When a Man Loves a Woman Well

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Desiring God

Desiring God

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@lolawho8676
@lolawho8676 4 жыл бұрын
This is how my dad was to my mum and me and my sis. Always so gentle and kind! We miss him so much! ♥️
@angelwarrior5519
@angelwarrior5519 4 жыл бұрын
May God bless your father
@thebluevelvetriver
@thebluevelvetriver 4 жыл бұрын
I relate! My daddy was the exact same - such a fantastic, loving, Godly example! We will get to see them again and because I believe we are in the end times, I think it will be soon! Glory to God for the gems of good men put on this earth!
@Huelogy
@Huelogy 4 жыл бұрын
God bless your father(s) I pray to be a man of that quality!
@Maryam7580
@Maryam7580 4 жыл бұрын
Lola Who you’re so ver lucky ❤️
@elizabethcerda5777
@elizabethcerda5777 4 жыл бұрын
That's nice my dad was a mean man always but I forgave him and still love him
@xmochix604
@xmochix604 4 жыл бұрын
My husband is 💯 for me. He protects, provides, takes care of household, I’m blessed!
@Nancivlog
@Nancivlog 4 жыл бұрын
xjellybeans x god bless you
@jessicam5648
@jessicam5648 4 жыл бұрын
God Bless you both that is a blessing to have
@whittakerdanielj
@whittakerdanielj 4 жыл бұрын
@@smokingcrab2290 Yeah…………
@rebeccaclifford5419
@rebeccaclifford5419 4 жыл бұрын
xjellybeans x it would be perfectly godly and biblical for you to protect, provide, and care for your household alongside your husband
@mirandabri834
@mirandabri834 4 жыл бұрын
Well walmart won't hire me and I can't get a job! It seems as though Nobody wants me. However if your a Rich n Powerful person, perhaps YOU could HELP ME OUT Wuth a Job??? Thank you and God bless
@LinxDinx
@LinxDinx 8 жыл бұрын
I'm soon to be married, and your messages are really helping me to build a solid foundation. I only pray that I will be mature in heart and mind to walk in these precepts, as well as ask God for His grace when needed, and not revert to default/old responses and habits. God bless your ministry.
@IrlylikeInFlames
@IrlylikeInFlames 7 жыл бұрын
Lincoln Deane praying for you brother
@TaylorKWH
@TaylorKWH 7 жыл бұрын
Lincoln Deane God bless you and your wife's marriage! :)
@frankquispe9195
@frankquispe9195 7 жыл бұрын
Lincoln Deane there is this young woman whom i love and i just keep asking God for her, His will be done though. God bless you brother.
@AmyApornaBaroi
@AmyApornaBaroi 7 жыл бұрын
God bless you brother! May the living God helps you in honoring and serving your helpmeet (wife) :) Depend on God's strength alone, he will sustain you that's the key :) Be blessed and multiply in Jesus Name Shalom
@eme5947
@eme5947 7 жыл бұрын
Lincoln Deane i hope your marriage flourishes it may not be easy all the time but love is beauty walk with god together
@danielledunsworth9229
@danielledunsworth9229 5 жыл бұрын
As spoken so beautifully by Fireproof the movie, "A woman is like a rose, you treat her right she'll bloom, but if you don't she'll wilt."
@cubed0724
@cubed0724 5 жыл бұрын
Fireproof the movie was garbage and shows how women are absolved of all responsibility. The wife had an emotional affair with another man in the movie and didnt respect or love her husband. If anything the movies encouraged wives to break their vows if the husband isn't being perfect. The movie was disgusting.
@christianone6611
@christianone6611 4 жыл бұрын
@@cubed0724 The same company that made Fireproof made another movie called "War Room" aimed ENTIRELY at women and their responsibility to God and their husband. It was beautiful. Fireproof was equally beautiful as it is aimed at men and their role. In the movie, when he apologizes, he says he is sorry for like 6 YEARS of TROMPING on her in every way. The movie begins AFTER his years of taking her for granted and emotionally abusing her, when she has given up and no longer cares about him and has lost all respect for him. So, yes, she's not perfect in the movie, just like the man in "war room" is not perfect. But it's about what a man can do to fix his marriage (even when he has done everything possible to destroy it before turning his heart to God.) Ideally...BOTH partners will do their part and walk humbly before the Lord. But realistically, usually one partner has to start the process alone and be committed to keeping THEIR OWN VOWS to God and their partner, whether the other person leaves them or not. I really appreciate both movies very much and I think both are very accurate about how men and women react and think very differently.
@cubed0724
@cubed0724 4 жыл бұрын
@@christianone6611 The reason she stayed is because he gave her everything she wanted. She didn't respect him because he wouldn't use their savings to pay for her mom's treatment which he wanted to use for buying a boat he wanted even though she made plenty of money as a full time nurse. She never respected him and denied herself to him. Also when she was involved with the affair with the doctor who was married himself mind you and she didn't care. No, apology for stepping out on her husband. Basically the premise I got from the movie is do everything your wife wants or she'll leave you for another man and it's all about her happiness. The real digusting part of the movie I found was when the he found the love letters by the doctor to his wife and when he confronted the doctor who was married by the way, said, "You're not the only one pursing her, you've got competition." There is no competition period, they were married. If anything this movie represents the mentality of Christian's today where the women dominate the men and can break their vows at whim because it's all about the wives happiness.
@acharich
@acharich 4 жыл бұрын
✨🔥🙏🏾🔥✨
@oilinmylamp
@oilinmylamp 4 жыл бұрын
🖒
@jennacrawford7504
@jennacrawford7504 4 жыл бұрын
I'm so grateful I have a husband who is gentle and honors me.
