What’s Next for Our Fertility Journey After a Failed Embryo Transfer??

[@manali891]

I NEVER comment, but I just had to on this one. My husband and I went through a lot in our TTC journey. I had a very similar diagnosis - wildfire endo and DOR. Made

[@ThePasinis]

Grazie mille per averci raccontato la tua storia! spero che anche il nostro embrione day 6 avrà successo come il tuo❤️

[@Keyrose-my3xr]

Aww, that is so sweet of you to choose this as your first time commenting❤

[@dianam.3281]

Good luck 🍀🍀🍀! Greetings from Berlin!

[@rachelway8913]

I went through three transfers. The first two were graded the best and both ended in very early miscarriages. The third embryo was not graded the best but ended up being my 💯 healthy miracle baby. Actually this guy is super strong, he’s one year old and has never even been sick yet! Holding on to hope for you!

[@alyssafoschia]

I went through 5 single embryo transfers and a double embryo transfer. Out of those, 4 of the single embryo transfers were graded 5AA yet they still ended in miscarriages. The 5th (4AB) didn’t work. We did a double embryo transfer with 5BB and 4AB embryos, another miscarriage. In our last transfer, we transferred a 4AB and a 3BB embryo, and both stuck. I’m now 15.5 weeks pregnant with twin girls and everything is going great so far. We had lost hope after all of our best ones ended in miscarriages, but sometimes those lower graded embryos are the little fighters.

[@rachelway8913]

@@alyssafoschia On our last transfer we had two embryos left that we wanted to transfer together but unfortunately one did not survive the thaw. We were left with my miracle guy. You just never know! Watch out for those underdogs, they’ve got super strength! 🩷🩷Congratulations!! I hope you have the most amazing pregnancy and birth.

[@Karynschofield]

I have no fallopian tubes as well. I chose not to go the IVF route because I felt the loss of miscarriage and ectopic pregnancy. I chose adoption and was blessed with two beautiful little boys. I know adoption isn’t for everyone but felt led to tell my story as it might give someone hope. God bless 💗💗💗💗

[@kanalune]

I’m the oldest of 3, and we’re all adopted. My mom had endometriosis and had a growth on one of her ovaries, so it was removed in her mid twenties. Later on she and my dad went through 2 failed IVFs before she decided she couldn’t deal with the disappointment anymore and decided to adopt instead.

[@Karynschofield]

@@kanaluneyou and your siblings are your mama’s miracles ❤. I feel so blessed to have my children. … adoption isn’t for the faint of heart, lol.. it’s a long process. But worth every single meeting, piece of paper, a day spent going through the process!

[@ky11622]

My brother and I are also adopted as well as my husbands 2 cousins. Adoption is beautiful and wonderful and I’m soooo grateful my parents chose me❤. I’m 39 today and my brother is 36.

[@penelopebol]

Did my embryo transfer when you did yours... It failed for me as well. I have some friends in this journey, they finally made it. Every time I'm genuinely happy for them, but my happiness is always bittersweet. This is a unfair, hard, process. It really enters in our intimacy, in our bodies, in our couples. Good luck to both of us, I hope two wonderful babies will born soon: un italo-americano e un italo-irlandese

[@micheletorimaru9348]

@penelopebol. I hope and Pray you both succeed in this journey for a Beautiful outcome. Blessings always Stay Strong. And what will be will be. Take Care my Heart❤ is with You Penelope and Jessi and Alessio. ❤️😘😘😘😘❤️🌹🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🇦🇺

[@stephanieaston7178]

