When I'm Constantly Thinking Of Someone Are They Thinking Of Me Too?

When You're Constantly Thinking Of Someone Are They Also Thinking Of You?
This is a common question we may find ourselves asking and pondering. How do we get to the bottom of this? How do we actually know?
There are multiple parts to this answer so it's not just one simple answer. There is an absolute answer, but more than one.
I'm Sue Dhillon. I'm a journalist, writer, author, mindfulness trainer and energy worker. Let me tell you I have explored this question deeply over the years and have had my very own scenario with this question.
I have spent so much time in deep contemplation over this. I just didn't know what the answer was or what to make of my feelings for so long.
Why couldn't I stop thinking of this person? And I pondered for many years about it and needed to come up with an answer for myself as do you.
As an energy worker and trained and certified Reiki Master I learned how to tap in to my channels and guides and I've developed my intuition immensely through the energy work and the process of self inquiry.
I began to better understand this and it started making more sense.
I have a better grasp of this question now - When You're Constantly Thinking Of Someone Are They Also Thinking Of You?
And I'm here to share my heartfelt response with you in hopes it will help you on your path and help you along.
I'm hopeful my very sincere response to your question will give you the clarity you are seeking. I hope it will give you some sense of comfort, hope and peace.
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[@d.collins3819]

Yes, When you are thinking of someone, that particular person is thinking of you too. Thoughts do actually travel. That is why you have to think good.

[@axomorlora3625]

Good joke 😂

[@Loch1210]

She doesn’t gaf about me

[@markonpoint3219]

I have two people on my mind constantly one in the past and one in the present and I often wonder why God brought them into my life knowing I could never be with them. This definitely helped me 🙏

[@aurangzaib2334]

Thank very much u I'm very hand Sam mane I'm very fan and .my life is a very nice ok I'm a. Ex.army mane .

[@lydiaoulo1429]

Same situation with me right now.Onw person is giving me a mixed reactions, and the other we broke up 3mnths ago

[@hassanwaqar5271]

Hello man, same with me but I'm very curious. I mean I can't describe my situation 😊

[@drakune]

I cannot resonate more. I have met this lady 4 yrs ago. I have instantly connected with her on the first day. She sent me a song which stunned me for a second - that was my most favorite song. From the day I have connected with her, not a day has passed without thinking about her. It was like she was with me all along until today. I know that she is thinking about me as well . But we parted ways without any closure. We haven't talked to eachother for more than 2yrs now. But I can assure that we are still thinking of eachother. As you have mentioned, such connection doesn't always mean that we have to be together. Connection is just a connection. It doesn't mean anything other than that. Although I still think about her daily, I just wish her a good luck, not more than that. Some people are meant to be in our heart, but not in our life. I wish her a good luck.

[@popstarsubliminals7772]

I feel like my soul wouldn't rest easy if i don't end up being with my person...

[@blossomyourawesome]

You may or may not end up with this person. There is a deep lesson in it if you feel this deeply connected. I have been through this exact same thing, but did not end up with the person. I understand now the lesson in it for me. Wishing you peace, love and joy on your journey.

[@newsigmundfreud3023]

Thanks for Doing your best to explain it and clarify it all. But still, there should be more to it for us to understand or to do something with it. ..with that deep connecting thoughts.

[@Anew3A3]

I don’t want to think about him anymore but he is all that I see, everyday. I fell in love the moment he looked at me but he’s not with me so I’m staying far away.

[@blossomyourawesome]

What I can tell you is while it may seem you will never get over this person. You will. I've been through this. It took me years, but I got to a point of indifference. It happened. And now when I look back I see how I was holding onto something that was not meant for me. There's something better out there for you. Trust me.

[@amitatiwari9122]

Same here, felt really good while listening the video felt like meditation ❤❤ finally some peace

[@Anew3A3]

@@blossomyourawesome Thank you ❤️

[@kathtrimarchi6266]

Thank you, it gave me peace to know I’m not the only one asking this question. I really feel I had a lot of connection with this man and sometimes I feel he is struggling with this feeling as much as I do, but sometimes I think he might not. Anyways, we both know we can’t be together, I have to accept it and move one. I have to accept that you can have this level of connection and means nothing.