@framboise595
@framboise595 4 жыл бұрын
@ jenna crawford No man should be "gentle" only. A man must be rough enough to be respected by his wife.
@h.hholmes.492
@h.hholmes.492 3 жыл бұрын
Is he still gentle and honors u ?
@jewele.5697
@jewele.5697 3 жыл бұрын
@@framboise595 could u elaborate. Do u mean he should be rough enough on her physically and emotionally so that she may fear him. There’s a difference between respecting somebody bc u love them, and respecting them bc u fear them.
@PrincesaDeDios74713
@PrincesaDeDios74713 4 жыл бұрын
I definitely am my husband's treasure ❤️ he tells me and shows me all the time. Most of his dreams and goals are about protecting me and providing for me. He is the most amazing man of God.
@deetaylor9794
@deetaylor9794 4 жыл бұрын
That's the kind of husband I pray i get a man who honors me as his wife 💍❤🙇🏽‍♀️💍2020
@sweetlove3391
@sweetlove3391 4 жыл бұрын
doreen taylor Praying this with ya sis.
@Millyosodo
@Millyosodo 4 жыл бұрын
Me too sis
@oilinmylamp
@oilinmylamp 4 жыл бұрын
I pray you do too sweetie. God bless you.
@deetaylor9794
@deetaylor9794 4 жыл бұрын
@@sweetlove3391 thk u sis
@deetaylor9794
@deetaylor9794 4 жыл бұрын
@@Millyosodo God got us
@robinluich5576
@robinluich5576 4 жыл бұрын
I love being a woman of respect and having a husband who respects me. I admire my husband for the man he is.
@anupamathomas6423
@anupamathomas6423 6 жыл бұрын
Wow ... I'm touched... Only God's people can have such wisdom and understanding .. so much clarity..
@BibleMunch
@BibleMunch 8 жыл бұрын
To love God, is to love those he has placed in our lives, especially our wife and children. How do we love them, as Christ loves the Church, fully, sacrificially, always with honor and respect.
@madhuripawar8589
@madhuripawar8589 6 жыл бұрын
Bible Munch Yes sure we can. God loves the church just like a husband loves his wife.
@iamURHO
@iamURHO 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you Bible Munch.
@festhegift
@festhegift 6 жыл бұрын
AMEN!!!!💛
@T.Ravikumar
@T.Ravikumar 6 жыл бұрын
Absolutely.
@josuerivera4084
@josuerivera4084 5 жыл бұрын
How do u love your husband if he dose not live for God dose not want nothing to do with God and want to get a divorce for his wife following God how do u love your husband if he was physical abusive and is still very verbal abusive towards the wife and kids how do u love a husband if he mocks u as a child of God and is always bring you down and your faith for loving God
@jonathanewert2350
@jonathanewert2350 4 жыл бұрын
"Makes her my treasure..." Love that line! Uniquely created by God, then He showed me just how much He loves me by Gifting her to me. You bet I will protect her!
@melperez
@melperez 4 жыл бұрын
❤❤❤
@Ale-tb8nz
@Ale-tb8nz 4 жыл бұрын
🙏🙏❤️❤️
@sskuk1095
@sskuk1095 4 жыл бұрын
Well said!!
@framboise595
@framboise595 4 жыл бұрын
@@sskuk1095 What is "well said" ?
@framboise595
@framboise595 4 жыл бұрын
@ Jonathan Ewert Uniquely created by God FOR the man , for HIS needs first and foremost.
@gabrielles98
@gabrielles98 8 жыл бұрын
True, true- how a man treats the women around him say sooooooo much about him!!
@robertjayroe9900
@robertjayroe9900 8 жыл бұрын
Gabrielle S. : it says more about God. Romans 7:18 For I know that nothing good dwells in me, that is, in my flesh. For I have the desire to do what is right, but not the ability to carry it out.
@jingyushi5857
@jingyushi5857 7 жыл бұрын
Gabrielle S. that is why, i dislike that man in wh, what a man, how can he be there.
@robertjayroe9900
@robertjayroe9900 7 жыл бұрын
Where did i or the scripture say God sins.
@robertjayroe9900
@robertjayroe9900 7 жыл бұрын
Chleo Harris : Amen. To God be the glory.
@evergreen12321
@evergreen12321 5 жыл бұрын
nmwbYwbd 2 years passed, does he still bring peace to your soul?
@tanyadixon7980
@tanyadixon7980 4 жыл бұрын
This is the kind of husband I am waiting for. God honoring, protective, gentle, provider; not arrogant, prone to ridiculous bouts of anger; not abusive, in any way. I wait, oh Lord. Your will. Your man!
@redheadedfreckles2
@redheadedfreckles2 4 жыл бұрын
Tanya Dixon I’m alone because I will not settle for less
@mubba786
@mubba786 4 жыл бұрын
@@redheadedfreckles2 i was alone too ... But God gave me my Lady... Have patience you too will get the right person inshaAllaah
@Pantominas497
@Pantominas497 4 жыл бұрын
You are too old for an husband u can't even have kids anymore
@framboise595
@framboise595 4 жыл бұрын
@@Pantominas497 It is all about women nowadays. Most have no clue that God made the woman for the man and not the man for the woman. We are deceived by fallacious teachings like this one and so many others that focus like crazy on the "male love" . THE receipe for disaster.
