Why Can't I Quit Drinking? | The Truth About Staying Sober

[@scottkelly6117]

Thank you! 25 days sober today!!

[@supaloc]

So it‘s been 3 years, gimme a sitrep.

[@jackedkerouac4414]

Simply sleeping early is my secret weapon on my road to sobriety. Thankfully this is easy to do. All I have to do is skip a nap and take 5 mg of melatonin and I'm out like a light

[@thegreatowl4912]

Your videos help me to become a better, more stable person. I struggle daily. But, I'm getting better as the days go by. Thank you for taking the time to help us all.

[@54leonilda]

Coming into 6 years sober in September. Ya...another reason I dig your channel.

[@newbeginnings1543]

WOW that is totally awesome! I hope to accomplish this too.

[@jeffthompson5601]

I struggle with alcohol too Tim. Can never just have 1 or 2 beers, has to be 12 or more. If I just don't have the first one I'm good. I went 6 years sober. I really want to get healthy again. I love your videos. You have a fun personality! I have a campervan also and do trips on the weekends all the time and want to be "nomatic" someday. I embrace minimalism and simplicity and can fit most of my possessions in my van. I definitely am going to AA meetings once things open back up.

[@TimothyWard]

Thanks Jeff! Sounds like you live my kind of life lol. Good luck with AA!

[@chickyface7537]

@@easygoing7500 how so, out of interest?

[@damian-795]

I gave up alcohol after watching you, Craig Beck, Kevin O Hara. Took me 4 years stop start ( relasping) but I got covid quite bad. After covid I cant stand alcohol, it makes me feel ill 😁

[@melhawk1352]

The struggle is real. You are a voice of inspiration in the darkness of addiction. Bless.

[@dizneydoby1438]

Watching these videos gives me back my dignity… ty

[@wookiewoo5474]

“ You are using a damaged instrument to try and get an important job done “…Omg. This makes so much sense!

[@iancanaday7631]

Honestly quitting drinking was the hardest thing in my life and also the easiest, let me clarify. I drank every night and could not stop, went up to 300 pounds due to it. I struggle as real. I officially had a problem for about 2 years and only 2 nights to recollection that I didn't drink out of those 2 years. I prayed pretty heavily for around a year on the matter and one day I woke up and my addiction was completely gone. I can even drink to this day with no issues but I don't typically enjoy anymore. I am never really sure I should bring up my situation when the topic comes up because I dont know if it helps. There is 100% power in prayer but I have also flat out gotten no answers to many issues that have plagued me before and since so I understand the feeling of doom. Truly the worst phase of my life so I always decide to share that testimony because I understand how terrible it is and I know what it is to be completely defeated over and over.

[@jameswaterhouse-brown6646]

Wow that’s amazing! Thanks for posting your experience.

[@anzolomyer4584]

Awesome video as always, Mr. Tim. I worked at a substance abuse clinic and this one super badass, strong-triceps, big-chest guest speaker came in one day. He told everyone to--for a few minutes--go against the entire program. Go against everything they had been hearing about drugs and alcohol. He wanted everyone to praise what drugs brought into their life. And he went on this long tangent about how drugs had brought him 1) communion (sharing, drinking with others); 2) escape 3) routine (visiting certain spots or stores at certain times, the old familiar sound of opening up a can, etc., etc.); and even 4) a nurturing warmth that felt like reconnecting with God, the world, or what have you. And then he talked about how it was very hard for him to quit doing drugs until he found adequate, better substitutes to fulfill those needs and wants that were otherwise fulfilled by doing drugs. So it's a very tricky subject and there's so much literature out there about it, and so many programs, and therapists and such. But despite that, it's always neat to hear someone's personal take on the subject. And it just happens to be that the cool travel guy happens to have a few words on it. That's really neat. Anyway, thank you for your awesome videos!

[@webbtrekker534]

Tim, as always I appreciate your critical thing. You have it about right. The biggest thing that needs to be said is that falling off the wagon is not failure. It is a new starting point. Being depressed about that slip, failure can lead to more thought processes that can say what the hell I fail and have another drink. No! It is the start of a new process of learning to not drink. A new birth. A new dawn. What ever. Me, coming on 36 years next month. Sure I think about it but then say, "not right now!"

[@MoneroMac]

Thanks for your videos. I went almost 30 days sober then went back to the beer and drugs. I'm starting over and not allowing myself to live in fear of failure. Thank you.

[@tinadarealmilliondollarbaby]

I've more drinks since this craziness at home. I still workout and drink gallons of water a day. I do believe that the media and what's going on in our country is a bit stressful. But yea Tim i totally agree with you.

[@thecalling1452]

The buzz and escapism that comes with it is the main reason probably, the best way is to take up an alternative activity that offers a greater level of satisfaction and escapism

[@eliyahshekinahyisrella5685]

Not Ready.Shame and Guilt keeps you stuck. Keep right on trying and one Glorious Day.

[@jamesshielssoberlife.3701]

Just past seven years sober, but its a process!

[@TimothyWard]

Congratulations on the 7 years James!!!