[@flobp2381]

I worked with and dated a woman many years ago. We started as friends, then lovers, then back to friends. I loved her the first time I saw her. When I got to know her, I thought she was the one. The relationship ended, when I realized that I loved her more than she really loved me. It wasn't meant to be. It took me years to finally get over that. I thought I did. Now 25+ years later I had a dream about her last week. I'd never dreamt about her before. Now I'm reliving the great memories and I can't seem to get her off my mind. I have an urge to contact her, but another urge is telling me to leave things alone...

[@SivaKumar-fx7ul]

I need explanation please... I recently met someone. .. but I can't seem to stop thinking about her.. I feel emotional pain at the heart center.. am I just imagining it??? Pls help.. I have tried to let go but can't

[@dogguyful]

I've been asking myself this same question frequently, and I come across this video without searching it! This is the answer then, yes!!

[@labelle6092]

since I met him, I haven't stopped thinking about him. I've been thinking about him for 10 months now. I told myself that it may be the loneliness that is the cause, but his eyes that shin when he sees me, also his behavior say something else . Sorry for my english 😊

[@lordcornwallis9842]

Yeah, this is happening to me, but I am a guy. I've spoken to her once. She has a boyfriend and I am married, but there is a connection with her and just when I thought things were getting easier, I saw her again and our eyes locked for 2 seconds, then I had to look away to sort my child out. Now she's embedded into my soul. I want to talk to her again, but it's difficult because I only see her in an environment where other parents and children are, plus we're both in relationships and that has to be respected. That still doesn't change the fact that I feel like we have this connection even though we can't really talk to each other. I thought about messaging her as I have her number through a birthday invitation for my son, but I don't want to unsettle her or cause her to feel awkward. It's so powerful, though. Is she my twin flame? I don't know, but it's causing me to question my love for my current partner... She loves me and I make her happy, but do I love her and does she make me happy? It's crazy how a person can make you feel just by simple eye contact and body language... I've never felt this mesmerized by a person before. Even when she flicks her hair, or simply seeing her hair blow gently in the breeze captivates me, but I have to pretend I'm not looking, so I steal glances when I can.

[@angelacasale3193]

I got this deep connection with this worker in Cuba even if we didnt speak a word of eachother language but those few days I was there his eyes were only and constantly for me !! I never saw him before I left never say goodbuy and that made me very sad and since then I cant stop thinking about him and i am sure hes thinking if me every time a woman reminds him of me ! So i decided to be crazy and go back to Cuba !! I need to see him and hopefully he still works there cause my mind is 100% on him

[@musterseeds1778]

What really scared me was, when other people were attracted to me but I was not to them. I try really hard to look the other way but they never go away... I hope they cannot read my thoughts.

[@MudlarkDiggingUpTheThames]

Lots of people look up videos on this subject (this being the most watched video on this channel). I suppose I should be happy that I'm not the only person going crazy

[@blossomyourawesome]

No we are not going crazy. Most of us have been through this.

[@markwilliamsbrown9889]

​@@blossomyourawesomeIts so hard feeling this way. sometimes I feel crazy and obsessed, she rejected me three times and telling her this stuff but she don't believe this. Why am I still thinking of her even though I dont want to think about her? She blocked me on FB on November and she suddenly unblocked me this February I don't get it, Im so confused I felt like a prisoner of this feeling

[@danymitehazard]

I can’t stop! I need help! Why does this happen to me? Why can’t I be in piece of mind? 🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️

[@blossomyourawesome]

I know all about it. I struggled with this for years. I never thought I would get over this person. It took years, but eventually I did get over this person. You will be able to have piece of mind someday. It's hard to imagine when you are going through it, but I promise you deserve peace and a day will come that you will be able to let this go. 💖

[@danymitehazard]

