Why Men Don't Approach Women Anymore! (It's Not Just You!)

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[@PassionateSpirit88]

I use to wonder why I didn't approach women but then I realized it's because most are dull, narcissistic, difficult, self centered, etc... and that's why I usually don't approach. Has nothing to do with nerves or fear of failure or whatever.

[@nathanforrest3483]

Well said.

[@lonetony652]

Agree 💯

[@gregorylatta8159]

Yep.

[@JediDarkForce]

@@PassionateSpirit88 they have noting for a man of intellect

[@nathanforrest3483]

The kind of women that hang out in bars and clubs aren't the women you want anyway.

[@LeeEverett1]

No but they're good for feeling validated and gaining experience

[@nathanforrest3483]

@LeeEverett1 It's more like their validation but I gotcha .

[@Hiljack67]

Agreed 💯

[@Hiljack67]

Im completely done and the peace & quiet is phenomenal. No more drama.

[@scottthepumpdude8933]

"I have a boyfriend/husband". Translation: "You're not hot enough."

[@Travis1.979]

😂😭

[@luckyloonies4378]

LOL. Let's be honest. Some of those ladies are not single and are indeed loyal and faithful to their spouses. You would be wasting your time and effort if you approached those ladies. For any single ladies who would use excuses to reject you, those are ladies you should never waste your precious time, money, and efforts with.

[@scottthepumpdude8933]

@@luckyloonies4378 💯👍if a woman tells me she's attached, that's it. I'm done. I actually don't approach women anymore because I have a great girlfriend. But before I met her....

[@adamwarlock5286]

​@luckyloonies4378 if they are loyal and faithful to their husbands what are they doing out at a club?

[@JediDarkForce]

There is nothing to gain in return ❌

[@gregorylatta8159]

But plenty to lose.

[@fugu4163]

Correction. Women wants Chad and Tyrone to approach them for a one night thing but all regular good men are considered too boring very much because of simps online telling even an average girl that they are supermodels.

[@gunsharck]

BY CHRIST YES!!! Simps ruin everything

[@Travis1.979]

I invited a girl I met online to go to the theather to watch X-Men Origins: Wolverine. When we met at the theater, we got to talking, she later told me "you´re not tall, are u?". I never returned any message to her after that day. For God´s sake, my love life was set to be screwed, it´s rejection after rejection for decades until I gave up in 2014 when another rejection was presented to me.

[@MrSivram28]

A man is never good enough for these women

[@gunsharck]

Mate you need to trim the fat from your stories. Firstly we don’t need to know which movie ok. All you need to say is “I met a bird online, we went to cinema and she’s a bitch” THATS IT

[@LeeEverett1]

Bro you're recounting a date from 15 years ago, that's a clear indicator that you haven't been on many dates

[@Travis1.979]

@@LeeEverett1 not your problem/business.

[@sntmdsa3628]

You posted your problem on a public blog

[@fthunte1982]

I am a Night Venue Security Doorman, I always get women flirting with me. However I know from experience now, that 90% of them will be time wasters. And even if they give me their number, 80% of them will ghost anyway. I no longer take women seriously. I don't agree with the point about online dating tho, I think it's worse odds. How can a woman develop attraction and sexual tension over time online? I am old skool it doesn't interest me at all. I like to develop a relationship in person. I have found that in life as a man, when your not looking for a woman, this is when you will meet someone. I have noticed that when I really want a woman, I never have any luck, it's like women sense that you are disparate.. 😂... However when ever I am busy on my purpose in life, I will get talking to random woman in a shop, bus stop, library etc... then end up dating them. I was recently single for a year, and didn't have women on my mind, then I had 3 women ask me out over 1 weekend, and ended up in a relationship with one of them. So guess just stop searching, and let it happen naturally.

[@jaywalkercrew4446]

I hadn't been out in ages, went out with girl recently, i couldn't believe how crap it is, no randomness, everyone is scared someone is filming on phone.

[@miguelg51]

Amen brother. Every man's experience is different, for me I am alright with rejection, what I am scared of is being humiliated on social media without my consent. In addition, harrasment/creepiness only applies if not attractive. Double standards also apply, I seen drunk women in bars bombard men with physical touch and raunchy comments, its seen as fuunny and cute. However, if a man is sober and approaches a girl to talk, she is already calling the bouncer for an immediate ban.

[@ryansweeney1661]

I remember long ago going out, and a girl turned me down. i went on with my evening Then i got myself another girl on my way home, and then the other girl who rejected me wanted me to take her home She clearly didn't get any better offers or was so jealous that the other girl had me trying to get me to take her home I rejected her and took home the other girl Some girls are just problems ( never changes)

[@LeeEverett1]

Every woman you approach already has a whole roster of men trying to get with her, 1-2 she's consistently sleeping with and one of them likely the "Chad" who won't commit to her. Guys in her DMs on socials, co workers, school, gym, clubs she's in, exes, and other guys who are trying to approach as well. That's all without even using dating apps. Sounds like WAY too many hurdles to go through just to get a date with a woman which likely won't even happen. Most of the time you get a number she don't respond to your message or plays games because there's already another guy who has her attention. The juice ain't worth the squeeze.

[@gunsharck]

Holy 💩 YES my son. Get this printed either into a booklet or a T shirt and spread the word. This is exactly how it works

[@JonathanLewis-gf1lu]

I don’t approach them There’s some I talk to them sometimes but 9 out of ten I just stay quiet and not draw attention to myself and enjoy myself

[@geraldleuven169]

IT'S NOT JUST YOU

[@ChillguyTravels]

I am rich in the number of things that I can avoid - women are at the top of that list. and evidently, the more I avoid them, the more money that I get to keep in my pocket, the more free time that I have and the benefit to my sanity is beyond words. meh. not worth the drama - happy to leave them alone.

