Why I hate "Nice Guys"

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Kahmal

Kahmal

Күн бұрын

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@wallybonejengles5595
@wallybonejengles5595 Жыл бұрын
"Don't try and be a nice guy. Strive to be a good man." Mike the Music Snob
@KamauKenyatte
@KamauKenyatte 14 күн бұрын
wtf 😂
@bilalabbas3388
@bilalabbas3388 Жыл бұрын
despite u being fairly new these videos are stone cold raw doggin bangers
@Kahmalwastaken
@Kahmalwastaken Жыл бұрын
thanks homie
@ilogreen6835
@ilogreen6835 11 ай бұрын
No cap watching all his videos rn
@Arander92
@Arander92 7 ай бұрын
Ya we like it raw
@5050TM
@5050TM 7 ай бұрын
This comment makes me feel incredibly old 😂
@187Blackheart
@187Blackheart 6 ай бұрын
💯
@Bloodycupcake54
@Bloodycupcake54 7 ай бұрын
I heard once "being nice is like being funny if you have to try and prove it all the time your probably not nice or funny"
@Kahmalwastaken
@Kahmalwastaken 7 ай бұрын
100%
@gregoryfuller9736
@gregoryfuller9736 7 ай бұрын
Nice Guys aren’t funny
@autumnonpurpose
@autumnonpurpose 7 ай бұрын
Yes so true! Let me share this on my platform
@kevinkliesing3732
@kevinkliesing3732 10 ай бұрын
As a "recovering nice guy" I fully appreciate this video. We should all strive to be kind and to be good, not nice
@Jellyfish_Abb
@Jellyfish_Abb 9 ай бұрын
Congratulations man that's really awesome 👏 Didn't know people can actually recover from that
@brandonvacchio7614
@brandonvacchio7614 5 ай бұрын
congrats on evolving 👏 no shame in making mistakes, everybody does speaks far more volume that you’ve realigned and detached from counterintuitive perspectives 🤘🏼
@Re-Bourne
@Re-Bourne 4 ай бұрын
Are you stupid? With all due respect kindness and being nice is the same thing but some people are just fake when they do it anyone can pretend to be "kind" but again it's just the way you do things 💀
@nanomia
@nanomia Жыл бұрын
As a woman you said everything perfectly. I would prefer kind and outgoing guys over "nice" guys I'm terrified of nice guys based on past experiences and other women's stories.
@Kahmalwastaken
@Kahmalwastaken Жыл бұрын
yep the "nice guys" can be the scariest ones
@AbrasiousProductions
@AbrasiousProductions Жыл бұрын
kindness is very attraction I agree, it's why me and my boyfriend are together, he's the furthest thing from a nice guy
@nolabets3130
@nolabets3130 11 ай бұрын
Don't ever Leave your drink unattended Around a nice guy...
@5050TM
@5050TM 7 ай бұрын
I dated one long distance. Called it off for the ick feeling that many men think is silly. He got a gf. He contacted me back and I shit you not openly said he wants to cheat on her with me because he's just a "slut"? Lord have mercy, saved my self. Pray for her y'all, I don't have her number 😭
@BLu3RayDiskRang3
@BLu3RayDiskRang3 5 ай бұрын
​@@Kahmalwastaken Just like Darth Sidious disguising himself in the prequel trilogy.
@BabyPrincess687
@BabyPrincess687 Жыл бұрын
the "it's 14 minutes of this" had me dying. these men got traumatized in kindergarten and never got over it.
@lo.lo_marie
@lo.lo_marie 4 ай бұрын
Right like….you had no personal growth from there??
@intelligenceparadigm4931
@intelligenceparadigm4931 Жыл бұрын
Realizing now that I became like this for one specific girl I was really into. It's weird. I don't have that issue with other women, and I haven't struggled much, but I got too excited about one girl too soon and just carried that on and pushed her away. Nobody told me that though. In my mind I was just trying to cheer her up all the time, sending her sweet messages, giving her little gifts, etc. She was depressed and I wanted to help. But I didn't understand how I came across. Needy, desperate, overly attentive, attached....it was a lot of talking and a few dates and then hanging out a little as friends after that but I was stuck in a cycle. Not valuing myself. Can't keep doing that.
@Kahmalwastaken
@Kahmalwastaken Жыл бұрын
I've been in that exact boat my friend. All you can do is acknowledge it and move on.
@intelligenceparadigm4931
@intelligenceparadigm4931 Жыл бұрын
@@Kahmalwastaken I admit I still have some hope I can turn it around but I know I can't act that way toward her ever again if I keep seeing her at all. It's hard though, to not look at her as this ideal person.
