What Scares Us The Most with NIve (니브) I GET REAL Ep. #18

Solo artist NIve (니브) joins us to discuss about fears both rational and not so quite. What spooked us the most as kids and have we ever had a run-in with a ghost? What haunts us now as adults and what are we so afraid to lose? Listen to hear us talk it out.
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[@MELINA_AKS]

Aight can we get Woosung from The Rose on here??

[@neoriize]

NIve be looking like Jack Frost 😌🤍

[@habromania4773]

thank god, i tought im the only one 🤭🙄

[@wluna6455]

OMG trueeeee XD

[@asmaas1332]

Lol I was lookin for this comment... Glad m not the only one

[@leahrox12]

he's so pretty!!!

[@evinekemalaolviana4645]

True.

[@ivoflo]

BM: *talking about Jiwoo's nostril Jiwoo: "I am gonna end this whole man career"

[@ivoflo]

Ofc while punching him

[@maja7531]

Peniel saying that fear of failure is irrational because you don’t fail unless you quit first... like, honestly he is the best life coach / guru ever. Plus I really love how they all made a comfortable environment for NIve ❤️

[@sml5967]

peniel is officially the most adorably wise person alive

[@DZENITA.]

the part about deadlines lmao i have like 10 assignments that are past due idek how im passing

[@user-tt5tw3ut1x]

Bro I'm like failing all of my classes

[@TurnmetoShit]

i be submitting my assignments after 11:59PM

[@msgirly6827]

@@TurnmetoShit 😂😂

[@samgar4216]

Same, my deadline is my father telling me to get the best grades of my generation for me to have a rhinoplasty so

[@freeatlast9346]

I dropped out because I just couldn't concentrate on anything ....

[@janicechen4891]

Nive has joined the Harry on the list of best voices and podcast personalities

[@sjonesblue]

Ashley, love love love your new hair color and cut. So adult and sophisticated!👍

[@ivak8988]

Green hair style was kinda better

[@ashleybchoi]

Thank youu!!! 🤎🤎

[@aseeyuuuh]

@@ashleybchoi agree love your new hair so much =)

[@ComedyGlor]

@@ashleybchoi wait is this the real Ashley

[@pakounda6207]

@@ComedyGlor yes, she has a youtube channel

[@alyamaisarah8495]

what i realised in every podcast, peniel always mention at least one video he saw about the topics of their episode's podcast and i m amazed with it. it just shows he watches lots of random videos that could be beneficial u understand me? like random knowledge

[@cosmikgirlx]

Matt has a really warm vibe. I wanna be friends with him.

[@valluna0325]

I can't believe y'all read my question 😭I have been following DIVE studios since the beginning and seen the growth you had over time so when I started feeling overwhelmed creating content for my publication I felt this was the right place to ask even tho I didn't think you would actually answer my question. This came at the perfect time in a way, I just got laid off from work since the company I was working for suffered a lot with the pandemic and money/resources in general had been causing me anxiety since I got the news. Hearing BM, Peniel, Ashley and NIve saying that you just gotta keep on pushing, working hard and have fun doing what I do, that creativity does not need money honestly was the pep talk that I needed right now. Everything we do in STAN:MAG (the little publication I run) is cause he love to do it, it has never been about the numbers but the quality of the content. thank you all fo reminding us what's really important ✨

[@krisisprz5958]

Felicidades por ser una de las que mandó su pregunta y la leyó BM. Enserio cubrirte el evento en Monterrey?

