When do men fall in love?

When do men fall in love? Do men fall in love? The act of men falling in love is very complex and can’t be understood by most women or admitted to by most men. In this video, I try to explain the process of a man falling in love.
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[@s.johnson1772]

Did he say “5, 10, 15 years and ain’t sniff a ring”??? HOLLERING!!!!😩😩😩😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@mentinelefftie5515]

Same😂😂😂

[@briannacollie2742]

😂😂😂😂

[@FitPasson]

Shelona Johnson Right like girl bye 👋 you playing yourself at that point 🤷‍♀️

[@briacasey2749]

I was so scared to comment! I was like this is a serious video, but I’m crying laughing 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I even tried to hold my laugh in when I first heard him say it.

[@lashondarochell7584]

He had me rolling at " 5, 10, 15 years and ain't sniffed a ring" 😂😂😂😂, Tony speaks the truth!! Be wise and take heed!!

[@iwantcrystals]

They fall in love when you leave them.🤷🏽‍♀️

[@TheFactsofLife237]

LOL

[@j-dubdmg1]

Not true to some

[@j-dubdmg1]

@Linda Hines i take 2 yrs...that 1st yr is more imo and experience is to understand that female....cause imma marine so im good with adapt and overcome tactics

[@EmpressofChrist]

Exactly

[@FitPasson]

Crystal Burton Facts !! Oops too late 😅🤣🤷‍♀️

[@DynamicallyDC]

"Men get married everyday and are not in love...and vice versa. A lot of marriages today are a business deal." This is a valuable message you just shared Tony! 💎

[@Dtella55]

Exactly true love does not exist anymore its what can you do for me or what can I get from you! Tell that to a narcissist!

[@shanellpittman7742]

Dtella55 not completely tru. love is real but women got to stop being so desperate for a relationship and a ring. We as the woman need to see our self as royalty. Before you date get to know him get to know his hart. Get to know his up bringing and lifestyle. No this is not all it if to a relationship but it’s a start. I also suggest counseling because it’s a good and healthy way for both side to get there feeling out in positive ways.

[@curli-lettey4319]

What's sad is now a days majority of these marriages ARE business deals, marrying mainly for financial status, for stability for some other mans kids (then adding onto the tribe making sure they give him one) or like he said, "the clock is ticking"

[@shanellpittman7742]

curli-lettey I agree but not all marred relationship at this way

[@larkford4460]

Marriage has always been a business lol that’s why more are failing than succeeding.. that’s why the old now is called contract low/common law lol it ain’t about the 2 people, it’s about the 3rd party you allow to govern your “marriage”

[@makingofakingdommd8723]

My man knew the moment he saw me on a interview. He reached out to the show host and got my contact info and we've been inseparable since our first communication. I didn't know he was the one but he was for sure. He told me day 2, "I can't be your friend. I have to have more because someone else may take you from me."... Marriage next year.

[@MrsDavis-vm8tq]

Wow!! 🥰❤️❤️

[@ivy6179]

Damn

[@MarriageandtheSingleLady]

love this

[@electrabloomm]

Don’t give up the pum pum, therefore, you will be protected. 🧚🏽‍♂️

[@arlenecollier2011]

Serious patois.

[@noname29288]

Yep… yuh haffi know 100% da right time fi give it up

[@teshaward2463]

It makes sense to me. A man knows when he wants to fully commit to a woman. My husband told me he was going to propose after 5 months of dating. He asked my dad for permission at 9 months and proposed at exactly 12 months. Married a year and 4 months later. So we meet and were married 2 year and 4 months later. We both were young and didn't have much but we've worked really hard to get where we are now. We've been married for almost 10 years and have 3 boys ages 5 and under together. We are both African-American and didn't have children outside of our marriage. We both come from single family homes. We just both knew what we wanted very early which was a life with each other no matter how that life played out. We both wanted to live right and honor God.

[@vernita0216]

May God continue to bless your union! What a beautiful and inspiring testimony!

[@norapeace6526]

May God continue to bless your union .. may I ask if you both were virgins??

[@marrencebaraquiel]

isnt 5 months too early? hows the married life now?

[@icysnow57cold64]

I have a question. How do males and females bond with each other? I don't see how men and women can bond (especially romantically) with each other. Women can build incredible friendships and become very close to each other in a way men can't bond, and science shows that women can bond very well with each other. Generally, women are even more social than men are. After something bad happens, a woman quickly rushes to talk to all of her female friends to get support, whereas a man can isolate himself and grief alone. Women tend to be more caring, more empathic, more compassionate, more affectionate, more loyal, more nurturing, more understanding, more sympathetic, more kind hearted, more peaceful, more calmer, more gentle, more expressive, more intuitive, and more outward than men are, and thus bond more with other women in a special way that they can’t with men. Men, on the other hand, are not that emotional, and thus can’t bond with other men in a special way. Women are more comfortable being around with other women than they are with men. They have a type of bond that usually men with women won’t really have, or with men and men.

