When The Narcissist Realizes You Are NEVER Coming Back

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terryjoeljunior

terryjoeljunior

8 ай бұрын

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@ArtOfKreation
@ArtOfKreation 8 ай бұрын
Terry seems like the most genuine guy and I can relate after so much back stabbing and dishonest you don't wanna even try anymore with folks
@brendaleverick3655
@brendaleverick3655 8 ай бұрын
It's not Terry; it's Joel.
@Sandwichecubano
@Sandwichecubano 8 ай бұрын
💯
@EverybodyWearsaMask
@EverybodyWearsaMask 4 ай бұрын
I'm 37 I'm finally done with folks too. I've tried so much man and damn everyone is the same . Too self centered . Only concerned with their own little bubble .
@LD__2416
@LD__2416 8 ай бұрын
Its relentless because you can't walk 5 feet at a time without running into 10 of them...they're at every turn.
@rainpain3655
@rainpain3655 8 ай бұрын
Never going back to my narcissist mom, it's been one year now since I haven't talked to her or seen her.
@TheChosenOne31
@TheChosenOne31 8 ай бұрын
That's about to be me soon with my father he's never going to change and i realize I'm better off without him !!!
@soufia5536
@soufia5536 8 ай бұрын
It's been 4 years for me . Enjoy your peace of mind without her !
@incovenantwithJesusChrist1975
@incovenantwithJesusChrist1975 8 ай бұрын
I'm going on 3 years not speaking to mine. My life is so peaceful now
@LettyABC
@LettyABC 8 ай бұрын
I don’t know what happened between you and your mom.. but Let her know you have forgiven her but haven’t forgotten.. this is for you .. not her.. we only get one mother and trust me being 50 + years old .. you will remember the good times.. and when she is gone. You are stuck with that guilt of unforgiving.. Remember Jesus died on the cross for our sins.. Forgive.. pray.. and put it in Gods hands 🙌🏼 🙏🏼
@rainpain3655
@rainpain3655 8 ай бұрын
@@LettyABC I'm tired of this stupid forgiveness shit. If your own mother would control you, manipulate you, be narcissist towards you, play with your head and emotions and screw up your life and called the cops on me twice for me confronting her on the way she was would you forgive her for it? Like a wise man once said: if you love and respect your dysfunctional parents, somebody screwed up big time along the way.
@christiancarlson592
@christiancarlson592 8 ай бұрын
Never take the KZbinrs you watch for granted. Thank you for making me understand this. It is the first thing I heard on this channel and it is the truth. These men and women put a lot of time and effort into making these videos to help us with our lives. Don’t narc on your friends.
@user-tu9vu8kt2i
@user-tu9vu8kt2i 8 ай бұрын
When a narcissist realizes that you not coming back they will try everything in there power to try to get you to stay wether its empty lies promising they will change when they never will and threaten you with bs that you never did you must keep running as fast as you can from them and block them out for good
@kisigma1011
@kisigma1011 8 ай бұрын
Yup never again they never gave fk about my needs why should I give a fk about them
@Bxl19
@Bxl19 8 ай бұрын
Kiss those narcs goodbye they are no longer coming back
@user-jz6to8md3c
@user-jz6to8md3c 8 ай бұрын
They sure are a headache to deal with.
@EricHartung2
@EricHartung2 8 ай бұрын
“You get what you deserve”. We really are stepping stones. I’m just waking up to this and I’m trying to do better to not let it happen anymore. You’re right, I’m most mad at myself for letting it happen and not realizing. Great points
@Jade_Heart_
@Jade_Heart_ 8 ай бұрын
Yep, there usually is a reason why you tolerate these toxic types and the reason usually is, you are used to it from childhood. So it’s normal to you, while other people are turned off by them.
@GaryPotocki82
@GaryPotocki82 8 ай бұрын
From a higher power maybe you were destined to go through it because it needed to happen to make you stronger so you can set former boundaries like me not speaking for you but I'm speaking for my own accord it's not a weakness it's a blessing
@gansgevtekked1917
@gansgevtekked1917 8 ай бұрын
Same here. Drove through ice and snow whenever needed for them. Just to get stabbed in the back. Left all of them and started over. Best decision of my life.
