why my hair fell out | 4C Natural Hair

[@atbprincess]

Today I'm really depressed due to quarantine, being unemployed since March due to covid-19, the racial injustices and tensions in this country, and going through a recent breakup. And crippling PTSD. 💔 Watching your video has brightened up my day; you have no idea how inspiring you are. To see another black girl in her twenties going through the motions of life, and being real about them, rather than sugarcoating or flexing, is so affirming. I am so relieved to hear that I'm not the only one struggling through young adulthood. I am 25, and struggle with this sense of failure and this fear of wasting my youth. 😩😩 2018 and 2019 were probably the worst years of my life also, even worse than 2020. I also neglected my hair by wearing braids/Marley twists all the time, and was usually too stressed to even think about caring for my hair. Thank you for this video, thank you for being you. You have no idea who you are helping and inspiring without even realizing it. ❤️❤️❤️🦄 And btw, you are gorgeous and beyond adorable!! 🦄😍✨

[@shyon2403]

Sending love❤️

[@meaganfloyd8161]

@atbprincess much of what your said spoke to my soul. I’m 28 and the anxiety of screwing up your youth and at the same time feeling like you’re making regrettable mistakes is intense. In my experience my mid 20s were marked by losing both parents and heaps of responsibilities changing. But with therapy and a lot of work, I got through them. What I’m saying is It can get better even when it seems like it never will. Reach out to your support system and rely on them, telling them what you need specifically and be open to the changes that happen. Wishing you best of luck on your journey

[@abdul5147]

Ayo check out this chanel called "peniel ngonde" it really good trust.

[@MeriamH.]

Blessings to you..🤗

[@SelfLove4eva]

Sending happiness & joy

[@destinydoodles5399]

“How do you know what a win taste like, if you’ve never sampled a loss?” That should be your next t-shirt 😂

[@dominiquea5562]

Agreed

[@TheJamaicanQueeny]

"Something's going down!... and usually it's my happiness" is also t-shirt material

[@smilealwaysnatasha3423]

I’d definitely by that. I normally hate youtubers merch lol 😂 but if it says something cool like that then I’d rock it

[@Bev4Drawing]

I would buy that!

[@Bev4Drawing]

@@TheJamaicanQueeny 😭😭😭

[@lubio6284]

As a 17 y.o black Muslim french girl with 4c hair, my confidence is sometimes very low. But I swear that you're very inspiring cause you use the good words. That's why I love youtubers of your type. Btw your skin, brows, eyes, teeth, smile🥺♥️

[@suzettedarby9775]

Stay strong. Do things for yourself and say things to yourself that keep you encouraged. Best of luck to you.

[@Mllemama1]

Une collègue française ! C est pas facile tous les jours, je suis un peu plus âgée que toi, mais il faut que tu t aimes avant tout, que tous les jours tu te dises que tu es magnifique et que t es la meilleure. Ne laisse pas la société de merde dans laquelle on vit rentrer dans ta tête

[@Happy-nu2lk]

Stay strong sweetie. 😊👍🏼

[@lubio6284]

Thank you ! Thanks god I'm working on improving my self confidence. (MlleMama♥️🇫🇷)

[@NeRe-zq5hf]

Stop it. You are beautiful!

[@KoketsoKau]

This really opened up an old wound. I didn't appreciate my hair when it was at its "full glory", I bleached it, cut it, had manipulative styles, and to this day, it's not recovered to its fullest. But I am more forgiving towards my hair now, I have a strict routine, I moisturize it, massage it, give it words of affirmation. You truly don't know what you've lost until its gone. Thank you StarPuppy for shedding some light on this.

[@brittanydeirish8016]

Stress is a big-time hair killer as well! I’m sure it was a definite factor in the Sheddening of 2018. 😫 Glad to see that fluff nugget is now thrivingggg!

[@krissygirl2609]

The way you describe 2018/2019 is how my life is right now. Every part of it is in shambles and I'm tired of being alive at this point. No I'm not suicidal just very drained. Take care of yourself. Love you ❤️

[@nancykerrigan]

🤗

[@anissa2361]

Girl I felt this so much! 😭

[@epic7224]

Same, I'm just living for my fiancè tbh

[@wannabe41]

Sending healing energy your way!

