Well said 🎯.But to be honest being on a friendship zone with someone you got feelings for " it will end in tears one day "
@nana1official2 жыл бұрын
"The Best relationships are the ones not forced"💯
@shebahdebrah60762 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@nana1official2 жыл бұрын
@@shebahdebrah6076 👍
@juniorrichyung2 жыл бұрын
Word🙌
@shebahdebrah60762 жыл бұрын
@@nana1official those are lasting relationships. You don't struggle to make things perfect
@nana1official2 жыл бұрын
@@shebahdebrah6076 absolutely dear and I pray for such one day
@enforcer110002 жыл бұрын
I was friends with a girl for at least ten years & repeatedly tried to be with her. So me thinking that there could've been something more kept trying. Well one year I just stopped.... Stopped being available stopped calling all the time & I came out & told her I was dating.... She cussed me clean out in jealousy she then & only then realized she liked me for a romantic relationship. That's when I let her have it & told her I tried for 10yrs to be with you. Now I'm happily married & not to her lol
@itumelengmosailane11922 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣That's true they always want to see you suffer
@southernguru14552 жыл бұрын
Shit fam 10 years is a whole new level of simpery I highly doubt once she finally liked you that you left lol biggest cap I heard in this topic
@southernguru14552 жыл бұрын
@@fml5910 bro are u joking or are u serious? If you are serious listen bro, she is clearly playing you and laughing behind your back. I'm not trying to be no asshole but seriously. You're missing the most important kind of respect, self respect. If you cant respect yourself how Can a woman respect you? A woman only has sex with a man she respects. Again I am not trying to be an asshole, I'm being completely crudely honest brother. When she said she loves u but she doesn't she meant to say she loves u like a brother (non sexually) women just sometimes can't even learn to express themselves correctly, and it's bit irritating I know. Also when you didn't hug her the first date mightve been you very big mistake. You gave her the impression that you didn't see her in that way and that's exactly what caused all this honestly from what I understood
@enforcer110002 жыл бұрын
@@southernguru1455 I did leave her alone I had a girlfriend at the time. I don't play that game.
@Deathcabforeli2 жыл бұрын
I could barely handle 3 months lmao 10 years is nuts!!
@theawesomeinc_64832 жыл бұрын
Walking away is the best. Never beg for a woman's love lol.
@k_dan_jr2 жыл бұрын
If she hasn't made that decision to be with you, pls gerrit and expand ur search. We all know what we want and I'm sure none of us need to be 'forced' into a relationship.
@theawesomeinc_64832 жыл бұрын
@@k_dan_jr I don't think there was any confusion in what I said lol
@k_dan_jr2 жыл бұрын
@@theawesomeinc_6483 not in the least..its crystal clear.....walk away if you ever have to beg for love...
@hermesent541510 ай бұрын
Thank you, Jessica Os. That is one of the problems most girls have. Some of them want to friend zone a guy they truly want to engage in a romantic relationship with just to prove hard to get, not knowing that some guys don't know how to love a girl twice. By the time she is ready for a relationship, the guy might have lost all interest in her but will pretend to play along just to get back at her, and that's when she will feel like the guy is a bad guy. Sincerly grownup guys hate chasing girls.
@plotakiotrionqui21162 жыл бұрын
You’re one of the few channels that I get notifications for every time you post and I have a plan to watch all of your videos!
@JessicaOS2 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@surkozytm33312 жыл бұрын
Kind of reality pyschological shits love from tz
@michaelonyenuforo24552 жыл бұрын
Your points are top notch. Most of the time when you're friendzone. it's always difficult to come out of it most especially if she doesn't find you as someone she will love to have as a boyfriend. meanwhile she doesn't want to lose your sight. it's manipulative kind of relationship when you're the one in love there. And The best option is to walk away if you don't stand a chance.
@familoyeabiodun96302 жыл бұрын
Woman!!! You're brilliant, you sure know where,when and how to talk....May God continue to increase your wisdoms and understandings. Thanks for the good job done.
@samuelabai2 жыл бұрын
Amen!
@lempiezoangula95522 жыл бұрын
Shuuu .... such a powerful message Jessica. It's a right thing to accept when you are not ready. It's hard because you feel hurt and feel jealous 😔.
