Why Am I Single | Who I Would Consider Dating

Why am I single? Who would I consider dating? Great questions to ask someone like myself that has never been in a relationship or dated. While I may be single, I do not feel alone and am happy with my life.
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[@AutumnAsphodel]

I am single...still! I've grown so much since my first relationship video from 2013 (kzbin.info/www/bejne/hoDXhH6upt6giZY), where I would label myself and put myself down because of how I was. People said I would blame others for my problems in that video, but I never saw it until more recently. I think as I continue to grow, I will be open to allowing love and relationships in my life! - Why Am I Single | Who I Would Consider Dating

[@Kinokisings]

According to what you've said, we could be a good match (:

[@MsJezzebella]

Thank you for being so open about yourself, I'm sure this video took a lot to make.

[@everybodydad352]

This is a dumb question but can you fall in love with your alter?

[@kaymarie2]

That is quite the speculation nekodeath sparklz and not a dumb question :)

[@AutumnAsphodel]

nekodeath sparklz Short answer: Yes, it is possible.

[@matt926uk1]

I've never been in a relationship either, mainly because of mental health and social problems, guess i never loved myself enough too, but i'm working on it! Now time has passed, everyone my age has so much more experience than me it makes it harder to meet someone, almost impossible even. I'm sure there is someone out there for me though and one day it will just happen.

[@KayoYuuki]

weird when out from nowhere you find someone who basically says everything you think lol, twinzes! can I favorite this video? omg amazing!

[@accountname2476]

Off topic but I love your eye makeup ^_^

[@sajakhader1351]

i love this video and i love you. really needed this. thank you so much.

[@heyimmaballerina]

You should do a day in the life video!

[@DarkEvilPoet]

I am also on the same boat as you when it comes to relationships and sex. I am now 26 and still a virgin who has never been kissed, been in a relationship, has never dated, etc. But even so, I love my life as is and I am glad that I am not the only one who has no absolute experience when it comes to being close to another individual. I believe that if it comes then it comes, If it does not then so be it. I am not eager for anything. I want to thank you so much for sharing your life and experiences with us. Keep making your videos no matter what. Cheers! d(^,.,^d)

[@Whoreo]

Hey Autumn, I was just wondering would you ever consider online dating, e.g not having met before and starting a relationship?

[@AutumnAsphodel]

I tried it once and will never be doing it again.

[@pinkdiamonds9137]

You are such a beautiful person, inside and out!

[@kaymarie2]

Autumn is a very wise and beautiful soul. Whomever ends up connected to her heart and gets her to say "I love you" is a lucky person.

[@Voice7777777]

this was iris

[@kaymarie2]

***** You're correct. It is Iris. I've been commenting using Autumn as her name in whole, since I first discovered her. When I say Autumn what I really mean is her as a person; as an individual, It is probably much more respectful to call her Iris, in such videos. I keep forgetting and I will do my best to remember.

[@kieleyevatt2232]

I was wondering about the clothing change and thought it might be a personality switch. I wasn't sure.

[@Ikine557]

Autumn, I have a question for you.You said in your video that it's important to realize just how important sex is, but what if sex isn't part of a relationship? I'm asexual and have absolutely no interest in sex. In fact, I don't like it and would rather not engage in it at all. Do you think I can still have a functioning relationship as long as my partner understands how I feel and feels the same way?

[@AutumnAsphodel]

Ikine Thanks for sharing! I'm sure that will not be a problem at all. What I meant, however, was if sex was important to the relationship and there was no communication, then both partners would need to realize that it is important to them and address what the problem is. =)

[@Ikine557]

Thanks for clarifying^^ You're a very wise person.

[@thENDweDIE]

You can't chose who you love.

[@thENDweDIE]

You can delete comments but that is not healthy because it's not natural! Life doesn't work that way! Truth it's better than silence! Love you have a super day!