[@giovannij1368]

What's encouraged is for us guys to "put yourselves out there" im not forcing myself to be in an environment i dont like. If you wouldn't go their by yourself with no agenda, it's not somewhere you should go imo

[@Saturntabbytype2]

I’d always pick the not so fortunate ones ,I was always very pleasantly surprised with the results.them days are long gone , became a seaman retention man , raised my vibration, and found a love of the universe.

[@olebrumme6356]

Think a lot of us guys just want to stay single than dealing with all this crap. Probably easier finding a needle in a haystack than a girlfriend nowadays.

[@tylerdouble8721]

I just quit approaching or searching for a woman in general. It's just not worth it. It also annoying sometimes. cause all of my relatives. weather they are my cousins or ex - half sisters or whoever it may be. they all have one thing in common. They all either have a partner they are with or are happily married to their soulmate. I'm still searching but am reaching the point to where I'm just gonna quit caring.

[@carlitosbrigante6889]

The same and family members and friends think is something wrong with me . I gave up .

[@Satanic-Dan]

@@carlitosbrigante6889yep. If they don’t approach, give up and stack up your bread so you can go overseas and have fun

[@Justice.Razor.blades]

Men demand respect and peace which is rarely can be found in women

[@Spice1_]

Thank you

[@RobinJohnstonphotography]

Life’s too short 😂

[@philipmurray9532]

Bang on mate 100%

[@spartanstrengthskills371]

I'm forever deleting and reinstalling dating apps. It's definitely getting worse over the years. So many women lack the effort in wanting to talk. I don't get it!? Why go to the trouble in putting in the effort in the profiles if your not willing to put in the effort in chatting!? It's so soul destroying! 😞

[@Barney5400]

I don't approach them is the same reason I don't go into the lion enclosure in the zoo they are dangerous

[@A-Man79]

Here's another observation. Every man wants to appear strong, but even a heavyweight champ has his vulnerable point - a place where he can't take a hit without experiencing great pain, if you get my drift. I believe there's a psychological analogy to this. No matter how much confidence and swagger he projects, a man has a very vulnerable region in his ego. Being rejected by a woman feels like a kick in the balls. It really is shockingly painful. You've basically been told you're not good enough. There have been times when I thought I could handle the rejection, only to be completely overwhelmed by how I felt afterwards.There are only so many rejections a man can take before he realises his place in the "game". Then it becomes a question of how much more pain he's prepared to inflict on himself by continuing to have his hopes destroyed.

[@BoostedPastime]

There's a lot of reasons why I don't, one of the main ones is really just because it's really not worth it and I'd really like to spend my time working on myself and bettering myself as well as my life

[@keithwalmsley1830]

I agree with everything you say but to be honest it's nothing new, I'm an old fart of 59 now and happily married and past all this B/S but even when I was young it was as you describe as I remember.

[@rogermarin1712]

Just p4p and get it over with.

[@Satanic-Dan]

Colombia and Philippines

[@O.G.MudBonez]

These holez ran through asf not worth it

[@neoncorolla6917]

Approaching liabilities....

[@LukasWeeke]

I would agree, that it is more about how you get rejected than about the rejection itself. More than that it (at least to me) is also about that I'm not interested in what women nowadays showcase. Do I want to be with a club woman? I'm to broke for clubs anyways. If I was looking for a partner, I would look for a woman not a girl.

[@Reindeer911]

It's too bad that we can't video the pick-me girls, tell them to get lost and post them on Tik Tok like they do to men... or can we? I'm thinking if men were to return the favor it's either going to keep them from playing their games on us at a minimum, or maybe with a taste of their own medicine they learn to improve their behavior and treat men better.

[@sergueivergounov1961]

Forget it. Go South East Asia. Go Africa. Go Cuba.

[@polo-si2rs]

Yes just don't bring them back to d west else Ur screwed

[@gunsharck]

Africa and Cuba??? Into commies aye

[@Texasno420]

Nope 😂

[@woodroblue8332]

No point anymore at all waste of time and all

[@infj-tguy6275]

Android women don't have the issues human women do and can develop so they're superior, eventually an android gf will be able to do everything a human being can do and more, technology wins again

[@366317]

By men you mean yourself?because there are many men aproaching women

[@DavidW-ng5zv]

And many aren't. It's a pointless endeavour with nothing to be gained.

[@bryanbobadilla-b1s]

Simp

[@366317]

@@DavidW-ng5zv so how are you supposed to get in a relationship or marry

[@DavidW-ng5zv]

​@@366317 LOL if you need to approach to get either, then you've already lost

[@stevekostakis2983]

You don’t approach in nightclubs, try a supermarket on a Saturday morning

[@brianwright1901]

As a man you must understand that all women leave. Why invest in someone looking for a temporary thrill? No woman is interested in love. It is an illusion. Ask Tom Brady, Bill Gates, Jeff Bezos...

[@lonetony652]

🫡 Bless god I walk alone going into 2025! No friends,no female friends, no toxic relatives, zero distractions! Focused only on getting more money, dress better, max out my looks with abs & muscles. Date multiple girls at same time figure out from there which girl worthy to take seriously. Brothers Life is short just do what ever the fuck makes you happy stay away from distractions & people hold you back from reaching your potential!