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[@unrested]

First off I just wanna say thank you all so much for all the support on the last 2 vids. To the people who shared them around you are amazing and my gratitude is endless for viewers like you. For those of you leaving likes, commenting, sharing your own experiences you are literally the pillars of this channel and making this an incredibly fun and rewarding outlet for me every week. To the members of the channel (even the 2 new ones who joined today and didn’t get mentioned in thanks, obscurik and nodubonlyraw) you are incredible and an inspiration for all I do on KZbin. Thank you all for an amazing 2023 back on this platform and an amazing 2024 so far. Also to the guy who told the single hater comment in this video to fuck off and go watch another channel you rock. I never feed the trolls but I also never stop a viewer from completely demolishing one in the comments. Hahahaha you guys are the best!

[@ReallyTwistedHumor]

Watching this after a second date that went really well is certainly a vibe.

[@unrested]

Glad to hear it went well

[@taimalik1110]

The 6' - 5" vs 5' - 6" match between Chris and Todd sounds like the best UFC fight of all time 😂

[@unrested]

Omg Todd would have been dead x infinity if Chris had really done anything. I guess that’s why he tried to even things out with the knife

[@marbellaotaiza801]

My boy Unrested hoarding all the first date marriage proposals/obsessions like a champ 😂

[@lowang8831]

Rumor is our man in Japan Tkyosam has a child born out of wedlock in every single prefecture.

[@unrested]

Of course! That’s why a good number of his video titles have “dad” in the title. More people need to respect his campaign to stop the population decline in Japan.

[@Lunaeincola]

Man, I so want to hear about EatYourKimchi. Funny enough I used to watch them actively when they were living in S.Korea. They were very popular for very long time. They appeared a perfect couple. True soulmates and a model relationship ,,,little did I know ...

[@unrested]

Ok wow so I’m getting a ton of comments on this. I’m gunna make sure to be super thorough on next weeks video!

[@brookesimpson8290]

I've been subscribed since around 2009, I was 23 then and I'm 38 now. Wow it's been a long time.😆

[@unrested]

Hey thanks a ton for sticking with me. It’s seriously heart warming when I hear about people sticking with for 10-15 years. Definitely one of the aspects of KZbin that keeps me making vids.

[@dongdongvu1]

@@unrested you better keep making vids until your 90 yrs old

[@squattingdog4551]

good to see you uploading. I was a huge fan of your style of videos

[@unrested]

Thanks for sticking around all this time. It’s appreciated!

[@Naturenerd1000]

Alcohol is unpredictable. Roll the dice of what will happen to different people. 🎲 😂🤕😱🗣😴

[@unrested]

Soooo true

[@LadyDarkSunMoon]

OMG, the card girl and the other one that were waaaaayyy too primed for going all the way after a single date! I would have run off scared, too! It reminded me of something that happened to me, once, when I was younger and working in Montréal. I used to be part of a forum with a bunch of other youngsters interested in Harajuku-inspired fashions and I was myself often seen donning lolita-type clothing. I worked at a café near Place-des-Arts and after work, I would walk a couple corners away and go hang out with friends at a bubble tea place in Chinatown. A couple days before the Jazz Festival started, this guy walks up to me to ask the time of day and then, he wouldn't let me alone and had grabbed my hand and wanted me to go over to his place for supper and all and he followed me to my destination and the only reason he finally left me alone is that I got my friend Julien to pretend to be my boyfriend so the "stalker" would leave me alone... Creepy encounter! Oh, Simon and Martina; I used to follow them and really enjoy their videos until they started to "bitch" at each other through the EYK social medias and all... The ones where they used to show dance moves with crazy names and talk about misheard lyrics and all were pretty entertaining; it sucks that it turned sour in the end; I hope they're both doing better now!

[@sleepyhunter]

Just came from while you were away video. There is so much for me to catch up on. Good to see you are doing well, time to binge everything I've missed.

[@unrested]

Thanks for sticking with me!

[@Ilyasse.C]

Great video Scott 😊

[@unrested]

Glad you enjoyed it

[@notspiritualenough3813]

I'm looking forward to the EatYourKimchi video. It's crazy because I thought they were the perfect couple. I'm still confused about what happened.

[@unrested]

Yeah I was incredibly shocked! I thought they would be a couple that grew old together. I actually didn’t wanna talk about it for a while cause it got ugly for a bit but now that things have calmed down I have had time to look at what happened.

[@elliefors6006]

I feel the same! It was kind of shocking to hear that they split up. I remember Simon (the husband) said in one video that he was weight lifting so he could support and carry Martina for when her medical condition got worse.. 😢

[@antichrist5583]

your art is cool as fuck

[@chasemathis2016]

It really is. Our bro is talented as fuck.

