When was a time you felt the most judged?

[@iluvu7551]

This camera's quality is better than my eyes

[@_mochiibear_3333]

IKRR LMAO

[@_mochiibear_3333]

I love your pfp by the way :O!!!!💕💕

[@Otakuhannah121]

Lol same, my eyesight is shit

[@saoirseregan1574]

I feel this😂

[@iluvu7551]

@@_mochiibear_3333 thanks girl 😂

[@saravalk6785]

When I turned 12 my parents gave me a jacket with different animals on them and I got really excited. The next day I took it to school and the girls in my class started calling me a walking zoo and took pictures of me. I put the jacket away and never wore it again. I found that jacket a couple of weeks ago, I'm 22 now and I realised how much that impacted me...

[@ronjao5565]

I had a similar experience. Even my Friends called me firefighter Sam (a German series for children) because of my new red jacket. I never wore the jacket again

[@turkishsmurf]

Me those kind of experiences made me stronger. U can only go 2 way in life: make other people control you or control the world and your mental well-being urself

[@taraes.3609]

I'm so sorry to hear this. Children can be mean.. I hope you know that their bullying was a search for connection.. And had nothing to do with you! You are worthy and should wear your jacket with pride.

[@faszkivan1]

similar thing happened to me, and i did to others. it would be interesting to know what's the psychology behind this.

[@severussnape6799]

That happened to me too. My classmates in grade 9 would laugh at my jacket cuz it had a cartoon on it, but I didn't give a damn. I continued to wear it even when it was hot outside as an act of rebellion and it made me feel so good. I continued to wear it in grade 10 too, but then nobody laughed at it anymore so I stopped lol. Remember, people (including relatives and close ones) will continue to ridicule you for a WWIIIDEEE range of reasons, but don't let it get to your mind. IGNORE.

[@McCaffreyMelon]

I feel like I judge myself the harshest out of anyone

[@E.W.C.1993]

What helped me is asking “Would I say what I’m saying to myself to a loved one?”

[@MacAndCheeseMasterOfficial]

@@E.W.C.1993 Wow..I never thought of that actually. Thank you ♡

[@nehajha6825]

I actually can say that too

[@vaidehi_n]

@@E.W.C.1993 thank buddy, your words really helped, & Yes - I would never ever tolerate or would want it listen the -ve and bad things I say to myself hear from my loved ones about themselves or badging them like this.

[@melaniechuckle8506]

you’re your biggest enemy

[@aimeroad9433]

Damn that old lady is right. I feel like we (young people) don't respect older people as much as it should be, or we have some prejudices about them. I don't know where that comes from, but we should see them as we see everybody cause one day we'll be old too and I think that we will want people to look at us as when we were younger.

[@cherryredmarlene]

Yeah I really think we can learn so much from older people. But the society takes people who are a little younger or a little older in general not serious.

[@kelceynicole]

not all young people. it’s not hard to tell they feel that way. it makes me sad & disgusted to see the way the elderly are treated. the point she brought up about people speaking loudly is so true. i see people do that a lot & think wow! how do you even know s/he is hard of hearing!? idk it’s just kind of rude to me. until they tell you they’re hard of hearing, don’t assume. they are so wise, but so fragile like a child which makes them even more special in my opinion. even the mean & very blunt elderly LOL they’re adorable too

[@lynneshapiro4179]

I am that "old lady" in the video who BTW has given over the years mucho dineros and other donations for the Civil Rights movement. I thank you Aime, Ella and Kelcey so much for your support. I could also have spoken up about being judged as a Jewish person or as someone who takes mass transit, doesn't own a car as I haven't since 1970.

[@ayaashraf-wr8ki]

I don't understand the problem with smiling at the elderly tho ?

[@lynneshapiro4179]

@@ayaashraf-wr8ki Why would you just smile at someone you don't know, disrupt their chain of thoughts, invade their privacy? Just because they are old and you think something about them that may or may not be true. Would you smile at someone your own age like that?

[@allanamaldonado5250]

2:50 what a beautiful family, wow

[@bluexblondebaby]

heejin is the reason i breathe I was about to comment the same thing. They’re all so beautiful. I want to do the Mom’s eyeliner though and highlight how pretty her eyes are 🤗

[@mina8495]

Ikrr

[@t.r.u8979]

Thx

[@t.r.u8979]

I'm the one in the white shirt

[@severussnape6799]

@@t.r.u8979 you have a beautiful family, and so are you! Be proud

[@keiron.4612]

The girl who said she thought she wasent beautiful she was so cute

[@AndreasDelleske]

David Parkinson my type. So natural.. but then she has a girlfriend.. sigh.

[@kat.5927]

Which one was it? I feel like I missed something..

[@keiron.4612]

It was the 3rd girl red hair

[@kat.5927]

@@keiron.4612 Ahh yes ty.