@Pantominas497
@Pantominas497 4 жыл бұрын
@@framboise595 are u a woman or a man
@injrdn01
@injrdn01 4 жыл бұрын
Never criticize your wife; she is a reflection of your judgement.
@queenie_2_0_2_4
@queenie_2_0_2_4 4 жыл бұрын
Hey! Interesting comment, would you be able to elaborate on this , I would love to understand what you mean
@billion86
@billion86 4 жыл бұрын
GOOD one!
@mashakubrak2651
@mashakubrak2651 4 жыл бұрын
Emmanuela Oduro Basically, your wife was on of your choices, when you criticize her, you are criticizing your own choice and therefore you’re criticism is about you.
@simbimelz
@simbimelz 4 жыл бұрын
Wow... Spot on
@Lexilea68
@Lexilea68 4 жыл бұрын
@@queenie_2_0_2_4 and you become one flesh.
@beennete
@beennete 6 жыл бұрын
Where men do their Job to Love and honour, women are led to respect and submit
@nightjar8898
@nightjar8898 5 жыл бұрын
Men have treated me poorly, especially when I was younger and I now realize they did me a favor. It toughened me up. I have ceased to be the "weaker vessel", as you put it. I live alone and when there's a noise downstairs I go down with a double barreled shotgun. You take this man/woman thing way too seriously. You do what you have to do. If I can't take care of myself it makes me feel weak and inadequate. What God has "designed", the world molds and shapes.
@PrinceJes
@PrinceJes 5 жыл бұрын
@@nightjar8898 Men and women are radically different from each other, if you find a godly man who loves you as he loves himself; you will see how regal and astonishing God created the opposite sex. God bless you dear.
@masterstepz9800
@masterstepz9800 5 жыл бұрын
@@nightjar8898 Those men that have treated you poorly, were not real men in the eyes of God. A real man would treated you with honour and love. I'm sorry that your experience has caused you to think this way. But I think you've met the wrong men. You'll find the right one eventually.
@nightjar8898
@nightjar8898 5 жыл бұрын
@@PrinceJes I don't care.
@Lazarusrizing
@Lazarusrizing 5 жыл бұрын
And yet... I respectfully disagree. I can see how in the natural that thinking works, but it's not biblical. Because men fail and they need Jesus just as much as the ladies do. When we curse or withhold love for the men because they are not "performing" up to a preferred standard. When we absolve women of sin and give a little grace to men, we are creating a church of emasculated men who are controlled, not loved. Not honored. A business relationship, not marriage. I don't expect many true, born again Christians to like my comment. But read the bible. Abuse is not sanctioned from Jesus to a woman or a man. Love unconditionally. Peace.
@PatriciaHernandez-vm8iz
@PatriciaHernandez-vm8iz 4 жыл бұрын
The only design that works!!! The real one!!!! God’s way.
@princessrojas3252
@princessrojas3252 4 жыл бұрын
I will continue to pray to have a man who will provide, protect, and love me no matter what. 🙏🏻❤️
@amanda99737
@amanda99737 4 жыл бұрын
This is very sweet and I very much agree. Whenever there’s been a weird sound my husband doesn’t even stop to look at me. He will say “stay here.” Over his shoulder and he’s already investigating.
@janicecoleman2534
@janicecoleman2534 6 жыл бұрын
WOW It's great to hear men still feel this way that's how I was raised by a man who treated my mother so well that made me love him even more. This gives me hope he's coming. Thank you!
@siddislikesgoogle
@siddislikesgoogle 4 жыл бұрын
If it's not reciprocal, you're in for a world of pain. A wife must be well chosen, beware.
@ItsTrevorke
@ItsTrevorke 4 жыл бұрын
Truly, not all women deserve these special treatments in 21st century.
@LyteSho
@LyteSho 4 жыл бұрын
True. Women want and want...but don’t submit to their husbands. What man doesn’t want to love and protect his wife?
@Salmo_103
@Salmo_103 6 ай бұрын
@@ItsTrevorkeExcuse me, but we are christians. We are not asked to love people if they “deserve it”. We all deserve death because of our sin. I know that you are talking of a hard-to-live-with person, but we are still slaves of Christ, if he loves us and is patient with us even with all our sins, shouldn't we do that with others that haven't sinned against us that much?
@thatgirlcocoa
@thatgirlcocoa 4 жыл бұрын
I’ve always felt this but he confirmed it.
@hotmessmissy
@hotmessmissy 4 жыл бұрын
My thoughts exactly and my arguement all the time to my then husband who didnt get the point why we couldnt be 50/50 all the time
@mcmacshalfilya
@mcmacshalfilya 4 жыл бұрын
I've never heard Larry David talk like this before.
@bethanyball5928
@bethanyball5928 4 жыл бұрын
Ahahaha exactly what I thought
@feliciavale4279
@feliciavale4279 4 жыл бұрын
Came here to post this
@billion86
@billion86 4 жыл бұрын
Same- and it's more than 3 years old😄
@ultravioletgal8273
@ultravioletgal8273 4 жыл бұрын
Literally thought it was him at first
@carieyounginsurance
@carieyounginsurance 4 жыл бұрын
😅😂🤣🤣
@joseluisromerojr8887
@joseluisromerojr8887 Жыл бұрын
He got me at “She’s the weaker vessel of God. Honor her.” That made all the sense in the world.