@petethompson3510
@petethompson3510 8 ай бұрын
I've been lined up with crazy after crazy. man, it's tiring and I wondered why I was attracting these pieces of shit. these empty vessels. Now I get it. All they can do is drain you. It makes a good person turn stoic. i wish i had learned all this much sooner, but better late than never
@officialdoctv
@officialdoctv 8 ай бұрын
Me too, i feel you on that. Wish I knew about this like four relationships ago lol
@lolachlih3136
@lolachlih3136 8 ай бұрын
I walked away from my ex 3 years ago and was the best decision I've made!! So much happier now and living my life ❤ great video!!
@tighesonfurious1238
@tighesonfurious1238 23 күн бұрын
I’m living with a narcissist. It’s soul destroying
@SaraX2024
@SaraX2024 8 ай бұрын
My narcissistic mother regrets having left my dad. She once told me, she should have met the men in her life in a different order and my dad last, because he was the one.
@ShameTheSluts
@ShameTheSluts 3 ай бұрын
Average ho Unfortunately: Like mother like daughter
@humbledcowboy
@humbledcowboy 8 ай бұрын
For me, the hardest part is not caring. I'm a caring, vibe up guy. But with narcs, there can be no caring. There can be no empathy.
@crystalmorgan9118
@crystalmorgan9118 8 ай бұрын
Yea people brothers sisters i was narced by my whole family for 47 years please do not tolerate this ...I assumed things were going to get better but it didn't.. People don't change and they won't change even if God steps in and tell them to change and even though he can change them they still choose to be evil ... PLEASE DO NOT PUT UP LEAVE THEM
@jasonjones4492
@jasonjones4492 8 ай бұрын
I don't think I could be put through anything crazier than what I have already lived through which was horrible by the way! It's so important to move very cautious especially with someone you are considering having a serious relationship with!
@ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
@ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan 8 ай бұрын
Block them !
@robiness5344
@robiness5344 8 ай бұрын
No contact is crucial!!!
@johnmaurer2035
@johnmaurer2035 8 ай бұрын
That's just the way it went down.
@JeremiahPowers-fr8zj
@JeremiahPowers-fr8zj 8 ай бұрын
Absolutely, every time i lower my guard for trust and love to come back, here come the cops ready to use me as my the scape goat for the narcissist. Never lower your vibration for the past. Those who want to bring us down are already below us. And man the ones below fight the hardest to watch us fall. The narcissist doesnt want me back she wants control and dominance over the soul. To use us thinking they can steal our abilities for their own agendas. Family members, x girlfriend, and long lost friends go no where like we do. We got to break generational curses that take years of non stop spiritual warfare against the devil who sits in their hearts. Never go back to a narcissist or it will just add more time to get out of the trap that they set up for failure.
@WoziduranJahemter
@WoziduranJahemter 8 ай бұрын
If they don't have toys(or people that they can use as toys) they tend to react infantile dangerous, because toys distracts them from the care that they crave and genuine guidance.
@ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
@ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan 8 ай бұрын
Walking deads soul drained
@JackNance22
@JackNance22 8 ай бұрын
I hit like on every one of your videos, Joel, you definitely deserve support with all the wisdom and encouragement you deliver on the daily. Keep killing it, brother.
@rickynorris1694
@rickynorris1694 7 ай бұрын
Wise beyond your years.😊
@leontsiaousis2610
@leontsiaousis2610 3 ай бұрын
You just described my ex wife. It was hell that I have no words for.
@Innatelydone
@Innatelydone 8 ай бұрын
The outcome of the relationship is what the relationship was from the start, keep thriving brotha!🤝
@vanillaoreo89
@vanillaoreo89 8 ай бұрын
true facts, literally dealing with the same exact thing, I’m right there with you Joel
@codyfarrington1763
@codyfarrington1763 8 ай бұрын
Thank you for all you do man. It’s complicated sometimes
@W.I.T.S
@W.I.T.S 8 ай бұрын
This was a great boundary check , gotta keep picking off the leeches
@pebbles341
@pebbles341 8 ай бұрын
Ty God bless you and your family and friends 🙏
@jasonmelendez5216
@jasonmelendez5216 8 ай бұрын
My brother is a clinical narcissist. It's been a struggle for the past 15 years with him. I am currently having to make some tough decisions and leave my parents (who take care of him) for a better way.
