokes in December of 2018, but i'm on my way back to walking as soon as I can. Your show helps me overcome my situation and gives me extra drive to keep going, I'm 80 soon to be 81 in July. Aloha Nui Loa

[@sharonb.7867]

What you shared in this video about your wife is a testament to the strength of your love as a couple and your willingness to sacrifice your dreams for each other. It is beautiful. God bless you both as you find your way in this path that demonstrates TRUE LOVE - sacrificial love! I haven't watched in a while, but so glad I caught this one!

[@riff2072]

The sauna hat is a good thing. Your head will heat up faster than the rest of your body. The felt hat insulates it from the heat allowing your core body to heat up without you 'feeling' over heated. That was a thoughtful and good gift. +1 Ricardo

[@fromcalifornia2822]

To find out where one’s passion (outside what we do because of the business of living) it helps to reflect on what one did as a kid, when given the choice - say after school. With that said, there is probably a way to augment your property to support your wife’s, maybe yet undiscovered passion. For example, would the wife like an art or craft studio, a gathering place for women in your area, a place to play music, or maybe a personal library. Looking upon the changes as a unique and great opportunity to attend to a passion, instead of, or in contrast to what is being given up (creature features) seems to be the way to go. I for one as a ceramics (Potter) would love to play with every aspect of the art, whether it be building ones own kiln all the way to digging ones own clay and even sorting through natural events to make glazes. Or, maybe your wife would like to become a herbalist, or who knows what? The point is, there is so much opportunity ahead for her there. Hope you both capitalize on a cross section of opportunities you have and haven’t even considered yet. That said, for every age and mindset, this has got to be the best channel on KZbin. It surely gives so many a place to go to for relief from the complexities and hassles of life. And, who doesn’t love nature, building a dream, the peace that comes through your channel - AND Callie? Yup, you might have to build an art, music, craft or some other studio, and maybe sooner than you think. 😂

[@annecasillas5402]

I agree, and being from California, I double agree! Do what makes you both happy and celebrate the differences as you both age together! Much love from California to Shawn and family and to you From California! 😘💜😘💜😘

[@bayridge3569]

I hope it works out for you, a lot of times women leave you high and dry in the best of circumstances, never mind this different lifestyle. We all know you're going to to accommodate your love and her needs to the best of your ability. Good luck and God bless, good things happen, but genuine and real love is the main ingredient in all of this

[@robertinebuckley4245]

From California well said!👏👏👏

[@lauracornwell3370]

My husband just found out he is losing his job. We have dreamed of living in a place not as off grid as your cabin, but certainly without the sounds of highway traffic and visible neighbors. I'm worried about taking the correct steps to find our dream as well. When you spoke of economic downturns coming recently I couldn't help but agree. We are in our early sixties. We are even looking at Canada as a possibility to move to from the United States. It will, however, rely on him finding a position in the energy sector. Specifically the way Canada is pursuing Molten Salt nuclear power plants. The world is evolving and the United States just seems to be an empire in decline.

[@DK-jd8bj]

Canada is in Decline also along with every other country. Pick your poison.

[@LR-vg4et]

Why is America in a decline?

[@4philipp]

Downsize and simplify your life. Sometimes negative events open doors in our decision making process. If you really want this or a similar lifestyle, you can do it. The world is indeed changing.

[@lauracornwell3370]

@@DK-jd8bj Yes. Preferably poison with a job.

[@lauracornwell3370]

@@4philipp I totally agree. We are indeed using this as a way to live in a smaller space with less stuff.

[@queenlioness7056]

I hope your wife and daughter will enjoy the home you built by home, from scratch. It's amazing to see it come together. One can appreciate being closer to nature. God bless.

[@earlenepeterson8065]

The gift giving reminds me of years of yore. Neighbors and friends (new & old) helping each other. Wonderful generosity! Watching your videos is great fun. Thanks. In regards to your wife, you are a very wise man.

[@j.t.4072]

I think you'll find that having your wife around more will compensate for the compromises. I know my wife is worth everything to me, so good times will be had by all, I'm sure! God bless, brother.

[@joannm6558]

From another wife, thanks for saying that. I would give my hubs any life he wanted, and he has done the same for me. We have 38 years in, so I think we are good.