@joannahukpe7752
@joannahukpe7752 6 жыл бұрын
I've never heard anyone say women are valuable and deserving of as much honour and love as John Piper has expressed here! Never! God bless you! All my life I've struggled with men, husbands and pastors indirectly putting women down. I've struggled with my own sense on self worth for the whole of my life. Thank you for telling men to rise up and give honour to their wives and families. God bless you immensely
@framboise595
@framboise595 4 жыл бұрын
@ Joannah Ukpe Oh those poor women always victims .. As if modern day women were still valuable and deserving of honour and love ! Piper worships women and puts them on a pedestal and tells other men to do so . It is pure idolatry . He just fuels our narcissist part to its maximulm.
@royaldainties7
@royaldainties7 4 жыл бұрын
I appreciate this video. I’m so glad there is a man that realizes these things. and teaching other men
@hotmessmissy
@hotmessmissy 4 жыл бұрын
I soo agree.. I pray all the women here have a worthy man for them.and vice versa.... The men get women who deserve them. My marriage was nothing lile this i am still broken but i know God has purpose for Me and the right Man will come along and treat me as his treasure..
@royaldainties7
@royaldainties7 4 жыл бұрын
D Pagne Amen 🙏🏽 and yes my marriage was nothing like this either. The Holy Spirit revealed to me the things this guy is speaking of. I two was broken. but today I am totally healed Jesus set me free. and I speak life to you right now In the name of Jesus be heal be whole and be set free NOW from all brokenness IN JESUS NAME!!! 🙏🏽
@khaleilrennes2814
@khaleilrennes2814 4 жыл бұрын
Warrior Princess 4 Jesus I also pray that y’all won’t manipulate that man integrity and love catering to you because that’s what most modern western woman does today. It is a balance, you most give 110% and he must as well
@lukemegonigal5225
@lukemegonigal5225 6 жыл бұрын
Amen to "50/50 Stuff" being evil. I pray those thoughts be nipped from my future brain in my future marriage (dv).
@JacquelineHahn1
@JacquelineHahn1 8 жыл бұрын
Once again blessed by this man and his teaching.
@iamURHO
@iamURHO 6 жыл бұрын
Thank God for the preaching. :)
@Mollie_beth
@Mollie_beth 3 жыл бұрын
This is 100% my man🙌🏼 Thank you God. Pray for your men ladies. God wants this from them all. Well said Pastor!!
@Lumios_UA
@Lumios_UA 8 жыл бұрын
Preach it brother, preach it loud.
@Micaela1527
@Micaela1527 6 жыл бұрын
The bible tells us "Husbands LOVE your wives.. and wives respect (honour, revere) your husbands.. women love to be loved.. (hugged and kissed and told everything will be okay) and husbands love to be respected and looked up to and praised etc etc (what big muscles you have, you're so good with your hands, you're such a good provider, etc etc).. haha it's actually true.. -Micaela's mum
@Yahkeam
@Yahkeam 5 жыл бұрын
Very true Micaela. What do you think about this verse👉Titus 2:4-5 King James Version (KJV) 4 That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children,
@Yahkeam
@Yahkeam 4 жыл бұрын
@@gailland8681 well Mrs. Land, do you believe in the power of principle?
@Yahkeam
@Yahkeam 4 жыл бұрын
@@gailland8681 The reason I ask you this is because you need to look at LOVE as a principle not a feeling. Although emotions enhance Love for sure. Principles are practiced to produce a desired result. So what results are you looking for?
@gailland8681
@gailland8681 4 жыл бұрын
@@Yahkeam I don't know about the principles. but the feeling of love and being loved is priceless. no principles can replace it.
@gailland8681
@gailland8681 4 жыл бұрын
@@Yahkeam I don't see it how it can be solved. but God sees it. I trust Him ..
@kusumawati.natalia3807
@kusumawati.natalia3807 6 жыл бұрын
i am waiting God send me this kind of godly man (as explained) for my life.. I got harsh man in my past.. made me became harsh too.. it was so bad 😢
@PrinceJes
@PrinceJes 5 жыл бұрын
Jesus bless you.
@dionnelong
@dionnelong 5 жыл бұрын
Yes. God please bless more men to be strong good men early in life and it not take 40 years to purify him. We shouldn't wait and work in vain.
@Imokay1695
@Imokay1695 5 жыл бұрын
Hi Natalia, praying for your heart right now. That the Lord's love and peace that surpasses all understanding may fill you up and joy may pour out. The love of Christ heal your heart and change it with a new, loving and forgiving heart. Amen. I've been in your place before Nat, and I know how horrible it feels to become like the person (s) who hurt you in the past. But good news! Transformation of the mind and healing of the broken heart is only as far as a fervent prayer longing for Jesus. He delights in the brokenhearted and those who are contrite in spirit. Don't lose heart, dear. There is a full and legitimate hope in our God!
@pennykent5687
@pennykent5687 4 жыл бұрын
I understand this as I have/had harsh men in my life... I have no intent to bash men, ...as I have also known some beautiful ones. I understand there are a lot of I'll women out there who are hurting good men. Souring them against women all together. This makes me so sad... Because we all deserve to show Love, and be Loved, and to not be closed off from this great joyful gift God has given all of us. The gift of giving and receiving Love.🙂❤️
@yme3267
@yme3267 4 жыл бұрын
If you've had sex before marriage.... good luck. You aren't being a godly woman 🤷‍♂️ You getting tattoos and drinking all night? Not godly. But you want a good Christian man? Lmao. Good luck. 🤣 If by SOME miracle you DON'T do what I just said.... then you are the most sought after female ever. Unless you're hideous or have such extreme standards no man could meet them.... you'll get married basically at any point you want 🤷‍♂️ (with the exception of reaching into your 30s)
@ethanaverton7287
@ethanaverton7287 Жыл бұрын
Lots of growing to do for me in this -- absolutely love this sermon.