[@valluna0325]

@@krisisprz5958 si! De echo fue la primera vez que nos pudimos contactar con ese promotor

[@krisisprz5958]

A lo mejor no son estos los mejores tiempos, pero siempre es la oportunidad de encontrar algo nuevo. Espero encuentres ese algo nuevo que necesitas 😉

[@myworlditsgreen1642]

my biggest fear is letting my parents down and embarrassing them. they did so much made me look like such and amazing child i dont wanna mess it up. I WILL BE SUCCESSFUL

[@navyafrancis1511]

I can relate with that but don't stress over it too much honey. I'm sure the thing that matters the most to them is that you are happy. So as long as you're doing good, they'll be fine. And yes, YOU WILL BE SUCCESSFUL! Best of luck dear

[@tialaava3997]

Done that. But trust me your parents will love you regardless of your failures and achievements

[@myworlditsgreen1642]

@@tialaava3997 I hope so. but i got very strict parents and we aren't well off so they basically gave me everything. so yeah the guilt after is hefty

[@tialaava3997]

@@myworlditsgreen1642 same here bro

[@MA-jy2tl]

pov as a parent, the main reason we gave best facilities & supports only to hope our kids could live good life, so when the time comes we could leave in peace. so imo, knowing you being happy & good person is enough for your parent❤️

[@wolflosimp]

I love Peniel’s mindset. It is very unique in a good way. I wish I think the same way as him. 🙈

[@NhiNguyen-mo7vz]

Does anyone have a fear of when things are going well, something (really) bad is gonna go down? Not failure per se, but just bad things in general.

[@jasminegarza7246]

yes totally get you I have that fear like i'm just waiting for something bad to happen.....

[@miliarsema6339]

Yea, but live in the moment~! Good and bad are all life's got to offer anyways.

[@ComedyGlor]

Its like the opposite for me. My life is crap and tthere's a fear of Good things happening simply bc i can't see how I would achieve that

[@veritush]

that's called anxiety in my case

[@marksgrassmori4601]

My biggest fear is letting people down, failing, and being forgotten, and dying alone

[@wheepup26]

Couldn't agree more..

[@richatiwary2186]

It's like you read my mind !

[@miliarsema6339]

wow, How come U see nothing wrong with all of what just u said😅...U gonna end up just fine even if all those come true😉 Cheer up~

[@user-tt5tw3ut1x]

I've heard one of nIve's song, it's actually one of my comfort songs, it's called Tired but like dude, mans crazy handsome 😳💗 and his voice very very segsy

[@yuxia7797]

I just realize how three of them represent New York, Chicago and LA

[@Kristo9x]

Look at Ashley with her hair. So cute ❤️

[@gisellesolis5662]

Please get Sammy on the show🥺

[@navyafrancis1511]

Yess!! Please......

[@navyafrancis1511]

UP!

[@dynyles9108]

omg yesss...that would be the best

[@Dowoon_is_a_drum]

Yes, please.

[@fatmasleem9545]

Yes

[@stanstraykids4610]

I vibe with NIve so hard. He seems v nervous but I can tell from his story and also just his energy I want to learn more about him. He seems so cool and also “young doengsaeng” energy but also wise at the same time. I didn’t recognize him with white hair and he seems very different here vs befote. I def want to see more of him in the future

[@jules876]

Same!!

[@aneisap7517]

NIve is cute awkward.. i love it... He's me..

[@lopags56426]

I wish being scared of things was something that was more normalized like a lot of my friends and I are pretty outgoing and loud and all that. because of that we are somewhat expected to be brave or not scared of anything, but ion reality we have so many things we are scared of

[@KoraDJess]

Yeah I can relate tho that

[@samgar4216]

NIve's IG live of him walking a few days ago really helped me, he has no idea how much it did, I may really start crying while writing this, I'm so thankful to him and his music, I love him and wish him the best, as a fan, I'm so proud of him.

[@callfrommountaintop]

NIve looks like a really sweet guy

[@kaasmere4522]

Ashley’s hair is so cute 🥺 and I like NIve’s hair too. I just want to dye my hair hella different colors now 💀

[@kpopnoonanikki9211]

I 2nd what BM said about windows at night. It freaks me out to have the curtains open at night.

[@SittieSaheda]

Peniel’s mind ✨

[@aditiyadav918]

literally

[@kezan.3968]

Ashley: Spiders bring money. Me: * remembering all the spiders I've killed * 👁👄👁

[@nancyprzmrtz4398]

I'm so in love with NIVE he look so tiny and cute there.. ❤️

[@flora2427]

NIve is the one who wrote Beautiful Goodbye... This guy is on another level.