I love that Allesio shows emotion! He cares! He really cares, and he shows it! Not all men are that way…. I was pregnant with twins, and lost one of them to cord compression, as they were in the same amniotic sac. Of course I was sad! Of course I grieved, and am still grieving! While my survivor was fighting for her life in the hospital, I expressed sadness online. One of my male friends on Facebook acted like he was going for a world record for how many times he could say “Be grateful for the one that lived”, like my grieving my dead daughter somehow meant that I wasn’t grateful for her surviving twin. Then, he preceded to tell me about how when his ex wife lost the twins that she was carrying, he thought of it as like a beta test!🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️💩💩💩🤬 Mind you, I lost Diana at 25+1 weeks! I watched her moving around during many ultrasounds, and watched her little heart beating on ultrasound the night before she died! I have an ultrasound picture of her yawning! I held her tiny body in my arms the day that I gave birth! She was real, and she was my daughter, but this INSENSITIVE FOOL thought he was doing me a favor by telling me that he basically didn’t care when his twins died early in the pregnancy!🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️ My husband, though, the day that Diana’s tiny heart stopped beating, rushed to me as quickly as he could, and he laid his head on my chest while he cried. I’m so grateful to have a husband who cared about our baby that died! It’s so important for the husband to let his wife see him grieving when IVF fails, or a pregnancy is lost, regardless of the stage of pregnancy! I hope and pray that you guys get that baby that you deserve!❤️

[@alexandratoth2981]

I am So sorry You had to go through that:( rest in peace little angel

[@juliesm1]

Tears in my eyes reading this…so sorry for your loss ❤

[@theoneandonly1158]

The majority of men have feelings and express them. That so called male. Well... he's not one of them.

[@theeyesehaveit]

How beautifully written. ❤️

[@reneechavez2485]

🤍🤍🤍 prayers for you. Don't listen to anyone but yourself. No one knows what you've gone through, or how you feel more then you. Blessing to your healing journey, and my condolences to you and your family in your loss.

[@patrickantwerp1364]

I wish you all the luck in having a baby. Keep the faith, says a father of four children who suffered two miscarriages

[@ThePasinis]

thank you so much, I'm really sorry for the 2 miscarriages ❤️

[@Cassxowary]

why are you selfish and egotistical? you do realise there’s increasingly more kids in the system who need a loving family and home, right?

[@aliciabellante6643]

@@Cassxowarywtf how is he selfish?

[@samhartford8677]

@@Cassxowary it really depends on the country and their laws. And many people want to have the experience of childbirth etc. Our job is not to judge or to tell other people how to live their lives. I'm just curious: How many foster or adopted children do you have?

[@KD-mo5pw]

👏​@@samhartford8677

[@nicolesommers173]

Don't lose faith, more people are praying for you then you know! May the Lord give you the desires of your heart.❤

[@elizabethbaron1315]

My ‘low quality’ embryo turned 18 last week. You guys have such a great attitude and I’m glad you understand that the doctors aren’t always right. ❤

[@7aloha7]

@elizabethbaron1315 what is a low grade embryo?

[@lindaleone7831]

You guys are in my prayers

[@ThePasinis]

Thank you 🙏

[@laurenschlagel7944]

A perspective I found comforting while going through infertility is we weren't trying to start a family. We were a family already, and trying to grow that. But we already were a family. You all are such a sweet couple to watch. While not an influencer, I was very open about my infertility journey with those around me and I know it adds another layer of vulnerability to something that is so difficult. I know it us helpful for others to see you all navigate this with such grace and obvious love towards each other. Praying that you see your hopes come to life very soon!

[@johannarhymer1093]

Beautiful perspective

[@workinprogress3609]

How could I love two humans so much and I don't even know them? You will have the hopes and prayers of many.

[@raev87]

I appreciate you uploading these videos. I’m 37, have had several miscarriages, and when we prepared to do IVF I got laid off (from a well-paying job that insured both me and my husband). We’ve put it off for now, but I’m feeling the pinch since I’m no spring chicken 😢 I haven’t found another job yet and all I can think about is wasting another 2 years in another job to get to the point where I’m offered a decent maternity leave and health insurance. The US sucks. But knowing that others go through similar heartbreak and frustration, it helps so much. So thank you for being brave enough to upload these videos. It’s lovely to see you two be so candid about this journey ❤

[@marjimdas]

My heart just broke seeing Alessio crying. 💔 I know how badly you want to be parents. I pray that God will open Jessi's womb and bless you both with a child of your own. I will keep you in my prayers. Sending you both blessings and hugs. ♥️🙏🕊⚘️

[@nangardner7515]

Seeing the two of you together brings me happiness because your love for each other is beautiful . I will be so happy for you when you achieve your goal.