[@krissygirl2609]

@@wannabe41 thank you 🖤

[@Halfricenne]

I love her personality so much 😂❤️. My friend sent me this channel and said “she reminds me of you” not knowing I was already subscribed 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@nkanduchibuye3874]

Same here, literally lol

[@donnav7412]

Star Puppy's vids are so therapeutic. She talks about the mentality behind hair acceptance/hair love, stress, depression and the connections between all of them. I need to know that I'm not alone and she comes through.

[@felicitygomez7852]

"I'm star puppy not star kitty"😂😭 I love how you did this video as I feel like a lot of people struggle with a similar situation at times and don't know what to do

[@Okaycoolghen]

P.S. you have really pretty dark eyes. There almost black and i think that's so cool

[@BlackHipsterGirl]

Dark eyes are underrated 👍🏽

[@leilanidru7506]

Side note: Every time I look at her glorious eyebrows my credit score raises 5 points.

[@SuperKagomefan]

Like natural eyeshadow

[@leanneboohene9045]

Wow, I'm only 4 minutes in and Danielle is in my ENTIRE house. Can we knock first? I wasn't even ready!

[@TheStarPuppy]

🙋🏿‍♀️🏡🤣

[@monicamay2450]

I love this comment, can i knock first

[@GrowingGoodHair]

🙌🏽😂😂😂😂😘

[@georgezakhia125]

I love that you stress that healthy hair can only be achieved through a healthy mindset and healthy relationships with those around you and yourself. A lot of natural hair content creators only focus on products on the hair, which can lead to members of their audience feeling inadequate, confused, and frustrated that their hair isn't thriving.

[@dumfriesspearhead7398]

It's total self care. My hair grew the most when I did the least with it, but had a protein rich diet and slept well. Didn't overextend myself or be in the company of draining people.

[@leilanidru7506]

Also can lead to product junkieism which can be a chronic and contagious condition in the natural hair community. There’s a stage I went through with my hair where I was filling the frustration I felt about my ability to take care of my hair, my hair’s length, health, thickness; with buying a variety of hair products. And I completely agree, taking care of your hair, is much more holistic than we like to admit.

[@uyaiumoren2030]

I agree to some extent about products but a product formulation can affect your hair badly or for the better. For a long time, petrolatum has had a bad rep for hair and silicones but for me, it works for my dry hair and seals in moisture. So I would say experiment and discover what works for you and take proper care of your hair.For 4c hair with finer texture do not use straight up petrolatum to seal look for petrolatum in a light cream form to use, it could be your favourite body lotion

[@leilanidru7506]

Uyai Umoren I discovered that this summer and my hair has never had this little breakage and been so moisturized. Blue magic Indian hemp😍

[@Siberius-]

That can be the case, but that is not always the case (since you mentioned that it "can only be achieved through"). It can be achieved for certain people, regardless of having an unhealthy mindset, not having healthy relationships, or even not having a very healthy lifestyle etc. Maybe their hair would be even better, sure, but both are still in the healthy category. These things can lead to not taking care of ones hair with products and so on, but that's about the products and routines and stuff again. Just to reiterate, I didn't apply this to all people.

[@mimid2646]

Hey!!! I experienced hair loss, too, from different styles I tried and stress. One's natural hair journey is a journey, not a destination. You're still beautiful and I LOVE FLUFF NUGGET! I call mine the frizz meister

[@sashamassey8385]

Glad you're kind to yourself and patiently on your way.

[@onekaatvignoblesconsultanc6956]

We love you chica. Remember hair grows. Don't worry about what might not happen.

[@drippinghoney]

Oh no, I'm so sorry sis. Wigs can be so fun, expressive, and protective, but as both you and I learned the hard way, you HAVE to also moisturize and take care of the hair underneath. I'm so sorry for you loss and that you're just struggling in general. It seems like everyone is spiraling lately.

[@missmb4798]

🙋🏾‍♀️

[@abdul5147]

Ayo check out this chanel called "peniel ngonde" it really good trust.