[@jasmineuelese730]

I always love how empathetic Matthew is and then ash being a great listener and Peniel being Peniel 🤣 nive Im such a fan of ❤️ Loved this ep guys again !”

[@bangtansugakookies1550]

I wonder if we'll hear NIve in Taehyung's new mixtape. I wonder if he applied his lyrical talents on the mixtape too. Also, I love his and Ashley's hair. Very pretty.

[@RandomlyLosty]

I just looked up the difference between rational fears and irrational fears and the first result that came up said: "Rational fear is a reaction about a real threat where we have to protect ourselves. Irrational fear is something we fear, even though there is no direct link or threat to us. .... 'Irrational fear is also known as a phobia or an unhealthy fear' that we may also be predisposed to through our genes and environment

[@inbisaatjeelani2053]

Ashley saying, “You guys are a bunch of sissys” had me in splits! 😂😂😂😂😂

[@abegaildivinagracia7389]

I find this NIve guy gorgeous!

[@shreyosibanerjee4906]

He reminds me of Kaneki Ken.

[@chachacha8862]

He’s very pretty/well put together

[@prettysavage557]

Its great that Nive felt comfortable here to talk...nice to know him!

[@akamusavelliz5365]

When i first heard news that NIve is coming at your podcast i was pretty much surprised. I think that we all have that type of an artist whom we want to keep just for ourselves, and NIve is exactly that person. When a year ago or several months ago i got a recommendation from youtube on his song ‘Tired’, after listening to it i fell in love with him and his music at first sight. Its so good that he finally is getting the attention that he deserves and as a loyal fan of him im very proud since he’s doing well but at the same time i want to keep him as my little secret (dont get wrong but i just way too much love him and his music but he definitely deserves a whole world). Seeing my favorite musician on a favorite show/podcast is just like a dream. Thank you a lot. I enjoyed very much those 49 minutes. Thank you, Dive studios 💜

[@xxrexentedx5020]

I don’t have any fears that I know off. Also a soon as I finished this podcast I went and searched kard skydiving right away

[@salyna5040]

Same lol

[@jenelynsamuel2227]

"It's not failure until you quit" -PENIEL 💙 Thank you for this reminder, I'm in the brink of quitting.

[@Mieklet]

nive being so incredibly talented and very shy and nervous makes him so much cuter omg

[@skarolis999]

The timing of this episode could not have been worse :D its literally 2am here

[@_checosb1tch_236]

Bruh I’m watching it at 12 in the morning here in the states, in the dark...in my living room...by myself

[@janelledonayre3931]

i am ashley.. i am not afraid of bugs... i like how peniel is lighting up the mood

[@p-minusone]

Just wanted to say this probably one of my favorite episodes! I found NIve super relatable as I am an introvert and overall just loved everything that was talked about here! ❤

[@zoyanasiriqbal]

Can ya'll have nIve again ? He was the most soothing guest to listen to so far idk why😂

[@fatimaabdullah2641]

Oh thank you sooooOooOoO much for having NIVE.... he’s songs are so littttttt🔥🔥🔥

[@angiecoco4329]

Peniel gives such good advice omg his response to the podcast question was so smart

[@seolarflwr8866]

I love this! NIve has one of the best voices I've ever heard

[@jaeriyncotton]

No one: Literally noone: Me: they mentioned exo’s chen 😭

[@Lorena-OT7]

My biggest fear is death, not knowing if I’m going to see my kids the next morning.😢😢

[@navyafrancis1511]

Oh I'm so sorry. I don't know if it helps but there's a book called "Tuesdays with Morrie". It talks about this fear in a really light way. I think it'll help you

[@crownprince8786]

I discovered NIve in this podcast and now I am addicted to his songs.