[@juliajohnson4454]

I also had one of my tubes removed and one clipped because it was so adhered to my bowel and it is so painful to hear people say things like “oh I got pregnant after I did IVF naturally without trying” or “take a break and it can try naturally”. It should serve as a reminder that you never know what someone is going through. Luckily, I am currently 15 weeks after my second embryo transfer. My first embryo transfer worked but ended in a missed miscarriage at 8 weeks. Good luck to you both! Never give up hope, you got this. ❤

[@lezlieb29]

I miscarried 4 times, all around 8 weeks. I now have 2 teenage boys 16 and 19. I am praying you will get to experience all the blessings with the one that is growing within you now.❤

[@monongahelacats]

I love that Alessio is able to show his emotions so freely. Not every man can do that. My ex was never able to and shut down. I was miserable.

[@alexandrekouki4436]

A lot of men are afraid of judgement and also they fear that it Can be used against them. But then again if you are in a long term relationship with someone who has good core values there will come a Time when the soft side will appear. My father was Always the strong unshakable rock that everyone relied on and he really loves my mother dearly but it took him 21 years to cry for my mother when she got cancer last year.

[@CC-uq7cv]

He is also from a culture where people show their emotions a lot more…

[@sabreen45]

Oh goodness, I just want to send you the biggest hug! Our first embryo transfer also did not work, and I was all set for my second transfer, my lining was a FIFTEEN, I suddenly get a phone call that my progesterone tanked to 0 and all that month’s work had now been for nothing…I didn’t even have a shot to try and that broke me even more…the following month, they transferred our now two year old. She is worth it ALL. That little girl is worth every ounce of that road. On that road again, for baby #2 and it’s still so hard even with a little one at home. As I said, before, nothing I can say to make this better, just please continue to lean on each other. Keeping you in my prayers. You will be parents ❤️❤️!

[@laurag.8558]

Thank you so much for keeping us updated! You owe us absolutely nothing in these terms, so I appreciate it even more that you take us with you on that journey. I cross my fingers and wish you the best

[@carolynradach1481]

You are so gracious with responding to the unsolicited advice comments; much better than I was when I went through my fertility journey. I wish you the best in your future endeavors.

[@melhurd3146]

We got pregnant on our second embryo, the high grade one failed, our C grade embryo is now turning 2! Praying for you guys, it was a 10 year journey for us; wishing you a positive on that next pregnancy test❤❤

All lady need an Alessio! You are more than amazing, I can’t understand how hard is to talk about your experience and this process! Please stay positive and fingers crossed!!!!! Cheers from Hungary

[@laurarivera8136]

Love Alessio taking lead on speaking when obviously English is not his first language. I feel he communicates simply and I love to hear it

[@mama-G_]

I continue to pray for abundant blessings for both of you

[@kathyrapiejko6318]

"Always together". That's how you WILL be successful! Thanks for the update, guys! Sending love, hugs & prayers! ❤🦁❤

[@gioa8722]

Ciao ragazzi, non mollate e siate forti. Non siete soli! Ho avuto 5 stimolazioni prima di riuscire ad avere la mia bimba. Sappiamo che questo è un percorso ad ostacoli enorme, guardate al traguardo! Vi mando tutte le mie preghiere e le mie good vibes 💖

[@hannahfreya2326]

Thank you so much for your bravery in showing the raw intensity of your journey. Things like endometriosis and struggles with conception NEED to be talked about and normalised - it affects SO many people. So many people struggle with these issues, alone. Feeling they can’t discuss or express feelings/hopes/fears. Thank you both so much for sharing your story and helping others to know they are not alone and that it is absolutely fine to talk about things - or not to - whatever you prefer. But knowing that you CAN talk about it and there is absolutely no shame etc is a key change that we need to make in society.

[@bobandersi5245]

Thank you for being so open about this. We're currently going through infertility too and it's so refreshing to see couples talk about it so freely.

[@lizw495]

You guys are so brave to share this journey publicly. I appreciate you telling your story. I’ve had 4 pregnancy losses in a row. I just started IVF yesterday and I’m so scared. I know I’m not alone in my struggles or this journey. I just have hope for a happy ending. For you guys, for me and my family. And for anyone else out there in this journey

[@margaretpinsent6388]

The word Sorry isn't always an apology. You're sorry for something so longed for didn't happen. I feel so sorry too that it hasn't happened yet. Trust your doctors, it's all you can do..Sending you my love x

[@amymiller4381]

You are both in my prayers. I can't imagine what you're going through between treatments and criticism and can see how much you both want to build a family. Much love!