[@alishadennis17]

Yes & wearing a silk cap or cover a long with moisturizers too. The silk cap helps protect our hair breakage & damage under the wig. My hair break off. I thought I was doing fine with it. Then there's that moment of sceaming & asking God why is my hair broke off!!!!. Seeing hardware is up setting & takes serious actions we learn from. Wish it didn't happen.🌅🌅

[@PossibleBat]

Isn’t that obvious tho? Like you breathe through your scalp as well and it seems logical to think that if you are going to cover your entire scalp preventing it from breathing properly you are going to have to take extra steps to take care of your hair... like idk how y’all got the idea that wearing wigs does good to your hair when it only makes it worse, like you aren’t supposed to cover your head every single day... it’s meant to be free and move around and breathe, like y’all seem really stupid sometimes lmao

[@Buttergirla]

When I was in my early 20s I was very sad. I was in and out of mental hospitals but after I matured I gre out of. 20s was the worst years of my life. I'm now beginning to enjoy my life again.

[@Citrussun755]

GLAD YOURE BETTER BUTTER!🥰😍

[@leilanidru7506]

I’m 19 and petrified of my 20s. That I’m not gonna make the most of them and mistakes I’ll make in this decade will define most of the rest of my life. Among other crippling anxieties I have about it. We romanticize this decade way too much.

[@Ihiva89]

Thank you for this comment. I’m about to turn 22 and I am SO miserable. I don’t understand how this is supposed to “the time of my life” I feel like there’s no point. If things are so bad now when I’m supposed to be in my “prime” then things are just going to get worse. There’s just so much pressure but it looks like there’s a chance for things to get better so thank you for being willing to share.

[@cutegirl380]

@@Ihiva89 it feels good to know that I'm not alone

[@mochacholat]

Dont knock yourselves down. 20s you are still young. That's the time to make mistake. 40s is when you really grow up . Experience taught me this. People my age like to know young people down. They pretend they were perfect at you'll age. You dont quite know you are in your twenties, you are still growing. When I say mistakes, not stuff that are detrimental to your health and life

[@curlycanuck4690]

Girl, you blinding me with that glow.🌞🔥💕

[@qtaylor2747]

Raise that glass of water you just got because she brought up water intake!😂😂 Cheers! 😁

[@qtaylor2747]

@Jasmine Dupriest 😊

[@VeryKinkyCurl]

🙌🏾

[@heyyashleyyy2669]

I wore wigs excessively for 2-3 years. I just find them much easier then having to do my hair every week. It was actually counterproductive bc my hair started to break off along my hairline and nape bc of the braids I was putting under the wigs. I have a video on my channel about this! Lol. And even tho wigs are a great protective style you have to be careful of how you manage your hair underneath and make sure the braids aren’t causing tension.

[@ashleykirby3227]

I love NappyFu!!!! I'm so glad you were able to get out of such a bad situation!

[@alhanbelal]

When you talked about the fear of never being able to give yourself back what you took....woooh I felt that. Loved this

[@flowerchild8586]

I have 4b/4c hair and "protective" styles don't protect my hair it would just break off and she'd alot. I learned I needed low low maintenance styles like a halo braid is perfect for me. I love wigs but those combs are the devil and the scratcyness would thing my edges.

[@Cindy99765]

That's why when I wear wigs, I cut off the combs with scissors and make sure the elastic band is loose to prevent edge loss.

[@curryenjoyer]

beware of halo braids. after doing them too much, it ate my edges out

[@NoName-sp5dp]

Dont use the combs. Buy a wig grip band

[@mystic507]

Protective styles really work for me, they always have

[@jess-jd5iz]

Mystic x same

[@MoniqueNgcobo]

"where does stress not come from?" 💔 I felt it.

[@pinkys03]

Your complexion is looking too good!

I love your videos. Beautiful black women with gorgeous skin and beautiful 4c hair. You are part of the representation young black girls need!

[@potatopotatoeOG]

Why haven't we pushed for our Star Puppy to be on Insecure yet guys?👀 I mean.. she's a person I genuinely believe deserves good to come her way. (But yes life isn't fair and not all things are handed to you) I just hope we can create change to see different women of colour on our screen😩 #insecurehbo

[@chelsearoseamroodt]

weirdos are the best talkers! 😁

[@leslieholmes7792]

I really like that you share this with us. I can relate to some of what you are saying. I have tormented my hair for years, with relaxers, bleaching/coloring, and heat styling. Last year I attempted to take better care of it. I started using Devacurl deep conditioner once a week. Ironically that product did more damage than good. So now my hair is in recovery.