[@marbellaotaiza801]

13:36 c'mon man! that's kinda wholesome; very weird, but not creepy Creepy would be if they invited her to the nearest love hotel district and offered payment...

[@unrested]

Hey to each their own. What may seem extreme to some may be perfectly fine for others

[@hikkipedia]

I can't wait for your next video haha

[@unrested]

Yeah viewers seemed pretty excited to hear the story I was kinda surprised

[@unfinishedsentenc5308]

I look forward to your uploads

[@unrested]

Thanks for keeping up with them!

[@jyag730]

I use to watch "Eat Your Kimchi" back in the day. Then I wonder what happen to them. I guess I'll keep an eye out for that video.

[@unrested]

Yeah it’s sad but true. The whole thing fell apart. I’ll explain more in the next vid

[@antichrist5583]

Love from the bronx since 2015

[@Xxharukapanda]

I knew about eatyourkimchi but I didn't know it happened on a live? I'm intrigued 👀

[@Xxharukapanda]

Oh wait u mean u were within the same circle nvm, still intrigued tho!

[@unrested]

Not during a live but they pretty much used their dying channel to snipe each other as things crumbled

[@BeltlessTrenchcoat]

pigeon hearts! Sick band name🤘

[@unrested]

lol yeah it was definitely “interesting” lol

[@teachergotgame2203]

I remember the kyoinkuinkai secretary went out on maternity leave and they hired a temp worker. This lady was off and I could’ve sworn she was on the spectrum as her social and communication skills were off. I was nice to her one time and gave her something American I brought from the military base and she was elated. She repaid me by making lunch with me. Cool. She wanted to hang out cool so I invited some friend. Then she started showing up to my apartment randomly bringing me gifts uninvited. So i invited my big muscular military friend to hang out one time and she still was acting weird. Finally I invited her over to my play and I invited my ex Japanese girl over to pretend to be my girlfriend. When she went home my ex said she felt bad for her…

[@unrested]

Damn that sounds so rough. Having autism or adhd in Japan is not easy

[@reaping-equally]

Been watching since 2012 or 13. Don't plan to stop. ✌️😎

[@unrested]

Thanks a bunch! It means a lot to hear from long time viewers

[@Johnmanbob]

Hey Scott! Any chance you will do another Osoroshii Saturday video soon?! Ive been watching for years, and miss those videos a ton 😅 Though I've been very much enjoying these videos too ❤

[@unrested]

Starting a second channel just for the scary stuff is in the works

[@Johnmanbob]

@@unrested Niiiceee, looking forward to hearing more spooky stories from you! ❤

[@erikdanielsson8215]

OMG i almost laughing myself to death when i heard about the card, i bet you wanted to run like Jessie Owens right?

[@unrested]

I definitely heard the needle scratch off the record at that point and noted all the exit signs at the diner as though I was about to do a fire drill

[@boris1387]

❤

[@marksabados8438]

Hey scott long time watcher of your channel, and i have a request of pulling out of the archives the original " i draw my life". could you make a part 2 since you have a family now. It will let us see your drawing talent.

[@unrested]

Sure that sounds like a fun summer video to try!

[@codeninja100]

The Eat your kimchi breakup was wild I watched them through college into my late 20's so it was shocking they broke up. At first I was all team Martina but feel like there was a lot more going on and Simon didn't deserve all the flack he got.

[@unrested]

They both should have held off on commenting on twitter and on the eyk channel. Nonetheless it was shocking to see them split as I didn’t see it coming till suddenly all happen post covid

[@loogloogloogr]

I have blonde hair and blue eyes and I'm not too unattractive and I'm in shape but I've never experienced any sort of romantic interest or any interest at all really from japanese women in person. I've been to almost every prefecture in Japan and I want to try and talk to girls but I'm too scared and I'm even more scared that it wouldn't be acceptable culturally to just go up to a random stranger and start talking to them so I haven't done it before.

[@unrested]

Have you tried joining forums online or going to your local international house and posting a “let’s meet” flyer?