@Kahmalwastaken
@Kahmalwastaken Жыл бұрын
@@intelligenceparadigm4931 It's funny, again I had that same issue. it was like every time I was with her I would go back to who I was mentally. It was hard because I had already set up a bad dynamic between us. I later realized that a relationship was never really an option for us and that I was seeing what I wanted to see in her instead of seeing her for how she really is. So if it were me that's what I'd focus on making sure you could actually see her as a gf.
@intelligenceparadigm4931
@intelligenceparadigm4931 Жыл бұрын
@@Kahmalwastaken appreciate you man. I'm honestly good at getting through logic that way, lost interest in a few girls recently because I found some real incompatibility, so I knew it wouldn't work longterm anyway. Unfortunately not the case for this one. However I'm sticking to my guns and not initiating contact so much or treating her like a princess anymore. If she doesn't want to see me because I'm treating her differently, or she never reaches out again, I'll have to accept that without getting too bitter about it.
@Kahmalwastaken
@Kahmalwastaken Жыл бұрын
@@intelligenceparadigm4931 yea bro I feel you. Seems like you've learned from it though that's the most important thing.
@doob.
@doob. 6 ай бұрын
They sacrificed the bros just to get friendzoned by an egirl.
@rachellebaissard6618
@rachellebaissard6618 8 ай бұрын
From personal experience. The nice guy is the most scary guy that i met. Stalker and untitled not taking no for an answer. Everything with a scary smile and etes stAre in their face.
@Kahmalwastaken
@Kahmalwastaken 8 ай бұрын
Yep you’re 100% right. They’re the most dangerous and entitled people you’ll encounter.
@aletheajacobs3600
@aletheajacobs3600 3 ай бұрын
Yes! and you owe them for all the "nice" things they do.
@jaredbezes7806
@jaredbezes7806 Жыл бұрын
I can’t stand nickisnotgreen. I got one of his videos recommended to me and I like watching KZbinrs I’ve never seen. And I like giving people chances but this dude is absolutely ridiculous. All he does is wants to cancel people instead of just making fun of them but even his jokes are terrible and bland.
@Kahmalwastaken
@Kahmalwastaken Жыл бұрын
I agree. All he does is pander
@Pretralus
@Pretralus 11 ай бұрын
I was like this during high school and college and looking back now I still cringe at how I acted. Now I have a Gf of 4 years, I'm in shape, and I'm the happiest I've been in years.
@elibridgers2781
@elibridgers2781 Жыл бұрын
Your video helped me examine myself. From late Elementary School to near the end of High School, I considered myself a “nice guy” in the sense that I would try to help a woman near my age group, partially because I want to be kind and partially because I am attracted to them. But I also want to wait until I got married before getting too intimate with a woman. I’ve been examining myself about my motives and desire, and I guess the key takeaway is being genuinely kind and honesty is a good policy. Thank you.
@Kahmalwastaken
@Kahmalwastaken Жыл бұрын
shout out to you my friend
@bunnyluver2176
@bunnyluver2176 5 ай бұрын
You hit it on the head with the neediness...in men and women. Desperation just scares ppl away. Same with the fakeness. Idk about other women but i cant stand the "hi beautiful! I just wanted to say good morning and wish you a good day!" So corny. Reeks of desperation.
@SopranosAI
@SopranosAI Жыл бұрын
You are so underrated. I'm gonna keep commenting and liking your videos until the algorithm gives you justice.
@Kahmalwastaken
@Kahmalwastaken Жыл бұрын
Haha hey I really appreciate you homie. Remember YT is all about click through rate and watch time.
@SopranosAI
@SopranosAI Жыл бұрын
I know trying to give that as well by going through your back catalogue but you just have a great chill disposition makes me angry that you're not at 50 K subs yet. Also like how you manage to poke fun at both sides of the political spectrum. you're also the only person who pin pointed sneako's red pill descent being triggered by Hasan's reaction to his how to view women video. @@Kahmalwastaken
@Insanity-vv9nn
@Insanity-vv9nn 7 ай бұрын
Young girls don’t identify the red flags, but when you get this skill, it becomes easy to spot. I started talking to a guy that looked fine, but the small details, some small lies, the way they talk, you can tell something stinks
@neobrainium1027
@neobrainium1027 Жыл бұрын
late to the party but I think it's great that you actually give sound advice to selfreflect on your behaviour, a lot of the people that criticize the red pill goofs and pickup "artists" usually don't offer any form of alternative to actually solve the reason why people gravitate to them in the first place.