[@dumfriesspearhead7398]

There's been issues with some Devacurl products.

[@taylasiaberry8338]

You inspire me so much and you helped me so much with my natural hair Journey I just want to say thank you ❤️

[@leejohnson1179]

oh my goodness your skin, eyebrows and face are so beautiful. thanks for sharing with us.

[@victorialawal9624]

oooh girl why you telling my business like this!!!!! thank you for all of this content gal you are AWESOME.

[@tammysteele5030]

Loving your honesty. I did the same with wigs and the results is bald spots and heavy breakage and sheddening! 😩 I'm embarrassed how my hair looks now. I'm older I now look like somebody's balding Auntie. I'm trying to get back. It's difficult.💗💛🧡💚❤

[@GrowingGoodHair]

Be kind to yourself, eat right and develop a hair regimen...it'll recover

[@leporid257]

for years I'd stuff my hair in a huge beanie (waist/hip length) when i had to go out so i didn't have to wash this went so far that i know now how long it takes for hair to smell like a homeless person. 10 days. haircare is so important. i'm so happy that you're in a place where you got your hair back.

[@lindavenable9406]

I BELIEVE THAT YOUR HAIR IS GOING TO GROW BACK, BEAUTIFUL. 👑💗👑💗👑💗👑💗👑💗👑💗👑

[@loriward8741]

You are just the cutest! I am hoping folks see your talent...and intelligence, and give you a huge shot at whatever you aspire to be. I know this is about hair, but it's soooo much more. Do you, StarPuppy!

[@Blahgirl283]

I love how vulnerable and honest you are 💕 You’ll get thru this, sis. Nothing that prayer, making a big shift in lifestyle/hair routine and like you said consistency, can’t fix. You’ll be back and better before you know it, that’s my prayer for you! Be blessed, love- keep being the light you are 🌸

[@leahcardzansi3924]

I'm so thankful that you opened up with such honesty you made me realise that I'm doing the same thing with braids its easy it gives me length yay colour and different styles depending on my mood my husband says I should let the hair breathe I just had the news that I won't be back to work until maybe October, I'm glad I saw this post i need to let my hair breathe and just be and not rely on the aesthetic of what braids bring because at the end of the day if i don't have hair on my head I won't be able to express what is a part me thank you thank you stay blessed because you truly are 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@truthersprotectingtruth490]

Hair loss will always mirror what's going on in your life. You can do alot of natural or healthy things but the greatest care is what goes on in your mind.

[@sisteryael9802]

Finally a real 4C hair video!! We have the STRONGEST hair and it requires a lot of attention and upkeep for moisture and shine!! ❤️

[@marleyhill34]

Girl!!!!!!! I feel you. My hair falls out in that same spot due to stress and I had about 5 years of it! yeah, my fine 4c hair is high maintenance too. I'm deep conditioning and watch you at the same time. My hair is happiest when watered twice a day. My orchids get mad if I water them more than once a week. I love Nappyfu! Growing up my Mom would sleep in rollers. I followed her example. Nope and nope. Last year the trichologist had me remove any tension longer than 2 hours.

[@leticiamccray4926]

I do want to commend you for being so open about your life journeys, trials, and tribulations. This is definitely needed more within our culture, as it does allow others to realize they are not so alone. 🙏🏽🙏🏽 Thank you Sister-Queen

[@godsamazing2090]

Girl, your hair is going to come back and even stronger 💪🏿Also, I love your content. Your transparency is what keeps us coming back 💛💚🧡

[@eveb1697]

I have never commented on a KZbin video in my life but I have to say this. Girl, why would you think your hair won’t grow back? Of course it will! You know what you did wrong and you’re already fixing it. I can’t wait to see Fluff Nugget flourish! You are such a gorgeous woman and I’ve really enjoyed watching your videos. XO

[@elishebax]

I sense your sadness. I'm sorry that happened to you, but at this point do a big chop start a new you. Meditate. Take some time to self reflect. I hear you. Being a young adult is stressful. I know it is easier said than done. Right? I will continue to follow. If anyone left they weren't there for you anyway. I am your fan. True

[@lulu3213]

Yeah, I support that. Cutting everything off and starting over can be very cathartic

[@sinontherocks]

She did a big chop!! Her hair is on the mend. Watch the previous videos :)

[@serious7179]

Youbare such a beauty! That skin! Those eyes! Teeth! Wow!

