What to do when she wants to be 'Just friends'

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Jessica Os

Jessica Os

Күн бұрын

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@TheGreatShepherd.
@TheGreatShepherd. 2 жыл бұрын
Well said 🎯.But to be honest being on a friendship zone with someone you got feelings for " it will end in tears one day "
@nana1official
@nana1official 2 жыл бұрын
"The Best relationships are the ones not forced"💯
@shebahdebrah6076
@shebahdebrah6076 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@nana1official
@nana1official 2 жыл бұрын
@@shebahdebrah6076 👍
@juniorrichyung
@juniorrichyung 2 жыл бұрын
Word🙌
@shebahdebrah6076
@shebahdebrah6076 2 жыл бұрын
@@nana1official those are lasting relationships. You don't struggle to make things perfect
@nana1official
@nana1official 2 жыл бұрын
@@shebahdebrah6076 absolutely dear and I pray for such one day
@enforcer11000
@enforcer11000 2 жыл бұрын
I was friends with a girl for at least ten years & repeatedly tried to be with her. So me thinking that there could've been something more kept trying. Well one year I just stopped.... Stopped being available stopped calling all the time & I came out & told her I was dating.... She cussed me clean out in jealousy she then & only then realized she liked me for a romantic relationship. That's when I let her have it & told her I tried for 10yrs to be with you. Now I'm happily married & not to her lol
@itumelengmosailane1192
@itumelengmosailane1192 2 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣That's true they always want to see you suffer
@southernguru1455
@southernguru1455 2 жыл бұрын
Shit fam 10 years is a whole new level of simpery I highly doubt once she finally liked you that you left lol biggest cap I heard in this topic
@southernguru1455
@southernguru1455 2 жыл бұрын
@@fml5910 bro are u joking or are u serious? If you are serious listen bro, she is clearly playing you and laughing behind your back. I'm not trying to be no asshole but seriously. You're missing the most important kind of respect, self respect. If you cant respect yourself how Can a woman respect you? A woman only has sex with a man she respects. Again I am not trying to be an asshole, I'm being completely crudely honest brother. When she said she loves u but she doesn't she meant to say she loves u like a brother (non sexually) women just sometimes can't even learn to express themselves correctly, and it's bit irritating I know. Also when you didn't hug her the first date mightve been you very big mistake. You gave her the impression that you didn't see her in that way and that's exactly what caused all this honestly from what I understood
@enforcer11000
@enforcer11000 2 жыл бұрын
@@southernguru1455 I did leave her alone I had a girlfriend at the time. I don't play that game.
@Deathcabforeli
@Deathcabforeli 2 жыл бұрын
I could barely handle 3 months lmao 10 years is nuts!!
@theawesomeinc_6483
@theawesomeinc_6483 2 жыл бұрын
Walking away is the best. Never beg for a woman's love lol.
@k_dan_jr
@k_dan_jr 2 жыл бұрын
If she hasn't made that decision to be with you, pls gerrit and expand ur search. We all know what we want and I'm sure none of us need to be 'forced' into a relationship.
@theawesomeinc_6483
@theawesomeinc_6483 2 жыл бұрын
@@k_dan_jr I don't think there was any confusion in what I said lol
@k_dan_jr
@k_dan_jr 2 жыл бұрын
@@theawesomeinc_6483 not in the least..its crystal clear.....walk away if you ever have to beg for love...
@hermesent5415
@hermesent5415 10 ай бұрын
Thank you, Jessica Os. That is one of the problems most girls have. Some of them want to friend zone a guy they truly want to engage in a romantic relationship with just to prove hard to get, not knowing that some guys don't know how to love a girl twice. By the time she is ready for a relationship, the guy might have lost all interest in her but will pretend to play along just to get back at her, and that's when she will feel like the guy is a bad guy. Sincerly grownup guys hate chasing girls.
@plotakiotrionqui2116
@plotakiotrionqui2116 2 жыл бұрын
You’re one of the few channels that I get notifications for every time you post and I have a plan to watch all of your videos!
@JessicaOS
@JessicaOS 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@surkozytm3331
@surkozytm3331 2 жыл бұрын
Kind of reality pyschological shits love from tz
@michaelonyenuforo2455
@michaelonyenuforo2455 2 жыл бұрын
Your points are top notch. Most of the time when you're friendzone. it's always difficult to come out of it most especially if she doesn't find you as someone she will love to have as a boyfriend. meanwhile she doesn't want to lose your sight. it's manipulative kind of relationship when you're the one in love there. And The best option is to walk away if you don't stand a chance.