[@bonitahopkins2958]

That's magnificent. The Lord bless you 🙏🏾 ❤️. Loved your testimony.

[@faithfullyliyah4554]

When you encounter a man that is picked for you by God - all of this “time” stuff goes out the window. It’s irrelevant. These are worldly standards. Each of you has someone that God had designed and prepared for you. Don’t be discouraged. My fiancé was in love with me before I was in love with him. While we were dating we both sought God about each other and received multiple confirmations. He proposed at 7 months. A man who truly loves you and is in love with you will go out his way and will do anything to make you happy. He will put your first at all times.

[@taunishaclinkscale1237]

Amen sister!

[@therryt3902]

Amen so true

[@lasonyayoung5759]

FaithfullyLiyah amen and amen. Love is different when it’s Godly

[@faithfullyliyah4554]

Lasonya young yes!!!!!!

[@lilanarcisse6470]

inpatient woman can't get nothing but disappointment woman are too easy this day that's why man refuse to get married God bless you sis with your marriage. that's why we need to be patient so God can send us the man of our life .a Godly man who love and respect us..

[@ashleyh203]

Men fall in love at 2 years and we fall out at 2 years 😂

[@ThePrettychynababy]

Facts

[@ALI-vj3zg]

Ashley B so true 😂😂😂😂

[@ArshennaHines]

😅lol true facts

[@samxlx]

Looool girl

[@TheNaphisa03]

So intelligent. So ahead of his time. We need more brains like you, Tony Gaskins!!

[@jayclarke8767]

I just got more confused...let me just stay single lol

[@remainhumble6654]

😂exactly...

[@AmillionRays]

Fa real!

[@3D3LIA]

😂😂😂

[@patricerenee1717]

Yea. I’m not with the shits.

[@Dtella55]

For real....💯💯

[@CoachLove]

Ladies, during those two years of waiting, CLOSE YOUR LEGS. Don't "play a wife" in the meantime.

[@Nekole1]

Exactly. I agree. I see many women playing house very early on with a man. So why should be want to be with you when you doing wife duties with no commitment.

[@tamikajackson1952]

Exactly

[@drsarahprincessm9194]

Jessie C Love of course sweetheart Closed tightly

[@supastarmar2454]

PERIOD

[@supastarmar2454]

gorgeous nene ctfu right

[@mybrwnisbeautifulhin1165]

2 years?! Ain’t nobody got time for that!

[@tiphcollins2002]

😂🤣

[@Pipster-oe6om]

Well in that case, do you have time for 10+ years of misery, just because you couldn't take the time to figure him out?

[@absolutelynina8187]

What you said makes perfect sense. Most men know within the first year if they would marry you or not. Some people get married for convenience or companionship (not love).

[@beautifullyblessed6112]

Amen

[@beac8238]

Mona Cole Yep. Men also fear growing old without a partner, children, or other support system to care for them during their elder life phase. I remember reading a IG thread about deadbeat fathers reentering their adult kids lives under the guise of reconnecting. People commented how they found out their fathers were suffering from chronic illnesses or elder poverty and were desperate for assistance. It’s so disappointing that this dynamic extends to their relationships with their kids. They are missing from the kids childhood but present during their elderhood for convenience/companionship too.

[@norapeace6526]

I know a man, old hs friend & prom date. Never liked the guy in that way but I know he’s in the closet. And he just got engaged to a woman. I think he did it so he can get away with his dirt without looking suspicious 👀

[@marrencebaraquiel]

what if yall both 22 yrs old? for me it’s too early

[@lisacox.salontalk254]

Most women already knew the man didn't really love them, married anyway, sad.

[@joannadziokan3267]

Desperados.... and pressure from society. Very sad.

[@justbu3797]

True

[@summiedajanae3700]

🤣 this made me laugh lol

[@KristinAlayna]

When they can't find any more women willing to put up with their games.

[@joannadziokan3267]

I think that as well lol :)

[@noname29288]

Lmao yep

[@staceythorpe7938]

Yup, a man can give a woman things, time, even his body and at the same time not give a woman himself.

[@SK-no2pp]

Stacey Thorpe amen

[@ak-47intelligence75]

Women can do that too.