[@jamesshielssoberlife.3701]

@@TimothyWard thanks!

[@MrCynan4812]

I am exactly that guy 6:00 time to drink. Working on finding something else, your videos are a great help.

[@TimothyWard]

Finding some distractions for my evening definitely helped me to get sober. And eventually I realized that I enjoyed my new 'hobbies' more than getting drunk.

[@j_cortez5226]

One of the best videos I have seen on this subject. Our minds and bodies are hijacked by this stuff..so thats what we go up against...but over time, we can, we will overcome..If you want that for yourself. Thank You Tim 🙏📈

[@catherinemurphymark]

I like the video, but prefer it without the background music

[@kalakatana503]

That beat tho

[@mistacjmajor]

Na i like it. Nice and smooth

[@juliematon7461]

AMAZING video.......love ALL of your content, you really should have a million subscribers Tim

[@TimothyWard]

Thank you! Glad you enjoyed the video 👍🏾.

[@teedee8398]

I replaced my drinking with working out and anime. Once in a blue I will drink but never to excess.

[@wordsoffire2416]

I enjoy your videos. Been drinking on n off for 11 years. I'm trying my best not to drink now. It's a heavy struggle. Glad God has people like you lighting the way. 🙏

[@maryberon4193]

Drinking beer got me off Prilosec. Cured my stomach problems. Plus, it helps me start many creative projects. It's probably bad for me, but like you once said, not drinking is boring. You're a smart guy, I believe every word you say, and I'm going to try to stop.

[@showuplifestyle3935]

When you quit drinking you will renew yourself. Some things you found to be fun will no longer intrique you. In the beginning not much will intrique you at all but as you get use to being sober things will start to excite you again. Its a long process but youll find your true self in doing so

[@lilg2727]

Your sobriety videos help me so much. Thank you!

[@salvatorem1959]

Great speaker , great voice . Total positive vibes from him .Stay well .☝️

[@SimplyNaturalBlack]

Hello Timothy and everyone else in the Chat ✌🏿💓Omg this was one of another Best Video👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿

[@GeckosTrails]

I feel ya, Tim...I have been smoking cigarettes (a pack a day) since 1989. I have tried to quit many times, but I have never been able to go longer than 3 months. It is very hard when your rational mind is telling you al of the physiological reasons that you have to quit, but there is that other part of your mind telling you "You just got out of bed in the morning...time for a cigarette." "You just ate a meal...time for a cigarette." You are stressed out...time for a cigarette." Smoking is a love/hate relationship. You hate what it's doing to your body, but you love the feeling you get...it satisfies your habitual nature...it's that security crutch that will always be there when you need it. I have tried almost everything to quit...cold turkey, Wellbutrin, Chantix...nothing seems to work. I don't know what else to do. Right now it's hopeless.

[@beckoninglight16]

Start vaping. Seriously. You’ll spend less and do less damage

[@GeckosTrails]

@@beckoninglight16 I tried that and it didn’t really work for me. I appreciate the suggestion though thank you.

[@RichWainwrightFilms]

I found this really helpful. Gave me a lot to help me understand the subconscious and patterns that I have been struggling with. Thank you.

[@OG1919]

I took 19 years of programs, many were AA or NA, but other similar ones, too. I even attended for a few years AFTER I stopped drinking, as a good group meeting you will be inspired every time you attend. I enjoyed it and learned a lot, to say the very least.

[@TheFlamingWatermelon]

I hate that this showed up in my sub box while I’m hungover 😂

[@sierrachoco5271]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@mindybluephotography]

Good video. My addiction is food. It's the same processes and temptations. It's an excessive personality.

[@showuplifestyle3935]

The best thing to do is keep junk food out of the house and drink lots of water. If you over eat good stuff it wont be as bad. 5he problem is junk is easily accessible and not very filling. You will stuff your face all day with dorittos but try stuffing your face with baked chicken and youll tap out lol

[@vanliferr4079]

I'm 28 and going to rehab on Monday, been drinking everyday for ten years and lately its affected my job. I don't think I coukd go 30 days on my own and I will not drink after I get back. I won't.

[@TimothyWard]

Good luck Vanliferr!

[@rozswartzett180]

I can apply that to food and overeating.

[@DreamfactoryZero]

I can relate to this too. I've lost 70 pounds and gaining it back is my biggest fear. I'm more active than ever but I still like to eat.

[@sierrachoco5271]

Definitely, habits become engrained to where the difficulty to stop becomes almost impossible!

[@reach4thestars67]

That is why they call them addictions, Timothy. We all have some kind of addiction we are fighting or giving in to.

[@Sirch100precent]

dude , your clip edits are on point! yesterday i hit 1 year no alcohol.. well besides kombucha occasionally lol

[@showuplifestyle3935]

Good job im a little over a year and a half

[@michaelosullivan9339]

1 reason for me socialising......great work Tim...am still trying

[@willgamer0849]

Great vids, a lot of knowledge. U used to drink everyday? In my case I've been drinking every week for like a year already. Sometimes even twice a week. I start drinking early and keep drinking until late night when I fall asleep sometimes without even noticing it bc of how drunk I was. I'm a cheap drinker I buy cheap beer but since it doesn't get me drunk enough I go out and get a bottle of cheap wine. And the next day is just miserable, I'm going to stay sober for a week.