@familoyeabiodun9630
@familoyeabiodun9630 2 жыл бұрын
Woman!!! You're brilliant, you sure know where,when and how to talk....May God continue to increase your wisdoms and understandings. Thanks for the good job done.
@samuelabai
@samuelabai 2 жыл бұрын
Amen!
@lempiezoangula9552
@lempiezoangula9552 2 жыл бұрын
Shuuu .... such a powerful message Jessica. It's a right thing to accept when you are not ready. It's hard because you feel hurt and feel jealous 😔.
@bigbrotalkin
@bigbrotalkin 2 жыл бұрын
I was friends, which later transformed being lover, then friends with benefits then lover again with a girl who stayed many 1000 kms away. Due to pandemic and war we aren’t able to meet for the last 2.5 years. We also broke up for a year. She came back to be lover, which again changed to be friends. I told her that I love her and can’t remain friends with her. She offered to be friends with benefits. I walked away today wishing her love, light and luck. I feel lighter dropping the weight of the one sided love, honestly I don’t feel too bad and somehow I saw that I’m better off alone and use the learning from this relationship.
@ridgerunner3364
@ridgerunner3364 2 жыл бұрын
Good advice, just walk away. I had to do this exact thing about 10 days ago. It was not easy, I was very attracted to her.
@aliassem1035
@aliassem1035 Ай бұрын
Congratulations, you did something that 70% of men won’t do. I also walked away from the person whom I thought was the loml, I liked her for a year and a half, didn’t tell her, I know my fault but when I did confess, she told me she only saw us as “genuine friends”. Never ran so fast
@ModernDatingMastery
@ModernDatingMastery 2 ай бұрын
*When she says she wants to be just friends, the best move is to respect her boundaries and shift your focus elsewhere. Staying emotionally invested in someone who doesn’t reciprocate will only hold you back from building a connection with someone who truly values you.*
@tankthearc9875
@tankthearc9875 Ай бұрын
but never accept it
@Wisdomkey7
@Wisdomkey7 2 жыл бұрын
If a man forced a woman into a relationship, she is prone to cheat on that man because she didn't wants him in the first place.
@jasencadet12
@jasencadet12 Жыл бұрын
true
@bryantworley2922
@bryantworley2922 2 жыл бұрын
I, personally, think that walking away is the best option, overall. Negotiating is no good, because the woman should already know if she wants you, especially if you've been friends for quite a while. All that has to be remembered is that a man should exercise self-control and not allow his feelings (and, ultimately, his loins) to get into an uproar for a woman who hasn't said 'Yes!' yet. And no one should EVER think that they deserve a relationship with anyone who is not onboard with that. Thinking like that is what produces stalkers, etc.
@dawudaal-amin5825
@dawudaal-amin5825 2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely!
@tfrancois6298
@tfrancois6298 2 жыл бұрын
Facts 💯, one thing I observed is women knows who they want from the get go so for the fact that she still thinking about it, your an OPTION.......
@stevenroshni1228
@stevenroshni1228 2 жыл бұрын
Negotiating is best if she says maybe.
@craigsaunders9599
@craigsaunders9599 2 жыл бұрын
Better to forget that particular girl and talk to another girl. She is playing mind games
@raphaelbanda1494
@raphaelbanda1494 2 жыл бұрын
True Jessica you speak with passion can't force someone to love you the best is let it go the same way you find her still find someone else what is important is to focus on solutions and make a decision weather it hurt you or not and is to appreciate the outcome and always respect a person who openly tell you the position means someone care for you and looking for best for you because fighting too much you end up missing opportunity around you
@isaacagyei163
@isaacagyei163 2 жыл бұрын
Sister I thank you so much for this am facing the same problem and decided to walk away
@pianolessonswithcollins8756
@pianolessonswithcollins8756 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks Jessie,, value all the way❤️...we hitting a million this year
@Rojomanimationstudio
@Rojomanimationstudio 8 ай бұрын
thank you very much I have been friend zone today, Option 4 is the best option for me
@benergy100k2
@benergy100k2 2 жыл бұрын
*Never try to convince a heart which doesn't like you to like you. It's like rain falling in a desert pm sand.*
@fredrick2025
@fredrick2025 Жыл бұрын
Correct
@chris_3496
@chris_3496 2 жыл бұрын
Guys, it's not that serious. If she just wants to be friends, just leave. Have some self respect. And have an abundance mindset. Chances are that you'll flip the switch and she will not want to lose you, so she'll start chasing you. If that doesn't happen, it will mean you saved time and emotions on another girl and you will reap the benefits there. Win/Win.