[@ak-47intelligence75]

@D Goshay Speak for yourself, I didnt. I got what I wanted, I upped and I moved on without a second thought. THEY fell for me. 9 years later, they still come back 🤣

[@arabianx0104]

Sooo true

[@36msme]

Sooo True

[@marialaporta8075]

This is so true! I am a 52 yo woman and I’m this way. It takes a very long time for me to truly fall in love with a man. I’m committed and faithful but love takes time. My marriage ended in divorce after 15 years. My main motivation to get married was to have children. Take your time ladies please!

[@wshelby83]

Thank you for your honesty

[@softersideofc.c.5655]

Thank you for the advice I've actually had a woman in her 60s tell me I had to put up with fuckery because that what men do. I wanted to slap her for tell me that. I like getting advice from woman who have been married but not that kind of advice

[@jacquiewilliams6699]

@@softersideofc.c.5655 my husband and I loved each other from the very beginning, every man is different I'm much older, when you find him or he finds you, you will most definately know, we were committed to each from the very start and for 35 years we were in love with each other, we had trust and respect for each other. A man will only treat you the way you allow him to, where ever he was there you see us both, relationships today are nothing like it use to be anymore I'm an old school baby boomer, so Just As I did c.c. rose you'll find that special someone just as I did unfortunately it's a bit harder today. My husband passed 2 yrs ago, I'll never come across another like him and I'm not looking., I'm still in love evrn now with him because we made so many beautiful memories together. And know that you are very special and don't have to lower your worth for anyone.

[@JaneDoe-dn4wk]

I agree with that because ppl don’t understand love is a choice. A man is gonna put that choice off as long as he can. Being in love requires you to be vulnerable

[@TheSarvenazable]

“A lot of marriages are business deal nowadays” you couldn’t be more accurate! 🙏💕

[@ishamaat44]

Guys always SHOW red flags....don't fall in love with a REPRESENTATIVE! Some woman just stuck in emotions....gotta use wisdom!

[@feliciamonet]

I’ve been what I call “super single” my entire life bc I refuse to be vulnerable. Lacking vulnerability isn’t something that is exclusive to men. I can honestly say that my single status is partially because I won’t open up and be vulnerable. I’ve been doing some serious self reflection and soul searching, and I believe it’s because I lost my parents and grandparents fairly young. I’m fearful of loving someone so deeply then losing them, so I have this wall up that only lets men in on a superficial level. When I feel them getting too close, I do something to sabotage things such as ghosting or not reciprocating communication. It’s a sad truth, and now that it’s out... I’m free! Lol I appreciate your insight.

[@maesams6212]

Amen!!!!

[@tfowler4060]

Same here

[@sineshabalala6249]

You literally described me

[@joannhughes4992]

5 & 10yrs Ain't sniff Ring💍 I died😂

[@angelicaangel2624]

"A lot of people are getting married for things other than love". This is so true 😕. A lot of couples who live together a few years have such intertwined lives, that it's easier to just get married then start over again. Plus, I feel that people are worried they can't do any better than their current partner, so they make do.

[@docjones5096]

In order for a man to love this one..He has to love God first and be submissive to God. Then I can love and be submissive to him. Periodt

[@marrencebaraquiel]

amen!

[@larkford4460]

I fall in love once was there’s a divine connection between us. Spiritual alignment and understanding draws my soul. A woman with a plan and a vision that can align with mine attracts my mind. A woman oh so beautiful and embraces her natural beauty is the apple of my eye. When God sends me this all in one woman, I’ll make her the Queen of our nation..Whoops lol I was getting lost into a journal on here. Until then, I’m solidifying my empire and focusing on my purpose,, YA DIG! 🤴🏾

[@Whoizsantinolark]

As a man who knows what he wants, it did not take me 2 years to fall in love with my girl it took 3 months and i have loved her every single day since. Even when with broke up for 3 years and got back together recently. So this 2 years stuff he is saying, he’s speaking for himself not every man

[@marrencebaraquiel]

how did u reconnect? are u married?

[@Whoizsantinolark]

@@marrencebaraquiel she sent me a message on Facebook we started to work on each other but didn’t work out.

[@LaCosmetologia]

exactly

[@andreneescorner9212]

I agree

[@Nekole1]

In order for me to want to get married to a man (if I do decide) I must see consisteny in his actions. Not just telling me he loves me but by his actions. Until then I am in no rush. I see way to many men who feel that women should chase them while he does little to nothing in return. And these same men will get into a relationship with a woman and get comfortable and the consistency stops.