[@ethanfields1444]

I'd date an asexual person for the emotional connection

[@rubymilescleo]

your honesty is so refreshing, you have a deep understanding of the importance of being healthy and happy within yourself so that you can then be in a healthy relationship. I really hope you find someone who treats you with the love and respect you deserve

[@CaraNoClue]

Autumn, by the sounds of it you are extremely open minded in regards to relationships. I was just curious as to wether or not you would ever date someone who already has children. Just wondering

[@AutumnAsphodel]

CaraNoClue I personally do not like children and would not want them. So, that may be a bit past my limit. :/

[@truth547]

Hey Autumn, you seem like a very genuine person and I just don't think certain people with kids and history of cheating on multiple boyfriends with other guys on is your type. This one on particular has a past that resembles the current situation you are experiencing now.

[@SamoJeanne]

Tagr Endy why do you like children?

[@alejerr]

You are such a beautiful soul!

[@NewWaveMasquerade]

Personally I don’t mind at all being single and by myself all the time, in fact I prefer it more. Relationships are far too dramatic, complicated and doesn’t seem worth it to me. Also I like to have my privacy and alone time, so I have zero desire for a relationship with someone. If I were however I would want a relationship that was open much like how you describe the possibility of having a polyandrous relationship.

[@alexandrasolari1647]

I don't believe you have to love yourself before you love someone else. I have some serious self esteem issues, and I have been in love twice and both times I was (and am) absolutely in love, and accept the flaws of the other human being completely, and I feel like they accept mine as well. Maybe it's just me, but I believe both of these times I was in love were real.

[@UNIT522]

sometimes....the lack of understanding of the people in your life can leave you incomplete

[@paulcrandall2534]

Wow!! Uncle UNIT!!! Very well said. That's why open and honest communication is key to understanding your loved ones and even yourself. I learned that the hard way. I know this is a very old comment, but it's cool seeing you here. Love your content. Been listening to you for years. Keep up the great work!!!

[@charlieladd2206]

Autumn, you're beautiful.

[@willxowo]

found you recently and subbed, you seem like an interesting person to have a 1 on 1 chat with :3 would love to get to know you and dating you would definitely be something to consider, I like your personalities. But yeah, loving yourself is a key to be happy and progress to a relationship with someone, but sometimes you need someone to comfort you and make you feel loved and that can make you love yourself more.

[@fineandmellow6359]

I've had a string of bad relationships. I've been single for nearly a year and don't mind it at all. But it took a very long time for me to be okay with that. My problem was that I had so many issues with loving myself and expressing myself as I am. I'm pansexual and agender. For years I closed myself off and kept what I was feeling inside, secret. It's debilitating and those feelings will easily permeate whatever relationship you choose ot enter if you don't address your problems. After my last relationship, I really had to think about why I was choosing the people I was and why my romantic relationships always seemed to frequently end so badly. I realized two things about the people I dated: 1. They were always people who had emotional issues/traumas at some point in their lives. 2. They wanted to something to fill a missing void in their lives. And because I had both of those issues myself, I thought that if I dated someone with worse problems I'd be a hero, swoop in and save the day for them. They'd love me. I'd love them. We'd live happily ever after. Let me tell ya, it doesn't work like that. Not everything needs to be a such a glorified fairytale. These days I'm content single and enjoying interacting with healthy positive people in my life and quite frankly, relationships are pretty far on the back burner for me. Reflecting on my past mistakes, I had to realize that the key to a good relationship is knowing what you need, what you have to offer, and knowing that you are a person worthy of that.

[@juliew9495]

I get what you are saying with love yourself first. But I love someone and he loves me. And he loves himself. He makes me happy and helps me accept myself. I disagree.