[@azrock235]

Really good video Tim, great thoughts. Thank you.

[@blappajune1745]

I'm back hoping to say 1 day sober after today.

[@jaybee608]

My brain tells that alcohol taste bad and cigarettes stinks! That's it for me!

[@AsTheWheelsTurn]

lol you are not even in the same realm as an alcoholic then. it has nothing to do with the taste... good for you though.

[@wuestion9473]

Don’t be self righteous. I don’t do either, but that’s how this looks.

[@killamixx]

I love drinking and I dont think I want to stop. Thankfully I can have one and stop, but its impossible to say no to a cold IPA. It is very scary how addicting it can be. I need to watch it carefully!

[@waelzarzour8495]

Thanks bro.. your videos are really helpful

[@tanyamiller6275]

Wish I heard this video before I took up another drink after my sobriety

[@BoSHEmian_Experience]

FUN-e, just yesterday I watched "Quit Drinking and Watch Awesome Things Happen "! and enJOYed it. YOUr videos withOut music getS focus on conversation. ...or mayBE for THIS video...wrong kindA music. ThankS for video thO! ONElove-jO 💛

[@tanyamiller6275]

Omg your advice is so good for me

[@lakersin556]

Im having a drink right now. I got bored and went to the liquor store. The isolation is getting to me.

[@showuplifestyle3935]

When you get an urge to drink try having a coffee. Its helped me out

[@telliehack2590]

You are spot on. I smoke AND drink. Lord help me lol.

[@ForTheSakeOfTheSongs]

There are many reasons for me unfortunately, one of the strongest alcohol puts me in sort of a protectrice bubble, an artificial paradise even if addiction as a whole is hell. It's also the only thing that works when I have maximum anxiety level, getting away from this drug is hard when you have other mental issues, I heard a psychologist say this is the main difference between those who quit and those who don't...

[@koricoconut4293]

I love this!

[@drivesecure2476]

I have never had a problem with alcohol or drugs but I do have a few friends that have been to AA and it seem to work for abit but then they started drinking again I guess it is hard to break good Video

[@churra8257]

Tim the title scared me

[@Thagy1973]

I think I just kinda aged out of drinking. Like it wasn't really a conscious decision, it just got to the point where it wasn't fun anymore and I got to the point where I really don't enjoy the sluggish feeling and dysphoria that cane after consuming alcohol in heavy amounts. Now I will have 1 or 2 drinks maybe onec every few months. But when I feel the buzz starting to kick in, it just gets worse from there so I just stop so I don't have to feel the awful hangover

[@kalakatana503]

Ugh I need to quit drinking too, it's so hard

[@showuplifestyle3935]

Its all about making a commitment. It took me 2 dui's to finally say drinking isnt for me. I just wish i would of learned my lesson sooner

[@DavidVonR]

Tim, I'm buzzed off of three beers watching this video. Lol.

[@TheRealJaded]

I had a drink today, haven't had one in like 3 months though. Nice editing, I see you!

[@bbldr1110]

Thank you.

[@joshgreer3527]

I work 7 days a week just to try to stay sober work nights and can only drink in the morning or days off live alone right now girlfriend is watching a friend with cancer she gets mad at me when I drink but she does too we drank 3 days ago and she was mad that night im trying to quit drinking was sober for 4 years we started drinking around the time we both had gallbladder surgery I ended up with colitis after it helps me some days with pain and some days I drink to throw up colitis is really bad and painful i really think i would have quit drinking again if I hadn't got colitis but ive got to do something else it doesn't help me much and pain pills don't really do much either

[@gregoryschultz9520]

Thanks!

[@gregoryschultz9520]

After 30 years of drinking and searching for a way to quit, why is this the only guy that actually makes any common sense? Just an average Joe that quit drinking and is perfectly describing how we can quit as well. God bless you Tim and keep on keeping on, do not stop with these life saving messages!

[@magomago7819]

Speak to the Lord, as him to guide you.

[@Disorderly_mama]

Been trying for almost a year.

[@rozswartzett180]

🙏

[@KS-zr5og]

Damn at the 2:01 mark I thought you were missing part of your thumb!

[@justintime995]

What you say holds so much weight because you escaped from the toxic loop.

[@antoniobridgeforth2362]

🙏🏽

[@coreygray674]

Man I want to stop and I need help

[@paige3691]

💛

[@TimothyWard]

🧡

[@rozswartzett180]

Namaste

[@jamesmccrindle8633]

Roz Swartzett namaste 🙏

[@sincerelyshaylav]

❤️ the background music.

[@MsGechi77]

You have to watch some David Goggins or Shia LaBeouf's video called, JUST DO IT!

[@Yourpleasure721]

first admit that you are an alcoholic then go cold turkey one-day-at-a-time. it is said that it is not the last drink that gets you drunk, but really it is the first drink that gets you drunk