When Should I Marry Her?

[@harveypolanski755]

You lose WAY MORE THEN than half your assets. You lose half, then the lawyers take half of what you have left, then you pay huge amounts of child support and alimony. And go to jail if you can’t pay.

[@johnmcaulay8448]

Exactly few talk about you can cover her lawyers fee's as well, and the lawyers intentionally extend the case.

[@Norm475]

You're absolutely right. They play games when dividing the assets. I took 6K out of savings to set up housekeeping when I moved out. That went into my column, they then put $2,500 for the value of all the things in the house that I left and would lose in the divorce. And after I got my "half" I had to pay her lawyer fees and her dental bills of 5K out of my half and 95K in alimony. I got divorced in 1987, you can at least double those figures in today's, dollars.

[@trentvlak]

You lose > half of what you had left after spending more than you would otherwise to support her high living requirements.

[@butwhole4186]

@@trentvlak Exactly. They can get ownership of assets that are essential for your living also. They're financial predators. The have their own money and want more without knowing how to manage it. Financial gluttony until famine.

[@michaelglasgow7287]

I love the fact that he said she is a "traditional girl"! She is a selective traditional girl. Traditionally women would not have sex until marriage.

[@devilsoffspring5519]

Nonsense, they all did otherwise they wouldn't have gotten married. The only exception was when a girl got married very young, and by "very young" I don't mean 18 or 20, I mean more like 13 or 14. A "traditional" woman just didn't brag about her sex life, that's all. They had plenty of it otherwise no guy would have ever married them. That includes the stuffy, pretentious Catholic ones :)

[@Norm475]

That is not true. I am 80 and most women had sex before marriage. The difference was you usually had to give them the ring first and they certainly didn't screw on the first or second date. I don't think women were more moral in those days, it was the fear of pregnancy that kept more women chaste.

[@devilsoffspring5519]

@@Norm475 I'm half your age and agree with you, except for the ring part. There's no way a man will entertain the idea of marrying a woman who won't have sex with him, just like a woman won't marry a man with no income (unless he's already very wealthy and just living off his existing wealth.)

[@Norm475]

@@devilsoffspring5519 Perhaps I wasn't clear. I mean an engagement ring, not the wedding ring. Put another way in the old days, women wanted a commitment to marriage before they would drop their pants.

[@devilsoffspring5519]

@@Norm475 Possibly, yes, but that just means there were lots of guys stocking up on boxes and boxes of engagement rings :) The only sign of commitment to marriage is marriage itself. Even that's a little flaky.

[@devilsoffspring5519]

If you have to ask somebody else if you "should" get married to someone, the answer is always "Certainly not yet."

[@dolanduk7946]

Cappy: heres a bunch of incredibly depressing stats and data, presented in a cynical and condescending manner, also phuck you phuck your feelings. Also Cappy: dont rope yourself lol.

[@devilsoffspring5519]

Hehehe there's no style like Cappy style :)

[@1983jcheat]

As a US born Latino from the Northeast; I can say unless someone wants to be a certified interpreter getting a degree in Spanish ain't gonna do much for you. Especially not in my neck of the woods. We have plenty of Puerto Ricans here who are US citizens and don't need green cards to do the job. Being a Spanish teacher isn't what it was 20-30 years ago. Everybody and their brother speaks Spanish now.

[@GelFireQueensland]

I once met a dude who had a family in another state and a new family near my house. He came over with the boys one day and said it's not fair you have all the toys. I often wondered if he eventually figured it out. Hopefully his boys did. I always liked the idea of family, but realised 30 years ago it was never going to happen the way I wanted. I held off long enough to learn from others, then noticing and even hearing I wasn't needed sealed the no deal for me. Now in a financial disaster we'll see how long we all last living in our own castles, because we never needed anyone!

[@invisibletosociety8338]

Yeah dad was divorced, all my friends were divorced, and I decided not to press my luck. It's like playing Russian roulette with a six shooter that has five loaded chambers. Bad odds and I'm not a gambling man.