[@amarok5048]

Hi Autumn, this vid reminded me of Bjork Gudmundsdottir's song from the Homogenic album, she describes what you said about the mistaken feeling we have that someone else is needed to complete us. I hope you scroll. "How could I be so immature ? To think he could replace The missing elements in me How extremely lazy of me" Track - "Immature" And I can relate strongly to this experience. It took me most of my lifetime to be happy with myself and independent of other peoples' approval. I am now 63 yrs old and have been quite contented with my own company for maybe 6 - 7 years. I am also a great believer in the adage: "What other people think about me is none of my business". I always enjoy your videos. Thank you. Read more: Björk - Immature Lyrics | MetroLyrics

[@Liveinvanilla]

Woooooord!! Fellow bjork fan. Hope you are enjoying the new album

[@PaulThePuppetier]

I really like your point of view.

[@theRiver_joan]

I fucking love that song and album.

[@rosiefox7196]

I got into a relationship nearly two years ago, when I was very mentally ill. My partner is trustworthy and loving, and has actually helped me help myself in since I have been with him. Obviously, I had to change myself, but he has loved me sincerely the whole time.

[@n.fer.2596]

You make me happy!! What a beautiful person you are inside and out.

[@DanaOblivion]

and P.S.- I think I'm developing a major crush on you.

[@skincareg1rl]

you are such a beautiful person, i don't know what it is that attracts me to your personality but i can't get enough. i appreciate you so much.

[@Labb]

You are such a wise person, and you seem to have a beautiful heart. I can relate to a lot of what you say in this video. Thank you!

[@RoYeah]

Ive been watching your videos for a while now and I'm always excited to see when you upload a new one, you are growing and making such wonderful progress! I just wanted to say that I'm so proud of you and I wish you all the love in the world!

[@AngelNightmarex]

Your words are so wise. I tell my friends these things too often. I just discovered your channel and I'm now subscribing :)

[@poodgenugget906]

Grrrrrrr I'm a trans girl. Please date meeeee! :P

[@poodgenugget906]

No really though I would love to chat with you... :3 please?

[@RubiMercuri]

hi autumn. im a 20 year old woman an im in your same situation. never dated, never been kissed, and of course no sex. and ive rejected all those that have asked me out in my school years. my reason for this is well i have very low confidence in myself. i always think about the affects of a person like me dating any man because i begin to think that none will like a girl that is so "serious", "shy" (i hate when people say that cause being a person that doesnt communicate much doesnt mean im shy) and the type of men im usually attracted to would normally go after girls that are more out going. i cant imagine myself being all lovey dovey and im not used to people hugging me. i get afraid of the idea of a man getting mad at me because ill refuse to have alot of intimate behavior towards each other. because ive had no type of relationship experience for 20 years ive grown used to it and now i really dont care about the subject and ive put my attention to other things i prefer more than that although at the same time i still wish i could have some experience. in the mean time ill continue to be myself

[@AzuraDragonFaether]

You are such an inspiration in my life. Your videos have helped me get through so many of my issues and self destructive problems. I'm currently in a relationship that is proving itself unhealthy and very scary. I'm not sure how to leave the guy I'm currently dating or if that's even what's best for me to do. I'm just taking it one day at a time I guess. Thank you so much again. I love your videos. You're a true goddess. :3

[@Arunnya]

such a beautiful human being. much love

[@LatinaKamilla]

It's very ironic that you just made a "relationship/dating" video because I also just made one on my channel around the same time!! It's like we think alike haha I bring up some of the same points you do about loving yourself. I'm transsexual woman myself and making videos is like my "release" so to speak and communicate with others and grow my "family" on KZbin. It takes a lot of courage and strength to put yourself on KZbin/social media and make videos, especially as a transsexual woman. But WE are doing it and I couldn't be more proud to call you my sister Autumn. I haven't been in a relationship for about almost two years now. You must work on yourself first before you can let others in. I feel you completely girl. (Hugs)

[@largestfern]

You are so cute :) I hope you find love some day

[@ShedonistaShamanatrix]

I love your attitude, outlook and simply so many things about you. You're inspiring, beautiful and I understand from what you've shared the hurt you've been through in your past. I wish we could get to know each other and be friends, support one another. I had a terribly abusive childhood, in every way imaginable, have PTSD and am a multiple too. I so relate and empathize! You're so inspiring, lovely and well spoken. I love your Spirit and have much compassion and empathy for you, as I do myself.