@MegaBoomer1996
@MegaBoomer1996 5 жыл бұрын
I agree with what he is saying. I wholeheartedly love my wife and I want to protect, honor, cherish and support her in the best way I can and with Christ who strengthens me. Also we need to fully dedicate ourselves and give 100%, otherwise it's not working and I think won't be mutually fulfilling in the long run.
@framboise595
@framboise595 4 жыл бұрын
@ MegaBoomer1996 Putting the male love forward is such a vicious trick of the devil . Their fake teachings have almost turned "love" into something platonic that can NEVER be a fortress against sexual temptations . Nothing can be more devilish than telling married men that they have to "love "their wives and not telling them that they are entitled to sex as the Bible says.
@MegaBoomer1996
@MegaBoomer1996 4 жыл бұрын
@@framboise595 What do you mean by "male love" The husbands body belongs to the wife and the wifes body belongs to the husband.
@framboise595
@framboise595 4 жыл бұрын
@@MegaBoomer1996 You're right with the body belonging to the other spouse but this is not what is preached today. What I mean by "male love" is the focus on one verse " husbands , love your wives etc..".
@MegaBoomer1996
@MegaBoomer1996 4 жыл бұрын
What you're saying is interesting, because I heard a lot of times in church that men focus too much on the female love and argue women should submit to them whereas they are not submitted to Christ. The focus needs to be on the person of Jesus. If we seek his face, his presence, if we seek his word, then that will change us from the inside out and only in that way can we truly love our spouse and others.
@boyeesevilla
@boyeesevilla 7 жыл бұрын
Wow. Absolutely beautiful... "honor thy wife"
@Chirhopher
@Chirhopher 8 жыл бұрын
On time! As usual LORD. Bless your HOLY NAME, In YESHUA Ha-MASHIAC!
@iamloved7758
@iamloved7758 4 жыл бұрын
I'm smitten by whom ever man he was describing
@mewan1708
@mewan1708 4 жыл бұрын
Well hello there I am he
@Happytown7523
@Happytown7523 4 жыл бұрын
I know right where are all the cute conservative Christian guys!!??
@cynthiagalvan837
@cynthiagalvan837 4 жыл бұрын
@kirsten Young Why do they have to be cute? Looks fade away.
@B10401
@B10401 4 жыл бұрын
@@cynthiagalvan837 You have to find them cute for you to be attracted to them if you're like me. If you're not attracted why are you marrying? Ok, there may be good reasons, but I worry slightly that aspects of how society and even churches portray the relationship become idols for us. Is fear of being alone your motivation for interest in a guy you aren't attracted to? Questions like that are important imo, because a marriage might end up being a big distraction from and covering up of your need for community with sisters in christ and fearlessly serving God. Just my thoughts. I might be persuaded to change my mind.
@cynthiagalvan837
@cynthiagalvan837 4 жыл бұрын
@B10401 You are right. It’s your opinion, But I LIKE it. The reason I asked was I kinda tried to dissect her question. It wasn’t just an open general question. It was to the point type of question. (Exclamation marks and question mark) led me to 🤔 think. Aah cuteness first, christianity second. I have nothing against cuteness, good looking etc. etc. But could be missing out on a very very good Christian Man. I hope she finds what she is looking for. GOD BLESS YOU.
@Mai-id4fw
@Mai-id4fw 4 жыл бұрын
So Yesterday, I was complaining to my bf about how much I have gained weight over the year and how unhappy I am with all the stress I was going thru. I was mad at him for not helping me lose it or pushing me to becoming healthier, he answered back that all he saw was how happy I am when I am Full from eating 😅. Never once he complained about how I gained weight or made any abusive/ hurtful jokes to change me or compare me. He loved and admired me no matter how small or big I was becoming because he loved me for ME, not how I looked. This is how I know he loves me unconditionally, and that God gave me the right man. Yes we going to the gym soon. 😂 thank u love, & thank You God 💓 I am beyond grateful 🙏 I pray that one day you all will find that special someone out there! 😙
@framboise595
@framboise595 4 жыл бұрын
@ Mai 3 Yes but do your best to look good and not gain too much weight though so that your husband always desires you .
@Marcus-ec1kx
@Marcus-ec1kx 4 жыл бұрын
Amen, food for thought! Thankful for the great practical teaching
@kathylingen1667
@kathylingen1667 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Pastor John. I am thankful to God for your willingness to share your thoughts.
@AFROcentricFLO
@AFROcentricFLO 8 жыл бұрын
Amen Pastor Piper ❤❤❤
@Sams2Wavy
@Sams2Wavy 4 жыл бұрын
Young people really need to hear this. Thank you 🙏🏾
@KeithThompson52
@KeithThompson52 8 жыл бұрын
Honor!! *Amen*
@Cherryb45265
@Cherryb45265 5 жыл бұрын
Beautifuly said, my partner and I have been together 16 years, we always want to do for each other we never say 5050 we just do because we love each other I am so blessed to have him that God brought us together, thank for sharing this it's owful there's so many broken relationships over money, things no compromise. God bless you
@SuperUltraMomo
@SuperUltraMomo 8 жыл бұрын
It's sad that Pastor John preaches the truth from the Gospel and yet outside of his church it doesn't reflect or is practiced in our society today. We hear it and love it but we don't do it because society tells us we are wrong and should let the weaker vessel be 50/50 with the man and sometimes even in charge of being the provider.