[@Nekole1]

@BeautyQueen2023X oh ok

[@narsterling397]

Mr. Tony you called me out. I got married because I felt left out. Thank you for educating us women so that we can be the True Queens we desire to be. ✊🏽👍🏾

[@ebonyessence8]

"Men get married everyday and are not in love." This is why marriages are not lasting.

[@joannadziokan3267]

We will never understand each other. Just tolerate each other's behaviour.

[@toriyt2714]

If as a woman you’ve ever truly paid attention and listened to men when it comes to their heart, this makes perfect sense. Men need marriage to fall completely in love, this is my own personal theory.

[@deaionbanks4784]

Yatora Remble I totally agree.

[@kimmcdonald2022]

Yes it does

[@tawandasells4309]

Yes it does...

[@mildredroldos1601]

Yeah!!!

[@isabellalora6533]

What zodiac sign are you in you have a very calm and peaceful face are you a libra? 😄

[@carolloraine223]

Men fall in Lust. I'm staying single and Happy! Thanks, anyway.😄

[@larkford4460]

Carol Loraine you don’t get into a relationship with anyone you’re not first attracted to right?

[@carolloraine223]

Lark Ford Yes...good point. 😊 I've just come off a terrible experience with a Narcissist. It was awful. Guess it would have been better to explain earlier. Thanks for sharing!

[@christinalucas1002]

But are you still having sex? It's cool to be single but when those hormones kick or when you feel lonely what do you do (Not trying to be rude)

[@carolloraine223]

Christina Lucas For me, I have "Toys". 😃

[@christineporter9914]

I like that what you said Tony Gaskins, that some of us women get married because our clock is ticking and we are not in love. Lol

[@mrsshiniquesimmons40]

Sir preach okay ! 😜 me and my fiancée has been together for a year and 5 months and on dec 25th of this year he proposed I said yes. We knew what we wanted when we was just talking stages and were in love and I love him soooo much I can’t wait to be his wife. I’m currently getting everything together for our wedding with our wedding planner . I hope one day ladies you’ll find love and one day be married Be BLESSED

[@breanna7245]

Shinique Rivers Congratulations!! ❤️ wish you all the best!!

[@mrsshiniquesimmons40]

@@breanna7245 thanks ❤️

[@prettypeacock7319]

I don't think "twelve months" applies to all. No one can put a time stamp on a man "falling" in love.

[@FitPasson]

Winifred E. Campbell How ever long it takes him to “ fall in love “ is on him. Just don’t sit “ around “ waiting for him to do so basically.

[@trendingasmr]

I definitely believe you Define the difference when it comes to a job. If you had a job for years putting in your best work and you haven't gotten a raise you would say something 2 HR, possibly start to to put your resume out there looking for something new. It's just our emotions that makes excuses

[@nursekillm]

Right?! And not all women have even thought about her wedding ahead of an engagement.

[@tamikajackson1952]

Well the men that I've met and talked to who married they was like yes this the one I want to take her off the market I want her I want nobody else to have her I want to be with her they didn't wait two years either

[@hischild7070]

@@tamikajackson1952, that's exactly my point. It does not take 12 months for all. Some know within 12 days.

[@farfromaverage_5333]

I just enjoy hearing you talk, that country accent though.

[@TonyGaskins]

Apassion4beauty1 lol.

[@Dtella55]

You come in this world alone so no problem if you stay single and go out alone!

[@christinalucas1002]

My only issue with that is sex is a sin and such

[@pipermarie8393]

We’re not meant to stay single forever 💜

[@joannadziokan3267]

We still want human connection though. I try to be happy being single now but keep thinking who I want to be with next lol.

[@walenalivingprayingdancing4215]

Wooooo...that's my first time hearing that....If a man got a 50% right mind to get married God will handle the other 50%....This give me hope as a woman of God that's waiting😊❤

[@blissreframed1681]

50% is half. That settling for what therr. He will probably be half in and half out throughout the marriage. I never want a man who settles. I want to be his choice

[@RG-hf4et]

I got married bc I was in love and the sweet, wonderful husband I married turned out to be the most selfish sob I have ever met and I divorced his sorry ass.

[@PeaceBeStill-]

Oh no... 😲

[@chynadoll77cyn59]

If you don’t mind me asking, what do you mean by selfish

[@DeaconChriss]

Lol

[@RG-hf4et]

@@chynadoll77cyn59 He started acting like he was a fing rock star....never home, doing whatever he wanted, acted controlling and bossy, demanded dinner be on the table when HE wanted to eat, started to make unilateral decisions- financial & other decisions, etc.........All just total bullshit....During the divorce, he said, "We were married. I thought you would always be there no matter what I did.".....Sorry, Charlie, that's not what I signed up for..... Ladies, never put up with this kind bullshit. Walk, no run, away. You are far better off being single, alone, & happy with your cat or dog than put up with this controlling, arrogant bullshit from any man.