[@keiron.4612]

Your welcome 💖

[@fraupurzel]

It makes me so sad that people still get judged by skin color. It's 2019.

[@Allmight_Kitty]

People like this existed hundreds of years ago and there will always be idiots in the future who were raised like that. We can only try, but I think it will never really change.

[@richym3899]

Doctor Happy Pills hopefully people still judge based on skin color. It’s natural

[@Allmight_Kitty]

@@richym3899 Before skin color, gender or outside appearance, we are one thing. We are all human! The same red blood flows through everyone. So kindly fuck off with your so called "It's natural." I don't care if you were being ironic, sarcastic whatever. There are enough who think like that. No need to get them to believe such bullshit!

[@Cimer5883]

Believe me 2019 isn’t as 2019 as you think it is. People show that we are good now but no we are not there yet...

[@richym3899]

Doctor Happy Pills lmao bro you’re probably another “pErSoN oF cOLoR” who’s looking for a hug from this magical ambassador of white people. You’ll never get that hug and “we’re equal” from anybody. And even if you didn’t you wouldn’t believe it. Stop basing your value in other people’s opinion

[@buttertoes6304]

2:50 THEIR KIDS ARE BEAUTIFULLL🥺😍

[@luminous7440]

Ikr

[@t.r.u8979]

Thx

[@Mia-wz2he]

@@t.r.u8979 thanks?

[@gdmeg1925]

rightt, they look so fuckin nice n lovely all so pretty

[@lucigirl17]

Mia that’s his family, he’s the son

[@gimerlipi]

*BEST HUMAN CHANNEL* 🧠

[@meggydeloatch]

Every time I’m in public I feel judged 😊 for being shy and introverted and liking to be to myself and not talking to anyone 😭

[@_mochiibear_3333]

Me too🤧🤧🤧 but don't be though we are all strong!!!

[@celaenasardothien9411]

Me too. I feel like that every day.

[@gabrielag6799]

I’ve been criticized and pushed aside my whole life for being this way 😩 You’re not alone.

[@Missanthropy-qn7ky]

Same!!!

[@keiron.4612]

Makes you more adorable

[@andjelijadjosic696]

I feel jugded when I don't wear make up. I have acne, and people always ask me what have I done to my face, like it's my fault...

[@davidparkinson6372]

There bullies your beautiful makeup or no make-up💕💕💕💕

[@andjelijadjosic696]

@@davidparkinson6372 That is so sweet, thank you ❤

[@davidparkinson6372]

Your welcome your rely beautiful BTW don't let anyone get you down 💜

[@tragicallyhoney]

I think you're really pretty just saying (:

[@giulivaa]

You’re gorg！

[@nso5625]

Harambe? You can't be SERIOUS. Who TF would even think something like that, let alone call somebody it? I despair over humanity, I really do.

[@AD-go8bx]

As a stranger, it makes me want to find all of those kids and educate tf out of them. It's such a disgraceful thing to hear. And to think that it's nearing the end of 2019 and we're supposed to be past this stage of development. My heart breaks for this young person and for all humanity.

[@timprescott4634]

Yeah, that one was absolutely awful. When she said that I wanted to throat punch the racist prick who uttered it...

[@chelseashurmantine8153]

Natalie G yeah that’s disgusting

[@chelseashurmantine8153]

Madison Daily it’s human to have these feelings. If we didn’t have these personal sadnesses we couldn’t have the big sadnesses about the deaths you’re talking about. Compassion begets compassion, friend.

[@sanaa4387]

Madison Daily I respect that and Ik that there are worse problems but it doesn’t mean that it can’t affect us at all or we aren’t going through problems ❤️❤️ Again I totally respect your opinion and this is just mine. ❤️❤️❤️

[@gialopez1699]

Positively surprised that no one answered saying they had felt the most judged by their parents.

[@summerdawn6777]

Gia: Refreshing

[@katlinc6933]

🙌🙌🙌 this!

[@nomam7358]

Oh ya i ddn notice bt probably sm ddn wna mention tht

[@knexlas]

was the first thing that came to my mind

[@saoirseregan1574]

I always learn so much from your videos. Respect everyone and be kind. You don’t know what they’re going through. DO NOT JUDGE A BOOK BY ITS COVER! Speaking of not judging I have a small youtube I would love if some of you just checked out❤️

[@ohad.5890]

What do you learn other than dont judge?

[@keiron.4612]

I subscribed to you your an amazing person 😃

[@saoirseregan1574]

ohad. That everyone has a story. Most people are good. I learn that I should be grateful for everything I have and that others are not always as fortunate as I am to have a family that supports and loves me unconditionally

[@saoirseregan1574]

David Parkinson thank you so much❤️

[@ohad.5890]

@@saoirseregan1574 Fair enough. I find it hard to be grateful or 'not take anything for granted'. Easier said than done.