@ayuanabradford3206
@ayuanabradford3206 6 жыл бұрын
Justbe Yeah in heaven women and man is equal 50/50
@deec3561
@deec3561 2 жыл бұрын
I pray my daughter is blessed with a man who will love her like this.
@Emilysafe
@Emilysafe 5 жыл бұрын
This made me weep ♥️
@priscillahwamuyu6142
@priscillahwamuyu6142 4 жыл бұрын
I pray to God that i may be blessed with such a man. Who will love, cherish and protecting me till death do us apart. 2020 is my year of yes.
@kingcity2762
@kingcity2762 4 жыл бұрын
I pray in jesus name that u will find that man of God and i pray he prepares you for your husband in Jesus name amen!
@priscillahwamuyu6142
@priscillahwamuyu6142 4 жыл бұрын
@@kingcity2762 Amen Amen Amen. Thank you.
@naomenatukunda8550
@naomenatukunda8550 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you God to give a husband who is loving and still provides for his family.
@renepicaso8519
@renepicaso8519 Жыл бұрын
Wow Amen Pastor 🖐️ powerful message 🙏 thanks for sharing the gospel
@adlpaz44
@adlpaz44 6 жыл бұрын
Absolutely beautiful and true! Amen 💕
@cathyzhang2769
@cathyzhang2769 6 жыл бұрын
Men are failing those days. Most are numb, selfish, calculating and self protective....
@bananabreadtan4124
@bananabreadtan4124 4 жыл бұрын
Many are hurting because of generational trauma. The church could be more compassionate like God & condescend to the brokenness of this current generation rather than saying "they're getting what they deserve, they've brought it on themselves"
@indakgalak
@indakgalak 4 жыл бұрын
cathy zhang AMEN!!! So true!!! We need men with spines who are UNAFRAID to be MEN for GOD (NOT selves)... So much self-serving entitlement sissified men nowadays, they act more like little girls than women sometimes... I think it’s one of the ways Satan is destroying our society - by sissifying men and turning into girlish behaviors...
@ceilconstante7813
@ceilconstante7813 4 жыл бұрын
But many women have taken advantage of good men.
@mirandabri834
@mirandabri834 4 жыл бұрын
@@indakgalak ..... You are Correct Sir and I have Noticed this as well when I go out shopping with my wife (which is Rarely) but during this past Christmas season I see a ton of so called "men" that by their Actions alone they acted more like little sissy women without any Backbone than I seen real men by Farrrrr!! Sad to say but this Homosexuals thing is taking all these what would be men over......
@AmadeuShinChan
@AmadeuShinChan 4 жыл бұрын
[ only because women shave their hair from even the part from the nose below to the upper lip, does not make the fact that they are overly-masculine go away too, does it? This bad men, bad women bashing is not going to get us any where, and i can agree, being numb, selfish, calculating and self protecting after having been beaten while handcuffed and force-medicated with no consequences for the perpetrators. I should not have clicked on the video, because, it is clear a woman feels triggered, when a man brings up that she is the weaker sex, i donot do this, i think a woman is in a way the stronger sex, it is scientific fact, that she can endure more pain that she has when birthing a child, and the fact, that she has the capacity to bring a child to life is beyond my comprehension. However, the new age is dangerous and to let it not take over traditional gender roles would us do no harm. I believe that god is just and we get what we deserve in the end. I hope, that we can learn to love one another unconditionally, because we are all sinners in a way or another. I forgive those who beat me in Jesus name. and ps: perhaps so should you, forgive those, who are not the way, as you would want them to be. ]
@myra-lensiano1652
@myra-lensiano1652 4 жыл бұрын
Praying for this kind of man. 🙏
@mcmacshalfilya
@mcmacshalfilya 4 жыл бұрын
And......HERE I AM! 😇
@AngieMck
@AngieMck 3 жыл бұрын
Praise the Lord for real Christian men who honor their wives, and love them like Christ loves His Bride, His Body, His Church!! Love is an action word, not a slogan!!!💞❤️🙏🏽
@T.Ravikumar
@T.Ravikumar 6 жыл бұрын
Loving God with all our might is the key in loving our wife/husband (irrespective of how that person behaves). After all that's exactly what my Lord does to me (the truly saved).
@mitchlee2137
@mitchlee2137 3 жыл бұрын
I pray to God that if He has destined me to marry that He makes me a godly woman and bless me with a godly husband.
@sOnlight67
@sOnlight67 4 жыл бұрын
It is 6:34am, and your video was recommended on my home channel...it is amazing. I was just telling my husband yesterday how very unhappy I've been all four years of our marriage...and then I wake up to your video...
@springfieldsbarbados3435
@springfieldsbarbados3435 4 жыл бұрын
You are so honest but yoy know he is learning as well JESUS CHRIST IS PURE LOVE AS YOU TALK TO HIM LIFE WILL CHANGE amen
@joaomaliska7604
@joaomaliska7604 8 жыл бұрын
So many trues in 4 minutes!
@maicomanagement9991
@maicomanagement9991 4 жыл бұрын
The realest thing I’ve seen on KZbin!
@ConstantCompanion
@ConstantCompanion 6 жыл бұрын
This is so sweet. Thank you.
@Christian360News
@Christian360News 4 жыл бұрын
Not to be confused with being a ’Yes’ man.
@Beandal
@Beandal 4 жыл бұрын
I really wish to meet a man like that. The women around me are all in unhappy marriages. I want something different if I ever marry. I need someone that can protect me, gentle but strong that I can count on. Someone I can respect, love and that will always be there for me.