@bigbrotalkin2 жыл бұрын
I was friends, which later transformed being lover, then friends with benefits then lover again with a girl who stayed many 1000 kms away. Due to pandemic and war we aren’t able to meet for the last 2.5 years. We also broke up for a year. She came back to be lover, which again changed to be friends. I told her that I love her and can’t remain friends with her. She offered to be friends with benefits. I walked away today wishing her love, light and luck. I feel lighter dropping the weight of the one sided love, honestly I don’t feel too bad and somehow I saw that I’m better off alone and use the learning from this relationship.
@ridgerunner33642 жыл бұрын
Good advice, just walk away. I had to do this exact thing about 10 days ago. It was not easy, I was very attracted to her.
@aliassem1035Ай бұрын
Congratulations, you did something that 70% of men won’t do. I also walked away from the person whom I thought was the loml, I liked her for a year and a half, didn’t tell her, I know my fault but when I did confess, she told me she only saw us as “genuine friends”. Never ran so fast
@ModernDatingMastery2 ай бұрын
*When she says she wants to be just friends, the best move is to respect her boundaries and shift your focus elsewhere. Staying emotionally invested in someone who doesn’t reciprocate will only hold you back from building a connection with someone who truly values you.*
@tankthearc9875Ай бұрын
but never accept it
@Wisdomkey72 жыл бұрын
If a man forced a woman into a relationship, she is prone to cheat on that man because she didn't wants him in the first place.
@jasencadet12 Жыл бұрын
true
@bryantworley29222 жыл бұрын
I, personally, think that walking away is the best option, overall. Negotiating is no good, because the woman should already know if she wants you, especially if you've been friends for quite a while. All that has to be remembered is that a man should exercise self-control and not allow his feelings (and, ultimately, his loins) to get into an uproar for a woman who hasn't said 'Yes!' yet. And no one should EVER think that they deserve a relationship with anyone who is not onboard with that. Thinking like that is what produces stalkers, etc.
@dawudaal-amin58252 жыл бұрын
Absolutely!
@tfrancois62982 жыл бұрын
Facts 💯, one thing I observed is women knows who they want from the get go so for the fact that she still thinking about it, your an OPTION.......
@stevenroshni12282 жыл бұрын
Negotiating is best if she says maybe.
@craigsaunders95992 жыл бұрын
Better to forget that particular girl and talk to another girl. She is playing mind games
@raphaelbanda14942 жыл бұрын
True Jessica you speak with passion can't force someone to love you the best is let it go the same way you find her still find someone else what is important is to focus on solutions and make a decision weather it hurt you or not and is to appreciate the outcome and always respect a person who openly tell you the position means someone care for you and looking for best for you because fighting too much you end up missing opportunity around you
@isaacagyei1632 жыл бұрын
Sister I thank you so much for this am facing the same problem and decided to walk away
@pianolessonswithcollins87562 жыл бұрын
Thanks Jessie,, value all the way❤️...we hitting a million this year
@Rojomanimationstudio8 ай бұрын
thank you very much I have been friend zone today, Option 4 is the best option for me
@benergy100k22 жыл бұрын
*Never try to convince a heart which doesn't like you to like you. It's like rain falling in a desert pm sand.*
@fredrick2025 Жыл бұрын
Correct
@chris_34962 жыл бұрын
Guys, it's not that serious. If she just wants to be friends, just leave. Have some self respect. And have an abundance mindset. Chances are that you'll flip the switch and she will not want to lose you, so she'll start chasing you. If that doesn't happen, it will mean you saved time and emotions on another girl and you will reap the benefits there. Win/Win.
@alindaaaron9603 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this
@josezerpa8177 Жыл бұрын
This is the right answer. Let her go, move on, and carry on with your life. And one more thing, you cannot never negotiate with a woman who has made up her mind, specially coming from a logical standpoint. Just take your L, chin up, and walk away.
@darrenspeirs34749 ай бұрын
My girlfriends comes back from a 10 day holiday , tells me she missed me so much and loves me so much , spends the night with me everything seems so good , then she drops the bomb can we be friends after dating 2 years , what your opinions
@chris_34969 ай бұрын
@@darrenspeirs3474 agree with her and move on. You're a man. You'll only appreciate in value. It is difficult and it hurts in the beginning but it will definitely pay off in the long run.
@Bestow30009 ай бұрын
She'll try to chase after you if you walk away. But she's chasing after the validation and attention you give her. She still won't give you the affection sadly.