[@kristinamarinkovic8279]

I dislike the fact that negative comments or even judging looks leave such a big impact for like a long time, but the nice ones are swallowed by the negatives

[@chelseashurmantine8153]

Moonwalker me too

[@singtalklaughli8999]

I forget about the negative things honestly. If strangers say a comment about me, I honestly couldn't care less because they don't know me. The negative comments usually hurt more for me when they come from people close to me

[@Hateroflimes]

I felt most judged when my very family was saying exactly what the bullies were saying. It destroyed me because I thought 'since my family thinks the same thing as the bulllies then there is something wrong with me'

[@dee...]

I'm sorry they had such an ignorant view. That must have hurt horribly. You deserve better support, especially from your own family.

[@lorelei8126]

I feel the same way😭

[@raia9]

There is though, there is something wrong with everyone in the sense that no one is perfect, we all have faults - we can grow over time.

[@lovingmayberry2000]

There is nothing wrong with you, Kendra. 💙

[@jayjay-ht7ty]

Being an introvert people misjudge me for being rude cz i rarely talk to people

[@Allmight_Kitty]

@@em83998 Charmer that one, who thinks his wife's best friend is a bitch....

[@sherbetsucker3167]

☹️ its sad how we have to be shamed in our own bodies.. we all need to be more considerate of what others may be going through Also, the Amazon rainforest is on fire. Our earth is dying.. Save the disgusting judgment and instead use that energy to consider how to help save the earth 🌍

[@severussnape6799]

The worst part is that the Brazilian government is doing nothing about it...😔

[@sherbetsucker3167]

Severus Snape I know! Like bruh 🤦🏻‍♀️ 20% of our oxygen comes from the amazon👏🏻 and if I remember correctly i watched a video about how the Brazilian president ENCOURAGED deforestation of the Amazon forest 😑

[@severussnape6799]

@@sherbetsucker3167 Ikr he's an asshole. He claims his enemies are burning it so that he is seen in a negative light. They are obv not, but even if they are, then do something about it!! The fire fighters there aren't enough and don't even have the proper equipment!! The indigenous people living there are helping too but the government is just calling it "fake news" like tRump.

[@sherbetsucker3167]

Severus Snape it infuriates me knowing that this has been going on for a while now and how we’re JUST hearing about it now. And I completely agree with you

[@severussnape6799]

@@sherbetsucker3167 Exactly and people who actually want to do something about it are just powerless

[@marykazumifr]

I am pale and people always tell me to tan because I look like a dead unattractive person. WELL LOOKS LIKE I CANT GET A TAN BECAUSE I DON'T HAVE MELANIN AND SUN WILL CAUSE GREAT DAMAGE TO MY SKIN. ALSO I LOVE MY PALE SKIN BECAUSE I FIND IT ATTRACTIVE. Pale skin squad where u at

[@LittleLulubee]

Pale skin is beautiful ❤️

[@marykazumifr]

@@LittleLulubee it is💜

[@LittleLulubee]

@ And it's way healthier than going in the sun your whole life, and getting wrinkles and skin cancer

[@saoirseregan1574]

Pale skin squad here!😂🤷🏻‍♀️ I’m proud that you love your skin!

[@marykazumifr]

@@LittleLulubee FKING AGREE!!

[@lollol-uf7mp]

I mean.. this is beautiful. It’s sad how we’ve failed with our generation and ruined so many beautiful things and chances. To anyone reading this, people sometimes tend to judge others due to jealousy or to take their anger on someone else.. So I wanna tell you that you’re UNIQUE in your own way and that you are gorgeous. You deserve all the love is this world

[@phoenyxashes1993]

❤️

[@haley2121]

💛

[@doit4wormy157]

Thank you so much this made me cry

[@doit4wormy157]

This comment itself

[@lokatla8261]

I don’t agree at all, I find my (gen z) generation very more, tolerant open and accepting (example of lgbt+ and poc) even if there is still work to do.

[@user-mr1pg2je2x]

As a teen I feel like we are always being judged

[@fahadalnoman540]

I feel like people are always staring at me

[@clownfishxd4523]

Austin janisse same, but they don`t carr

[@thelasttimeitookashowerwas7069]

youre still judged billie!

[@user-mr1pg2je2x]

@@thelasttimeitookashowerwas7069 I'm not Billie lmao

[@thelasttimeitookashowerwas7069]

@@user-mr1pg2je2x i know i am not that dumb..

[@banemaster11]

I feel like your channel has a lot of impact on people and i hope that you reach more and more people with your videos everyday!