@Kahmalwastaken
@Kahmalwastaken Жыл бұрын
Hey you’re definitely really. We’re got a lot more growing to do. And thanks man
@Redacted226
@Redacted226 7 ай бұрын
It lowkey sucks that “nicer guys” are like that because whenever I’m genuine with a girl and I’m straight with her she’s more shocked that I’m actually being a kind person and not being nice so I could get laid like mfs like that annoy me so much
@Bjergkanin45
@Bjergkanin45 6 ай бұрын
"Nice" guys don't get laid, people don't respect them. The most important thing for flirting is self confidence and humour. If you can make her laugh with you, not at, you are off to a great start.
@OhsohLibre
@OhsohLibre 10 ай бұрын
Being Good is different than being nice. Sometimes you gotta be the person that no one likes in order to do the right thing.
@jayl3840
@jayl3840 10 ай бұрын
bro you are such a breath of fresh air .. you have a great pov on stuff not slanted to one side like most
@Hailfire131
@Hailfire131 7 ай бұрын
A problem I have with the term "Nice Guy" is the same with "Toxic Masculinity", it attaches behavior that is seen in both genders, to one gender. Which is why I think we need to stop using "Nice Guy" or "Pick Me" and just call both of them what they are, liars.
@myishenhaines1706
@myishenhaines1706 4 ай бұрын
Liar isn’t specific enough.
@Oriol-oo7jl
@Oriol-oo7jl 3 ай бұрын
Nice Person :)
@lalitacruz737
@lalitacruz737 Жыл бұрын
You're expressing very interesting points of view whilst showing empathy, keep on going! Just gain a subscriber :)
@Kahmalwastaken
@Kahmalwastaken Жыл бұрын
Glad you liked it. More is otw.
@lindboknifeandtool
@lindboknifeandtool 7 ай бұрын
Being nice only because you expect something is the problem. I’ve even been frustrated, hoping things would eventually become more reciprocal. They won’t. You might hope they’ll notice how much you’ve done for them. They won’t. I’ve really had a semi mantra to myself “no more Mr nice guy” because when you’re only nice you get frustrated and it boils over, and that’s not nice at all
@mcsmash4905
@mcsmash4905 3 ай бұрын
being nice for the sake of being nice or whatever should be a goal to strive towards , but having hidden motives ruins any good deed , do a good/nice thing and move on do not expect anything , there is nothing wrong with accepting some sort of rewarrd or whatever but once again do not expect or demand it , if people exploit you its on them , keep your soul clean so to say
@chemergency
@chemergency Жыл бұрын
The stigma this approach carries means it's more important now than ever to just be yourself around women you find attractive, for better or worse.
@mcsmash4905
@mcsmash4905 3 ай бұрын
˝women dont like nice guys˝ my reaction to that is ˝okay and?˝ people living their life according to what women like or dislike is goofy to me
@Oriol-oo7jl
@Oriol-oo7jl 3 ай бұрын
@@mcsmash4905 Well the whole sentence would be "women dont like nice guys, SO stop being a nice guy because you think women will like it" I mean, it's not that you have to act according to what women like, it's just stop doing that because it doenst work. So save the energy and effort. And yes, just be yourself Anyway, as you said is dumb to try to fit to other's likings. Just be you and eventually you'll meet somone who will like it. And it will cost you no effort, because its just you 100%
@Jellyfish_Abb
@Jellyfish_Abb 9 ай бұрын
Those guys are so gross bruh. I don't want to have sex with anybody. Casual sex is gross to me ✋
@Iam_inevitabIe
@Iam_inevitabIe 5 ай бұрын
My ngh what you on about
@coughe216
@coughe216 5 ай бұрын
Being nice is literally the bare minimum to being a decent interesting person.
@Car-qu2bc
@Car-qu2bc 4 ай бұрын
It’s not the bare minimum to getting a girlfriend though
@Crypt.Bogey444
@Crypt.Bogey444 11 ай бұрын
If you’re nice it’ll show by your actions most people who have to reassure to others that their in fact super nice most likely aren’t very nice
@yomibeatzzz4221
@yomibeatzzz4221 Жыл бұрын
Bro your channel is seriously underrated! I'm sure you're gonna blow up soon!
@Kahmalwastaken
@Kahmalwastaken Жыл бұрын
Hey I appreciate that. Honestly
@J0n4THANOS
@J0n4THANOS 11 ай бұрын
Dude before I even watched the video I was about to say some shit against the title but after watching the video….you’re exactly right! Goddamn man. New sub.
@Kahmalwastaken
@Kahmalwastaken 11 ай бұрын
Appreciate that. Thanks for taking the time to actually watch it.
@kingjojo15
@kingjojo15 4 ай бұрын
Nailed it w the lack of charisma thing. Thats a major trait of these guys.