[@adamtour2604]

YEEEEESSSSS NIVE IN THE HOUSE DUDE THIS MAN IS A LEGEND AND MY ABSOLUT FAV ARTIST LOVE THIS MAN THANK YOU GET REAL AAAAHHH

[@mahsheedx]

It’s literally nearly 2am and I’m listening to this in the dark on my own. I can’t carry on 😂😂 I’ll be back in the daylight!

[@thaac2954]

This is me watching this haha

[@ivak8988]

Wow now here is 2am tomorrow lol exact

[@aneisap7517]

Yea I'm scared of the dark... I still sleep with the lights...

[@snowfrost1218]

I started sleeping with lights on when I was 24 because I kept having nightmares when the lights are off

[@1D4everJanoskaintor]

Love NIve. Absolute taste!! Would love to see Sam Kim on here!

[@assamese5670]

So happy to see NIve joining the Get Real trio as a guest. ❤️

[@jadem2277]

I need some Peniel consultation center or something of sort in my life haha

[@katycrawford8101]

19:12 is that eric’s laugh in the back

[@mariagonim]

i usually listen to get real on spotify while at work and i work night shift so yes i listened to this at 2 in the morning today but had to stop when bm talked abt the window hahahah now im here to continue this since the suns up 😂😂

[@coolgaterr]

i was planning to listen to it on spotify when it came out last night but then i knew they'd probably talk about ghost stuff bc its almost halloween so i decided i'll watch it in the morning since i get scared so easily lol

[@adellaclarabelle803]

It’d be super great to have bangchan of straykids as a guest here! 🥺

[@samgar4216]

I love NIve, I love him so much I may start crying cause I love him, did I mention that I love him so Much? Cause I do and I wish him the best.

[@nameinkyarakhai6511]

I sit with my personal diary nowadays when listening to GetReal cause damn you guys really put out so many inspirational quotes in a single podcast... I'm so Thankful 🙏

[@ashrafdanish1077]

Take a shot every time Paniel roasts NIve challenge

[@theenaawwsomeness143]

I agree with BM about the fear in your 20s about what career path you want to choose.

[@aurynaprillia]

Anyway nive is so cute here omgg i only listened to some of his songs so far i want to squish him-

[@mozaalkharji7760]

Get Johnny and Matthew together so they both yell “ Momma we made it” 😂😂😂 If I had to speak about fears... God, I have a long list..... 😅 Growing up I was always anxious and scared. I am basically trying to untangle everything I went through when I was younger at this point in my life. I overcame some, but I still have a long way to go.

[@daydream4826]

This came out right when my dinner is ready! I'm already intrigued by NIve

[@Geraisintrouble]

can u guys invite Jamie? I think it would be a blast! love u guys

[@MsSmilingorange]

I’m just purely in love with NIve voice. Like damn, it’s so soothing I just wanna hear more and be done with life

[@dsdsds2011]

Thank you for another great episode 🥰 wish you guys were my friend irl 😭 please be safe and take care 💜

[@gertrudisrubio7167]

Love this PODCAST so Much!!! Im learning something new!!!

[@ngvtdoan]

Thank you for these amazing and genuine podcasts, these help me through tough times and are so stress relieving listening to on a rough day, huge fans of you guys and I love the content you create ❤️

[@aranaco]

NIve!!! I've been waiting for this!! Thank you Dive Studios!

[@alessalapac4620]

SO happy that nive came on! i hope to see more of him soon, he's one of a kind T^T

[@angieornelas4365]

Wow, thank you for introducing me to NIve, my God his voice is amazing... following his music now! BM I love to hear your insights on so many different topics you talk so much honesty and truth! Ashley, thank you for being so real you also have great and truthful comments. It’s great to see that you and BM are serious, and honest when it calls for it and not always making jokes or trying to be funny, Thats much appreciate it... Thank you

[@bloodsugar4092]

Peniel is so cute

[@choconimmfan5658]

Finally full episode yashhh!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ I very happy see NIve in here!! Love you Dive Studios and Love you NIve!!!❤️❤️❤️

[@amalia2098]

omg i just found him lastnight on spotify and now here u're on DIVEPODS!!!! HI NIVE👀❤

[@graxiaarevalo5570]

I'm early again. Hehe Let me enjoy my breakfast while watching this episode. Thank you

[@vyc106]

Ya lo escuche en spotify ayer pero quiero volver a escucharlo para ver sus caritas preciosas !! Me encantan nunca dejen de subir por favor !