@deetaylor9794
@deetaylor9794 4 жыл бұрын
God will give him 2 u don't give up sis I want 1 as well 🙇🏽‍♀️
@framboise595
@framboise595 4 жыл бұрын
@ Be Andal " The women around me are all in unhappy marriages" Maybe their husbands worship them too much and is unable to have sex with them... Typical of the modern western simp so afraid to touch his own wife because you know , women are such "treasures" !!! But women hate those men who treat them like china dolls !!
@caroljacan7059
@caroljacan7059 4 жыл бұрын
Best message I've heard yet for the brothers 💯🥰❣❤🤗🙏🏾
@oar-N-oasis
@oar-N-oasis 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you sir.. I will teach this to my son.
@iamloved7758
@iamloved7758 4 жыл бұрын
Omg. I like when he said be tender, gentle ,kind & protective of her🤗.
@iamloved7758
@iamloved7758 4 жыл бұрын
@Puking Dino it's oh my gosh FYI
@iamloved7758
@iamloved7758 4 жыл бұрын
@Puking Dino I don't take the Lord's name in vain thank you!😇
@iamloved7758
@iamloved7758 4 жыл бұрын
@Puking Dino well I appreciate you correcting me. I've been under a rock for quite some year's I apologize
@iamloved7758
@iamloved7758 4 жыл бұрын
@Puking Dino well it's a good thing I pray for forgiveness of my sin & transgressions knowingly committed & unknowingly committed every night.
@evastevaniwijaya5478
@evastevaniwijaya5478 Ай бұрын
Wow, so good. So amazing to find this video from 2016 when it was only recently the masculinity vs femininity thing goes trending. The wisdom of the Word is indeed everlasting ❤
@sarahkhan2765
@sarahkhan2765 4 жыл бұрын
God Bless this man
@nellyjones3132
@nellyjones3132 4 жыл бұрын
Powerful!
@dmt0430
@dmt0430 6 ай бұрын
I appreciate this talk.
@yolandacarter6070
@yolandacarter6070 6 жыл бұрын
I enjoyed this message.
@gracepeacenow8
@gracepeacenow8 3 жыл бұрын
This is a great video Amen!
@albemac9730
@albemac9730 5 жыл бұрын
Woooooow!! And let the church say,"AMEN!!!"
@TheCreepypro
@TheCreepypro Жыл бұрын
teach us to love Lord so we may love you better and our loved ones
@LordKaydenBreak
@LordKaydenBreak 4 жыл бұрын
Beautiful
@ivettedizon7020
@ivettedizon7020 8 жыл бұрын
PREACHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH JOHN!!!
@marlstarl8791
@marlstarl8791 5 жыл бұрын
As a single woman, this feels really good to hear. :) In my opinion, this protective way of honouring is especially important, because women have a greater yearning of feeling safe, and so if I imagine that I could trust someone to attempt to protect me, it would make me have a lot more trust in that person.
@estherfadoju6771
@estherfadoju6771 6 жыл бұрын
I love this message it is godly
@PreshEhi
@PreshEhi 4 жыл бұрын
Am praying that I be a man worthy of one of God's daughters and God grant me a good woman . Society today is dividing and destroying marriages.
@winsomelorainepeter6773
@winsomelorainepeter6773 4 жыл бұрын
How absolutely beautiful to hear this wise man share this! I feel so encouraged listening to this message. I am single-never married and no kids. My desire and dream is to marry someone like this - a man who honors God and who can honor me, as his wife. This contributes to a beautiful relationship. But women too should honor their husbands in their attitude towards them-we should also treat them with respect-being loving and caring. May God bless this speaker for sharing such a beautiful message!
@hawk6143
@hawk6143 4 жыл бұрын
Yep,that or die single for me
@framboise595
@framboise595 4 жыл бұрын
@@hawk6143 This is how Piper and co maliciously keep women away from marriage by raising the bar for men in such an unscriptural way . Women made for and because of man kept away from marriage ! . So fornication can go full swing (to avoid sexual immorality , let every man have his wife (...) ) Good job Satan.
@PrinceJes
@PrinceJes 5 жыл бұрын
Such beautiful words
@davidthomspson9771
@davidthomspson9771 6 жыл бұрын
You honor the one you love.Just as we honor God.
@framboise595
@framboise595 4 жыл бұрын
@ David Thompson You honour someone worthy of honour ! Not a disgraceful wife. Proverbs 31 man honours and even praises his wife because she is worth it. But you cannot honour a Vashti .
@KarlainChrist
@KarlainChrist 2 жыл бұрын
Wow 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻✝️ HOLY SPIRIT LED, GODLY TEACHING. CHRIST-CENTERED!
@sumisandra6864
@sumisandra6864 4 жыл бұрын
Really great message
@Predatoryt7
@Predatoryt7 4 жыл бұрын
may God bless you sir and give you a healthy long life ♥️ I love you my lord GOD Abba father,Jesus and Holyspirit ♥️
@TheLychie
@TheLychie 4 жыл бұрын
i love the use of technology during his sermons! thats awesome. helps in engaging the congregation in a different way
@L.A.Roberts
@L.A.Roberts 4 жыл бұрын
This was beautiful to hear.
@trentonshepherd3621
@trentonshepherd3621 3 жыл бұрын
GOD BLESS EVERYONE
@solangemaldonadomunoz437
@solangemaldonadomunoz437 4 жыл бұрын
OMG i have never seen it that way! I was the 50/50 marriage type of person ... but I can understand now how that does not really work...