@@blossomyourawesome I mean it’s just not fair for you to be suffering this way, it’s not fair to be thinking heavily on someone and they’re not thinking about you. That’s not fair! It’s not fair not being able to focus or concentrate when you’re at work or even when you try to enjoy some time alone, or try to have a good time or spend time with friends and family while this person is just tormenting you day and night. Your life just becomes miserable. I mean I know what your about to say, “well stop thinking about them”, yeah easier said than done. It’s not fair if one person is suffering and the other is not. No! Both of them have to be going through conflict from within. I don’t know, my life is now pretty miserable and frustrating because of this, I mean I didn’t ask for any of this, it just happened. F*ck! Please tell me she’s thinking about me as well....I mean she smiles every time I’m around and she has even smiled at me up close and has made eye contact with me, but I could not resist falling slowly into the obsession in my head, little by little and slowly she began to creep herself and make her way into my head until I began to think more and more about her and found myself thinking about her non stop. Sighs….Idk.

[@og_cannabis]

me sitting here, getting distracted, watching the circles on your desktop haha. great video

[@fighter639]

Wonderful explanation. We can either keep dreaming, assume things and try to interpret it positively, or just watch what happens without attachment. If its a beautiful thing, why dont we enjoy it as it lasts than trying to possess it forever?

[@blossomyourawesome]

Thank you. So true.

[@jokjones1]

I have that connection with him. He is physically 20 years younger than me. He's married. Yet we both know each other's moods and feelings without being there physically. We talk to each other and confirm things that happen on the connection level. We're both good with that. There will never be anything but the connection.

[@HidanDaniel]

@asazoborokpeahior-kf8exWho helped you?

[@JY-pz7ju]

You are lying ..please find some one 20 years older than u then we will believe u..

[@brettpatetto6847]

I have been looking for the subject matter you speak of. finally I found the answers. Connections luv without even not knowing her name.. At the beginning our eyes were locked and it went on for 3 months until I ghosted her. I could not take t anymore as it was so untense, I should know better as a older man like my self

[@blossomyourawesome]

It happens. You never know when you will have a deep connection with someone and unfortunately so often there may not be an answer or an explanation. it just is.

[@creationsoffarzid1154]

I can say from my own experience that when I don't fancy someone, then I don't think of them, likewise, then that if I do like someone but they did not like me, then it means they are not thinking of me either. So it really depends if two people equally like each other or not.

[@blossomyourawesome]

Yes. This is not about being obsessed with someone. This explanation is about feeling deeply connected to someone and that is never one sided.

[@creationsoffarzid1154]

@@blossomyourawesome : Thank you.

[@careywayka6661]

Thank you this is very helpful and appreciated.

[@sarahennisgallagher2786]

Thank you for sharing so honestly. Love this. You're great!!

[@blossomyourawesome]

Thank you Sarah. That means so much to me. I really appreciate your kind words.

[@hiteshabhani9046]

Wonderfully explained 👏

[@blossomyourawesome]

Thank you.

[@Feber2001]

I had a random flashback this morning about my ex, and I feel like I'm back to square one... I'll get better, but it's frustrating because that person almost ruined my life

[@blossomyourawesome]

Sorry to hear that, but yes. Always know it will get better.

[@Feber2001]

@@blossomyourawesome Thank you, Sue❤️

[@valvihk3649]

I've been energetically pulled to a person for 12 years now. I don't know what to do. They are in a relationship and have a child. I don't want this energetic connection or any connection that cannot come to fruition in a physical world. It's hard to see any therapist over this when this is an altruistic situation. I know things about them they never told me physically, I've sensed them before walking into a room, I've heard their thoughts and emotions... I found out that I am not susceptible to hypnosis. Why would God or universe torture me like this. Either give me the person or help me move on. I was able to move on for a couple of years and then I'm triggered by their presents and end up obsessing... I don't know what to do.

[@shashanksrivastava8659]

I have seen many videos like this. Yours is most logical and satisfying. Hope you read this

[@blossomyourawesome]

Thank you. I appreciate that.