@alindaaaron9603
@alindaaaron9603 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this
@josezerpa8177
@josezerpa8177 Жыл бұрын
This is the right answer. Let her go, move on, and carry on with your life. And one more thing, you cannot never negotiate with a woman who has made up her mind, specially coming from a logical standpoint. Just take your L, chin up, and walk away.
@darrenspeirs3474
@darrenspeirs3474 9 ай бұрын
My girlfriends comes back from a 10 day holiday , tells me she missed me so much and loves me so much , spends the night with me everything seems so good , then she drops the bomb can we be friends after dating 2 years , what your opinions
@chris_3496
@chris_3496 9 ай бұрын
@@darrenspeirs3474 agree with her and move on. You're a man. You'll only appreciate in value. It is difficult and it hurts in the beginning but it will definitely pay off in the long run.
@Bestow3000
@Bestow3000 9 ай бұрын
She'll try to chase after you if you walk away. But she's chasing after the validation and attention you give her. She still won't give you the affection sadly.
@plotakiotrionqui2116
@plotakiotrionqui2116 2 жыл бұрын
I love you so much, thank you so much for sharing your wisdom and intellect!
@professionalamateur232
@professionalamateur232 2 жыл бұрын
Option 3 is the only options when she wants to be "just friends". he didn't gather the courage to ask her out to just be her friend. He could have simply asked her to be friends. What kind of "friendship" exists where she gets 100% of what she wants from him and at most he gets 50% of what he wants from her? She merely wants to continue to get his attention, validation, and any potentially any other perks.
@Dabsteras
@Dabsteras 2 жыл бұрын
So tonight, i basically walked away, i sent a beautiful text, expressing my feelings, describing what i saw in her and what i wanted, but since she is on a different page, I have no choice but to move on... it really hurts... but i can't do this anymore... Deeply i want her to process what happened and change her mind, so wish me luck!! But if she doesn't change her mind, I'm taking my premium frienship somewhere else!!
@jossell911
@jossell911 2 жыл бұрын
I feel you!!
@niddlianknight
@niddlianknight Жыл бұрын
Hey, how did it go?
@Dabsteras
@Dabsteras Жыл бұрын
@@niddlianknight We had a small conversation some time later, but never talked again
@niddlianknight
@niddlianknight Жыл бұрын
@@Dabsteras oh damn. Any advice? So me and this girl started talking in July and we were both in summer break so we only ever texted or sent each other snap chat vlogs. Then in September in person we went on a few dates and I asked her to be my girlfriend and she said yes but then broke up a few days later because she wasn’t ready for a relationship. Her ex was very abusive and they only broke up a few months ago. We stayed normal friends for a week until we started making out again but two days ago I told her I loved her and now she says she wants to stay friends forever. She still likes me and I still like her. Sorry this was long
@Dabsteras
@Dabsteras Жыл бұрын
@@niddlianknight I’m not good at advice but I’ll give you my opinion. To me she seems a little bit confused. Don’t push things any further, give her some time to think and process all of this, after a while if she still want to stay friends and you can’t handle this you don’t really have a choice but to let go, believe me, I know it’s hard but you shouldn’t wait forever if she may change her mind. Explain to her that since you are on a different page, you have to move on. Now if you cut contact with her and she was feeling something, she may get scared that she will lose you and try to come around, but if she doesn’t come around you will know that her mind was already made up and she probably won’t miss you…
@terryharris2558
@terryharris2558 Жыл бұрын
If someone doesn't feel the same way about you, accept the fact and move on. You can't negotiate attraction. Walk away with your dignity intact.
@RiceMan88
@RiceMan88 2 жыл бұрын
Currently going through this with a girl. She rated me an 8/10. I asked her why she said my smile and laugh is a winner. But then she tells me she only sees me as friends. But she’s so curious about my life asking me personal questions. This girl is driving me crazy!!
@bryantworley2922
@bryantworley2922 2 жыл бұрын
Don't let her tell you she just wants to be friends twice. She may find you (and your life) interesting as a person, but she said "FRIENDS". Other fish in the sea.
@RiceMan88
@RiceMan88 2 жыл бұрын
@@bryantworley2922 can you please clarify more on what you mean? Thanks! 🙏
@halidcontent6550
@halidcontent6550 2 жыл бұрын
@@RiceMan88 he mean you should go fine someone who will love you for whom you’re.