[@lolarodriguez9284]

R G good girl like we told old to be wasting time with someone shitty ass son. If u ugly on the inside you aint for me! Go get you another girl! But nah u cant waste MY time

[@growthrulove]

This and every video is very helpful because I am in a new relationship with a man that genuinely isn't like any other man I have ever been with. He is very serious about commitment and settling down. Your videos give me insight into understanding him better, so I thank you for them sincerely.

[@shalalala868]

Did y'all marry?

[@juju7530]

My sisters have been married for over 10 years & they are not in love. They've both admitted that they couldn't get the man they truly wanted so they settled for a beta male provider. I refuse to be with someone I'm not in love with and I won't settle for a beta male.

[@trendingasmr]

Tony I love this video, for me being a female this is exactly how I felt finally on my third marriage... Long story short first marriage happened at 19 not smart, but I really put my heart in it. Second marriage happened at 26 more less was bamboozled. Got my things in order left I got my head's in order got my life back together got remarried at 35. I'm happy to say the healthier version of me took the time to discern what love truly was. I didn't go into my wedding day being in love. But I did trust God oh, and I did genuinely trust myself. I could not say this before age 2 7. So thankful for the things that you share I hope women can really hear you out without being offended. There's so much to take from this video

[@tonillewatkis4585]

Did you fall in love with your current husband after getting married?

[@briannacollie2742]

I heard that you don't truly love someone until after marriage. Because, when you marry each other you are suppose to die to self. So, true love is sacrificial. You don't love someone until the vows of for sickness and in health or for better or worse kicks in.

[@SK-no2pp]

Elegant Anne true love is not sacrificial. I disagree. I used to think like that, and totally self abandoned. Yes you should love someone in sickness and health but love is mutual and compromise. Don’t abandon your needs and wants to him. No one needs to be a martyr in love. Jesus was and he DIED on the cross. Watch Teal Swans videos about love, they have really helped me. 💕

[@user-zx5xw4yw2e]

True!

[@curli-lettey4319]

Not exactly so, there are people who are sooo in love with each other that they will come to that conclusion TO get married ("we love each other so much, what are we waiting for?") Thats why some people just up and elope or get a quickie marriage and live their married life without a word to anyone else because its not for the glam or attention, they want to be dedicated til death.

[@briannacollie2742]

@@SK-no2pp But, he knows your needs and he is selfless and putt your needs before his. That's what I mean about sacrificial. You described a situation where you are the only one sacrificing. That's why relationships don't work, because you have one selfish person and one selfless person in the relationship.

[@SK-no2pp]

Elegant Anne yup both people need to be on the same page

[@straighttalkinggirl7622]

So we just chess pieces in a man's game. This isn't very honest or respectful of women's time or lives. Time we can't get back. Respectfully (as I'm not a man hater) You have just convinced me women are more evolved of the ego.

[@larkford4460]

You allow one man to speak on behalf of the whole population of men? And actually take him seriously???

[@bjmartin6684]

@TravelingDiva2018 i agree with you 100%. I don't have any children and couldn't becausebof medical reason. At first it crushed me that i couldn't have children, but i am so thankful that i do not. I enjoy my life and i enjoy traveling as well. They start pushing marriage on girls at a young age, but nonone is pushing marriage young boys. If you're not married and have nonchildren hy the age of 35 you are considered over the hill. It's unfieruanate that women are put on the shelf by men at an early age, but its ok for them to sow their oats until they are truly ready for marriage. The playing field is not even or level

[@6382smile]

My narcissistic “X” was waiting for me to “act right” before he proposed. We were together for 4 years. He told my homegirl that after I left him. Huge weight lifted off me. I never felt like I made the wrong decision to leave him. Anytime someone mentioned marriage with us, he got pissed.

[@precious1019]

Sound like my ex. Lol. 4 years. Left him over a year ago.

[@almetatrammel8522]

So it just safe to say .....stop looking for the ring, and live your life.