[@shashanksrivastava8659]

@@blossomyourawesome my pleasure

[@joejoey1983]

I met a lady 5 months ago hung out 5 or 6 times and can’t stop thinking about her. This video helped me. A lot . I love this video. Love you’re calm voice too

[@astetic_vibezz319]

What if you are not attracted to them, you don’t feel anything for them yet they are constantly on my mind? It’s got worse and I cannot get rid of him from my mind. It’s driving me crazy

[@blossomyourawesome]

It's not about attraction. It's about connection. That means you have some sort of connection to this person. It might not ever make sense. It's just what it is. It doesn't have to mean anything.

[@astetic_vibezz319]

@@blossomyourawesome I’m Tired of it though. Is there anyway of stopping it? I’ve turned to my faith and prayer and left it in gods hands now. I know we are supposed to help ourselves in a practical way as well. I don’t want to contact him. I really think it’s me not him. He’s moved on and getting on with his life while I’m stuck in this limbo, non mover phase.

[@astetic_vibezz319]

@@blossomyourawesome can I add it’s weird! I’ve never experienced this. I’ve put it down to loneliness, boredom perhaps. Someone I met while young. A teenage crush. Only it’s nothing now. No feeling for him. He wasn’t a nice person then. I’ve got no intention of revisiting that aspect of my life /past again. Just wish he’d go away and leave my thoughts 😂🤪

[@bernardbarnett4711]

Well at least I know that I'm not going crazy.

[@blossomyourawesome]

No you're not crazy.

[@starcatcher3691]

In my case it probably just means a very flirtatious, romantic man was very taken with me for awhile, that he could have been lonely, and for whatever reason he just couldn't keep going and stopped.

[@jumafaro]

I have a friend with whom I am having a connection. I know we are not meant to be together, and I know I've moved on. But I feel this link with him, and not only him, also his fiancee. It is so frustrating because I just want to rip him off my heart. I could avoid him, but it is like a drug. I need to be with him and next to them.

[@chicog666]

I wanted it so much to be yes.

[@Davindra002]

Thank You

[@joejoey1983]

I like this video

[@urdynamix]

I don't fully agree with this assessment, if you're constantly thinking of a person, we should explore this connection further in the physical realm, get to meet the person, learn more about them, and only then, can you make a logical assessment of the connection. Thinking just to think is not healthy... I recommend reading... Don't Believe Everything You Think: Why Your Thinking Is the Beginning & End of Suffering

[@luisaladsou6131]

Thank you so much for your video

[@blossomyourawesome]

Thank you for watching. That means so much to me.

[@NoName-zb1gm]

It would make sense if the feelings are so strong that she must be thinking of me. But I've felt she's behind me in our path to a relationship that maybe she wasn't thinking of me but our connection is strong that when she catches up to me she'll start thinking about me in the same way. But in the end I want more than her thinking about me so I'm still pushing for the relationship. Thinking of me means very little.

[@brettpatetto6847]

WHAT IS THE REASON THAT HOLDS MORE GROUND OUT OF THE 2 SENARIOS

[@gavingomeze6021]

You speak very well i would like to speak to some day

[@rickysbrutal]

yea but realistically what if like in my scenario a female coworker stared at me for nearly a year every time i saw her we locked eyes but nothing ever came of it because she had a boyfriend we spoke briefly here and there but ill be doing my normal day tasks work ect and she pops into my head randomly out of nowhere it bugs me out

[@nichoseka]

Apart from her why all other relationships can't work. Yet with her everything is simple.

[@ForTruth021]

thank u ma'am

[@blossomyourawesome]

You're welcome. I hope it helped. Thank you for watching.

[@nehamujawar]

I first saw that person and i thought we had a connection . After years , i tried to talk to that person. It was just 5 mins conversation. Coz i was afraid of not talking and not making efforts . for years we only saw each other while crossing the road .recently, that person got married. But, still i am not able to stop thinking about that person. I always asked myself one question...the way i am thinking about that person are they thinking about me or do they even remember me ?