@mathiasstrom7790
@mathiasstrom7790 3 ай бұрын
Absolutely zero personality is a side effect of being a fragile doormat
@darrylfrombrooklyn
@darrylfrombrooklyn Жыл бұрын
Dude! I wasn’t there for your live stream but I watched a bit of it later the next day. You were talking about what kind of content to do on this channel..I think you should keep doing this kind of content although I’m not sure about how youtube receives this, especially in terms of monetization. But this is some good stuff right here!
@Kahmalwastaken
@Kahmalwastaken Жыл бұрын
Thanks man. I'm actually gonna stream again soon.
@darrylfrombrooklyn
@darrylfrombrooklyn Жыл бұрын
@@Kahmalwastaken Awesome. I’ll try to make it!
@AbrasiousProductions
@AbrasiousProductions Жыл бұрын
I'm not a masculine man at all and I don't get offended whenever someone says I'm not masculine because it's literally true, however.. I'm goddamn Sylvester Stallone when compared to these nice guy soylords
@es7990
@es7990 7 ай бұрын
Great breakdown but a key something you’re missing is that these “nice guys” are often confused because they listen to what women say they want. The behavior women tend to say they want in men is not actually the behavior that creates initial attraction or keeps them sexually interested. And the less experience a man has with women the more a man might twist the words of women, because they just don’t know any better. Words mean very little with women.
@GlitchPoachers
@GlitchPoachers Жыл бұрын
JiDion did nothing wrong
@Kahmalwastaken
@Kahmalwastaken Жыл бұрын
facts
@Dkybtie
@Dkybtie 11 ай бұрын
I’ve been saying this for years, it’s good to know there’s another great mind that thinks the same. Subscribed
@tjthoma7295
@tjthoma7295 6 ай бұрын
Be a nice guy by literal definition don't be a "nice guy"
@PalomasMusic666
@PalomasMusic666 4 ай бұрын
What women don't tell guys but guys already know is that we do the same thing too, Laugh at guys corny jokes just cause they're attractive, but when it comes to someone you like, and your intentions are just to make them smile, go for it, compliment them, they'll tell when it's genuinely out of kindness
@mathiasstrom7790
@mathiasstrom7790 3 ай бұрын
​​@@PalomasMusic666If we all could just be fucking real with each other we would be so much better off
@PalomasMusic666
@PalomasMusic666 3 ай бұрын
@@mathiasstrom7790 It even takes people a while to just be honest in the dating scene, dating is so much more different in my 30's then my 20's
@liveatthemaximum5540
@liveatthemaximum5540 Жыл бұрын
Loving your videos bro. You seem to be a fairly new creator but all of your videos are gold. Only thing I’ll say is I find myself conflicted on the female friend argument. I definitely agree with you that having female friends can be beneficial, but at the same time I think things get iffy when one of your female friends become interested in you, and I feel like that tends to happen most of the time. At some point they either like you or you like them. On the surface level they’re definitely good to have around and give you different perspective, and like you said, great for picking up other girls, but in the long run I find that these relationships tend to fizzle out for most people, especially when one or both people find themselves in a relationship with another person. Just my take, curious to hear your thoughts.
@whenwasthat
@whenwasthat Жыл бұрын
10:11 We need more of this bro! I see what you're doing and it's so on fucking point.
@Kahmalwastaken
@Kahmalwastaken Жыл бұрын
thanks bro
@cunnyfied-sapp9180
@cunnyfied-sapp9180 11 ай бұрын
Damn I feel like I have some nice giy tendencies. My current problem is that my behaviour is seen as "nice guy" but I just want to be kind.
@notsam498
@notsam498 5 ай бұрын
I think the craziest thing about relationships, or jobs, and whatever else socially is: a big part of who gets what comes down to showing up and putting in basic effort. you don't have to be the smartest, best looking, most charming or clever, or funny, none of that stuff. Most of the time it's just showing up and holding a conversation.
@jarritos-br6ym
@jarritos-br6ym Жыл бұрын
My friend is becoming redpill after being a fake nice dude how do I help him
@Kahmalwastaken
@Kahmalwastaken Жыл бұрын
that's tough if it were me. I'd call him out tell him he's being overly emotional. tell him which parts of redpill don't make sense and then maybe even watch some redpill stuff with him and debunk everything they're saying.