[@victoriap6836]

I have had so many ups and downs on my hair journey. I found a stylist who has helped me get my hair healthier than ever. I wish you luck!

[@TheonelovedbyGod]

StarPuppy. You are s blessing. You are not just a hair content creator. You know that right 😁. So I guess StarPuppy is a well though out name huh?. I love that you aren't just a surface person😁😊. Thank you Danielle 😁

[@nancybreaux9684]

Most of us at some point has jacked their hair up trust me with something hair dye, overprocessing, doing to much, neglect we are out here just not being our hairs best friend and loving our hair like we need to. Taking care of our hair can feel like a job, because we have so many other things that demand our attention. Just stick to a regimen of regular washing moisturizing, and simple styling and trimming and you will be back on track and on your way to hair and emotional recovery. My aunt kept dyeing her hair multiple times in a course of 2 weeks trying to achieve a certain color. It fell out in patches in different parts of her head. She recovered and her thrived again and all is fine.

[@braidedgirl757]

I love Nappy Fu... and you, of course 😊

[@Catgirl2021]

Aww, hearing your story about your hair reminds me of mine. My mistake is I got it straightened after being natural for 5 years and then it was breaking off. Then went to wigs in 2018-2019 but went to a stylist who yank and put heat in my hair just to braid it to install the wig. What killed it was box braids on top of that. My hair was damage and I slowly been cutting it off. But the crown area is where there’s the most breakage but it’s closer to the root. I did considered shaving my hair off. My hair has regain some thickness and returning to its natural curl pattern however it’s not as full like it was a few years ago. I have CCCA (Alopecia) too which is inflammation in the scalp. And my hair sheds a lot too. I noticed thinning spots which I never had before. So I feel your pain. I started washing my hair once a week instead of every 3 weeks, and use peppermint oil with my conditioner to help with blood circulation. I deep condition my hair every 2 weeks. My hair seems to be shedding less now that I’m giving it more care. I’ve been doing this for several months now. I hope your hair will continue to improve as well.

[@NeRe-zq5hf]

Im white and have curly/wavy hair. You are so entertaining, and I love watching you that i now know a lot about black hair. You should do audiobooks, you have a great voice. I had long ass blonde bleached hair. And I met my husband and started speding my days at his place, and could not keep up my hair rutine...and it broke of..you can't beach hair if you do not take gooood Care of it..

[@ana_boogie7168]

Right. My hairdresser refuses to dye my hair.

[@songsofhealing777]

Ne. Re this is only one sect of the black hair as the community is very complex. You now know "more" about black hair. Definitely not "alot." I commend you for attempting to learn though.

[@fluffypuppy0]

This motivated me. When I’m down your candidness is healing.❤️

[@narahazzard8318]

"If you think that you have it to gather give it a week"best advice!😅

[@Kpcurrency]

God damn girl you just made me fall in love with your vibe and beautiful smiles

[@isthatachicken]

"How do you know what win tastes like if you've never sampled a loss?" 😗 She said it

[@crystald8465]

That made me sit back in my chair and low key hum

[@Thehighpriestess108]

I just discovered your channel and I adore your authenticity, humor, and vulnerability. Praying for you and your success in all things.

[@loriannrichardson7644]

You are a gifted communicator, your way with words . . . .

[@dbj88]

I just found your videos because I’m literally going through the same thing right now. I have fine low porosity 4c hair. My hair has probably been about the same length like 7yrs. I didn’t realize how much love and dedication it would need. Between being pregnant and having a baby at the start of the pandemic and the loss of my brother this year, it’s been a long 2 yrs and I haven’t been good to my hair, it’s broken off in so many places. I hopped on the headband wig craze and thinking I was doing a good thing, those things snatched all my edges a nape hair (which are already weak) sooo freaking fast.. I’ve ordered a lot of your recommendations and I’m basically starting my hair journey over the right way. I’ve been binging all your videos. I’m so happy I found your channel, you’re really a breath of fresh air!xoxo😘

[@sierralorraine7003]

Your skin is absolutely amazing

[@GardenSnakeArt]

I never know what to comment but I'm proud of you☺️

[@theunexpectedsmile5535]

Tbh I subscribed a while ago and continue to come back over and over again (even if I'm not a big commenter) because I love your attitude and personality. You're an amazing and inspiring person with a big beautiful smile and just listening in and laughing along with you on your various journeys makes me so happy as a fellow awkward weirdo. Thank you for starting your channel and including us in your life. We appreciate you more than you know.