[@ganxinyi7827]

you're so beautiful

[@sapatear]

you don't think, having someone with an outside view of you could help you grow and learn more about yourself? insted of trying to do it alone?

[@nikkitronvold7606]

I'm glad to hear that you are allowing love in. You are BEAUTIFUL inside AND out and of course fully deserve to be deeply loved!

[@caress8612]

Hi! I've been following you for a few months now and I love your videos... so this might be a silly question, but since I watched your video where you introduce your alters for the first time, Iris said she was into light colors and I know, make up and cloths are not important when it comes to DID... But I keep wondering, when you're wearing white or not black, is it Iris or Autumn? Sorry :$

[@ImYellowHeart]

You are such an amazing person! I think I've finally found my absolute hope that could conquer all despair. Someone like me wouldn't be so extremely lucky to be the one you would pick(1 in a million? I think not..) but that's okay with me :) You deserve someone who is also perfect. I believe that you're perfect, even if you believe there is no perfect person.

[@PassionForOldFashion]

This is 100% how I feel about love and relationships, thank you so much for sharing and reminding me how far I have come, and how much work has to be done. Thank you

[@Argimak]

I understand and I feel quite the same. I've had problems with my own gender over the past few years (which is how I found your channel!) so I've always felt like I should work that out before looking for a partner :)

[@sound2503]

Your videos are so amazing. I connect a lot with your sentiments. I always feel lucky to be in the relationship I'm in now! Be true to you, lovely.

[@adawong6543]

There is this idea that one must "love themselves" in order to be loved. I don't really understand the meaning of this statement. If they mean the type of social love expressed as affection between people, then I am pretty sure this is impossible to accomplish with one's self. If it is in regards to the love of one's own flesh, this is also unreasonable. Another person cannot be expected to have the same regard for YOUR physical well-being as you do, or vice-versa. In regards to socially expressed love, I am not too sure I get how one is to understand how to properly love another person, unless they themselves have first been shown how to love by another person. It is like the equivalent of expecting an English speaking person to waltz into Japan and speak fluent Japanese. It just doesn't work that way. To anyone who would refute this argument, I ask you to imagine what your life would have been like if you had not a single soul in this world that cared for them, and then we can talk about it.

[@ichabodcrane5997]

Hi Autumn, I've got to tell you, I find you absolutely fascinating. It's a pity you and I don't live in the same city. I'd love to have coffee with you. Keep doing what you're doing.

[@nattyjo7428]

I'm not exactly sure what it is about you, but when I watch your videos, I feel a comfort and clarity that I didn't know was even possible to feel. you seem like a truly beautiful person, both inside and out. I hope you have a lovely day (:

[@Knajfer]

You courage, maturity, and insight are beyond unbelievable. You are an inspiration for us all and I appreciate you for that. Most importantly, I couldn't care less whether what you are sharing with us is true or fake, because in this particular context, that is a distinction I am not interested into. In my personal experience, I have come to understand that what happens inside of your mind, within the flow of your consciousness, is never untrue. Even the things that we imagine, even those that we hallucinate, are - to a certain extent - to be considered "real". So please, do not linger in that dichotomy. I appreciate you, for all of the qualities and purity you are showing cannot be faked, and those are what really matters to me.

[@debraduffy9610]

You have a hypnotic type of beauty. It is catlike and of the mystical arts. This nude lip and the thinner eyebrows and blue eyes shadow is your most gorgeous look.

[@Mada_94_]

Hey, Autumn! I have a question and I hope you won't find it offensive . Do you think that you being mostly attracted to female energy is related to your original identity that of a male? Do you believe it's possible that could be why or is it because you find yourself being attracted to the same gender you are now?