@Kahmalwastaken
@Kahmalwastaken Жыл бұрын
if he wants to talk to me on a live I'd do that
@Michael-w9o4j
@Michael-w9o4j 6 ай бұрын
@@Kahmalwastaken You're being..........too nice. 🤣
@Iam_inevitabIe
@Iam_inevitabIe 5 ай бұрын
​@@Michael-w9o4j nahhhhh 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 exposing bro om his own video
@Hgoenge81
@Hgoenge81 4 ай бұрын
You're just spitting facts, my man. Please do more on these clowns 👍🏻
@SaintLazare666
@SaintLazare666 Жыл бұрын
lets fucking gooooo
@ivanvereyn9685
@ivanvereyn9685 11 ай бұрын
“I’ve done everything society told me to do!” Bruh try to listen your girl next time wtf
@jacobjeb
@jacobjeb Жыл бұрын
speaking facts as always
@foxduncam7671
@foxduncam7671 7 ай бұрын
I know this is old but I just saw it and this video actually means so much to me bruh. I've never heard someone empathize with what it feels like to be on the other side of unrequited feelings. It's like a constant reverse blackmail of trying to force you to be around them or risk becoming an uptight bitch if youre honest that youre uninterested. It's being shoved into a box and expected live a lie playing the part because how could you turn down favors or gifts or compliments. The things I've put up with from nice guys because I was trying to be a nice girl back honestly breaks my heart for myself. Personal venting lolololol but yeah bro you killed this
@Opaali
@Opaali Жыл бұрын
Bangers . Not sure if u need to make your intentions crystal clear right away n scare her . Get to know her first then u really know what u want IMO. Never deny your intentions if situations arises tho that’s a lie n a fk up. Nothing wrong with taking it slowly. Like u said women in time will know deep down what’s up anyways. I’m too nice for the girls i really liked , that’s why end up messing with the ones I treat like shit because I don’t care . 😂 It’s a slippery slope but I’ve managed to fall in love few times I think that’s more than some ppl in a lifetime. Oh n I’ve definitely complimented girls shoes , hair whatever with non intentions to smash . It’s always friends girl/ wife tho.
@lhays117
@lhays117 7 ай бұрын
I think the world would be a better place if we (particularly men) just had a much more diminished sex drive. Would make interactions between people, particularly straight men with women, just a lot more authentic and honest. This whole sex as an ulterior motive in so much discourse really bugs the fuck out of me. Not that there’s anything wrong with having or wanting sex, but my god can our sex drives just chill the fuck out more? Lol
@Tokomi
@Tokomi 7 ай бұрын
Without a sex drive you wouldn't be here jim bob
@-Down-D-Stairs-
@-Down-D-Stairs- 9 ай бұрын
Good man vs nice guy paradigm. Be a good man fellas not a nice guy.
@thekid36
@thekid36 Жыл бұрын
I really love your channel n I've been here for a few days
@Kahmalwastaken
@Kahmalwastaken Жыл бұрын
Yea I've been seeing your comments I appreciate you man. Glad you're likin the content
@Ashinle
@Ashinle Жыл бұрын
2:21 I wouldn't put Shaun, hbomber, and Three Arrows at the same level of the people you're talking about. I don't know about the others, but I've watched these 3 and they're very level headed about the topics they talk about. They don't get overly serious and put a ton of effort into their videos. I used to watch and be okay with far right content but their videos really resonated with me not because I was looking for a specific political ideology, but just because their points made sense. Backed up statistics or calling out hypocrisy. They also talk about solutions and what people can do to be better not just "oh world bad". They're fun youtubers to watch. And unlike some of the other leftist KZbinrs their videos don't feel boring or confusing to watch. But other than that yeah fake nice guys are repulsive.
@que_the_durbanite1359
@que_the_durbanite1359 5 ай бұрын
Thank you. I appreciate the video. Quiet informative.
@bilosofie
@bilosofie Жыл бұрын
great videos man .. just please stay real .. dont let ur success take u away from ur reality .. coz i feel that u will be somebody one day .. ❤
@Kahmalwastaken
@Kahmalwastaken Жыл бұрын
I appreciate it . I'm gonna do my best staying grounded is very important to me. I hope you guys can hold me accountable as the channel grows. Also how long have you been animating.
@bilosofie
@bilosofie Жыл бұрын
@@Kahmalwastaken all the best man .. i took animation as a career recently but i have been playing around with the art for a 5 or 6 years .
@Kahmalwastaken
@Kahmalwastaken Жыл бұрын
@@bilosofie Same to you. And thank you. And that's dope.
@cookingwithsilence
@cookingwithsilence 11 ай бұрын
What about chill guys. Can we be chill?