@bryantworley2922
@bryantworley2922 2 жыл бұрын
@@RiceMan88 Sure. Anybody can be interesting to talk to/find out about. Doesn't have to mean romantic interest. And you don't want to show any emotional immaturity by making more of it than is necessary. The woman, by friends-zoning, you has told you, 'No! Move on!' Do what she said. She doesn't owe you anything, not even an explanation. And if you keep up the 'full-court press', she's not going to talk to you anymore. Further, saying she's driving you crazy by showing interest in your life, shows a little immaturity. So stop it. If she changes her mind, she'll let you know. Let it go, because she can't be the only girl you find interesting. If she is, there's something wrong with you, and your circle of female friends.
@RiceMan88
@RiceMan88 2 жыл бұрын
@@bryantworley2922 thank you for that. You’re 100% right. It’s just so hard to to walk away from someone you truly love. But, she may feel the opposite as I do. I’ve got to understand that.
@Andrew-vw4vl
@Andrew-vw4vl Жыл бұрын
Love listening to this lady, feeds your brain with so much!!! I walk away many times for me to be friends with a girl that has to start from childhood otherwise no… girls friend zoning you is a disrespect and what she trying to tell u is that she is better than you and your not in her league
@juzz6271
@juzz6271 2 жыл бұрын
I swear i really needed this. Am in this situation. Thanks 💯
@hafsatmuhammed2414
@hafsatmuhammed2414 2 жыл бұрын
Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,I got help from a great man who brought us back together......
@hafsatmuhammed2414
@hafsatmuhammed2414 2 жыл бұрын
Wh atsA p p👆him now❤❤
@JorgeRamirez-ij6fo
@JorgeRamirez-ij6fo Жыл бұрын
Great video. You're really good at this. Thanks for the insight.
@JessicaOS
@JessicaOS Жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@JorgeRamirez-ij6fo
@JorgeRamirez-ij6fo Жыл бұрын
Yeah, my problem is I'm in mid-40s, and she's in mid 20s. But she started all the flirting knowing this already. Then she pulled back. I'd say mostly my fault for getting swayed.
@bhil_mhe8180
@bhil_mhe8180 2 жыл бұрын
Wow Jessica is really awesome when it comes to this relationship matters and I really enjoyed her videos
@johnmathew8878
@johnmathew8878 2 жыл бұрын
Babe the last point you dropped was 🔥 lit. Very much on point
@clementstephen6026
@clementstephen6026 2 жыл бұрын
I am currently in this friend zone of a thing, but that's not my real intention towards this beautiful lady. Like seriously I do intend to quite this friend zone, after six months. Her indecisiveness is causing harm to me. This post has giving me a clue over what I need to do.
@michaelaiyepada7276
@michaelaiyepada7276 2 жыл бұрын
Please do. I just did.. And I'm better now.
@WitchOnABroomstick
@WitchOnABroomstick 2 жыл бұрын
be real for once jeez
@badraven_indieauthor
@badraven_indieauthor 8 ай бұрын
Thank you for your honest and candid advice. It was respectful and to the point. We don't want to be belittle anyone. I'm grateful I stumbled upon your video. God bless you!
@VideosVonDennis
@VideosVonDennis 3 ай бұрын
Walking away will only do anything in rare cases because these days they have so many options that you're (and I am not kidding) forgotten within a day or two.
@andremartin8917
@andremartin8917 2 жыл бұрын
I swear you be finding the perfect topics 💯 thank you for the knowledge
@vwederepublic8879
@vwederepublic8879 2 жыл бұрын
Jessica you are blessed with relationship prowess ✌🏼. Last week I told my classmate about how I feel about her and I told her I would love to be in a relationship with her someday immediately after our upcoming MBBS professional exams a few months from now. But since this moment she started acting distance and give excuses from not wanting to see me. Please I don't really know what she is up to.
@michaelaiyepada7276
@michaelaiyepada7276 2 жыл бұрын
She doesn't like you.. don't waste your time and energy. I just experience the same thing last few months. She came out to tell me she's not interested
@nigelbowler1601
@nigelbowler1601 Жыл бұрын
once you have been friend zoned its a tower not meant to be move on you should know your self worth & value dignity there loss not yours you deserve better bless be all.