@jacobuskai4594
@jacobuskai4594 8 ай бұрын
The gap between good and evil is widening. Those who are evil are becoming more and more crafty in there deceptions, and minipulations, like the adulterous woman of Proverbs 30:20 KJV: "Such is the way of an adulterous woman; she eateth, and wipeth her mouth, and saith, I have done no wickedness." A the same time those who chose to remain good and true are becoming more and more aware off, mostly because they have been hurt by it before.
@SurroundedByNonsense
@SurroundedByNonsense 8 ай бұрын
I'm forever causing narcisstic injury upon them I'm also forever applying pressure unto their lives you can sense their energy shift toward you after showing all of this it's like I've got you! #YouHaveBeenTrolled
@iconicintuitive
@iconicintuitive 8 ай бұрын
So many of them are causing havoc in my life. Im shocked that they keep going regardless of huge reputation loss, financial losses and support etc. Plus...it's no secret to anyone anymore smh
@ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
@ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan 8 ай бұрын
Brother you completely saved and helped me ! Thanks !
@Spirit-Life980
@Spirit-Life980 8 ай бұрын
I feel you, I also feel that I'm about to go through this.. I've let myself down and I've let God down.. I hope God will forgive me and continue having my back 🙏
@DevilAnse-yp7hy
@DevilAnse-yp7hy 8 ай бұрын
I have a friend id like to talk with. He would remember where we got in the ditch during a snow storm.
@ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
@ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan 8 ай бұрын
I can't look at certain girls the same way because they look like certain people make me feel some type of way ! 😂
@rickynorris1694
@rickynorris1694 7 ай бұрын
Everything you have mentioned reminds me of a "friend" i used to have.
@ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
@ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan 8 ай бұрын
I already seen it the truth it's scary !
@kyanaantoinette
@kyanaantoinette 8 ай бұрын
You’re literally my lifeline ❤
@philu4621
@philu4621 8 ай бұрын
I recommend Trace Face It on KZbin...she is a narc abuse recovery coach. Just saw a video of hers from last year on the topic of narcs stealing from you to build up their own lives...stealing energy, ideas, time, etc...
@Bawkr
@Bawkr 8 ай бұрын
🎆🎆🎆 Always happens for sure always some instance of them stabbing in the back. Always talking behind the back.
@ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
@ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan 8 ай бұрын
Mosi mosi ! Keci keci !
@doovplayz
@doovplayz 8 ай бұрын
Terry getting a lot of people through the struggle
@ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
@ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan 8 ай бұрын
Keep them in darkness ! Darkness belong to darkness ! Men and women darkness darkness goes both handing hands ! Just rethink that big Boss make me laugh ! They deal with Polis all the time man !
@user-jz6to8md3c
@user-jz6to8md3c 8 ай бұрын
This is true joel spot on brother i hear what your saying.
@paulledbetter9303
@paulledbetter9303 8 ай бұрын
I'm in relationship limbo right now, just trying to come to a decision here. I wish I had your resolve and determination. Thank you, Terry. Thank you!
@ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
@ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan 8 ай бұрын
Tarkan is me and I am Tarkan !
@Rrbanez
@Rrbanez 8 ай бұрын
thanks for this video, you really helped me and gave me the answers i need, and GOD use u to bless people with your knowledge. GOD BLESS you!🙏
@samustheshollie6300
@samustheshollie6300 8 ай бұрын
It gets to a point where They want to pick off where we left off, But unfortunately, even if I wanted to get back with them I cannot, The Boulder has been chipped down to a small pebble.
@LuisMoreno-qu4mx
@LuisMoreno-qu4mx 8 ай бұрын
Thank you!
@user-sl5ik4mr5s
@user-sl5ik4mr5s 8 ай бұрын
Always supporting the real
@watcher5729
@watcher5729 8 ай бұрын
Sometimes it feels like a camp narcissist .