@Rootiga
@Rootiga 6 ай бұрын
10:40 Absolutely! I never had trouble getting women and I always figured part of it was because most my friends are women
@Ns_05229
@Ns_05229 7 ай бұрын
I know this type of people and everything you said was spot on. Especially the "justicing through life". I have a relative who is a "nice guy" (and I know what he's up to on his free time) always thinks he is only permitted to talk about his job or his car, but ONLY on a surface level. Like dude no one's forcing you to stress this much about what is acceptable to talk about. Idk just happened to remember. And why is their only goal in life to end up in a relationship??? And always with a woman??? This necessarily doesn't happen with gay people. But then again, it would be rebellious against society or something to be gay so again with the social justicing part. Why would a woman want to step into the life of a guy who has nothing interesting enough going on in his life to concentrate on that instead of seeking validation from outside? And there are some factors that have to do with finding a partner which you can't influence, like pheromones that fit one another etc.
@Ekaterina2012
@Ekaterina2012 3 ай бұрын
It's painful, but if you want to be in a relationship and it's just not happening, you can't force it. You just can't. At a point you have to either focus on yourself or you start being a hater. Men/women don't have to like you. If it's not happening, change your focus- take up interests, meet people, and have healthy hobbies without ulterior motives to date/sleep with people. If not, you go down the misogynistic path and STILL not get what you want.
@clippyclop
@clippyclop Жыл бұрын
description🤣
@midnightfenrir
@midnightfenrir 11 ай бұрын
Date uh. Oh God. You just made my brain connect the Nice Guy to Red Pill pipeline.
@Einhornsunicorns
@Einhornsunicorns 6 ай бұрын
I just found your channel and am really enjoying your videos. I’m looking forward to listening to more. Also, that shade of green looks nice on you.
@Kahmalwastaken
@Kahmalwastaken 6 ай бұрын
haha I appreciate it. And I'm glad you're liking the videos
@dollz4ever
@dollz4ever 6 ай бұрын
A car is nice, not kind. An object can look nice on a surface level but cannot be genuine and kind. You can only appear to be nice but that doesn’t nescairly mean you are kind. As a girl that is the best way i can explain it idk.
@Jonjohnko
@Jonjohnko Жыл бұрын
Seen all your videos already we need more
@Kahmalwastaken
@Kahmalwastaken Жыл бұрын
I’m workin on the next one should be out by Friday
@Adrian-zd4cs
@Adrian-zd4cs 5 ай бұрын
I'm 41, single, did travel/contract nursing around the US. Been on my own awhile and perfectly ok with but let me fucking tell you the year I just had... I desperately needed a "white knight" in the real world - had very few people around me I could trust.. out of dozens of men that came and went, less than 5 actually genuinely gave a shit about me and ducked out when they realized that they were not getting any ass! I'm hard headed and it's a personal fault of not asking for help well... The last 3 months dug that hole deeper!! 🙄😆 Just be genuine y'all ✌️
@EsmeraldaArmstrong
@EsmeraldaArmstrong Жыл бұрын
Question. How do you deal with a nice guy as a woman? There is this one guy that likes me and follows me everywhere ( when he and I are in the general vicinity of each other). He tries to give me stuff, he compliments me and whenever I hug someone in front of him he goes in for a hug. I really, really don't like him and usually just join a new group of friends that is all women when he's around ( he usually leaves me alone then). I'm never with him alone. I avoid physical contact at all times and talking to him. None of this has done legitimately anything to dissuade him unfortunately). I need advice.
@OdaSwifteye
@OdaSwifteye Жыл бұрын
Here's what you need to do. You have to shut this person down, if you believe they aren't dangerous and are just really annoying, you have to break it to them. Embrace the dark side and break their hearts. Sure, you might make a mini Andrew Tate, but he's out of your hair, which is more important. If you think this person is dangerous then you need to still break them but with more prep, get your female friends or a male who has your actual best interests in heart to show up with you and intimidate them (they should have size, height, or muscle mass on the person but barring that them wielding a weapon also works). You also need to inform an authority figure that you are being bothered by a problem individual, so they can be on alert or possibly remove them entirely. If this person takes the break really badly, you should consider having a knife or pepper spray on you. I would advise a knife because it's really easy to pull that out and bloody the nose. Cowards prey on opportunity, and there's no opportunity if they know you have a knife and will use it to harm them.
@EsmeraldaArmstrong
@EsmeraldaArmstrong Жыл бұрын
@@OdaSwifteye I highly doubt that thus situation will escalate that far but I do thank you for all your advice! I appreciate your wisdom and though I pray I will never have to interact with him again, I will take all your words to heart.
@Kahmalwastaken
@Kahmalwastaken Жыл бұрын
I think you're doing the right things but also you have to be firm. When he does stuff like go for a hug you say have to literally say no. Be very blunt and show that you're uncomfortable and have 0 interest in him in any way.