[@michaelabrowning94]

I just want to also say that when you cry, I cry with you and when you're happy, I'm happy with you and when you guys try food in Italy, It's like I am there tasting it with you. It just brings life into a full circle that even though I've never met you guys, you guys would be wonderful, wonderful friends to encounter. You are a beautiful couple and I know that God definitely placed you guys together. And you guys are helping many people through this journey. Even though it may be hard, you guys are very strong, what a beautiful couple that God has a plan for And I'm grateful to get to see the journey along with everyone else here. I'm glad that you're growing on KZbin and I hope that you guys can bring in a lot of income so that you can continue to pay to go back-and-forth from Italy until you decide where to stay permanently. Love you both! 💖

[@canacianchick88]

Following along, appreciating your sharing and watching as a way to support you in this ‘voyage’ through IVF.

[@darleneparker6111]

Dear St. Anne, grandmother of Jesus and patroness of couples trying to conceive, I come to you with hope in my heart. Please intercede for me, that Jessi and Allesio may be blessed with the gift of fertility and the joy of motherhood and fatherhood. Help them to trust in God’s plan and remain steadfast in my prayers. Amen.

[@Cybersanny]

Amen! 🙏

[@PrincessHarlotte]

Amen 🙏 ❤

[@piaauman9020]

what a beautiful prayer. Amen 💗

[@marloulman104]

Oh lord....really?! Jesus was a Jew! If u believe in the resurrection, he still is a Jew! No saints, & his grandmother certainly not. His entire family, Jews. His mom was NOT virgin mary! Her name was Miriam. She did NOT wear rosary beads! She was an Orthodox Jew! Joseph his dad, Orthodox Jew. His siblings, Jews. ALL 12 disciples, JEWS!! Read the bible! & stop the lies! God is Jewish!

[@marloulman104]

Jesus did not have a grandmother that was a saint. Where did you come up with this crap?! Jesus-Jewish. His mom wasn't virgin mary & didn't wear rosary beads! Her name was Miriam, an orthodox Jew. His dad Joseph, Jewish. All his siblings, Jewish, & ALL his disciples JEWISH!! God says not to worship idols! Sounds like your MAGA!!

[@kathrynpruett8684]

I’m so sorry for your loss. Praying for y’all… May your next little one implant, grow, and thrive. We struggled with infertility for years as well. We ended up adopting embryos and it’s been incredible.

[@darleneparker6111]

Praying to the Saints for a successful pregnancy and delivery of a healthy baby.

[@melissajoy7288]

My husband and I have had trouble starting a family due to complications from my Crohn's disease. A lot of well-meaning people offer advice when you're hoping for a baby, but at the end of the day, what matters is that the two of you are on the same page. It's such a gift to have a supportive partner in this difficult journey! All the best to you lovely people! 🙏🏻

[@AnaPaulaWitt]

Taking lessons from your channel, from the interview you did with an endometriosis doc, before my transfer and during the first 2 months of my pregnancy I did a diet to reduce the inflammation in my body. I completely cut from my diet sugar, gluten and lactose. I stop lifting weights and I just did nice relaxing walks and meditation. I just follow my guts and I can say it worked. When I saw the interview was like God telling me that I had to restart my body. Now I am 23 weeks pregnant and I just want so hard that you and all the women that have the same dream can have their babies. I am so glad for my baby and I hope from the bottom of my heart that you all can feel the same happiness. ❤ Praying for you.

[@sallysham2676]

Best advise!

[@theqzoo]

Sending you both love, comfort, and strength. This is not an easy journey and can’t be easy to share. Your openness allows other couples battling infertility be validated and should be opening the eyes and hearts to others who have not known the heartache and struggle. La pace sia con voi.

[@kathynehls794]

What a real a raw view into the real struggles with infertility. I think I’m most impressed in how you both support and lift each other up. Whether IVF works for you or not, love is there and it is so open and honest. I support all you do on this journey and I am praying for peace and comfort to you both and a positive outcome no matter what.