[@HippyWitchGal]

I have pretty much accepted the fact that I am my own best company (except maybe for my pup). I am far too strange for another human being to accept, let alone truly love. Being around other people just comes with too many problems.

[@ethanfields1444]

alternative view: it begins with the premise that Perfection is unattainable We're all got baggage Start going out with friends Talking to people Making connections Maybe find someone you find attractive and start dating them Weither or not things go right you still learn something from the experience You learn what it feels like to be in love and how you handle those emotions And sure it might end in heart break but the human experience just isn't complete without at least one of those in our lives. Feel free to share your thoughts.

[@robertbrandywine]

Wow, it is amazing you've not been kissed! You are gorgeous and I would have trouble resisting the urge to kiss you.

[@Nakushita1215]

Was this video done by Iris, not Autumn? Her speech patterns and dress/makeup make me think this is Iris.

[@victoriavyse7762]

I hope you can see this comment since this video was up loaded awhile ago, my husband is asexual most if the time and Im the opposite so i find myself frustrated a lot. Any advice on finding middle ground?

[@lemonlimelukey]

youre probly single cuz you cant find someone as amazing to compliment your amazingness, i have the same problem lol

[@AutumnAsphodel]

***** HAHA!! That's a good one! xD

[@alicegray4858]

your eyes are beautiful

[@supercommie]

This makes me feel better. I'm 32 and I've never been in a romantic relationship.

[@beverleysterley2759]

Wow you are getting it so together. I am learning to much from you. Thank you.

[@theecosmetaverse]

I'm working on myself too :) I felt so so related with this video. Thank you so much and I wish you luck :*

[@dissadistfied]

Wait I'm confused when you say you've never dated before are you talking on behalf of all your alter egos???

[@patrickward7917]

You have something everyone wants. You articulate knowledge through language so perfectly. You are a beautiful and pure woman inside and out!

[@JH-gi9zs]

I will admit, the first video I watch of you was one showing your alters and I will admit, I judged. I thought the video was strange and I didn't really understand. Since then I have continued to watch your videos I am so glad because not only have you educated and helped me understand your condition, I have learnt to realise what an inspirational and beautiful person you are. You have very set values and I admire that. Thank you for making these videos and bring the thoughtful, understanding person that you are, I wish you look on your journey of finding love within yourself, I agree that the ability to love yourself is very important when it comes to loving and trusting another person.

[@ethanfields1444]

And my axe

[@Saiege]

ugh I'm suppose to be studying ;(

[@hayyopeople]

Ugh you're so gorgeous like I can't even handle it

[@OnyxIdol]

Very insightful.

[@HoTrEtArDeDcHiXx]

My safe word is banana. That's because it's funny, but not too funny like pickle. Cucumber is not funny. Tomato is not funny. Potato... hmm... OK, that's funny too

[@RedRando]

How old are you?

[@andrielisilien]

I understand what you mean by feeling disgust when people say, "I love you" towards me. My gut reaction to those words are discomfort and almost a "How dare you. You don't know me. How can you say that?" The bottom line, and it took me forever to figure this out, is because I feel that I don't deserve it. It is SO HARD for me to say "I love you" back to someone. It took me more than 20 years to say it back to my parents (and they are very loving people) simply because it is so uncomfortable for me. I am very much a demisexual if not borderline asexual. I cannot fathom how people move so quickly to get physical. But I now understand that we don't all have to be wired the same way.

[@michaeljackson305]

I'm alive!!!!!!

[@JenniJenni15]

I really hope that you will love yourself soon And find someone! Greetings from Germany !!:) just found your channel today. I can totally relate to this video. Thank you!!!!