@plotakiotrionqui21162 жыл бұрын
I love you so much, thank you so much for sharing your wisdom and intellect!
@professionalamateur2322 жыл бұрын
Option 3 is the only options when she wants to be "just friends". he didn't gather the courage to ask her out to just be her friend. He could have simply asked her to be friends. What kind of "friendship" exists where she gets 100% of what she wants from him and at most he gets 50% of what he wants from her? She merely wants to continue to get his attention, validation, and any potentially any other perks.
@Dabsteras2 жыл бұрын
So tonight, i basically walked away, i sent a beautiful text, expressing my feelings, describing what i saw in her and what i wanted, but since she is on a different page, I have no choice but to move on... it really hurts... but i can't do this anymore... Deeply i want her to process what happened and change her mind, so wish me luck!! But if she doesn't change her mind, I'm taking my premium frienship somewhere else!!
@jossell9112 жыл бұрын
I feel you!!
@niddlianknight Жыл бұрын
Hey, how did it go?
@Dabsteras Жыл бұрын
@@niddlianknight We had a small conversation some time later, but never talked again
@niddlianknight Жыл бұрын
@@Dabsteras oh damn. Any advice? So me and this girl started talking in July and we were both in summer break so we only ever texted or sent each other snap chat vlogs. Then in September in person we went on a few dates and I asked her to be my girlfriend and she said yes but then broke up a few days later because she wasn’t ready for a relationship. Her ex was very abusive and they only broke up a few months ago. We stayed normal friends for a week until we started making out again but two days ago I told her I loved her and now she says she wants to stay friends forever. She still likes me and I still like her. Sorry this was long
@Dabsteras Жыл бұрын
@@niddlianknight I’m not good at advice but I’ll give you my opinion. To me she seems a little bit confused. Don’t push things any further, give her some time to think and process all of this, after a while if she still want to stay friends and you can’t handle this you don’t really have a choice but to let go, believe me, I know it’s hard but you shouldn’t wait forever if she may change her mind. Explain to her that since you are on a different page, you have to move on. Now if you cut contact with her and she was feeling something, she may get scared that she will lose you and try to come around, but if she doesn’t come around you will know that her mind was already made up and she probably won’t miss you…
@terryharris2558 Жыл бұрын
If someone doesn't feel the same way about you, accept the fact and move on. You can't negotiate attraction. Walk away with your dignity intact.
@RiceMan882 жыл бұрын
Currently going through this with a girl. She rated me an 8/10. I asked her why she said my smile and laugh is a winner. But then she tells me she only sees me as friends. But she’s so curious about my life asking me personal questions. This girl is driving me crazy!!
@bryantworley29222 жыл бұрын
Don't let her tell you she just wants to be friends twice. She may find you (and your life) interesting as a person, but she said "FRIENDS". Other fish in the sea.
@RiceMan882 жыл бұрын
@@bryantworley2922 can you please clarify more on what you mean? Thanks! 🙏
@halidcontent65502 жыл бұрын
@@RiceMan88 he mean you should go fine someone who will love you for whom you’re.
@bryantworley29222 жыл бұрын
@@RiceMan88 Sure. Anybody can be interesting to talk to/find out about. Doesn't have to mean romantic interest. And you don't want to show any emotional immaturity by making more of it than is necessary. The woman, by friends-zoning, you has told you, 'No! Move on!' Do what she said. She doesn't owe you anything, not even an explanation. And if you keep up the 'full-court press', she's not going to talk to you anymore. Further, saying she's driving you crazy by showing interest in your life, shows a little immaturity. So stop it. If she changes her mind, she'll let you know. Let it go, because she can't be the only girl you find interesting. If she is, there's something wrong with you, and your circle of female friends.
@RiceMan882 жыл бұрын
@@bryantworley2922 thank you for that. You’re 100% right. It’s just so hard to to walk away from someone you truly love. But, she may feel the opposite as I do. I’ve got to understand that.
@Andrew-vw4vl Жыл бұрын
Love listening to this lady, feeds your brain with so much!!! I walk away many times for me to be friends with a girl that has to start from childhood otherwise no… girls friend zoning you is a disrespect and what she trying to tell u is that she is better than you and your not in her league
@juzz62712 жыл бұрын
I swear i really needed this. Am in this situation. Thanks 💯
@hafsatmuhammed24142 жыл бұрын
Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,I got help from a great man who brought us back together......