[@tortortortor427]

I love how real you are. Thank you for sharing it with us. It's nice to be with you during your happy and goofy and joyful times, but it's also nice (not nice though) to also be with you during your not so happy times. I'm so happy you're in a better place mentally now.

[@1001michaela]

Starpuppy not Starkitty :D This wakeup call was NEEDED!!!

[@vanessaisabel2312]

I cannot identify with your hair journey but I'm here to give you views, girl. As a youtuber growing her platform, I'm here for you girl 🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@TeeRql]

make sure y’all like this video for clear and glowy skin. your skin & high cheekbones is just everything 😍😍😍 i know your channel is based on hair but if u ever get tired of it completely; i think you would look amazing with a low haircut. also, i felt you when it came to the wigs being easy & made u neglect your real hair. so glad we are out of that mindset 🙏🏾

[@omiyamxxggkk8104]

I dont have the same hair as yours but I really do enjoy watching your hair journey videos. It might be weird but i love how honest and self-aware you are of your progress. Keep going, Dani. ✊🥰

[@unliknoone]

i love your innertruth. especially the part about taking care of wigs more than natural hair. this is a journey far from over. our natural hair requires ALL of our attention PERIODT lol... i am a work in progress. thanks for being soooo honest with us about your truth...realizing i already knew this about myself i was in denial and complaining lmao and taking steps to get my back length healthy hair all the way back! i know you will too much love queen and much love to your fluff nugget :)

[@tonyiafuller4461]

Hello my young sister... I ran across your channel by researching how to take care of dry hair..which is what I have and was so amazed by your talent and inside “ joy”!! You cracked me up!! I thank you for your honesty being a young woman bc even as a older woman I experienced hair loss from covering up my own crown, self identity issues bc I was just too tired but like you , I thought I was taking care of my hair!! So thanks again I know this has helped a lot of young ppl with your boldness to speak truth.. It helped me too!!!

[@Riafury]

Needed something like this because I'm 20 and noticed my hair has been falling out leaving me feeling so low that I'm questioning leaving the house. I know that it's dramatic since "it's just hair" but I have VERY low self-esteem when it comes to my appearance so having an issue like this with my hair is big for me since it's always been thick and full. Thanks for the video ☺️

[@glitterbomb1119]

i felt this so hard. my hair used to be really long and beautiful and FULL and then it started falling out tremendously over the course of a year. i only noticed it when it was too late.

[@aerrielle6429]

I know a lot is happening and you are probably super busy, but I would love to see a week in your natural hair. It’s something I would be really interested in. Also, thank you so much for your honesty! We are all struggling with something, and we can all learn from our mistakes. Love you and your positive attitude!

[@justonemoremascara]

Wishing you all the best on your hair journey and I really appreciate your vulnerability!

[@zayzay544]

Sounds like my 2009. Lost friends, family, loved ones, emotional state deteriorated to the point of not being able to feel emotions...oh and after letting a friend cut my hair I got a scalp infection that messed the top of my head up for probably the rest of my life. I really. Really! Hate 2009 lol it slowly but surely gets better as long as you're willing to work on making things better. Rooting for you though; you're ur absolutely amazing ^-^ and you have my full support 100%

[@Rubyred-rb2fe]

Sorry to hear this...and hoping you have a brighter future. Tip, try adding tea tree oil to your deep comditioner to help with the scalp infection.

[@Cvnword]

I genuinely love your videos, you give real mama energy. Soul feeder

[@bookworm4174]

Love how you tied your scarf! Could you do a tutorial please? I don't have "natural" hair, but I'm struggling with losing my natural straight hair due to health conditions. I do a lot of white girl protective styles, and it would be so great to be able to just cover it up when I'm letting it rest. Your story sounds a lot like mine. I think I've done everything but eat right and exercise, but I did find out I have a condition that causes balding.