@Hayloof
@Hayloof 17 күн бұрын
I’ve known this guy for 10 plus years. Never defined it as friendship or anything. I was also dating a lot during this time to be married but I’d been holding back a little because of him. We would just check in from time to time on each others birthdays or after a big event or just to say hey. We went out for lunch a few times recently but nothing ever came of it, flirting here and there but just mostly being there for each other through work or life troubles.. new years he reaches out to say happy new years and I asked him what he considered our relationship as. He said he considered us to be just friends but not close 😢 and so I agreed to the guy I was dating for some time to his engagement proposal… now my “friend”.. he won’t speak to me 🌝
@dansonrubucwa257
@dansonrubucwa257 Жыл бұрын
Am so grateful I had to come across to this video Very helpful indeed.
@melkizedekikalanga3349
@melkizedekikalanga3349 2 жыл бұрын
Purposefully and beautiful one,, God bless this Woman...
@MG007.
@MG007. 7 ай бұрын
Anyone that Friendzones you. Leave her ass immediately. Respect yourself and know your worth as a person. Dont be bitter and angry just be absent
@alexanderv4609
@alexanderv4609 Жыл бұрын
Never accept Option 1. Even if your feeling are not so deep, it may grow if you stay. Option 2 does not make sense. If you were rejected, there is no point to ask her to reconsider. She may do it only with a time. Option 3 is the only one. Someday, she may get back to you, but even if it happens, the chance that it will work later is not really high.
@CraftyShawn
@CraftyShawn 2 жыл бұрын
Being in the friend zone is not a bad thing. Some times you can build a different relationship in the friend zone. Some of my female friends I would never date, because crossing that line would forever ruin the type of friendship we have.
@stevenroshni1228
@stevenroshni1228 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah, maybe she knows it's a terrible romantic match but you haven't seen it yet. That happened to me that I eventually saw we had different values.
@jefe2098
@jefe2098 Жыл бұрын
My friend makes plans to go out all the time alone or with the 4 grandkids at least I'll never starve she's always cooking something at her house for me my phone broke for about a week she came to my work looking for me
@gilbertkangwa5
@gilbertkangwa5 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks indeed have learnt something serious and have watched it at a time where am experiencing such
@trevorross1311
@trevorross1311 2 жыл бұрын
The last one was the best one for me,because most times the majority of women hook up with bad guys and when ur in the friend zone they fall back on u.U can do it that way or just win her over in the first place and not end up in the friend zone.
@ridgerunner3364
@ridgerunner3364 2 жыл бұрын
Why? Why do women prefer the bad boys when they already know the outcome? SMH!
@trevorross1311
@trevorross1311 2 жыл бұрын
​@@ridgerunner3364 don't spend too much time thinking about that my guy, it's how they were made and wired. Their attracted to that kind of behavior because of the thrill, and because of the fact that if ur too soft most times than not ur not going to be able to protect them. And this is also a big factor, if u can't protect a woman there's no use in her being with u.
@ridgerunner3364
@ridgerunner3364 2 жыл бұрын
@@trevorross1311 Thanks man, its hard to swallow. Things didnt use to be that way.
@trevorross1311
@trevorross1311 2 жыл бұрын
@@ridgerunner3364 no worries my guy, just collect the pieces and move along. Atleast u got that experience, so now ur better equip. That's the beauty of life.👍🏾👍🏾
@DearGod-e2f
@DearGod-e2f 2 жыл бұрын
Jessica always coming in clutch 🥶🔥
@MrKonaduApraku
@MrKonaduApraku 2 жыл бұрын
Jessica always knows the right topics and knows the perfect time to talk about it is is what am going through now
@geraldshouse8482
@geraldshouse8482 2 жыл бұрын
Likewise me
@Makarioslife
@Makarioslife 2 жыл бұрын
Haaaaaha same here 😂😂😂😂
@Theaiguru22
@Theaiguru22 2 жыл бұрын
Bro you are here too, hmm. The best place for advice for young men, Mummy really appreciate whta you are doing 💕
@bowalearowosafe
@bowalearowosafe 2 жыл бұрын
Likeee😌
@promiseguy02
@promiseguy02 2 жыл бұрын
I tell you... Seems to be in the spirit... Hahaha 😁
@jivonstephen6677
@jivonstephen6677 2 жыл бұрын
Good morning Jess hope all is well today just want you to continue being you, and never change for anyone except for yourself management ok ,like you just the way you are babe, just felt like reaching out to you , so keep sweet Jessica continue pressing forward. This is a wonderful day for you to have, keep having every moment of it Wonderfully.