@hafsatmuhammed24142 жыл бұрын
Wh atsA p p👆him now❤❤
@JorgeRamirez-ij6fo Жыл бұрын
Great video. You're really good at this. Thanks for the insight.
@JessicaOS Жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@JorgeRamirez-ij6fo Жыл бұрын
Yeah, my problem is I'm in mid-40s, and she's in mid 20s. But she started all the flirting knowing this already. Then she pulled back. I'd say mostly my fault for getting swayed.
@bhil_mhe81802 жыл бұрын
Wow Jessica is really awesome when it comes to this relationship matters and I really enjoyed her videos
@johnmathew88782 жыл бұрын
Babe the last point you dropped was 🔥 lit. Very much on point
@clementstephen60262 жыл бұрын
I am currently in this friend zone of a thing, but that's not my real intention towards this beautiful lady. Like seriously I do intend to quite this friend zone, after six months. Her indecisiveness is causing harm to me. This post has giving me a clue over what I need to do.
@michaelaiyepada72762 жыл бұрын
Please do. I just did.. And I'm better now.
@WitchOnABroomstick2 жыл бұрын
be real for once jeez
@badraven_indieauthor8 ай бұрын
Thank you for your honest and candid advice. It was respectful and to the point. We don't want to be belittle anyone. I'm grateful I stumbled upon your video. God bless you!
@VideosVonDennis3 ай бұрын
Walking away will only do anything in rare cases because these days they have so many options that you're (and I am not kidding) forgotten within a day or two.
@andremartin89172 жыл бұрын
I swear you be finding the perfect topics 💯 thank you for the knowledge
@vwederepublic88792 жыл бұрын
Jessica you are blessed with relationship prowess ✌🏼. Last week I told my classmate about how I feel about her and I told her I would love to be in a relationship with her someday immediately after our upcoming MBBS professional exams a few months from now. But since this moment she started acting distance and give excuses from not wanting to see me. Please I don't really know what she is up to.
@michaelaiyepada72762 жыл бұрын
She doesn't like you.. don't waste your time and energy. I just experience the same thing last few months. She came out to tell me she's not interested
@nigelbowler1601 Жыл бұрын
once you have been friend zoned its a tower not meant to be move on you should know your self worth & value dignity there loss not yours you deserve better bless be all.
@Hayloof17 күн бұрын
I’ve known this guy for 10 plus years. Never defined it as friendship or anything. I was also dating a lot during this time to be married but I’d been holding back a little because of him. We would just check in from time to time on each others birthdays or after a big event or just to say hey. We went out for lunch a few times recently but nothing ever came of it, flirting here and there but just mostly being there for each other through work or life troubles.. new years he reaches out to say happy new years and I asked him what he considered our relationship as. He said he considered us to be just friends but not close 😢 and so I agreed to the guy I was dating for some time to his engagement proposal… now my “friend”.. he won’t speak to me 🌝
@dansonrubucwa257 Жыл бұрын
Am so grateful I had to come across to this video Very helpful indeed.
@melkizedekikalanga33492 жыл бұрын
Purposefully and beautiful one,, God bless this Woman...
@MG007.7 ай бұрын
Anyone that Friendzones you. Leave her ass immediately. Respect yourself and know your worth as a person. Dont be bitter and angry just be absent
@alexanderv4609 Жыл бұрын
Never accept Option 1. Even if your feeling are not so deep, it may grow if you stay. Option 2 does not make sense. If you were rejected, there is no point to ask her to reconsider. She may do it only with a time. Option 3 is the only one. Someday, she may get back to you, but even if it happens, the chance that it will work later is not really high.
@CraftyShawn2 жыл бұрын
Being in the friend zone is not a bad thing. Some times you can build a different relationship in the friend zone. Some of my female friends I would never date, because crossing that line would forever ruin the type of friendship we have.
@stevenroshni12282 жыл бұрын
Yeah, maybe she knows it's a terrible romantic match but you haven't seen it yet. That happened to me that I eventually saw we had different values.
@jefe2098 Жыл бұрын
My friend makes plans to go out all the time alone or with the 4 grandkids at least I'll never starve she's always cooking something at her house for me my phone broke for about a week she came to my work looking for me
@gilbertkangwa52 жыл бұрын
Thanks indeed have learnt something serious and have watched it at a time where am experiencing such
@trevorross13112 жыл бұрын
The last one was the best one for me,because most times the majority of women hook up with bad guys and when ur in the friend zone they fall back on u.U can do it that way or just win her over in the first place and not end up in the friend zone.