[@luxyzy]

I don't need to pay for therapist when I have you. And you really have a good point in this. What I find most attractive in you, is that you're so smart and reflective. You also have a lot of knowledge and experience that will help you to accept yourself and learn from yourself. I have BPD and my relationship went to hell. I also ruined my relationship to my family. The past years, I've realized that I have a problem with myself, and whatever caused me to get this diagnose, I don't care. I went to a therapist two years ago and he told me to work on myself and accept myself. And loving yourself first is important, instead of expecting others to accept and love you first.Cause that is kinda egoistic in my opinion.

[@CandysChannel]

Very good points and thoughtful answers Autumn! I would like to see a follow up video when you ARE actually in a relationship. Being in a relationship is a whole other journey unto itself and your answers will reflect that. You've come a long way!

[@irenerivera2384]

U should get background music._.

[@AutumnAsphodel]

Thank you for the suggestion! But, I do not think it would fit with my content.

[@heatherhammontree2508]

I have gone through many classes in how to love unconditionally and myself..... how to fight fair and be empathetic. ... I Would truly llke to be your friend.

[@matlock12c]

Ya can't put the KEY to your personal "HAPPINESS" in somone elses pocket...

[@neacarlsson2390]

Maybe we could date eachother? Hehe. I'm also MTF Lesbian. :D And I'm just as weird as you. ^^ JK. You are very beautiful tho :)

[@EricBatTGLife]

What about dating a man who hasn't been in a relationship for a very long time? It's been 21 years since my last one ended.

[@cheeeseisawsome12345]

HIIIII IRIS!!!

[@Bei2310]

Great Advice! Hugs Sent Your Way Princess:)*xo

[@---fy7jl]

Thank you very much for making this video. I always felt alone, thinking that only I thought this way. Thank you for putting this forward!!!

[@Rachelllllll2024]

I'm really shocked that you don't listen to gothic music, but choose to "look the part". Anyways, I think you're very interesting.... Thanks for the insightful videos.

[@burgerfriespizza]

OMG Autumn I'm loving the positive vibe coming off your recent videos! I'm so happy that you are growing and being happy, you can just see it in your face and your smile! (p.s: love your bright blue eyeshadow! :)

[@stainsOnblackvelvet8]

Have you ever heard of ASMR (Autonomous Sensory Meridian Response)? Do you personally experience it and do you watch self-trigger videos on KZbin? I find it very helpful to my mental illness and thought maybe it might help to relax you

[@dawna4185]

I wish you all the best, Autumn! You are beautiful inside and out and very intelligent and wise. I benefit from watching your videos....thanks so much! xoxo

[@frankx8739]

Hiya. Your'e looking great .So I feel I can say it now: u have had a sort of anorexic Vampyra vibe til recently. Here's the funny thing: as I watched this vid Bjorks 'Someone In Love' began playing on my mind's playlist. Is that why ur looking so great?

[@nikkitronvold7606]

I'm glad to hear that you are allowing love in. You are BEAUTIFUL inside AND out and of course fully deserve to be deeply loved!

[@13levante]

Honourable your intentions, but perhaps you will never achieve your aim, alone. Or perhaps you will achieve your aim in 10 years. You might want to consider just to experiment for fun and self-discovering purposes. Be aware that Love is a winner lottery ticket, "someone" sang that is a "loosing game". I hope you will like yourself one day soon! Meanwhile... the others outside not always hurt. To me You are like a bud rose that needs the sun to blossom. Darling I am not talking about sex but intimacy.

[@Lost_Gemini]

Wow, this video is really(!) helping me now! Thank you so much! (And we have a compleatlly same sexuallity/view on sexuallity)

[@ThrifterPickerShipper]