@JessicaOS
@JessicaOS 2 жыл бұрын
I truly appreciate your support ❤️
@jivonstephen6677
@jivonstephen6677 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks , and you're always welcome Jessica.
@octagonmixltd
@octagonmixltd Жыл бұрын
Thank you Jessica...
@princewillnwachimereze2123
@princewillnwachimereze2123 2 жыл бұрын
I love this and I'm doing it right away (walking away)
@thecreativetrix976
@thecreativetrix976 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks, Jessica, please the link you dropped for '' how to escape and friend zone and get the relationship you deserve '' keeps directing me to another video.
@CJChege
@CJChege 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks. Your advice is always the absolute business 🤗
@Iam_Maximum
@Iam_Maximum 2 жыл бұрын
Jessica.... You're the bomb, thanks for sharing these tips on your channel, it has really helped me a lot. God bless
@McHayford
@McHayford 2 жыл бұрын
wow..wow..wow this just gave me goosebumps. I am kinda in a similar situation but in this case, the lady is confused. I have given her the option that we take things slowly or I walk away from her life totally and damn it, I am good at walking away. Just friends with her aint an option.
@007-06
@007-06 5 ай бұрын
Thank you very much for your valuable input. God bless you
@dhanrajmohan701
@dhanrajmohan701 Жыл бұрын
Public comment. Jessica really enjoyed your wonderful video. You are amazing Jessica..continue the great work..i wish you health and strength and peace and happiness always.
@owenjeremy5384
@owenjeremy5384 Жыл бұрын
So helpful I love option 2
@theodorelevia5122
@theodorelevia5122 2 жыл бұрын
I just see this video.I have to watch until the end.I have not find the time,but I will because I really need to hear this ♥️🇧🇸⚓
@siulong1394
@siulong1394 2 жыл бұрын
I felt like she was falling for me because she was starting to pursue me. However, at that point, she started to back off and I wasn't ready for that. It caught me off guard and I lost my s**t. I started pursuing her and becoming needy. I know, that was a bad mistake. She dumped me and even told me she founded someone else (I don't know if that was true or a lie). I went no contact and, after two months of radio silence, she reached out. However, nothing good came out of it. The strange thing was that she wanted to know if I was dating someone else and tried to make me jealous. At the end of the summer I asked her for a date and she used some BS excuse to reject my offer. I told her that for me it was over and walked away. It's been six months since then and I've never heard from her again.
@chrisjhallet
@chrisjhallet 2 жыл бұрын
I'm really enjoying this... Now u like the person that very much and you told her ur feelings and she's aware of it buh she's not certain if she should be with you, buh she's trying to be nice and later she tells you she can't do this, and u're broken hearted... Buh u tried and walked away, buh in ur heart u wish she'll come back to you.. and months later or even years that ur wish comes true .. Do you accept her that easily or u'll also pretend u don't want her, buh in ur heart u really wants her to come back
@patiencetagbor1303
@patiencetagbor1303 Жыл бұрын
My guy if she only wants to be friends it's not a sin... Just focus on your life and look for someone who doesn't want to only be friends with you but wants to be in a relationship with you... Don't waste your life it's as simple as that or you can risk being beaten by another guy who is not even on your level 😂😂
@nanafuaboahemaarhule5165
@nanafuaboahemaarhule5165 2 жыл бұрын
Jessy, please keep it up cos you are my mentor 🥰🌈
@melodyburt7068
@melodyburt7068 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Jessica,I could watch this one again. Very helpy
@Nnmtes
@Nnmtes 6 ай бұрын
You're fine just the way you are. The most important is that you're natural. You look great 🥰🥰
@living_craft
@living_craft 2 жыл бұрын
You are wise... Too wise Jessica.. Seriously thank you...
@sarahboakye7691
@sarahboakye7691 2 жыл бұрын
Jessica 👏❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ Always with the right videos 👌✌️ Soar higher 🙌🔥
@pontianekakoro1737
@pontianekakoro1737 2 жыл бұрын
This is how I do it: #1. There is simply no option of accepting that insulting offer. #2. If I demonstrate to her why I am the best suited for her and she insists, I will make it clear that I want nothing less of a romantic relationship and walk away. If she comes back to me within a reasonable time, say in under 2 weeks, I will pursue a relationship with her fully as if no hitch had occurred. I will understand that she might have had her uncertainties (they are normal) or she was probably going through something. #3. If I walk away and she comes back to me after months, a year or several, then I know that she has been in another or several relationships she thought would be better than what I could offer but they have disappointed her. She's therefore only coming back to me as a second (or third or fourth, or....) option. Now that's an insult and I ususally do 1 of 2 things. If the woman is still looking hot and appealing to me sexually, I will get intimate with her and dump her and tell her my mind to her face. If I no longer find her appealing even physically, I will tell her off and remind her everything and show her the middle finger. In either case, there is just no way I am dating the woman who rejected me on mundane grounds. I am not a wastebin. And, ironically, when you walk away, she will ALWAYS come back looking for you, somehow. No matter how long it takes.