[@marywood2865]

Such a nice, sweet guy! It's just great that he isn't afraid to cry and can let his wife comfort him and vice versa...a perfect match for each other. I really want this to work out for you. Your empathy for each other makes me think that you will be great parents.

[@RobbieRayner-tb7ey]

You both are wonderful people. And will be wonderful parents someday. Keep the faith! Love, hugs and prayers ❤

[@CarmelaV59]

You two are so brave for sharing this journey and I’m sure it is helpful to others in this situation. You are both knowledgeable and on top of the situation, so try to ignore the arm chair doctors! All the best and THANK YOU both for all the laughs. Keep the fun coming!!!

[@graywolf6498]

God bless you both. Wife and I had fertility issues. Now we had three children. Keep trying

[@mzlibertyrose8586]

I am so appreciative of y'all sharing your journey. And I very much appreciate y'all showing how much infertility very much affects men too! Us women definitely have more going on and it impacts us not just emotionally but physically too. But I think it's so important to recognize that men are definitely impacted and affected by the struggles of infertility as well. I think there's still this stigma that men need to show zero emotions and that's just not the case! Even if Alessio didn't show any visible emotion, it obviously still very much weighs on his shoulders and heart, just as much as it does you too Jess. My husband and I have been struggling for almost 8 years... I see his pain and it hurts me to see him not be the amazing father I know he will be! Y'all will get your little miracles and we are all here praying for you both! Much love from Texas 🥰

[@cynhanrahan4012]

I know you trust you excellent doctors in Italy. I am so glad you have them, they sound so supportive. Yes, I was sad when you said the last transfer was not successful, but today I am cleaning my house and once I get the dust and cat hair off my special place, I will light you a candle to Brighid, and keep a vigil. And I will do this every time you try until you have a baby safely in your arms. Ciao!

[@theeyesehaveit]

Your message gave me goosebumps…in a good way. Keep it up….your vigil with St. Brigid.

[@lesliegordon2809]

My heart is with you both. Sharing your journey has got to be incredibly difficult but I want to thank y’all. It means so much to me personally. I’m sure I’m one of many that are genuinely emotionally invested in your story. I continue to pray for you both and hope y’all feel all the love being sent your way ❤

[@amateureventertales8484]

Massive hugs from a 2nd generation Italian in Alabama! You are not alone , we love you, and cheering for you! Praying only for good things for y'all and continued strength for what's to come! Keep leaning on each other you've got this!

[@barbaraives4962]

I so admire the love, strength and courage that you two have for each other.

[@daniellewilson4872]

My heart aches for you. I see the same hurt in your eyes, that I saw in my husbands so many times. We’ve done a total of 7 transfers. 5 of those we had positive betas, one of those is our 20 month old, and we will find out next Thursday if this current one has a heartbeat or not. This journey is not for the weak, and all of your feelings are valid! Best wishes, and all the baby dust!

[@strawberry0gurt.]

sending you both love! this is one of the most raw and real videos i’ve ever seen on this topic. showing your emotions like this is so vulnerable and i really appreciate it!

[@MamaB313]

Praying for a successful transfer and lots of baby dust! I am finally having my hysteroscopy next week and will be going into my 3rd embryo transfer after my muscarriage with my 2nd transfer this march. So pray for me too. I hope we both get pregnant! ❤

[@monicareno4088]

I keep y’all in my prayers for a positive outcome. May you be blessed with the expansion of your beautiful family. 😊

[@alexmeitlis3911]

You are both so lucky having such an amazing love between the two of you

[@dorienbrockhoff2727]

Ivf is an emotional rollercoaster and can be traumatising. We’ve been there three times. It is good to see you supporting each other. Every person goes through this with their own emotions. Keep talking, loving and supporting!! Wishing you ❤ and☘️

[@jillbsatx]

Sending you all the love! When you get to Italy, please send us some more scenery and Allesio's Momma content! This journey has been so lovingly communicated by you both. Thank you for sharing it with us. So many are rooting for you!

[@pamelag.6664]

I am so glad that you two have each other. Please continue to remain positive. I will keep praying for positive outcome for you. You are going to be great parents.