[@wildbill9863]

I work in construction and there’s a lot of racism against the Spanish speaking people on job sites I always give em a buenos dias and usually make good buddies with them even if there’s a language barrier there is still human connection

[@ym8346]

Gracias

[@chelseashurmantine8153]

Slippery When wet yep same in restaurants. I worked in kitchens and I loved getting to know people when we barely spoke the same language and weren’t trying to teach each other the other language. We just played and said “what!?” Or “que?!” All the time and it just made for a good, friendly time in a stressful job

[@alicehong7809]

💓💓💓

[@jenniferhoran13]

Thoraya, one thing I would love to hear more about is how you go about ending these conversations. Obviously, many of the responses from people you interview are emotional and vulnerable. I have always been curious what that is like for you as the filmmaker to kind of “close out” the conversation/interview, if you will. Like what do you say or do once somebody finishes their response? Have you gotten more comfortable with this with experience? I hope this makes sense! Keep up the awesome work, I love your channel!

[@hongwonie]

I think the time i felt the most judged was when My family realized i had depression. they never believed me and they always doubted i had any feelings. it hurt the most because they entered to my privacy and did eveyrthing to control me.. they said I'm just a teen and I can't be depressed, although i was.. still am

[@maletsiri3154]

I believe you...if you could please get help.

[@elsaken2840]

I believe you . Sometimes adults don't understandsand how teenagers also have their own problems to deal with . Talk to someone. Me even ,,if you want that is .

[@Centruxx]

Ik how it is.. youll be good afterwards.. although itll most definitely take a piece of you if you receive this kind of comments.. gl to you though.. hang in there😊

[@hamdaalzeraim]

sleepy same I feel depressed but I’m scared of my family and friends reaction they might think I’m faking it :(

[@kevinpace866]

The women who talked about social media got to me. I deleted my social media accounts awhile ago (months) and I feel much better self esteem wise as a guy. Don’t need validation or to show off how cool your life is. It’s just a put down in my eyes.

[@Thorayaa]

Share your answer to the question in the comments :]

[@saoirseregan1574]

Thoraya Maronesy right now😂 I started a KZbin channel and some of my peers have just been really judgy about it. Truth is I love doing it so I guess I shouldn’t stop🤷🏻‍♀️

[@uhh9314]

Whenver I wear short sleeves and people see my scars

[@fahadalnoman540]

@@saoirseregan1574 smart

[@hannaxoxo12]

I feel most judged about my choices involving university. I decided to go to a medical school outside North America and all my family/friends thought and prob still think it was a bad idea instead of just trying in Canada where I live. I’ve got 2 years left now and Kinda anxious to see what the future has in hold.

[@saoirseregan1574]

arry starks the fact you are going to medical school is enough to make them proud I’m sure! No matter where you chose to go! You should be so proud of yourself not everyone can do what you’re doing!

[@OriginLinear]

There was a time when I was homeless and hitchhiking across the US. My hitchhiking buddy and I were dropped off at a truck stop with a fast food joint. We were hungry so we decided to try to spange (panhandle) for some food. I approached a rather wealthy looking woman who gave us 20$ to go into the fast food joint buy some food. My buddy and I went in, tried to order some food, and the manager told us we had to leave. She told us she will not serve us, likely because we were dirty looking traveler/homeless kids (I was 16 at the time). This was the first time in my life I felt truly discriminated against. The feeling was indescribable. However, that is not the end of the story. As we were coming out of the joint, the lady who gave us the money to get food spotted us coming out empty handed. She asked us what happened, so we gave her the run down. She was pissed. She walked right up in that joint and chewed that manager a new asshole. That woman is a hero!

[@chewytoy1357]

Our world is corrupted man.. everyone wants to be happy but no one is ?

[@HawkingRegime13]

Likely because people are pursuing the wrong things, and without a structure to decipher right from wrong in their life. You should find purpose in your life, as being happy all the time is unattainable.

[@xpeachy7546]

Every single day. Social anxiety is a monster😔✌

[@meganm174]

Can you zoom in a little more I can’t see their mitochondria

[@DanielBoonelight]

i love her human-celebratory style but this seriously made me lol

[@pusheletsommatladi4686]

😂😂this made me lough.××good one!

[@gaz7067]

Megan McTigue 😂😂😂

[@katiejordan4024]

The powerhouse of the cell

[@ComedyGlor]

@@DanielBoonelight I haven’t seen “lol” being used to mean “laugh out loud” in so long lmao

[@jesswinter]

Anytime I was bullied in school. There were so many times and all of them still impact me.

[@shelbyvanhouten9989]

I felt the most judged after I came out of the psych hospital for a 5 day stay. I felt like people were thinking that I was crazy and were trying really hard not to "set me off". I still feel that judgment whenever I tell anyone that I was there, despite me making so much progress since then.

[@NITA-qe7tx]

I learn new things from your videos every day thoraya especially the old lady part which made me sad your video makes me view things in a different perspective Thank you Thoraya

[@charmainephasoana6850]

2:51 same here. I've always been judged for not smoking, drinking or partying and it sucks.

[@jordanstpierre22]

Charmaine Phasoana me too. 💕Ridiculous that some people judge us for that, makes no sense!