@ridgerunner33642 жыл бұрын
Why? Why do women prefer the bad boys when they already know the outcome? SMH!
@trevorross13112 жыл бұрын
@@ridgerunner3364 don't spend too much time thinking about that my guy, it's how they were made and wired. Their attracted to that kind of behavior because of the thrill, and because of the fact that if ur too soft most times than not ur not going to be able to protect them. And this is also a big factor, if u can't protect a woman there's no use in her being with u.
@ridgerunner33642 жыл бұрын
@@trevorross1311 Thanks man, its hard to swallow. Things didnt use to be that way.
@trevorross13112 жыл бұрын
@@ridgerunner3364 no worries my guy, just collect the pieces and move along. Atleast u got that experience, so now ur better equip. That's the beauty of life.👍🏾👍🏾
@DearGod-e2f2 жыл бұрын
Jessica always coming in clutch 🥶🔥
@MrKonaduApraku2 жыл бұрын
Jessica always knows the right topics and knows the perfect time to talk about it is is what am going through now
@geraldshouse84822 жыл бұрын
Likewise me
@Makarioslife2 жыл бұрын
Haaaaaha same here 😂😂😂😂
@Theaiguru222 жыл бұрын
Bro you are here too, hmm. The best place for advice for young men, Mummy really appreciate whta you are doing 💕
@bowalearowosafe2 жыл бұрын
Likeee😌
@promiseguy022 жыл бұрын
I tell you... Seems to be in the spirit... Hahaha 😁
@jivonstephen66772 жыл бұрын
Good morning Jess hope all is well today just want you to continue being you, and never change for anyone except for yourself management ok ,like you just the way you are babe, just felt like reaching out to you , so keep sweet Jessica continue pressing forward. This is a wonderful day for you to have, keep having every moment of it Wonderfully.
@JessicaOS2 жыл бұрын
I truly appreciate your support ❤️
@jivonstephen66772 жыл бұрын
Thanks , and you're always welcome Jessica.
@octagonmixltd Жыл бұрын
Thank you Jessica...
@princewillnwachimereze21232 жыл бұрын
I love this and I'm doing it right away (walking away)
@thecreativetrix9762 жыл бұрын
Thanks, Jessica, please the link you dropped for '' how to escape and friend zone and get the relationship you deserve '' keeps directing me to another video.
@CJChege2 жыл бұрын
Thanks. Your advice is always the absolute business 🤗
@Iam_Maximum2 жыл бұрын
Jessica.... You're the bomb, thanks for sharing these tips on your channel, it has really helped me a lot. God bless
@McHayford2 жыл бұрын
wow..wow..wow this just gave me goosebumps. I am kinda in a similar situation but in this case, the lady is confused. I have given her the option that we take things slowly or I walk away from her life totally and damn it, I am good at walking away. Just friends with her aint an option.
@007-065 ай бұрын
Thank you very much for your valuable input. God bless you
@dhanrajmohan701 Жыл бұрын
Public comment. Jessica really enjoyed your wonderful video. You are amazing Jessica..continue the great work..i wish you health and strength and peace and happiness always.
@owenjeremy5384 Жыл бұрын
So helpful I love option 2
@theodorelevia51222 жыл бұрын
I just see this video.I have to watch until the end.I have not find the time,but I will because I really need to hear this ♥️🇧🇸⚓
@siulong13942 жыл бұрын
I felt like she was falling for me because she was starting to pursue me. However, at that point, she started to back off and I wasn't ready for that. It caught me off guard and I lost my s**t. I started pursuing her and becoming needy. I know, that was a bad mistake. She dumped me and even told me she founded someone else (I don't know if that was true or a lie). I went no contact and, after two months of radio silence, she reached out. However, nothing good came out of it. The strange thing was that she wanted to know if I was dating someone else and tried to make me jealous. At the end of the summer I asked her for a date and she used some BS excuse to reject my offer. I told her that for me it was over and walked away. It's been six months since then and I've never heard from her again.