[@nancyhaggart3400]

I remember these emotions from our 12 year infertility journey. My husband never gave up but I did 3 years before, out of nowhere, we got pregnant. I had severe endometriosis also which caused me to have to have a complete hysterectomy 2 years after our little miracle was born. Don't give up hope. Prayer saved us in every stage ❤

[@annettelucchesi2292]

Continuing prayers for you! Sending love and hugs of support.

[@EliskaKrizova-qb4wc]

I pray for success and I admire you so much for finding the courage to show the world how difficult the road to a desired child can be! You're going to be great parents.

[@tobylynnerobbins6683]

I really appreciate the detailed explanations you provide. I will keep you in my thoughts & prayers as you take this next step.

[@JanetMcBryde]

I look forward to watching your videos. Most specifically, I am continuing to pray for your IVF journey. The love between you is amazing and I admire you and your strength and tenacity. Love and Blessiings.

[@ClarkJ2265]

You both have the best attitude and are handling this so well. We are supporting you as you endure the ups and downs.

[@gabriellechilton5902]

Hi Kids. You kids are the absolute best in so many ways. You make me smile every video you put out. Thank you. I am 70 years young. Something a learned much later in life that i would like to share with you , maybe it will help you. Try your best not to expect what the out come will be of anything in your lives. I learned this many years ago, while reading the Buddhist “philosophy”. It takes practice because we are trained differently as we are growing up. I was raised Catholic. Imagine the difference. This is what i have found ……… the less you expect in life, the more magic is shown and given to you. The less disappointment you will feel if things don’t go the way you planned it too. I hope this helps you, it is intended in the best of way. My son and daughter in-law went through IVF as well and they will continue to do so. God bless you both. I like others , am praying for you all. Sincerely, Gabby .

[@islandmama]

I agree with you... But you learned that as a Catholic too.. it was just said differently. You probably were told to trust God and know that he will come thru for you. Maybe not what the result you want or when you want it to happen, but to trust that good things will come to you. Now that's a hard thing to practice. But I understand these days saying God or talking about God is so wrong. And I expect to get a lot of hate response about this comment, but I just wanted to tell you that this is a way of life that you learn as any Christian. Stay blessed my friend.

[@theoneandonly1158]

All you said is in the Bible and in Christianity denomination. MANY, man made religious copy from the Bible. The true source is the Bible.

[@wintersojourn9356]

@Islandmama no hate from me, I agree & supportive love to you. I feel the same trepidation at times replying on different comment sections, for similar reasons. I wish to recommend to the original commenter a short pamphlet/treatise written by St Alphonsus de Liguori (more Italians!) which illustrates a Catholic teaching from even earlier times, but written in 1700s. I hate to try to summarize it becoz the St writes so plainly & effectively, but it is about how a secret to happiness & even “success” in life is to truly see everything that comes to you in life as God’s Will. D’oh, seems so simple but I read this as an old adult, & it was eye opening to a cradle, always practicing Catholic. I am not advocating for this simplified philosophy to loss of a pregnancy, that seems excessively harsh, but simply as a reply to the original commenter contrasting Buddhism v Catholicism. & in support of island mama🏝️🕊️. Since I read this treatise (it is available free online as of still now I believe) I notice there are many rehashing of this philosophy but in altered/ different forms, ie secular, agnostic, etc…

[@cindymarielemons1220]

Jessi I was raped when I was 17 and got real sick from infection through out my female organs. Many doctors told me I wouldn't be able to have children. That was many yrs ago since I am 55 now. God answers prays. I am a mother of 3 and a grandmother now. Please do not give up hope. P. S. Back then I only 1 ovary working and tube's were full of scare tissue. But God let me get pregnant 3 times and he made it happen. Lots of love to you both, God bless ❤

[@Dala-q4g]

I’m so sorry for you. When I read the first line I was speechless.I’m glad you move on in your life and now you’re happy . Good luck

[@darlene9084]

I am continuing to earnestly pray for you two!! It hurts to see you hurt . I had to have one ovary and both tubes removed a month before my 18th birthday, many years ago . I had cysts on my ovaries that were causing me to bleed internally and I was bleeding to death. I bawled my eyes out when the doctor told me I'd never be able to have children. In my middle twenties I had to have everything else removed . I really feel like this next time is your time. I am PRAYING that it is.