You know Autumn, while I love your videos and you as a person and what you share, and mostly always agree, on this one I cannot. Let me explain. For most of my life I said the same thing, "In order to love someone else, I must love me first." I wasted a lot of time on that misnomer. Because, although it took me nearly fifty years haha, I have learned that actually quite the opposite is true. Because you know, truthfully, there are more broken people than there aren't. It's true, I have finally come to the conclusion that I have too much crap that I have lived through to EVER be able to fully understand or love myself completely. And truth be told, I think a lot of people feel that way. The really beautiful thing in life is when you DO find that person, that is just as broken as you and finds it hard to love themselves, can be really adept at loving YOU. Just as you them. I think that is what relationships are about. Believe me, although we don't think we can ever find that good person who can love us as we are, they ARE out there. But the key is you MUST be willing to open yourself up to it. I can't tell you how many times I have been hurt by this and betrayed, but persistence pays off. I too am happy alone. But the friend who cares about me, well he understands that and loves me in spite of me. Poor chap, lol. Just my perspective, I mean no disrespect, just sharing what I have learned. xoxo

[@FreakFlorence]

I felt like you in some ways while watching this video. I have been in different relationships that ended really badly, with a lot of violence in them. I have a lot of problems dealing with other people feelings so I decided that first I will try to be more confortable with myself before entering in other relationship. Also, I want to explore more with my pansexuality before anything. haha Anyway, I think you are such a wonderful human being and I hope you succeed in everything you propose. I've seen your other videos and I'm happy with your progress. Keep it going :) Kisses. PD: Sorry if I wrote something wrong, I know english very well but sometimes I make mistakes.

[@danjackson7758]

would love to meet you (platonic) if you were ever in my neck of the woods....which is (old!) york, in England.

[@pamlafayette6738]

You give such great advice. I'm currently browsing through your videos, and I'm so lucky to have stumbled onto this one. I have BPD. I've managed to steer myself clear of relationships for a long time (despite the fact that initially I felt horrid being "alone") and work on myself, but recently I was asked on a date. I think I've been deluding myself into thinking I was ready for a relationship, but after watching this video, I've realized that I'm not. So thank you! Definitely a wake up call to keep working on that self love.

[@DanaOblivion]

Great video. My Mama always told me, "Two halves make a whole; but two wholes make the pair.", and I believe you touched on this point rather eloquently. Thank you for such wonderful and honest words!

[@lisettemguevara]

Thank you so much Autumn! This is what I've been trying to say always. How can you love someone if you don't even love yourself? People think I'm crazy and my friends get offended when I do say this. They believe I have no heart, they say I'm wrong for saying that and consider me a bitch for it. But honestly, if I'm being considered being a bitch for speaking my mind and saying what is true then so be it! You are the first person that I can relate to and I truly admire you and respect you! 👍💖💖💖💖

[@rosarose6620]

I really admire the way you are and feel very lucky to find this videos full of information with real good sustance. thank you for being you. Keep uploading pleasss!! you make my life better. Im Jonahi, a trans girl from Puerto Rico XOXO

[@Arualiaa]

Making a relationship video guarantees your secret admirers to surface and rejoice! You've got a huge catalogue, just have your pick lol On an unrelated note: in a next video, you should not draw your eyebrows on. Then, apply them digitally, if possible, in a sloppy manner so they just hang out at the middle of the screen like some Victorian Era ghost's majestic mustache. Don't mention anything in the description or the video, just act naturally, like nothing's wrong. That'd teach the Weird Question people not to mess with the wrong woman!

[@insidiouslollipop6212]

I hope to be more like you someday (wise, self-loving, independent, etc.). I have a lot of the same symptoms as you have and hope to be diagnosed soon but I have dependency problems though, maybe DPD, and find it hard to feel better about myself without constant reassurance. You are such an inspiration

[@Impastospace]

You are so intellectual! :) thank you for sharing. What you said about needing to love yourself is very true. I seek the love I'm missing for myself in relationships. I'm currently working on that in many ways so watching this is very encouraging to me. Normally I don't comment on videos but this really connected with me and made me happy. Once again, thank you.

[@kimbal1958]

I reckon your a VIRGO - the virgin sign - or probably have it as your Ascendant in your Astrology. I like a lot of Virgos - but many rarely open up in wanting to connect with others. I also perceive a lot of Venus, Pluto and Saturnine energy around you. Pursuing self introspection.