@socialredact
@socialredact Жыл бұрын
Great vid bro
@Kahmalwastaken
@Kahmalwastaken Жыл бұрын
I appreciate it.
@andrewkovacik5752
@andrewkovacik5752 Жыл бұрын
No idea how bro doesn’t have more subscribers
@Kahmalwastaken
@Kahmalwastaken Жыл бұрын
They'll come
@dudewithlaptop8663
@dudewithlaptop8663 5 ай бұрын
I've always had the opposite problem. I treat women exactly the same as I treat men. Got my first girlfriend at 24, and we live together now, so it worked out. But damn was it frustrating.
@Fopay12
@Fopay12 7 ай бұрын
5:56-6:07, realest shit I've ever heard in my life.
@justjapyi
@justjapyi Жыл бұрын
Who voice that vtuber?
@Kahmalwastaken
@Kahmalwastaken Жыл бұрын
that's top secret
@justjapyi
@justjapyi Жыл бұрын
@@Kahmalwastaken ok 🚬🐔
@Kahmalwastaken
@Kahmalwastaken Жыл бұрын
@@justjapyi I'm playin it's eleven labs
@RemyBeast
@RemyBeast 9 ай бұрын
The Dark Path is how you get guys like Elliot Rogers lol.
@Vincent_Preston
@Vincent_Preston Жыл бұрын
I started watching the "redpill/pick up artistst/mgtow" shit when I was in my late teens before even having interactions with women... all it did was destroy my perception of women. Now that Im in my mid-20s, I cringe at these podcasts and seeing friends going down that path now, but if you question it and tell them what it leads to then you're being a "beta cuck" 🤣 smh.
@Kahmalwastaken
@Kahmalwastaken Жыл бұрын
I was in the exact same boat man.
@AbrasiousProductions
@AbrasiousProductions Жыл бұрын
I'd rather be a beta cuck that gets affection, than a dumbass hateful redpiller who's constantly lonely.
@heavyadrelingblogs5630
@heavyadrelingblogs5630 Жыл бұрын
Mgtow is fine
@Vincent_Preston
@Vincent_Preston Жыл бұрын
@@heavyadrelingblogs5630 MGTOW is also cancer. Its abunch of divorced men convincing young men to not persue relationships bc they had a bad experience. Instead men should be working towards improving their own mental health and then presuing healthy relationships.
@Darth_Bateman
@Darth_Bateman Жыл бұрын
6:41 I wanna point out something about these Red Pill guys. It was not just one girl. It was NEVER just one girl. THAT is just the girl they remember. Trauma isn't a big shock, Trauma is repeated electrocution.
@Kahmalwastaken
@Kahmalwastaken Жыл бұрын
you're right
@Darth_Bateman
@Darth_Bateman Жыл бұрын
@@Kahmalwastaken Of course I'm right, I'm like. . .Patrick Bateman or something.
@captainhowlerwilson508
@captainhowlerwilson508 3 ай бұрын
Being this “nice guy” is not just about getting girls to like you, it’s about getting anyone to like you no matter how obnoxious and weird you act.
@johnviragh384
@johnviragh384 4 ай бұрын
Thank you for being an additional voice of reason in an age of "non-reason"
@tiquezgraham7963
@tiquezgraham7963 7 ай бұрын
You forgot the monk path
@michaeljordan3166
@michaeljordan3166 6 ай бұрын
It cost nothing to be nice. If you don't have anything nice to say, then don't say anything at all, simple.
@OlCaptainBrownEye
@OlCaptainBrownEye 3 ай бұрын
Lol your editing and commentary is hilarious.
@val-zod1284
@val-zod1284 Жыл бұрын
i dont know why, you remind me of Dave Chapelle. I liked the video as well
@Kahmalwastaken
@Kahmalwastaken Жыл бұрын
I don't know why either but dozens of people have told me that. And Thanks for liking the video
@Anonymous_Ki
@Anonymous_Ki 5 ай бұрын
Nice guys always feel non genuine to me
@mathiasstrom7790
@mathiasstrom7790 3 ай бұрын
Because it always is not genuine. They have an agenda and that agenda is gaining control over you and then getting the opportunity to fuck. Trust your intuition, it will save your ass
@shelbyblackmore-mg4nv
@shelbyblackmore-mg4nv Жыл бұрын
I might have already said this in a different video, but Dude you are cool AF!!!