[@b1cf]

I think you both are such a beautiful couple. I had a few miscarriages. Then my doctor told me that the reason is because I wasn't producing enough progesterone to hold the baby in my uterus. So he gave me progesterone suppositories to help my body hold the baby in the first semester. It worked. Yay. I hope that helped. Cheers.

[@helenaheller8073]

This is true I worked in on gym for over 25 years and it does work. This should be considered.

[@reneechavez2485]

I believe when you've had so many health issues, you just know your body. When you have to advocate for yourself for so many years, you just know... I'm sorry that this time didn't work out how you hoped for. You have so much luv to give, and share... I pray this works for you both soon. Thank you for bringing attention to this, and the raw emotions people go through and feel. Most men shy away from this, and don't share. We need more men to show how it truly affects them as well, not just the woman. I'm so glad you both have each other, to see the luv and respect with each other. Thank you for sharing your journey, and mostly for sharing your luv for each other with us. Blessings, prayers, and thoughts for you both. I'm glad you have each other. 🤍🤍🤍

[@letstalkaboutit5310]

I’m so sorry, yall. This really is a hard journey. Thank you for being willing to share this. I am praying that you will have what your hearts desire. 🙏🏽💕

[@melissatemple8052]

Sending you all prayers of strength. I hope with all my heart the next transfer works. Thank you for sharing this very personal Journey with us.

[@shyofthemoon1175]

Praying for you guys 🩷

[@donnacutrona2460]

Yall are the sweetest couple!! I also live in the Nashville area….I am so thankful I stumbled onto your channel a few months ago…at that time your videos were mainly about places to visit and eat in Italy…it’s my top bucket list to go there ……God willing….I love your story on how you met etc…….and I believe God will make you parents one way or another and you both will be great at it and your future child will be such a blessing to you and you will be a blessing to him or her. Hold onto Hope and Faith ❤️🙏

[@dorisgilman920]

You 2 are just amazing. You just keep trying. You deserve the best. I cross my fingers and pray for you 2.🥰

[@mariebeggan1239]

Wishing you all the best and keeping you both in my prayers. xx

[@mamahenscatholicteaching]

So cute when he says “We” have no fallopian tubes 😂 praying for you guys 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@debbiemonroe7548]

You will do what’s best for you. Wishing nothing but the best and happiness for you both. Your community loves you regardless

[@NPC8087]

No matter what the doctors say please next time just stay in Italy for a while. It’s more relaxed there, the food is better for you etc.

[@NPC8087]

I’m continuing to pray for you for a successful implantation, pregnancy and healthy baby.

[@Hythyr]

Thank you for sharing your feelings through this experience. I have no personal connection to this issue, so you are helping me with empathy towards others who go through this. I wish the best for you both!!!

[@CatalinaCNV]

Ragazzi, tons of luck, sending all the best energies. Your videos rock. Not sure if you have checked this youtuber, Taylor R, who went to a lot of difficulties with IVF and now has a baby after 3 years trying. She has really good info that could be helpful for you in her channel

[@SharonDayLifeArchivist]

I truly believe you two are meant to bring beautiful, magical children to our world. We need more people like you two. God has a way of being sure you manifest. Love and hugs.

[@babs546]

Forza ragazzi! Un saluto dal Trentino.

[@paulam3988]

It's beautiful to see you supporting each other in all the ways you can. Infertility is such a rough roller coaster ride. Best wishes as you go forward with the future.

[@1101naomi]

The most important thing is you have each other! That in itself is a rare find.

[@sconesindi2222]

All I can do is send you positive thoughts for the future. You are such a great couple.

[@MermaidDolphinNYC]

And so many politicians in this country - Republicans of course - as well as people who claim to be “pro life” - were/are trying to stop this wonderful opportunity for everyone who wants to have children to have that chance. May your journey be one of harmony, serenity and joy! Peace, Childless Jenny NYC

[@atlitalian9832]

Could you please provide a specific citation to a source where a politician unequivocally and directly states that he or she is in favor of making IVF illegal? Thank you very much!

[@meg56794]

Your strength always admires me ❤ people told me to just try conceive naturally when I definitely needed assistance. Wishing you all the luck and light in the world as always !