[@jackeebonner1]

Unbelievable true... I'm blessed to be experiencing this right now. Mind-blowing and heart felt. Its almost hard to believe, but it's true and a true blessing. He see me and said he asked God for me. Ain't God awesome and faithful. He definitely gives more than you need.... Thank you, Father for being faithful and truth! 💝🙏🏿

[@lerearose8659]

Steve Harvey says it doesn’t take that long for a man to know if he loves a woman and I believe him

[@pluggedbysimi1674]

LOVE FROM SOUTH AFRICA 🇿🇦🖤

[@MarriageandtheSingleLady]

Dang. I've heard that men fall in love BEFORE women. I hear it happens quick when she's the right one. So many different opinions on this subject.

[@knightyknight5399]

Thx for the upload Tony.. I left my ex after 4yrs we have a child together , I wanted to marry he made so many excuses , he started to chase me after I left him , I didnt look back, I continued to move on with my life without him....Amen ...Thx Tony ...

[@Angel-tv5lq]

In my experience a man will marry a woman who has a high level of self respect not only for herself but also for him. If she behaves like she’s special and has a lot of good qualities to give a man, then he will have even more respect for her....which includes not giving it up to him on the 1st night or even the 1st week. I’ve also found that the best relationships start as a slow burn which builds to a full on fire....and that’s why friendship and getting to know each other is so important, if you don’t have things in common what do you have when you take sex out of the equation! I’ve also found that if a man has a strong dominant mother, then men....despite common belief and something many men will deny....will end up marrying a woman who has similar behaviors to his mother because men like to be looked after.... not true of all men but if you meet a man who has a high level of respect for his mother then you can be sure he will also show you respect, if you have the same qualities as his mother....or at least the same qualities which he feels she has. Just my experience in observing my friends and their men and also those men with their mothers and how they treat them.

[@kimberlywest2391]

When you get to the 5th dimension you realize your purpose is not a marriage but it’s to higher the frequency of the planet for the greater good of humanity ... 🗣❤️

[@lilbabytears]

This 💯

[@tisaligon-roman6353]

Thank you Tony. A lot of clarity has been made. Much appreciated. Many blessings to you and all reading this. 🙏🏼✨

[@cianation8178]

Your videos always come in clutch❤️

[@2shy83]

This just confirms what I’ve been saying all along. A man should know within 3 years if we wants to marry you. It makes no sense to be loyal from the soil to any man and not get anything from it!! I’d rather be by myself and continue to grow as a woman. Verses wasting months even years on a man, who doesn’t want to grow as a man. 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@toriyt2714]

I totally get this. Once again you broke it down perfectly.

[@EmpressofChrist]

It goes both ways. I married for wealth not love. I love him but I'm not in love

[@TonyGaskins]

Jessica L thanks for being honest. I hope he doesn’t use KZbin lol

[@larkford4460]

I hope my brotha got a prenup

[@moyalovexo]

Paternity Court Daily SMH🤦🏾‍♀️

[@simeoda]

About to watch some of ur vids

[@EmpressofChrist]

@@larkford4460 nope he doesnt because he knew exactly what he got himself into:)

[@mervatsalaama9854]

Sending love from Egypt 🇪🇬❤️ love ur videos

[@julialouk9363]

Yes people tell us what we want to hear to avoid looking crazy or to avoid hurting our feelings I seem to notice I used to do the same thing

[@cmd8602]

This is why women need to do it according to the bible...NO PREMARTIAL SEX. If the relationship doesn't work, you can walk away with your dignity and not feel bad about how you treated him as your husband by sleeping with him for 5, 10, or 15 years and he can walk away and marry someone he met less than a year.

[@MajicGurl]

Dropping jewels & gems 💛👌

[@michaelsaieh3321]

It's not all little girls who plan their wedding. I've never done that but I totally understand what you are saying bc I grew up with 7 brothers all with different personalities. It seems that being around men all my life I was able to understand them more and because of it I've had several men be infatuated by me simply because of my relaxed and nonchalant personality towards them.

[@nicoleh5738]

✨MR.TONY GASKINS....WHAT ARE THE SIGNS THAT A MAN IS USING A WOMAN OR LIVING A DOUBLE LIFE✨

[@Sweet_lady1992]

Nicole Hatcher That woman should know that for herself. That’s not hard to figure out

[@nyui_inc]

Everything he said in this video.

[@zouk-uo9dn]

PRIVATE INVESTIGATOR MONEY WELL SPENT 👍👍

[@kimbirch771]

Woman's intuition. If you feel in your core. , believe it

[@janiebrown7454]

Tony I have listen to you and sent you two other women to listen to. It's great to find a man that loves God like you do that makes a difference in what you say!

[@babydoll4603]

Thank you for the video because it truly helps me understand my husband just a little bit more. I just had the realization the other day that his heart wasn't completely open to me at first as it is now. When I use to try to talk to him about it all he would say is were good. But now I can tell he is in love with me through how he interacts with me. He never treated bad but now years later he is way more loving an I'm here for it.