@chrisjhallet2 жыл бұрын
I'm really enjoying this... Now u like the person that very much and you told her ur feelings and she's aware of it buh she's not certain if she should be with you, buh she's trying to be nice and later she tells you she can't do this, and u're broken hearted... Buh u tried and walked away, buh in ur heart u wish she'll come back to you.. and months later or even years that ur wish comes true .. Do you accept her that easily or u'll also pretend u don't want her, buh in ur heart u really wants her to come back
@patiencetagbor1303 Жыл бұрын
My guy if she only wants to be friends it's not a sin... Just focus on your life and look for someone who doesn't want to only be friends with you but wants to be in a relationship with you... Don't waste your life it's as simple as that or you can risk being beaten by another guy who is not even on your level 😂😂
@nanafuaboahemaarhule51652 жыл бұрын
Jessy, please keep it up cos you are my mentor 🥰🌈
@melodyburt70682 жыл бұрын
Thank you Jessica,I could watch this one again. Very helpy
@Nnmtes6 ай бұрын
You're fine just the way you are. The most important is that you're natural. You look great 🥰🥰
@living_craft2 жыл бұрын
You are wise... Too wise Jessica.. Seriously thank you...
@sarahboakye76912 жыл бұрын
Jessica 👏❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ Always with the right videos 👌✌️ Soar higher 🙌🔥
@pontianekakoro17372 жыл бұрын
This is how I do it: #1. There is simply no option of accepting that insulting offer. #2. If I demonstrate to her why I am the best suited for her and she insists, I will make it clear that I want nothing less of a romantic relationship and walk away. If she comes back to me within a reasonable time, say in under 2 weeks, I will pursue a relationship with her fully as if no hitch had occurred. I will understand that she might have had her uncertainties (they are normal) or she was probably going through something. #3. If I walk away and she comes back to me after months, a year or several, then I know that she has been in another or several relationships she thought would be better than what I could offer but they have disappointed her. She's therefore only coming back to me as a second (or third or fourth, or....) option. Now that's an insult and I ususally do 1 of 2 things. If the woman is still looking hot and appealing to me sexually, I will get intimate with her and dump her and tell her my mind to her face. If I no longer find her appealing even physically, I will tell her off and remind her everything and show her the middle finger. In either case, there is just no way I am dating the woman who rejected me on mundane grounds. I am not a wastebin. And, ironically, when you walk away, she will ALWAYS come back looking for you, somehow. No matter how long it takes.
@erniemyers12392 жыл бұрын
Hahaha she always said that but then you have to support her financially 😄
@ridgerunner33642 жыл бұрын
Truth
@testimonyamu53302 жыл бұрын
A big thanks to you Jessi....Our Sister.... thanks 💯💯
@ashenafimamo4152 жыл бұрын
Much love From Ethiopia!
@wisesailor18962 жыл бұрын
Hi Jess, you're right on point....The "Walk Away" part works magic...I can attest to that... My long forgotten Ex girlfriend came back begging for us to be at least friends after a year plus of break up. what's your advice?
@ericngumbi21552 жыл бұрын
You've helped me so much Jessica
@dannyrwagamba2 жыл бұрын
100% true. Good content
@125minden2 жыл бұрын
Thanks Jessica you cheered me up.👍
@PeaceOfMind81902 жыл бұрын
First! Keep rising and grinding Queen 👸🏾 💪🏾
@greatandpowerfultАй бұрын
so I’ve been friends with my neighbor for over nine months and we became good friends and in those times through her hardship and troubles that I had witnessed I was there to be there for her, but during those times I developed feelings for her and even expressed my feelings to multiple times, matter fact I expressed my feelings to her the third time on Christmas Day, which I was turned down again. But even though it hurts, I value our friendship more. she has been there for me more times that I can count just as much as I have been there for her. We don’t hold any secrets. We tell each other everything and even though it hurts I’m willing to be there for her. I’m just trying to get her to see that I’m the right guy for her. with that being said I think walking away and keeping my self distance from her and to walk away when you’re when she’s your next-door neighbor.
@rorymclaughlin16092 жыл бұрын
I respect the options, just do number 3
@melkizedekikalanga33492 жыл бұрын
You are very clever my friend, unique one and intelligent, love you so much, keep it up,,,
@gordonmugisha36772 жыл бұрын
Awesome,wow
@SHOWERSTVBIZ2 жыл бұрын
Awesome. Love every bit of it. Keep up the good work.
@jekbauer93522 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much. I feel better now 😅
@theawesomeinc_64832 жыл бұрын
Friend zone is an insult lol. Any girl that tells you that tryna tell you , you ain't all that. Work on you bro!!