[@Mirjam444]

Jessi said she fell she lost connection after a few days. That's because you feel your baby's spirit inside that's alive. When the body of the (miniature) baby doesn't survive their spirit goes back to Heaven. 🕊️

[@johannarhymer1093]

Beautiful ❤

[@simpleshoes]

So lovely.

[@H99x2]

It doesn't. There is no spirit and no heaven. That's bullocks

[@rebekahsedwick3511]

Sending prayers!! Dealt with years of heartache and infertility until we became pregnant. God is with you at every step and His will can't be denied! And he would never bring you together to live in heartache! He is close to the broken hearted ❤️❤️

[@zugeorg9784]

I have one tip for you, after your next transfer, Jessi try to hold your legs up... Just for few min... it's just grandma's advice, but sometimes a miracle happens... I wish you good luck ❤❤❤

[@lynnebriggs6184]

You guys do what the doctors advise you to do. Keeping our fingers crossed that it does eventually work for you both! Love ya’ll!

[@jillsmith879]

Please please stick with one clinic not switch from Italy to U SA to Italy to U S A . Also please please it’s easy for the doctor to say it’s fine to fly the next day. It’s not his loss. Sometimes the doctors also get it wrong. You are both so precious , you have both been through so much. We are praying for you.

[@TheBluebellMoon2]

Totally agree. Relax for a while post hospital visit. Watch movies & just don’t go hopping on planes or taking trips. Wishing you all the best. ❤️ Xxxxx

[@jakk946]

Thank you for sharing what is up to come! I am excited and keeping you in my thoughts. What I was happiest to hear about is that you are not giving in to the know-it-all people in the comments, even if they are doing it with their best intentions. From my point of view, you are one of the best-informed people on the matter on this planet and have exceptional people to guide you on your journey. I wish you all the best on your next visit at the clinic.

[@jesssturlese4886]

Praying for you guys. My husband and I know how hard it can be to go through this process. Just know there are those who are praying for you, that helped us when we were going through this 🙏🏻

[@karlanorvell9573]

I'm so sorry your IVF did not end in a pregnancy. It has to be hard. But I am so glad you are leaning on each other and both of you are communicating your feelings to each other. That is so important. Hugs to both of you.

[@tracyhorst4764]

Thank you for the update! Praying for you in the next steps that you will hold onto each through all this and come out stronger no matter the outcome. Your positivity is amazing and inspiring!

[@johannaliceaga5936]

Seeing him get so emotional really made me cry because I’m pregnant with my fourth child and it was completely unplanned, I REALLY did not want to get pregnant and I’ve been completely depressed and overwhelmed because of this unwanted pregnancy and then seeing him cry because of how badly he wanted you to be pregnant just makes me realize how I should be grateful to be able to get pregnant so easy. I wish you guys the best really god has a plan for everyone. I’m happy to see how involved and support he is in your journey to get pregnant, my husband is the least supportive partner you could think of so sometimes we get blessed with healthy children and sometimes we get blessed with a great supportive partner, if you get both then that’s like hitting the lottery.

[@genalincaburian8598]

Your love, joy and happiness together will bring goodness. I pray your baby joys come true. Love following you both ❤

[@gildasilva5201]

You are in my prayer, ragazzi! I was so sure that if my best embryo wouldn’t stick, none of the others would since their grades were lower, but I couldn’t be more wrong. Always keep in mind that embryo grading depends on the embryologist, like you said. Ammiro il vostro coraggio di portare questo tsunami emozionale alle reti sociali, sono sicura che fate la differenza e portate speranza a molte famiglie! Saluti dal Brasile. Sono sicura della vostra vittoria 🙏

[@joanie5262]

I love that you take the time to explain things to people and don't take offense when people are making recommendations. I'm sure everyone means well, but just don't understand everyone's circumstances are different and that you guys are doing everything your doctors are telling you to according to your circumstances. I wish you guys every good thing! Have a wonderful weekend!❤

[@lyndaabiuso5335]

I feel so sorry you are going through this. I am praying for you and someday you two are going to be the best parents ever.

[@thaliawaldvogel2053]

You guys will be great parents one day. You seem to love each other so much and have compassion for each other. This difficult situation you’re going through has one plus: it is bringing you closer as a couple. I hope and pray you’ll be successful next time.