[@jhssmith2004]

i never planned a wedding or was thinking about a wedding dress at 10 or even in high school. my mother asked me at 16 why i did'nt have a boyfriend. i told her that having a boyfriend felt like i was in a cage. she said how is that? you never had a boyfriend. yeah, not every girl, young lady or woman is planning on getting married. i was imagining my career and my life. my brother fell in love with his now wife in two days over facebook. they got married in three months and are in bliss four years later. there are no rules and formulas ladies. just take care of yourself first, do things YOU love to do, live a life of integrity and put God first.

[@mariamayub212]

Same with me! When I was a kid, I had absolutely no interest in the idea because I wanted to do something with my life and I had all these big goals even as I was young. I started creating my own magazine and writing songs and all this stuff. Good idea of being married meant I would miss out on everything I could see myself doing. still not married and don't really regret it, but you never know what the future holds. I'm just glad I went for my dreams!

[@jhssmith2004]

@@mariamayub212 peace and blessings my dear. good for you. not all women are the same and we all have our own dreams, ideas and goals. let's not put people in boxes and assume that we all want the same thing. i am blessed beyond belief and i say that with humility because i had a dysfunctional childhood. i wish everyone here quietness, joy and love in their lives.

[@smileyperlishia]

Most not ready in 6 months versus a year. People not dealing with self love yet and what will happen is one person will feel like it’s the next partners job to make them happy. People need to learn how to talk out family issues and insecurities early

[@gratitude5740]

Totally understand and agree. After few dates don't hesitate to tell the man what my expectations are in dating including the timeline for dating. I'm not scared to scare him off . A real serious man won't get scared . If he doesn't propose by 2 years and marry, he knows that he should head out the door .

[@rportugie4815]

I get it! Completely understood. Not hard to understand. Thank you for clarifying...safe to say any engagement prior to the 12th month that man loves you, could possibly be in love and knows exactly what he wants. Love your teachers💞

[@shanellpittman7742]

I don’t want a ring until HE is fully in love so I rather wait the 2 years. My time and hart is not a time capsule for you to keep until you read so ask me when you fully ready for me. Ask me when you know you can’t do so much as breath without me around

[@girlwakeuppodcast4622]

All these new uploads YASSSSSS

[@elizabethmartin1607]

So true. My Dad told me exact same thing. I also had a older Sister tell me also. They both said Men love Money. My dad told me he married my Mother but not for love. He also remarried but he said business deal. So I feel u. N of course it's not all men but wooooooooo the percentage is high. Another reason I'm not a jealous female.

[@swiitdoll]

I don’t believe men can love, I don’t even believe they have any emotions and I treat them accordingly tbh.

[@Yahashuaskid]

🤣🤣🤣🤣 I agree...I dnt get why Gos made then like that. I've actually feel alot of contempt for them and dnt like them as a whole but still want to get married for kids🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@tinasnow2006]

Tasheri yep

[@larkford4460]

When I love, I love hard so I don’t show emotions towards a woman unless I know for a fact she’s in it for the long haul. I’m not getting attached to some temporary as broad

[@swiitdoll]

Lark Ford bullshit men can’t love get out of here

[@emyywolf]

Wow, I wish every man was THIS HONEST and BLUNT

[@mzdorothyjm]

He can propose just to be doing it and don't make any plans for the next step.Seen this alot been engaged for a long time.And some women accept a proposal because they want a ring.And true I have a friend that married a man and he don't love her.And got married because I love the man I was with but at the end of the day he wasn't really in love with me he did it because he wanted people to see him get married.

[@marshellepayne4020]

Thank you for all the videos. They really help me

[@megbustamante99]

Ladies, for the waiting time. You should behave and respect yourself. Bcoz if he really loves you he will move heaven and earth to have you as his wife. Just like God he loves us so much that he made the universe for us too enjoy and sent down his son Jesus Christ to die on the cross to replace sin for forgiveness, so who ever belive in his Son can come to him (God) that's how important we to him. God loves us so much.

[@falishak6765]

I didn't sit down and plan my marriage at 10 years old either so all women don't do that. I was playing at 10 back in 1989.

[@j-dubdmg1]

It takes me about 2 yrs to really set in with a female

[@TonyGaskins]

J-DubDMG thanks for being honest!