@erniemyers1239
@erniemyers1239 2 жыл бұрын
Hahaha she always said that but then you have to support her financially 😄
@ridgerunner3364
@ridgerunner3364 2 жыл бұрын
Truth
@testimonyamu5330
@testimonyamu5330 2 жыл бұрын
A big thanks to you Jessi....Our Sister.... thanks 💯💯
@ashenafimamo415
@ashenafimamo415 2 жыл бұрын
Much love From Ethiopia!
@wisesailor1896
@wisesailor1896 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Jess, you're right on point....The "Walk Away" part works magic...I can attest to that... My long forgotten Ex girlfriend came back begging for us to be at least friends after a year plus of break up. what's your advice?
@ericngumbi2155
@ericngumbi2155 2 жыл бұрын
You've helped me so much Jessica
@dannyrwagamba
@dannyrwagamba 2 жыл бұрын
100% true. Good content
@125minden
@125minden 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks Jessica you cheered me up.👍
@PeaceOfMind8190
@PeaceOfMind8190 2 жыл бұрын
First! Keep rising and grinding Queen 👸🏾 💪🏾
@greatandpowerfult
@greatandpowerfult Ай бұрын
so I’ve been friends with my neighbor for over nine months and we became good friends and in those times through her hardship and troubles that I had witnessed I was there to be there for her, but during those times I developed feelings for her and even expressed my feelings to multiple times, matter fact I expressed my feelings to her the third time on Christmas Day, which I was turned down again. But even though it hurts, I value our friendship more. she has been there for me more times that I can count just as much as I have been there for her. We don’t hold any secrets. We tell each other everything and even though it hurts I’m willing to be there for her. I’m just trying to get her to see that I’m the right guy for her. with that being said I think walking away and keeping my self distance from her and to walk away when you’re when she’s your next-door neighbor.
@rorymclaughlin1609
@rorymclaughlin1609 2 жыл бұрын
I respect the options, just do number 3
@melkizedekikalanga3349
@melkizedekikalanga3349 2 жыл бұрын
You are very clever my friend, unique one and intelligent, love you so much, keep it up,,,
@gordonmugisha3677
@gordonmugisha3677 2 жыл бұрын
Awesome,wow
@SHOWERSTVBIZ
@SHOWERSTVBIZ 2 жыл бұрын
Awesome. Love every bit of it. Keep up the good work.
@jekbauer9352
@jekbauer9352 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much. I feel better now 😅
@theawesomeinc_6483
@theawesomeinc_6483 2 жыл бұрын
Friend zone is an insult lol. Any girl that tells you that tryna tell you , you ain't all that. Work on you bro!!
@JosyTalks
@JosyTalks 2 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂
@theawesomeinc_6483
@theawesomeinc_6483 2 жыл бұрын
@@JosyTalks nah tell me I'm lyin lmao. Y'all girls be movin funny fr!!!
@keonhobgood1551
@keonhobgood1551 2 жыл бұрын
Either that or she knows she anit all that and feel you can do better. Had a girl friendzone me one time and her friend told me I don’t know why she won’t date you she likes you a lot but thinks you deserve better than her.
@theawesomeinc_6483
@theawesomeinc_6483 2 жыл бұрын
@@keonhobgood1551 that's a polite way of telling you , she never getting with you lol. Women be sneaky sometimes, if a woman really like you, she make it easy for you!!
@keonhobgood1551
@keonhobgood1551 2 жыл бұрын
Oh I know I’m not one that struggles with women i have a problem getting rid of them lol but I’m just stating that there are rare exceptions sometimes. Notice I didn’t say she told me that her friend that I started smashing after she told me she just wanted to be friends told me she said that.
@neuraspike
@neuraspike 2 жыл бұрын
I wish your video came out yesterday.
@michaelg7456
@michaelg7456 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks Jessica for another great job 👍
@oaktownish8322
@oaktownish8322 2 жыл бұрын
If she calls you cause “she misses you” after you walked away you’re just a rebound and a second option!