[@blossomyourawesome]

It's hard when we feel a deep connection to someone. I spent years trying to make sense of my connection, but in the end I had to accept that sometimes there is no explanation for things. It's just the way it is. We may be connected or feel something for someone, but it doesn't have to mean anything. Don't waste too much time on it. Keep your head up. That was one person who came along on your path and there will be others who you will also feel a pull towards and who you have a connection to who will actually be the person for you that you are meant to be with.

[@tricialammert6406]

I m thinking of her....

[@joejoey1983]

I’m always thinking of her too. I love her

[@NylonStrings83]

i have a question since chritsians reject incarnation then why do i see so many people speak about past lives?

[@blossomyourawesome]

Not everyone is a Christian that's why. Other religions believe in reincarnation. And we have to respect all religions and all beliefs whether we agree with them or not cause ultimately none of us are God and none of us truly know. All we can do is love and respect one another.

[@NylonStrings83]

@@blossomyourawesome okay good point about respect other religions but what about devout Christians and Muslims who reject reincarnation totally how do u address them ?

[@terrymondon7649]

❤❤❤❤

[@blossomyourawesome]

Thank you.

[@brettpatetto6847]

IDK if she's my hidden soul mate I cant deal with some one that much younger than me....its funny and ridiculous... ide prefer to stay out of love if that makes any scence

[@brettpatetto6847]

I over thought things. At my age now I've played sugar daddies.. I would like something meaningful. I luv the girls in my own way. And she's struggling like mad.. she said she was going to sell her body or do porn.. today I heard..I made it in life but this one is a keeper. Even wen she gets older I don't care..I'm a bachelor . I deserve well deserved either way.. she wants a new doge.. this is a good fit. She is 21 22 a bit uncomfortable. Like most men we want young woman. Nothing. Near our age . No grannies..lol.. I feel so relaxed comfortable sound her... Age is can't touch real love. It's a American thing also. Her sister saw my picture.. she said we look good together, dark hair in shape she has a mature face.. why am I saying all this? I finally talked to her and she brought up the photo showed it to several people.. no one had any thing bad to say..she's even a store manager. She wants to c the world and she will have that chance.. we ran into each other 3 times at different places. Out of is the same mo same day.. don't even look any wet near 58.. wats a number have to do w this... Some one actually called me cool today he said you lucky guy you travel the world have a good young 21 yo lady well deserved.. and I'm well off.... It's time I get happiness going after watching went though personal life struggles and addiction. She even said today such nice things to me.. called me too good to be true.. I've got no reason toale this up trust me.. my own mother even said she did not care how old she is way race and color..just get a lady friend.. my other option is to go back to my ex wife who is 255 pounds tall and ugly with a bad violent attitude.. lol I'll think I'll go with the program.. lol nothing wrong .. besides it's up to us any way..young females turn heads all the time while older ones won't even glance my way.. rude! There loss anyway

[@emotionpictures19]

Even when I get hiccups I call my wife's name, and I hear her name in my every breath

[@zalinaollag7617]

thats not true...😢no effort..he does not love me..at all...no at all...thats why thats not true...😭

[@blossomyourawesome]

As I mentioned if you watch the entire video it does not mean you belong with this person. It does not mean they love you. It simply means that you are connected on an energetic level. There is someone better out there for you who you are meant to be with.

[@MW-uk5ji]

No, when you thinking of someone that does not mean that they are thinking about you. That is what stalkers believe.

[@blossomyourawesome]

I appreciate the criticism, but if you take the time to actually watch the video you will glean something. This is not about obsessing and stalking, it's about feeling and connection.

[@MW-uk5ji]

@@blossomyourawesome I watched the video, I thought you had good points, but I believe people prone to obsessive behavior need it spelled out so they can attempt to regulate themselves and not end up hurting themselves and others

[@bradyhack2428]

Lol … No

[@RIZFERD]

@@MW-uk5ji depends on your own belief whatever you label it, trust the universe

[@MudlarkDiggingUpTheThames]

I think most people who often or obsessively think of another are not actually stalkers. I think most don't try to make any contact with the person on their mind.

[@raajj5]

Am constantly thinking abt. My hot pshyciatrist