[@bodazaphfa]

“But our love is like no other love!” /sarcasm

[@WarbirdPhoenix]

If I had a dollar everytime I'm told that I'd have about 4 dollars because that bs gets old fast.

[@The345joseph]

I'm done going blackpill or just roping myself

[@Anamnesis]

Hardest I've laughed all week was reading the title of this video and then the answer in the thumbnail. 🤣

[@jonathana2079]

I did read your book. I'm going to re-read it.

[@AthamAldecua]

Do not take the Fred pill. Also, do not get married, do not cohabitate. It's a trap! Edit: surprise surprise! She needs a green card! Of course she is going to treat you well... For now. DON'T DO IT.

[@jth_printed_designs]

My girlfriend of 4 years asked the other week "Would you rather that I need you, or want you?" I don't remember the context of the conversation, or the exact wording, but that was the gist of it. And it made me think, in an ideal world I would rather that you be with me because you want to AND that you will ALWAYS want to. But since you don't need me and our "wants" can change over time, there is nothing binding you to me like there was when women needed men for survival. So it just solidified to me what I've discussed with her before in that legal marriage is just not going to happen under these laws. So we're all really in a tough spot. Men don't want to marry because we're not needed and because of that the woman has no tangible reason to stay, and women don't want to marry because they don't need men. And this is a problem for anyone that wants children, as women usually wont let you raise your children without marriage.

[@sodone466]

"and women don't want to marry because they don't need men" This statement is not true. Fee-males very much want to marry after they turn 30 and they can't ride the CC anymore. And they're not looking for a guy to spend the rest of their life with. Just marry long enough to be able to D-grape him, and win all the cash and prizes, and then move on to the next host. "There is no wisdom in signing a contract with someone who benefits from breaking it."

[@jth_printed_designs]

@@sodone466 I guess I should have phrased it better by saying "women don't want to be wives because they don't need men for survival." They see men as tools to be occasionally utilized, not as someone they should submit to.

[@sodone466]

@@jth_printed_designs This I agree with. Her: I don't need no man. Lights go out. Her: Hey guys, can you fix that. Also, the "average" modern western fee-male, isn't fit to be a wife or mother. Thank girl power for that one.

[@jsts22]

@@sodone466 I met my ex at 32 years old. Within the first week she made a joke about us running away and getting married. Within 6 months she was pushing hard for marriage constantly. A year in she asked if I had thought about how I was going to propose to her. I'm like no I haven't because I said I wanted to date a couple years first. A couple months later I meet her dad's side of the family. She says are you ready to marry into this family?...just kidding I'm not trying to pressure you. Her family was rude to me for no reason so I left the get together early with her. In a couple days she goes from are you ready to marry me to I'm questioning your role in my life to ending things. I guess it's a good thing I waited. If I would have married her a few months in would she just be divorcing me now? If she loved me why would she leave if she really wanted to spend her life with me. I guess it was just her being desperate in her 30s

[@midatlantic09]

Most women still do actually need a man. Primarily because 85-90% of all women don't make enough to obtain anything more than the basics in life. Sure, if they're okay living near paycheck to paycheck with a small apartment and economy car, then I guess they don't need men, but if they want anything beyond the bare minimum, most won't achieve that on their own.

[@improvisedsurvival5967]

They only need a man to have kids then he pays support and the state gives them programs. They don’t need men.

[@tamash.5291]

An average woman contributes minus 150 000 dollars in taxes.

[@GUNMETALGUYUSA]

💯 Percent Correct

[@imperator8657]

100%.