@suefleming
@suefleming 8 ай бұрын
I admire you so much. I was raised the way you were to be self-reliant. Keep making great videos!!.... man you are great!❤
@Sandwichecubano
@Sandwichecubano 8 ай бұрын
Underrated channel ❗️❗️❗️
@stacychoplin7644
@stacychoplin7644 8 ай бұрын
Yes I look forward to your videos! Your awesome!! Thank you for your wise words & advice always !! ❤
@gothic0love
@gothic0love 8 ай бұрын
Follow you from the beginning bro!
@JonClementsHighBoltageRecords
@JonClementsHighBoltageRecords 8 ай бұрын
I rock with you brother good point
@TacosGod
@TacosGod 8 ай бұрын
Your content keeps me rocking bro 😎 🔥
@ListentothisMM
@ListentothisMM 8 ай бұрын
I appreciate these types of videos man. Keep it up. I realized in my own situation that these people are the worst type of people. You can’t eat around people that are starving. It’s unhealthy to even be around these type of people. I learned that the hard way but I woke up in time to learn. Thank god I did.
@hologramcard1175
@hologramcard1175 8 ай бұрын
It is total abuse on the level which is not of this world
@elleemon1418
@elleemon1418 8 ай бұрын
You summed it up very well.
@TroyM777
@TroyM777 8 ай бұрын
That’s huge love that you shout out for other KZbinrs. You have even more respect from me. God bless man.
@jdleeder6494
@jdleeder6494 8 ай бұрын
You're a pride and joy for sure man !❤
@easy6339
@easy6339 8 ай бұрын
I respect you brother ❤
@blackjew5
@blackjew5 8 ай бұрын
I litterally hit like and try to comment on all my youtube channel.we chosen we dont hate .we appreciate🎉.god bless my youtube subscribers.they really changing my life.
@chosenone4631
@chosenone4631 8 ай бұрын
I see the same things happen over an over by these energy vampires. Most people are not genuine..
@joycehagins9900
@joycehagins9900 8 ай бұрын
Great message!
@TravisMorris-rm7od
@TravisMorris-rm7od 8 ай бұрын
We rock with terryjoel jr all day every day
@LuminousSapien
@LuminousSapien 8 ай бұрын
Thank you for the videos terry!
@richardlew5316
@richardlew5316 2 ай бұрын
Found out was the best blessing now I can sleep 7 hours it was 2 hours with the ex. It would be train wreck if it continued.
@Lucy-childofgod
@Lucy-childofgod 8 ай бұрын
Great message Terry. Thank you. 🙏🏻💞
@EstherHelenaSicard10sXO
@EstherHelenaSicard10sXO 8 ай бұрын
We as walking living people have to navigate ourselves in this world.
@trackmastersdj
@trackmastersdj 8 ай бұрын
So true.
@ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
@ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan 8 ай бұрын
No more coffee just talk about it I can feel negative energies
@rapstar4575
@rapstar4575 8 ай бұрын
What you said about you doing so much for them and them acting like you never did anything.
@luvnation66
@luvnation66 8 ай бұрын
Respect.
@LexieGDaGodessofNyc
@LexieGDaGodessofNyc 8 ай бұрын
Sooo spot on 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🙏
@Designer_TopG
@Designer_TopG 8 ай бұрын
Yes its great to see the great talk online like this. It's fun, its educational, it's amazing. Social media is amazing. And the haters don't like, Social media lol. Terry do a talk on what social media is. An amazing technology to connect with amazing living people ! Share ideas, share life ! Share yourself ! Its --> Amazing.
@aramiscolon4507
@aramiscolon4507 8 ай бұрын
I got you❤
@jeremyjohnso6079
@jeremyjohnso6079 8 ай бұрын
Just subbed gonna join too but im broke today. Much love and support for you.