[@SterlingSMtr]

For me it was the friction from the wigs - killing my hairline :( Back to box braids (my hair does the best) or wash n goes....

[@2cut32handle]

Yup, I said bye bye to wigs because of this. They thinned put my edges BAD

[@bettinaorevil5056]

I have to redo my box braids in 3 weeks.

[@SterlingSMtr]

@@bettinaorevil5056 Im probably going to rebraid mine this week

[@SterlingSMtr]

@@2cut32handle I've been using an oil massaging mine , it seems better.

[@torithomas3228]

I’d recommend trying small twists long term or just twist outs with ur natural hair. Helps retain moisture and low manipulation. + u can take it out when ever easily.

[@zinis]

I went through a similar situation and ended up with super damaged hair too. I cut it all off and the way i like to think of it is cuts like this is you cutting off not just the damaged hair, but the damaged person you used be. You have learned the lessons that your past has taught and cut off the damage and both you and fluff nugget are growing into glory that you have not seen before.

[@shae1005]

I’m going through hair fall too. I saw a dermatologist to make sure it wasn’t something serious. Found out it’s a form of alopecia areata, he gave me steroid injections in my head, girl. All I can say is, if you are doing everything right (less stress, better health routines, and good hair care) and you still have thin hair, you should see a specialist. Some things that cause hair thinning are better treated sooner than later.

[@Scarlet-Enchantress]

I plan to look into a derm too...I hope it’s not that or anything similar but our hair is SO sensitive!

[@songsofhealing777]

The whole crown of my head broke off to about a centimeter long. I think it was due to extreme stress and lack of sleep, and failure to tend to my hair because of tiredness. (I am in law school with two toddlers, and also have 4c hair).

[@BuffyNoir140]

Sarah P. My hair is just gone awry. WFH is just a stressful. My hair dry and thinning. Eating healthy became non existent , self maintenance went downhill, hated to touch hair. Ventured to the hair dresser got a cut conditioner now I must maintain and do bette

[@songsofhealing777]

@@BuffyNoir140 I had planned to cut mine as the crown is basically gone;however, it broke off Nov. 2019 and has yet to grow back. My plan was to wait until my crown was at least an inch in its natural state, but it's July and the crown is still a centimeter long. Not sure what's happening.

[@shae1005]

Jessica C Yeah I hope you don’t deal with it either. I found out so much information about alopecia. Some of the things black women put on their hair as children, can start to cause hair fall in your mid 20s-30s. Most women do not even notice hair fall until 50% of the hair is gone. There is stuff that we do that can cause scarring and literally attacks the hair follicles. My derm told me that oils and things are good if you do not have follicular problems but once you do, the oils have a very hard time penetrating deep enough to repair follicles. Basically there is so much info but unfortunately we tend not to see a specialist until the problem is past repair. Good luck with your hair journey.

[@FunSizedOreoGirl]

Your intros make me smile so much, you're such a beautiful goober 😂💜

[@zephanieflippin9206]

I push like even before I watch. This is how much I love you and your channel!❤ I love the quirkiness, creativity and talent. I'm an elementary music teacher and I would have LOVED to see you as a kid in arts classes.❤ Keep doing you. You are very talented and BEAUTIFUL!!!!🙂

[@maylavernebarnes2007]

Hold on sweetie and be patient, you are very honest and inspiring to many. This post has probably helped many realize why they too are having hair loss challenges. Many of us fall off our regimen and experience similar problems. In time we will recover and learn some new (or old) hair tips along the way. Take care. 💖💖

[@UnraveledwithJoy]

I relate sm to this wow, I lost my hair because of similar issues. I became so insecure that I just interlocked (instant dreadlocks) my hair. I was ‘locked’ for 2 years, but I wasn’t happy because I knew that the only reason I had locs was because I was struggling with my loose hair. It’s like I was just hiding. I recently cut and combed out my locs and I’m trying this loose natural hair thing again, I hope I can do it well this time

[@carenwhite7954]

2018 was trash so I feel you. Strangely, my hair didn't start really suffering until this year. Hooray for the comeback though!