[@timprescott4634]

Me too. Funny, when someone sez, “Want a beer?” and I tell them no, they usually come back with, “Why not?” And I’ll say, “I don’t drink.” THEN they almost always give that ever so subtle, judgmental glance that sez...must’ve had a drinking problem... not the case. Just hate alcohol (for a variety of reasons)...

[@jakefromstatefarm7363]

And then when we drink and smoke they judge

[@peripheralblur]

@@jakefromstatefarm7363 Because they have good reason. Alcohol and especially smoking are not good for your body. I don't judge people for drinking, because I believe it's not that bad in small doses, but smoking is something I don't approve of. Why would you start smoking something that you *know* causes cancer. I will never understand

[@Allmight_Kitty]

@@peripheralblur Don't judge, just smile and know they destroy themselves. Survival of the fittest, no? :)

[@hamiltonstan9331]

I wish everyone on earth could see this❤️ these people are so strong

[@yellowbmblbee]

6:40 that girl is 100% correct. That's all social media is...judgment. I'm judging it now...LOL

[@chutton888]

I love how unbiased and open your videos always are. Your channel is very unique and raw. Please never stop making videos.

[@beatrizgomes1144]

I don't comment often on your videos but I have to say that what you do it's something incredible!!! I look forward for your notifications always. The service you provide on this platform is truly amazing and full of compassion, I can't thank you enough! Lots of love. Keep doing this amazing thing!

[@bethany-b2pkfilms792]

I often feel judged because how I dress. I dress modestly because of my faith and I often get looks from other girls for being different. But I have gotten used to it and it has become a part of my identity that makes me proud to be unique. I'm different, set apart for God. Yes people think I'm weird and strict because of it. But I know God thinks its beautiful

[@quelquun2018]

Keep doing you love!

[@ladypeace8912]

6:39 this girl's reflection on the basis of judgement on social media is eye-opening and wise

[@dancewithyoursoul1313]

Have you noticed that all the people that thoraya interviews have beautiful smiles ?

[@idalliance5464]

Can u dance with me now?

[@dancewithyoursoul1313]

Valentina Blossom if you are my soul , I would love to

[@surabhis074]

When I was in the 6th grade, I was a little chubby and we had this yearly health check up at school where they measured your height, weight, eye sight, etc. After the checkup, everyone was looking at each other's results. This one boy asked me what my height was, and I said it's 155cm and he goes "really! I thought that was your weight!" And in that 1 second my heart just crushed into a million pieces and I just started crying. That was the time when I became more self conscious, and I stopped eating. It's been 6 years since that happened and it still haunts me.

[@Centruxx]

Just them weiners who think theyre better them you.. hope ur okay now.. have some struggles myself too xD

[@sabriixx5343]

:(

[@aisletrials6714]

Hugs to you.

[@branicenyangomaamooti8244]

God loves you. You are his masterpiece (Ephesians 2:10) . What I have learnt is you are who God says you are not the world says. He made us in his image. He blew his air into us. In the womb,he knew you and still does. He sees you and understands you. When you're hurting,he is hurting too. He has always been their through failures, success, breakdowns and everything else. Even when you think no is there. He has always been their. He sent his only son to die for you. I known it's been four years. I pray you heal,have peace and have an encounter with his presence. Have a lovely day. You can do it!!. I am rooting for you.

[@fridaohman5974]

Great video! I'd love to see a video where you ask people about their passion. It would be very interesting. 😍

[@Olalla_Rey]

I'm judged for my voice alot now that I'm a teenager. From school staff to dance instructors, classmates to my own mom/brother and randam strangers at stores. These adults would mock and imitate my soft squeaky voice and not even care about how I'm just a child and I have no control over how my voice sounds so it really hurt to know that even adults can bully children. To every one who feels insecure or are mocked about their voice just know that you don't deserve it and I love you💗💗💗

[@TheEarthAndUniverseAsOne]

Dont worry about your voice. You'll grow into it, youre still young. Im a guy and had a high voice up until i was 16 and was constantly mocked for it. Sometimes you cannot change the situation you are in but u can try and change how u look at the situation. Dont let anyone take your light. Know yourself :)

[@Olalla_Rey]

iDontLikeMashedPotatoes thank you so much🥺this really means a lot💛💛

[@Benzyl_Penoxide]

Rey You wrote this comment over a year ago so I don’t know if you’ll see this comment. I really hope you’re doing better and more okay with it. I remember back in 6/7th grade a couple years ago I had a very high pitched voice and people would always judge me for it. It made things hard, I chose to just to stay quiet. It wasn’t a good time for myself. Later on, I had to accept it and be more okay with, it took time but I’m glad I did. I really hope you’re doing better 💕

[@Olalla_Rey]

@@Benzyl_Penoxide hii thanks for being so thoughtful😊 I am doing much better and I've learnt to a accept and embrace myself just like you have💖. Thanks for commenting, this really made me smile☺

[@lexih3168]

You should do "when was a moment when you were the most embarrassed?"