@tumelopule8079
@tumelopule8079 5 жыл бұрын
The whole truth,,, nothing but the truth! So help us God to abide by these principles and our marriages will be heaven on earth
@susancarter3864
@susancarter3864 4 жыл бұрын
Ephesians 5:25 Husbands love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and (gave himself for it, 5:28 So ought men to love their wives as ( their own bodies).
@framboise595
@framboise595 4 жыл бұрын
@ Susan Carter As their own bodies ? What for ? They don't even have sex with their wives ! How does this make sense ?
@susancarter3864
@susancarter3864 4 жыл бұрын
Isabelle M , You just came here to mock Gods Holy Words, sorry for you, the wicked ones have you blinded.
@pennykent5687
@pennykent5687 4 жыл бұрын
Love this, I believe in this, and I believe in the MEN who believe in this. Thank you for being our protectors. ❤️
@tangymvids2000
@tangymvids2000 6 жыл бұрын
The best 4 mins of my life so far :)
@kzyah5484
@kzyah5484 4 жыл бұрын
just like my dad ❤️
@aevoss
@aevoss 7 жыл бұрын
I love you Mr. John Piper.
@ongmugracelepcha5440
@ongmugracelepcha5440 4 жыл бұрын
So blessed
@Risha-Rene
@Risha-Rene 4 жыл бұрын
I strongly believe in masculine & feminine energy, the yin & the yang. I’m so soft & feminine, this is the only type of man I can respect & submit to
@ebereokpara1400
@ebereokpara1400 4 жыл бұрын
And I do believe God for a man who would understand his role( honour and love) to me as a wife as I would (respect and love) to him.
@GodsSparrowSpeaks
@GodsSparrowSpeaks 4 жыл бұрын
My husband is a “professing” Christian, He has me working 50+ hours a week while I’m walking around with cancer and other health problems. Doing even hard physical labor. Talking care of things that are clearly his responsibility. He’s abusive in every way except physical. Reason and logic, lovingkindness in communication do NOT work. He has annihilated me in every way including financially and I would appreciate prayers as I need to remove myself from this person. I believe they are not only ruled by their flesh, but possibly demonized. Thank you.
@christianone6611
@christianone6611 4 жыл бұрын
Dear one, God gave you talents to multiply and have stewardship over, not to let be drained out by an ungodly man or wolf in sheep's clothing. Biblically, you are to take him to the elders and if he does not repent, you do it again, and of he does not repent, you take him before the church, and if he does not repent, you are to have nothing to do with him. By repent, I do not mean saying "sorry". I mean "fruits meet for repentance" aka his words and actions match up, he is sincerely sorry and he doesn't go back to sinning. So for an abusive person, that's basically 3 chances. For a godly person who makes "innocent" or ignorant mistakes and sins and they correct themselves, you are to forgive them 7times x70 (an infinite amount). But God is never asking a woman to submit to an evil, rebellious, unloving, cruel man. A wolf in sheep's clothing is to be avoided to protect thy very self. If he stresses you to the point that you are unable to do basic self care steps like tending to your relationship with God, growing in his love, reading the word, serving God Christian's etc...then he is preventing you from multiplying your God given talents and you'll be ashamed in front of God that you lost all he gave to your stewardship by enabling an ungodly, abusive man. Some preachers are narcissistic and imply you should support and enable any man with any behavior. That is not true. Our first love and loyalty is to God and keeping his commandments and certainly respecting and honoring a godly loving man. Take care of you. Maybe this guy is reflecting the relationship you have with yourself...aka he always blames you and you always blame you. So change that dear one. Not by now blaming him but by no longer attacking yourself as a precious child of God. Receive the LOVE God has for you and be filled to overflowing by it. God bless you in healing. Maybe a demonic deliverance ministry will help you break any generational curses or unholy soul ties or cast out any evil oppression or possession stopping you thus far. I pray that all the generous abundance you tried to shower your partner with will come back to you ten fold and that you will be wiser about where you invest it in future. Invest in the people who love, support, respect, and cooperate with you in God's will, purpose, and destiny for your life. God bless you!
@cubed0724
@cubed0724 4 жыл бұрын
Why did you marry him? What the hell attracted you to him?
@mskia8202
@mskia8202 4 жыл бұрын
I will definitely be praying for you dear
@GodsSparrowSpeaks
@GodsSparrowSpeaks 4 жыл бұрын
Cubed07 Good Question that many often ask with similar situations. Obviously he exhibited zero of this behavior prior to marriage or I would not have married him. First, I learned he is has NPD. I was unaware of this, as most are taken by surprise. I also believe this was an assignment from the Lord, however due to God’s gift to us of Freewill, he has chosen to take the route of his flesh rather than the Spirit of God in his behavior and responses to Life’s challenges. It’s very sad. I believ his prior behavior was not real fruit, but works..I seek to learn all I can out of the situation as I move forward and away. I lean on scripture God promises me years ago. Like all people, I have days I can’t handle the behavior as well I can as other days. I believe God is giving him many chances to repent before he dies.
@GodsSparrowSpeaks
@GodsSparrowSpeaks 4 жыл бұрын
Kia Ash Dear Kia Ash, thank you so much for your lovingkindness and taking the time to intercede on my behalf. I pray God restores your time 10 fold, and blesses you.
@stephanieGallantvlogs
@stephanieGallantvlogs 4 жыл бұрын
God bless him
@anthonianas1
@anthonianas1 4 жыл бұрын
Yes sir truely God bless you
@Beautiful2219
@Beautiful2219 4 жыл бұрын
This is Beautiful 🙏🏽💕
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