[@pointlesspoint8130]

NIve is so amazing i want to know him better, i feel like he’s comfortable with you guys and really love how you make everyone feel confirtable🖤

[@karenv525]

Thank you for having Nive on your show. I've only just started watching recently and I'm enjoying your discussions and the artists you've had on your program. I only heard about Nive maybe 2 years ago when I listened to his song "Who I am". I love that song it's such a real and honest song. So I feel really happy for Nive and the successes he's had so far. I can tell it's a hard business to succeed in, and I'm sure because of his quiet personality it may have been quite difficult for him at times, but he's persevered and is doing well now, and I'm truly happy for him. I think he's very talented, and cute to. :) Good luck to you all with your show, may it continue to do well. BTW, I think you're a great team, you all work well together.

[@fangirleia3532]

Main reason I really love Get Real is how relatable everything is! Like for this episode, it makes me think that even if we all have different careers, we still go through the same fears and experiences. Really enjoyed this one per usual! Can’t wait for the next one 💕 love you guys!!!

[@casandraogoe8394]

I really enjoyed this podcast it always gives me Good vibes I love the positive energy 😊👏

[@veritush]

this episode was SO enjoyable. I had never heard about NIve, so I'm going to go listen to his stuff. he seems super honest- liked him instantly

[@nappylappy]

This was such a nice Halloween treat 🌟liked it a lot Thank you Ash, Peniel and BM💙 Get real =life coach service 🌌

[@munirahabdulkarim3656]

i really like this podcast more than anything on dive omg this podcast is

[@Kimnjoshuamonet]

Ashley, BM and Peniel did a Wonderful job trying to make NIve feel comfortable. Lovely podcast, thanks guys

[@SittieSaheda]

As a very introverted person I relate to NIve’s fears a lot. Glad you guys had him on the show!

[@Nmn4821]

TT.TT NIve THANK YOU FOR WRITING GREAT SONGS FOR CHEN

[@streuselkuchen2.061]

Dam* i listened to all of the podcasts, some even twice, and now i dont have more episodes😭 cant wait for the next one🥰

[@brooklynrayner]

BLESS THIS CHANNEL OH MY I LOVE YALL

[@marthagama6940]

You guys are my workout buddy’s I would love to hear a podcast about what keeps you motivated in general: life, produce music, workout, work.

[@preciouslyunhinged]

NIve seems so cool and talented,am going to check out his work.this episode is so good i enjoyed

[@MsVenus100]

peniel is so wise wow i'm impressed. he gives really good advice

[@laurarenteria3346]

Nive’s vibe is amazing

[@lupiitaa123]

I've never heard a long podcast but this went by so fast! Came by to check this out cause Vale Luna the girl that send the question share it in her social media :) Now I'm completely interesting in listening to you guys

[@Helmer_Marra]

I am watching this for the 4th time, it's 30/08/2022 because I love NIve's voice and Get Real Podcast. The sensation is the same, thank you for the comfort. ;)

[@MsSalugi]

My man NIve over here looking like Danny Phantom and I love it👻❤️

[@reinatheresia7636]

ok but nive in so so cute like he is an introvert but like they made it more comfortable for him, and the fear of meeting new people i can relate to that, i'm a first year in uni and i still remember my first time walking to a dr. cz i was late i was shaking and stuttering but i managed to actually talk and now my classmates are my homies. so i'm trying my best to actually become social person . we got this fam

[@lily52v32]

I love Beautiful Goodbye by Chen. Thanks NIve for the song!