[@yousraahmedd]

Its so hard to brush off people's judgements about you

[@Centruxx]

Hell it is😣

[@niat.9206]

Why do people feel the need to judge other though??? So messed up.

[@crazisinger4008]

No one ever: "Hey just wanted to let you know that your nail polish doesn't really go with your skin color" 🙄🙄

[@halieuwu9148]

I used to go to a school of all African Americans I got bullied everyday. Only because I'm white. It was one of the hardest things to go through. I feel bad for the girl that thought she was judged. 😔💕

[@quelquun2018]

I feel like the person that looks like the “outsider” would be treated poorly. It sucks.

[@anonamous6968]

To be judged is one thing. How you let it effect you is another.

[@deamondoll]

Damn, these young kids are so smart🖤🖤🖤 being self aware but still staying confident.

[@abiiiiiiblah]

BE KIND❤ ALWAYS !

[@Lina-vh6ku]

I feel the most judged when people constantly tell me I’m too friendly and that I need to take it down because people take it differently...

[@maismais1]

People have lacked kindness towards me because: I’m hairy and they aren’t comfortable with how comfortable and accepting I am of it I only speak when necessary while they say the first thing that comes to mind with no regard to others feelings I mainly spend my days alone when they are constantly surrounded by people to avoid being alone I don’t find myself the most beautiful person I know and I still love myself more than anyone else however they think that you have to see yourself as beautiful to love yourself

[@theon.1549]

I can relate a lot to this comment. Not a lot of people want to be near me during school and it’s hard when you don’t know why. I try to make an effort with others but it’s never reciprocated

[@maismais1]

Look Inside My Mind I’ve experienced that before and it’s ok. I was confused as to why at times but I learnt to see it as more me time. I love myself and my own company so I’ve embraced it a lot. Sometimes our questions may never be answered and we learn to make our peace with that. Be your greatest friend because no one will ever understand you like the way you do. Love and forgive yourself a little more today and a little more than the day before, every day xx

[@chelseashurmantine8153]

❤️

[@Quila250]

A nice question for people would be: When was a time you felt like you were in a movie?

[@dontneedausername2112]

As soon as I gained weight. The moment I went through puberty my body just changed immediately. The most hurtful thing is that my friends didn‘t care and always supported me. My family on the other hand...

[@mikaylagreidanus4863]

You should a video we’re you ask teens what they want the older generation to know I think that would be really cool

[@efoxkitsune9493]

^^^^^^

[@smolsunikki8043]

When I went to highschool college classes for the first time, one of my teachers taught against my beliefs. They made negative comments towards the religion nearly every time it happened to show up in our studies. I was pretty chill with it because everyone is allowed to have an opinion, and I knew it was very likely that beliefs would clash in the public education systems. But every time they made a negative comment I felt like their eyes were on me because of the necklace I wore as a symbol of my faith.. A faith that had hurt them very much, I later learned. It kind of shook me. That teacher ended up becoming my favorite all year, because they did their best to remain a nurturing person despite our differences. I deeply admired that, and that teacher brings me true hopes for peace between my beliefs and this world. I truly wish the best for them and their family regardless! They were the first strong and independent figure in my life, and I will surely never forget them!

[@1HeartCell]

"I went to this religious school..." Alright, dont need to hear more...^^

[@CursedMilkshake]

Very valuable to hear all of this! Especially the lady telling us how she feels judged by people smiling at her in the street because she's older is something I never really thought of

[@isabellaroose9181]

Anyone else feel they are being judged all the time? I'm extremely self conscience in case you can't tell lol.

[@ifrahh.8534]

when I showed my self harm scars to my cousin and she called me a “psychopath”

[@Catlily5]

If you were a psychopath you would hurt someone else not yourself. (I've hurt myself also).

[@grannywetherwax1677]

Hope you are doing okay now ❤️ I know what it's like I also have self harm scars and its painful to show them to people it takes alot of courage and to call someone a psychopath it horrible don't listen to her shes talking bullshit

[@kimberley5729]

What an unkind, ignorant thing for your cousin to have said. I'm so sorry. My daughter has self-harm scars as well. It's a hard thing to understand - but you don't have to understand to be able to be supportive. I couldn't love my daughter more. I hope you have found love and support through this. I wish you well. With love.

[@TheCanadianBubba]

Thankfully my faith allows me to easily shed judgements from other people... we are all doing the best we can. Whoever is perfect among us may judge others, but if they were, they wouldn't.

[@Saintfan24]

Damn a lot of mean girls out there.

[@devadathkv3169]

Being judged by someone who is your priority is the worst I've felt...

[@kanchanmahi5992]

I'll always be grateful to Thoraya for making me look into my own life

[@niemah]

10:29 I had the same experience in kindergarten,so when I was a teacher I hadn't ever say no to kid asking if they can go to the bathroom

[@randallmagic94]

It sucked lol that was me btw

[@Catlily5]

Me too in kindergarten. Luckily I managed to hold it until recess, but my clothes still got wet.