[@bgrooms0522]

You are speaking my language. I have the same crown section challenges. If anything goes bad that part of my hair will break off. It just can’t take the stress or me being a lazy natural. 👍🏽💕💯

[@shay7822]

Fluff Nugget hair makes my heart smile...yes.. a divine orchid. 😭

[@demetrabaldwin817]

My Dear you are beyond amazing!!! So glad I happen upon your channel!🤗

[@jeannineandrew9141]

Heeyyyy🥰🥰 my hairs falling out too😔 but I think it’s because of stress

[@serinat2181]

Sameee

[@abstractara5349]

Same my hair hasn't grown past neck length in about 2 years. But at least I'm trimming and trying more so now being at home.

[@GrowingGoodHair]

Been there...it gets better if you develop a regimen and try to stress less (I know easier said than done✨)

[@jeannineandrew9141]

@@GrowingGoodHair thank youu 💕

[@GrowingGoodHair]

@@jeannineandrew9141 you're welcome ✨😘

[@onyxcreations94]

Your skin is absolutely gorgeous!! So shiny and beautiful! Keep it up with the good vibes girl, it's making you glow💜 Hang in there StarPuppy!

[@waterhouse178]

Thank you for this video. I went through the same thing fresh out of high school and my hair is still recovering, but you give me hope! I’m focusing only on how healthy my hair is now instead of how full and long it used to be. I love your channel! 🥺💖

[@mgmtgirlyeah7493]

It's crazy you mentioned the curlformers during that starpuppy vs shrinkage series, because I remember watching your hair (which is similar to my own 4b/4c/4a) and thinking that my hair wouldn't be able to handle the roughness of curlformers. I suggest putting it in a protective style (diy box braids/passion twists) for a few weeks (6 wks max) and seeing if that helps. During the protective style, you should continue moisturizing and sealing your hair. And emphasis on diy (or a friend/family member you can trust to be gentle). A salon might be too rough because they try to make it so neat.

[@user-eh4bd1yh9e]

Stress really did a number on me this year i stopped having my periods I'd have them once every few months (like 3 times a year), it got to a point where my doctor booked an ultrasound thinking i might have endometriosis, my hair was falling out like crazy too. Now I'm not that stressed my hair literally stoppeedddd falling out like i used to lose HANDFULLS and my periods are regular monthly now too. Crazy how our mental states affect us physically

[@Saintmazzie]

I love that you aren’t “perfect” at styling. Neither am I.

[@tiffanylucia3300]

Long time viewer and subscriber, first time commenter. I just want to say that I deeply value and love your personality/the way you tell your story and explain things, and at the same time naturally offer valuable nuggets of information/experience. We have different hair textures, but your tips and advice (through sharing your story), are absolutely universal. ❤️✨🙏🏼 2018 was a horrible year for me too: mind splitting stress, anxiety, deep deep deep sadness, painful loneliness, loss of Friendships, loss of self... I too ended up neglecting myself, and my “ sadness goggles“ warped my reality. I really just stopped taking care of myself completely, and my body, especially my hair suffered. My skin and nails were wrecked as well, and my body was in a constant state of inflammation it feels. Everything was warped. Slowly but surely, alongside you, I’ve been recovering into a beautiful, healing version of myself. It’s constant change, but life is beautiful again. 🦋 living in my truth of love. Stories like yours help me feel like I’m not alone, and you give great life advice through your experiences. I guess I’m just trying to say thank you for existing, and for being an authentic, sweet, knowledgeable, and inspiring light on this planet! A true beauty. My hair has also done a 180 through being inspired by you. I learned my hair is “not a cat”! Hehe, same she is like a sweet plant/flower you got to take care of with grace, love, consistency, and effort. 🌷

[@ritathomas75]

Love your honesty. I don't know you but this is the first time I felt like I met the real you.

[@tracythomas5467]

I can’t get past her beautiful skin. Melanin Goddess!!!

[@ahavayahyisrael2361]

This video was much needed. Finally someone that I can truly relate to with the same hair, same situations. And the honesty… very detailed as well. The transparency… I could go on, I will just say you are awesome. #newsubbie ❤️

[@marla2hip25]

Danielle is just so glowy and beautiful. I was on the course of ruining my hair and decided to loc it and i feel so free

[@kaynone1726]

Your skin is glowing!!!

[@Isedlo]

I appreciate your transparency. I def feel all of the stress and not taking care of yourself bit that you said and I’ve finally realized what was going on and been working through it now