@JosyTalks2 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂
@theawesomeinc_64832 жыл бұрын
@@JosyTalks nah tell me I'm lyin lmao. Y'all girls be movin funny fr!!!
@keonhobgood15512 жыл бұрын
Either that or she knows she anit all that and feel you can do better. Had a girl friendzone me one time and her friend told me I don’t know why she won’t date you she likes you a lot but thinks you deserve better than her.
@theawesomeinc_64832 жыл бұрын
@@keonhobgood1551 that's a polite way of telling you , she never getting with you lol. Women be sneaky sometimes, if a woman really like you, she make it easy for you!!
@keonhobgood15512 жыл бұрын
Oh I know I’m not one that struggles with women i have a problem getting rid of them lol but I’m just stating that there are rare exceptions sometimes. Notice I didn’t say she told me that her friend that I started smashing after she told me she just wanted to be friends told me she said that.
@neuraspike2 жыл бұрын
I wish your video came out yesterday.
@michaelg74562 жыл бұрын
Thanks Jessica for another great job 👍
@oaktownish83222 жыл бұрын
If she calls you cause “she misses you” after you walked away you’re just a rebound and a second option!
@larryhurley23142 жыл бұрын
How could you be a rebound if you walked away from the same woman ?
@Cwebstar1991 Жыл бұрын
@@larryhurley2314 thank you for logic stepping in finally in these comments.
@tankthearc9875Ай бұрын
not the rebound , but yes her back up option
@TDE82410 күн бұрын
Ain’t gonna happen.
@user-qb4on2qm7z Жыл бұрын
Surprisingly accurate advice. Most female dating coaches suck and give you the shittiest advice but you did a very good job.
@jossell9112 жыл бұрын
Taking my premium friendship elsewhere!! Great vid💯
@wilsonpatterson2 жыл бұрын
Greeting Precious Lady, since the last time I responded to you, you have presented a number of videos that I have learned from and enjoyed. What makes you videos excellent in my opinion is you do not hold back on the details. You are an excellent communicator in my opinion. I appreciate what you do! Wilson P . S. How do I access the patron account?
@JessicaOS2 жыл бұрын
Www.patreon.com/jessicaos
@TheJayMoeShow2 жыл бұрын
Nicely done ☑️ good content 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@Gbb93 Жыл бұрын
I’ve reconnected with a lady I dated for a few months about 2 years ago. We have been texting/calling for over 3 months now and have spent time together twice. Most recently we confessed how into each other we are/were and she even said she realized she loved me. We got physicals, to say the least… But then she said she has a gut feeling that I’m not the one, and thinks we should keep things away from romance. I feel like we never built a true companionship, which is vital for the longevity of any romantic relationship. There’s always sexual tension between us and she can’t keep her hands off of me, so I know that despite her wanting friendship, it’s not because there isn’t a spark. Part of me wants to agree to friendship because I want to show her that I’m invested in more than a physical, romantic relationship. The other part of me thinks I need to stand firm on what I want from her and let her know that although I want companionship, I know there will always be that chemistry between us and I don’t want to pretend it’s not there.
@RoyalJesusChrist Жыл бұрын
This girl is jerking you around? "Gut feeling"? Please. That is pretty insulting of her.
@Mgroove_1 Жыл бұрын
I will actually do the walk away option I have deleted her picture and i will delete all connections with her
@tekbase012 жыл бұрын
Jessica you are the best
@hafsatmuhammed24142 жыл бұрын
Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,I got help from a great man who brought us back together......
@hafsatmuhammed24142 жыл бұрын
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@hafsatmuhammed24142 жыл бұрын
Wh atsA p p👆him now
@ezrakaunda32082 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for the message
@geekhacthon-pythonista90022 жыл бұрын
Love you Jessica ..You're the best
@criptoexclusivos2 жыл бұрын
re-directing thoughts is basically a way of manipulation. If a woman is not interested the best option is to walk away and move on, life is too short to wish for something to happen while the person you like is not interested or attracted to a different person and you're the second option
@tommens5305 Жыл бұрын
Relationships are not forced. If a woman tells you she wants to be a friend. Ma guy don't waste your time. Just forget her and move on. That's all.
@wilgensjoseph16552 жыл бұрын
I am from Haiti, i really love your video and your way of teaching, but it would be best for the beginners if you could add the lyric in the screen while talking in the next video!