[@mihokenyana3384]

I don't know how you don't have a lot more subscribers. you are so inspiring!

[@agnes5384]

This was very needed right now... I am currently going to a new public school and everything is just completely different from art school where you're a little more accepted on your diversity and talent. The public school really gives me a reflection of society in the moment. Being called names for the way I look or dress or talk and present myself... it hurts me deeply. It reminds me of how much I don't want to fit in... but it also feels like that's exactly what everyone wants me to do. The most I've felt judged is right now, everyday, by myself and my peers. It is very difficult to have goals to be a person people would want to look up to when everyone around you is in a different mindset and doesn't seem to want that... I try to remind myself they DO want to better themselves but they're all doing it in the wrong way. I'm on the outside looking in but I am also very trapped inside my own mind (clearly)... really hope I feel like it's all worth it in the end

[@savannahelizabeth6407]

i feel most judged in my own home. i have really bad anxiety and they tell me to just “do what gives you anxiety to overcome it” and force me into uncomfortable situations. it sucks to feel judged living in your own house.

[@Surfer1817]

I felt most judged in general when my father was around. Judging my performance, appearance, and moreover who I was. I felt as though I was not enough, yet too much...I still feel it in my heart today at times.

[@lisenauta3437]

This makes me just so sad to watch, because i understand what they so much!

[@taraes.3609]

0:52 I'm so glad she said that. While there are older people who judge their own generation and think that it's unnecessary, young people judge the elders too. And why do we do this?. Because we felt not respected with things like "they just don't know what's good". But that's a cycle. I personally did this too. And I am sorry. I will try to not repeat that. It totally brakes my heart that we all crave connection so hard and yet what we do - doesn't matter if it's the young or the old generation - is disconnecting. We all want to be respected.. And not judged... I would absolutely love to connect with that woman. Sometimes I miss older people telling me about their life, feelings and experiences.

[@celaenasardothien9411]

I totally agree

[@mintchipcow5272]

In middle school, I overheard two boys discussing who were the ugliest people in the school. They said I was the ugliest girl. I already thought it, but when it was confirmed by them, my self-esteem dropped lower than it ever was and is still that way. I know they were middle school boys so what they say really doesn’t matter, and that all middle schoolers are mean, but that hurt. A lot. It didn’t help that I was one of the only darker skinned girls in a primarily white school, it made me feel like there was something wrong with my race; that my skin color made me uglier. I understand now that there’s nothing ugly about my race or any, but occasionally I still feel... different, sometimes. I don’t know where this comment is going, the point is, I felt the most judged when I heard those two boys call me the ugliest girl in school.

[@Erica-en2qz]

I'm sorry that happened to you and that those boys couldn't see your beauty. Just remember that they were only two boys out of the whole school. I hope you have found a place where who you are and your unique beauty is celebrated. I never felt pretty in middle school for the same reason, but as I met more people and got older, I found people who liked who I was and how I looked. I'll always be different, but now I embrace it.

[@talisem1453]

Just want to quickly say, I have been watching your videos for a little while now and they are consistently beautiful and usually moving - I love your concept and the way you put all the footage together is subtle and minimises distractions other than the real person inside the speaker. Much love

[@edithmendez6867]

Your videos help me have more compassion towards humanity.

[@allthosepajamas4116]

We can be so proud of Old people. They made it that far,lived that long,have so much life expirience!

[@cedricbautista9373]

Your videos are very touching❤

[@bekkaaquino-wolf1593]

I had a son a year ago. I’m currently 28weeks pregnant with twins. I’m married, it was unexpected but my husband and I are still excited. It’s been a rough pregnancy, recently put on bed rest. I haven’t had a single conversation without hearing about how my husband and I weren’t careful and we brought it on ourselves. And i get told how if I can’t handle it now, I’ll never be able to handle it. I don’t even bring up my pregnancy in conversation, but yet I still get these comments. It makes me want to shut myself away from the world.

[@raghdaomran1415]

I can’t even express how much I respect what’re doing , just keep going it’s very important to make it clear for people experiencing hard times & feel they’re the only ones who’ve been through this , that they’re wrong and every body have been through similar situations somehow Love youu♥️

[@mikellecallahan516]

These beautiful people. I applaud their vulnerability in front of the camera as a means of showing others how to treat others and to be AWARE of how we all treat each others and the effect we leave on others. Love one another!!!!

[@1376mitch]

That girl at 1:42, is crazy beautiful.

[@DanielBoonelight]

no doubt. captivating.

[@Jordan-hs1xi]

RIGHT

[@Silvia.Araujo]

Yeah I wish I looked like her.

[@beawallflower7510]

Isn’t everyone?