[@sebastianrubio928]

Long story short, I do know, I'm pretty handsome, I'm in shape, only 5 6 but that's ok, green eyes, dark hair (latino), jacked, I keep in shape. I am going bald, but I shave or keep it short. Beard, I either keep a fair trimmed beard or keep it short, but I rare clean shave my face. I've never been to Japan, but I do want to eventually, I do wonder how "I would do". I'm nearly 40, but I pass as late 20ies to early 30ies. I'd have to show my id to girls/women through the years cause they didn't believe my age. I do have wacky dating stories, but they're too long stories to tell here, I do have some things I can tell here: I am not joking about saying I am handsome, I know I'm popular with girls ,this has resulted in some awkward situation, here 1 type of story I can tell here: I've been molested a couple of times, sure by guys, but the vast majority was by women and they weren't always ugly per se. I mean, I've had bodyparts touched in inappropriate ways, my ass, some tried to touch my junk, my chest and the list goes on. It's just fucking weird, I can defend myself and I usually just left, it was fine, but it's always weird. The other weird thing, is it has happened at all kind of places you would not expect, obviously has happened while going out, but also in the supermarket, public transport, at work, at home. I mean this time I'm at the supermarket, I'm just looking at some stuff and this mom just grabs my ass? This other time I'm at some dance club, this guy starts to feel me up, touching my chest, here's the weirder part, her BF was right next to us, I was very confused and just left. I've been kissed, when I was young I didn't know it was not ok, right now, I would block her and I have had to do it. I've been harassed cause of my green eyes, I know some mean it as a compliment, but at times it's a bit over the top, some times even a bit aggressive. I did also have this one girl at school here, by coincidence or not, she was 100% Japanese but lived here since she was a kid, cause of her father's work, her and her smaller sister were in love with, both told me so and it was mostly cause of the green eyes. They had BFs, I have a bf, still confused, it was weird. I've been approached a fair bit of times, been asked out, etc... I am very curious how Japan would go for me, I expect some weird situations to happen. If stuff happens here in Europe, I expect Japan to be weird at times as well. Cool channel you got going on, I'll check out some of your videos. Japan is such a fascinating country & culture.

[@unrested]

Good stories thanks for checking it out!!

[@Japaninhimself]

Why can’t I easily meet those Japanese women that want to get married!!? I want that spousal visa! Last year I was in Tokyo for 10 weeks. One of the dates I went on cost me 250-300$. That was a surprise…😓😭

[@unrested]

Maybe try Osaka? Also wow those are some expensive dates!

[@Takadanobaka]

You just date a Japanese woman to get a spousal visa? Rectify your view and find someone to love, that will bring you more luck man.

[@betsybabf748]

They propose to anyone at the drop of a hat.

[@MrCoalmin]

Does anyone know how to put a child's ears back in?

[@unrested]

Canal first then lobes second don’t forget 2 large twists counter clock wise

[@turnerwright]

You mean you knew Simon and Martina personally, or just saw all their videos during the breakup?

[@unrested]

We weren’t close. They attended a few KZbin meet ups I was also at and I was in contact with collabs in their circle so i heard about things slowly breaking down.

[@antichrist5583]

He's unrested so don't test him

[@maxxrenn]

First dates like “well I’m here to find a husband and the father of my children” Honestly this is what dating in the US is like when you are in the your late 30s

[@unrested]

Wow really?!

[@-RoyBatty-89]

Damn, I've got a rare shade of ginger hair and blue eyes. Got my first couple of silvers in my chin at 35 now though lol. Hopefully with the increased exposure they have to Westerners in the past 15 years in person and through social media, that kind of thing fades. I'd probably like it for about 10 minutes and then yeah, it'd get tiresome. The creepy homemade card story is giving me a good giggle.

[@unrested]

I think you’ll be ok these days in city areas but yeah in the country side you may get some stairs

[@davidalexanderarnavat]

Those were some Interesting stories, indeed. Since you asked us about unusual experiences related to dating in Japan, I had two unique ones: Japanese only! kzbin.info/www/bejne/bHSUhGCjlJecd8kfeature=shared Language exchange doctor kzbin.info/www/bejne/fpmui6Cpi7qiY8Ufeature=shared If you're not ok with cross sharing vid links, I'd be happy to summarize in a text comment. No worries either way.

[@unrested]

I’ll check these out and nah cross share is totally fine by me!

[@theshadowman1398]

If they were single mothers then I can sort of understand but sleeping with a woman that is married. Heck no

[@unrested]

Yeah good policy

[@Naturenerd1000]

If you don't speak Japanese how do you really know anything about them? Same thing applies for really any other country. Problem with dating people form other countries. Surface level conversations in English. Then hear them talking on the phone in another language in more depth any shallow english conversation and have no idea what thry are saying. Just seems pretty one sided and not worth continuing after a while.

[@unrested]

If they only speak Japanese I agree but to be fair to Japan I have met Japanese who do speak English fluently. Especially in an international area like Tokyo or Osaka where I was. There was quite a few fluent and native level speakers.