@larryhurley2314
@larryhurley2314 2 жыл бұрын
How could you be a rebound if you walked away from the same woman ?
@Cwebstar1991
@Cwebstar1991 Жыл бұрын
@@larryhurley2314 thank you for logic stepping in finally in these comments.
@tankthearc9875
@tankthearc9875 Ай бұрын
not the rebound , but yes her back up option
@TDE824
@TDE824 10 күн бұрын
Ain’t gonna happen.
@user-qb4on2qm7z
@user-qb4on2qm7z Жыл бұрын
Surprisingly accurate advice. Most female dating coaches suck and give you the shittiest advice but you did a very good job.
@jossell911
@jossell911 2 жыл бұрын
Taking my premium friendship elsewhere!! Great vid💯
@wilsonpatterson
@wilsonpatterson 2 жыл бұрын
Greeting Precious Lady, since the last time I responded to you, you have presented a number of videos that I have learned from and enjoyed. What makes you videos excellent in my opinion is you do not hold back on the details. You are an excellent communicator in my opinion. I appreciate what you do! Wilson P . S. How do I access the patron account?
@JessicaOS
@JessicaOS 2 жыл бұрын
Www.patreon.com/jessicaos
@TheJayMoeShow
@TheJayMoeShow 2 жыл бұрын
Nicely done ☑️ good content 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@Gbb93
@Gbb93 Жыл бұрын
I’ve reconnected with a lady I dated for a few months about 2 years ago. We have been texting/calling for over 3 months now and have spent time together twice. Most recently we confessed how into each other we are/were and she even said she realized she loved me. We got physicals, to say the least… But then she said she has a gut feeling that I’m not the one, and thinks we should keep things away from romance. I feel like we never built a true companionship, which is vital for the longevity of any romantic relationship. There’s always sexual tension between us and she can’t keep her hands off of me, so I know that despite her wanting friendship, it’s not because there isn’t a spark. Part of me wants to agree to friendship because I want to show her that I’m invested in more than a physical, romantic relationship. The other part of me thinks I need to stand firm on what I want from her and let her know that although I want companionship, I know there will always be that chemistry between us and I don’t want to pretend it’s not there.
@RoyalJesusChrist
@RoyalJesusChrist Жыл бұрын
This girl is jerking you around? "Gut feeling"? Please. That is pretty insulting of her.
@Mgroove_1
@Mgroove_1 Жыл бұрын
I will actually do the walk away option I have deleted her picture and i will delete all connections with her
@tekbase01
@tekbase01 2 жыл бұрын
Jessica you are the best
@hafsatmuhammed2414
@hafsatmuhammed2414 2 жыл бұрын
Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,I got help from a great man who brought us back together......
@hafsatmuhammed2414
@hafsatmuhammed2414 2 жыл бұрын
†2349056214114⏭⏯???????
@hafsatmuhammed2414
@hafsatmuhammed2414 2 жыл бұрын
Wh atsA p p👆him now
@ezrakaunda3208
@ezrakaunda3208 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for the message
@geekhacthon-pythonista9002
@geekhacthon-pythonista9002 2 жыл бұрын
Love you Jessica ..You're the best
@criptoexclusivos
@criptoexclusivos 2 жыл бұрын
re-directing thoughts is basically a way of manipulation. If a woman is not interested the best option is to walk away and move on, life is too short to wish for something to happen while the person you like is not interested or attracted to a different person and you're the second option
@tommens5305
@tommens5305 Жыл бұрын
Relationships are not forced. If a woman tells you she wants to be a friend. Ma guy don't waste your time. Just forget her and move on. That's all.
@wilgensjoseph1655
@wilgensjoseph1655 2 жыл бұрын
I am from Haiti, i really love your video and your way of teaching, but it would be best for the beginners if you could add the lyric in the screen while talking in the next video!
@JessicaOS
@JessicaOS 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the feedback
@user-fk8tr5ev8q
@user-fk8tr5ev8q 2 жыл бұрын
you respect it and you move on
@oguguafidelis7715
@oguguafidelis7715 2 жыл бұрын
So inspiring
@calebanorh772
@calebanorh772 2 жыл бұрын
Jess you are brilliant
@29dj17
@29dj17 2 жыл бұрын
Jessica! Genius.
@McNobotosombo
@McNobotosombo 2 жыл бұрын
Nice one
@youngdreggo1085
@youngdreggo1085 2 жыл бұрын
I love the content‼️
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