[@amylee6038]

My husband makes $175/hour doing financial analysis in divorce cases. Cappy has had time value of money problems. Figuring the present value of future pension payments, medical benefits, etc. Right now discount rates are incredibly low. So the PV of a dollar of pension that has a cost of living adjustment tied to the CPI in the year 2082 is still 80 cents. These divorce settlements on pension benefits are catastrophic as a consequence. We have a 48 year old colonel that has to come up with $1.1 million to the wife, just for the pension alone. He's probably going to keel over when he sees the report, so he might not have to borrow the money to write the check.

[@ViatoremDiEfa]

I would go an extra mile to settle down with an accountant. She would remind me every time why getting married is a horrible decision!

[@Roshea]

If you don't marry her, someone will. If she's young, there's no shortage of desperate former military boomers fresh out of a divorce ready to lose it all again. Especially if they're living in stress-saturated areas like Washington DC, anywhere in Maryland, Northern Virginia, NY or the New England states. That being said, this is hardly a unicorn. There's many of women like this in CR & Colombia, but like AC said, go there and live the pre-Invasion Gonzalo Lira lifestyle.

[@eloquentsarcasm]

Terrence Popp when discussing why men make stupid decisions "But she looooooooovvvvveeeessss me!" No, no she doesn't, Space Ghost is on. Sadly, I was one of the diehard blue pilled chumps, and it took divorce and almost evacuating my meatsuit to wake me up. Realizing the truth of the world HURTS, but like touching a hot stove, that pain is necessary to make it stick in your head. Men have everything to lose in marriage, that's why we fight so hard to preserve it, women have everything to gain from ending a marriage and that's why they don't care. THAT is the ugly truth of it, accept it and roll the dice, or accept it and build a life on your own where everything is yours.

[@stevecooper7883]

The ugliest truth is that she doesn't love YOU, she loves the Chad at the top 5 percent of the pyramid. At that point, she's willing to be even a side girl just to be with him.

[@simonb4689]

Married 6 years ago and together 15 years. Wanted to be sure lol

[@cfpzona]

'They're not interested in you.' What a coincidence....we're really not that interested in them Cappy. Outside of psy, they really don't offer much of anything except headaches so why would we bother with them? It goes both ways.

[@direwolf1977]

🎯🎯💯

[@jakebrown3117]

This guy is hopeless. No saving him. I guarantee he ignores Cappys advice and gets taken to the cleaners.

[@joeschmoe6037]

I just came to hear that sweet sound of POOOOOSAAAYYYY!!!!

[@WizdaVision]

Let me know if you need some foot soldiers for Project Evil Cappy. These emails got me wanting to commit Dirty Deeds Done Dirt Cheap. *EDIT* I’m saving this video for when my pops inevitably asks me why I ain’t got no woman yet.

[@ultimateweaponiv7391]

I gotta see this operation evil if it happens lol

[@dkoykoala1488]

Oof sorry ladies, this is the future you chose.

[@noyou5870]

No hymen no diamond.

[@devilsoffspring5519]

Unrealistic unless you're dating 13 year olds, or maybe 16-18 if you prefer fat girls or otherwise ugly ones.

[@neomatrix4412]

misogynist /s

[@micoferdinand]

also u dont get married in Philippines, as time goes by it is considered as a Blue State and thats a No No No

[@derrickpangilinan]

Its one of two only countries in the world without divorce, annulment cost way more than divorce.

[@sodone466]

"When Should I Marry Her"? When she becomes a billionaire, and only then.

[@mikebingham9700]

When should I marry my soon to be. "Princess Bride"? Cappy: NEVER!!!!

[@doctorgames101b]

If I ever get married and become a big shot businessman, let it be known she has to be the 1990s Pamela Anderson at all times.....lol, indeed. In the meantime, I will still workout at the gym and lose more weight.

[@kapinio1]

Such a wisdom just in a single thumbnail.

[@jaybee6505]

When there is no such thing as alimony, no fault divorce and men have the right to choose whom they support.

[@harveypolanski755]

I’d go even further and say when the government gets out of marriage and leaves it to religious organizations.

[@tmackn6592]

@@harveypolanski755 you'd have better odds of Hell freezing over before that ever happens!