[@ksingleton101]

I would really like to see a bedroom added onto the cabin. I believe that is what Shawn has planned, think his wife would love to have a room she can fix up and add a woman's touch. Thanks Shawn for the thoughts and the mail review. God Bless!

[@peggynicholas9825]

Reading the thoughtful comments makes me realize just how important the viewers are in this special story!

[@ritadonovan6606]

Hi Shawn. I’m around your age and have a similar way in my life. My husband doesn’t want to do your kind of lifestyle but I would. Finances are not within our reach but I scream to to do what you do. I physically am not able to do it but still wish to. I really appreciate what you are doing and I understand the dilemma your going through. Great program. Take care and do what your heart, body and soul wants. 🤗👍🇨🇦

[@sharleenparrino2297]

Greetings Shawn Excellent, more personal video! You're the best! Blessings upon you, your wife, yours daughters and if course, Sweet Cali!🐶 🌹🌲

[@monkeywentbananas]

Thank You Shawn for the Frank conversation!! I appreciate your honesty!

[@4philipp]

You tried really hard in this video. Good opening, presents, feel good moments and then BAMM ! Sledgehammer to the head. There will be some uncomfortable decisions in your future. You have to look deep down into your own soul and find out what your spirit demands. In the meantime, enjoy the next few years and make lasting memories. A few amenities won’t hurt. You will be old one day and might enjoy some of them.

[@kirbyd0g]

Nothing ever stays the same, life is an adventure. Best wishes to you all.

[@lichtsoldat7697]

You are so right. As much as I want things to remain the same, it doesn't . There is a moment....and then the moment is gone. We must just do our best, enjoy the journey and cherish the memories.

[@jotttn]

Just started quilting and all I can say is that’s a lot of work invested into that lovely piece

[@ruthfrantz8205]

I'm enjoying your series. Watching you use tools that were in my father's garage is delightful. I played with them as a child and asked my father all about them. I do recall watching him use them. My great grandfather was a shoe maker born in Prussia. The schnitzel bunk was a key tool in shoe making and there you had built one for your woodworking. Too cool. Glad for you to live your dream and letting me enjoy your journey. Thanks.

[@MartVerstappen61160]

Shawn, always thought how your wife and daughter would be dealing with this and I appreciate you coming out with it on Social media. It shows the measure of a man how to look after his family. Happiness in life is governed by making sacrifices and how to manage it's consequences. Love your channel and greetings from New Zealand. Take care

[@Drewtazy]

My husband and I have been married 46 years. Our careers were such we were separated for days at a time but we found it worked for us. Each week we came together and shared our adventures over a good meal. We’re both independent and enjoy our individual solitude time. Thanks for sharing your journey with us as well.

[@thepennsylvanian9280]

We all hope to be watching your videos for a very long time, so please make the cabin as comfortable as possible!🤜🤛 It's been wonderful and inspiring watching your journey 💯

[@itsjustarturo413]

Hi, been watching the channel for only a couple of weeks, fantastic, but the love and generosity that the subscribers have shown towards Shawn is amazing , Love from Herefordshire uk

[@zaadinandsetsunarose4966]

Man, I found your channel a while back while looking for something interesting to watch with my father in law and have been watching pretty much every video since. I love the way the cabin has grown and to see how you make this patch of forest home. The way you talk about IF someone would want to watch this or that, is just silly. We Are watching it, sharing the experience with you and enjoying the journey. You're all the way up there but you're not alone. :D

[@joyfulthings1]

next job on the "to-do" list is an escape hatch in the loft in the case of a fire - you have no means of escape from there.

[@19nixon89]

Good point

[@sonnyboywannabe]

Window. Get venting as well

[@marthaadams8326]

I just purchased a The Original Chimfex Chimney Fire Suppressent Stick 3412 on Amazon. It suppresses a chimney fire in seconds, but have to mask - it has chemicals.

[@micwilliams7743]

@@sonnyboywannabe A window in the loft would give more atmosphere too.

[@jonrandall4005]

That’s so obvious and makes absolute sense, even your new door into the extension is a secondary route out in an emergency you really really to make that a priority.