@llink8368
@llink8368 8 ай бұрын
My cousin is HOMELESS they watch all the time if they had a home im quite sure they would rock
@djw8504
@djw8504 8 ай бұрын
Just leaving a comment so it helps your channel out! Why Not? Keep working hard!! 👍👍
@StarseedEsther
@StarseedEsther 8 ай бұрын
Definitely
@Isaiahvsthegame
@Isaiahvsthegame 8 ай бұрын
Hahahaha left my narcissistic aunt
@AdambrookshireII222
@AdambrookshireII222 8 ай бұрын
Understanding psychology and mental illness some people are mentally I’ll and alot of people have personality disorders a lot of people cannot understand body language, or understand signs look up schizotypal personality disorder it’ll give you a lot bigger, broader view of understanding people that are misunderstood.
@keelanrc1471
@keelanrc1471 8 ай бұрын
I love you :)
@Jade_Heart_
@Jade_Heart_ 8 ай бұрын
❤ most of the people on KZbin who talk about narcs are actual narcs, so they F around with their online audiences and stuff 🤣
@mckennaschnauber4412
@mckennaschnauber4412 8 ай бұрын
Yesssss 🎉🎉🎉
@swanksinatra_sa295
@swanksinatra_sa295 8 ай бұрын
💯
@shaxL33T
@shaxL33T 8 ай бұрын
I know this is not in the theme of video but does anyone know what to pursue to get some money.
@ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
@ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan 8 ай бұрын
They are not what I think ! Cut off the map !
@DoubleRRsuperr
@DoubleRRsuperr 8 ай бұрын
The world is soo fake direct communication is took as disrespect when your just being honest god I hate it here send the 🔥
@ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
@ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan 8 ай бұрын
Go get regular girls real girls normal girls !
@aramiscolon4507
@aramiscolon4507 8 ай бұрын
My bad
@Slingersbullseye
@Slingersbullseye 8 ай бұрын
@rainpain I can relate I think that I thought differently of her and really didn't view her as the problem but the solution when I needed her but that's only because my dad was always catering to others even when him and mom were together he'd always help and a lending hand and family came second? That's pretty ass backwards but I figured he was pretty worthless after the divorce and became a competition between him and mom after the divorce and they forgot about me and my sis, we were the victims and they literally tore the family apart and started over without us, how do you think that made us feel? I've felt like I've been betrayed by the people who brought me into this world, I feel stupid for loving someone that didn't share the same love I felt even more stupid around the new family because they're probably even thinking why are you guys around? They made us feel degraded and the butt end of jokes and not welcomed, this is my parents I'm talking about not friends or relatives, how do you forgive someone for that kind of hurt? How do you allow it to happen to you? Because I was always taught it's your mom, you gotta love her regardless and now that I'm sober and woke up to this cold reality, I don't have to and or have to forgive her or my dad. Truth is it's a parent and that's all she did her best to help but out of guilt not because she shares the same loves or love me like I did, the fact is we were kids and she put a man in front of us will never be forgotten or forgiven, ever. The fact my dad moved in his family only to give me and my sis the boot I was only 16 will never be forgotten or forgiven either, I love them but not how I used to and never will get over it, it's a loyalty thing and respect thing not to mention a blood thing, you'd think because she came from a toxic upbringing she'd want something different for us, she just did the exact same thing to us and she always cried about her past how brothers kicked her ass, I'd say they did us a solid before we were born because I should said no bitch you're not sending us to live with dad so you can be with that new piece of shit which he gave her an ultimatum either us or "him" and my dad which he only wanted us so he didn't have to pay child support because not 3 years later he pretty much moved in this new family his bitch and her kids and gave us the boot, that's my family for you. They'd caused so much long term damage from my childhood PTSD I couldn't hold down any type of real relationships, bosses, friends, lovers etc So, never will forgive I'll die with guilt and pride rather than the pain and shame they'd caused. Thee end
@Designer_TopG
@Designer_TopG 8 ай бұрын
4.56 well you need to tell the backstory. They blocked you etc ? Tell all that part of the story. You were angry with them. But why couldn't you make friends with them again , forgive and . Well, you knew ? They were a toxic person ?
@KennethEdwards-es4uq
@KennethEdwards-es4uq 8 ай бұрын
💯🙏💯
@Ericas31
@Ericas31 8 ай бұрын
❤🙏🏾❤️
@ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
@ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan 8 ай бұрын
Hoşgeldiniz ! Bye bye ! Narcs ! 🧔👃😤💨
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