[@j-dubdmg1]

@Love C that 1st year it seems to be figuring another out...still maybe on the dating scene...its a lot going on in that 1st year...is there still old baggage coming 4rm past....to me, u have to be cautious these days

[@lidmontgomery8837]

It makes perfect sense to me.... But I love how complicated they are its kind of comical in a way.....I suggest being wise on how you handle yourself while courting the man and also use your gift of discernment to know how to handle him or just ask God.. especially if you know that he is your husband... And dont take everything he will do so seriously! Just be sure of yourself and be solid in yourself and what you bring to the table.... Knowing that God is the foundation is huge in any relationship! And if somehow any separation comes between you two.... You will already know that anything you do will prosper if not with one blessing then another. 💕

[@jobmunywoki7077]

Falling in love is a game for small boys & girls...love is created by how two people choose to relate.

[@mawidzaaurel2062]

How true n sad when you said” 5, 10, 15 years n haven’t sniffed a ring”. I am that woman who never got that ring 20 years plus. 2016 I left, am gone now. was living with him doing wifely things. Now he is trying to come back, calling n talking like it is good. I stop talking n stop answering his phone calls. Years that I can’t reclaim. I learned a lot. Lesson learn. But never never ever again, I do not have those kind of years left to give to any men. To all you ladies don’t ever do what I did, Tony Gaskins is right. A real true honest man will truly know. Now I met someone n with in 1 year. If I do not hear talk about marriage, future plans, living situation in a combination topic. I am walking out

[@lisaariottiart]

I agree here with everything... if a Man don't know- I GO.

[@wandasexton643]

I agree with a lot of things you said especially when you're a young girl and you're planning your wedding. And there is a massive difference between being in love and loving somebody and most people if you ask them they'll always say while I loved them not I was madly in love and anyone who's never experienced that kind of love I feel sorry for. Because it doesn't happen all the time. I've experienced it twice and it was never with either of my husband's LOL

[@lolaispure4296]

I never actually thought you were this wise. I am subscribing. Thanks.

[@sylviasylvia8551]

Hello. I just found your channel, and I am so very pleased with your messages of good common sense. Sometimes we need someone in our lives to tell us, educate us on life in general; especially about situations that arise out of relationships with the opposite sex. Honestly, you are the first to bring this information out in a very respectful way; I appreciate that. Not saying which channels, but some put their messages out there in a very crude and 'nasty' way. Not everyone is on the same page when it comes to how information is told or shared with them or to them. Thank you.

[@felishapittman2778]

Im gonna be single forever😔😔😔

[@DeaconChriss]

No you won't. I'm pretty sure it's a tall handsom man out here waiting for you.....

[@deblessedchizy969]

😂😂😂sounds easy.

[@DeaconChriss]

@@deblessedchizy969 it is lol

[@TheFactsofLife237]

Wow! Thanks for the breakdown TG! ❤ 💎 ❤ 💎

[@missarabia1875]

I have experienced abuse but i have never experienced love. I am too drained emotionally trying to make a man happy but it's never good enough.

[@PRETTYPRINCESS5656]

I swear I have one that hates that he is in love with me. It seems like he wants to go against my grain so badly. He will be 25 next year. I told him don't come back without a ring.

[@curli-lettey4319]

If he hates that he's in love with you, do you really want a ring from that person? Sounds like you put that mounkey on him and he can't let go and wondering why he is in love with you. Go 'head girl! ✋

[@arianajohnson2679]

Whew, you’re speaking facts.

[@KnkyCoffEE]

You are so right! Men know who/when they want to marry. Mine told me I was going to be his wife on our second date. Yes, I got a very nice ring. But WTH is a ring without fidelity. Yea That Part!

[@kenyafromcali]

Deep. Overstand! Thank you Brother Gaskins.

[@breewelch5982]

There is allot of truth to this video. It’s the honesty us women don’t want to hear.

[@kimb.2428]

This is so refreshing to hear. It makes SOOOO MUCH sense. I wish I knew this when I was younger 🤦🏾‍♀️🙄😂😅

[@faithadams6978]

Waiting on him to fall in love...im in the process of falling out thats to long to wait for someone to have the same feelings for you.

[@LeoLadyCass]

We said “mmmhmmm” at the same time lol!

[@G.Skrebutenaite]

Actually, it makes sense, the man proposes loving the woman, but not being in love with her yet, U get married at 24 months so by the time U get married the man has surrendered to love, it makes sense, marriage isn't the finish line, it's the beginning

[@GODSCREATION1025]

U stepping on toes with this one, another great video please keep sharing the knowledge

[@MsBerna19]

Falling in love can happen in one day or in one year. if it takes a year for him to fall for me then he isnt the one.