@Kahmalwastaken
@Kahmalwastaken Жыл бұрын
haha thank you. I appreciate you
@gregoryfuller9736
@gregoryfuller9736 7 ай бұрын
If you have to tell people you are good person you aren’t I never thought of myself as a good person but brother in law told me I was one most genuine person he knows tied with his oldest sister
@swimm3rcity
@swimm3rcity 7 ай бұрын
Only complaint about this video...too short 💯
@Kahmalwastaken
@Kahmalwastaken 7 ай бұрын
haha appreciate that
@sophiefrost
@sophiefrost 6 ай бұрын
Goddammit, thank you!
@Abangamaboouse
@Abangamaboouse 11 ай бұрын
3:29 dang bruh i do this all the time and diddnt even realize
@killerkrok55
@killerkrok55 Жыл бұрын
Listeeeeennn!!!! "Let me bring it back. To the nice guy non bitch ass men...." i almost died. 😂😂😂😂
@killerkrok55
@killerkrok55 Жыл бұрын
Oh yh and, "Subscription gained..... Flawless entertaining...."
@refreshe7880
@refreshe7880 4 ай бұрын
Guys... Don't pretend to be nice. But also don't pretend to be mean to seem cool. That's just as bad. Might even be worse. Be kind.
@vaughnmyg
@vaughnmyg 10 ай бұрын
Thank god i chose path one...btw love your vids so much good stuff
@Kahmalwastaken
@Kahmalwastaken 10 ай бұрын
thanks homie. And yeah path 2 blows
@el_mal_de_ojo
@el_mal_de_ojo 3 ай бұрын
I had super strong white-knight / nice guy tendencies from my late teens until my early 20s. Aside from hurting others, my god it hurt me in the long run. Managing to reflect and acknowledge my toxic tendencies was one of the best things that ever happened to me. In hindsight, I hindered myself so much because of it for many years.
@avgriffin
@avgriffin 10 ай бұрын
yoooo you got the watchmojo lady in the video!!!!
@justjapyi
@justjapyi Жыл бұрын
Hi
@Tk4shh
@Tk4shh 5 ай бұрын
Bro remind me of Chapelle with his humor/comedy
@Notjobincome
@Notjobincome 2 ай бұрын
THe nice guy who treats everything like his girlfriend, one of my close friend is like this and it really annoys me, no wonder why he is single
@mcsmash4905
@mcsmash4905 3 ай бұрын
there is a very big difference between somoene being nice and a nice guy , calling yourself a nice guy is an absolute statement while saying you do nice things is not , im too self aware to say that kind of thing about myself , i did a lot of stupid shit and still do and i do not hide that fact from anyone , the worst part about a lot of these dudes is that they like to talk about chivalry when all of their motives are unchivalrious and self serving , thankfuly i was never introduced to this kind of bullshit when i was a young teen , there was a roughly 2 year period where i thought i was being nice but then i had a moment of clarity where i saw my actions for what they were , self serving , i didnt do anything for the sake of being nice , i did it to gain an advantage , the guilt still remains and i do not want it to go away nor do i let it , but i have thankfuly learned from those mistakes (still not a nice guy nor will i ever be)
@bilalabbas3388
@bilalabbas3388 Жыл бұрын
COMON
@Utopian1234
@Utopian1234 5 ай бұрын
1:00 I used to listen to this song all the time and now I can’t remember what the name is 😭
@enclave2k1
@enclave2k1 Жыл бұрын
I liked and subbed as the pretty anime girl instructed; I bet she likes me now.
@botodin6979
@botodin6979 Жыл бұрын
This video is quite poor. First, you use the terms "White Knight" and "Nice Guy" interchangeably, though they are quite different. A Nice Guy becomes bitter and resentful after being rejected; a White Knight maintains his belief that women can do no wrong. This leads into my second point. You repeatedly state that White Knights only do what they do to get lаid. However, you also insinuate that they legitimately believe what they're espousing. So which is it: do they praise women just for sеx, or do they legitimately believe that women can do no wrong? There's a few more issues, but these were the most noticeable.
@lowserver2
@lowserver2 Жыл бұрын
is there any other way i can watch the nick video?
@Kahmalwastaken
@Kahmalwastaken Жыл бұрын
KZbin took it down for Cyber bullying. But when i make a patreon I can add it there,
@Denm_a
@Denm_a 7 ай бұрын
The nice guy/white knights is a big reason why actual good men are seen as dangerous or shitty
@cosmicredlanternkharnthebe520
@cosmicredlanternkharnthebe520 Жыл бұрын
for the algorithm
@Kahmalwastaken
@Kahmalwastaken Жыл бұрын
appreciate you
@novic329
@novic329 Жыл бұрын
The vtuber ai scared thr shit outta me
@Kahmalwastaken
@Kahmalwastaken Жыл бұрын
😂
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