[@jaybee6505]

@@tmackn6592 There's your answer on getting married

[@tmackn6592]

@@jaybee6505 when Feminism is accepted as a crime punishable by death

[@GUNMETALGUYUSA]

💯 Percent Correct

[@badass1g]

NEVER EVER EVVERRRRRR MARRY ANY WOMAN under any circumstance… if it was a pre social media then maybe I’d say otherwise. Adapt or suffer!

[@ishiiblanks]

BIIIIG O’ BEEDEES!! With the scent of amaretto on’em!!! 😂

[@stevekostakis2983]

Sorry Cappy…this guy needs a wake up slap.

[@improvisedsurvival5967]

Actuary 😂 that is so true though.

[@jakejennings5152]

I want a hot chick that looks like Larkin Love too, but we don’t always get what we want.

[@bannedforlife9742]

If cappy's in jammeys I dont care what he's drinking.

[@mercurialmagictrees]

Marriage does not equal commitment. I guess I'm glad to understand that before any serious relationship. I probally will end up single anyways. No big deal.

[@LibertyJefferson]

Never. The end.

[@Deism4life]

Clarey i got a question for you. When you say "they don't need you" this isn't actually true - they need you whenever they ask for financial aid, welfare, foodstamps, all other gov't programs. Men paid for those

[@Yungknown]

Yeah but I think his point is they will get that from the government regardless of how they treat you specifically.

[@antemiksic812]

They dont need you DIRECTLY would be a more precise way to put it. The goverment lets her eurostep around marriages for survival

[@csensale]

I know of a guy who got engaged to a woman after three months or so who is playing the stay at home mom who has three kids is overweight has no license good luck

[@ffn8917]

Never.

[@Jay-lc1nh]

Well done Papa.

[@tankthepitbull520]

Ronald Speirs 💪🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

[@ViatoremDiEfa]

Israeli soldiers carry a leatherman with them usually. It has an allen wrench.

[@ra803g6]

If he went to her county why would he have to marry her? Pretty easy to get residency in south American countries without marriage.

[@harveypolanski755]

If you get married in another country, and the divorce gets adjudicated in a foreign country; United States courts will enforce the decision. Do you really want to leave your financial future and freedom in the hands of an Ecuadorian judge that is completely fine with taking a bribe? Especially when that bribe can be structured by a foreign lawyer as a ongoing percentage of the money collected from you?

[@Michellemybell739]

Woww you’ve aged!!! Talking about women turning to milk! Lol 🤣🤣

[@clownworld4655]

The cat lady strikes again!

[@MH-jp8en]

I laughed my ass off

[@Buccaneer737]

You don't get married it is not worth it.

[@rockys6661]

Never

[@appendix-q6k]

I’m in Texas but it’s too damn hot.

[@Diego-Designs]

I wonder what happened to this simp, since it's been a year now.....

[@improvisedsurvival5967]

Ask out 😂what you gonna take her out on dates and pay. They are Netflix and chill street girls.

[@user-zd9ef3nj4g]

I love u Cappy

[@platoplombo15]

Wait...Aaron Clary was Superfly? 'His hope was a rope and he should've known...His misery in life was his woman and things....now Freddy's dead.... that's what I said.'

[@haitianspaceprogram735]

still got that on cassette someplace

[@tracyseymour6059]

Aaron, I don't think you're a fan of the show "Married At First Sight"

[@enslaved1s]

I want to have 3 divorces like the boomers. They are so smart

[@Maksenstein]

Maybe Cat/cats is/are much preferred than poozaay.

[@MasterVideoStudios]

Don't marry in your 20's

[@ultimateweaponiv7391]

Just enjoy your life and celebrate the collapse. Why would you want to be married? You're suppose to be outside of the system during the collapse, not holding it to your chest. Lmao

[@lobostriker85]

Poooooooooosaay!!!

[@rhysperalta3906]

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