[@kawaiisakura23]

I feel judged by myself more than other people. I am my own bully at times...I’m working on the self love and self care 💕❤️

[@Lmcta98]

youtube is blessed to have someone like you. KEEP GOING 💗💗🥺

[@walteryjesse]

I love these videos because they can hit you on so many different levels. I recently have been feeling insecure i guess you coul call it about myself (mostly personality) cos we haven't been to school yet and I feel like I forgot how to be social and in the inside I know I want to love myself and not care what others think but then I always turn to thinking oh everyone will judge me. This brought me so much inspiration rn thank you

[@sophieliebtmusik9045]

I think I felt most judged when I finally told me mum that I need help and want to see a therapist (after suffering from panic attacks etc. for like 2 years) and she looked down on me and said I dont need one and it only costs money. The way she said it was very judgmental , we never mentioned it again and that was the last time I opened up to my parents.

[@brookealexandra2745]

People often judge others without realizing and it can be hard to change that and be sincere. So many beautiful people in this video!

[@caroconga]

I suffer from Chronic Fatigue Syndrome. Some people think I'm just lazy. It's a double whammy.

[@unknownuser-hv7mk]

I'm surprised no one else commented about this 5:45 What a horrible lady I look up to you Thoraya for having to deal with that. I would have been furious

[@lastchance1101]

When i was in grade 9 you could say puberty hit me harder than any of my friends and i was curvier than any one it made me feel different in a bad way their was this literature teacher he would call kim Kardashian in front of the whole class, the whole class would laugh and the boys would make fun of my body i felt so bad i felt different in a bad way i would go back home when i am changing my uniforms infront of the mirror i used to cry so much. I am glad now as 18 years old girl i learned to love my body and not feel bad about it.

[@maismais1]

last chance how crazy is it that they used the name Kim Kardashian to degrade you in front of other men while they mostly are men that are now looking for and chasing after a woman with Kim kardashian’s body Your body is beautiful, many people aspire to have a physique like yours. I hope one day you are comfortable in your own body xx

[@katbonheur4872]

that teacher was an ass-

[@lastchance1101]

@@katbonheur4872 ikr thank you❤

[@elsaken2840]

We had a teacher who used to call a boy fatso but she didnt even realize that it hurts his feelings everytime she calls him that . One day when he was not in class we asked her why she did that because we all knew he was hurting . But she didnt acknowledge it and said that he doesn't mind and I am like a mother figure to you guys . She also said that nobody else is allowed to call him that but how ignorant can you be , ofcourse the other boys and some girls made fun of him calling him more names but she just doesn't get it .

[@lastchance1101]

@@elsaken2840 yes they probably think its cool but it hurts so much they may think its something simple and little. it might affect how you think of your self and your self confidence. thank you for understanding 😊

[@BarknoorZ]

What you're doing is honestly just beautiful. New sub.

[@user-gi6sn6cv9z]

That girl said people would call her Harambe. I mean, the first few times I'd probably laugh it off, but jeez man 😭😭

[@timprescott4634]

chill_tf_out I wouldn’t laugh it off even once. It ain’t funny and warrants an instant throat punch...

[@rdbeisi]

18:18 the single mother who wants to feel welcomed and she still fits-in 😢. My heart goes out to her ❣️

[@robertwilder5479]

People have the most beautiful eyes!!

[@Chaplin1219]

I don’t understand how people can judge such a beautiful and loving family 💗.

[@queenmikki4547]

I'm not first I'm not last But when she posts a new video I click fast Please like this. It took me a couple minutes to think of.

[@I-am-the-one-and-only]

LOL! 😆😊

[@ave7949]

What the frick no stop like baiting

[@Cr0ssmyheart96]

1:00 this really broke my heart. People really do isolate and judge the elderly. I don't understand why people act like they are dumb and don't know how to do anything, especially since they are the ones with all the wisdom! They have had so much more life experience. Everyone deserves to be treated equally.

[@bunnyslittlespace9811]

When I was 9 I told my school about the abuse I suffered from my father, my grandmother called me a liar after that and said I couldn't be trusted. I felt like I could never admit about any of the abuse I suffered after that, including the abuse from my brother because I felt like I wouldn't be believed.

[@dee...]

I'm so so sorry that happened to you. I believe you. You're not alone. When I finally spoke up about abuse I suffered, the response I got was "you're playing the victim." Your grandmother was wrong and ignorant for calling you a liar. You deserve good support and protection from any harm. I hope you are safe now.

[@Leopur33]

The elderly woman’s message is SO IMPORTANT!! ❤️😢

[@hahasori9176]

I had a friend in middle school who would always question what i was doing and stuff like that. Just small things. Like, why am i so excited for lunch, why am i smiling so much, why am i asking for homework, why am i wearing orange/wearing a ponytail and even things like why am i so TALL. i remember being so sad to even talk to her, because i knew she would start questioning me and make me feel like a freak for normal things. I don't even think she knew how depressed she made me feel.